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With a strong focus on media, this episode covers non-binary understanding to, well, 90-day fiancé. It’s pretty broad ranging. As you might expect.

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[00:00:00] 20220129 1127 Guest: You’re listening to overtired. I’m Christina Warren. He’s Brett Terpstra Brett. How are you?

[00:00:09] 20220129 1127 Brett: Oh, my God. So good. How are you?

[00:00:13] 20220129 1127 Guest: I’m I’m pretty good. So It feels like it’s been forever since we talked,

[00:00:17] 20220129 1127 Brett: has been, it’s been a couple of weeks. We, uh, we had been recording on Saturday before the Friday we published and then we had a week off, but then we had a shitty week where we fell behind. Now we’re already recording Saturday the day after we were supposed to publish. So it’s been, it’s been a while.

[00:00:37] Yeah.

[00:00:38] 20220129 1127 Guest: Yeah.

[00:00:39] No, this is what happens like we were doing so well. We were like ahead of the game and, and

[00:00:45] 20220129 1127 Brett: had like days to edit.

[00:00:47] 20220129 1127 Guest: Yeah.

[00:00:47] I know in the. had like a thing last week and I didn’t really have a thing. I just, I was, so I was so tired. Like I genuinely was over tired. I was like tired of the point that I could not record.

[00:00:59] I [00:01:00] was like, I cannot do

[00:01:00] 20220129 1127 Brett: Yeah. I picked up on that from your text messages. You’re very drowsy text messages.

[00:01:06] 20220129 1127 Guest: Like, when you can tell that when someone is tired in text,

[00:01:09] 20220129 1127 Brett: Yeah. Yeah. And then we, we rescheduled for mid week and then I got sick, like too sick to sit at a desk. I didn’t actually take a sick day from work. I was able to from a supine position, uh, attend all of my meetings. And the weird thing about work right now is I, I can’t remember the last time we talked, but they, they switched my manager.

[00:01:36] I know we talked about that. They’ve assigned me to a bunch of projects that are basically. Not happening. Like there, there they are in, in corporate parlance blocked. And so while everyone assumes that I’m busy with like three projects at once, none of them are moving [00:02:00] and I’m doing my best to pick up like odd jobs from like, Hey, do you need help with this?

[00:02:06] I have some in again in corporate parlance, I have some cycles available. Um, I guess

[00:02:13] 20220129 1127 Guest: Oh my

[00:02:14] 20220129 1127 Brett: that’s like tech world corporate parlance,

[00:02:17] 20220129 1127 Guest: Yeah. Wow. Yep.

[00:02:19] 20220129 1127 Brett: yeah, so I’ll be honest. Despite two sick days, this last week was just fucking easy and I should, I honestly, there’s nothing I can do about it. It’s not like I’m being lazy.

[00:02:32] If, if, if my boss hears this, um, I’m doing exactly what I’m supposed to be doing.

[00:02:38] 20220129 1127 Guest: You are, you’re doing exactly what you’re supposed to do. And it’s like, you’re trying, like, it’s, it’s not your fault that your stuff is blocked.

[00:02:46] 20220129 1127 Brett: is a hundred percent not my fault.

[00:02:47] 20220129 1127 Guest: So, I mean, Like you have two options, you can continue to work on the blocked stuff that is blocked. And at a certain point

[00:02:55] 20220129 1127 Brett: there’s nothing I can do.

[00:02:56] 20220129 1127 Guest: do.

[00:02:56] Right.

[00:02:56] I was going to say like, at a certain point, you’re done like at a [00:03:00] certain point, like if there are blockers, like you can’t go any further. So if you’re not getting instruction to do more than that, and you are actively, which you are like reaching out and trying to get more things done, like, Yeah. I

[00:03:13] 20220129 1127 Brett: I’m being a good employee.

[00:03:14] 20220129 1127 Guest: you are like, it is not your fault that.

[00:03:17] It is bureaucratic as hell.

[00:03:19] 20220129 1127 Brett: So do you want to have a, a breadth mental health core?

[00:03:22] 20220129 1127 Guest: I do. Let’s have breast mental health corner.

[00:03:24] 20220129 1127 Brett: Okay. So right now I am, if not, if not stable, I’m coming out of a depression. And this last manic episode, I went through a couple of weeks ago now I decided I was done like, okay. So I decided the only difference between now and the last time I was consistently stable for more than a month was the Focalin, which is by far my favorite ADHD stimulant.

[00:03:59] It, [00:04:00] it, it works, it just works. And the last thing I was on was Vyvanse, which I’ve been on, on and off for 15 years. Um, and it’s not like after, after a year on it, it feels like it’s not doing anything at all, but. It also wasn’t causing mood swings. And I decided I made the decision. I’ve already contacted my doctor to go back to Vyvanse in the hopes of just finding some kind of workable stability.

[00:04:34] Maybe not as effective as I had been, but without the like, cause honestly manic episodes are productive for me for about a day and a half. And then at that point I’ve gone 36 hours without sleep.

[00:04:52] 20220129 1127 Guest: Right.

[00:04:53] 20220129 1127 Brett: how elevated my mood is or how much energy I have my work suffers. And then that’s [00:05:00] followed by one to three weeks of not wanting to leave the couch.

[00:05:05] That’s not productive as much as like, it feels like Focalin is the more effective choice. I, I don’t know, like I’ve considered maybe trying a new stimulant. Um, but I just, I just, I want the, I want the cycle of manic and depressive states to, to add.

[00:05:25] 20220129 1127 Guest: Yeah. no, I mean, I think that’s important and I’m glad that you’re, you’re talking to your doctor about that because that is the thing, right? Like it’s, it’s one thing it’s like, okay, that’s awesome that, you know, you have the, that, um, what you may call it that like, Uh,

[00:05:39] the focal and seems to work so well, but if it’s not really working and it’s not like, okay, it makes you feel really focused, but you get, you get a couple of days everything being okay, then you have the one manic day where it’s good.

[00:05:51] And then you have like the rest of the manic cycle, which, puts you like awake too long, which isn’t helpful. And then you have like the depressive [00:06:00] cycle, which is not helpful for anyone. And then the Focalin is not helping.

[00:06:02] 20220129 1127 Brett: which grand total gives me like three actually productive days a month. That’s not, that’s not the sign of effectiveness.

[00:06:10] 20220129 1127 Guest: No, it’s not. So it’s like, okay, this, this, this technically better drug really. Isn’t better. That’s

[00:06:15] 20220129 1127 Brett: It just feels more like cocaine and I miss cocaine. I’ll be honest. Like it is very much an addict. It’s an addict making the decisions there. This, this drug feels better. Uh, Vyvanse feels nothing like cocaine. Five minutes almost doesn’t feel like anything to me, but, but I think that’s what I need. And I’m being a responsible adult and saying, let’s, let’s do that.

[00:06:43] Oh, thanks.

[00:06:44] 20220129 1127 Guest: uh, genuinely, like I’m really proud of you because that would be Yeah, Cause you know, and, and that is also like, you were like going against the whole laws of diminishing returns thing, right? Like you are like, actually you’re like recognizing like the sunk cost fallacy. You’re like, Nope. Not doing it. I’m really proud of you.

[00:06:59] 20220129 1127 Brett: cost [00:07:00] fallacy. That sounds like an economics term course sodas law of diminishing return. This is, this is giving me flashbacks to microeconomics, which I only pass because of the bell curve.

[00:07:11] 20220129 1127 Guest: again, a sunk cost fallacy is the idea where people think that the more like, because you’ve already invested so much money in something you’re going to continue to see it out and you put more money after it.

[00:07:21] 20220129 1127 Brett: Yeah.

[00:07:22] 20220129 1127 Guest: And, and so you, you wind up wasting more when you should’ve just like backed out, like.

[00:07:28] 20220129 1127 Brett: I had a meeting with my financial advisor this week. She, last time I talked to her, I was taking five grand out of my 401k. Because times were desperate. And I had, I felt no choice. And this time I’m like, oh, Hey, I have a $22,000 in savings. And all of my bills are covered. My credit card debt is paid off and she’s like, holy cow.

[00:07:57] I’m so proud of you, which is, [00:08:00] I guess, I guess that’s what I’m looking for in life. People to just be proud of me. Oh my God.

[00:08:06] 20220129 1127 Guest: awesome.

[00:08:07] 20220129 1127 Brett: Totally, totally aside. I did a talk about bunch to a Mac user groups out of Naples

[00:08:16] 20220129 1127 Guest: Nice. Like, like, like Naples, Italy, or Naples, Florida.

[00:08:20] 20220129 1127 Brett: I think Florida, I’m not even sure. I just know it was the Naples Mac user group. And they asked me to do another talk on tagging.

[00:08:29] And I’m kinda, I’m done talking about tagging. Like I’m still a big proponent of tagging, but I, I, I’m just tired of trying to convince people. So I was like, Hey, I have this project that I’m super into called bunch. Why don’t I talk about that? Not realizing, and I should have realized, but not realizing that the median age of this user group is about 110, which I think, which I think is par for like user groups these days.

[00:08:59] I [00:09:00] feel like people have other ways.

[00:09:02] 20220129 1127 Guest: Okay. But I just look, this is also, this is in fact Naples, Florida. So this is retirement

[00:09:06] 20220129 1127 Brett: Yeah, for

[00:09:07] 20220129 1127 Guest: I like that, that, that, that is not like judgemental. Like that is like, gee, I wish I could be retired. Like I wish I could like be retired

[00:09:13] 20220129 1127 Brett: actually, I actually have relatives in Naples. Um, but so, so the zoom, uh, user group meeting starts with 140, 140 people. And by the time I’m done talking, they made me talk for an hour. And by the time I’m done talking, there are 70 people left. I lost half the crowd and the other half, they, I don’t think they meant to CC me on this, but they send out an apology for my talk afterward.

[00:09:47] like, Hey, we try to bring on people that you’ll be interested in, but we failed this time.

[00:09:53] 20220129 1127 Guest: Oh, no, you got time.

[00:09:56] You, you, you, you, you got like, uh, Tanya museums.

[00:09:59] 20220129 1127 Brett: [00:10:00] Yeah. But they paid me a hundred dollars for the, for the talk, which I’ve never been paid for a, uh, a user group talk before.

[00:10:11] 20220129 1127 Guest: Yeah.

[00:10:11] 20220129 1127 Brett: So I was like, Hey, thanks for the a hundred dollars. I’m sorry that I bored 70 people enough to walk out.

[00:10:20] 20220129 1127 Guest: And another 70 who just didn’t know how to hit the end call button on

[00:10:24] 20220129 1127 Brett: I have gotten right. I got, I’ve gotten two people have followed up with me with, with bunch of questions. How do I make this work? So there were two people, one of them, an organizer, but two people who were interested enough to, to try it out.

[00:10:43] 20220129 1127 Guest: Okay.

[00:10:43] 20220129 1127 Brett: So two out of 140 that’s, you know,

[00:10:48] 20220129 1127 Guest: I mean,

[00:10:48] 20220129 1127 Brett: not a great, what, what B RBA

[00:10:53] 20220129 1127 Guest: I mean, it’s pretty low, but it’s also considering the audience not awful. Now let me ask you this. [00:11:00] The organizer who sent you this stuff, is this the same organizer that also accidentally CC’d you on the appalling?

[00:11:05] 20220129 1127 Brett: it is.

[00:11:08] 20220129 1127 Guest: Uh, oh man, I’m not, I’m trying not to laugh the whole,

[00:11:16] 20220129 1127 Brett: Yeah. Yeah, that was, that was my humor for the week.

[00:11:20] 20220129 1127 Guest: I mean,

[00:11:20] 20220129 1127 Brett: And oh my God. I stressed out because like, so in my head, I’m presenting this to a bunch of like people who will be interested. They’re like Mac, like automation, people who, who want like the latest and greatest and four weeks, I’m like, how am I going to fill an hour?

[00:11:39] Like I don’t, I never talk for an hour. I could never be a professor. I can’t fill an hour. So I ended up, I ended up like sitting down and practicing and just recording my practice and then editing multiple takes of my practice and then [00:12:00] just playing a video over zoom. So I didn’t have to. Stress about it.

[00:12:05] And then if, as like, so I was in chat while it was playing and as people ask questions, I could answer them in chat because I wasn’t talking. And it actually worked out really well, uh, and relieve some stress from me. But like I put, I put hours of stress into this meeting that ended up being apologized for, you know what, I’m sorry to, sorry, not sorry.

[00:12:33] I did my job. I did exactly what I said it was going to do

[00:12:36] 20220129 1127 Guest: No, you did. You, you, you did exactly what you said you were going to do. Look, I’m going to say this. I don’t think anybody can fault you for anything. The only thing you might be like, I would say, like to think about it in the future and I still I’m still at vaulting you, the only thing you might want to think about the future would be, think about Like your audience next time.

[00:12:52] 20220129 1127 Brett: well.

[00:12:53] 20220129 1127 Guest: more audience,

[00:12:54] 20220129 1127 Brett: I said, I didn’t understand what the audience was going to be. The rule [00:13:00] for me moving forward is just don’t do user group talks.

[00:13:04] 20220129 1127 Guest: No, I mean, I think you’re right. I think, I think that is a good rule. I, but I’m just saying, I think also in general, cause I’ve made this mistake before, too, where I understood in my mind The audience to be one thing and then realized when I got there that it was a completely different thing.

[00:13:18] 20220129 1127 Brett: worst part is I realized it about two days before and there was no going back.

[00:13:23] 20220129 1127 Guest: Oh, man. I once realized in the room right before I gave my presentation.

[00:13:29] 20220129 1127 Brett: Oh, that would be a sinking feeling for

[00:13:31] 20220129 1127 Guest: Oh, I mean, okay. So I was giving this talk that I was also paid for and I had written the presentation with one audience in mind, and then I realized it was a completely different audience and they were expecting a completely different type of talk.

[00:13:45] And I’m seeing the other person who was giving this presentation, who was from the MIT media lab. So of course he has the most beautiful presentation ever. Whereas mine is just some bullshit slide and I’m thinking to myself, I’m like, okay, do I need [00:14:00] to fake a seizure? Do I need to stand up like fall flat on my face and pass out?

[00:14:03] Like, what Do I need to do right now? Like, how am I going to get out of this? It ended up working out. I actually ended up getting another gig out of it, but it was one of the most stressful experiences of my life for sure.

[00:14:16] 20220129 1127 Brett: do you remember the TNG where, uh, Troy Picard and data were coming back from a symposium and they got stuck in these like time distortions and like, people would just like freeze and then they came back and the enterprise look appear to be under attack from a Romulan ship, but it was like frozen in time.

[00:14:40] 20220129 1127 Guest: I don’t, I don’t. we, but tell me more about this, because I

[00:14:43] 20220129 1127 Brett: it’s I, the reason I bring it up is they’re describing the symposium to each other and how one of the professors presenting thought the talk was about something entirely [00:15:00] different, but never paused enough for Picard to like, let them know that this isn’t what the symposium is about.

[00:15:08] He said it and he’d demonstrate he like did the run-on sentence with no stops so he could demonstrate how the guy was talking. And it was very hypnotic. I only bring this up because I literally just watched this episode this morning and it’s in my mind.

[00:15:23] 20220129 1127 Guest: No, but that’s also that’s, but it’s completely on point with what we’re talking about. That is, yup.

[00:15:27] 20220129 1127 Brett: weird, weird synchronicity. Huh?

[00:15:30] 20220129 1127 Guest: Well, seriously, genuinely. I was going, I’m also thinking, okay. I.

[00:15:34] and I admit, I mean, I, I don’t think I’ve ever seen all of TNG, but what I’ve seen of it, I quite liked, but I’m, it was, it was just a little bit before my time.

[00:15:43] 20220129 1127 Brett: You’re married to grant

[00:15:45] 20220129 1127 Guest: I know.

[00:15:46] 20220129 1127 Brett: isn’t grant like a big like star Trek guy. Or am I thinking of Scott McNulty?

[00:15:52] 20220129 1127 Guest: thinking it’s got.

[00:15:52] 20220129 1127 Brett: of Scott McNulty. Okay.

[00:15:55] 20220129 1127 Guest: Yeah, yeah, yeah, no, no, no.

[00:15:56] 20220129 1127 Brett: I, you would not get away with that with Scott

[00:15:59] 20220129 1127 Guest: Oh, [00:16:00] absolutely not. McNulty

[00:16:01] Like who several S T and G and star Trek podcast. No, I was going to say I was like grid, snap, a Trekker or whatever they call them, um, selves. Um, because apparently Trekkie’s a slur. Well, no, no. I think Trekkie’s a slur.

[00:16:12] I think they really call themselves trekkers, let us know in the discord. I don’t know. Um,

[00:16:18] 20220129 1127 Brett: how I don’t understand how it could be a slur.

[00:16:20] 20220129 1127 Guest: don’t think it’s really a slur. I just think that

[00:16:22] 20220129 1127 Brett: think they’re all slurs, depending on which side you’re coming at her from

[00:16:25] 20220129 1127 Guest: I mean, I think

[00:16:26] 20220129 1127 Brett: can like one, one Trekkie can call another Trekkie, a Trekkie.

[00:16:30] 20220129 1127 Guest: well, yeah, I mean, I, but I think it’s one of those things where people are like, oh, we’re not really Trekkies like that. That’s just what the media calls

[00:16:37] 20220129 1127 Brett: We also like star wars people forget that you can like both

[00:16:42] 20220129 1127 Guest: Yeah. Um, so apparently there is like, when I, when I looked at Trekkie versus Trekker, there is like a, uh, There’s a whole Wikipedia. There, there are whole like blog posts about this. So,

[00:16:55] 20220129 1127 Brett: I’m to, I’m going to Google that for the show notes.

[00:16:58] 20220129 1127 Guest: yeah. Yeah. I was going to say [00:17:00] it at the star Trek at the memory. Alpha Wiki is got a hole anyway. Um, but what I was going to say, I’m like, well, not like a huge truck personally.

[00:17:08] I’ve always enjoyed what I’ve seen, but I love that they had like, honestly, when we’re going to be talking about TV in a little bit, but I love that they have like a pretty banal episode, but you know what I mean? Like in terms of a topic, like, that’s like a kind of a, sit-com like, sort of like thing of like, you know, guy like talks like, so monotone so long, you can’t interrupt him.

[00:17:28] Like that’s like a pretty traditional trope. I love, they just kind of inserted that in decipher. That’s

[00:17:32] 20220129 1127 Brett: Yeah, it, and it got more interesting, but I will say that, and this will come up again in the future, but my girlfriend was relatively recently diagnosed with autism spectrum disorder. And like, and I’ll say at the top, just about all the things I most respect and love about her are symptoms of [00:18:00] autism. So it’s a good pairing, but she also gets easily overwhelmed.

[00:18:06] And, uh, the most relaxing show we can watch is star Trek, TNG. And we are almost to the last season. So we’ll be moving into, we’ve been doing this from, we’d been watching a chronological order from, uh, enterprise through original series through TNG, and we’re going to hit, uh,

[00:18:30] 20220129 1127 Guest: I guess we’ll go to Voyager.

[00:18:31] 20220129 1127 Brett: No, no, no, no. When we started deep space nine, because they coincided and they crossed timelines.

[00:18:38] So we’re also watching deep space nine and then Voyager, which I’m looking forward to getting to, because I’ve never seen Voyager.

[00:18:46] 20220129 1127 Guest: Okay. And like people that I like, like, and respect really like

[00:18:50] 20220129 1127 Brett: Yeah. Yes. Got McNaulty top of the top of the pile there, uh, had like talks about Voyager. Like it was the [00:19:00] best and I’ve seen all of T and G before. So this is like review for both me and Al, but we are both looking forward to getting to Voyager after, after all the things we’ve heard retroactively.

[00:19:13] 20220129 1127 Guest: yeah. Um, I was going to say, I mean, Voyager was the one that was the one that was on UPN, right?

[00:19:18] 20220129 1127 Brett: I don’t

[00:19:19] 20220129 1127 Guest: Yes, it was. Yeah, it was, I mean, I didn’t need, I was just trying to think of my head. Yeah. it.

[00:19:23] ended in 2001. Um, yeah, that, that, uh, Alex, Cranz my good friend. She, she likes so

[00:19:34] 20220129 1127 Brett: Which which, okay. So I know I want to come back to this, but have you seen star Trek discovery?

[00:19:41] 20220129 1127 Guest: yes, I have.

[00:19:42] 20220129 1127 Brett: Okay. We’re going to talk about that more towards the end of the show in the meantime, last tech TA. No, not last tech type. I have, I have a slew of tech topics, but, um, I, okay. So I, I wrote all these tests [00:20:00] for my little command line utility doing, and they’re not unit tests.

[00:20:06] They’re really integration tests and the entire test suite, if you run it in cereal takes about three minutes to complete 279 tests. I’ve written. But I figured out I got better at Ruby and I figured out how to run them in parallel. Uh, so I’ve got it down to about 70 seconds and I built it so that it pops up like a tree view with check boxes and as the tasks complete, it fills him in with a check box and then starts more tests.

[00:20:46] So it’s only running so many tests in parallel at once. And as each one finishes, it adds a new thread. It’s beautiful. We don’t need to talk about it extensively. I’m just very proud of it.

[00:20:58] 20220129 1127 Guest: That’s pretty great. [00:21:00]

[00:21:00] 20220129 1127 Brett: I should show you. I should show you, um, how hard would it be for me to share my screen over Skype? Yeah, I’ll I’ll do this another time. It’s beautiful though. It’s really cool. Looking. I used a Ruby lot, a Ruby library called T T Y a TTY. Progress bar, maybe. I don’t know, but it’s all, it’s all part of this Ruby library called TTY and

[00:21:26] 20220129 1127 Guest: Oh, I’m seeing, oh, I’m seeing this as a TTY toolkit. Um, okay. Okay. This is, this goes on my list because I’ve recently become obsessed with like Tys and I found like, um, there’s, uh, there’s rich, which is a Python one, and there’s a spectrum console, which is a, uh, a C-sharp one. And there is, um, uh, charm, which is actually very cool, which is like Elm.

[00:21:54] Um, and uh, now I know about a TTY [00:22:00] toolkit, which is Ruby.

[00:22:01] 20220129 1127 Brett: I was reading an article about what programming languages not to learn and what to learn instead. And it started off strong. Like don’t learn objective C, learn swift, make sense. Like number three, they got to don’t learn HTML, CSS learned JavaScript instead, which I feel like you cannot create. Even, you cannot create a react application without understanding HTML and CSS.

[00:22:32] 20220129 1127 Guest: Correct.

[00:22:33] 20220129 1127 Brett: If for any web developer, for anyone who would have a need for any of these languages, uh, a basic understanding of HTML and CSS, absolutely vital. Like, I don’t understand how you would skip over and just learn JavaScript.

[00:22:51] 20220129 1127 Guest: We’ll wait. And it’s weird. I mean, I guess like tailwinds is, You, know, one of the things that I guess people do, um, you know, I don’t know how familiar you, are with, with, with the [00:23:00] tailwind CSS. Um,

[00:23:02] 20220129 1127 Brett: you act. I believe we’d want that before.

[00:23:04] 20220129 1127 Guest: yeah. Um, I mean, cause that basically kind of lets you, you know, build, Um,

[00:23:09] although you do use HTML with it, but it is kind of the, the way that it works is that it has a lot of components to make some of the CSS aspects step a little bit easier, but you still need to have an understanding of, of what you’re doing.

[00:23:24] You know, it just, it just maybe makes it a little more, you know, like react like, um, and, and, um, a little more modular and some of your layout stuff. I, yeah, that’s such a weird that, like, you know what that reads to me that reads to me like that was an article that was written by someone who’s never programmed anything.

[00:23:40] 20220129 1127 Brett: it, it read to me like someone who was reading an article to get clicks. They suggested that instead of learning C you learn Ruby, I can understand, not learning. See, like, I feel

[00:23:53] 20220129 1127 Guest: but then you would you, but then you would learn, go

[00:23:55] 20220129 1127 Brett: right. Or rust. Exactly, exactly. [00:24:00] Like nobody at this point. And, and this is coming from a guy who. Lives in Ruby. Nobody at this point should be learning Ruby instead of something else.

[00:24:12] Ruby is, as far as I can tell a dead language, like as far as the modern sands of time, Ruby is not what anyone should be learning. You would be better off learning C than Ruby that said, yeah, learn Russ, learn scaler, like learn something like currently vital.

[00:24:35] 20220129 1127 Guest: No, totally learn, learn, learn, go. Which was. Created in part to replace C you know, I mean like, um, uh, obviously I think Russ would be better. I agree with you if, if we’re just talking about those things, but also, I mean, in general, cause people always ask this question. My answers are usually JavaScript and Python for like, you know, just most, you know, maximum viability, but learn what the team that you’re working on or [00:25:00] the project that you’re like doing needs, you know, like learn one and then adapt based on, on, on what the team you’re working on is.

[00:25:09] 20220129 1127 Brett: I have a friend, Jesse Atkinson, great guy almost hired him for AOL. Like we did hire him and then they fucking change the rules on us. But anyway, he got his current job with a dedication to learn a language. He didn’t know, he basically signed up for a job. I think it was scaler that he, he, he hadn’t used before, but he was determined to learn.

[00:25:38] So he, he applied for a job that required that language and he got the job

[00:25:46] 20220129 1127 Guest: Wow.

[00:25:47] 20220129 1127 Brett: and, and he learned the language. That is, yes, that is the sign of a young program.

[00:25:54] 20220129 1127 Guest: Yeah. I was going to say that well, that is decided like somebody like young, some news the time somebody who like the, the still has [00:26:00] like the love and isn’t like

[00:26:01] 20220129 1127 Brett: And the brain plasticity. I, I worry in my older age that I won’t be able to continue learning new languages.

[00:26:10] 20220129 1127 Guest: Uh, I think you will.

[00:26:11] 20220129 1127 Brett: I hope

[00:26:12] 20220129 1127 Guest: you will. I mean, again, I mean, again, like, like I, I think that when you look at, um, yeah, like I think that a lot of times people think, oh, well, you know, you get older, you, you can’t learn new things and whatnot. I don’t think it’s you can’t. I think that is about mindset. It’s like, do you want to, or not?

[00:26:29] I think that it’s a lot of people who for very good reasons are like, I have too many other things going on and I don’t want to go through all this again, you know, but, but some people like me and I think you’re the same way. I actually enjoy learning new things.

[00:26:43] 20220129 1127 Brett: Well, sure. Yeah. Like, and to be fair, I have learned more about Ruby in the last year than I’ve known in 20 years of using it. And like, it’s fascinating to me to learn. Like, I didn’t know how to use Proxin Lambdas [00:27:00] until this year. And I’ve been using Ruby since 2000, so like I enjoy learning new things and I enjoy learning new languages to see how they handle the same thing.

[00:27:15] But I do feel like I’m hitting like a diminishing returns.

[00:27:21] 20220129 1127 Guest: Yeah. I mean, you might be hitting the diminishing returns.

[00:27:23] thing. That’s not quite the same thing. And I will say this and obviously, you know, Ken Thompson is like the goat and it is a very unique case, but he’s like 80 or almost 80. And, and he, you know, was one of the creators of, of go as well. Right. So, which means that he was creating that.

[00:27:44] A decade old. So like, you know, when he was working on it in his seventies,

[00:27:49] 20220129 1127 Brett: Wait go is a decade old.

[00:27:51] 20220129 1127 Guest: I think so,

[00:27:52] 20220129 1127 Brett: feel like I just heard about goat go about three years ago.

[00:27:56] 20220129 1127 Guest: uh, first appeared November 10th, 2009. Yeah.

[00:27:59] 20220129 1127 Brett: [00:28:00] Damn I, somebody is not keeping up with shit.

[00:28:04] 20220129 1127 Guest: So, so like, I’m just saying like, so, so he was clearly, he was like, because he had been working on it, you know, at, you know, Google cause he co-developed the, the programming language. So, uh, into his seventies, I don’t know. That’s pretty exciting to me, just That somebody, you know what I mean? Like, like that, even if we all can’t be Ken Thompson’s like, cause of course we can’t, but that’s one of those things that like excites me Cause I’m like, shit, dude, like this guy is still doing it. Like our, our, our, our, our, our Unix godfather is still fucking creating stuff, you know?

[00:28:34] 20220129 1127 Brett: hope.

[00:28:35] 20220129 1127 Guest: Yeah. So I have I’ve I’ve absolutely no. No doubt that like, as long as you want to continue learning and, and, um, getting better at things, you will, I’ve no doubt about that at all.

[00:28:46] 20220129 1127 Brett: All right. Last tech topic, before we get to some, some great TV.

[00:28:51] 20220129 1127 Guest: Yes.

[00:28:53] 20220129 1127 Brett: I, so I needed to install a certain or Oracle application on [00:29:00] my Mac mini. To be able to do my job. So I, in order to do so I had to install, um, they’re kind of like it’s called my desktop and it is the interface through which you install Oracle software.

[00:29:18] I installed it. I installed the one piece of software I needed eventually had to do a reboot as we’ve talked about before on my Mac mini. And it came up with a lock screen that said, this machine is the property of Oracle. And I said, no. And I immediately uninstalled all that shit. And I cannot figure out how to change my lock screen.

[00:29:42] But now, now I’m getting non-compliance warnings from Oracle saying this machine does not have like whatever antivirus software installed.

[00:29:54] 20220129 1127 Guest: right.

[00:29:55] 20220129 1127 Brett: If I go to remove the machine from my [00:30:00] Oracle registered personal machines, it wants me to return the machine to Oracle. Like it wants to print out a fucking RMA for me to return my personal computer, to my employer who did not buy my personal

[00:30:16] 20220129 1127 Guest: right. Because you installed something on it. Nan MDMs are so screwed. Have you figured out any solution for this

[00:30:23] 20220129 1127 Brett: I, well, my solution was to ignore it. And then my manager said, Hey, I’m getting notifications that you have a non-compliant machine. And to be like, I don’t need to run any Oracle software to do my job. And if I could just unregistered. I, I would be done. Like I don’t need their software to do my job.

[00:30:53] And I have an Oracle laptop that works for accessing everything I need [00:31:00] to from their machine that I will happily return to them if the time comes. I, I don’t, I know, I don’t know what to do. I have to go through tech support.

[00:31:12] 20220129 1127 Guest: was going to say, you probably have to unfortunately file a ticket and conduct tech support. I had a similar issue. It was different and my manager certainly wasn’t involved, but I accidentally. When I had that Dell laptop for like two

[00:31:25] 20220129 1127 Brett: Yeah. Yeah.

[00:31:26] 20220129 1127 Guest: I accidentally provisioned it as a work device, which means that in the MDM, it shows up as like a work owned machine.

[00:31:35] And then I can’t remove it because it shows that it’s belong to Microsoft. And clearly it wasn’t, it was my own personal thing. So it was, I’m not getting any sort of, I mean, and not using the device. So like it’s not giving me any, you know, um, uh, stuff or whatnot, but like, I don’t have the machine anymore, but it’s still in my account.

[00:31:51] So I have to file a ticket and follow up. I did file a ticket and then I just didn’t follow up on it. Cause I didn’t want, I didn’t care, um, to like get them to manually remove [00:32:00] it. But I imagine that you’ll have to go through a similar tech support song and dance where you’ll have to reach out to tech support, file a ticket, and they will have to manually remove the machine from, you know, the database, uh, no pun intended there, Oracle, uh, so that you don’t get those so that you don’t get those, uh, messages.

[00:32:23] 20220129 1127 Brett: Yeah. Anyway, you know, what would be a good transition between like tech talk and TV talk

[00:32:32] 20220129 1127 Guest: uh, Zoc doc,

[00:32:33] 20220129 1127 Brett: a sponsor break. Yeah.

[00:32:35] 20220129 1127 Guest: I think so. I think so. All right. So while you’re a kind of a, you know, we were talking about mental health, we were talking about a Brett you’re feeling a little bit down now, or think we’re going to talk about some of the TV you watched while you were feeling down. If you’re, uh, needing a doctor Zoc doc is for you.

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[00:34:34] 20220129 1127 Brett: That’s a fantastic read, Christina.

[00:34:37] 20220129 1127 Guest: Thank you, Brett. Appreciate it fell a little rusty, but I felt like I was coming back into it.

[00:34:41] 20220129 1127 Brett: Yeah.

[00:34:41] 20220129 1127 Guest: So, uh,

[00:34:43] 20220129 1127 Brett: a couple of weeks

[00:34:43] 20220129 1127 Guest: after couple weeks off,

[00:34:44] Yeah, no, it’s good. Um, so we were texting before our various like, delays about TV and I’m like looking at your list and we’ve got a, I’m very excited this cause we have a lot of TV to talk about.

[00:34:56] So where do you wanna start?

[00:34:58] 20220129 1127 Brett: so, okay. First of [00:35:00] all, queer query.

[00:35:01] 20220129 1127 Guest: So.

[00:35:02] 20220129 1127 Brett: It is. And season six, I like the latest season. I found that going through it. Uh, we were constantly pausing because it brought up conversation topics, and we’d pause. And we talk about these things that had happened to us or that we thought, or that we believed. And, and then continue on with the show and it became this super interactive TV for us.

[00:35:30] We finished season six and we’re like, well, shit, that was great. Let’s go back in the catalog. Season five has not seemed to have that same effect. I feel like season six is, is exceptional and better than preceding seasons. Have you watched enough

[00:35:55] 20220129 1127 Guest: I ha