
Order of Man
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If Boys Don't Learn, Men Won't Know | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES
In this episode of Friday Field Notes, Ryan Michler explores the crucial role men play in shaping the next generation. He discusses the consequences of fatherlessness, the importance of mentorship, and the responsibility of men to lead by example. Ryan shares personal experiences and actionable steps to ensure boys grow into strong, virtuous men. He emphasizes leading from the front, getting involved, and knowing when to step back to let others rise. This episode is a powerful reminder that the future of manhood depends on the lessons we pass down today. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS 00:00 – Introduction 00:46 – The impact of absent fathers 02:49 – Lessons from strength training with young men 04:54 – The crisis of masculinity in modern society 06:56 – Leading from the front 11:32 – Taking action and getting involved 16:24 – Learning to lead from behind 21:25 – The power of continuous learning 22:56 – Closing thoughts and call to action Link to YouTube Channel: https://www.youtube.com/@Orderofman Battle Planners: Pick yours up today! Order Ryan's new book, The Masculinity Manifesto. For more information on the Iron Council brotherhood. Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready

Masculinity in the Arts, the Drift of Life, and Why It's Good to be the Underdog | ASK ME ANYTHING
In this week's AMA episode, Ryan Michler and Kipp Sorensen dive into a range of thought-provoking topics, from the role of masculinity in the arts to overcoming stagnation and embracing the underdog mindset. They tackle viewer questions on leadership, personal growth, and maintaining momentum after success. Ryan shares insights on self-improvement, discipline, and the power of artistic expression in shaping culture. Tune in for a compelling discussion that challenges conventional thinking and offers actionable advice for men striving to improve their lives. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS 00:00 - Introduction 02:50 - The psychology of political identity 14:16 - Masculinity in the arts and its cultural impact 20:48 - The value of serving on a board 29:51 - Overcoming stagnation in personal growth 37:15 - Three essential skills every man should develop 42:05 - Keeping momentum after success 50:20 - Coping with a divorce and rebuilding life 54:19 - Final thoughts and wrap-up Battle Planners: Pick yours up today! Order Ryan's new book, The Masculinity Manifesto. For more information on the Iron Council brotherhood. Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready

ANSON FRERICKS | How DEI and Bud Light Died
I recorded this podcast with Anson Frericks, former Anheuser-Busch Executive, about a month ago before Trump took office and began putting the final nails in the coffin of "Diversity, Equity, and Inclusion," (DEI) at the federal level. But, even before that, we saw the decline and predicted the ultimate downfall of DEI initiatives with very notable cases such as the Bud Light fiasco and subsequent boycott. Now, with Target, Amazon, Harley-Davidson, and more notable companies are dismantling these dangerous and destructive ideologies. Today, Anson and I talk about, why we've seen such a huge cultural shift against these policies, why companies truly started these policies in the first place (it wasn't out of the goodness of their hearts), how consumers can take back culture through their purchasing power, and why DEI needs to die once and for all. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS 00:41 - The Power of Authentic Branding 03:37 - Corporate America and Censorship 07:02 - When Companies Prioritize Politics Over Customers 11:34 - The Bud Light Controversy and Corporate Backlash 15:59 - The Influence of ESG and DEI on Big Business 21:39 - The Fallout of Anheuser-Busch's Marketing Misstep 27:21 - Corporate America's Struggle with Political Pressure 33:46 - The Shift in Advertising and Audience Connection 40:00 - How COVID and Social Movements Shaped Corporate Policy 46:02 - The Role of BlackRock, Vanguard, and State Street 51:21 - The Future of Free Speech in Business 56:39 - The Power of Courageous Leadership in Shaping Industry 57:24 - The Next Era of Defense and Innovation Battle Planners: Pick yours up today! Order Ryan's new book, The Masculinity Manifesto. For more information on the Iron Council brotherhood. Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready

Will it Make the Boat Go Faster? | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES
In this episode of Friday Field Notes, Ryan Michler explores the powerful concept of "Will it Make the Boat Go Faster?", a mantra for making decisions that drive real progress. Inspired by Olympic rower Ben Hunt-Davis, Ryan shares how this mindset can be applied to career growth, relationships, health, and personal goals. He discusses the importance of setting clear objectives, testing strategies, and adjusting when necessary. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS 00:00 - Introduction to the concept 01:42 - The Olympic rowing story 03:12 - Applying the mantra to life 07:43 - Decision-making and pivoting 09:45 - The importance of self-review 12:00 - Measuring progress objectively 14:32 - Eliminating distractions and staying focused 16:47 - Upcoming event: The Men's Forge Battle Planners: Pick yours up today! Order Ryan's new book, The Masculinity Manifesto. For more information on the Iron Council brotherhood. Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready

Prioritizing Masculinity, Leading Your Leaders, and Boundaries vs. Walls | ASK ME ANYTHING
In this week's Ask Me Anything episode, Ryan Michler and Kipp Sorensen tackle a variety of topics, including building wealth, establishing healthy boundaries, and balancing hobbies with responsibilities. They explore how to lead effectively, the tiers of accountability, and the importance of fostering integrity in relationships and organizations. With personal insights, practical strategies, and engaging humor, Ryan and Kipp deliver actionable advice for men striving to improve their personal and professional lives. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS: 00:00 Headlines and Updates 13:52 Expanding Wealth and Financial Planning 24:12 Boundaries vs. Walls in Relationships 29:39 Masculine Projects and Fulfillment 34:28 Leading Leaders: Navigating Operational Challenges 44:51 Accountability: Supporting Others with Integrity 1:00:37 Becoming the Best Dad Possible 1:07:35 Strengthening Spiritual Practices Battle Planners: Pick yours up today! Order Ryan's new book, The Masculinity Manifesto. For more information on the Iron Council brotherhood. Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready

DR. ETHAN KROSS | How Men Manage Their Emotions
"Men aren't emotional." "Men are more logical than their female counterparts." "Men don't cry." These are all things you've heard whether they've been directed at you or not. But the reality paints a different story. Men are emotional. But that's not to say that we ought to let ourselves be led by our emotions alone. Dr. Ethan Kross understands this well as a man who researches how we, as humans, both feel and react to those feelings. Today, we talk about how to deal with intrusive thoughts, how to address the dark thoughts we often experience, what it actually means to "control" your emotions, how to become more emotionally fit, and how you can regulate your emotions – even the "negative" ones – so they don't regulate you. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS 00:00 - The Unwritten Rule About Men and Emotions 01:57 - Emotional Strength: A Navy SEAL's Perspective 03:32 - Can We Control Our Emotions? 06:57 - Dark Thoughts and Emotional Awareness 08:15 - Myths About Managing Emotions 13:43 - Emotions: Tools for Resilience and Growth 15:55 - The Link Between Love, Hate, and Emotional Investment 20:41 - The Art of Emotion Regulation 26:07 - Emotional Fitness: A Multi-Tool Approach 30:14 - The Power of Mental Time Travel 41:17 - Public Speaking and Emotional Influence 49:39 - Over-Regulation and Exhaustion 52:26 - Leveraging Environmental Regulators 55:10 - The Value of Negative Emotions 59:13 - The Power of Finding Common Ground 01:00:38 - Closing Thoughts and How to Connect with Ethan Kross Battle Planners: Pick yours up today! Order Ryan's new book, The Masculinity Manifesto. For more information on the Iron Council brotherhood. Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready

The Stories You Tell Yourself Define You as a Man | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES
In this episode of Friday Field Notes, Ryan Michler dives into the powerful concept of the stories men tell themselves and how these narratives shape their identity, success, and outlook on life. Ryan challenges listeners to rewrite negative scripts, adopt a victor mindset, and use their inner dialogue to build resilience and purpose. He emphasizes the importance of self-talk, taking responsibility, and reframing experiences as opportunities for growth. This inspiring episode will leave you reflecting on your own story and the impact it has on who you are and who you're becoming. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS 00:00 Introduction 02:30 The impact of stories on identity 04:50 Reframing negative narratives 09:10 Self-talk and identity shaping 15:50 Victim vs. victor mindset 22:25 Lessons from the words we use 31:50 Changing old stories 36:25 Closing thoughts Battle Planners: Pick yours up today! Order Ryan's new book, The Masculinity Manifesto. For more information on the Iron Council brotherhood. Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready

You Are Your Own Boss, What Men Value in Women, and Fighting Against Victimhood | ASK ME ANYTHING
In this "Ask Me Anything" episode, Ryan Michler and Kipp Sorensen tackle thought-provoking topics like entrepreneurial mindset, rediscovering drive after setbacks, and the dynamics of relationships. They answer listener questions on building self-discipline, explaining love to kids, and navigating life's challenges with resilience. Ryan and Kipp also share insights on avoiding victimhood and embracing personal responsibility, alongside their thoughts on leadership, success, and living intentionally. Packed with practical advice and inspiring conversations, this episode is a must-listen for anyone seeking to level up in life and relationships. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS 00:00 Introduction 04:02 You Are Your Own Boss 17:10 Non-Commercialized Gifts for Your Wife 20:16 Go-To Songs to Get Fired Up 24:40 Explaining Love to Preteens 31:22 Rediscovering Drive After Setbacks 42:32 Career, Status, and Relationships 51:16 Talking to Kids About Their Struggles 59:30 The Best Advice from Mentors 1:04:08 New Hunting Tactics Battle Planners: Pick yours up today! Order Ryan's new book, The Masculinity Manifesto. For more information on the Iron Council brotherhood. Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready

DONALD MILLER | Build Influence and Authority Through Telling Stories
Stories are what make the world go 'round. From selling a product, service, or podcast like this one, to dating, raising kids, and building friendships, the stories you tell yourself and others are going to either unlock doors and open opportunities…or close the doors before you even had to chance to see them there. Donald Miller is an expert storyteller and an expert and helping other people articulate and share theirs. Today, we talk about why humans are so interested in storytelling, what foundational elements make a good story, the importance of a "story loop," to get other to buy-in to what you're sharing by making them part of the story. Whether you're a marketing professional or just want to help your son deal with his first bully at school, this podcast is for you. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS 00:00 - Introduction 00:22 - Hobbies and Interests 00:53 - Fly Fishing Buddies 01:15 - Nashville and Culture 02:26 - Why Move to Nashville? 03:06 - Are People Really that Kind? 03:23 - Population Growth in Nashville 04:27 - Concerns about Assimilation 05:51 - Portland Used to be a Great City 07:44 - Austin is a Great City, too 08:40 - The Power of Stories 09:34 - Why are Stories so Powerful? 10:30 - Stories as an Attention Device 11:06 - Stories in the Bible 12:12 - Truth and Stories 12:17 - Stories Equip Us for Threats 13:03 - Stories Shape Identity 14:19 - What Sort of Stories Work? 14:28 - Braveheart and the Writer 15:39 - Cultures Shaped by Stories 16:52 - Personal Stories in Church 18:10 - Opening Story Loops 18:51 - Rom-Com Story Loops 20:11 - How to Open Story Loops 20:38 - Leadership and Story 23:05 - Casting a Vision 24:55 - Catastrophic Failure 25:23 - What is Your Family Against? 26:17 - A Structure for Family Life 27:21 - What is Your Family For? 28:11 - The Vibe of Your Family 28:50 - Sound Bites and Repetition 30:02 - Shaping Identity 31:18 - Context is Key 32:15 - Truth with a Capital "T" 33:09 - Hitler and Churchill 33:59 - Hitler's Narrative 35:18 - Territorial Sovereignty 36:19 - Xi Jinping's Narrative 37:54 - Moral Responsibility 38:50 - Don's Core Belief 40:17 - Israel and Palestine 41:20 - Missing Christ in the Israeli-Palestinian Narrative 41:54 - What Makes a Compelling Story? 42:18 - Compelling Story Elements 44:23 - External and Internal Journeys 45:04 - External, Internal, and Philosophical Conflict 48:04 - The Hero is Transformed 49:23 - Affirmation from Mentors 51:15 - The Market in Men 51:55 - John Eldridge 52:32 - Answering the Internal Struggle 52:59 - Separation from God 54:57 - God's Love is Immovable 55:41 - Human Love Needs Human Meriting 56:46 - Nancy Duarte 56:51 - Story of Bullying 58:50 - Bullies and Evil 59:17 - StoryBrandAI 01:00:59 - Telling Stories About Core Values 01:02:02 - The Power of AI in Storytelling 01:02:53 - Jocko Willink and Tough Narratives 01:03:24 - Conclusion and Where to Connect Battle Planners: Pick yours up today! Order Ryan's new book, The Masculinity Manifesto. For more information on the Iron Council brotherhood. Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready

5 Lessons Learned From the LA Fires | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES
In this episode of Friday Field Notes, Ryan Michler delves into the tragic events of the LA fires to uncover critical lessons about preparedness, responsibility, and leadership. He emphasizes the importance of self-reliance, accountability in governance, and practical approaches to safeguarding our families and communities. Drawing from real-world examples and personal reflections, Ryan challenges listeners to think critically about their own preparedness and role in protecting their loved ones. Tune in to discover five powerful lessons learned from this devastating event and how they can inspire you to become a better protector, provider, and presider in your own life. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS 00:00 Introduction 03:05 Scope of the LA fires 05:34 The importance of self-reliance 08:50 The government's ineptitude 15:09 Rejecting ineffective policies 20:06 Addressing crime and punishment 24:06 Balancing human needs with nature 27:26 Supporting disaster relief efforts Battle Planners: Pick yours up today! Order Ryan's new book, The Masculinity Manifesto. For more information on the Iron Council brotherhood. Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready

Overcoming Complacency, Communication is Key, and Correctly Comparing Yourself to Others | ASK ME ANYTHING
In this week's episode of Ask Me Anything, Ryan Michler takes on an engaging solo session to address viewers' thought-provoking questions. Covering topics like combating complacency, building confidence, improving communication, overcoming insomnia, escaping the comparison trap, and fostering a positive relationship with finances, Ryan delivers actionable advice and personal experiences. Packed with practical wisdom, this AMA is a must-listen for anyone seeking to enhance their mindset, leadership, and overall growth as a man. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS: 00:00 - Introduction 02:31 - Combating complacency 06:18 - Building confidence and resilience 16:46 - Communication skills and reading strategies 23:54 - Overcoming insomnia 29:46 - Breaking free from complacency 31:13 - Escaping the comparison trap 39:08 - Knowing when to pivot vs. quitting 46:42 - Coaching challenges with children 54:51 - Developing the right financial mindset Battle Planners: Pick yours up today! Order Ryan's new book, The Masculinity Manifesto. For more information on the Iron Council brotherhood. Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready

BRANDON MANCINE | Get Strong and Do Stuff
With the brand-new year, I figured it would be a good idea to talk with an expert on the topic of health and fitness. For almost 10 years, I've suggested that if a man is just getting on (or back on) the path of self-development, the gym is the best place to start. There are a lot of reason for this but I think my guest, Brandon Mancine would agree. Today, Brandon and I talk about three types of fitness goals every man should implement (all three have merit), why a broken past does not define you, weight-lifting benchmarks all men should hit (or be working towards), the importance of intelligent lifting – especially as we get older, getting over "ego lifting," and why now is the perfect time to get strong. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS 00:00 Introduction 00:53 Bodybuilding vs. Service 02:16 Defending Bodybuilders 02:57 Early perceptions of bodybuilders 04:57 Coaching 05:22 Ideal Physique 05:49 Social Media Perceptions 07:14 Personal Experience with CrossFit 07:43 Strength is Key 08:50 Speaking in Layman's Terms 10:06 Compound Movements 10:32 Strength Bias 11:31 Helping Clients Be Better Athletes 12:08 Questioning Others in the Gym 12:46 Crossfit Champions 13:42 Benchmarks 15:27 What is Strength? 16:37 Strength Training in the Physical Realm 17:27 What is the Core? 18:04 Butt Wink 18:47 Two Types of Clients 19:32 The Importance of Technique 20:45 Missing a PR 22:36 What is a PR? 23:03 Best Mover 24:43 Moving with Intention 24:55 Getting Over Ego 25:28 Importance of the Coach 26:32 Long Term Success 26:55 Principles of Fitness and Finances 27:50 Financial Planning During Market Crash 28:56 Applying These Principles to Fitness 29:46 Injuries and Training 30:59 Injuries as a Reason to Continue 31:41 Brandon's Accident 34:08 Current Squat 35:39 TRT Misconceptions 36:18 Focus of Training 36:33 Three Types of Goals 37:09 Lifestyle and Legacy Goal 38:07 Empowering Goal 38:23 Trap Bar Deadlift 39:19 Single Leg Deadlifts 40:14 "What kind of old person do you want to be?" 41:19 Keeping up with Kids 42:12 Impact of Strength Training on Athletes 43:10 Confidence and Ego 43:59 Sitting in the Parking Lot 45:16 Gym Community 46:16 Fear of Going to the Gym 47:42 Ryan's First Experience in CrossFit 48:39 Lifestyle Evolution vs. Lifestyle Change 50:55 Brandon Mancine's Mother's Story 53:43 Doctors 54:15 Realizing Potential 54:49 Connect with Brandon Mancine 55:52 Conclusion Battle Planners: Pick yours up today! Order Ryan's new book, The Masculinity Manifesto. For more information on the Iron Council brotherhood. Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready

Men and the Battle for Culture | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES
In this episode of Friday Field Notes, Ryan Michler dives into the pressing challenges men face in today's cultural landscape. From the battle for personal sovereignty to equipping families and communities with the tools to thrive, Ryan delivers actionable advice for reclaiming masculinity and creating meaningful change. He emphasizes the importance of fixing oneself first, engaging in local politics, and building networks of like-minded men to confront societal pressures. Tune in for an inspiring discussion on leadership, responsibility, and how men can shape the future for themselves and the next generation. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS 00:00 - Introduction 02:03 - Recognizing the Cultural Battle 07:59 - Fixing Yourself First 09:59 - Building Strong Families 12:49 - Engaging in Local Politics 15:55 - Enlisting Other Men in the Fight 22:10 - Conclusion Battle Planners: Pick yours up today! Order Ryan's new book, The Masculinity Manifesto. For more information on the Iron Council brotherhood. Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready

Internal Locus of Control, Victimhood Destroys You, and The Pitfalls of Sovereignty | ASK ME ANYTHING
In this week's Ask Me Anything episode, Ryan Michler and Kipp Sorensen tackle thought-provoking viewer questions about personal transformation, leadership, family dynamics, and overcoming challenges. From handling the balance between work and family to breaking free from nice guy syndrome, the conversation dives deep into actionable strategies for growth. Ryan and Kipp also explore boundaries in relationships, the dangers of victimhood, and how sovereignty ties into service. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS 00:00 - Introduction 12:39 - The "aha" moment and hitting rock bottom 19:38 - Leading your family like a business 27:21 - Quitting alcohol: The hardest part 32:10 - Overcoming nice guy syndrome 39:13 - Balancing self-improvement with family time 43:40 - Revisiting Sovereignty: Updates and dangers 54:40 - Setting boundaries in relationships 57:38 - Responding to gossip or backbiting 1:02:45 - Reading habits and preferences 1:07:08 - Origin and future of the group Battle Planners: Pick yours up today! Order Ryan's new book, The Masculinity Manifesto. For more information on the Iron Council brotherhood. Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready

Recapping the Best Moments of 2024
2024 has officially drawn to a close and, with all the incredible conversations I've had over the past 12 months, I thought it would be a good idea to recap some of the best moments from a dozen of the over 52 interviews I did. All this in one simple and easy place to hit the highlights! SHOW HIGHLIGHTS 0:00 - Episode Intro 2:50 - Adversity Introduces a Man to Himself (with Bedros Keuilian) 11:00 - Control the Controllable with Kyle Thompson 15:30 - How to Build Fierce Empathy with David Waldy 22:10 - How to Communicate Like a Man with Jefferson Fisher 26:52 - Own Your Sh*t with Dave Fielding 29:35 - Redefining Masculinity and Authenticity Online with Harrison Schenck 33:52 - The Crucial Difference Between Men and Women in Relationship with GS Youngblood 38:53 - The Powerful Role of Men in Society Today with Nick Freitas 44:10 - Trump's Assassination Attempt and Preparing for the Worst with Clint Emerson 49:13 - What's The Deal With Men's Mental Health? With John Delony 53:35 - How Porn Destroys Masculinity with Sathiya Sam 1:00:51 - Sexual Desire Differences Between the Sexes with Jackson Hightower Battle Planners: Pick yours up today! Order Ryan's new book, The Masculinity Manifesto. For more information on the Iron Council brotherhood. Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready

How a Man Builds Sovereignty in 2025 | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES
In this episode of Friday Field Notes, Ryan Michler delves into the concept of sovereignty and provides actionable insights for men to regain control over their lives in 2025. Ryan emphasizes the importance of personal responsibility, setting goals, maintaining health, and eliminating excuses to achieve freedom in every aspect of life. From creating a compelling vision to tightening finances, Ryan outlines a blueprint for building a strong foundation of self-reliance and leadership. This episode is a powerful guide for any man striving to become the best version of himself. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS 00:00 - Introduction 01:01 - Defining Sovereignty 02:11 - Have a Vision and Set Goals 06:56 - Importance of Quarterly Objectives 09:11 - Train Hard, Eat Clean, Sleep Well 14:48 - Eliminate Excuses 18:32 - Tap into the Spiritual Realm 21:39 - Tighten Your Finances 27:04 - Recap and Closing Thoughts Battle Planners: Pick yours up today! Order Ryan's new book, The Masculinity Manifesto. For more information on the Iron Council brotherhood. Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready

Trying Times with Kids, No More Jiu-Jitsu, and Preparing for Red Dawn | Ask Me Anything
In this Ask Me Anything episode, Ryan Michler and Kipp Sorensen dive into a range of personal, thought-provoking, and entertaining questions. From discussing family relationships and overcoming challenges to exploring martial arts and leadership principles, the conversation offers a mix of heartfelt insights and lighthearted moments. Kipp shares deeply personal reflections about his son's journey with Usher syndrome and the life lessons he's gained from it. The episode is packed with wisdom, humor, and inspiration for anyone looking to navigate life's challenges with grace and resilience. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS 00:00 Introduction and Opening Remarks 01:21 Neuroplasticity and Adult Learning 09:35 Fun and Provocative Questions Begin 10:29 Reflections on Past Relationships 14:03 Martial Arts Preferences and Insights 15:48 Parenting a Child with a Disability 26:23 Evolving "Order of Man" 28:21 Self-Reflection on Personal Characteristics 34:12 Lessons for Jesus Christ 37:00 Morality vs. Family Obligations 42:29 Historical Figures and Inspiration 46:05 Red Dawn Scenario and Preparedness 50:01 Career Aspirations Without Constraints 51:44 Constructive Feedback for Ryan 55:27 A Heartfelt Message to Kipp's Late Father 59:33 Closing Remarks Battle Planners: Pick yours up today! Order Ryan's new book, The Masculinity Manifesto. For more information on the Iron Council brotherhood. Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready

JOHN KIM | How a Man Leads in Relationships
Around this time of year, people begin to evaluate their life choices and circumstances. Relationships are no different. It's a great to reflect on what is working well, what isn't, and maybe even what is no longer worth pursuing. In fact, many people find themselves in break-ups, separation, and divorce on the tail-end of the holidays. My guest today, Licensed Therapist, John Kim, joins me to talk about the different types of break-ups and breakdowns that occur in romantic relationships. But we also talk about common themes you see in ending relationships (and, how to avoid them), the differences between healthy and unhealthy love, how ruptures in a relationship can lead to some of the biggest relational breakthroughs, how to communicate what you need without coming across needy, obnoxious, or over-bearing, and so much more. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS 00:00 – Episode Introduction 00:40 – The Reality of Breakups 01:50 – Intentionality in Relationships 03:19 – Types of Breakups: Understanding the Differences 07:09 – Healthy vs. Unhealthy Love 10:59 – Turning Breakups into Breakthroughs 15:15 – Balancing Self-Discipline and Self-Compassion 18:52 – Living in the Moment vs. Pursuing Goals 23:49 – Embracing Solitude and Self-Discovery 27:50 – Compromise vs. Self-Abandonment in Relationships 33:11 – Repairing Ruptures: Building Trust in Relationships 39:00 – Rewriting Your Narrative and Emotional Growth 43:12 – Swimming Past the Breakers: Building Resilient Love 50:09 – Reflecting on Expired Relationships 53:47 – 31 Days to Rebuild: A Practical Approach to Healing 57:19 – Therapy, Coaching, and Corrective Experiences Battle Planners: Pick yours up today! Order Ryan's new book, The Masculinity Manifesto. For more information on the Iron Council brotherhood. Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready

The 3-Part Formula for Starting Something New | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES
What if you could unlock the secret to overcoming fear and achieving success using a simple formula? In this week's Friday Field Notes, Ryan Michler unpacks a powerful three-part strategy designed to conquer the fear, uncertainty, and doubt holding many back from reaching their full potential. In this episode, Ryan emphasizes the importance of mindset, exploring how authenticity and a genuine self-assessment can help combat imposter syndrome. He discusses how harnessing past achievements can pave the way for future triumphs while offering practical advice on managing expectations and timelines to avoid discouragement. Learning from the greats like Elon Musk, Ryan delves into the art of effective mentorship and growth practices. He guides you through the world of free and paid resources that can help elevate your personal and professional journey. Hear personal stories about the pitfalls of ego and defensiveness, and discover how openness to feedback can supercharge your progress. By prioritizing guidance from those who've succeeded before you, this episode offers valuable insights into building a robust foundation for innovation and achievement. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS (00:00) Episode Intro (00:47) Overcoming Fear and Finding Success (08:57) Effective Mentorship and Growth Practices (14:32) The Three-Part Formula for Success (23:14) Social Media Growth and Holiday Greetings Battle Planners: Pick yours up today! Order Ryan's new book, The Masculinity Manifesto. For more information on the Iron Council brotherhood. Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready

Mental Resilience, High Stress, and a Winning Mindset | ASK ME ANYTHING
In this Ask Me Anything episode, Ryan Michler and Kipp Sorensen tackle a variety of thought-provoking topics, including mindfulness, overcoming resistance, and the impact of hustle culture on leadership. They share insights on planning for 2025, managing holiday stress, and navigating personal growth. With engaging viewer questions and practical strategies for improvement, this episode offers valuable lessons for anyone striving to lead a more intentional life. Ryan and Kipp also discuss the benefits of the Iron Council and how it supports men in their journey to success. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS 00:00 – Episode Introduction 00:40 – Headlines 09:25 – Mindfulness and Overcoming Resistance 19:00 – Planning and Measuring Goals for 2025 28:00 – Managing Holiday Stress and Anxiety 37:29 – Reflecting on the Year with a Defining Word 45:28 – Tackling New Challenges with the Right Mindset 49:19 – Hustle Culture and Its Impact on Leadership 53:20 – Leadership Strategies in Adverse Situations 01:03:49 – Iron Council and the Power of Community Battle Planners: Pick yours up today! Order Ryan's new book, The Masculinity Manifesto. For more information on the Iron Council brotherhood. Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready

Dan Hollaway | How to Become a Better Citizen
EIt seems to me that we're, collectively, waking up from a decades-long slumber as Americans. Maybe it's that we can't stand to see the direction of the country or, perhaps, it's a pure level of disdain and animosity towards our elected officials. Either way, it's good to see us getting more interested and involved than we have the in the past. My guest today, host of the Citizen Podcast and The Drinkin' Bros Podcast, Dan Hollaway joins me to talk about not only our rights as citizens but our obligations and responsibilities. We talk about what it means to be a good citizen, why we seem to get the worst of our people in politics, how to change the tide of American politics and culture through "State Nullification," why there are no rights without associated responsibilities, and the power of and ways men can get involved. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS 00:00 – Episode Introduction 00:30 – Scheduling Challenges 01:51 – The 24-Hour News Cycle and Media Speculation 03:49 – Principles of Debate and the Charity of Interpretation 07:09 – Hanlon's Razor and Understanding Motives 08:06 – Resilience and Defense in Depth 12:24 – Food Industry Issues and Individual Knowledge 13:56 – Second Amendment and Government Overreach 18:37 – Politicians, Power, and Distrust 23:30 – Nullification and State Rights 29:46 – Building Community and Supporting Local Efforts 37:58 – Local Politics and the Power of School Boards 42:25 – The Good Samaritan and Finding Purpose 49:41 – Aspirational Heroes and Cultural Responsibility 58:06 – Acting as the Man You Want to Be 01:01:27 – Closing Thoughts on Masculinity and Doing the Right Thing Battle Planners: Pick yours up today! Order Ryan's new book, The Masculinity Manifesto. For more information on the Iron Council brotherhood. Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready

Keep Calm and Be a Man | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES
Unlock the secret to unwavering composure and master the art of staying calm even in the most challenging situations. In this episode of Friday Field Notes, Ryan Michler offers eight actionable tips to cultivate calmness, teaching you how to manage emotional regulation effectively. Harness this skill to enhance decision-making and leadership capabilities, ensuring you navigate crises and emotional exchanges confidently and clearly. Understanding and managing personal triggers is crucial for maintaining a stress-free life. Ryan discusses techniques for identifying triggers and minimizing their impact, allowing you to control reactions and avoid overwhelm. Simplifying your life becomes the pathway to success, as we emphasize setting boundaries and focusing on key objectives. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS (00:00) Episode Intro (00:28) Maintaining Calm in Difficult Situations (04:20) Living Your Life With Purpose (17:04) Identifying and Managing Triggers (20:59) Simplifying Life for Success (31:50) The Iron Council for Brotherhood Battle Planners: Pick yours up today! Order Ryan's new book, The Masculinity Manifesto. For more information on the Iron Council brotherhood. Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready

Overcoming Regrets, Why Mission Solves Everything, and Why Young Men Need Responsibility | ASK ME ANYTHING
In this week's "Ask Me Anything" episode, Ryan Michler and Kipp Sorensen tackle the headline topics of overcoming regrets, the power of mission, and why young men need responsibility. They share practical advice on finding purpose, building emotional resilience, and learning from life's challenges. Viewers' questions include reflections on Christmas traditions, dating after divorce, goal-setting for young men, and personal achievements. Packed with humor, heartfelt moments, and actionable insights, this episode delivers a thought-provoking discussion on growth, responsibility, and becoming the man you're meant to be. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS: 00:00 - Episode Introduction 00:44 - Opening and Catching Up 06:13 - The Blackmail Systems in Politics 07:30 - Foreign Drones and Government Responses 14:50 - Best and Worst Christmas Presents 21:18 - Contribution Quadrant Goals 26:28 - Overcoming Regrets and Turning Them Into Growth 36:37 - Family Traditions for Christmas and New Year's 40:21 - Greatest Achievements of 2024 48:17 - Tactics to Overcome Self-Consciousness 57:16 - Tips for Dating in Your 30s 1:03:52 - Goal-Setting for Young Men: Responsibility and Resilience 1:09:23 - Call to Action and Closing Remarks Battle Planners: Pick yours up today! Order Ryan's new book, The Masculinity Manifesto. For more information on the Iron Council brotherhood. Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready

NICK BRYANT | How Political Blackmail Exacerbates Sex Scandals
We are without a shortage of sex scandals from Jeffrey Epstein to P. Diddy and, now implicated Jay-Z. But sex scandals from the highest echelons of entertainment, social elites, and political juggernauts are nothing new. In fact, Alexander Hamilton was once outed for having an affair with a married woman and Thomas Jefferson was proven to have been sleeping with his slave. Unfortunately, the trend continues with seemingly increasing high profile cases against these villains and their sexual improprieties. Today, I'm joined by investigative journalist, Nick Bryant to talk about his decades-long work against child sex-trafficking. Today, Nick and I talk about the similarities between Epstein and Diddy, why and how these blackmailing strategies turn into political weapons and assets, why these pedophiles get caught when they do, and what a man can do to protect his loved ones and serve a greater calling to destroy these rats. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS (00:00) Episode Intro (03:45) Child Trafficking and Sexual Exploitation Investigation (15:08) Political Blackmail and Power Networks (27:19) Exposing Political Blackmail and Corruption (40:10) Media Manipulation and Government Corruption (54:06) Criminal Links and Government Corruption (01:00:35) Maintaining Integrity in Investigative Journalism Battle Planners: Pick yours up today! Order Ryan's new book, The Masculinity Manifesto. For more information on the Iron Council brotherhood. Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready

Men: Masters of Disguise | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES
In this episode of Friday Field Notes, Ryan Michler delves into the challenges men face as they navigate mental, emotional, and spiritual struggles while often hiding behind a "Master of Disguise." Learn how to drop the bravado, build meaningful relationships, and address these challenges head-on. From fostering accountability to setting purposeful goals, this episode offers actionable insights to help you grow into the man you're meant to be. Discover the importance of investing in yourself and embracing vulnerability in appropriate ways, all while striving for strength and balance. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS 00:00 - Introduction 01:41 - Addressing Mental and Emotional Struggles 06:05 - Building Supportive Friendships 10:25 - Being the Friend You Need 18:05 - Fitness as a Mental and Emotional Anchor 20:32 - Hobbies That Uplift and Challenge 24:09 - Setting Purposeful Goals 28:38 - Dropping the Armor: Final Thoughts Battle Planners: Pick yours up today! Order Ryan's new book, The Masculinity Manifesto. For more information on the Iron Council brotherhood. Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready
An Appeal to Authority, How Men Are Respected, and Ruthless Assertiveness | ASK ME ANYTHING
In this week's "Ask Me Anything" episode, Ryan and Kipp dive into thought-provoking discussions on authority, respect, and assertiveness. They unpack the dangers of blindly appealing to authority, explore how men value respect in relationships, and share practical advice on cultivating a growth mindset in hiring and dating. Listener questions cover diverse topics, including fostering accountability in teenagers, strengthening marriages, and finding motivation for personal and professional growth. With powerful insights, humor, and actionable takeaways, this episode is a must-listen for men striving to lead with purpose and conviction. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS 00:00 - Episode Introduction 00:40 - Opening 02:43 - Headlines: COVID Report Insights 12:57 - Listener Question: Growth Mindset in Hiring and Dating 28:12 - Plans for 2025 and Daily Non-Negotiables 37:24 - Book Recommendations 42:33 - Advice: Career, Marriage, and Kids 53:11 - Addressing Teenage Accountability 01:02:48 - Marriage Challenges and Staying Together 01:08:18 - Turning Wants Into Needs and Finding Motivation 01:14:18 - Closing Remarks Battle Planners: Pick yours up today! Order Ryan's new book, The Masculinity Manifesto. For more information on the Iron Council brotherhood. Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready

JOSH SMITH | Breaking Foreign Supply Chains Through American-Made
It's no secret that, during COVID, we began to see how bad the foreign supply chain crisis was. That woke a lot of people up to the reality of importing cheap products from overseas, adversarial countries. But we've spent the last century closing American manufacturing facilities and exporting our American jobs overseas. With new potential tariffs (which I believe are more of an economic bargaining tool to Trump), we again are starring down the barrel of high prices for everyday goods. That's part of the reason, I love what Josh Smith, Founder of Montana Knife Company is doing in a small town called Frenchtown in Montana. He's putting Americans to work building American products – specifically, hunting, tactical, and culinary knives. Today we talk about the challenges with starting American-Made companies, what you're likely to hear from competitors when you do, why growth isn't always so linear and there are no overnight successes, why foreign markets are unfair business partnerships, and learning to build a business from the ground up – literally. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS: (00:00) Building Relationships and Hunting Stories (11:08) Knife Making and Hunting Stories (15:37) Special Forces Knife Design Inspiration (21:43) Examining Veteran Stories and Critique (27:48) Balancing Public Image and Personal Life (35:50) Knife Making Ethics and Production (45:58) American Manufacturing, Tariffs, and Government Spending (59:17) Building American Manufacturing and Relationships Battle Planners: Pick yours up today! Order Ryan's new book, The Masculinity Manifesto. For more information on the Iron Council brotherhood. Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready

How to Get More Respect | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES
In this episode of Friday Field Notes, Ryan Michler dives into the essential steps to earn true respect in every area of life—personal relationships, career, and self-worth. Highlighting the importance of boundaries, effective communication, consistency, and character, he shares actionable advice for building a reputation that commands admiration. From managing your time and commitments to making confident decisions, Ryan unpacks how respect is cultivated through intentional actions rather than empty words. Listeners will also learn the "confidence-competence continuum" and why dressing, speaking, and presenting yourself matter. Whether for work or home, these principles empower you to become a man worthy of respect. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS 00:00 - Introduction 00:07 - The Love Language of Men is Respect 02:56 - Establishing Boundaries 07:37 - Effective Communication 12:12 - Following Through on Commitments 14:58 - Presenting Yourself Well 23:01 - The Power of Consistency 26:19 - Building Character Through Small Actions 30:36 - Acting with the Right Motives 34:45 - The Confidence-Competence Continuum 37:51 - The Importance of Decision-Making 44:05 - Final Thoughts and Iron Council Promotion 44:59 - Call to Action and Episode Closing Battle Planners: Pick yours up today! Order Ryan's new book, The Masculinity Manifesto. For more information on the Iron Council brotherhood. Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready

Consumerism, Guilty Consciences, and Crippling Anxiety | ASK ME ANYTHING
In this episode of Ask Me Anything, Ryan Michler and Kipp Sorensen dive into a candid discussion about the relentless cycle of consumerism, exploring how modern holiday traditions have strayed from their meaningful roots. They share insights on battling guilt when taking personal time and the importance of setting boundaries to balance self-care and family commitments. Tackling anxiety in relationships, they offer practical advice for fostering mutual growth and understanding. The duo also discusses the profound impact of teaching responsibility to children and how intentional goal-setting can transform personal and professional lives. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS: 00:00 - Intro and Thanksgiving Reflections 02:10 - The Problem with Modern Consumerism 06:15 - Knowledge vs. Application 19:07 - Teaching Kids Responsibility 27:15 - Extreme Ownership: When Is It Too Much? 42:44 - Navigating Anxiety in Relationships 52:15 - Goals That Move the Needle 58:19 - Dealing with Guilt Over Self-Care 1:04:33 - Staying Patient During Chaos 1:19:26 - Closing Thoughts Battle Planners: Pick yours up today! Order Ryan's new book, The Masculinity Manifesto. For more information on the Iron Council brotherhood. Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready

BEAR HANDLON | Too Dumb to Fail?
One thing I've noticed with the over 500 guests I've had on the podcast is that they're all relentless in their chosen pursuit. I've also noticed that all of them think they're too dumb (to some degree) to fail – meaning they realize how crucial it is to be stubborn and hard-headed enough to keep going when all the "smart" people would quit. My guest today, former Navy SEAL and founder of Born Primitive, Bear Handlon, is no exception. Today, Bear and I talk about cutting against the grain, why the VA is failing our veterans, why so many men are unwilling to take risks in their lives, how he would have done things differently, and when to burn the boats. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS: (00:00) Episode Intro (01:08) Guest Introduction (04:47) Supporting Veterans Through Debt Relief (13:53) Navigating VA Healthcare System Challenges (17:16) Taking Advantage of Veteran Benefits (24:55) The Realities of Entrepreneurship (33:34) Balancing Side Hustle and Relationships (45:13) Following Passion Despite Family Opposition (47:49) Entrepreneurial Reflections and Risk-Taking (54:12) Embracing Risk and Business Evolution (01:06:09) Supporting Veterans Through Authentic Brands Battle Planners: Pick yours up today! Order Ryan's new book, The Masculinity Manifesto. For more information on the Iron Council brotherhood. Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready

A Heart of Gratitude | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES
In this episode of Friday Field Notes, Ryan Michler dives into the transformative power of gratitude. Reflecting on personal struggles and triumphs, Ryan shares how gratitude has shaped his journey through life's challenges. From personal relationships to professional growth, gratitude serves as a lens to reframe adversity and embrace opportunities. Ryan explores how choosing gratitude can unlock growth, resilience, and connection in both personal and collective pursuits. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS 00:00: Episode Intro 00:40: Opening and reflections on Thanksgiving 02:45: Personal gratitude for family and loved ones 03:53: Gratitude in struggles and growth through adversity 06:17: Finding common ground in societal challenges 07:46: Vision for 2025 and community achievements 08:35: Closing thoughts on gratitude and perspective Battle Planners: Pick yours up today! Order Ryan's new book, The Masculinity Manifesto. For more information on the Iron Council brotherhood. Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready

Establishing Boundaries, Father Legacy, and Networking Properly | ASK ME ANYTHING
In this episode of Ask Me Anything, Ryan Michler and Kipp Sorensen tackle meaningful networking, managing emotional resilience, balancing parental involvement, and setting boundaries for peaceful family gatherings. They explore what it means to be a man, honoring traditions, and building trust while fostering growth in others. From navigating life's challenges with empathy to modeling leadership in everyday interactions, this conversation offers actionable insights and thought-provoking discussions for personal and professional growth. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS (00:00) Episode Introduction (00:40) Headlines (07:42) The Importance of Transparency in Leadership (18:38) Question: Networking for Success (30:14) Question: Supporting Others Through Suffering (38:23) Question: Balancing Parental Involvement (46:46) Question: Setting Boundaries for Holiday Gatherings (01:00:16) Question: What It Means to Be a Good Man (01:09:10) Thanksgiving Traditions and Reflections (01:16:25) Closing Thoughts and Call to Action Battle Planners: Pick yours up today! Order Ryan's new book, The Masculinity Manifesto. For more information on the Iron Council brotherhood. Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready

SATHIYA SAM | How Porn Destroys Masculinity
EEvery man listening to this podcast has been exposed to pornography. I remember the first time I saw a Playboy (it was a certain Baywatch actress) when I was 12-years-old. It changed my life and, not in a good way. At the time, I thought it did but all the research suggests that the sooner a young man is introduced to pornography, the more challenges with it he'll likely face. Your story is probably not so different. My guest today, Sathiya Sam, has made a movement out of helping men overcome their pornography addictions. And, on today's podcast, we talk about the crucial distinction between shame and guilt (and, which one you can use to effect change), why porn is considered a "supernormal stimulant," why tracking abstinence streaks don't work but tracking trends do, the role of legislation in combating the pornography industry, and the four most damaging factors to your health when consuming porn. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS (00:00) Episode Intro (03:00) Breaking the Shame Cycle (08:38) Effects of Pornography on Empathy (19:51) Unlearning Pornographic Influences in Marriage (24:04) Reversing Pornography's Effects (34:27) Roots-Based Approach to Recovery (47:34) Impact of Technology on Intimacy (52:40) Fatherhood, Empathy, and Pornography Recovery (57:04) Role of Legislation in Combating Pornography (01:05:54) Recovery Resources for Porn Addiction Read about Sathiya's latest book: https://deepclean.sathiyasam.com/orderofman Battle Planners: Pick yours up today! Order Ryan's new book, The Masculinity Manifesto. For more information on the Iron Council brotherhood. Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready

Why So Mad? | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES
Anger isn't the enemy—it's how we respond to it that matters. In this episode, Ryan Michler dives deep into understanding and managing anger, exploring why it arises and how it can be transformed into a productive force. He shares six powerful strategies to help you regulate emotions, bridge the integrity gap, and align your actions with your values. Whether it's dealing with family, work, or personal challenges, learn how to turn anger into a tool for growth, leadership, and lasting impact. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS: 00:00 - Episode Introduction 00:48 - The Nature of Anger 02:36 - Responding Positively to Anger 04:45 - Courage to Disengage 06:57 - Bridging the Integrity Gap 12:00 - Eliminating Agitators 16:44 - Lowering Expectations, Not Standards 19:49 - Focusing on Internal Locus of Control 25:15 - Keeping Your Eye on the Prize 35:12 - Conclusion and Upcoming Episode Battle Planners: Pick yours up today! Order Ryan's new book, The Masculinity Manifesto. For more information on the Iron Council brotherhood. Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready
Being the Mean Dad, Networking for Work, and Dealing with Difficult Conversations | ASK ME ANYTHING
In this episode of Ask Me Anything, Ryan Michler tackles tough but essential topics, including how to navigate difficult conversations with loved ones, balance nurturing and discipline as a parent, and build a strong network to reignite your career. He explores strategies for boosting self-esteem through meaningful commitments, setting boundaries in relationships, and handling the emotional challenges of parenting. From tips on starting over professionally to finding common ground in contentious discussions, this Ask Me Anything session delivers actionable insights for personal growth and leadership. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS (00:00) Episode Intro (00:45) Accountability in Government Spending (07:52) Morning Routine and Building Confidence (11:25) Maintaining Commitments and Addressing Anti-Semitism (25:22) Navigating Difficult Conversations and Boundaries (31:29) Financial Stability and Relationship Communication (41:53) Parenting and Nurturing Adolescents (53:54) Family Dynamics and Communication Strategies (59:58) Supporting YouTube Growth and Connectivity Battle Planners: Pick yours up today! Order Ryan's new book, The Masculinity Manifesto. For more information on the Iron Council brotherhood. Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready

What's The Deal With Men's Mental Health? With John Delony
Men's mental health is an issue that is getting a lot more attention than even when I started this podcast just 9 years ago. In fact, men are falling behind in so many metrics from graduation and college attendance rates, to declining health, incarceration, and even suicide rates. But what is causing this rising trend in the demise of men's mental, physical, and emotion health? My guest, John Delony, is here to explain some of the biggest culprits in the modern issues that plague so many men. Today, we talk about the paradox of empathy and toughness as we relate to each other and children, the importance of making "line-in-the-stand" commitments, the difference between complacency and satisfaction, why men need to work on projects together, and why "all in," is the only way to live. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS: (00:00) Episode Intro (04:15) Father-Son Hunting Adventures (07:45) Building Emotional Resilience in Parenting (18:59) Navigating Modern Relationships and Commitment (28:34) Navigating Risk and Satisfaction in Life (40:49) Finding Anchoring in a Lost Generation (44:33) Building Brotherhood Through Shared Responsibility (51:33) Navigating Male Mental Health Challenges (58:25) Knowing One's Self-Worth and Masculinity (01:05:50) The Importance of Authenticity and Courage Battle Planners: Pick yours up today! Order Ryan's new book, The Masculinity Manifesto. For more information on the Iron Council brotherhood. Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready

Lessons Learned in Divorce | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES
Can recognizing relationship red flags early save a marriage? In this week's Friday Field Notes, Ryan Michler reflects on lessons from his 18-year marriage and divorce, emphasizing how minor issues, if ignored, can snowball into major challenges. He highlights the power of proactive communication and self-growth. Ryan shares strategies for navigating divorce with grace, focusing on personal responsibility, parenting, and self-care, while avoiding spiteful behavior. He also explores male empowerment and collective growth, offering insights from friends like Keith Yackey to inspire hope, resilience, and a thriving future. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS (00:00) Episode Intro (00:38) Lessons Learned From Personal Divorce (10:39) Moving Forward After Divorce (15:41) Navigating Divorce With Grace and Purpose (21:50) Empowering Men Through Collective Growth Battle Planners: Pick yours up today! Order Ryan's new book, The Masculinity Manifesto. For more information on the Iron Council brotherhood. Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready

External Validation, Liberals and Conservatives, and the Void in Leadership | ASK ME ANYTHING
In this week's Ask me Anything, Ryan and Kipp discuss the meticulous preparation required for bow hunting and share a personal story of a missed opportunity that underscores the importance of vigilance and readiness. It's a broader reflection on the life lesson of embracing new opportunities, even when they come with uncertainties. They also touch on the recent political shifts in the U.S., expressing optimism about the change in leadership with Trump's election victory, while also acknowledging some concerns about his character. Next, they tackle the intricacies of government spending and the implications of executive orders, drawing parallels to Elon Musk's acquisition of Twitter as a model for efficient operations. The discussion broadens to consider the concept of nationwide reciprocity for concealed carry permits, emphasizing the need for legislative processes to curb presidential overreach. By exploring voter motivations in the 2020 election, they highlight the importance of understanding different perspectives, fostering a more empathetic political discourse. In the final chapters, they shift gears to explore leadership, personal growth, and community engagement. From the formation of regional teams within the Iron Council to the power of delegation and support, they emphasize the importance of creating environments where others can lead and innovate. They examine the balance between external validation and self-worth, providing insights into how personal experiences shape our motivations and resilience. Finally, they highlight the value of regional meetups and the opportunities for connection within the Order of Man community, inviting listeners to join them for future discussions and insights. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS - (00:00) Episode Intro - (00:45) Trump's Election Victory and Policy Impact - (08:49) Government Spending, Reciprocity, and Executive Orders - (15:30) Chain of Command in Iron Council - (25:20) Leadership Through Delegation and Support - (33:23) Balancing External Validation and Self-Worth - (44:58) Exploring New Literature and Political Alignments - (49:09) Political Alignment and Independent Thinking - (01:01:36) Balancing Fun and Exercise - (01:05:18) Regional Meetups and Community Connection Battle Planners: Pick yours up today! Order Ryan's new book, The Masculinity Manifesto. For more information on the Iron Council brotherhood. Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready

RICKSON GRACIE | The Art and Science of Invisible Jiu-Jitsu
You guys have heard me talk about Jiu-Jitsu ad nauseum but what you may not have heard me talk too much about is the often-overlooked invisible form of the martial art that has taken over the world of MMA and combat sports. This is not about submitting or disabling an opponent on the mats but how the lessons learned on the mats apply to your everyday life. I can think of no better person to share his knowledge and depth of experience than one of the toughest men in the "First Family" of Jiu-Jitsu, Rickson Gracie. Today, Rickson and I talk about managing fear, how to find a mission more important than your life, how to keep your identity secure although you may lose one element of who you are, the importance of a balanced approach to being a warrior, why base on the mats and off is so crucial, and the power of respecting and honoring your intuition. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS (00:00) Episode Intro (00:40) Adapting Positively to Life's Challenges (08:43) Harnessing Fear for Success (17:31) Embracing Legacy and Overcoming Challenges (25:29) The Power of Invisible Jiu-Jitsu (40:48) Intuitive Decision Making and Relationships (57:43) The Last Fight of Inspiration Battle Planners: Pick yours up today! Order Ryan's new book, The Masculinity Manifesto. For more information on the Iron Council brotherhood. Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready

"Toxic Masculinity" Stereotypes | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES
Ryan Michler believes traditional masculinity isn't inherently toxic; it's simply misunderstood. In this episode, he unravels the complexities surrounding toxic masculinity, challenging the myths that paint masculinity as harmful. Drawing on a pivotal 2019 study by the American Psychological Association, Ryan highlights the critical need for a balanced understanding of masculinity's role in society, emphasizing that traditional masculine traits—when constructively channeled—can bring comfort, security, and innovation. Ryan's discussion explores men and women as complementary forces, underscoring the indispensable contributions of men to societal progress. He delves into "righteous aggression," a principle that advocates for assertive yet patient action against wrongdoing. By clarifying misconceptions around stoicism, he shows that it's about emotional regulation rather than suppression, fostering resilience and enhancing communication. Through personal stories, Ryan demonstrates the power of true masculinity in protection, provision, and leadership. He calls on men to be role models who redefine masculinity by embodying strength through positive actions, helping create a culture where authentic masculinity is celebrated and visible. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS: (00:00) Episode Intro (00:40) Addressing Toxic Masculinity Misconceptions (16:36) The Principles of Righteous Aggression (29:56) Embodying True Masculinity Through Example Battle Planners: Pick yours up today! Order Ryan's new book, The Masculinity Manifesto. For more information on the Iron Council brotherhood. Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready

Non-Traditional Men's Therapy, Leaders Getting Out of The Way, and Why Consequences Matter | ASK ME ANYTHING
Ryan Michler and Kipp Sorenson explore Hickson Gracie's influence on MMA and how his dominance, despite not competing in early UFC events, laid the foundation for the sport. They discuss the Gracie family's strategic choice of Royce Gracie to showcase jiu-jitsu's power through a smaller fighter in the first UFC and examine early MMA's bare-knuckle fighting style and its impact on safety and techniques. The conversation then shifts to men's mental health, as they advocate for hobbies like jiu-jitsu or hiking as therapy alternatives. They also touch on leadership and parenting, focusing on resilience, autonomy, and stress's role in growth, while promoting personal agency in belief systems and institutions. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS (00:00) Episode Intro (00:40) Hickson Gracie's Impact on MMA (07:46) Men's Resistance to Traditional Therapy (18:21) Parenting and Shaping Resilience in Children (30:34) Empowering Leadership Through Trust and Respect (35:55) Leadership Through Autonomy and Ownership (41:51) Parenting With Discipline and Love (53:58) Personal Sovereignty and Agency in Belief Battle Planners: Pick yours up today! Order Ryan's new book, The Masculinity Manifesto. For more information on the Iron Council brotherhood. Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready

ROBIN DREEKE | Forging Unbreakable Alliances
We all know how crucial it is to build alliances in our lives and, yet, most men aren't real deliberate and intentional about how they do it. Think about it, most of your connections are a product of default proximity, not rational design – your neighbor, your brother, the guy that works down the hall from you, etc. So, how do you form and nurture these strategic relationships. Robin Dreeke joins me today to share his knowledge as a former FBI behavioral analysist, and spy recruiter. We discuss the power of non-judgmental curiosity, the 4 keys of effective communication, how to analyze a person's behaviors and motives quickly, including an analysis of the positive and negative characteristics of both Kamala Harris and Donald Trump, how to strategize trust with others, and why some men can read people well while others can't. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS (00:00) Episode Intro (03:40) The Power of Human Connection (16:06) Building Balanced Reciprocal Relationships (22:15) Navigating Controversial Conversations With Empathy (30:33) Assessing Emotional vs Pragmatic Conversations (38:09) Assessing Personalities Beyond Script and Media (43:57) Assessing People Through Ground Truth (53:26) Strategizing Trust in Intelligence Operations (01:04:45) Promoting "Unbreakable Alliances" With Robin Dreeke Battle Planners: Pick yours up today! Order Ryan's new book, The Masculinity Manifesto. For more information on the Iron Council brotherhood. Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready

How to Influence People (And, Why You Should) | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES
Is influence different from manipulation, or just a different shade? In this episode, Ryan Michler breaks down the art of building true influence, essential for leaders in any realm—family, business, or community. Through ten practical strategies grounded in integrity, Ryan explores how influence can elevate our interactions by aligning personal goals with broader values, creating outcomes that benefit everyone involved. Influence isn't just for the workplace; it's woven into daily life, from guiding your kids to closing deals. With relatable examples—from Donald Trump's connection with blue-collar voters to Kamala Harris's attempts at relatability—Ryan uncovers the power of genuine connection, honesty, and setting clear boundaries. By leading with care and maintaining consistency, we can build trust-filled relationships that last. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS (00:00) Episode Intro (00:40) Building Influence With Integrity (04:38) The Power of Honesty and Influence (14:36) Solving Problems Through Connection (19:31) Connecting Through Relatability (23:08) Firm and Fair Approach in Relationships (33:34) Be a Man of Your Word (37:45) Consistency Builds Trust Battle Planners: Pick yours up today! Order Ryan's new book, The Masculinity Manifesto. For more information on the Iron Council brotherhood. Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready

The Difference Between Quitting and Pivoting, Application Over Knowledge, & Maintaining Priorities | ASK ME ANYTHING
Navigating life's challenges with integrity and purpose requires a commitment to personal priorities. By allowing children to face their own obstacles, we nurture resilience and growth. Ryan Michler and Kipp Sorensen explore the importance of honest self-assessment and celebrate others' achievements as sources of inspiration rather than envy. The idea is to stay true to our paths, even amidst external pressures, ensuring that our decisions reflect what truly matters to us. Finally, Ryan and Kipp embrace the chaos of daily life with strategies that emphasize moral integrity and personal growth. They reflect on the balance between discipline and flexibility, whether it's about maintaining workout routines on vacation or making healthier choices while dining out. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS - (00:40) Episode Intro - (00:40) Hunting Mindset and Resilience Teachings - (09:56) Prioritizing Growth and Personal Development - (17:31) The Power of Pivoting - (29:15) Balancing Discipline and Practical Application - (38:00) Navigating Overthinking and Overaction - (51:43) Maintaining Moral Integrity in Chaos - (57:38) Battle Against the Natural Man - (01:05:24) Man Camp Experience Battle Planners: Pick yours up today! Order Ryan's new book, The Masculinity Manifesto. For more information on the Iron Council brotherhood. Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready

JEFFERSON FISHER | How to Communicate Like a Man
I've made it a personal rule, when I'm offended, to chalk it up to people's inability to communicate effectively. It's proven to be useful and, typically, correct. But how can the activity we engage in more than anything else (with the exception of sleep) be something so many men are horribly deficient with? That's a question my guest, Jefferson Fisher, has spend decades understanding and, over the last several years, teaching over 10,000,000 of his social media followers how to address. Today Jefferson and I talk about avoiding miscommunication, how to be assertive in communication – but not an asshole, when diplomacy and advocacy connect and contradict, why learning not to, "take the bait" of others will serve you, learning the rules of the communication game, and why control, confidence, and connection will set you apart. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS - (00:00) Episode Intro - (03:40) Effective Communication and Assertive Conversations - (18:10) Direct Communication for Difficult Conversations - (22:48) Respectful and Considerate Communication Skills - (34:09) Navigating Egos in Professional Interactions - (46:16) Personal Rules and Self-Advocacy in Communication - (55:04) Parenting and Professional Likability - (01:00:09) Authentic Communication and Self-Evaluation - (01:09:38) Podcast Connection and Shared Mindset Battle Planners: Pick yours up today! Order Ryan's new book, The Masculinity Manifesto. For more information on the Iron Council brotherhood. Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready

5 Ways to Bolster Your Confidence as a Man | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES
Unlock the keys to unshakable confidence and self-assurance in this episode of Friday Field Notes, where Ryan Michlers tells us how to harness the power of self-validation over external approval. Discover the profound impact of honoring personal commitments and how they lay the foundation for integrity and resilience, propelling you toward genuine influence and opportunity. Ryan deep dives into the importance of understanding the motives behind your successes and the true value of building confidence through self-awareness and introspection. Expect actionable insights that will help you reflect on your journey and steer it toward self-growth and improvement. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS (00:00) Episode Intro (00:50) Building Confidence and Security as Men (15:21) Strengthening Confidence and Security (22:43) MensForge Battle Planners: Pick yours up today! Order Ryan's new book, The Masculinity Manifesto. For more information on the Iron Council brotherhood. Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready
Rigging the Election, Owning Unnecessary Stuff, and Showing Up Powerfully | ASK ME ANYTHING
This Ask Me Anything episode dives into critical themes of election rigging, the burden of owning unnecessary stuff, and showing up powerfully. Ryan Michler and Kipp Sorensen explore how misleading FBI crime statistics and media manipulation erode public trust, impacting political narratives and elections. Transparency and active participation are essential in fighting this, and they challenge listeners to engage fully in the democratic process. Personal growth is also discussed, emphasizing that investing in experiences, relationships, and self-improvement leads to deeper fulfillment than material possessions. From political engagement to simplifying life and focusing on what truly matters, Ryan and Kipp encourage everyone to take action and commit to their personal and societal roles with integrity. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS (00:00) Episode Intro (00:42) Trust, Transparency, and Manipulation (10:47) Importance of Political Involvement (17:38) Interview Preparation and Taking Initiative (26:04) National Sovereignty and Financial Control (38:48) Commitment and Progress in Life (45:09) Investments in Fulfillment and Happiness (54:54) Inclusivity in the Iron Council (01:04:11) Men's Forge Collaboration Event Announcement Battle Planners: Pick yours up today! Order Ryan's new book, The Masculinity Manifesto. For more information on the Iron Council brotherhood. Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready
DR. WARREN FARRELL | Male Privilege/Power: Fact or Fiction?
Many of us have been accused of perpetuating the concept of male privilege and male power. Heaven forbid a man uses his God-given talents and abilities to lift his people up. But too many misguided and damaged souls tend to see only the worst parts of the men in their vicinity or, on social media and in the bright light of the entertainment industry. Those men, in no way, are indicative of the general consensus of men and, yet, many still view men as the premier problem in society today. My guest today, Dr. Warren Farrell, helps unpack why that is not the case and, if anything how genuine men are the cure to many of the ailments of modern times. We talk about why "men's issues" are not just men's issues, the differences in what language men and women speak, the male equivalents of the feminist movement, why men are more interested in garnering respect than love, the dreaded "V-word" (vulnerability), and 6 mindsets to form powerful connections between men and women. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS (00:00) Episode Intro (04:10) The Boy Crisis and Male Identity (14:54) Reframing Power and Responsibility in Men (29:18) Gender Dynamics in Communication and Relationships (41:47) Improving Communication in Relationships (53:10) The Art of Non-Defensive Communication (01:04:01) Deepening Love Through Relationship Practices (01:13:16) Enhancing Relationships Through Active Listening Battle Planners: Pick yours up today! Order Ryan's new book, The Masculinity Manifesto. For more information on the Iron Council brotherhood. Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready
Anxiously Engaged in the Fight | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES
Unlock the secret to choosing battles that truly matter and become the hero of your own story. In this week's Friday Field Notes, Ryan Michler explores the powerful notion of being "anxiously engaged in the fight," inspired by Mormon doctrine, and how it can guide us in aligning our efforts with personal beliefs and societal impact. Discover five essential strategies to ensure your fight is both meaningful and successful, as we discuss the concept of personal sovereignty and the pursuit of worthy causes. Hear Ryan's personal anecdotes that illustrate the power of enlisting allies who believe in you, reinforcing the significance of support systems in the battles you choose to engage in. Tune in for an inspiring episode filled with insights that will empower you to tackle your chosen battles with clarity and conviction. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS (00:42) Episode Intro (00:42) Anxiously Engaged (14:32) Battle Strategy and Allies in Victory Battle Planners: Pick yours up today! Order Ryan's new book, The Masculinity Manifesto. For more information on the Iron Council brotherhood. Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready

Challenging Polls, Cherishing Legacies, and Embracing Personal Growth | ASK ME ANYTHING
In an era of manipulated narratives, skepticism towards polling reliability is crucial, urging us to make informed voting decisions based on what matters. We encourage seeking information from trusted sources while avoiding mainstream distractions, inspired by figures like RFK, Tulsi Gabbard, and Elon Musk. Shifting focus, we delve into the art of storytelling and the importance of preserving family legacies, especially narratives tied to significant historical events like World War II. By documenting these stories, we aim to inspire future generations to connect with their roots. Additionally, we explore personal growth through evolving goals and embracing challenges, highlighting Covey's principles on productivity. We stress adaptability and the importance of viewing challenges as opportunities for growth, and overcoming obstacles. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS (00:00) Episode Intro (00:38) Importance of Staying Informed and Voting (10:43) Reflecting on Family Legacies and Growth (22:04) Evolving Goals and Personal Growth (27:28) Overcoming Organizational Hurdles for Success (31:18) Embracing Unreasonable Actions for Growth (34:57) Personal Growth and Embracing Transformation (41:53) Embracing Growth Through Challenges (56:05) Leadership, Success, and Personal Growth (01:04:55) Wedding Stress and Post-Workout Nutrition Battle Planners: Pick yours up today! Order Ryan's new book, The Masculinity Manifesto. For more information on the Iron Council brotherhood. Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready