Helping Your LGBTQ Teen Apply to College Without Losing Their Mind
More Human More Kind: Guidance for Parents & Allies of LGBTQ Teens · Heather Hester | Advocate for Parents of LGBTQ Teens
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Show Notes
Is your teen overwhelmed by college applications and feeling the pressure to be perfect?
In this honest and eye-opening episode of More Human, More Kind, Heather Hester is joined by Dylan Nellis, Stanford graduate and founder of NextGen Admit, for a refreshing look at the college admissions process. Together, they unpack the emotional, mental health, and identity challenges teens face and what parents can do to provide real guidance, empathy, and support.
- Why elite colleges actually prefer “spiky” applicants over “well-rounded” ones and how to help your child find their “spike”
- How storytelling and self-awareness are far more impactful than test scores or résumés
- Why college essays should be story-first (not trauma-dump-first), and how to avoid common mistakes
- How to support your teen's mental health, reduce stress, and model love over pressure during this major life transition
The college application process is often filled with anxiety, pressure, and perfectionism, especially for LGBTQ+ teens and those navigating identity, inclusion, and expectations. Parents play a crucial role in creating safety, modeling self-compassion, and prioritizing authenticity over achievement.
Press play now to ditch the overwhelm and guide your teen toward a values-driven college journey, one rooted in clarity, confidence, and connection.
Links referenced in this episode:
- nextgenadmit.com
- nextgenadmit.com/masterclass
- Dyllen Nellis on YouTube
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More Human. More Kind. formerly Just Breathe: Parenting Your LGBTQ Teen is a safe and supportive podcast in a heartfelt and empowering space where a mom and advocate offers practical guidance and education to parents and allies, fostering empathy, kindness, love, and strong boundaries while supporting LGBTQ teens and the diverse LGBTQ community—including gay, lesiban, bisexual, trans, transgender, and queer individuals—through conversations about mental health, grief, gender identity, sexual orientation, human rights, social justice, parenting, parent support, and meaningful LGBTQ allyship and allyship in action.
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