One Degree Marriage: a Christian Marriage Podcast for Couples Who Want to Grow
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No. 25: Gender Roles in Marriage Pt. 2: Husbands
This episode is part two of a mini-series on Gender Roles in Marriage! Last week, in Episode No. 24, we talked about what the Bible actually says about the role of wives in marriage. This week, it's all about the husbands. Like we said last week, please don't dismiss what we have to say, give it some thought and prayer, and examine what we say against the Bible, and see for yourself if what we are saying is accurate and true. What does Scripture have to say about husbands and the role of men in marriage? To be clear, we're specifically talking about husbands and wives, not gender roles in general for men and women. FREEBIES FOR YOU: Are We On the Same Page? Spouse Evaluation 12 Questions to Ask in Your Weekly Marriage Meeting Guide to Reading Your Bible CONNECT The Sibleys Co. Website | The Sibley Shop | The Nightly Recap JournalMentioned in this episode:Download the FREE Weekly Marriage Meeting TemplateDownload the FREE Weekly Marriage Meeting Template at onedegreemarriage.com/meetingMarch Marriage Challengehttps://onedegreemarriage.com/challenge?utm_source=podcast&utm_medium=preroll
No. 24: Gender Roles in Marriage Pt. 1: Wives
We're going to do a mini two-week series on Gender Roles in Marriage, and this week, we're starting with wives. Right off the bat, please don't dismiss what we have to say, give it some thought and prayer, and examine what we say against the Bible, and see for yourself if what we are saying is accurate and true. What does Scripture have to say about wives and the role of women in marriage? To be clear, we're specifically talking about husbands and wives, not gender roles in general for men and women. SHOW NOTES THE SIBLEYS INSTAGRAMMentioned in this episode:Download the FREE Weekly Marriage Meeting TemplateDownload the FREE Weekly Marriage Meeting Template at onedegreemarriage.com/meetingMarch Marriage Challengehttps://onedegreemarriage.com/challenge?utm_source=podcast&utm_medium=preroll
No. 23: Why We Don't Want to Raise Good Kids
Today we're sitting down to chat all things biblical parenting. We'll answer questions about: What is the goal of biblical parenting? Can I guarantee that my children will be believers? How can I disciple my children? Can I be friends with my kids? Before we dive in, we want to give a little caveat. We're only 3 years into parenting, so we're humbly recognizing our limitations in perspective, experience, and wisdom in parenting. But we're able to look to Scripture for wisdom, so the Bible is what we're relying on here. SHOW NOTES THE SIBLEYS INSTAGRAM Mentioned in this episode:Download the FREE Weekly Marriage Meeting TemplateDownload the FREE Weekly Marriage Meeting Template at onedegreemarriage.com/meetingMarch Marriage Challengehttps://onedegreemarriage.com/challenge?utm_source=podcast&utm_medium=preroll
No. 22: Do You Know What You Believe?
If you don't know what the Bible says for yourself, everything you hear about it will sound like truth. In this episode, we're talking about whether or not you know what you believe and why that is important. We're not necessarily talking about your political, scientific, social, etc... beliefs (although these are definitely important). We're talking about your theological beliefs. What do you believe about God, Scripture, Jesus, salvation, etc...? Hopefully, a solid theological foundation will transcend and shape your beliefs on other things. FREEBIES FOR YOU: Guide to Reading Your Bible Are We On the Same Page? Spouse Evaluation 12 Questions to Ask in Your Weekly Marriage Meeting CONNECT The Sibleys Co. Website | The Sibley Shop | THE SIBLEYS INSTAGRAM Mentioned in this episode:Download the FREE Weekly Marriage Meeting TemplateDownload the FREE Weekly Marriage Meeting Template at onedegreemarriage.com/meetingMarch Marriage Challengehttps://onedegreemarriage.com/challenge?utm_source=podcast&utm_medium=preroll
No. 21: How to Date Your Spouse
It can be easy to "date your spouse" when you are newlywed. But what happens when you and your spouse have been married for a few years, you have a newborn baby, and you are exhausted? You may not even be able to remember the last time you took a walk or had a deep conversation with your spouse. You're tired, the romance is not natural, and the deep conversations don't come effortlessly anymore. This is likely a scenario that most married couples can empathize with. In this episode, we dig into 6 principles to keep in mind when trying to date your spouse! FREEBIES FOR YOU: Are We On the Same Page? Spouse Evaluation 12 Questions to Ask in Your Weekly Marriage Meeting Guide to Reading Your Bible CONNECT The Sibleys Co. Website | The Sibley Shop | One Degree Instagram | Xan's Instagram | Nathaniel's Instagram | Pinterest Mentioned in this episode:March Marriage Challengehttps://onedegreemarriage.com/challenge?utm_source=podcast&utm_medium=prerollDownload the FREE Weekly Marriage Meeting TemplateDownload the FREE Weekly Marriage Meeting Template at onedegreemarriage.com/meeting
No. 20: Should I Have Sex with My Spouse Even When I Don't Want To? and Responses to Other Listener Qs
This Q&A we're diving into questions submitted by YOU all about marriage. We put up a question box on Instagram and our emails and y'all gave us some good questions. We answer questions about: What to do when one spouse wants sex and the other doesn't Disagreements between spouses How to handle tricky in-laws FREEBIES FOR YOU: Are We On the Same Page? Spouse Evaluation 12 Questions to Ask in Your Weekly Marriage Meeting Guide to Reading Your Bible CONNECT The Sibleys Co. Website | The Sibley Shop | One Degree Instagram | Xan's Instagram | Nathaniel's Instagram | Pinterest Mentioned in this episode:March Marriage Challengehttps://onedegreemarriage.com/challenge?utm_source=podcast&utm_medium=prerollDownload the FREE Weekly Marriage Meeting TemplateDownload the FREE Weekly Marriage Meeting Template at onedegreemarriage.com/meeting
No. 19: What's the Difference Between Rest and Leisure?
If you're feeling burnt out and in need of some true rest, this is for you. What is the difference between rest and leisure? Does it matter what activities I do in order to find rest? Why can't I seem to hold on to that feeling of being well-rested? In this episode, we discuss what rest and leisure are and how true rest can only be found in God. We dig into what Scripture has to say about rest, its purpose, and how we can truly experience it. FREEBIES FOR YOU: Are We On the Same Page? Spouse Evaluation 12 Questions to Ask in Your Weekly Marriage Meeting Guide to Reading Your Bible CONNECT The Sibleys Co. Website | The Sibley Shop | One Degree Instagram | Xan's Instagram | Nathaniel's Instagram | Pinterest Mentioned in this episode:Download the FREE Weekly Marriage Meeting TemplateDownload the FREE Weekly Marriage Meeting Template at onedegreemarriage.com/meetingMarch Marriage Challengehttps://onedegreemarriage.com/challenge?utm_source=podcast&utm_medium=preroll
No. 18: Are You and Your Spouse on The Same Page?
Is your marriage where you want it to be? The majority of us, if we answered completely honestly, would probably say that our marriage has room to grow. In this episode we discuss: how to implement regular rhythms of communication why your family's unique purpose is important the importance of determining your family values how to evaluate your values and whether your time reflects them Download the WEEKLY MARRIAGE MEETING QUESTIONS HERE. Download the "Are we on the same page?" spouse evaluation HERE. For more on this topic, listen to Episode No. 2: Establishing Healthy Rhythms for Couples + Families CONNECT Website | One Degree Instagram | Xan's Instagram | Nathaniel's Instagram | PinterestMentioned in this episode:Download the FREE Weekly Marriage Meeting TemplateDownload the FREE Weekly Marriage Meeting Template at onedegreemarriage.com/meetingMarch Marriage Challengehttps://onedegreemarriage.com/challenge?utm_source=podcast&utm_medium=preroll
No. 17: How to Prioritize Reading Your Bible While Parenting Littles
"Quiet time" just ain't quiet with little kids around. And it sure can be hard to stay consistent with Bible reading when you're in the trenches of raising babies and toddlers. But we know the importance of being in and transformed by the Word, so let's talk about it. In this episode we discuss: why we should desire the read the Bible in the first place practical ways to prioritize Scripture with kids around how to give ourselves grace while maintaining discipline in this season CONNECT Website | One Degree Instagram | Xan's Instagram | Nathaniel's Instagram | PinterestMentioned in this episode:March Marriage Challengehttps://onedegreemarriage.com/challenge?utm_source=podcast&utm_medium=prerollDownload the FREE Weekly Marriage Meeting TemplateDownload the FREE Weekly Marriage Meeting Template at onedegreemarriage.com/meeting
No. 16: What to Look For in a Future Spouse
Marriage is a serious commitment, so we should absolutely take seriously the qualities of the spouse we're looking to marry. In this episode, we break down: focusing on becoming someone who would be a godly spouse first the type of person you should desire to become 4 qualities to look for in a future spouse when dating 4 principles to remember as you're pursuing marraige CONNECT Website | One Degree Instagram | Xan's Instagram | Nathaniel's Instagram | PinterestMentioned in this episode:March Marriage Challengehttps://onedegreemarriage.com/challenge?utm_source=podcast&utm_medium=prerollDownload the FREE Weekly Marriage Meeting TemplateDownload the FREE Weekly Marriage Meeting Template at onedegreemarriage.com/meeting
No. 15: Singleness Isn't Second-Tier
Whether you feel called to singleness for an extended period, or are currently single but desiring to get married one day, this episoded is for you. We dive into what the Bible says about singleness, the benefits of singleness, a proper persepctive on marriage, and what attitude we should have as believers when we don't have something we're currently desiring. If you've ever felt (consciously or unconsciously) like singleness was a second-tier status in the Christian culture, be sure to tune in. CONNECT Website | One Degree Instagram | Xan's Instagram | Nathaniel's Instagram | PinterestMentioned in this episode:March Marriage Challengehttps://onedegreemarriage.com/challenge?utm_source=podcast&utm_medium=prerollDownload the FREE Weekly Marriage Meeting TemplateDownload the FREE Weekly Marriage Meeting Template at onedegreemarriage.com/meeting
No. 14: Who's Holding You Accountable?
We were never designed to follow Jesus in isolation. Fighting sin and pursuing holiness isn't intended to be done alone. Accountability with our fellow brothers and sisters in Christ is essential, and in this episode we break down why, as well as how to even go about creating spaces for accountability with our fellow believers. CONNECT Website | One Degree Instagram | Xan's Instagram | Nathaniel's Instagram | PinterestMentioned in this episode:March Marriage Challengehttps://onedegreemarriage.com/challenge?utm_source=podcast&utm_medium=prerollDownload the FREE Weekly Marriage Meeting TemplateDownload the FREE Weekly Marriage Meeting Template at onedegreemarriage.com/meeting
No. 13: Approaching Health, Wellness, & Natural Living as a Believer
What's all the buzz around "nontoxic living"? Should being a Christian change our approach to exercise, sleep, food choices, and the types of products we fill our home with? In this episode we get real about two different camps people in our communities often fall into: the camp that tends to not take as good of care of their physical health, and the camp that tends to hold their control of their physical health maybe a little too tightly. As always, we get into what the Bible says, and practically flesh out how this should transform our lives. CONNECT Website | One Degree Instagram | Xan's Instagram | Nathaniel's Instagram | Pinterest Mentioned in this episode:Download the FREE Weekly Marriage Meeting TemplateDownload the FREE Weekly Marriage Meeting Template at onedegreemarriage.com/meetingMarch Marriage Challengehttps://onedegreemarriage.com/challenge?utm_source=podcast&utm_medium=preroll
No. 12: What Does it Mean for Husbands to be Spiritual Leaders in Their Homes?
There's often a lot of talk about husbands being "spiritual leaders" in their homes, but what does that even look like? What does Scripture say about spiritual leadership? How can a husband love and lead his wife and family well? What do the different roles in marriage look like in execution? In this episode we dive into the answers to all of the above questions and more. We pray this episode is of very practical encouragement to husbands, or men preparing for marriage in their singleness and dating. CONNECT Website | One Degree Instagram | Xan's Instagram | Nathaniel's Instagram | Pinterest Mentioned in this episode:Download the FREE Weekly Marriage Meeting TemplateDownload the FREE Weekly Marriage Meeting Template at onedegreemarriage.com/meetingMarch Marriage Challengehttps://onedegreemarriage.com/challenge?utm_source=podcast&utm_medium=preroll
No. 11: Listener Q&A: Marriage, Family, Advice, Our Daily Life, & Lots of In-Betweens
You, as listeners, asked us questions (via Instagram) ranging from, "How did you get to have so may intentional routines?", "What's the hardest thing in marriage and how did we get through it?", "What's your biggest tip for 2 under 2?", to some personal, and some just funny questions about life. This episode is so fun and we loved being able to hear from YOU, our listeners to steer the convo! CONNECT Website | One Degree Instagram | Xan's Instagram | Nathaniel's Instagram | Pinterest Mentioned in this episode:Download the FREE Weekly Marriage Meeting TemplateDownload the FREE Weekly Marriage Meeting Template at onedegreemarriage.com/meetingMarch Marriage Challengehttps://onedegreemarriage.com/challenge?utm_source=podcast&utm_medium=preroll
No. 10: Let's Talk About Sex, Baby – Conversations Christians Tend to Shy From
Why is sex intended for marriage? What effect did purity culture have on our perspective of sex in marriage? How will I know I'm physically compatible with someone if we wait for marriage? How can a married couple grow in their sex life? Is masturbation a sin? What about oral sex? This is a topic that is rarely talked about from a Christian perspective, but we believe it's important to be open and honest about what we wish we knew before we got married. While this episode will be beneficial for you whether you are single, engaged, or married, if you are struggling with sexual sin and think this episode may be more harmful than beneficial please refrain from listening. The last thing we want to do is hinder someone's personal pursuit of holiness. CONNECT Website | One Degree Instagram | Xan's Instagram | Nathaniel's Instagram | Pinterest Mentioned in this episode:Download the FREE Weekly Marriage Meeting TemplateDownload the FREE Weekly Marriage Meeting Template at onedegreemarriage.com/meetingMarch Marriage Challengehttps://onedegreemarriage.com/challenge?utm_source=podcast&utm_medium=preroll
No. 09: How Do I Find Community and Godly People to Speak Into My Life?
I want godly friends and mentors, but where do I even start to find them? What should community look like within the church? How do I make friends in my 20s when I'm in a totally new season of life? On today's episode we'll dive into all these questions and more as we discuss a topic we're so passionate about – biblical community. It's changed our lives and our prayer is that you find biblical community for yourself that will change your life. Join as as we discuss: What types of community we should be looking for What comunity should look like within the church How to initiate friendships even when it's hard or unnatural The importance of genuine, in-person hospitality in a digital age How to invite friends into your existing rhythms and routines of life Ways to serve others The importance of vulnerability and apologies The need for speaking truth in love CONNECT Website | One Degree Instagram | Xan's Instagram | Nathaniel's Instagram | Pinterest Mentioned in this episode:March Marriage Challengehttps://onedegreemarriage.com/challenge?utm_source=podcast&utm_medium=prerollDownload the FREE Weekly Marriage Meeting TemplateDownload the FREE Weekly Marriage Meeting Template at onedegreemarriage.com/meeting
No. 08: Money Talks – Stewarding Wealth, Debt, Retirement, and More
Is all debt bad? How do I make a budget? What does the Bible really say about money? How do I steward my personal finances well? When and how should I start thinking about retirement? How much money should I have before getting married? As followers of Jesus, Christians ought to recognize that while money is not inherently evil, it is both powerful and dangerous. Therefore, the way that we view money should be distinctly different from how most people do. In this episode, we discuss: What the Bible has to say about the topic of money Why so many millionaires become broke Some sobering statistics about personal finances How to fight against the love of money Practical ways to get started budgeting How we should view debts such as mortgages, student loans, car payments, and credit card debt When and how to start thinking about retirement How much money we need to be prepared for marriage CONNECT Website | One Degree Instagram | Xan's Instagram | Nathaniel's Instagram | Pinterest Mentioned in this episode:Download the FREE Weekly Marriage Meeting TemplateDownload the FREE Weekly Marriage Meeting Template at onedegreemarriage.com/meetingMarch Marriage Challengehttps://onedegreemarriage.com/challenge?utm_source=podcast&utm_medium=preroll
No. 07: How To Read Your Bible: Getting Started or Going Deeper
Reading your Bible isn't about checking a box or "doing the right thing" that "Christians are supposed to do." It's a gift of getting to know the Creator of the Universe. To be able to truly love someone, we must first know them, and to know God, we must first read about who He says He is. In this episode we discuss: Why we should even desire to read our Bibles in the first place Whether the Bible is truly worth believing Practical steps to take to start reading the Bible for the first time Setting a plan for studying your Bible regularly The difference between topical and book studies What our focus should be on as we read Methods for reflecting on and learning from Scripture FREE GUIDE TO GETTING STARTED READING YOUR BIBLE CONNECT Website | One Degree Instagram | Xan's Instagram | Nathaniel's Instagram | Pinterest Mentioned in this episode:Download the FREE Weekly Marriage Meeting TemplateDownload the FREE Weekly Marriage Meeting Template at onedegreemarriage.com/meetingMarch Marriage Challengehttps://onedegreemarriage.com/challenge?utm_source=podcast&utm_medium=preroll
No. 06: Fighting Well and Resolving Conflict in Marriage
What's the number one cause of conflict in marriage? What are practical ways to prevent conflict with the one we love? And when that conflict inevitably comes at some point, how do we resolve it in a loving, Biblical way? Let's chat about all those things in this episode. Annnnd get the whole low-down on the biggest fight we've had to date. CONNECT Website | One Degree Instagram | Xan's Instagram | Nathaniel's Instagram | Pinterest Mentioned in this episode:Download the FREE Weekly Marriage Meeting TemplateDownload the FREE Weekly Marriage Meeting Template at onedegreemarriage.com/meetingMarch Marriage Challengehttps://onedegreemarriage.com/challenge?utm_source=podcast&utm_medium=preroll
No. 05: 5 Ways to Slow Down Your Life
How do I slow down when I have so many responsibilities? How do I get silence and rest when I have little ones? In a culture of hurry, hustle, and bustle the tension between keeping up and desperately desiring to change pace is real. In this episode we discusss: Why we need rest and how we were designed for it How to implement a Sabbath in your weekly rhythms Fighting technology addictions and habits to restore rest in our minds The importance of regular silence and solitude How to practically slow down in our daily lives, despite all of life's demands CONNECT Website | One Degree Instagram | Xan's Instagram | Nathaniel's Instagram | Pinterest Mentioned in this episode:March Marriage Challengehttps://onedegreemarriage.com/challenge?utm_source=podcast&utm_medium=prerollDownload the FREE Weekly Marriage Meeting TemplateDownload the FREE Weekly Marriage Meeting Template at onedegreemarriage.com/meeting
No. 04: How Do I Know Where God is Calling Me?
How do I know if this is God's will? What is His calling on my life? Should I major in this or that? Am I supposed to move here or there? Am I supposed to take this job or that job? Is this something He's calling me to or is just something I, in my flesh, am wanting? These are all common questions we as followers of Jesus find ourselves asking at one point or another. In this episode, we discuss: What a "calling" even means in the first place What we're all called to as followers of Jesus Biblical examples of faithful followers What to ask to practically determind what God is calling you to do Discerning what passions and opportunities God has uniquely given you The importance of receiving counsel from fellow, mature believers This episode was brought to you by Butcherbox – our go-to for the highest quality meat delivered right to our door. We love to stock our freezer with our BB meat. As a listener of this show, use this link to get FREE BACON for life when you place your first order. CONNECT Website | One Degree Instagram | Xan's Instagram | Nathaniel's Instagram | Pinterest GET MORE FROM THIS EPISODE View full show notes on the blog. Mentioned in this episode:March Marriage Challengehttps://onedegreemarriage.com/challenge?utm_source=podcast&utm_medium=prerollDownload the FREE Weekly Marriage Meeting TemplateDownload the FREE Weekly Marriage Meeting Template at onedegreemarriage.com/meeting
No. 03: Ungratefulness Breeds Discontentment
What we give our attention to tends to grow. What if our outlook on life has more to do with our internal heart condition than our external circumstances? In this episode we discuss: How we tend to view inconveniences as a society Examples of gratefulness and ungratefulness in our own lives How to become more grateful people How the Gospel transforms our perspective on it all This epsiode was brought to you by Butcher Box, our fave place to get high quality, organic meat delivered right to our door. Use THIS LINK for an exclusive gift with your first order. CONNECT Website | One Degree Instagram | Xan's Instagram | Nathaniel's Instagram | Pinterest GET MORE FROM THIS EPISODE View full show notes on the blog.Mentioned in this episode:Download the FREE Weekly Marriage Meeting TemplateDownload the FREE Weekly Marriage Meeting Template at onedegreemarriage.com/meetingMarch Marriage Challengehttps://onedegreemarriage.com/challenge?utm_source=podcast&utm_medium=preroll
No. 02: Establishing Healthy Rhythms for Couples + Families
In this episode we discuss: Why we need to be intentional with our relationships and families The importance of having a goal and healthy rhythms Encouragement for a spouse who wants to be intentional with communication and rhythms but is facing resistance from their spouse Some of our regular rhythms This epsiode was brought to you by Thrive Market, our fave place to get healthy, organic groceries and snacks delivered right to our door. Use THIS LINK for 40% off your first order today. RESOURCES 3 Big Questions for a Frantic Family by Patrick Lencioni CONNECT Website | One Degree Instagram | Xan's Instagram | Nathaniel's Instagram | Pinterest GET MORE FROM THIS EPISODE View full show notes on the blog.Mentioned in this episode:Download the FREE Weekly Marriage Meeting TemplateDownload the FREE Weekly Marriage Meeting Template at onedegreemarriage.com/meetingMarch Marriage Challengehttps://onedegreemarriage.com/challenge?utm_source=podcast&utm_medium=preroll
No. 01: In a Culture of Quick Fixes, Play the Long Game
Playing the long game. A phrase we say a whole lot around here. What does it mean to make choices that intentionally benefit who we want to be in the longrun versus just satisfying an immediate desire? In this episode we'll share a little bit more about ourselves, dive into why the long game matters, and how to practically implement habits and disciplines today to become who you want to be. This epsiode was brought to you by Thrive Market, our fave place to get healthy, organic groceries and snacks delivered right to our door. Use THIS LINK for 40% off your first order today. RESOURCES Atomic Habits by James Clear CONNECT Website | One Degree Instagram | Xan's Instagram | Nathaniel's Instagram | Pinterest GET MORE FROM THIS EPISODE View full show notes on the blog.Mentioned in this episode:Download the FREE Weekly Marriage Meeting TemplateDownload the FREE Weekly Marriage Meeting Template at onedegreemarriage.com/meetingMarch Marriage Challengehttps://onedegreemarriage.com/challenge?utm_source=podcast&utm_medium=preroll
Ep 1No. 00: Behind the Name "One Degree"
If you are a follower of Jesus, you are over the culture of quick fixes and cutting corners, you crave honest conversations about real life, and you like feeling like the people in your earbuds are your new best friends, you are in the right place. Grab a seat on our virtual cozy couch and join the honest conversation. We are Nathaniel and Xan Sibley, your hosts, and we are passionate about equipping you with the tools you need to be faithful in every area of your life, whether you're a college student pulling all nighters to finish writing papers, or a parent pulling all nighters to tend to tiny humans. We are all in this together, and there is a place for you. ONE DEGREE INSTAGRAM ONE DEGREE SHOW NOTES Mentioned in this episode:March Marriage Challengehttps://onedegreemarriage.com/challenge?utm_source=podcast&utm_medium=prerollDownload the FREE Weekly Marriage Meeting TemplateDownload the FREE Weekly Marriage Meeting Template at onedegreemarriage.com/meeting