On Purpose with Jay Shetty

You can order my new book 8 RULES OF LOVE at 8rulesoflove.com or at a retail store near you. You can also get the chance to see me live on my first ever world tour. This is a 90 minute interactive show where I will take you on a journey of finding, keeping and even letting go of love. Head to jayshettytour.com and find out if I'll be in a city near you. Thank you so much for all your support - I hope to see you soon.On this episode of On Purpose, I sat down with Gabrielle Bernstein. Gabby is a speaker and #1 New York Times bestselling author. She shares her essential methods for manifesting a life beyond your wildest dreams in her Latest book: Super Attractor.By doing less we attract more. Gabby helps us unpack behaviors that are blocking us from receiving our desires & teaches us to see difficult moments as opportunities that are revealing to you what you still need to heal. Text Jay Shetty 310-997-4177 See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

I am absolutely fascinated by exploring the insights of love and relationships. Understanding the depths of a connection is the key to whether two people are right or wrong for each other. All things that matter to our lives, they take time. There's effort, there's mistakes, there's learning, and there's growing - no shortcuts. Making big decisions based on a small amount of information isn't productive. You think you know their heart, but you just know their mind. Text Jay Shetty 310-997-4177 See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

On this episode of On Purpose, I sat down with writer and public speaker Brendon Burchard, who was named by Oprah.com 'one of the most successful online trainers in history.' At 19 Brendon was in a horrific car accident and it taught him that at the end of life, we all ask: Did I really live my life? Did I love? Did I matter? You must know the questions you ask at the end of your life to evaluate whether or not you lived to your full-potential. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

What does small talk do to our minds and our experiences? Small talk limits us from deep meaningful relationships, not just with others but with ourselves as well. How often do you go to an event and have the same conversation? You stop learning, you stop listening and leave feeling unsatisfied. The more genuine, authentic, vulnerable & empathetic discussions that we have, the deeper our relationships goes and the higher our quality of happiness. Text Jay Shetty 310-997-4177 See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

On this episode of On Purpose, I sat down with Anna Akana. Anna is an American actress, filmmaker, musician, author, and comedian. She is most known for her massive presence on YouTube. Anna’s experience losing her 13-year-old sister to suicide when she 17 taught her that ultimately age is a gift that comes with wisdom. She's destigmatizing the way we feel about mental health issues & reminding us that we are not alone and your voice matters to at-least one person. Text Jay Shetty 310-997-4177 See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

I believe that preparation for 2020 starts right now, It doesn't start in January. You need to start letting go of those things that blocked you from doing well. Expecting things from others is one of the biggest blocks to your growth. Today you'll learn how to stop expecting closure, apologies, explanations, understanding, belief & validation from others. When you remove all expectations, you gain power no one can ever challenge and you will see your life change. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

On this episode of On Purpose, I sat down with Deepak Chopra. Deepak is the founder of the Chopra Foundation, and a world-renowned pioneer in integrative medicine and personal transformation. Deepak shares that we must let love creep in and allow it to become the healer and motivation for everything we do. He urges us to remember we are not our experiences or external results and reminds us to get into the habit of realigning daily & witnessing our mental space .” See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

On this episode of On Purpose, I sat down with Craig Kielburger. Craig is an internationally-acclaimed speaker, social entrepreneur, and co-founder or WE Charity, which inspires people to empower themselves to make a significant positive impact on the world. Craig reminds us that the greatest thing we can do for ourselves is help someone else. He shares that serving doesn't just make others feel good, its physical and mental benefits can help lengthen your lifespan. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

On this episode of On Purpose, I sat down with Kate Bosworth. Kate is an actress, activist, and producer. Kate now stars in and produced the Netflix Sci-fi series The I-Land. She shares her current experience of hitting exhaustion spiritually & mentally, and tuning into vulnerability. Kate reminds us to approach life through an observational point of view, instead of a controlling one. She urges us to ask: what fortifies our spirits & connects with our hearts. Text Jay Shetty 310-997-4177 See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

When’s the last time you reflected on your social media use and your purpose for being on a platform? Creating and consuming content comes down to a place of personal discipline. The desire for competition, comparison, criticism, and gossip has always been there, and this is why having an intentional relationship with social media is crucial. My encouragement and recommendation is to share good, follow good, and create good. Text Jay Shetty 310-997-4177 See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

On this episode of On Purpose, I sat down with Hasan Minhaj. Hasan is a first generation American, and is a comedian, actor, and the host and creator of the weekly comedy series Patriot Act. Hasan shares that he was fired from every previous job he’s ever had, and the value of relentlessly trying new things until you find work worth doing. He reminds us of the challenges that come with making great art and to always be specific with the message you want to share. Text Jay Shetty 310-997-4177 See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Do you find yourself trying to convince your friends and family to change, but nothing seems to work? It’s important for us to understand how the process of change works within us and others so we can become more effective in our approach. In this episode you'll learn what the most successful people have in common, and why the action of unlearning is crucial to your transformation. Let's get rid of all the bad lessons you learned and replace them today. Text Jay Shetty 310-997-4177 See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

On this episode of On Purpose, I sat down with Robert Waldinger. Robert is a Harvard psychiatrist, psychoanalyst, and Zen priest. He’s the director of the longest study on adult life and happiness. Robert reminds us that having a person you can call in the middle of the night when you are scared or sick is what keeps us happier and healthier. He shares that it takes vulnerability to have meaningful relationships, but the rewards are always worth the risk of rejection. Text Jay Shetty 310-997-4177See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Do you find it difficult to make decisions without hearing the noise of people's expectations, obligations, and opinions? I want you to make room for your intuition, your intention, and what your soul is really yearning for. When you live with your intuition, life actually becomes simpler because it's clearer how you want to invest it and why. Let the voice of your intuition be the loudest voice you hear. Text Jay Shetty 310-997-4177 See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

On this episode of On Purpose, I sat down with Eva Longoria. Eva is an award-winning actress, producer, director, entrepreneur, philanthropist and known for her work on Desperate Housewives. Eva believes the biggest myth about philanthropy is that you have to be rich and famous to make a difference. She adds, “When we don’t have a seat at the table, innovation doesn’t service our community”. In this episode you’ll learn what giving back truly means, and how to start today. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Are you currently feeling stuck? If you’ve been working toward your goals and feel you aren’t getting the results you are looking for, this episode will help you tremendously. The key to achieving your goals is to quickly dial into the 3 C’s: Consistency, Community, and Coaching from a mentor. You may have one of the three down, but you’ll learn why no long-term growth is sustainable without them all. Commit to the three C's & growth will follow. - Jay Shetty See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

On this episode of On Purpose, I sat down with Dr. Rangan Chatterjee. Dr. Chatterjee is one of the most influential doctors in the UK and wants to change how medicine will be practiced for years to come. He shares that people without a strong sense of purpose have poor health outcomes, lower levels of income and happiness. Dr. Chatterjee simplifies health, what stops us from taking action, the best morning & night routine and the importance of setting the bar low at the start.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Ever feel like you've been in the same relationship over and over? It’s important for us to learn the lessons from them and move forward. We all need to feel significant, but we need to be clear on what type we want with our partner and create it in a healthy way and not just wherever we find it. I want you to be able to save yourself money, time and energy. This episode will help you become more aware and focused on what you’re truly looking for and not what “feels right” in the moment. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

On this episode of On Purpose, I sat down with Kenneth Cole. Kenneth is a designer, activist, and married father of three. He speaks on the importance of resourcefulness for finding solutions to a closed door. How do we get from here to where we need to? Kenneth reminds us there’s an infinite amount of alternatives, and it’s up to us to refocus the lens on which we see obstacles. This episode will inspire creative insights to help get you to your desires. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Have you seen The Joker? This film fascinated me. I’ve been through moments of depression and really low-points, so I watched it from the perspective of a student of mental health. My favorite quote from the film was, “The worst part about having a mental illness is that people expect you to behave as if you don’t.” Have you ever felt this? In this episode, I want to help break the stigma of mental health and give you the tools to improve yours. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

On this episode of On Purpose, I sat down with Khloe Kardashian. Khloe is most well-known for her role on the reality television series Keeping Up With The Kardashians. She shares the importance of taking responsibility for your pain, and the need to regularly self-reflect. Khloe reminds us that we should never invalidate other people's feelings, and how to rise above the negativity of social media. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

14 years ago I started my personal journey with meditation, learning, self development and personal growth. For a decade, I’ve shared my thoughts on psychology, philosophy, behavioral science and spirituality. I distilled all the above into this book. If you want to master the mind, who do you go to? Monks. In this episode we’ll dive into the themes of the book which will help you build a life on your own terms. https://thinklikeamonkbook.com/A Word From Our Sponsors:https://zapier.com/JAY for your free 14-day trial.https://blinkist.com/jay try it FREE for 7 days AND save 25% off your newsubscription.$49 deal at https://tryveestro.com/JAYReceive 15% off at https://foursigmatic.com/PURPOSE See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

On this episode of On Purpose, I sat down with Laurie Santos. Laurie is most known for her Yale course “Psychology and the Good Life”. We discussed how our minds are sucky, and lie to us constantly. Laurie reminds us that external accolades will never bring long-term happiness, and that strong social connections are what we should be aiming for. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

"Jay, how do I start?" is a question I get asked a lot. Whether you want to start making videos, launch a podcast or try anything new, the first step can be the hardest. After we start, we expect instant results or wonder why it isn't working. Starting something is a process. As I've studied people I admire and am inspired by, I've observed 5-phases of growth. Listen in on this episode to learn how to recognize which phase of growth you're in and how to accelerate your growth remarkably. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

On this episode of On Purpose, I sat down with Marc Randolph. Marc is a Silicon Valley entrepreneur, investor and mentor. Marc was co-founder of Netflix, and CEO until his retirement from the company in 2003. Marc shares how to get started if you feel stuck, and why even the best ideas don’t really matter. You’ll also learn his best marriage advice and what to look for in a mentor. His approach to business and life will forever change your perspective on both. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

So many of us need to refuel, rebuild and or redo a relationship. Whether it’s with a friend, parent or spouse, this is the episode where you’ll learn ways to rebuild trust, and make it work. Relationships are the biggest cause for concern and stress for us. If you’ve had an argument with someone, that dwells in your mind the whole day. When you improve the way you nurture healthy relationships, your sense of well-being will thrive. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

On this episode of On Purpose, I sat down with Liza Koshy. Liza is an actress, television host, comedian and YouTuber. Liza stars in the YouTube Premium comedy series Liza on Demand and is the host of the Nickelodeon game show Double Dare. Too often we follow a path that leads us away from who we are and Liza encourages you to release the labels others put on you, and embrace your multiple selves. A different version of you lives in the minds of everyone you know. Will you live up to their expectations, or the one that lives within? See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

There are so many voices in our head and sometimes it’s hard to tell if you’re displaying ego or self-esteem. You have to notice and switch your dialogue to strengthen the voice you want. You have to switch for something higher. The Ego stops you from observing deeper and blocks curiosity. Self-Esteem allows you to approach something with fresh ears and eyes. Today I’ll share the signals that help me choose higher thoughts. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

On this episode of On Purpose, I sat down with Brian Grazer. Brian is Hollywood’s best producer and New York Times bestselling author. His credits include 24, Empire, 8 Mile, Friday Night Lights, among others. Brian breaks down why tactics and strategy will never replace real curiosity and care. You’ll learn how he went from being fearful to speak in public to viewing it as a gift. His new book is out now! Face to Face https://amazon.com See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

“I wish I started earlier” Have you ever told yourself that? Or how about “It’s too late” or “it’s not going to happen for me anymore”. My follow up is: Too late for what? Too late for who? Who made up these rules? We are all made to feel that we need to have our lives figured out by 21, but to put that false expectation on yourself is absurd. Our current education system is teaching us subjects not problem solving, emotional management or self awareness. Without experience under our belts, we rush into making bad decisions. Realize there are benefits in starting later, and many people have like Samuel Jackon and Stan Lee! Today you’ll get a brand new perspective and start becoming the person you should’ve been. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

On this episode of On Purpose, I sat down with Kobe Bryant. Kobe is a five-time NBA Champion, two-time Olympic Gold Medalist and Oscar winner. Kobe created Granity Studios: where his new role consist of being a producer, storyteller and writer. Here’s a snippet of the brilliance you’ll witness … Kobe: “Now it's different because it's not about the awards, you just wind up trying to create something that's going to inspire someone, that hopefully through that inspiration they can inspire someone else. What I've come to learn as my career went on, that's more significant than any championship." Please support Kobe’s mission to inspire today's youth and create future champions through his new novel: Legacy and The Queen https://amazon.com The Punies https://apple.co/2m5t1iC See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

When I lived as a Monk we were recommended to reflect every 2-4 weeks. Usually we wait for new years resolution, but for me my birthday has always been a time for deep reflection. It’s important to reflect on the lessons from the past because they are the only thing you can truly take with you to the future. Life will teach you the same lessons over and over if you fail to listen. So much more than I could’ve ever imagined has happened this year, and I want to share the lessons with you. Get ready! See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

On this episode of On Purpose, I sat down with Marie Forleo. Marie Forleo is a life coach, motivational speaker, author and host of the award-winning show Marie TV. She’s also an international bestselling author and has been translated into 16 languages. She talks about how her starting before she was ready opened up massive opportunity. Marie shares that all your answers are already within you, and gives us steps on how to best access them. She also adds that clarity comes from engagement and not thoughts, she believes we must be physically engaged to better feel our way into our truth. Her new book, Everything is Figureoutable, releases September 10, 2019! Pre-order now https://everythingisfigureoutable.com/freegift/ See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Have you ever caught yourself trying to fit in? Maybe you’ve done it with a group of friends, in your workplace, at yoga class or in the gym. Fitting in was always something we were encouraged to do, whether it was wearing a uniform, playing the same sports as everyone else, and not showing our differences. Do you still notice and feel it today, to some degree? So how do we stand out with real confidence? Listen in to find out! See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

On this episode of On Purpose, I sat down with Mona and Huda Kattan. Sisters Huda and Mona are known for their powerhouse brand: Huda Beauty, and hit reality show on Facebook Watch: Huda Boss. The Kattan sisters reminded us that not all money is worth having. They consistently turn down multi-million dollar deals if they don’t feel it aligns with their brand. This episode is powerful for any influencer, entrepreneur, or future business leader. We discussed the art of patience when pursuing large goals, and that every delay is a blessing. Huda shared how she was embarrassed to show herself without makeup, but did with the hopes it’d give others permission to as well. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Have you ever mirrored a behavior from your parents? Whether it is making someone feel guilty or never wanting to say sorry. Do you have a long-standing belief that men or women will always let you down but you don’t know where it comes from? Or do you feel you’re destined to be broke and that you have the worst luck? When they say “it runs in the family”, tell them “this is where it runs out.” Because after this podcast you’ll be an expert at breaking your generational curses. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

On this episode of On Purpose, I sat down with Justin Baldoni. Justin is an American actor, director, and filmmaker most known for the show, Jane the Virgin, and directing his most recent film, Five Feet Apart. We discussed everything from what it takes to let a pure message pass through you, all the way to finding more nuanced alternatives to “toxic masculinity.” Justin brings a unique perspective to the table, with his Hollywood success and speaking on the TEDx stage. We also talked about how to deal with feeling excluded from the group, and what it takes as an adult to cope with those wounds that still have yet to fully heal.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

No matter how many holidays, dinners or movies you go to, if we don’t work on the core of a relationship, values, trust and communication, very little can be achieved. I want you all to have fulfilling, meaningful purposeful relationships and so I gathered the 10 Best Relationship Rules that are often forgotten as a reminder to myself and others. These are not the ones you’ll find on front covers of magazines but the ones that actually work in a real relationship. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

On this episode of On Purpose, I sat down with South-Asian beauty entrepreneur, the founder and CEO of Live Tinted—Deepica Mutyala. Deepica shares what it takes to start a multicultural community about beauty and culture. We cover everything from harnessing work ethic during your off-hours to dealing with perfectionist tendencies. She also shares what it’s like to grow up with immigrant parents, and how that shaped her career from a young age. Tune in to this conversation to learn more about Deepica and her uniquely profound perspectiveSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

A gap year or month is usually when students take time off between school and college or college and work to travel alone or with friends. The same can take place for adults after working for 5-7 years or more. It’s not about parties or living it up but rather self exploration, learning new things and wanting a fresh start. After working for many years, it is natural for our bodies, minds, just like the ground and soil to need a reset, rest to be able to give, grow and move forward. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

In today’s episode, I sat down with Dan Buettner and Ben Leedle to discuss Blue Zones, what they are and what we can learn from them. Blue Zones are places around the world where people statistically live the longest, avoid common diseases, and all-around live extremely healthy lifestyles We talk about how modern exercise is a public health failure, why environment plays more into our longevity than genetics, and how each of us can improve our environments to live a longer, better life today. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

We are all dealing with stress in our lives one way or another. Remember, it’s not the load that breaks you down it’s the way you carry it. In today’s episode of On Purpose, we analyze how stress really works in our lives, when feeling stressed out can be a good thing, and 7 ways to manage it more effectively. If you’re ready to learn how to keep your cool at work and in life give this episode a listen!See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

On this episode of On Purpose, I sat down with Katee Sackhoff. Katee is an actress, most well known for playing Lieutenant Kara "Starbuck" Thrace on Battlestar Galactica. She is also a cancer survivor. We discussed everything from failure, to work ethic, to overcoming false beliefs about ourselves. She brings a unique and profound perspective to the table, in how she’s able to situate herself from the negative external opinions we too often let creep up on us. We dove into her strategies for overcoming these tough moments of self-doubt, how she’s able to understand that who you are is not what you do, and why we should never take “no” personally. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Let’s be honest, our parents aren’t perfect and that’s okay. Neither are we. It’s unrealistic to think they’re the only ones responsible for our emotional development. Remember, everyone is doing the best with the skills they currently have. In today’s episode, I show you why it’s important we develop the emotional skills our parents never had, give examples of how we learn behaviors both actively & passively from our parents, and how to strengthen the good ones while improving the bad ones.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

On this episode of On Purpose, I sat down with Lala Anthony. Lala is a TV personality, New York Times best-selling author, businesswoman, producer and actress.We dove into her incredible work ethic that led to her immense success in the media. She also shares what she does to get in touch with herself, unplug and gain clarity when she needs it most.We also discussed love and relationships and how to manage your expectations in a world where people are only posting their highlights online.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Wedding season has officially begun! I’ve been invited to four weddings in the last three weeks and my social media channels have been flooded with all wedding pictures. Weddings mark the beginning of your relationship but it’s very easy to get caught up in all the festivities and forget to focus on your actual marriage. The truth is, we all want to have a marriage more beautiful than our wedding, but our investment is in the wrong place. Remember this: it's better to have a small wedding and a big marriage, than a big wedding and a small marriage. On this episode of On Purpose, I give you 5 ways to prepare for a marriage and not just a wedding, even if you’re already married.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

On this episode of On Purpose, I sat down with Anthony William (Medical Medium), the originator of the global celery juice movement and four times #1 New York Times best-selling author.We dove into the hundreds of benefits the powerful herb has and why he believes the celery juice movement is going to change people’s lives. From chronic illness to brain fog and even mental health, celery juice has helped heal millions.Calvin Harris, Robert De Niro, Gwyneth Paltrow, and Novak Djokovic have all shared their success stories and openly supported this movement. I learned so much from this conversation and I know you will too!See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Rejection is probably one of the worst feelings you could ever have, it honestly feels like a punch in the stomach. Regardless of how successful someone seems, we’ve all experienced it at some point or another in our lives.Whether it’s in the workplace or in our personal lives, it never feels good and we don’t always know the best way to handle it. In this week's episode, I did the research and share 6 ways you can start to gracefully deal with rejection in any situation.I show you what I call the rule of 100, why you shouldn’t be seeking revenge and how you can turn rejection into redirection. This is an important skill we should all learn how to master so make sure you listen carefully and take notes!See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

On this episode of On Purpose, I sat down with Supermodel, designer, and barrier-breaking body activist Ashley Graham. Ashley opens up about how she went from hating her body to loving it and making it her purpose to encourage others to do the same. She discusses how your words become your truth and why it’s so important to stop negative self-talk. She dives into how exactly we can start doing that. She also answers the internet’s most asked relationship questions and shares more about her own journey with her husband. I learned so much from this conversation and I know you will too!See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

You feel tired mid-morning before you have your coffee, then the dreaded 3 pm lull hits and you feel sluggish and unmotivated. By the time you get home from work, you’re exhausted and ready for bed. If you’re struggling with your energy levels and your self-control, this episode is for you. The truth is that energy and self-control are finite daily resources. They decline throughout the day just like your phone battery. In this episode of On Purpose, I give you 6 simple things you can do every morning to boost your energy and recharge yourself as much as you charge your phone.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.