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What's The Deal With Men's Mental Health? With John Delony

Men's mental health is an issue that is getting a lot more attention than even when I started this podcast just 9 years ago. In fact, men are falling behind in so many metrics from graduation and college attendance rates, to declining health, incarceration, and even suicide rates. But what is causing this rising trend in the demise of men's mental, physical, and emotion health? My guest, John Delony, is here to explain some of the biggest culprits in the modern issues that plague so many men. Today, we talk about the paradox of empathy and toughness as we relate to each other and children, the importance of making "line-in-the-stand" commitments, the difference between complacency and satisfaction, why men need to work on projects together, and why "all in," is the only way to live. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS: (00:00) Episode Intro (04:15) Father-Son Hunting Adventures (07:45) Building Emotional Resilience in Parenting (18:59) Navigating Modern Relationships and Commitment (28:34) Navigating Risk and Satisfaction in Life (40:49) Finding Anchoring in a Lost Generation (44:33) Building Brotherhood Through Shared Responsibility (51:33) Navigating Male Mental Health Challenges (58:25) Knowing One's Self-Worth and Masculinity (01:05:50) The Importance of Authenticity and Courage Battle Planners: Pick yours up today! Order Ryan's new book, The Masculinity Manifesto. For more information on the Iron Council brotherhood. Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready

Nov 19, 20241h 11m

Lessons Learned in Divorce | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES

Can recognizing relationship red flags early save a marriage? In this week's Friday Field Notes, Ryan Michler reflects on lessons from his 18-year marriage and divorce, emphasizing how minor issues, if ignored, can snowball into major challenges. He highlights the power of proactive communication and self-growth. Ryan shares strategies for navigating divorce with grace, focusing on personal responsibility, parenting, and self-care, while avoiding spiteful behavior. He also explores male empowerment and collective growth, offering insights from friends like Keith Yackey to inspire hope, resilience, and a thriving future. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS (00:00) Episode Intro (00:38) Lessons Learned From Personal Divorce (10:39) Moving Forward After Divorce (15:41) Navigating Divorce With Grace and Purpose (21:50) Empowering Men Through Collective Growth Battle Planners: Pick yours up today! Order Ryan's new book, The Masculinity Manifesto. For more information on the Iron Council brotherhood. Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready

Nov 15, 202423 min

External Validation, Liberals and Conservatives, and the Void in Leadership | ASK ME ANYTHING

In this week's Ask me Anything, Ryan and Kipp discuss the meticulous preparation required for bow hunting and share a personal story of a missed opportunity that underscores the importance of vigilance and readiness. It's a broader reflection on the life lesson of embracing new opportunities, even when they come with uncertainties. They also touch on the recent political shifts in the U.S., expressing optimism about the change in leadership with Trump's election victory, while also acknowledging some concerns about his character. Next, they tackle the intricacies of government spending and the implications of executive orders, drawing parallels to Elon Musk's acquisition of Twitter as a model for efficient operations. The discussion broadens to consider the concept of nationwide reciprocity for concealed carry permits, emphasizing the need for legislative processes to curb presidential overreach. By exploring voter motivations in the 2020 election, they highlight the importance of understanding different perspectives, fostering a more empathetic political discourse. In the final chapters, they shift gears to explore leadership, personal growth, and community engagement. From the formation of regional teams within the Iron Council to the power of delegation and support, they emphasize the importance of creating environments where others can lead and innovate. They examine the balance between external validation and self-worth, providing insights into how personal experiences shape our motivations and resilience. Finally, they highlight the value of regional meetups and the opportunities for connection within the Order of Man community, inviting listeners to join them for future discussions and insights. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS - (00:00) Episode Intro - (00:45) Trump's Election Victory and Policy Impact - (08:49) Government Spending, Reciprocity, and Executive Orders - (15:30) Chain of Command in Iron Council - (25:20) Leadership Through Delegation and Support - (33:23) Balancing External Validation and Self-Worth - (44:58) Exploring New Literature and Political Alignments - (49:09) Political Alignment and Independent Thinking - (01:01:36) Balancing Fun and Exercise - (01:05:18) Regional Meetups and Community Connection Battle Planners: Pick yours up today! Order Ryan's new book, The Masculinity Manifesto. For more information on the Iron Council brotherhood. Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready

Nov 13, 20241h 6m

RICKSON GRACIE | The Art and Science of Invisible Jiu-Jitsu

You guys have heard me talk about Jiu-Jitsu ad nauseum but what you may not have heard me talk too much about is the often-overlooked invisible form of the martial art that has taken over the world of MMA and combat sports. This is not about submitting or disabling an opponent on the mats but how the lessons learned on the mats apply to your everyday life. I can think of no better person to share his knowledge and depth of experience than one of the toughest men in the "First Family" of Jiu-Jitsu, Rickson Gracie. Today, Rickson and I talk about managing fear, how to find a mission more important than your life, how to keep your identity secure although you may lose one element of who you are, the importance of a balanced approach to being a warrior, why base on the mats and off is so crucial, and the power of respecting and honoring your intuition. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS (00:00) Episode Intro (00:40) Adapting Positively to Life's Challenges (08:43) Harnessing Fear for Success (17:31) Embracing Legacy and Overcoming Challenges (25:29) The Power of Invisible Jiu-Jitsu (40:48) Intuitive Decision Making and Relationships (57:43) The Last Fight of Inspiration Battle Planners: Pick yours up today! Order Ryan's new book, The Masculinity Manifesto. For more information on the Iron Council brotherhood. Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready

Nov 12, 20241h 4m

"Toxic Masculinity" Stereotypes | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES

Ryan Michler believes traditional masculinity isn't inherently toxic; it's simply misunderstood. In this episode, he unravels the complexities surrounding toxic masculinity, challenging the myths that paint masculinity as harmful. Drawing on a pivotal 2019 study by the American Psychological Association, Ryan highlights the critical need for a balanced understanding of masculinity's role in society, emphasizing that traditional masculine traits—when constructively channeled—can bring comfort, security, and innovation. Ryan's discussion explores men and women as complementary forces, underscoring the indispensable contributions of men to societal progress. He delves into "righteous aggression," a principle that advocates for assertive yet patient action against wrongdoing. By clarifying misconceptions around stoicism, he shows that it's about emotional regulation rather than suppression, fostering resilience and enhancing communication. Through personal stories, Ryan demonstrates the power of true masculinity in protection, provision, and leadership. He calls on men to be role models who redefine masculinity by embodying strength through positive actions, helping create a culture where authentic masculinity is celebrated and visible. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS: (00:00) Episode Intro (00:40) Addressing Toxic Masculinity Misconceptions (16:36) The Principles of Righteous Aggression (29:56) Embodying True Masculinity Through Example Battle Planners: Pick yours up today! Order Ryan's new book, The Masculinity Manifesto. For more information on the Iron Council brotherhood. Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready

Nov 8, 202432 min

Non-Traditional Men's Therapy, Leaders Getting Out of The Way, and Why Consequences Matter | ASK ME ANYTHING

Ryan Michler and Kipp Sorenson explore Hickson Gracie's influence on MMA and how his dominance, despite not competing in early UFC events, laid the foundation for the sport. They discuss the Gracie family's strategic choice of Royce Gracie to showcase jiu-jitsu's power through a smaller fighter in the first UFC and examine early MMA's bare-knuckle fighting style and its impact on safety and techniques. The conversation then shifts to men's mental health, as they advocate for hobbies like jiu-jitsu or hiking as therapy alternatives. They also touch on leadership and parenting, focusing on resilience, autonomy, and stress's role in growth, while promoting personal agency in belief systems and institutions. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS (00:00) Episode Intro (00:40) Hickson Gracie's Impact on MMA (07:46) Men's Resistance to Traditional Therapy (18:21) Parenting and Shaping Resilience in Children (30:34) Empowering Leadership Through Trust and Respect (35:55) Leadership Through Autonomy and Ownership (41:51) Parenting With Discipline and Love (53:58) Personal Sovereignty and Agency in Belief Battle Planners: Pick yours up today! Order Ryan's new book, The Masculinity Manifesto. For more information on the Iron Council brotherhood. Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready

Nov 6, 20241h 1m

ROBIN DREEKE | Forging Unbreakable Alliances

We all know how crucial it is to build alliances in our lives and, yet, most men aren't real deliberate and intentional about how they do it. Think about it, most of your connections are a product of default proximity, not rational design – your neighbor, your brother, the guy that works down the hall from you, etc. So, how do you form and nurture these strategic relationships. Robin Dreeke joins me today to share his knowledge as a former FBI behavioral analysist, and spy recruiter. We discuss the power of non-judgmental curiosity, the 4 keys of effective communication, how to analyze a person's behaviors and motives quickly, including an analysis of the positive and negative characteristics of both Kamala Harris and Donald Trump, how to strategize trust with others, and why some men can read people well while others can't. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS (00:00) Episode Intro (03:40) The Power of Human Connection (16:06) Building Balanced Reciprocal Relationships (22:15) Navigating Controversial Conversations With Empathy (30:33) Assessing Emotional vs Pragmatic Conversations (38:09) Assessing Personalities Beyond Script and Media (43:57) Assessing People Through Ground Truth (53:26) Strategizing Trust in Intelligence Operations (01:04:45) Promoting "Unbreakable Alliances" With Robin Dreeke Battle Planners: Pick yours up today! Order Ryan's new book, The Masculinity Manifesto. For more information on the Iron Council brotherhood. Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready

Nov 5, 20241h 7m

How to Influence People (And, Why You Should) | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES

Is influence different from manipulation, or just a different shade? In this episode, Ryan Michler breaks down the art of building true influence, essential for leaders in any realm—family, business, or community. Through ten practical strategies grounded in integrity, Ryan explores how influence can elevate our interactions by aligning personal goals with broader values, creating outcomes that benefit everyone involved. Influence isn't just for the workplace; it's woven into daily life, from guiding your kids to closing deals. With relatable examples—from Donald Trump's connection with blue-collar voters to Kamala Harris's attempts at relatability—Ryan uncovers the power of genuine connection, honesty, and setting clear boundaries. By leading with care and maintaining consistency, we can build trust-filled relationships that last. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS (00:00) Episode Intro (00:40) Building Influence With Integrity (04:38) The Power of Honesty and Influence (14:36) Solving Problems Through Connection (19:31) Connecting Through Relatability (23:08) Firm and Fair Approach in Relationships (33:34) Be a Man of Your Word (37:45) Consistency Builds Trust Battle Planners: Pick yours up today! Order Ryan's new book, The Masculinity Manifesto. For more information on the Iron Council brotherhood. Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready

Nov 1, 202439 min

The Difference Between Quitting and Pivoting, Application Over Knowledge, & Maintaining Priorities | ASK ME ANYTHING

Navigating life's challenges with integrity and purpose requires a commitment to personal priorities. By allowing children to face their own obstacles, we nurture resilience and growth. Ryan Michler and Kipp Sorensen explore the importance of honest self-assessment and celebrate others' achievements as sources of inspiration rather than envy. The idea is to stay true to our paths, even amidst external pressures, ensuring that our decisions reflect what truly matters to us. Finally, Ryan and Kipp embrace the chaos of daily life with strategies that emphasize moral integrity and personal growth. They reflect on the balance between discipline and flexibility, whether it's about maintaining workout routines on vacation or making healthier choices while dining out. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS - (00:40) Episode Intro - (00:40) Hunting Mindset and Resilience Teachings - (09:56) Prioritizing Growth and Personal Development - (17:31) The Power of Pivoting - (29:15) Balancing Discipline and Practical Application - (38:00) Navigating Overthinking and Overaction - (51:43) Maintaining Moral Integrity in Chaos - (57:38) Battle Against the Natural Man - (01:05:24) Man Camp Experience Battle Planners: Pick yours up today! Order Ryan's new book, The Masculinity Manifesto. For more information on the Iron Council brotherhood. Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready

Oct 30, 20241h 7m

JEFFERSON FISHER | How to Communicate Like a Man

I've made it a personal rule, when I'm offended, to chalk it up to people's inability to communicate effectively. It's proven to be useful and, typically, correct. But how can the activity we engage in more than anything else (with the exception of sleep) be something so many men are horribly deficient with? That's a question my guest, Jefferson Fisher, has spend decades understanding and, over the last several years, teaching over 10,000,000 of his social media followers how to address. Today Jefferson and I talk about avoiding miscommunication, how to be assertive in communication – but not an asshole, when diplomacy and advocacy connect and contradict, why learning not to, "take the bait" of others will serve you, learning the rules of the communication game, and why control, confidence, and connection will set you apart. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS - (00:00) Episode Intro - (03:40) Effective Communication and Assertive Conversations - (18:10) Direct Communication for Difficult Conversations - (22:48) Respectful and Considerate Communication Skills - (34:09) Navigating Egos in Professional Interactions - (46:16) Personal Rules and Self-Advocacy in Communication - (55:04) Parenting and Professional Likability - (01:00:09) Authentic Communication and Self-Evaluation - (01:09:38) Podcast Connection and Shared Mindset Battle Planners: Pick yours up today! Order Ryan's new book, The Masculinity Manifesto. For more information on the Iron Council brotherhood. Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready

Oct 29, 20241h 13m

5 Ways to Bolster Your Confidence as a Man | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES

Unlock the keys to unshakable confidence and self-assurance in this episode of Friday Field Notes, where Ryan Michlers tells us how to harness the power of self-validation over external approval. Discover the profound impact of honoring personal commitments and how they lay the foundation for integrity and resilience, propelling you toward genuine influence and opportunity. Ryan deep dives into the importance of understanding the motives behind your successes and the true value of building confidence through self-awareness and introspection. Expect actionable insights that will help you reflect on your journey and steer it toward self-growth and improvement. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS (00:00) Episode Intro (00:50) Building Confidence and Security as Men (15:21) Strengthening Confidence and Security (22:43) MensForge Battle Planners: Pick yours up today! Order Ryan's new book, The Masculinity Manifesto. For more information on the Iron Council brotherhood. Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready

Oct 25, 202424 min

Rigging the Election, Owning Unnecessary Stuff, and Showing Up Powerfully | ASK ME ANYTHING

This Ask Me Anything episode dives into critical themes of election rigging, the burden of owning unnecessary stuff, and showing up powerfully. Ryan Michler and Kipp Sorensen explore how misleading FBI crime statistics and media manipulation erode public trust, impacting political narratives and elections. Transparency and active participation are essential in fighting this, and they challenge listeners to engage fully in the democratic process. Personal growth is also discussed, emphasizing that investing in experiences, relationships, and self-improvement leads to deeper fulfillment than material possessions. From political engagement to simplifying life and focusing on what truly matters, Ryan and Kipp encourage everyone to take action and commit to their personal and societal roles with integrity. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS (00:00) Episode Intro (00:42) Trust, Transparency, and Manipulation (10:47) Importance of Political Involvement (17:38) Interview Preparation and Taking Initiative (26:04) National Sovereignty and Financial Control (38:48) Commitment and Progress in Life (45:09) Investments in Fulfillment and Happiness (54:54) Inclusivity in the Iron Council (01:04:11) Men's Forge Collaboration Event Announcement Battle Planners: Pick yours up today! Order Ryan's new book, The Masculinity Manifesto. For more information on the Iron Council brotherhood. Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready

Oct 23, 20241h 6m

DR. WARREN FARRELL | Male Privilege/Power: Fact or Fiction?

Many of us have been accused of perpetuating the concept of male privilege and male power. Heaven forbid a man uses his God-given talents and abilities to lift his people up. But too many misguided and damaged souls tend to see only the worst parts of the men in their vicinity or, on social media and in the bright light of the entertainment industry. Those men, in no way, are indicative of the general consensus of men and, yet, many still view men as the premier problem in society today. My guest today, Dr. Warren Farrell, helps unpack why that is not the case and, if anything how genuine men are the cure to many of the ailments of modern times. We talk about why "men's issues" are not just men's issues, the differences in what language men and women speak, the male equivalents of the feminist movement, why men are more interested in garnering respect than love, the dreaded "V-word" (vulnerability), and 6 mindsets to form powerful connections between men and women. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS (00:00) Episode Intro (04:10) The Boy Crisis and Male Identity (14:54) Reframing Power and Responsibility in Men (29:18) Gender Dynamics in Communication and Relationships (41:47) Improving Communication in Relationships (53:10) The Art of Non-Defensive Communication (01:04:01) Deepening Love Through Relationship Practices (01:13:16) Enhancing Relationships Through Active Listening Battle Planners: Pick yours up today! Order Ryan's new book, The Masculinity Manifesto. For more information on the Iron Council brotherhood. Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready

Oct 22, 20241h 19m

Anxiously Engaged in the Fight | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES

Unlock the secret to choosing battles that truly matter and become the hero of your own story. In this week's Friday Field Notes, Ryan Michler explores the powerful notion of being "anxiously engaged in the fight," inspired by Mormon doctrine, and how it can guide us in aligning our efforts with personal beliefs and societal impact. Discover five essential strategies to ensure your fight is both meaningful and successful, as we discuss the concept of personal sovereignty and the pursuit of worthy causes. Hear Ryan's personal anecdotes that illustrate the power of enlisting allies who believe in you, reinforcing the significance of support systems in the battles you choose to engage in. Tune in for an inspiring episode filled with insights that will empower you to tackle your chosen battles with clarity and conviction. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS (00:42) Episode Intro (00:42) Anxiously Engaged (14:32) Battle Strategy and Allies in Victory Battle Planners: Pick yours up today! Order Ryan's new book, The Masculinity Manifesto. For more information on the Iron Council brotherhood. Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready

Oct 18, 202426 min

Challenging Polls, Cherishing Legacies, and Embracing Personal Growth | ASK ME ANYTHING

In an era of manipulated narratives, skepticism towards polling reliability is crucial, urging us to make informed voting decisions based on what matters. We encourage seeking information from trusted sources while avoiding mainstream distractions, inspired by figures like RFK, Tulsi Gabbard, and Elon Musk. Shifting focus, we delve into the art of storytelling and the importance of preserving family legacies, especially narratives tied to significant historical events like World War II. By documenting these stories, we aim to inspire future generations to connect with their roots. Additionally, we explore personal growth through evolving goals and embracing challenges, highlighting Covey's principles on productivity. We stress adaptability and the importance of viewing challenges as opportunities for growth, and overcoming obstacles. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS (00:00) Episode Intro (00:38) Importance of Staying Informed and Voting (10:43) Reflecting on Family Legacies and Growth (22:04) Evolving Goals and Personal Growth (27:28) Overcoming Organizational Hurdles for Success (31:18) Embracing Unreasonable Actions for Growth (34:57) Personal Growth and Embracing Transformation (41:53) Embracing Growth Through Challenges (56:05) Leadership, Success, and Personal Growth (01:04:55) Wedding Stress and Post-Workout Nutrition Battle Planners: Pick yours up today! Order Ryan's new book, The Masculinity Manifesto. For more information on the Iron Council brotherhood. Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready

Oct 16, 20241h 13m

ANDREW KLAVAN | In a Degenerate Culture, Create Your Own

Take a quick look around you and you'll easily see the degradation of the family, the undermining of both masculinity and femininity, the perversion of virtue and even things like "man" and "woman", and the dismantling of societal norms that have served the world for good for centuries. It's not hard to see that in many ways, some of our most influential institutions (government, academia, entertainment, and medicine) are actively working against us. My guest today, author and cultural commentator, Andrew Klavan joins me to talk about what is happening in society today and what, we as men, can do about it. We discuss extreme feminism and the male equivalent – Red Pill and MGTOW, the difference between happiness, fulfillment, and joy (and which to pursue), why men like Andrew Tate have come to influence millions of men – and why that's not a good thing, how the powers that be are getting people to turn against each other, and so much more. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS (00:00) - Episode Intro (04:06) - Debating Gender Roles in Society (13:18) - Rejecting Toxic Gender Expectations (23:21) - Navigating Perceptions of Masculinity and Femininity (27:12) - Navigating Personal Morality and Accountability (39:04) - Spiritual Transformation and Interfaith Respect (45:24) - Exploring Gender Dynamics in Fiction (58:00) - Exploring Moral Principles and Atheism (01:07:26) - Personal Reflections on Writing and Connection Battle Planners: Pick yours up today! Order Ryan's new book, The Masculinity Manifesto. For more information on the Iron Council brotherhood. Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready

Oct 15, 20241h 14m

Masculinity Vs. Manliness | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES

Join Ryan Michler as he explores the distinction between masculinity and manliness, a conversation that goes beyond mere semantics. Drawing insights from our social media followers, he discusses how masculinity often encompasses inherent traits like dominance and competitiveness, while manliness is about applying these traits through cultural, moral, and ethical lenses. By sharing various perspectives and definitions, Ryan illustrates that masculinity is a birthright, but manliness must be earned through responsible and positive actions. This conversation encourages a broader discussion on how men can effectively cultivate these attributes to benefit themselves and others. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS (00:00) - Episode Intro (00:40) - Introduction to Masculinity vs. Manliness Discussion (03:24) - Listener Quotes on Masculinity vs. Manliness (04:27) - Defining Masculinity and Manliness (05:28) - Masculinity as Biological Traits (06:38) - Manliness as Earned Characteristics (07:35) - Good Man vs. Good at Being a Man (08:22) - The Importance of the Distinction (09:38) - Masculinity as an Amoral Tool (10:21) - Appropriate vs. Misuse of Aggression (11:47) - Manliness: Applying Masculine Traits for Good (13:14) - Final Thoughts on Masculinity vs. Manliness Battle Planners: Pick yours up today! Order Ryan's new book, The Masculinity Manifesto. For more information on the Iron Council brotherhood. Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready

Oct 11, 202414 min

Men Want Respect, Why Feminism Fails Men and Women, and How to Raise Boys Into Men | ASK ME ANYTHING

This is our first-ever Order of Man Live Q and A! Let us know if you have any questions. This episode examines how faith and personal values help navigate adversity, highlighting the role of community support and leadership during crises. It explores the importance of aligning actions with principles, drawing on stoicism and religious teachings, and emphasizes the need for honorable individuals to take the lead. The conversation touches on how societal expectations affect our view of high-value individuals, advocating for deeper connections and critical thinking in relationships. The discussion also delves into modern relationship dynamics, addressing topics like extreme feminism, hookup culture, and the importance of strong male role models. The episode encourages fostering supportive environments that promote respect, growth, and understanding in relationships. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS: (00:00) Disaster Relief Fundraising and Q&A (12:47) Faith, Values, and Principles (21:18) Standards for High-Value Men (34:39) Teaching Boys to Control Rage (48:19) Respecting Men and Building Influence (52:47) Respecting and Supporting Male Partners (57:26) Changing Dynamics in Modern Relationships (01:07:13) Supporting Disaster Relief Efforts Battle Planners: Pick yours up today! Order Ryan's new book, The Masculinity Manifesto. For more information on the Iron Council brotherhood. Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready

Oct 9, 20241h 8m

J.R. MARTINEZ | How Your Scars Shape You

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Men, we all have scars. Some are visible. Some are not. Some are physical. And, some are mental and emotional. Regardless of the scars you carry around, the stories behind them have the ability to shape you, for better or worse. My guest today, 101st Airborne Division Combat Veteran, J.R. Martinez, has easily-seen external scars. But rather than use those scars as an excuse to self-destruct, Martinez has, instead, decided to use the stories and the lessons he's learned on the road to recovery to make himself a better man. Today, J.R. and I talk about deliberately changing your perspective on life, what he calls, "God Winks," and how to use them effectively in your life, how to get over perceived emasculation and make yourself into more, crafting a new identity for yourself when the old one is ripped from you, and how a man effectively deals with persecution from others. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS (00:00) Episode Intro (00:40) Relationship Challenges and Parenthood Success (04:21) Journey to Parenthood and Self-Discovery (09:31) Setting Boundaries With Overprotective Mothers (14:04) Breaking Generational Patterns (26:33) Recognizing Signs and Seizing Opportunities (36:15) Navigating Life's Challenges and Opportunities (40:32) Perspective Shift Through Life's Challenges (50:58) Surviving a Traumatic Military Incident (58:02) Embracing Hope and Optimism (01:09:26) Overcoming Challenges in Public Eye (01:15:05) Finding Hope Through Unexpected Interactions (01:24:43) Embracing Vulnerability and Healing (01:29:32) Navigating Relationships and Overcoming Trauma (01:33:30) Embracing Imperfections and Growth Battle Planners: Pick yours up today! Order Ryan's new book, The Masculinity Manifesto. For more information on the Iron Council brotherhood. Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready

Oct 8, 20241h 42m

Do You Have What it Takes to Lead Well? | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES

Unlock the secret to powerful leadership by harnessing the strength of emotional intelligence. Society may often cast aside traditional masculine traits, but we're here to reclaim them by understanding what it truly means to embody stability and reliability. This episode highlights the critical role emotional intelligence plays in being a grounding presence for our loved ones and colleagues. We explore how mastering our emotions allows us to remain composed during life's toughest moments, transforming us into the unwavering "rock" that others can lean on. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS (00:00) Episode Intro (00:39) Restoring Masculinity Through Emotional Intelligence (08:19) Developing Emotional Intelligence Through Competence (14:23) Building Trust Through Honest Communication (25:47) Emotional Stability and Leadership in Men Battle Planners: Pick yours up today! Order Ryan's new book, The Masculinity Manifesto. For more information on the Iron Council brotherhood. Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready

Oct 4, 202428 min

Red Flags in Women, the Power of Urgency, and the Difference Between Value and Worth | ASK ME ANYTHING

Have you ever felt frustrated by digital communication platforms? In this episode, Ryan Michler and Kipp Sorensen explore a structured path to personal growth that cuts through tech barriers. They emphasize self-reliance, positive messaging, and building supportive networks. Drawing on Chris Williamson's podcast with Dr. Laith Al-Shawaf, they explore how emotions like fear and love guide us. They also share Josh's story of resilience and highlight practical advice for navigating relationships, setting boundaries, and overcoming personal challenges like alcoholism. Tune in for actionable insights on growth and self-improvement. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS (00:00) Episode Intro (00:38) Sense of Urgency and Intentionality (09:35) Emotions and Their Physiological Responses (13:52) Chemicals and Emotions in Relationships (19:53) Parenting and Protecting Children's Minds (25:47) Empowering Children With Boundaries (32:10) Overcoming Alcoholism and Self-Reflection (43:44) Navigating Relationships With Ex-Wives and Girlfriends (56:25) Valuing Relationships and Self-Worth Battle Planners: Pick yours up today! Order Ryan's new book, The Masculinity Manifesto. For more information on the Iron Council brotherhood. Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready

Oct 2, 20241h 8m

KELSI SHEREN | Where Feminism and Vulnerability Go Wrong

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This one is going to be a different one for you guys today. For the third time in the history of Order of Man in nearly a decade, we have a woman joining us on the podcast. Kelsi Sheren is a good friend of mine, and she is not afraid to pull punches. We've had some very public disagreements about the concept of "Vulnerability," and "Feminism." And, I thought, if we're going to take this movement to the next level, all of us (myself included) need to take ourselves outside our comfort zones. Today, Kelsi and I discuss masculine energy in women, where the idea of vulnerability falls flat, the difference between feminism and "modern-day feminism," overcoming fear, why expectations of others just set you up for failure, why honesty and humility may be a better approach relative to vulnerability, where woman and men fail each other and themselves, and so much more. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS (00:00) Episode Intro (02:38) Masculine and Feminine Energy Discussion (15:27) Navigating Vulnerability and Strength (19:50) Desire for Vulnerability and Growth (25:56) Taking Action Towards Personal Growth (29:10) Building Trust and Transparent Communication (35:48) Importance of Clear Communication Expectations (42:22) Therapeutic Coaching Through Transparent Communication (46:59) Navigating Men's Mental Health and Feminism (53:50) Modern Feminism and Victim Mentality (01:03:23) Empowering Women to Find Purpose (01:08:24) Navigating Personal Growth Through Adversity (01:15:36) Empowering Men Through Female Perspective Battle Planners: Pick yours up today! Order Ryan's new book, The Masculinity Manifesto. For more information on the Iron Council brotherhood. Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready

Oct 1, 20241h 21m

7 Signs of Masculine Maturity | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES

What if mastering your emotions could make you not just a better man, but a stronger leader too? This week on Friday Field Notes, Ryan Michler unveils the seven signs of masculine maturity, essential for any man aiming to elevate his personal growth and leadership skills. Starting with an inspiring reading of Rudyard Kipling's timeless poem "If," Ryan sets a powerful tone for the first topic: emotional regulation. Through heartfelt personal stories, he reveals the transformative power of understanding and managing your emotions, enabling you to become a more effective protector, provider, and leader within your community and family. He covers effective communication, emphasizing boldness, assertiveness, and taking full responsibility. It stresses self-care—physically, mentally, and emotionally—as a form of respect. Dressing well reflects pride and respect for your environment. Ryan explores setting assertive boundaries with respect, maintaining composure in stressful situations, and improving relationships through confidence. Finally, it highlights being service-oriented as a mark of maturity, illustrated by a story about helping at a highway accident to show readiness to serve others. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS (00:00) Episode Intro (00:38) Signs of Masculine Maturity (14:56) Principles of Masculine Maturity (26:00) Establishing Assertive Boundaries With Respect (29:19) The Importance of Service in Maturity (35:26) Preview Call for Iron Council Battle Planners: Pick yours up today! Order Ryan's new book, The Masculinity Manifesto. For more information on the Iron Council brotherhood. Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready

Sep 27, 202437 min

Vigilance, Presence, and Consistency | ASK ME ANYTHING

In this episode of Ask Me Anything, Ryan Michler and Kipp Sorensen discuss the serious implications of an East Coast maritime strike. They delve into the importance of vigilance in adapting to technological disruptions and the necessity of presence in fostering strong relationships. Drawing parallels between martial arts and life, Ryan emphasizes consistency in personal growth, whether navigating economic uncertainties or emotional resilience post-divorce. Additionally, they explore the complex dilemmas of voting in today's political climate and share practical advice on active listening, setting boundaries, and maintaining emotional stability. Join Ryan and Kipp for thought-provoking insights and actionable tips for thriving in every area of life. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS (00:00) Episode Intro (00:40) East Coast Maritime Strike Threat (06:04) Technology, Adaptability, and Learning Opportunities (17:11) Trump, Policy, and the Establishment (31:10) Dating After Marriage (35:15) Learning and Growth After Divorce (39:16) Embracing Life's Hardships for Growth (50:51) Understanding and Communication in Relationships (54:42) Mastering Active Listening and Presence (01:02:22) Prioritizing Others for Self-Validation (01:10:09) Setting Boundaries and Emotional Regulation Battle Planners: Pick yours up today! Order Ryan's new book, The Masculinity Manifesto. For more information on the Iron Council brotherhood. Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready

Sep 25, 20241h 21m

SIMMO | A Primer on Testosterone

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Testosterone (T) is a hormone all men are familiar with at this point. It's become a very hot topic and, whether or not to increase testosterone naturally or with Testosterone Replace Therapy (TRT), has become an increasingly debated question. Testosterone is recognized as the hormone to improve energy, muscle mass, overall health and vitality, and personal performance. My guest today, Simmo, is a man who has become immersed in the world of improving testosterone rates in men and male optimization. Today, we talk about the key strategies of boosting testosterone naturally, at what point a man should consider TRT, what function of the body, if not improved, hinders the processing of testosterone, how your workout might be hindering the production of T, what role the nervous system plays in hormone optimization, and how a brotherhood of men is an often-overlooked factor of overall male health. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS (00:00) Episode Intro (00:40) Boosting Testosterone Naturally (06:58) Navigating Masculinity After Medical Procedure (13:01) Understanding Testosterone Levels and Nuances (25:06) Holistic Health Approach for Men (33:06) Navigating Social Stigma and Training Intensity (43:03) Optimizing Training and Sleep Quality (54:46) Improving Sleep and Male Relationships (59:53) Syncing Up for Health Benefits Battle Planners: Pick yours up today! Order Ryan's new book, The Masculinity Manifesto. For more information on the Iron Council brotherhood. Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready

Sep 24, 20241h 7m

How to Break Negative Habits | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES

Transform your habits and reclaim control over your life! In this Friday Field Notes episode, Ryan Michler offers a powerful roadmap to identify and overhaul negative behaviors by drawing on the wisdom of "The Power of Habit" by Charles Duhigg and "Atomic Habits" by James Clear. He dissects the three-step formula for understanding habits, focusing on cues, behaviors, and rewards. By recognizing the triggers and rewards that fuel habits like smoking, drinking, or anger, you'll learn how to replace them with healthier, more productive behaviors that align with your goals. Ryan discusses eight pivotal questions to guide you through moments of weakness, aiding you in staying true to your values and commitments. Whether it's about maintaining fidelity to your spouse or adhering to personal beliefs, these questions are designed to fortify your resolve and help you build habits that serve your long-term well-being. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS (00:00) - Episode Intro (00:40) - Introduction to Habit Mastery (08:00) - Identifying and Understanding Temptation (22:08) - Strategies to Combat Immediate Gratification (35:53) - Preview of Upcoming Episode: Hormone Optimization Battle Planners: Pick yours up today! Order Ryan's new book, The Masculinity Manifesto. For more information on the Iron Council brotherhood. Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready

Sep 20, 202438 min

Overcoming Arrogance, Building Boundaries, and Getting Humbled | ASK ME ANYTHING

In this episode of Ask Me Anything, Ryan and Kipp break down the $35 trillion U.S. national debt, explaining its impact and how each American owes $135,000. They hold political leaders accountable and call for sustainable spending. They also discuss the need for disruption to achieve personal growth, offering tips for early recognition and setting boundaries in relationships. In leadership, they highlight transparency and turning arrogance into inspiration. For fathers, they suggest activities to bond with homeschooled children, and provide resources like Iron Council to help you grow. Tune in for insights on financial, personal, and relational success. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS (00:00) Episode Intro (00:40) US National Debt and Spending Crisis (16:07) Breakdowns and Breakthroughs (26:06) Navigating Boundaries in Relationships (40:49) Building Relationships Through Service (48:00) Power of Transparency in Leadership (00:06:06) Engaging Activities to Support Homeschooling (01:05:09) Discovering Your Path to Manhood Battle Planners: Pick yours up today! Order Ryan's new book, The Masculinity Manifesto. For more information on the Iron Council brotherhood. Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready

Sep 18, 20241h 6m

PETE ROBERTS | Build a 100-Year Plan

So many of us are so easily distracted and sedated by our temptation of choice and the next bright, shiny object. But my guest today makes the case for why building a personal and professional plan that will last centuries leads him to make more virtuous decisions and, not only serves him but generations to come. His name is Pete Roberts and he is the founder of Origin USA, a 100% made in America manufacturing company built in the backwoods of Maine. Today, we talk about the power of purpose, what it means to be a "cowboy entrepreneur," how and why we distract and sedate ourselves, why hopelessness and powerlessness are a crippling combination, and doing the right thing for the right reasons. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS (00:00) Episode Intro (03:50) CEO Challenges With Growth and Leadership (15:24) The Power of Purpose in Business (27:22) Financial Planning and Entrepreneurship (31:42) Challenges of Scaling Business Growth (39:46) Long-Term Vision for Business Success (47:00) Building a Brand With Purpose (01:00:07) Friendship and Commitment to Growth Battle Planners: Pick yours up today! Order Ryan's new book, The Masculinity Manifesto. For more information on the Iron Council brotherhood. Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready

Sep 17, 20241h 4m

What Kind of Man Do You Need to Become? | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES

Unlock the secrets to becoming the man you aspire to be with actionable insights from our latest episode. Ryan Michler delves into the importance of having a clear vision and ask the critical question, "Who do I need to become?" Discover the necessity of specificity in your goals and learn that success is built on deliberate, consistent actions rather than mere luck. Ryan discusses the concept of the "integrity gap" and shares real-life examples that illustrate how your actions, not just your desires, shape your identity. This is a call to take responsibility and actively work towards bridging the gap between where you are and where you want to be. In the second part, Ryan explores the essence of masculinity and self-improvement through personal authenticity and deliberate decision-making. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS: (00:00) Episode Intro (00:50) Becoming the Man You Want (11:43) Defining Masculinity and Self-Improvement Battle Planners: Pick yours up today! Order Ryan's new book, The Masculinity Manifesto. For more information on the Iron Council brotherhood. Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready

Sep 13, 202419 min

Exploring Tribalism, Personal Growth, and Strengthening Relationships | ASK ME ANYTHING

Join Ryan Michler and Kipp Sorensen as they explore a myriad of topics ranging from cultural issues to personal growth. This Ask Me Anything episode kicks off with an intriguing look at tribalism and the polarization of social viewpoints, inspired by Matt Walsh's documentary premiere in Nashville. They tackle controversial subjects like transgenderism and racism, emphasizing the need for diverse perspectives and critical thinking beyond political and ideological lines. Discover the importance of balancing conservative ideologies within mainstream discussions to foster a more inclusive dialogue. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS (00:00) Episode Intro (00:40) Cultural Tribes and Challenging Conversations (08:33) Internal Growth and Overcoming Challenges (20:50) Navigating Relationship Conflict With Emotional Intelligence (25:14) Family Preparedness and Conflict Resolution (39:01) Personal Growth and Responsibility (44:57) Cultivating a Godly Relationship (56:01) Personal Growth and Conflict Resolution (01:09:03) Jiu-Jitsu Progression and Humility Battle Planners: Pick yours up today! Order Ryan's new book, The Masculinity Manifesto. For more information on the Iron Council brotherhood. Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready

Sep 11, 20241h 16m

Exploring Tribalism, Personal Growth, and Strengthening Relationships | ASK ME ANYTHING

Join Ryan Michler and Kipp Sorensen as they explore a myriad of topics ranging from cultural issues to personal growth. This Ask Me Anything episode kicks off with an intriguing look at tribalism and the polarization of social viewpoints, inspired by Matt Walsh's documentary premiere in Nashville. They tackle controversial subjects like transgenderism and racism, emphasizing the need for diverse perspectives and critical thinking beyond political and ideological lines. Discover the importance of balancing conservative ideologies within mainstream discussions to foster a more inclusive dialogue. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS (00:00) Episode Intro (00:40) Cultural Tribes and Challenging Conversations (08:33) Internal Growth and Overcoming Challenges (20:50) Navigating Relationship Conflict With Emotional Intelligence (25:14) Family Preparedness and Conflict Resolution (39:01) Personal Growth and Responsibility (44:57) Cultivating a Godly Relationship (56:01) Personal Growth and Conflict Resolution (01:09:03) Jiu-Jitsu Progression and Humility Battle Planners: Pick yours up today! Order Ryan's new book, The Masculinity Manifesto. For more information on the Iron Council brotherhood. Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready

Sep 11, 20241h 16m

MICHAEL HUNTER | Finding Your Path Through Passion

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Over 10 years, one of the most common messages I get is a strong desire for men to find their calling, so to speak. Studies often suggest that upwards of 70% of men are dissatisfied in their work and general fulfillment in life. But it's a challenge to find something you're interested in and turn it into a profitable and lucrative career that brings both a sense of purpose and financial prosperity. My guest today, Michael Hunter, is a man who is doing exactly that. Introduced to hunting at the age of 18 and a self-proclaimed glutton for food, Michael has found a way to merge the world of hunting and culinary excellence into some that brings him both a deep sense of satisfaction and provided he and his family a way of life. Today, we talk about the painstakingly slow path to progress, the importance of asking for exactly what you want, standing for what's right in the face of bad actors, when luck, God's grace, and hard work collide, and how you can find your path through the passion you build. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS - (00:00) Episode Intro - (01:30) From Hunter to Chef - (10:22) The Chef's Journey Into Cooking - (18:53) Cooking Techniques for Game Meat - (25:27) Hunter-Chef's Journey in Teaching Cooking - (35:45) Restaurant Protest Leads to Viral Fame - (40:39) Ethical Hunting and Sustainability in Cooking - (48:54) Controversy Surrounding Hunting and Cooking - (56:01) Cookbook Author's Journey and Future Plans Battle Planners: Pick yours up today! Order Ryan's new book, The Masculinity Manifesto. For more information on the Iron Council brotherhood. Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready

Sep 10, 20241h 10m

How the Comparison Trap Can Serve You | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES

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Do you ever wonder why comparing yourself to others can sometimes leave you feeling deflated and stuck? In this episode of Friday Field Notes, Ryan Michler unravels the comparison trap and its profound impact on personal development and self-confidence. He tackles the issue head-on by exploring how negative comparisons create feelings of inadequacy and impede progress. Listen in as Ryan shares three practical strategies to turn those comparisons into powerful sources of inspiration and motivation. By recognizing the achievements of others and understanding that success isn't a zero-sum game, we can transform envy into admiration and propel ourselves forward. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS (00:00) Episode Intro (00:45) Overcoming the Comparison Trap (08:48) Navigating Comparison and Humility in Leadership (23:10) Embracing Growth Through Peer Learning Battle Planners: Pick yours up today! Order Ryan's new book, The Masculinity Manifesto. For more information on the Iron Council brotherhood. Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready

Sep 6, 202426 min

Politics & Masculinity, Starting a Business, Eliminating Health Excuses | ASK ME ANYTHING

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In this episode of Ask Me Anything, Ryan Michler addresses masculinity and its role in society and its significance from politics to personal growth. Ryan emphasizes the virtues of strength, courage, and fortitude, balanced with empathy and grace. Learn how to graciously accept compliments, reflect on personal concerns, and approach challenges with a solution-oriented mindset. From the importance of masculine virtues to the political spectrum's impact on these ideals, Ryan discusses what it means to embody true masculinity today. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS (00:00) Episode Intro (00:43) Starting a Business (08:44) Crafting Business Stories for Success (17:29) Navigating Masculinity and Pride Acceptance (24:06) Learning to Accept Compliments and Gratitude (28:42) Embracing Masculine Virtues Without Compromise (34:08) Exploring Masculinity in Politics and Society (45:07) Parenting, Relationships, and Personal Development (52:09) Navigating Offense and Saving People Battle Planners: Pick yours up today! Order Ryan's new book, The Masculinity Manifesto. For more information on the Iron Council brotherhood. Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready

Sep 4, 202454 min

DAVID WALDY | How to Build Fierce Empathy

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Empathy. It's likely a word that conjures up unnecessary softness or, even weakness. But there's nothing weak about being empathetic and it certainly does mean you need to allow others to wallow in their own self-pity or walk all over you. In fact, when utilized correctly, empathy can be a powerful tool for realizing your full potential and influencing others positively along their own path. My guest today, David Waldy, joins me to make the case for men adding a level of what he calls fierce empathy into their lives. We talk about what empathy really means, why we lie to others and ourselves, how to stop lying, learning to heal yourself strategically and tactically, borrowing from other people's success, and how to craft and utilize a new identity for who you are. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS (00:00) Episode Intro (00:42) Fierce Empathy and Recovering Nice Guys (08:36) Truth and Self-Deception (22:13) Healing and Self-Discovery Process (28:15) Defining and Uncovering True Identity (34:10) Modeling Behavior for Personal Growth (46:33) Building Trust Through Empathy and Understanding (53:31) Connecting Through Conversations Battle Planners: Pick yours up today! Order Ryan's new book, The Masculinity Manifesto. For more information on the Iron Council brotherhood. Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready

Sep 3, 20241h 0m

Depression-Proof Your Life | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES

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Feeling down doesn't always mean you're clinically depressed, but how do you distinguish between the two? In this week's Friday Field Notes, Ryan tackles the rising issue of depression among men, shedding light on the feelings of sadness, loneliness, and inadequacy many experience due to life challenges such as divorce, addiction, loss, and medical complications. He unpacks eight practical strategies designed to help you navigate these emotional waters and improve your mental well-being, with a reminder that seeking professional help is crucial if you're dealing with chronic or clinical depression. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS (00:00) Episode Intro (00:40) Understanding and Combatting Depression in Men (13:36) Strategies for Emotional Wellness (23:53) Embracing Hobbies and Avoiding Isolation (33:29) Overcoming Challenges and Choosing Productivity (42:34) Joining the Iron Council for Men Battle Planners: Pick yours up today! Order Ryan's new book, The Masculinity Manifesto. For more information on the Iron Council brotherhood. Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready

Aug 30, 202444 min

Overcoming Insecurities and Preparing for Parenthood | ASK ME ANYTHING

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Tune in to this week's Ask Me Anything as Ryan Michler and Kipp Sorensen tackle the nuances of preparing for parenthood and balancing personal health with professional success. They share practical tips on maintaining focus and building a strong family foundation, together with insights on teaching essential skills to children. The conversation also ventures into the realm of handling sexual temptations and fostering intimacy in relationships, offering disciplined approaches and open communication strategies. Whether you're a parent, partner, or professional, this episode will resonate and inspire transformative action in your life. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS (00:00) Episode Intro (00:50) Maintaining Motivation and Avoiding Echo Chambers (13:57) Preparing for Parenthood (25:27) Exploring Personal Insecurities (31:08) Understanding and Addressing Insecurities (38:59) Starting a Family and Overcoming Challenges (42:53) Teaching Skills and Parenting Values (56:32) Navigating Sexual Temptations and Relationship Intimacy (01:09:16) Building Masculinity and Community Battle Planners: Pick yours up today! Order Ryan's new book, The Masculinity Manifesto. For more information on the Iron Council brotherhood. Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready

Aug 28, 20241h 9m

JAKE HAMILTON | Every Man Must Be Initiated

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Whenever I (or one of my guests) introduces the concept of male initiation, it's met with skepticism, at best, and a level of immense disdain and vitriol, at worst. But why is it that men struggle so much with the concept of initiation, that is to say that a man must learn from other men what it means to be a man and be held accountable to maintain his moral duty to protect, provide, and preside? My guest today, Jake Hamilton, makes the case for male initiation drawing on ancient initiations in some of the most remote locations on the planet. We talk about how to harness a man's sexual desire towards productive outcomes, what the lowest form of a man's identity is, where the patriarchy falls short, integrating your "shadow" (something Jung unpacks deeply), the difference between working toward the greater good and the common good, and how a man answers his own internal desire to be respected and desired. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS (00:00) Episode Intro (04:00) The Crisis of Masculinity Today (17:21) Initiating Boys Into Manhood Through Presence (23:00) Navigating Masculinity and Sexuality in Society (34:51) Unpacking Personal Trauma and Behavior (41:11) Reclaiming Self-Worth and Value (49:05) The Power of Self-Discovery and Legacy (01:01:43) Embracing the Lover Archetype Battle Planners: Pick yours up today! Order Ryan's new book, The Masculinity Manifesto. For more information on the Iron Council brotherhood. Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready

Aug 27, 20241h 14m

How a Man Avoids the "Friendzone"| FRIDAY FIELD NOTES

Can you spot the difference between being nice and being kind? Many people mistakenly view niceness as a surefire way to a woman's heart, but in this week's Friday Field Notes latest episode Ryan Michler reveals why this approach often leads to manipulation rather than attraction. Ryan shares practical tips on clearly stating your intentions, understanding what women truly seek in a partner, and cultivating genuine romantic connections. Whether you're single and struggling with the friend zone or feeling like a roommate in your marriage, his insights will help you create and rebuild intimacy in your relationships. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS (00:00) Episode Intro (00:43) Avoid Friend Zone, Rebuild Intimacy (15:26) Assertive Romantic Relationships and Boundaries (23:17) Mastering the Dating Game Battle Planners: Pick yours up today! Order Ryan's new book, The Masculinity Manifesto. For more information on the Iron Council brotherhood. Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready

Aug 23, 202424 min

Ask, Act, Achieve | ASK ME ANYTHING

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In this no-holds-barred "Ask Me Anything" episode, Ryan and Duane dissect the controversy surrounding the Olympics, emphasizing the importance of meritocracy and performance. The conversation then shifts to the political landscape, urging men to step up and actively engage in their communities. They offer practical advice on building a strong work ethic and finding purpose, reminding listeners that discipline leads to freedom. Finally, they delve into matters of faith, encouraging listeners to trust their gut and act on righteous impulses. It's a raw, unfiltered discussion that challenges listeners to embrace their masculinity and take charge of their lives. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS (00:00) Episode Intro (00:42) Controversy Over Breakdancing in Olympics (11:36) Defining Masculinity and Bold Convictions (17:58) Military Leadership and Transition Discussion (23:20) Political Engagement and Future Vision (32:57) Developing Long-Term Goals and Work Ethic (38:08) Surrounding Yourself With High Achievers (47:02) Divine Intervention and Listening to God (54:49) Honesty and Accountability in Relationships (01:02:50) Implementing Concepts in Iron Council Battle Planners: Pick yours up today! Order Ryan's new book, The Masculinity Manifesto. For more information on the Iron Council brotherhood. Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready

Aug 21, 20241h 3m

JOHN DAILEY | Becoming a Tough, Rugged B*stard

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What does it take to be a tough, rugged, bastard? And, is it something a man should strive to become? My guest today is a retired marine and after spending 20 years in special operations in the Marine Corps, has gone on to lead training for all Marine Raiders (after being disbanded after WWII) and developing many of the systems and leadership protocols for some of the most elite fighting members of our modern-day military. His name is John Dailey and, today, we talk about the future of combat, modern-day enlistment challenges for the US military, where mental toughness comes from and how to develop it, the issues with "moral injury" as it relates to PTSD, the rules of combat, standard operating procedures, and rules of engagement that hinder our efficacy, and how and why every man needs to become a tough, rugged bastard. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS (00:00) Episode Intro (04:02) Ethics and Challenges of Combat (18:47) Reflections on Combat Experience and Morality (26:26) History and Creation of Marine Raiders (33:04) Special Operations Deployment and Challenges (43:21) Role and Challenges in Marine Raiders (53:04) Recruitment Challenges in Military Forces (56:23) Challenges and Standards in Training (01:07:58) Appreciation for Military Service Battle Planners: Pick yours up today! Order Ryan's new book, The Masculinity Manifesto. For more information on the Iron Council brotherhood. Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready

Aug 20, 20241h 11m

Passivity is the Antithesis to Manliness | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES

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Passivity among men is destroying their potential and derailing society. It's time to redefine masculinity by embracing assertiveness and courage. In this week's Friday Field Notes, Ryan Michler breaks down how true masculinity means actively addressing injustices with both strength and respect. He explores the fine line between assertiveness and bullying, offering actionable steps men can take to be more effective and impactful in their daily lives. You'll learn how to foster a balanced approach that marries boldness with respect for others, setting the stage for meaningful change. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS (00:00) - Episode Intro (00:48) - Assertive Masculinity (04:45) - Defining Your Goals and Boundaries (10:26) - Embracing Assertive Masculinity Battle Planners: Pick yours up today! Order Ryan's new book, The Masculinity Manifesto. For more information on the Iron Council brotherhood. Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready

Aug 16, 202422 min

Self-Talk and Supporting Spouses | ASK ME ANYTHING

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In this episode of ASK ME ANYTHING, Kipp Sorensen and Duane Winkel discuss key topics like masculinity, critical thinking, and personal responsibility. They talk about the importance of clearly understanding and expressing one's beliefs, assuming positive intent, and taking responsibility. They also offer advice to parents on guiding young men in a time of conflicting ideas about manhood. They explore how their views on masculine values, especially leadership, have evolved to include emotional and spiritual support. Additionally, they share practical strategies for overcoming negative self-talk, supporting spouses, and the challenges of transitioning from corporate careers to entrepreneurship. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS (00:00) Episode Intro (00:45) Defining Masculinity and Taking Ownership (10:17) Revisiting Masculine Values in Brotherhood (15:14) Addressing Self-Talk and Supporting Spouses (27:17) Supporting Partners in Self-Improvement (38:23) Fostering Brotherhood and Team Development (43:04) Transitioning to Entrepreneurship (49:38) Building a Business Together Battle Planners: Pick yours up today! Order Ryan's new book, The Masculinity Manifesto. For more information on the Iron Council brotherhood. Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready

Aug 14, 202459 min

RICK TRIMMER | Get Out of Your Comfort Zone | Recorded in Africa

Settled in a lodge in South Africa, the last few days have been a whirlwind of adventure. From the thrill of a unique hunting experience to photo safaris, our journey has been both meticulously planned and spontaneous. Rick and I kick off this episode by sharing our unexpected joys and the lessons we've learned about letting go of control. Plus, get a sneak peek into our new business venture that's all about inspiring others to hit the road and explore the world, starting from a seemingly simple one-way ticket to Normandy. This week's returning guest is Rick Trimmer, both a friend and travel companion. Venturing beyond the hunt, we dive deep into the essence of stepping out of your comfort zone. Our African escapade hasn't just been about the game; it's also about helicopter rides, cultural immersion, and visits to local orphanages. Tackling common barriers like financial constraints and fear, we share personal anecdotes that highlight the life-changing impact of taking risks. It's the adventures and experiences that carve lifelong memories, and we emphasize the importance of seizing opportunities rather than playing it safe. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS (00:00) Episode Intro (00:47) Travel Adventure Business Concept (08:10) Stepping Out of Your Comfort Zone (16:48) Building Meaningful Relationships Through Intentions (27:17) Seeking Guidance and Taking Action (38:09) Achieving Success Through Smart Decisions (49:34) Digital Hunting Partnership and Connection Battle Planners: Pick yours up today! Order Ryan's new book, The Masculinity Manifesto. For more information on the Iron Council brotherhood. Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready

Aug 13, 202449 min

8 Masculine Political Positions | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES

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What does it mean to truly lead in today's political landscape? In this week's Friday Field Notes episode Ryan dissects the notion of masculine political positions, particularly as election season heats up. Ryan outlines eight critical stances—grounded in protection, provide, and preside. From "peace through strength" that underscores the importance of a robust defense, to the imperative of national sovereignty, he provides a comprehensive guide to understanding and advocating for these values. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS (00:00) Episode Intro (00:42) Masculine Political Positions and Civil Discourse (12:55) Second Amendment and Family Values (17:49) Empowering Fathers and Free Markets (25:08) The Concept of Equality Versus Equity Battle Planners: Pick yours up today! Order Ryan's new book, The Masculinity Manifesto. For more information on the Iron Council brotherhood. Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready

Aug 9, 202432 min

Life's Uncertainties and Financial Wisdom | ASK ME ANYTHING

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Unlock the secrets to financial resilience in turbulent times and gain a fresh perspective on stress management and productivity. This episode promises to equip you with practical strategies for navigating market volatility, and provide actionable insights inspired by Warren Buffett and "Atomic Habits." Also, powerful financial habits, such as dollar-cost averaging and diversification, that can help you maintain stability and growth even amidst uncertainty, reinforcing the value of a disciplined approach to your investments. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS (00:00) Episode Intro (00:55) Market Volatility and Financial Habits (12:18) The Pitfalls of Victim Mentality (19:12) Navigating Complex Societal Issues (25:27) Navigating Relationships and Personal Growth (33:10) Choosing Health Over Conventional Treatment (46:02) Navigating Personal Challenges and Growth (53:03) Navigating Personal Legacy and Influence Battle Planners: Pick yours up today! Order Ryan's new book, The Masculinity Manifesto. For more information on the Iron Council brotherhood. Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready

Aug 7, 20241h 7m

Re-Thinking the American Beef Supply with Greg Putnam

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If you're like the other 95% of people on the planet, you eat too eat meat. But too little time is spent considering where one of the largest sources of meat comes from in America – Cattle. With broken food supply chains exposed during COVID, outsourced beef and processing to foreign countries, and the deceptive practices of those who label our beef products, it's hard to know what you're really getting. My guest today, former Navy SEAL, Greg Putnam, is doing something about it with a company he founded along with fellow Navy SEAL, Tim Sheehy called Little Belt Cattle Company. Greg and I discuss where our beef actually comes from, the balance between quality and quantity cattle ranchers have to find, the pros and cons of large industrial beef processing compared to the smaller, local ranches, what "grass-fed" and "organic" beef actually means, the importance of being connected with our food sources, and why we need to re-think the American beef supply. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS Here are the timestamps with 4 minutes and 9 seconds added: (00:00) Episode Intro (04:09) Sourcing Quality Meats (15:08) Genetics and Quality in Meat Production (28:56) Breeding and Genetics in Cattle Operations (32:44) Regenerative Practices and Meat Quality (43:18) Local Agriculture and Quality Assurance (51:38) Independent Processing and Distribution in Agriculture (01:05:25) Supporting Local Agriculture and Food Security (01:09:37) American Dream and Hard Work (01:13:10) Entrepreneurship and American Values Battle Planners: Pick yours up today! Order Ryan's new book, The Masculinity Manifesto. For more information on the Iron Council brotherhood. Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready

Aug 6, 20241h 16m

The Seven Masculine Archetypes | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES

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In this week's Friday Field Notes, Ryan Michler unlocks the secrets to becoming a well-rounded man through an exploration of seven masculine archetypes, inspired by Robert Moore and Douglas Gillette. Gain valuable insights into harnessing traits like visionary leadership, moral conviction, and keen intellect while embodying the motto: "protect, provide, preside." Reflect on strengths and weaknesses through these archetypes with examples of real people. This self-assessment encourages recognizing areas for improvement and taking steps toward personal development. Ryan concludes with a call to action to consider additional perspectives for becoming the best version of yourself. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS (00:00) - Episode Intro (00:42) - The Seven Masculine Archetypes (10:48) - Warrior, Jester and Scholar (24:28) - Priest, King and Statesman (36:34) - Embracing Masculine Archetypes for Growth Battle Planners: Pick yours up today! Order Ryan's new book, The Masculinity Manifesto. For more information on the Iron Council brotherhood. Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready

Aug 2, 202438 min

Masculinity: When Men Cry | ASK ME ANYTHING

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In this week's Ask Me Anything, Ryan and Kipp discuss the controversy surrounding the 2024 Olympics' opening ceremonies, using it to highlight the importance of focusing on positive content over disruptive provocations. They examine superficial public apologies, historical ignorance, and the promotion of communism. On a personal level, they explore emotional complexities, such as balancing grief with parenthood, expressing masculinity, and setting life standards. They offer practical advice on guiding younger siblings towards maturity, shifting from a selfish mindset to one of service, and navigating divorce challenges. The episode provides a multifaceted dialogue on these issues. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS (00:00) - Episode Intro (00:44) - Olympic Opening Ceremonies (04:30) - Cultural Critique and Social Awareness (16:34) - Navigating Grief and Parenthood (22:16) - Emotional Expression and Masculinity (34:01) - Establishing Standards and Manly Behaviors (41:55) - Influencing Brothers to Grow Up (51:29) - Mindset Shift Towards Service (59:05) - Sharing Knowledge and Teaching Skills Battle Planners: Pick yours up today! Order Ryan's new book, The Masculinity Manifesto. For more information on the Iron Council brotherhood. Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready

Jul 31, 20241h 6m

MARK MATSON | Is the American Dream Dead or Alive?

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Many men believe the American Dream is dead. Just take a look that the upcoming Presidential election and you'll often hear how many will, in utter surrender and defeat, say, "My vote doesn't count anyways so why do it?" Or, take a look at how many men will through up their hands and exclaim that there's nothing they can do about their marriage, the economy, their job, or their circumstances. And, while there is much outside of our control, there is much still within it. My guest today, Mark Matson, founder of Matson Money is here to tell us why experiencing the American dream is not out of reach for those who may previously have thought so. We talk about how to invest your time, money, and energy wisely, an academic approach to intelligent investing taking into consideration human brain science, discovering a whole new way to see the world, the forces standing between you and the American Dream (and how to overcome them), and the crucial importance of developing what he calls, "Your Future View." SHOW HIGHLIGHTS (00:00) - Episode Intro (03:41) - Reviving the American Dream (13:32) - Discovering Purpose Beyond Wealth (18:08) - Uncovering Purpose Amid Obstacles (27:30) - Building the American Dream (31:53) - Fighting for Family and Values (40:48) - Navigating Entrepreneurship and Politics (46:35) - Protecting the American Dream (56:51) - Impacting Men and Families Through Mentorship Battle Planners: Pick yours up today! Order Ryan's new book, The Masculinity Manifesto. For more information on the Iron Council brotherhood. Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready

Jul 30, 20241h 0m