OFF STAGE with Lisa O'Neill

I really like Karla Sorensen's quote that says worrying is like trying to win a race while you're sitting on a rocking horse. Worrying is worshipping a problem. I've been talking to lots of people recently about worrying and worrying an advance, like just getting so ahead in, so worried about shit that may or may not happen.

A lot of people hate the idea of networking but if you put a bit of effort in, you might just meet the coolest person, someone super interesting, some new friends and a new space. It might change your life.

How often have you felt like wanting to run away from life? Sick of everybody leaning on you and feeling like you're gonna fall over? And then you can't fall over because everyone's living on it? Are you just pegging around on your raft of responsibility, being responsible for everyone?The Energy Club is for anyone who wants to take responsibility for their energy. People who want support, accountability and inspiration. Sign up now at lisaoneill.co.nz

The Purpose Planner 2026 is arriving today and we're going to get them all sent out this week. If you've already ordered your purpose planner, we've snuck in some stickers (fun, space, planning, and movement) that will help you plan your weeks and months. 

If you've got money sitting around doing nothing, give it away because money's energy. When you're giving out energy to the world, I reckon you'll get it back.

This is a really good time to think about the energy that you want at Christmas. I think we don't put enough thought into how we want Christmas to look and feel and be and what the energy we want out of it.The Energy Club is for anyone who wants to take responsibility for their energy. People who want support, accountability and inspiration. Sign up now at lisaoneill.co.nz

Rumi's quote says, live life as if everything is rigged in your favor. The reason we don't is because we're all so full of doubt. What are you doubting at the moment?

I think we all deserve an award. If you had to give yourself a certificate today, what would you give yourself a certificate in?

Robert Holden talks about having a DSP, a daily spiritual practice and I love that. It can be like meditation or it could be just sitting staring at a candle. It could be listening to a chant. What is your daily spiritual practice? Do you have one?The Energy Club is for anyone who wants to take responsibility for their energy. People who want support, accountability and inspiration. Sign up now at lisaoneill.co.nz

I have this literal thirst for space, obsessed with good food, and experiences. Space, food, and experience bring me alive and I reckon I'm going to get them all this week.

Our life is like a mosaic of shit we collect. Imagine that you are a blank table, and every single person you come into contact with, or every trip you do, or every memory you create, or every job you have, or every relationship you start or every person experience place adds a little tile or a little bead to that table.

Everyone is temporary. When you lose someone that you used to pour love into, where do you put that love? How do you live better? How do you do something that they would have been proud of you to do? The Energy Club is for anyone who wants to take responsibility for their energy. People who want support, accountability and inspiration. Sign up now at lisaoneill.co.nz

I am back and I'm different. I think that's a waste going back to being the same person. I want to stay a little bit Italian while I reconnect with my New Zealand self.

In this episode, I had a conversation with one of my favorite energy experts, Karla Brodie, who is an experienced yoga teacher and expert in rest and embodiment practices. We explored the importance of rest as a learned skill, challenging the notion that rest is lazy while discussing practical ways to incorporate restorative practices into daily life. Karla shared her knowledge from 30 years of teaching and working with different groups, including people with chronic illnesses and cancer.Check out Karla at www.karlabrodie.co.nz

In this episode, I had a conversation with my friend, reverend and spiritual practitioner, Rachel Wotten. We talked about Rachel's journey from skeptic to a spiritual guide, the nature of intuition, different perspectives, and how to incorporate spiritual practices into daily life. Check out Rachel at rachelwotten.com

In this episode, I had a conversation with my good friend, Callum McKirdy, about mental energy and the importance of embracing your uniqueness. We all have our own "oddness" which should be accepted rather than hidden. There are liberating effects of being true to ourselves and we should start with self-acceptance. Take the time to audit relationships and the people in our worlds. Changing how we think and our situations is important for living a happier life.

When you travel, you get to see yourself differently. Everything you do is miraculously different: food, timezone, people, language, culture. If you are thinking of traveling, just go do it. I just think there's no point in dying with money in the bank.The Energy Club is for anyone who wants to take responsibility for their energy. People who want support, accountability and inspiration. Sign up now at lisaoneill.co.nz

In this episode, I had a conversation with Leslie about the importance of soulful energy and how to move through life with a focus on your true self. We explored the difference between ego and soul energy, how to identify and cultivate soul moments, and strategies for dealing with negative energy and emotional baggage.

I had a chat with world-class naturopath, Susan Hunter, about the importance of "body banking", taking proactive steps to nourish and care for our bodies. We talked about how to listen to our bodies' needs, make small changes for big impact, and build a "body team" of supportive professionals. Get ready to be inspired to invest in your health and unleash your vitality!

When you run your own business, it's very hard to get away. Who else is going to be Lisa O'Neill? No one! I'm very excited to be having a week in Italy. This is bucket list stuff!

Take a minute today to go through your phone and work out what works for you. Make your phone positive.

I believe that our souls have talents, skills, and scars. Scars from their previous lives and experiences. What people don't realise is they show up in their human self in this life.The Energy Club is for anyone who wants to take responsibility for their energy. People who want support, accountability and inspiration. Sign up now at lisaoneill.co.nz

I've got five spiritual beliefs. Everything happens for me. I'll always be okay. I'm guided. I can do what I want. I'm an endless source of energy and love. What are your principles?

Your energy starts with your thoughts, and your words add so much weight. Our words are so powerful. Imagine the universe is always listening to you. What is it hearing? Start becoming aware of it.The Energy Club is for anyone who wants to take responsibility for their energy. People who want support, accountability and inspiration. Sign up now at lisaoneill.co.nz

We've created four beautiful humans and it's been a big job. The shit you go through when you're helping develop another human is huge. It's taught me the most. It's the best leadership training in the world. It's the best human training.

One of my benefits of my ADHD is I either do things now or I don't do them. I have to do things straight away. It saves all the worrying. 

I love the conversation of reclaiming our energy. It's like you discover your authentic self in an attic and you're covered in dust, and you've got to clean it up and get her back out in the world.The Energy Club is for anyone who wants to take responsibility for their energy. People who want support, accountability and inspiration. Sign up now at lisaoneill.co.nz

We all have all of the elemental energies within us: fire, water, earth, air, or metal. You can counterbalance these things. What are the elements that you haven't had?

You've just got to be yourself. Do what you need to do to be good at being yourself and do it for you. If you do it for someone else and they don't care, then you've lost your reason for doing things. So doing it for you is really important. 

When you get stuck in the same, it's it's suffocating. You've got to find ways to escape the 'same.' Take yourself away and don't feel guilty.

The Lickable Third theory is that your life fits into three thirds. A third of your life is brilliant, awesome. A third of your life is just okay. Then, a third of your life is shit.The Energy Club is for anyone who wants to take responsibility for their energy. People who want support, accountability and inspiration. Sign up now at lisaoneill.co.nz

I love easy people, people who are quite comfortable just doing their thing, but are also quite comfortable leaning in and being part of activities.

When you have an energy loop, you have unfinished business. We haven't sealed something off. Something started energetically and it hasn't been connected.

I'm a huge fan of energetic healing. If you haven't tried it, let this be a little message from the universe that maybe it's time to give it a shot.The Energy Club is for anyone who wants to take responsibility for their energy. People who want support, accountability and inspiration. Sign up now at lisaoneill.co.nz

Sometimes you got to make dedicated time to do nothing. It'll be really hard at the beginning but you just get better and better at it. You'll be so much better on the other side of it. You'll think better. You'll come up with better ideas. You'll be calmer.

Ikigai is a Japanese philosophy of living where your life's aligned to your passion and your values. I'm into people living their lives well, not into people existing. Think about your passion, your mission, your profession. How do you have a life well-lived?

The two hours that I spend having fun will multiply, and I'll get six hours back. I'll get so much energy back. I'll get inspired, I'll get excited, I'll feel lighter and it will liberate my energy. What would give you more energy than it would take?The Energy Club is for anyone who wants to take responsibility for their energy. People who want support, accountability and inspiration. Sign up now at lisaoneill.co.nz

There's so much that we do out of love, out of service, and out of enjoyment. And it's all good, except when you just wake up and realise that everything you've done has been for someone else. You've got to have some time on your own. What can you do to fill your own tank? What's something that your future you really wants from you?

There's nothing worse than gaslighting yourself. Open up your bag of excuses. Have a good look at them. Are they real? Are they stories you've made up? Is it just a load of shit you're carrying around with you?

A mentor asked me this once. What's the race you want to win? I think it's a great question. What is the legacy you want to leave or what is the thing you want to leave on the planet?The Energy Club is for anyone who wants to take responsibility for their energy. People who want support, accountability and inspiration. Sign up now at lisaoneill.co.nz

I really like the idea of knowing your season. You might be in a divorce season or separation season, or you might be in a building a house season, or you might be in a just got a first grandchild season, or you might be in a living overseas season. I don't know what season you're in, but just know the season. I think that's really important.

I think we don't spend enough time understanding ourselves. Getting to know and like ourselves is our job. If you're under the pump right now or feeling a bit stressed, I see you. Be gentle and say nice things to yourself.The Energy Club is for anyone who wants to take responsibility for their energy. People who want support, accountability and inspiration. Sign up now at lisaoneill.co.nz

I'm just feeling very grateful at the moment because I've come out of a bit of a shitty time. When you're in a shitty time, you can feel really sorry for yourself. That helps for a minute but you can go, oh my God, my life is so much better now. We're in August and I just couldn't be happier about that.

Lost women are those who put themselves down to give their energy to someone else and forgot to pick themselves back up. If you're one of them, it's time to reclaim your life. You're not here to exist. You're here to live energetically, gorgeously.The Energy Club is for anyone who wants to take responsibility for their energy. People who want support, accountability and inspiration. Sign up now at lisaoneill.co.nz

I'm going to have extra things pop up this week. Appointments, support, phone calls, forms, just fuckery. And it's going to have to happen. So I might as well have in my planner this week that I have at least four hours this week for fucking around.

I read the book called The Greatest Miracle In The World all the time. The first time I read one chapter in this book, I cried and cried because it felt so profound. It helps reset my head.The Energy Club is for anyone who wants to take responsibility for their energy. People who want support, accountability and inspiration. Sign up now at lisaoneill.co.nz

We have to stay light, not in a delusional way, but in a realistic way, because if you sink all the way to the bottom, it's a long way to come back up.The Energy Club is for anyone who wants to take responsibility for their energy. People who want support, accountability and inspiration. Sign up now at lisaoneill.co.nz

Go get full of yourself. Not full of yourself in an egotistical way but in a soul-led self-love kind of way. Because when you're full of yourself, your cup is full and you can give more of yourself. What do you need to do to be more full of you?

If you are in a caregiver space, look after yourself. I'm a good caregiver because I'm good at looking after myself.

When you follow the moon, you get to have like a New Year's Eve every month. They're really good opportunities for us to pause and release and step into new things, to release stuff and let go of patterns.