More Human More Kind: Guidance for Parents & Allies of LGBTQ Teens
Parenting and Ally Skills to Advocate for Your LGBTQ+ Teen with Love, Confidence, and Deep Understanding
Heather Hester · Heather Hester | Advocate for Parents of LGBTQ Teens
Show overview
More Human More Kind: Guidance for Parents & Allies of LGBTQ Teens has been publishing since 2019, and across the 7 years since has built a catalogue of 280 episodes, alongside 2 trailers or bonus episodes. That works out to roughly 140 hours of audio in total. Releases follow a weekly cadence, with the show now in its 3rd season.
Episodes typically run twenty to thirty-five minutes — most land between 14 min and 45 min — with run-times ranging widely across the catalogue. It is catalogued as a EN-language Kids & Family show.
The show is actively publishing — the most recent episode landed 2 days ago, with 43 episodes already out so far this year. The busiest year was 2025, with 99 episodes published. Published by Heather Hester | Advocate for Parents of LGBTQ Teens.
From the publisher
Have you recently been told, "Mom, I think I might be_____."? Whether that sentence ended in gay, lesbian, bisexual, transgender, queer, or any other identity or orientation, you're in the right place. This podcast is for parents who wish to support and understand their child who has just come out; to be an ally who shows up with courage, clarity, and compassion in your family, workplace, and community. More Human. More Kind. is a twice-weekly podcast supporting concerned parents and allies of LGBTQ kids who are ready to move from fear, grief, and confusion to healing, resilience, and empowered advocacy. Hosted by Heather Hester, author of Parenting with Pride and a fierce advocate for human rights and social justice, each episode blends grounded insights, personal stories, and practical guidance to help you protect what matters, raise brave kids, and spark collective change. * You'll learn to navigate mental health challenges, set loving boundaries, and find hope and support through the messiness of parenting, allyship, and becoming. * Whether you're wrestling with bigotry, searching for connection and community, or ready to shift your mindset toward kindness and open-minded action, this show offers the education and encouragement you need. New episodes drop every Tuesday and Friday, featuring expert interviews, your Butterfly Effect action, and timely solo episodes that encourage growth, empathy, and activism. Start with fan-favorite Episode 3: Embrace the Messiness of Supporting Your LGBTQ Teen (With Resilience & Hope), an honest conversation that will help you exhale, reflect, and show up more fully and fiercely for the people you love. This podcast uses the following third-party services for analysis: Podscribe - https://podscribe.com/privacy
Latest Episodes
View all 280 episodesHow to Reconnect After a Hard Conversation With Your LGBTQ Teen
"What If I Say the Wrong Thing?" When Fear Takes Over Conversations With Your Gay Teen
Parents and Allies, This is The Sentence That Breaks the Silence
The Silence of Shame: Breaking Generational Patterns to Better Support Our Queer Teens
Why Speaking Up Feels So Hard For Parents of Gay and Trans Kids
The Cost of Staying Quiet When Your Trans Child Is Misgendered
How Parents and LGBTQ Allies Stay Grounded After Difficult Conversations
When Friendship and Values Collide: A Guide for Parents and LGBTQ Allies
When Fear Gets Loud, How Do You Parent?
Parents, You Meant Love. They Heard Something Else. What Do you Do?
"My Kid Thinks They're Gay!" What This Moment Asks From Parents
"Mom, I think I'm Gay" - Parents, This Moment is an Opportunity, Not a Crisis
Parents, This Is How Grief Evolves Instead of Disappearing
Parents and Allies of LGBTQ Teens: From Grief to Grace: Rituals, Repair, and the Sacred Act of Letting Go
S2 Ep 264What Your LGBTQ Teen Hears When You Say, “Let’s Not Tell Anyone Yet”
Are you an overwhelmed mom of a gay or lesbian teen who's feeling lost trying to navigate the coming out process, and wants to let go of shame and embarrassment, as well as build a deeper connection of trust within yourself and your teen? Click here to learn how to work with me 1-1.You may have said, “Let’s not tell anyone yet,” believing you were protecting your child.And maybe you were trying to.But what if that silence communicated something deeper than you intended?In this episode, Heather explores the emotional impact of secrecy after a child comes out. She names the fears many parents feel: fear of judgment, conflict, misunderstanding, or how others might react and gently challenges the hidden cost of making silence the family norm.You’ll hear:what secrecy can communicate to a childhow protection can unintentionally become shamewhy hiding creates distance, even in loving familiesthe difference between privacy and secrecyone powerful question every parent needs to askIf you’ve ever felt torn between loving your child and fearing the world’s response, this conversation will help you move from fear toward understanding, and from silence toward connection.Hi, I’m Heather Hester, and I’m so glad you’re here!Are you ready to take action? Let's connect and create a personalized plan!Stay informed - receive my newsletter 2x/monthInvite me to speak at your workshop or eventRead my book, Parenting with Pride. Share More Human. More Kind. Please subscribe, rate, and review!Connect [email protected] Me A CoffeeWatch on YouTubeListen to *NEW* episodes every Tuesday and Friday!At the heart of my work is a deep commitment to compassion, authenticity, and transformative allyship, especially for those navigating the complexities of parenting LGBTQ kids. Through this podcast, speaking, my writing, and the spaces I create, I help people unlearn bias, embrace their full humanity, and grow their capacity for courageous, compassionate connection.For parents, allies, and those pioneering a way to lead with love and kindness, I’m here with true, messy, and heart-warming stories, real tools, and grounding support to help you move from fear to fierce, informed action.Whether you’re listening in, working with me directly, or quietly taking it all in, I see you. And I’m so glad you’re part of this journey.More Human. More Kind. formerly Just Breathe: Parenting Your LGBTQ Teen is a safe and supportive podcast in a heartfelt and empowering space where a mom and advocate offers practical guidance and education to parents and allies, fostering empathy, kindness, love, and strong boundaries while supporting LGBTQ teens and the diverse LGBTQ community—including gay, lesiban, bisexual, trans, transgender, and queer individuals—through conversations about mental health, grief, gender identity, sexual orientation, human rights, social justice, parenting, parent support, and meaningful LGBTQ allyship and allyship in action.This podcast uses the following third-party services for analysis: Podscribe - https://podscribe.com/privacy
S2 Ep 263Parenting Through Division: Grieving the World, Our Expectations, and Finding Grace
Join me on Substack for more tools to stay human in a complicated world. What happens when the grief you carry isn't about losing a person, but about losing the world you thought your child would grow up in?In this second episode of the grief series, Heather goes where most parenting conversations won't: into the tender, often-shamed space of mourning expectations. She explores why parents of LGBTQ kids frequently carry a grief they feel they aren't allowed to name — the exploding movie reel of the life you imagined — and why acknowledging that grief is actually an act of deeper love, not a betrayal of it.Then she widens the lens. The doom-scrolling at 2 AM. The bone-deep fatigue. The frantic bargaining of "if I just call one more representative." Heather names what so many of us are feeling but can't articulate: we are collectively grieving. And she connects it directly to the stages of grief explored in last week's episode about her sister Corinne.But this episode doesn't leave you in the heaviness. Heather offers a profoundly practical antidote: curiosity. Through a real-time guided body check-in, she walks you through the physical difference between judgment and curiosity — and shows you how that single shift creates enough spaciousness to hold grief AND take action. To feel furious at injustice AND still lead with compassion. To sit in sadness AND show up at your kid's school board meeting.This is where sustainable change lives. This is the sweet spot.ACTION:This week's Butterfly Effect micro-action: Put your hand on your heart for 10 seconds before you respond to anyone. Then answer from your actual self — not your panic.This podcast uses the following third-party services for analysis: Podscribe - https://podscribe.com/privacy
S2 Ep 262Parents, This Is The Quiet Hope That Destroys Trust: When Therapy Becomes Correction
Are you an overwhelmed mom of an LGBTQ+ teen who's feeling lost trying to navigate the coming out process, and wants to let go of shame and embarrassment, as well as build a deeper connection of trust within yourself and your teen? Click here to learn how to work with me 1-1.Are you trying to do the right thing for your LGBTQ child by finding them a therapist, but quietly hoping that someone will help them realize this “isn’t who they really are?”In this episode, I gently unpack the fix reflex, the well-intentioned but deeply damaging pattern of using therapy as a tool for correction instead of support. If you’ve been scheduling appointments, switching therapists, and asking careful questions while a quiet hope hums underneath it all, this episode will help you see what your child already feels as well as what it’s costing your relationship.Learn why the instinct to "fix" your child's identity quietly erodes the trust you're trying so hard to protectDiscover what your child actually hears when help comes with a hidden agenda and why they stop letting you inGet access to a free intro coaching call where we unpack the fear underneath the fix reflex and begin building real connectionIf you're ready to stop letting fear drive your decisions and start showing up as the safe place your child needs you to be, press play now and let the shift begin.Hi, I’m Heather Hester, and I’m so glad you’re here!Are you ready to take action? Let's connect and create a personalized plan!Stay informed - receive my newsletter 2x/monthInvite me to speak at your workshop or eventRead my book, Parenting with Pride. Share More Human. More Kind. Please subscribe, rate, and review!Connect [email protected] Me A CoffeeWatch on YouTubeListen to *NEW* episodes every Tuesday and Friday!At the heart of my work is a deep commitment to compassion, authenticity, and transformative allyship, especially for those navigating the complexities of parenting LGBTQ kids. Through this podcast, speaking, my writing, and the spaces I create, I help people unlearn bias, embrace their full humanity, and grow their capacity for courageous, compassionate connection.For parents, allies, and those pioneering a way to lead with love and kindness, I’m here with true, messy, and heart-warming stories, real tools, and grounding support to help you move from fear to fierce, informed action.Whether you’re listening in, working with me directly, or quietly taking it all in, I see you. And I’m so glad you’re part of this journey.More Human. More Kind. formerly Just Breathe: Parenting Your LGBTQ Teen is a safe and supportive podcast in a heartfelt and empowering space where a mom and advocate offers practical guidance and education to parents and allies, fostering empathy, kindness, love, and strong boundaries while supporting LGBTQ teens and the diverse LGBTQ community—including gay, lesiban, bisexual, trans, transgender, and queer individuals—through conversations about mental health, grief, gender identity, sexual orientation, human rights, social justice, parenting, parent support, and meaningful LGBTQ allyship and allyship in action.This podcast uses the following third-party services for analysis: Podscribe - https://podscribe.com/privacy
S2 Ep 260Grief Shape-Shifts: Guidance for Parents and LGBTQ Allies Navigating Loss
Join me on Substack for more tools to stay human in a complicated world. Do you ever feel like you should be "past" your grief by now? Like there's some invisible finish line you haven't reached?On what would have been her sister Corinne's 49th birthday, Heather opens up about the moment that cracked her wide open and why grief doesn't expire, it shape-shifts. In this deeply personal episode, she walks through the five stages of grief not as a checklist, but as a living landscape and draws a powerful through-line between personal loss, the hidden grief parents of LGBTQ+ youth carry, and the collective heartbreak so many of us are feeling right now.Whether you're an ally looking for guidance, a parent navigating your child's identity, or simply a human carrying something heavy you haven't been able to name, this episode is for you.In this episode, you'll learn:Why the five stages of grief aren't linear and why that's actually good newsHow denial, anger, bargaining, depression, and acceptance show up for parents of LGBTQ+ kids and for allies navigating a world in crisisA powerful reframe: acceptance isn't complacency, it's the birthplace of sustainable actionThis is the first episode in a three-part grief series. Next week, we'll explore how personal grief maps onto the collective, and what it looks like to hold space for LGBTQ+ families while also holding space for yourself.If you're ready to stop judging your grief and start getting curious about what it's teaching you, press play now.Hi, I’m Heather Hester, and I’m so glad you’re here!Are you ready to take action? Let's connect and create a personalized plan!Stay informed - receive my newsletter 2x/monthInvite me to speak at your workshop or eventRead my book, Parenting with Pride. Share More Human. More Kind. Please subscribe, rate, and review!Connect [email protected] Me A CoffeeWatch on YouTubeListen to *NEW* episodes every Tuesday and Friday!At the heart of my work is a deep commitment to compassion, authenticity, and transformative allyship, especially for those navigating the complexities of parenting LGBTQ kids. Through this podcast, speaking, my writing, and the spaces I create, I help people unlearn bias, embrace their full humanity, and grow their capacity for courageous, compassionate connection.For parents, allies, and those pioneering a way to lead with love and kindness, I’m here with true, messy, and heart-warming stories, real tools, and grounding support to help you move from fear to fierce, informed action.Whether you’re listening in, working with me directly, or quietly taking it all in, I see you. And I’m so glad you’re part of this journey.More Human. More Kind. formerly Just Breathe: Parenting Your LGBTQ Teen is a safe and supportive podcast in a heartfelt and empowering space where a mom and advocate offers practical guidance and education to parents and allies, fostering empathy, kindness, love, and strong boundaries while supporting LGBTQ teens and the diverse LGBTQ community—including gay, lesiban, bisexual, trans, transgender, and queer individuals—through conversations about mental health, grief, gender identity, sexual orientation, human rights, social justice, parenting, parent support, and meaningful LGBTQ allyship and allyship in action.This podcast uses the following third-party services for analysis: Podscribe - https://podscribe.com/privacy
S2 Ep 261Nothing Without a Company: Creating Spaces Where No One Feels Alone
SPECIAL EPISODEIf you’ve ever wondered where you belong or longed for spaces where you can show up fully as yourself then this episode is for you.In this special Podcastathon spotlight, Heather highlights the work of Nothing Without a Company, a Chicago-based nonprofit theater company creating immersive, inclusive storytelling experiences that center LGBTQIA+, trans, gender non-binary, AANHPI, and BIPOC voices.Founded by a group of queer and cultural students who wanted to see themselves reflected on stage, Nothing Without a Company has spent nearly two decades creating performances that go beyond traditional theater. Their site-specific productions invite audiences into the story, blurring the line between observer and participant, and creating moments of deep human connection.In this episode, Heather shares:The heart and mission behind Nothing Without a CompanyHow immersive storytelling fosters empathy, healing, and belongingReal audience reflections that highlight the impact of their workA powerful story from one of their productions where connection continued long after the performance endedThe challenges facing nonprofit arts organizations today and why support matters more than everThis conversation is a reminder that storytelling is not just entertainment, it’s a bridge. A mirror. A place where we can feel less alone.Resource SpotlightNothing Without a CompanyWebsite: https://nothingwithoutacompany.orgInstagram: @nothingwithoutacompanySupport by attending performances, donating, following, and sharing their work.Final ReflectionYes, it gets better… but only if we make it better.Hi, I’m Heather Hester, and I’m so glad you’re here!Are you ready to take action? Let's connect and create a personalized plan!Stay informed - receive my newsletter 2x/monthInvite me to speak at your workshop or eventRead my book, Parenting with Pride. Share More Human. More Kind. Please subscribe, rate, and review!Connect [email protected] Me A CoffeeWatch on YouTubeListen to *NEW* episodes every Tuesday and Friday!At the heart of my work is a deep commitment to compassion, authenticity, and transformative allyship, especially for those navigating the complexities of parenting LGBTQ kids. Through this podcast, speaking, my writing, and the spaces I create, I help people unlearn bias, embrace their full humanity, and grow their capacity for courageous, compassionate connection.For parents, allies, and those pioneering a way to lead with love and kindness, I’m here with true, messy, and heart-warming stories, real tools, and grounding support to help you move from fear to fierce, informed action.Whether you’re listening in, working with me directly, or quietly taking it all in, I see you. And I’m so glad you’re part of this journey.More Human. More Kind. formerly Just Breathe: Parenting Your LGBTQ Teen is a safe and supportive podcast in a heartfelt and empowering space where a mom and advocate offers practical guidance and education to parents and allies, fostering empathy, kindness, love, and strong boundaries while supporting LGBTQ teens and the diverse LGBTQ community—including gay, lesiban, bisexual, trans, transgender, and queer individuals—through conversations about mental health, grief, gender identity, sexual orientation, human rights, social justice, parenting, parent support, and meaningful LGBTQ allyship and allyship in action.This podcast uses the following third-party services for analysis: Podscribe - https://podscribe.com/privacy
S2 Ep 259The Prayer Many Parents of LGBTQ Teens Whisper in Secret
Are you an overwhelmed mom of an LGBTQ+ teen who's feeling lost trying to navigate the coming out process, and wants to let go of shame and embarrassment, as well as build a deeper connection of trust within yourself and your teen? Click here to learn how to work with me 1-1.Have you ever prayed, "God...please let this go away?"For many parents of LGBTQ teens, faith has always been the place they turn when life feels uncertain. But when a child comes out, something shifts.The prayer that once sounded like “Protect them” or “Guide them” quietly becomes something else:Please fix this.Please change this.Please don’t let this be permanent.In this episode, Heather explores the quiet spiritual tension many parents experience when a child comes out.You’ll learn:Why praying for your child’s identity to change can unintentionally create spiritual distanceHow children interpret silence and hesitation around faith conversationsWhy unresolved spiritual tension creates divided emotional safety in familiesWhat happens when a child feels like they are competing with doctrine for a place in your heartYou are not defined by a prayer whispered in fear. But the relationship you build with your child from this moment forward will be shaped by how you choose to respond.Press play to listen now.Hi, I’m Heather Hester, and I’m so glad you’re here!Are you ready to take action? Let's connect and create a personalized plan!Stay informed - receive my newsletter 2x/monthInvite me to speak at your workshop or eventRead my book, Parenting with Pride. Share More Human. More Kind. Please subscribe, rate, and review!Connect [email protected] Me A CoffeeWatch on YouTubeListen to *NEW* episodes every Tuesday and Friday!At the heart of my work is a deep commitment to compassion, authenticity, and transformative allyship, especially for those navigating the complexities of parenting LGBTQ kids. Through this podcast, speaking, my writing, and the spaces I create, I help people unlearn bias, embrace their full humanity, and grow their capacity for courageous, compassionate connection.For parents, allies, and those pioneering a way to lead with love and kindness, I’m here with true, messy, and heart-warming stories, real tools, and grounding support to help you move from fear to fierce, informed action.Whether you’re listening in, working with me directly, or quietly taking it all in, I see you. And I’m so glad you’re part of this journey.More Human. More Kind. formerly Just Breathe: Parenting Your LGBTQ Teen is a safe and supportive podcast in a heartfelt and empowering space where a mom and advocate offers practical guidance and education to parents and allies, fostering empathy, kindness, love, and strong boundaries while supporting LGBTQ teens and the diverse LGBTQ community—including gay, lesiban, bisexual, trans, transgender, and queer individuals—through conversations about mental health, grief, gender identity, sexual orientation, human rights, social justice, parenting, parent support, and meaningful LGBTQ allyship and allyship in action.parents of LGBTQ teens faith and LGBTQ parenting Christian parents LGBTQ child supporting LGBTQ teen religion and LGBTQ families LGBTQ parenting guidance coming out conversations parenting LGBTQ youth allyship for parents family relationships LGBTQThis podcast uses the following third-party services for analysis: Podscribe - https://podscribe.com/privacy