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In this episode of "Make More Love," host Ellen Dorian explores the critical topic of vitality for entrepreneurial men. She discusses the impact of vitality on relationships and business success, offering practical advice to enhance physical and mental health. Ellen shares a client's journey to reclaim vitality and provides actionable steps for listeners to improve their well-being.Part 1: Understanding VitalityEllen introduces the concept of vitality, emphasizing its importance for physical and mental health. She outlines common challenges faced by male business owners, such as stress, sleep issues, and unhealthy habits, which can hinder vitality.Part 2: A Client's JourneyEllen shares the story of her client, DB, who struggled with vitality after starting his own business. She details the phased approach used to help DB regain his health, including establishing daily routines, consulting with a doctor, and incorporating enjoyable physical activities.Part 3: Practical Steps and Health ChecksEllen provides listeners with simple daily routines to boost energy and improve health. She also highlights essential health checks for men over 40, stressing the importance of early detection and management of potential health issues.Key Takeaways:Vitality is Everything – It’s the key to fully showing up in life, not just about physical health but about having the energy and resilience that let you play full out.Small Habits Add Up – Vitality is a long-term investment, like building a business. Small, consistent habits make the biggest impact over time.Health Fuels Connection – You can’t have a world-class relationship if you’re not healthy enough to engage. Prioritize self-care, and watch the ripple effect bring renewed passion and a deeper connection.Call to Action:Listeners are encouraged to join the Passionate Partners Insider Community on Facebook, explore resources on the website, and book a free Relationship Reset Call with Ellen for personalized support.Closing Thoughts:Ellen emphasizes the importance of paying attention to your physical and mental health, reiterating that it only takes small, consistent actions and attention to a few key health checks to set you up for a long life full of vitality and passionate energy. Support & Resources:Ellen invites listeners to share their thoughts, either in the P3 Insider's Community or directly with her via email ([email protected]). Or, for one on one brainstorming on a specific situation, listeners can set up a time on Ellen's Calendar for a free Relationship Reset Call at relationshipresetcall.comAll links can be found below."Until next time, remember, 'What I want most in the world is for you to Make More Love in Your Life and with Your Wife.'" - Ellen DorianDisclaimer:The Make More Love show is for information and entertainment purposes only. It is not a substitute for the guidance of a qualified mental health or medical professional. Make More Love Show Website: www.makemorelove.showParent Company - The Passionate Partners Project: www.passionatepartnersproject.comJoin Our Passionate Partners Insider Community: https://www.facebook.com/groups/682764239165105Contact Me Directly: Email: [email protected] direct message me via social media:Facebook:  https://www.facebook.com/ellen.dorian.7/LinkedIn:    https://www.linkedin.com/in/ellendorian/Take the free Relationship Dynamics Quiz: http://makemorelove.show/quizSet up a Free Relationship Reset Call with me:http://relationshipresetcall.com

In this episode of "Make More Love," host Ellen Dorian explores the challenges entrepreneurial men face in balancing business success with maintaining a passionate and fulfilling relationship. Ellen discusses the common pitfalls of trying to reignite intimacy and offers actionable strategies to overcome these obstacles. She emphasizes the importance of understanding love languages and aligning efforts with genuine motivations to foster deeper connections.Part 1: The "Trying Everything" TrapEllen introduces the concept of the "trying everything" trap, where individuals exhaust traditional methods to revive intimacy without success. She outlines four common ways people get stuck: endless problem diagnosis, jumping to solutions without understanding the root issue, acting on personal comfort rather than partner needs, and being driven by expected outcomes rather than genuine connection.Part 2: Understanding Love LanguagesEllen provides a primer on the five love languages, explaining how they can transform relationship dynamics. She highlights the importance of identifying both giving and receiving love languages for oneself and one's partner to ensure efforts are meaningful and effective.Part 3: Actionable Steps for ConnectionEllen shares practical steps to enhance relationship intimacy, including knowing your and your partner's love languages, identifying gaps in communication, and consistently practicing love languages. She offers creative ideas for each love language to inspire listeners to try new approaches in their relationships.Key Takeaways:1. Avoid endless diagnosing AND Ready Fire Aim Solutions2. Don't be afraid to move out of your comfort zone. Your partner's comfort zone is a more productive place to operate from.3. Love Languages are a strong way to find the right things instead of doing everything.Call to Action:Join the Passionate Partners Insider Community on Facebook for exclusive content, visit the website for more resources, or book a free Relationship Reset Call with Ellen for personalized guidance.Closing Thoughts:Ellen encourages listeners to reconnect with the reasons they chose their partner and to explore new ways to enhance their relationship. She emphasizes the transformative power of understanding and practicing love languages.Support & Resources:Ellen invites listeners to share their thoughts, either in the P3 Insider's Community or directly with her via email. Or, for one on one brainstorming on a specific situation, listeners can set up a time on Ellen's Calendar for a free Relationship Reset Call.All links can be found below.Episodes That Can Help With Today's Topic:Episode 25: Includes the Romantic Hero Power MovesEpisode 21: Sleep Naked"Until next time, remember, 'What I want most in the world is for you to Make More Love in Your Life and with Your Wife.'" - Ellen DorianDisclaimer:The Make More Love show is for information and entertainment purposes only. It is not a substitute for the guidance of a qualified mental health or medical professional. Make More Love Show Website: www.makemorelove.showParent Company - The Passionate Partners Project: www.passionatepartnersproject.comJoin Our Passionate Partners Insider Community: https://www.facebook.com/groups/682764239165105Contact Me Directly: Email: [email protected] direct message me via social media:Facebook:  https://www.facebook.com/ellen.dorian.7/LinkedIn:    https://www.linkedin.com/in/ellendorian/Take the free Relationship Dynamics Quiz: http://makemorelove.show/quizSet up a Free Relationship Reset Call with me:http://relationshipresetcall.com

In this episode of "Make More Love," host Ellen Dorian revisits a foundational discussion on why men choose to settle down and the motivations for staying committed in relationships, even when faced with challenges. Ellen introduces the concept of the "relationship drive matrix" to help listeners understand their relationship dynamics and offers a three-step strategy to address feelings of being unappreciated.Part 1: Introduction and Revisiting a Key EpisodeEllen opens the episode by sharing her recent experience with dental surgery and her decision to revisit one of her favorite early episodes. She discusses the reasons men choose long-term relationships and the importance of staying committed when challenges arise.Part 2: The Relationship Drive MatrixEllen introduces the "relationship drive matrix," a tool to help listeners visualize their relationship dynamics. She explains the four quadrants: sadness and loneliness, connection without joy, seeking joy beyond the relationship, and ideal joy and connection.Part 3: Strategies for Rebuilding ConnectionEllen outlines a three-step strategy to address feelings of being unappreciated: assessing personal energy in the relationship, focusing on appreciation for the partner, and taking meaningful actions to create connection. She emphasizes the power of personal growth and the importance of individual initiative in improving relationships.Key Takeaways:1. Men often seek committed relationships for reasons like sexual fulfillment, intimacy, companionship, meaning, and legacy.2. A strong relationship begins with personal growth and reflection on one's role.3. Individuals hold the power to create change through intentional actions, without waiting for their partner to act.TBDCall to Action:Ellen encourages listeners to join the Passionate Partners Insider community on Facebook, visit the website for more resources, and book a free Relationship Reset Call for personalized support.Closing Thoughts:Ellen reminds listeners of the importance of reconnecting with the reasons for choosing their partner and discovering new ways to enhance their relationship.Support & Resources:Ellen invites listeners to share their thoughts, either in the P3 Insider's Community or directly with her via email. Or, for one on one brainstorming on a specific situation, listeners can set up a time on Ellen's Calendar for a free Relationship Reset Call.All links can be found below."Until next time, remember, 'What I want most in the world is for you to Make More Love in Your Life and with Your Wife.'" - Ellen DorianDisclaimer:The Make More Love show is for information and entertainment purposes only. It is not a substitute for the guidance of a qualified mental health or medical professional. Make More Love Show Website: www.makemorelove.showParent Company - The Passionate Partners Project: www.passionatepartnersproject.comJoin Our Passionate Partners Insider Community: https://www.facebook.com/groups/682764239165105Contact Me Directly: Email: [email protected] direct message me via social media:Facebook:  https://www.facebook.com/ellen.dorian.7/LinkedIn:    https://www.linkedin.com/in/ellendorian/Take the free Relationship Dynamics Quiz: http://makemorelove.show/quizSet up a Free Relationship Reset Call with me:http://relationshipresetcall.com

In this episode of "Make More Love," host Ellen Dorian delves into the critical issue of stonewalling in relationships, particularly among entrepreneurial men. Ellen shares insights on how stonewalling can damage relationships and offers practical strategies to foster open communication and trust.Part 1: The Danger of Stonewalling in Your RelationshipEllen introduces the concept of stonewalling, drawing on John Gottman's research. She explains how stonewalling manifests in real-life relationships and its emotional impact, emphasizing the importance of addressing this behavior.Part 2: Answering a Listener's Question on Ending Stonewalling in Her RelationshipEllen shares a listener's story to illustrate the real-life challenges of stonewalling. She provides a thoughtful response, offering strategies to overcome this behavior and improve communication within the relationship.Part 3: How to Shift Your Behavior if You Tend to Shut DownEllen offers actionable advice for those who recognize stonewalling tendencies in themselves. She discusses the importance of recognizing the behavior, understanding its roots, and implementing active listening techniques to improve communication.Call to Action:Closing Thoughts:Support & Resources:Ellen invites listeners to share their thoughts, either in the P3 Insider's Community or directly with her via email. Or, for one-on-one brainstorming on a specific situation, listeners can set up a time on Ellen's Calendar for a free Relationship Reset Call.All links can be found below."Until next time, remember, 'What I want most in the world is for you to Make More Love in Your Life and with Your Wife.'" - Ellen DorianKey Takeaways:1. Stonewalling can create emotional distance and damage trust in relationships.2. Active listening and understanding your partner's perspective are crucial for effective communication.3. Setting boundaries and discussing the impact of stonewalling can help rebuild trust and connection.Call to Action:Ellen invites listeners to book a free Relationship Reset Call to explore personalized strategies for improving their relationships. Visit relationshipresetcall.com to schedule a session.Closing Thoughts:Ellen reminds listeners that the first step to solving the problem of stonewalling is to choose to make the change. Once you do that, then you can implement skills of active listening to shift the way you engage in hard conversations. And, she emphasizes that these skills work in virtually any situation where people come together to solve hard problems, work, community, parents, children, and most importantly with your romantic partner.Support & Resources:Ellen invites listeners to share their thoughts, either in the P3 Insider's Community or directly with her via email. Or, for one on one brainstorming on a specific situation, listeners can set up a time on Ellen's Calendar for a free Relationship Reset Call.All links can be found below."Until next time, remember, 'What I want most in the world is for you to Make More Love in Your Life and with Your Wife.'" - Ellen DorianDisclaimer:The Make More Love show is for information and entertainment purposes only. It is not a substitute for the guidance of a qualified mental health or medical professional. Make More Love Show Website: www.makemorelove.showParent Company - The Passionate Partners Project: www.passionatepartnersproject.comJoin Our Passionate Partners Insider Community: https://www.facebook.com/groups/682764239165105Contact Me Directly: Email: [email protected] direct message me via social media:Facebook:  https://www.facebook.com/ellen.dorian.7/LinkedIn:    https://www.linkedin.com/in/ellendorian/Take the free Relationship Dynamics Quiz: http://makemorelove.show/quizSet up a Free Relationship Reset Call with me:http://relationshipresetcall.com

In this episode of "Make More Love," host Ellen Dorian reveals the one thing that determines your happiness in relationships. Further, she challenges her listeners to rethink their approach to romance. She introduces three key power moves one should master to make their partners feel loved. She offers practical advice on using these moves to strengthen their connection. Part 1: The Importance of Feeling LovedEllen discusses the critical role of making your partner feel loved consistently. She explains that without this, other successes in life may feel hollow. Ellen challenges listeners to reflect on their relationships and consider if their partner truly feels loved.Part 2: Insights from Romantic HeroesEllen shares insights from the lead characters in romantic fiction, highlighting how they can offer valuable lessons in understanding a partner's desires. She introduces three "romantic hero power moves"—a look, a touch, and a word—that can be used to maintain intimacy and connection in a relationship.Part 3: Practical Implementation TipsEllen provides practical advice on implementing the power moves in daily life. She explains how subtle actions like eye contact, non-sexual touch, and thoughtful words can significantly impact a relationship. Ellen encourages listeners to try these moves and observe the positive changes they bring.Key Takeaways:1. Consistently make your partner feel loved to ensure a fulfilling relationship.2. Small, intentional actions can have a significant impact on intimacy.3. Use eye contact, touch, and words to strengthen your connection without expecting anything in return.Call to Action:Ellen challenges you to take action today to improve your relationship. Join the Passionate Partners Insider Community on Facebook for exclusive content and resources that can help you on this journey. Consider booking a free Relationship Reset Call with Ellen to gain insights tailored to your unique situation. It's really up to you to take the first step.Closing Thoughts:Ellen acknowledges that some listeners might feel unloved in their relationships. She encourages them to take the first step by giving love to their partner, suggesting that this can often lead to receiving love in return. Ellen emphasizes that by initiating these small, loving actions, listeners can inspire a positive change in their relationship dynamics, ultimately leading to a more fulfilling connection. She reminds everyone that they have the power to be the hero in their relationship and to choose love actively.Support & Resources:Ellen invites listeners to share their thoughts, either in the P3 Insider's Community or directly with her via email. Or, for one on one brainstorming on a specific situation, listeners can set up a time on Ellen's Calendar for a free Relationship Reset Call.All links can be found below."Until next time, remember, 'What I want most in the world is for you to Make More Love in Your Life and with Your Wife.'" - Ellen DorianDisclaimer:The Make More Love show is for information and entertainment purposes only. It is not a substitute for the guidance of a qualified mental health or medical professional. Make More Love Show Website: www.makemorelove.showParent Company - The Passionate Partners Project: www.passionatepartnersproject.comJoin Our Passionate Partners Insider Community: https://www.facebook.com/groups/682764239165105Contact Me Directly: Email: [email protected] direct message me via social media:Facebook:  https://www.facebook.com/ellen.dorian.7/LinkedIn:    https://www.linkedin.com/in/ellendorian/Take the free Relationship Dynamics Quiz: http://makemorelove.show/quizSet up a Free Relationship Reset Call with me:http://relationshipresetcall.com

In this episode, we explore the intriguing world of romance novels and how they can inspire new romantic approaches in real-life relationships. Discover the hidden secrets of romantic heroes and learn how to integrate these insights to enhance your relationship and boost your sex life.Part 1: The Cultural Impact of Romance Novels- Romance novels are a $1.5 billion industry with a rich history dating back to the 1700s.- They offer a unique perspective on relationships, providing insights into emotions and motivations.Part 2: Emotional Intelligence and Relationship Dynamics- Romance novels serve as a masterclass in emotional intelligence, showcasing real-life relationship dynamics.- They help readers understand mixed messages, conflicts, and motivations in relationships.Part 3: Creating Intimacy and Connection- The balance between crisis and intimacy in romance novels highlights the importance of deep connections.- Practical tips on how to incorporate these elements into your own relationship for a stronger bond.Key Takeaways:- Romance novels provide valuable insights into real-life relationship dynamics.- Avoid constant crises; focus on creating moments of quiet connection.- Examine and rewrite the stories you tell yourself to align with your desired relationship.Call to Action:Explore romance novels to gain new perspectives on your relationship. Try reading together with your partner to enhance your connection.Closing Thoughts:Romance novels are more than just entertainment; they offer lessons in love and connection. Embrace these insights to enrich your relationship.Support & Resources:Ellen invites listeners to share their thoughts, either in the P3 Insider's Community or directly with her via email. Or, for one on one brainstorming on a specific situation, listeners can set up a time on Ellen's Calendar for a free Relationship Reset Call.All links can be found below."Until next time, remember, 'What I want most in the world is for you to Make More Love in Your Life and with Your Wife.'" - Ellen DorianDisclaimer:The Make More Love show is for information and entertainment purposes only. It is not a substitute for the guidance of a qualified mental health or medical professional. Make More Love Show Website: www.makemorelove.showParent Company - The Passionate Partners Project: www.passionatepartnersproject.comJoin Our Passionate Partners Insider Community: https://www.facebook.com/groups/682764239165105Contact Me Directly: Email: [email protected] direct message me via social media:Facebook:  https://www.facebook.com/ellen.dorian.7/LinkedIn:    https://www.linkedin.com/in/ellendorian/Take the free Relationship Dynamics Quiz: http://makemorelove.show/quizSet up a Free Relationship Reset Call with me:http://relationshipresetcall.com

In this episode of "Make More Love," host Ellen Dorian introduces the Bonfire Framework, a method designed to help entrepreneurial men enhance their relationships through small, intentional actions. Ellen discusses the common challenges couples face and offers practical steps to build and maintain a strong, intimate connection with their partners.Part 1: Common Relationship Issues and The Bonfire Framework- Ellen shares the dramatic impact of small changes that she experienced at the Mediterranean Keto Wellness Retreat she attended recently.- Ellen explains 3 common relationship challenges: Lack of Connection, Diminishing Intimacy, and Neglecting Maintenance.- Ellen addresses these common relationship challenges with her new Bonfire FrameworkPart 2: Steps of the Bonfire Framework- Step 1: Light the Spark - Initiating connection through simple, thoughtful actions.- Step 2: Feed the Flame - Maintaining momentum with regular, meaningful gestures.- Step 3: Add Fuel - Building consistency with planned activities and deep conversations.- Step 4: Bask in the Warmth - Appreciating the closeness and celebrating progress.Part 3: Applying the Framework Based on Your Relationship Stage- Ellen explains how to apply the framework to different relationship stages: Solid, Stagnant, and Struggling.- She addresses common listener concerns about whether the framework will work for their relationship- Offers a free Relationship Reset Call for personalized guidance.Key Takeaways:- Small actions can significantly impact relationship dynamics.- Consistency is crucial for maintaining a strong connection.- Enjoying the process is essential for a fulfilling relationship.Call to Action:- Subscribe to the podcast and share it with friends who might benefit.- Consider booking a free Relationship Reset Call for personalized support.Closing Thoughts:Ellen emphasizes the importance of reconnecting with the reasons for choosing your partner and discovering new ways to enhance your relationship.Support & Resources:Ellen invites listeners to share their thoughts, either in the P3 Insider's Community or directly with her via email. Or, for one on one brainstorming on a specific situation, listeners can set up a time on Ellen's Calendar for a free Relationship Reset Call at relationshipresetcall.comAll links can be found below.If you want to learn more about the Divorce Risk Condition Scale (DivCON) listen to Episode 16:https://www.makemorelove.show/16-relationship-dynamics-and-the-divcon-scale/"Until next time, remember, 'What I want most in the world is for you to Make More Love in Your Life and with Your Wife.'" - Ellen DorianDisclaimer:The Make More Love show is for information and entertainment purposes only. It is not a substitute for the guidance of a qualified mental health or medical professional. Make More Love Show Website: www.makemorelove.showParent Company - The Passionate Partners Project: www.passionatepartnersproject.comJoin Our Passionate Partners Insider Community: https://www.facebook.com/groups/682764239165105Contact Me Directly: Email: [email protected] direct message me via social media:Facebook:  https://www.facebook.com/ellen.dorian.7/LinkedIn:    https://www.linkedin.com/in/ellendorian/Take the free Relationship Dynamics Quiz: http://makemorelove.show/quizSet up a Free Relationship Reset Call with me:http://relationshipresetcall.com

In this episode of "Make More Love," host Ellen Dorian shares her transformative experience at the Mediterranean Keto Wellness Retreat in Greece. Ellen discusses the challenges she faced, the lessons she learned, and how these insights can be applied to improving relationships. Key takeaways include the importance of small changes, trusting the process, and finding a supportive community. Ellen also offers practical advice and resources for listeners looking to enhance their relationships and overall well-being.Part 1: Introduction and Retreat Insights- Welcome and Introduction- Ellen Dorian welcomes listeners to "Make More Love," a podcast for entrepreneurial men seeking success in both business and relationships.- Emphasis on creating a passionate, aligned, and fun relationship with one's spouse.- Mediterranean Keto Wellness Retreat Insights- Ellen shares her experience from the Mediterranean Keto Wellness Retreat in Greece, led by Roberta and Apollonas Kapsalis of Greek Goes Keto.- Discussion on the benefits of the keto Mediterranean lifestyle and its integration with traditional Greek living.Part 2: Personal Challenges and Lessons Learned- Personal Challenges and Overcoming Fears- Ellen's initial struggles with fitting the keto approach into her daily routine.- Decision to attend the retreat solo, despite uncertainties and lack of a clear agenda.- Ellen's anxiety about the retreat and how she overcame it.- Lessons Learned from the Retreat1. It's Going to Be Okay- Ellen's travel mishaps and how the support from the retreat organizers and fellow attendees helped her settle in.- Importance of having a supportive community to guide you through new experiences.2. Trust the Experts- Ellen's experience with intermittent fasting and trying new dietary practices under the guidance of Roberta.- The value of trusting those with expertise and taking small steps towards change.3. Find Your Community- Meeting and connecting with other retreat attendees who shared similar goals and values.- The importance of being part of a supportive community for personal and professional growth.4. Worst Case Scenario Rarely Happens- Ellen's fears about the physical activities at the retreat and how they were unfounded.- Communicating concerns and adjusting mindset to approach new experiences with ease.5. Follow the Process- Learning and integrating new principles of the Mediterranean keto lifestyle.- Emphasis on taking a leap of faith and following a chosen process for lasting change.Part 3: Parallels to Relationship Coaching- Ellen draws parallels between her retreat experience and working with a coach to improve relationships.- Trusting the process and taking things step by step can make transformation manageable.Key Takeaways:1: Small changes lead to big results. Focusing on small, consistent actions can create lasting change over a lifetime, making the process more manageable.2: Following the process reduces overwhelm. Committing to and implementing a proven framework helps you focus on making progress rather than getting stuck on perfection. 3: The right experts and support make success attainable. Having the right guidance and a supportive community makes it easier to reach your goals and stay on track. TBDCall to Action:- Invitation to join the Passionate Partners Insider community on Facebook for exclusive content and resources.- Go to passionatepartnersproject.com for Information on programs, workshops, and private coaching options- Go to relationshipresetcall.com to schedule a call to help listeners get back on track with their relationships.- Request for listeners to leave a review to help grow the community.Closing Thoughts:In today's episode, I shared the valuable lessons I learned from attending the Mediterranean Keto Wellness Retreat and how they apply to relationships. From trusting experts to taking small steps and finding the right community, these lessons show that meaningful change is always within reach if you follow the process. Just like my retreat experience, transforming your relationship takes commitment, but with the right guidance, it becomes manageable. So, whether you’re ready to reignite passion or simply strengthen your connection, I’m here to support you every step of the way. Stay extraordinary, and remember to Make More Love in your life and with your wife.Support & Resources:Ellen invites listeners to share their thoughts, either in the P3 Insider's Community or directly with her via email. Or, for one on one brainstorming on a specific situation, listeners can set up a time on Ellen's Calendar for a free Relationship Reset Call.All links can be found below.Read all about the Mediterranean Keto Retreat in Marathon, Greece 2024:https://www.greekgoesketo.com/keto-mediterranean-retreat-2024-a-culinary-odyssey-through-time-and-taste/Learn more about the Mediterranean Keto Lifestyle:Greek Goes Keto "Until next time, remember, 'What I want most in the world is for you to Make More Love in Your Life

In this episode of "Make More Love," host Ellen Dorian shares insights on the importance of self-care for entrepreneurs. She then shares her most popular social media post ever, "Sleep Naked," and explores its physical and emotional benefits. Ellen offers practical tips for incorporating this practice to enhance intimacy and connection with your partner. Tune in for actionable advice on balancing a successful business with a fulfilling personal life.Part 1: Ellen Shares Her Vacation Plans- Ellen shares that she is currently on a wellness retreat in Greece, focusing on her physical and mental well-being. She describes the wellness retreat's focus on good food, movement, skincare, and longevity, while connecting with nature and history.- Discusses the importance of taking time for oneself amidst the demands of business and relationships.Part 2: The Value of Stillness and Quiet- Ellen reflects on her initial skepticism about silent retreats and how she has come to appreciate the value of stillness and quiet.- Emphasizes the need for business owners to recharge and center themselves, finding quiet time to make that possible.Part 3: Sleep Naked: Her Most Popular Social Media Post Ever- Ellen introduces the most popular post she has ever shared on social media, titled "Sleep Naked."- The post is part of a series of relationship tips available on the podcast's YouTube channel.Benefits of Sleeping Naked- Ellen shares the physiological and emotional benefits of sleeping naked.- Discusses how sleeping naked can improve body temperature regulation, release oxytocin, and enhance emotional openness and vulnerability.Five practical tips for those interested in trying to sleep naked:1. Communicate with your partner about your plan and rationale.2. Gradually adjust to sleeping naked at your own pace.3. Invest in quality sheets and bedding.4. Use multiple blankets to control warmth and comfort.5. Create a bedtime ritual to help wind down.Community EngagementKey Takeaways:It is crucial to take time away for oneself, to reflect and determine your right next thingFocusing on wellness is key to your vitality, which in turn feeds into intimacy and contributes to your Passionate PartnershipSleeping Naked is a healthy practice, both physically and emotionally, and it can lead to more closeness with your spouse.Call to Action:If you’d like some help introducing the idea of sleeping naked to your partner, set up a free relationship reset call. We’ll work out a plan to move you forward. www.relationshipresetcall.comClosing Thoughts:- Highlights the importance of vulnerability and emotional health in relationships.- Thanks listeners for tuning in and hopes the episode added value to their lives.Support & Resources:Ellen invites listeners to share their thoughts, either in the P3 Insider's Community or directly with her via email. Or, for one on one brainstorming on a specific situation, listeners can set up a time on Ellen's Calendar for a free Relationship Reset Call.All links can be found below."Until next time, remember, 'What I want most in the world is for you to Make More Love in Your Life and with Your Wife.'" - Ellen DorianDisclaimer:The Make More Love show is for information and entertainment purposes only. It is not a substitute for the guidance of a qualified mental health or medical professional. Make More Love Show Website: www.makemorelove.showParent Company - The Passionate Partners Project: www.passionatepartnersproject.comJoin Our Passionate Partners Insider Community: https://www.facebook.com/groups/682764239165105Contact Me Directly: Email: [email protected] direct message me via social media:Facebook:  https://www.facebook.com/ellen.dorian.7/LinkedIn:    https://www.linkedin.com/in/ellendorian/Take the free Relationship Dynamics Quiz: http://makemorelove.show/quizSet up a Free Relationship Reset Call with me:http://relationshipresetcall.com

In this episode of "Make More Love," host Ellen Dorian explores the concept of time compatibility and its impact on relationships. Ellen introduces the idea of "time sense," which includes time orientation, time perception, and time utilization. She explains how mismatched time sense between partners can lead to friction and offers practical strategies to align them. These include using shared calendars, setting mutually agreed stopping times, and maintaining open communication about schedule changes. Ellen also invites listeners to a free relationship reset call for personalized advice. Tune in for actionable tips to harmonize your personal and professional life.Summary:Part 1: Understanding Time Compatibility- Ellen introduces the concept of time compatibility and its impact on relationships.- Discusses "time sense," which includes time orientation, time perception, and time utilization.Part 2: Elements of Time Sense- Time Orientation: Focus on past, present, or future and its influence on decision-making.- Time Perception: How quickly or slowly time seems to pass and its effect on relationship dynamics.- Time Utilization: Daily interaction with time, including punctuality, awareness, and estimation.Part 3: Strategies for Syncing Time Sense- Choose the Right Tools: Use shared calendars, smartphones, and reminder apps to stay organized.- Set Mutually Agreed Stopping Times: Establish clear stopping times for work to prioritize relationship time.- Maintain a Shared Calendar: Enhance communication and prevent misunderstandings by keeping an up-to-date shared calendar.- Establish a Daily Morning Check-In: Coordinate schedules and plans to ensure smooth daily alignment.- Communicate Potential Changes Proactively: Inform each other of any changes in plans to manage expectations and reduce stress.Key Takeaways:Awareness of Time Sense: Reflect on your own relationship with time and how it affects your relationship.Initiative in Communication: Proactively share plans and schedules with your partner to build trust.Use of Tools: Utilize calendars, reminders, and alarms to stay organized and demonstrate commitment to your partner.Call to Action:- Ellen invites listeners to explore additional support through the Passionate Partners Insider community, the website, and social channels.- Encourages booking a free relationship reset call for tailored advice.- Reminds listeners to follow, subscribe, leave reviews, and share the podcast to help the community grow.Closing Thoughts:- Unique Insight on Time Sense: Recognize that time sense is a deeply personal and often subconscious aspect of our lives. Understanding your own time sense and that of your partner can lead to greater empathy and cooperation.- Impact of Time Compatibility on Relationship Quality: Time compatibility isn't just about logistics; it's about creating a harmonious life together. When you and your partner are in sync, it can significantly enhance the quality of your relationship.- Practical Application of Strategies: Implementing these strategies can transform daily interactions and reduce friction. Small changes in how you manage and communicate about time can lead to big improvements in your relationship.- Encouragement to Take Action: Don't wait for conflicts to arise. Proactively addressing time compatibility can prevent issues and strengthen your bond. Start with one strategy and build from there.- Invitation for Continued Learning and Growth: Relationships are dynamic, and continuous effort is key. Stay engaged with the podcast, join the community, and seek personalized support to keep growing together.Support & Resources:Ellen invites listeners to share their thoughts, either in the P3 Insider's Community or directly with her via email. Or, for one on one brainstorming on a specific situation, listeners can set up a time on Ellen's Calendar for a free Relationship Reset Call.All links can be found below."Until next time, remember, 'What I want most in the world is for you to Make More Love in Your Life and with Your Wife.'" - Ellen DorianDisclaimer:The Make More Love show is for information and entertainment purposes only. It is not a substitute for the guidance of a qualified mental health or medical professional. Make More Love Show Website: www.makemorelove.showParent Company - The Passionate Partners Project: www.passionatepartnersproject.comJoin Our Passionate Partners Insider Community: https://www.facebook.com/groups/682764239165105Contact Me Directly: Email: [email protected] direct message me via social media:Facebook:  https://www.facebook.com/ellen.dorian.7/LinkedIn:    https://www.linkedin.com/in/ellendorian/Take the free Relationship Dynamics Quiz: http://makemorelove.show/quizSet up a Free Relationship Reset Call with me:http://relationshipresetcall.com

In this episode, Ellen Dorian explores the importance of creating clear agreements in relationships, similar to those in business. She explains that while business agreements are formal and explicit, relationship agreements often remain unspoken, leading to misunderstandings. Ellen categorizes agreements into four types: explicit, implicit, unwritten, and assumptive, and discusses how each can impact a relationship. She also provides practical advice on how to create and maintain these agreements to ensure a fulfilling and passionate partnership.Key Topics Discussed:Welcome and Introduction:- Ellen Dorian welcomes listeners and introduces the episode's focus on agreements in relationships.- Emphasizes the importance of clear agreements for a successful and passionate partnership.Types of Agreements:1. Explicit Agreements:- Clearly stated and mutually acknowledged by both partners.- Examples include financial arrangements and household duties.2. Implicit Agreements:- Developed from consistent behaviors or patterns over time without formal discussion.- Example: One partner always cooks while the other does the dishes.3. Unwritten Agreements:- Not explicitly discussed but assumed to be known by both parties.- Example: One partner consistently plans social events.4. Assumptive Agreements:- Based on one partner's uncommunicated expectations.- Example: One partner insists on resolving conflicts immediately, assuming the other shares this belief.Importance of Revisiting Agreements:- Life changes and so do our needs and expectations.- Regularly revisiting and updating agreements can prevent conflicts and keep the relationship aligned with a common purpose.Categories of Agreements:1. Core Relationship Dynamics:- Values and beliefs- Communication- Intimacy- Conflict resolution styles- Decision-making styles- Requests and responsiveness- Investment in the relationship2. Practical Life Management:- Finances- Household responsibilities- Career decisions- Time management- Work and relationship prioritization- Lifestyle and health choices- Parenting styles3. Social and External Factors:- Social media usage- Hot topics (religion, politics, sports)- In-law relationships- Friendships and social circles- Holidays and traditions- Leisure activities and hobbies- Personal growth and developmentLove Agreements:- Introduces the concept of love agreements to inject passion and energy into the relationship.- Encourages positive reinforcement and celebration of successful agreements.Key Takeaways:1. Make More Agreements:- Understanding and creating agreements in your relationship keeps things running smoothly.2. Keep Things Up to Date:- Regularly check in on your agreements to ensure they still work for both partners.3. Add Some Fun:- Consider love agreements to spice things up and keep the emotional connection strong.Call to Action:Key Takeaways:Call to Action:- Join the Passionate Partners Insider Community on Facebook for exclusive content and resources.- Visit the website and social channels for information on programs, workshops, and coaching.- Book a free Relationship Reset Call with Ellen for personalized support.TBDClosing Thoughts:Your relationship is strengthened by the clarity of your agreements and the depth of your connection. By practicing open communication and revisiting your commitments, you can build a partnership that thrives on mutual understanding and passion.Support the Show:- Follow and subscribe to the podcast.- Leave a review to help the community grow.- Share the show with someone who might benefit from it.Support & Resources:Ellen invites listeners to share their thoughts, either in the P3 Insider's Community or directly with her via email. Or, for one on one brainstorming on a specific situation, listeners can set up a time on Ellen's Calendar for a free Relationship Reset Call.Free Resource: Love Agreement TemplateAll links can be found below."Until next time, remember, 'What I want most in the world is for you to Make More Love in Your Life and with Your Wife.'" - Ellen Dorian Make More Love Show Website: www.makemorelove.showParent Company - The Passionate Partners Project: www.passionatepartnersproject.comJoin Our Passionate Partners Insider Community: https://www.facebook.com/groups/682764239165105Contact Me Directly: Email: [email protected] direct message me via social media:Facebook:  https://www.facebook.com/ellen.dorian.7/LinkedIn:    https://www.linkedin.com/in/ellendorian/Take the free Relationship Dynamics Quiz: http://makemorelove.show/quizSet up a Free Relationship Reset Call with me:http://relationshipresetcall.com

In this revisited episode, host Ellen Dorian expands upon the earlier exploration of the Relationship Drive Matrix. She introduces an in-depth three-part model that examines the formation and dissolution of relationships, the behaviors that impact these processes, and provides practical strategies for navigating these intricate dynamics.Special Thanks: Simon Bowen, founder of the Models Method, and his wife Joanne for their inspirational partnership and generous sharing of knowledge.Part 1: The Relationship Hierarchy of NeedsEllen parallels Maslow's Hierarchy of Personal Needs to relationships, outlining a pyramid of needs crucial for a fulfilling love life. The levels range from foundational physical, mental, and emotional health to the pinnacle of passion, emphasizing the importance of each stage in achieving a passionate, fulfilling relationship.Part 2: The Downward Spiral of Relationship DeclineEllen presents a model of relationship dynamics that mirror the Hierarchy of Needs but in reverse order, illustrating how relationships can deteriorate. From the dimming of passion to the depths of despair, Ellen explains how each stage reflects a shift away from the thriving state of a partnership and identifies the behaviors that trigger these declines.Part 3: The 5 Triggering BehaviorsIdentifying specific behaviors that catalyze shifts within the Spiral of Relationship Decline, Ellen offers clarity on how neglect, resentment, resignation, withholding, and torment can undermine a relationship. This segment empowers listeners with the knowledge to pinpoint and address the root causes of relationship issues.Key Takeaways:Understanding the Relationship Hierarchy of Needs and the significance of each level in cultivating a thriving partnership.Recognizing the patterns of decline in relationships and the behaviors that precipitate these shifts.Empowerment through knowledge: Identifying where your relationship stands and actionable steps to reinforce or repair your bond.Call to Action:Reflect on your relationship's current position within the Relationship Hierarchy of Needs and the Downward Spiral of Relationship Decline.Consider how the 5 Triggering Behaviors may be playing a role in your relationship dynamics.Reach out to Ellen for a chance to be a beta tester for an exciting new assessment tool she's developing.Support & Resources:Ellen invites listeners to share their thoughts, either in the P3 Insider's Community or directly with her via email. Or, for one on one brainstorming on a specific situation, listeners can set up a time on Ellen's Calendar for a free Relationship Reset Call.All links can be found below."Until next time, remember, 'What I want most in the world is for you to Make More Love in Your Life and with Your Wife.'" - Ellen Dorian Make More Love Show Website: www.makemorelove.showParent Company - The Passionate Partners Project: www.passionatepartnersproject.comJoin Our Passionate Partners Insider Community: https://www.facebook.com/groups/682764239165105Contact Me Directly: Email: [email protected] direct message me via social media:Facebook:  https://www.facebook.com/ellen.dorian.7/LinkedIn:    https://www.linkedin.com/in/ellendorian/Take the free Relationship Dynamics Quiz: http://makemorelove.show/quizSet up a Free Relationship Reset Call with me:http://relationshipresetcall.com

SUMMARY:In this episode of Make More Love, Host Ellen Dorian explores the critical topic of overcoming communication barriers in relationships. Men often face accusations of stonewalling and passive-aggressive behavior, which can undermine emotional intimacy and connection. Ellen dives into the reasons behind these behaviors, offers strategies to address them, and emphasizes the importance of effective, direct communication to foster healthier and more passionate relationships.Part 1: Understanding Non-Verbal Communication and StonewallingEllen introduces the episode by discussing the power of non-verbal communication and how it can often send unintended messages. She shares the story of her executive coaching client, RG, to illustrate how non-verbal actions like sliding keys across the table can be perceived as stonewalling. She explains why this behavior is damaging in personal relationships and sets the stage for deeper exploration.Part 2: The Motivations Behind Aggressive GesturesEllen delves into the motivations behind aggressive gestures and stonewalling. She identifies three common reasons: expressing hurt feelings without words, trying to scare a partner into caving, and hoping the partner will call their bluff and initiate a breakup. Ellen offers insights into why these behaviors occur and emphasizes the importance of direct communication.Part 3: Strategies for Communicating DirectlyEllen provides practical, step-by-step strategies for communicating disagreements in a healthy and effective way. She introduces the concept of "Stop the Wall Before It Starts" and shares her personal experiences with stonewalling. She offers a clear response strategy, encourages gathering thoughts, expressing trust, using "I" statements, and showing respect to foster constructive dialogue and deeper connection.Key Takeaways:Non-Verbal Communication Matters: Actions often speak louder than words. Being mindful of your non-verbal communication can prevent misunderstandings and foster healthier interactions.Avoid Stonewalling: Withdrawing from conversations is extremely damaging to relationships. Engage and communicate openly to resolve issues effectively.Healthy Communication Strategies: Effective communication involves staying calm, using "I" statements, being specific, actively listening, and working together to attack the problem rather than each other.Call to Action:Ellen invites listeners to reflect on their communication habits and implement the strategies discussed in the episode. She encourages setting up a time for a free Relationship Reset Call to map out actionable steps for improving their relationships.Closing Thoughts:Ellen wraps up the episode by emphasizing the importance of direct and honest communication in building strong, passionate relationships. She reassures listeners that by adopting these strategies, they can transform conflicts into opportunities for deeper connection.Support & Resources:Ellen invites listeners to share their thoughts, either in the P3 Insider's Community or directly with her via email. Or, for one on one brainstorming on a specific situation, listeners can set up a time on Ellen's Calendar for a free Relationship Reset Call.www.relationshipresetcall.comAll links can be found below."Until next time, remember, 'What I want most in the world is for you to Make More Love in Your Life and with Your Wife.'" - Ellen Dorian Make More Love Show Website: www.makemorelove.showParent Company - The Passionate Partners Project: www.passionatepartnersproject.comJoin Our Passionate Partners Insider Community: https://www.facebook.com/groups/682764239165105Contact Me Directly: Email: [email protected] direct message me via social media:Facebook:  https://www.facebook.com/ellen.dorian.7/LinkedIn:    https://www.linkedin.com/in/ellendorian/Take the free Relationship Dynamics Quiz: http://makemorelove.show/quizSet up a Free Relationship Reset Call with me:http://relationshipresetcall.com

In this episode of "Make More Love," we explore the various states of relationship health through the lens of the DIVCON scale, inspired by the DEFCON levels used by the United States Army. Ellen Dorian breaks down each level, from DIVCON 5 (stable and normal) to DIVCON 1 (almost the point of no return), and provides practical tips and strategies for each stage. Whether your relationship needs a bit of excitement or a full reset, this episode will help you understand where you stand and how to move forward.Part 1: Inspiration for this episodeRelationships go through many stages and are rarely a straight line.Different episodes focus on different levels of relationship health, from bringing back fun and passion to tackling serious problems.Introduction to the DEFCON levels and how they inspired the DIVCON scale for relationships.Detailed explanation of each DIVCON level with practical tips for addressing issues at each stage.Part 2 DIVCON Levels and Practical Tips:DIVCON 5: Stable and NormalDescription: Everyday life feels stable and normal. You've reached the passion level on the relationship hierarchy of needs.Practical Tips:Make Date Night Special: Plan and set dates in advance to break the routine.Try New Things: Keep the excitement alive with new activities together.Connect Daily: Make a conscious effort to connect every day for at least 10 minutes.Recommended Episodes:Episode 7: Master Date NightsEpisode 10: Adventures to Deepen Your RelationshipDIVCON 4: Increased Concern Needing AwarenessDescription: Relationship feels more like roommates than lovers. It's routine and lacks passion.Practical Tips:Nip This in the Bud: Halt the slide and make a commitment to change.Practice Gratitude: Acknowledge something you appreciate about your partner daily.Communicate Daily: Increase efforts to communicate regularly and meaningfully.Recommended Episodes:Episode 5: Why Work-Life Balance Won't Protect Your RelationshipEpisode 6: Power Up Your Relationship EnergyDIVCON 3: Heightened RiskDescription: Relationship is breaking down slowly. Everything feels stagnant.Practical Tips:Deep Introspection: Identify and change behaviors contributing to stagnation.Deep Conversation: Have an honest conversation with your partner about reconnecting.Create a Deliberate Plan for Shared Activities: Start doing things together and minimize separate social activities.Recommended Episodes:Episode 3: Why You Should Keep Working on Your RelationshipEpisode 11: Toxic WordsPart 3: Advanced DIVCON Levels and ConclusionDIVCON 2: Imminent Risk of DivorceDescription: Relationship is a cold war with quiet hostility and deep resentments.Practical Tips:Assess Your Willingness: Determine if you're willing to do the work to repair the relationship.Seek Professional Help: Get support from a coach or therapist for both individual and couples work.Discern Issues: Understand where the relationship is going off track by gaining deeper insights.Recommended Episodes:Episode 4: Relationship DynamicsEpisode 9: Men Are Not CluelessDIVCON 1: Almost the Point of No ReturnDescription: Relationship is in a hot war with constant fighting and no desire to improve.Practical Tips:Find Neutral Ground: Move apart temporarily to gain breathing room.Preserve or Recover Your Honor: Stop open hostility and aim to regain integrity.Repair the Relationship: Work on repairing the relationship, especially if you have children.Key Takeaways:Assess Relationship Health: The DIVCON scale helps you identify the current state of your relationship and what specific issues to address.Tailored Strategies: Each DIVCON level has specific, practical tips to improve your relationship, from reigniting passion to seeking professional help.Seek Professional Support: At higher DIVCON levels, professional support from a coach or therapist is essential for navigating complex issues and fostering a healthier relationship.Call to Action:If you have any questions or need personalized advice, do not hesitate to reach out. Ellen offers a free Relationship Reset Call to help you on your journey to a more fulfilling and passionate partnership. Visit relationshipresetcall.com to schedule your call today.Closing Thoughts:Understanding your relationship's DIVCON level is the first step to making positive changes. People are incredibly resilient, and even at the highest DIVCON levels, it is possible to remake your relationship if both partners are committed. Stay tuned for future episodes with more tips and strategies to help you bring back the fun, reconnect, and address problems before they escalate.Support & Resources:Ellen invites listeners to share their thoughts, either in the P3 Insider's Community or directly with her via email. Or, for one on one brainstorming on a specific situation, listeners can set up a time on Ellen's Calendar for a free Relationship Reset Call.Here's the link for the Table Topics Couples Edition— 135 conversation starting cards tailored for couples. https://a.co/d/02ZKdm

In this episode, Ellen Dorian continues her conversation with mindset and business coach Justin Wiseman. Justin shares his journey from working in a family-owned pizza shop to becoming a successful coach, highlighting the importance of mindset over business strategies. They discuss societal pressures on men to be providers and how these expectations can lead to personal and professional challenges. The episode offers insights into redefining success, embracing authenticity, and the transformative power of mindset shifts.Part 1: Justin's Early Career and Lessons from HospitalityJustin's start in the hospitality industry at a family-owned pizza shop.The importance of working your way up and learning every aspect of the business.How these early experiences taught him the value of reliability, pride in work, and the fundamentals of running a business.Part 2: Societal Pressures and Overcoming Traditional Masculine RolesDiscussion on the ingrained roles of protector, provider, and pursuer.The generational differences in how men perceive success and pressure.Justin’s personal journey of transformation, realizing his value beyond being a provider, and the impact of societal expectations and social media.Part 3: Authenticity, Inner Work, and Rebuilding SuccessJustin's reflections on his father's influence and societal expectations.The importance of defining success on personal terms and embracing authenticity.How Justin and his wife navigated personal and professional challenges, including homelessness, to rebuild their lives and achieve a seven-figure business.The significance of mindset shifts and inner work in achieving personal fulfillment and professional success.Key Takeaways:Traditional masculine roles can be deeply ingrained, but it's possible to overcome them.Defining success on your own terms is crucial for personal fulfillment.Authenticity and inner work are key to building healthier relationships and a fulfilling life.Societal expectations and social media can negatively impact self-worth if not addressed.Balancing business ambitions with personal values leads to a more satisfying journey.Call to Action:Listeners are encouraged to reflect on their own definitions of success and consider the impact of societal expectations on their lives. For personalized support, they can set up a free Relationship Reset Call with Ellen to discuss their specific situations and create a plan for improvement.Closing Thoughts:Ellen highlights the importance of redefining masculinity and success in a way that aligns with one's true self. She emphasizes the value of inner work and authenticity in building meaningful relationships and achieving personal fulfillment.Support & Resources:Ellen invites listeners to share their thoughts, either in the P3 Insider's Community or directly with her via email. Or, for one on one brainstorming on a specific situation, listeners can set up a time on Ellen's Calendar for a free Relationship Reset Call.All links can be found below.Justin Wiseman Contact information:If you'd like to reach out to Justin Wiseman, here's how to find him:Email: [email protected]: 0402159293https://www.facebook.com/justinwiseman01"Until next time, remember, 'What I want most in the world is for you to Make More Love in Your Life and with Your Wife.'" - Ellen Dorian Make More Love Show Website: www.makemorelove.showParent Company - The Passionate Partners Project: www.passionatepartnersproject.comJoin Our Passionate Partners Insider Community: https://www.facebook.com/groups/682764239165105Contact Me Directly: Email: [email protected] direct message me via social media:Facebook:  https://www.facebook.com/ellen.dorian.7/LinkedIn:    https://www.linkedin.com/in/ellendorian/Take the free Relationship Dynamics Quiz: http://makemorelove.show/quizSet up a Free Relationship Reset Call with me:http://relationshipresetcall.com

Host Ellen Dorian welcomes her first guest, Justin Wiseman, from Australia. Justin is a multifaceted individual – a business owner, coach, father, and lover – who has successfully navigated the demanding worlds of entrepreneurship and personal relationships. In this conversation, Justin candidly shares his transformative journey from being a high-performance athlete to overcoming addiction and ultimately building successful businesses with his wife. Listeners will hear about the challenges Justin and his wife faced, the lessons they learned, and the strategies they used to keep their relationship strong amidst the pressures of running multiple businesses. Packed with actionable insights and real-life experiences, this episode offers valuable takeaways for entrepreneurial men who are in the thick of it... running a successful business and having a successful relationship at the same time. Part 1:Introduction to the show and guest Justin Wiseman.Justin shares his background in sports and his journey through addiction.Discussion about his early interest in business and initial ventures.Justin's transition into running multiple businesses with his wife, including the challenges they faced in managing family and business responsibilities.Part 2:The story of how Justin and his wife decided to start their coffee shop and donut business.The impact of societal expectations on their roles and business priorities.Insights into the struggles and strategies they used to balance their professional and personal lives.Part 3:Justin’s realization about the importance of separating relationship nurturing from life logistics.The transformative power of fun and laughter in maintaining a healthy relationship.Justin shares practical tips for keeping a relationship vibrant and fulfilling.Key Takeaways:Focus on Your Inner World: Your thoughts, perceptions, and actions are within your control. Trying to change your partner can lead to resentment and a loss of their vibrancy.Separate Relationship and Life Logistics: Understand that maintaining your life together is different from nurturing your intimate relationship.Have Fun Together: Regularly engage in fun activities and laugh together to maintain a vibrant and fulfilling relationship.Call to Action:If you've enjoyed this conversation with Justin, be sure to tune in for Part Two of the interview. We will dive into the business side of Justin's life and discuss broader issues such as overcoming stereotypes and societal expectations, changing perceptions and adopting new mindsets.Closing Thoughts:Thank you for listening to today’s episode. Remember, focusing on your inner world, distinguishing between life logistics and relationship nurturing, and having fun together are key to a successful relationship. Don’t forget to follow and subscribe to the podcast so you don’t miss the next episode.Support & Resources:Ellen invites listeners to share their thoughts, either in the Passionate Partners Insider Community or directly with her via email. For one-on-one brainstorming on a specific situation, listeners can set up a time on Ellen's Calendar for a free Relationship Reset Call: www.relationshipresetcall.comAll links can be found below.Justin Wiseman Contact information:If you'd like to reach out to Justin Wiseman, here's how to find him:Email: [email protected]: 0402159293https://www.facebook.com/justinwiseman01"Until next time, remember, 'What I want most in the world is for you to Make More Love in Your Life and with Your Wife.'" - Ellen Dorian Make More Love Show Website: www.makemorelove.showParent Company - The Passionate Partners Project: www.passionatepartnersproject.comJoin Our Passionate Partners Insider Community: https://www.facebook.com/groups/682764239165105Contact Me Directly: Email: [email protected] direct message me via social media:Facebook:  https://www.facebook.com/ellen.dorian.7/LinkedIn:    https://www.linkedin.com/in/ellendorian/Take the free Relationship Dynamics Quiz: http://makemorelove.show/quizSet up a Free Relationship Reset Call with me:http://relationshipresetcall.com

In this episode of "Make More Love," Ellen starts with a personal story about the importance of health screenings, tying it into the broader theme of Living the Good Life. Part 1: Examples of Modern Masculinity Ellen uses the TV show "Ted Lasso" as a lens to discuss modern masculinity, highlighting characters who embody vulnerability, empathy, and personal growth. The show serves as a backdrop to explore characters' personal growth, relationships, and struggles.Part 2: Relating Show Themes to Previous Podcast EpisodeEllen connects the show to themes discussed in her previous podcast episode, including extended adolescence, modern parenting, and evolving beliefs about masculinity. She discusses modern vs. traditional coaching styles and parental figures depicted in the show.Part 3: Character Analysis1. Ted Lasso:- Strengths: Compassionate, optimistic, emotionally open.- Weaknesses: Avoids deeper personal issues, impacting personal growth and effectiveness.2. Coach Beard:- Strengths: Wise, knowledgeable, cornerstone of the team's success.- Weaknesses: Lone wolf, private life, reluctant to seek help.3. Roy Kent:- Strengths: Traditional alpha athlete with emotional intelligence and vulnerability.- Weaknesses: Anger management issues, struggles with productive expression of anger.4. Jamie Tartt:- Strengths: Talented, evolves from self-centered to team player.- Weaknesses: Arrogance, raw talent initially alienates others.5. Higgins:- Strengths: Fantasy father figure, supportive.- Weaknesses: People pleaser, struggles with telling truth to power.6. Nate Shelley:- Strengths: Dramatic transformation, valuable team member.- Weaknesses: Insecurity, resentment, negative transformation.7. Dani Rojas:- Strengths: Eternal cheerleader, positive.- Weaknesses: One-dimensional, parallels Ted's positivity issues.8. Isaac McAdoo:- Strengths: Leadership potential, eventually embraces role.- Weaknesses: Imposter syndrome, high expectations isolate him.9. Trent Crimm:- Strengths: High integrity, role model for modern masculinity.- Weaknesses: Not explicitly discussed.Part 4: Respectful Portrayal of WomenEllen praises the show for normalizing gender equality and portraying women in positions of power without emphasizing female exceptionalism.Part 5: Key Lessons from Ted Lasso Characters1. Embracing Vulnerability and Humility: Ted's authenticity and willingness to admit mistakes.2. Championing Your Partner: Roy's empathy.3. Commitment to Personal Development: Jamie's journey from arrogance to humility and team player.4. Confidence Without Arrogance: Coach Beard's not showing off his knowledge unless invited.5. Self-Worth: Nate's struggle with self-worth and its impact on relationships and personal growth.Key Takeaways:1. Modern Masculinity in Action: Characters illustrate empathy, vulnerability, and strength, offering practical applications for listeners.2. Success Through Attraction, Advocacy, and Investment: Prioritizing meaningful connections and investing in others' growth.3. Inner Mental Game: Confronting insecurities, embracing vulnerability, and committing to self-improvement for stronger relationships and success.Support & Resources:Ellen invites listeners to share their thoughts, either in the P3 Insider's Community or directly with her via email. Or, for one on one brainstorming on a specific situation, listeners can set up a time on Ellen's Calendar for a free Relationship Reset Call.All links can be found below.Call to Action:Like, follow, subscribe, and leave a review to help the community grow.Share the show with someone you know who might benefit from it.Closing Thoughts:"Until next time, remember, 'What I want most in the world is for you to Make More Love in Your Life and with Your Wife.'" - Ellen Dorian Make More Love Show Website: www.makemorelove.showParent Company - The Passionate Partners Project: www.passionatepartnersproject.comJoin Our Passionate Partners Insider Community: https://www.facebook.com/groups/682764239165105Contact Me Directly: Email: [email protected] direct message me via social media:Facebook:  https://www.facebook.com/ellen.dorian.7/LinkedIn:    https://www.linkedin.com/in/ellendorian/Take the free Relationship Dynamics Quiz: http://makemorelove.show/quizSet up a Free Relationship Reset Call with me:http://relationshipresetcall.com

In this episode, Ellen delves into the dangerous myths of manhood that are undermining relationships, set against the backdrop of three pivotal societal trends reshaping expectations of men. Part 1: Redefining AdulthoodWe discuss the American Psychological Association's extension of adolescence to age 25 and its implications for young men's responsibilities and societal expectations. We also explore how historical and modern mentoring practices can aid in navigating adulthood.Part 2: Parenting ApproachesThis segment delves into the shift from traditional 'Command and Control' parenting to more aspirational, hands-on parenting styles. We examine how these modern approaches may delay self-reliance and independence among young men, including real-world anecdotes from the workplace.Part 3: Cultural Expectations in FluxWe explore the evolving expectations of manhood, contrasting traditional roles with modern ideals that emphasize empathy, emotional intelligence, and self-care. The discussion highlights the generational differences in perceptions of what constitutes the 'good life' and successful manhood.Part 4: Three Shifts in Masculine RolesWe discuss transformative shifts in how men can evolve from traditional roles towards a more modern, collaborative approach:Shift from Pursuing to Attracting: Changing from aggressively seeking to creating an inviting presence that draws positive relationships and opportunities.Shift from Protector to Advocate: Moving from shielding loved ones to supporting their aspirations and celebrating their successes.Shift from Provider to Investor: Transitioning from the sole financial provider to a collaborator in a joint venture where both partners contribute and benefit equally.Key Takeaways:Adjusting Adult Maturity Expectations: Recognize that full maturity extends into the mid-twenties, requiring adjustments in our expectations for young men's roles in relationships and society.Modernizing Masculine Roles: Balance traditional masculine roles with modern values, fostering both strength and vulnerability in today's men.Evolving from Traditional to Collaborative Roles: Encourage men to engage more deeply in their relationships through collaboration and mutual support, moving beyond the roles of sole providers and protectors.Call to Action:Join the conversation about modern masculinity and relationships in our Passionate Partners Insider Community on Facebook, or reach out directly via email for a one-on-one dialogue. Also, don't miss the chance to book a free Relationship Reset Call with me to address your specific relationship needs.Closing Thoughts:As we navigate these shifting expectations and masculine role models, remember that understanding and adapting to new roles can lead to richer, more fulfilling relationships and personal growth.Support & Resources:Ellen invites listeners to share their thoughts, either in the P3 Insider's Community or directly with her via email. Or, for one on one brainstorming on a specific situation, listeners can set up a time on Ellen's Calendar for a free Relationship Reset Call.All links can be found below."Until next time, remember, 'What I want most in the world is for you to Make More Love in Your Life and with Your Wife.'" - Ellen Dorian Make More Love Show Website: www.makemorelove.showParent Company - The Passionate Partners Project: www.passionatepartnersproject.comJoin Our Passionate Partners Insider Community: https://www.facebook.com/groups/682764239165105Contact Me Directly: Email: [email protected] direct message me via social media:Facebook:  https://www.facebook.com/ellen.dorian.7/LinkedIn:    https://www.linkedin.com/in/ellendorian/Take the free Relationship Dynamics Quiz: http://makemorelove.show/quizSet up a Free Relationship Reset Call with me:http://relationshipresetcall.com

In today's episode, we're peeling back the layers on how the words we say can either nourish or damage our relationships. Join us as we explore the analogy of apple seeds and toxic words, discuss the real-life consequences of negative language, and provide you with tools to cultivate a more loving and supportive partnership.Part 1: The Power of WordsThe introduction to the concept of words as seeds that can grow into something beautiful or toxic in our relationships.Part 2: Perception and RealityA discussion on how the words we use shape our perception of our partners and how those perceptions can solidify into our reality.Part 3: Conscious CommunicationTips on how to shift from harmful language to nurturing conversations and an introduction to the Conscious Communication Script.Key Takeaways:Like apple seeds, toxic words can poison relationships when used thoughtlessly.Our language creates our reality—mindful communication fosters a better understanding and stronger connection.Change the script of your dialogue from destructive to constructive to reignite passion and intimacy.Call to Action:Don't let negativity take root in your relationship. For those looking to detox from harmful communication habits, Ellen offers a free 15-minute Relationship Reset Call, a chance to lay out actionable steps toward a more loving relationship.Closing Thoughts:Words are powerful, and when used with intent, they can transform the dynamic of your marriage and your life.Support & Resources:Ellen invites listeners to share their thoughts, either in the P3 Insider's Community or directly with her via email. Or, for one on one brainstorming on a specific situation, listeners can set up a time on Ellen's Calendar for a free Relationship Reset Call.All links can be found below."Until next time, remember, 'What I want most in the world is for you to Make More Love in Your Life and with Your Wife.'" - Ellen Dorian Make More Love Show Website: www.makemorelove.showParent Company - The Passionate Partners Project: www.passionatepartnersproject.comJoin Our Passionate Partners Insider Community: https://www.facebook.com/groups/682764239165105Contact Me Directly: Email: [email protected] direct message me via social media:Facebook:  https://www.facebook.com/ellen.dorian.7/LinkedIn:    https://www.linkedin.com/in/ellendorian/Take the free Relationship Dynamics Quiz: http://makemorelove.show/quizSet up a Free Relationship Reset Call with me:http://relationshipresetcall.com

In this episode, Ellen delves into the importance of creating adventures, appreciating individual styles within relationships, and making memories with your partner. From watching eclipses in Austin, Texas, to capturing moments through photography, Ellen shares insights on enhancing your romantic connection.Part 1: Shared AdventuresEllen discusses the benefits of shared experiences and encourages listeners to engage in adventures with their partners, highlighting how it can strengthen bonds and provide a much-needed break from the work grind.Part 2: Individuality and ConnectionThe value of maintaining individual approaches in a relationship is explored, as Ellen shares her and her husband's differing photography styles and how it brings them closer.Part 3: A Container for Shared MemoriesThe concept of a reverse bucket list is introduced as a way to cherish and remember life's special moments, with a practical method of using a Google Calendar for regular reminiscing.Key Takeaways:Shared adventures can significantly deepen your connection with your partner.Embracing your individuality can enrich your relationship, offering new ways to connect and admire each other.Creating shared memories is a powerful way to bond, and keeping a reverse bucket list can help preserve those special moments.Call to Action:Reflect on your adventures and shared moments. Join the conversation in our Passionate Partners Insider Community or share your thoughts privately by emailing Ellen. If you're seeking more tailored advice, book a free 15-minute Relationship Reset Call with Ellen to brainstorm ways to revitalize your partnership.Closing Thoughts:Cherish the moments that bring you and your partner together and remember that personal growth and relationship development go hand in hand. Keep exploring, connecting, and creating memories.Support & Resources:Ellen invites listeners to share their thoughts, either in the P3 Insider's Community or directly with her via email. Or, for one on one brainstorming on a specific situation, listeners can set up a time on Ellen's Calendar for a free Relationship Reset Call.All links can be found below."Until next time, remember, 'What I want most in the world is for you to Make More Love in Your Life and with Your Wife.'" - Ellen Dorian Make More Love Show Website: www.makemorelove.showParent Company - The Passionate Partners Project: www.passionatepartnersproject.comJoin Our Passionate Partners Insider Community: https://www.facebook.com/groups/682764239165105Contact Me Directly: Email: [email protected] direct message me via social media:Facebook:  https://www.facebook.com/ellen.dorian.7/LinkedIn:    https://www.linkedin.com/in/ellendorian/Take the free Relationship Dynamics Quiz: http://makemorelove.show/quizSet up a Free Relationship Reset Call with me:http://relationshipresetcall.com

Join Ellen Dorian in a powerful episode of Make More Love, where she dismantles the myths about men's emotional intelligence and lays out a blueprint for creating a culture of respect in relationships. She shares a poignant real-life encounter and offers actionable advice for entrepreneurial men looking to harmonize the demands of business with the desires of a fulfilling partnership.Part 1: Shattering StereotypesEllen shares an insightful breakfast encounter that turns the tables on the stereotype of men as relationship-inept, highlighting the genuine and profound discussions men have about their emotional struggles.Part 2: Creating A Culture of Respect At HomeDrawing parallels between company culture and relationship dynamics, Ellen presents five key principles to instill a culture of respect at home, emphasizing presence, gratitude, and sharing the mental load.Part 3: Cultivating Self-RespectThe conversation culminates in the crucial role of self-respect, underscoring that a man's internal esteem sets the stage for healthier, more respectful relationships.Key Takeaways:Men are emotionally intelligent and invested in their relationships.Respect can and should be cultivated deliberately within a relationship, much like a positive company culture.Self-respect is essential for relationship success and must be nurtured alongside respect for one's partner.Call to Action:Ellen encourages listeners to take active steps toward building respect in their relationships and offers a free Relationship Reset Call for personalized guidance. Listeners are invited to join the P3 Insider's Community or reach out directly via email for further support.Closing Thoughts:Ellen emphasizes the transformative power of respect and self-regard, advocating for a proactive approach to relationship improvement that mirrors the dedication men show in their businesses.Support & Resources:Ellen invites listeners to share their thoughts, either in the P3 Insider's Community or directly with her via email. Or, for one on one brainstorming on a specific situation, listeners can set up a time on Ellen's Calendar for a free Relationship Reset Call.All links can be found below."Until next time, remember, 'What I want most in the world is for you to Make More Love in Your Life and with Your Wife.'" - Ellen Dorian Make More Love Show Website: www.makemorelove.showParent Company - The Passionate Partners Project: www.passionatepartnersproject.comJoin Our Passionate Partners Insider Community: https://www.facebook.com/groups/682764239165105Contact Me Directly: Email: [email protected] direct message me via social media:Facebook:  https://www.facebook.com/ellen.dorian.7/LinkedIn:    https://www.linkedin.com/in/ellendorian/Take the free Relationship Dynamics Quiz: http://makemorelove.show/quizSet up a Free Relationship Reset Call with me:http://relationshipresetcall.com

In today's episode, Ellen Dorian takes a step away from the usual relationship frameworks and systems to directly address listeners' questions. This intimate session provides insight into Ellen's extensive experience with a variety of relationship dynamics, her inclusive coaching approach, and the philosophy behind her unique method. She also shares personal anecdotes to illustrate the complexity of balancing privacy with professional visibility.Part 1: Inclusivity in Relationship CoachingEllen explains her work with a diverse array of relationship structures, emphasizing her support for the LGBTQIA+ community and dedication to all forms of love and connection.Part 2: Listener Questions AnsweredAddressing why the podcast may seem heteronormative and the focused support for male business owners.The distinction between Ellen's coaching and other relationship advice, including her stance against popular but potentially limiting labels.Part 3: Ellen's Personal InsightA candid response to a colleague's question about Ellen's online presence offers a window into the respectful balance she maintains between her private life and her professional role as a coach.Key Takeaways:Relationship dynamics are unique and require personalized coaching approaches.Effective relationship advice should transcend social media trends and popular paradigms.Respecting a partner's choices is fundamental to a healthy relationship, even in the public eye.Call to Action:Visit relationshipresetcall.com to schedule a free Relationship Reset call with Ellen.Join the Passionate Partners Insider Community for exclusive content and support.Reach out directly to Ellen with your stories, questions, or feedback via the community, social media, or email.Closing Thoughts:Ellen encourages listeners to engage with the community, share the podcast with someone who may benefit from it, and reminds everyone that making more love, both in life and marriage, is the ultimate goal.Support & Resources:Ellen invites listeners to share their thoughts, either in the P3 Insider's Community or directly with her via email. Or, for one on one brainstorming on a specific situation, listeners can set up a time on Ellen's Calendar for a free Relationship Reset Call.All links can be found below."Until next time, remember, 'What I want most in the world is for you to Make More Love in Your Life and with Your Wife.'" Make More Love Show Website: www.makemorelove.showParent Company - The Passionate Partners Project: www.passionatepartnersproject.comJoin Our Passionate Partners Insider Community: https://www.facebook.com/groups/682764239165105Contact Me Directly: Email: [email protected] direct message me via social media:Facebook:  https://www.facebook.com/ellen.dorian.7/LinkedIn:    https://www.linkedin.com/in/ellendorian/Take the free Relationship Dynamics Quiz: http://makemorelove.show/quizSet up a Free Relationship Reset Call with me:http://relationshipresetcall.com

This episode is all about becoming a master of date night to keep the flame burning bright in your marriage.Ellen discusses the common pitfalls of letting date nights become routine and stale, emphasizing the need for intentional planning to keep the spark alive in marriage. The focus is on crafting date nights that are not just fun but fuel lasting passion, moving beyond cliché ideas to create moments that truly matter. This involves a special framework comprising three key parts: deciding on the mood and vibe you want to create, incorporating emotional elements to enhance that mood, and varying the types of dates to prevent falling into a rut.Part 1: Choosing a Mood and Vibe for Your DateThe initial step in mastering date night involves setting an intentional mood or vibe. Ellen explains how understanding what you want your partner to feel sets the stage for a memorable evening. Whether it's romance, excitement, comfort, or adventure, the desired emotional outcome will guide all other planning aspects.Part 2: Incorporating Emotional ElementsNext, Ellen introduces the five emotional elements that can enhance the date night experience: fire, intensity, immersion, resonance, and harmony. Each element offers unique ways to connect with your partner on a deeper level, from building sexual tension with "fire" to syncing up your emotions with "harmony." Ellen provides practical tips for integrating these elements into your date to foster a closer bond and reignite passionate energy.Part 3: Seven Types of DatesTo avoid the monotony of repeated dinner and movie nights, Ellen walks us through seven types of dates, each designed to mix up your routine and inject novelty and excitement into your relationship. From romantic and relaxed dates to recreational and risk-taking adventures, these categories offer a plethora of ideas for every mood and occasion. Special attention is given to "reconciliation dates" for healing and reconnecting after disagreements.Key Takeaways:Intentional planning and choosing a specific mood or vibe are key to elevating your date nights.Incorporating emotional elements can significantly enhance the connection between you and your partner.Varied types of dates prevent routine and keep the passion alive in your relationship.Call to Action:Listeners are encouraged to apply the episode's insights to their next date night planning. Ellen also extends an offer for a free Relationship Reset Call to provide personalized advice and support.Closing Thoughts:Ellen concludes with a reminder of the transformative power of thoughtfully planned date nights on romantic relationships, urging listeners to prioritize creativity and intentionality in their love lives.Support & Resources:Ellen invites listeners to share their thoughts, either in the P3 Insider's Community or directly with her via email. Or, for one on one brainstorming on a specific situation, listeners can set up a time on Ellen's Calendar for a free Relationship Reset Call.All links can be found below."Until next time, remember, 'What I want most in the world is for you to Make More Love in Your Life and with Your Wife.'" Make More Love Show Website: www.makemorelove.showParent Company - The Passionate Partners Project: www.passionatepartnersproject.comJoin Our Passionate Partners Insider Community: https://www.facebook.com/groups/682764239165105Contact Me Directly: Email: [email protected] direct message me via social media:Facebook:  https://www.facebook.com/ellen.dorian.7/LinkedIn:    https://www.linkedin.com/in/ellendorian/Take the free Relationship Dynamics Quiz: http://makemorelove.show/quizSet up a Free Relationship Reset Call with me:http://relationshipresetcall.com

In this episode, Ellen Dorian explores the intricate dynamics of relationship energy, unveiling how the blend of carnal, compatible, and bonding energies can shape the foundation of a passionate, resilient marriage. Tailored for the entrepreneurial man, the discussion pivots from theoretical concepts to actionable steps, guiding listeners on how to integrate and balance these energies to create a fulfilling partnership.Part 1: [Understanding Relationship Energy]Ellen breaks down the abstract concepts of love and connection into three tangible forms of relationship energy: carnal, compatible, and bonding. This part sets the stage for recognizing the energies that fuel the pillars of a strong relationship: sensuality, solidarity, and security.Part 2: [How The Energy Flows and Gets Blocked]Using relatable examples, including celebrity anecdotes, Ellen illustrates how these energies manifest in real life. She also addresses common business owner challenges that can obstruct the flow of relationship energy and offers insights into overcoming them.Part 3: [Actionable Steps]The focus shifts to practical advice, where Ellen provides daily, weekly, and monthly rituals to cultivate each form of relationship energy. She emphasizes consistent nurturing, akin to tending a garden, to maintain and grow a passionate partnership.Key Takeaways:Recognize and cultivate the mix of relationship energies.Integrate small acts of affection and meaningful conversations into your routine.Regularly align on shared goals to reinforce your bond.Call to Action:Ellen encourages listeners to apply the episode's insights to invigorate their relationships. She urges the audience to follow, subscribe, share the podcast, and leave a review to help build the community of relationship-focused entrepreneurs.Closing Thoughts:Ellen reiterates the importance of active participation in crafting a passionate marriage, reminding listeners that relationship success, like business success, comes from intentional effort and investment.Support & Resources:Ellen invites listeners to share their thoughts, either in the P3 Insider's Community or directly with her via email. Or, for one on one brainstorming on a specific situation, listeners can set up a time on Ellen's Calendar for a free Relationship Reset Call.All links can be found below."Until next time, remember, 'What I want most in the world is for you to Make More Love in Your Life and with Your Wife.'" Make More Love Show Website: www.makemorelove.showParent Company - The Passionate Partners Project: www.passionatepartnersproject.comJoin Our Passionate Partners Insider Community: https://www.facebook.com/groups/682764239165105Contact Me Directly: Email: [email protected] direct message me via social media:Facebook:  https://www.facebook.com/ellen.dorian.7/LinkedIn:    https://www.linkedin.com/in/ellendorian/Take the free Relationship Dynamics Quiz: http://makemorelove.show/quizSet up a Free Relationship Reset Call with me:http://relationshipresetcall.com

Summary:In this episode of "Make More Love," host Ellen Dorian dismantles the myth of work-life balance for entrepreneurs and introduces a more realistic and fulfilling approach: work-life integration. She shares personal insights and practical principles for harmoniously blending business ambitions with a vibrant love life, ensuring neither has to be sacrificed for the other.Part 1: Challenging the Work-Life Balance MythEllen highlights why work-life balance is an outdated concept for business owners, emphasizing the inseparability of work and life, the superficiality of the balance ideology, the dangers of compartmentalization, and the inefficiency of constant context-switching.Part 2: Introducing Work-Life IntegrationEllen unveils the five key principles of work-life integration: designing your world to suit you, embracing your authenticity, avoiding work-wife triangles, practicing intentional presence, and leveraging your business skills in your relationships. Each principle is explored with personal anecdotes and actionable advice.Part 3: Tips for Getting StartedEllen encourages listeners to start small with integration strategies, set achievable micro-goals, and seek support when needed. Key Takeaways:Work-life balance is impractical for entrepreneurs; integration is the key.Embracing authenticity and aligning your lifestyle with your true nature enhances both work and personal life.Strategic application of business acumen to your relationship can fortify your marriage.Call to Action:Take the first step towards integrating your work and love life today by identifying one area you're ready to transform. Is it adjusting your schedule, embracing your true self more fully, or perhaps improving how you're present with loved ones? Share your ideas in the Passionate Partners Insider Community or tag us on social media with your action plan. Let’s work on this together.Closing Thoughts:Ellen emphasizes that work-life integration is about creating a life where your business and personal dreams amplify each other, leading to a fulfilling existence without the need for sacrifice.Support & Resources:Ellen invites listeners to share their thoughts, either in the P3 Insider Community or directly with her via email. Or, for one on one brainstorming on a specific situation, listeners can set up a time on Ellen's Calendar for a free Relationship Reset Call.All links can be found below."Until next time, remember, 'What I want most in the world is for you to Make More Love in Your Life and with Your Wife.'" Make More Love Show Website: www.makemorelove.showParent Company - The Passionate Partners Project: www.passionatepartnersproject.comJoin Our Passionate Partners Insider Community: https://www.facebook.com/groups/682764239165105Contact Me Directly: Email: [email protected] direct message me via social media:Facebook:  https://www.facebook.com/ellen.dorian.7/LinkedIn:    https://www.linkedin.com/in/ellendorian/Take the free Relationship Dynamics Quiz: http://makemorelove.show/quizSet up a Free Relationship Reset Call with me:http://relationshipresetcall.com

In this insightful episode, host Ellen Dorian builds on the previous discussion of the Relationship Drive Matrix to introduce a comprehensive three-part model that delves into the construction and deconstruction of relationships, the behaviors influencing these dynamics, and actionable insights to navigate these complexities.Special Thanks: Simon Bowen, founder of the Models Method, and his wife Joanne for their inspirational partnership and generous sharing of knowledge.Part 1: The Relationship Hierarchy of NeedsEllen parallels Maslow's Hierarchy of Personal Needs to relationships, outlining a pyramid of needs crucial for a fulfilling love life. The levels range from foundational physical, mental, and emotional health to the pinnacle of passion, emphasizing the importance of each stage in achieving a passionate, fulfilling relationship.Part 2: The Downward Spiral of Relationship DeclineEllen presents a model of relationship dynamics that mirror the Hierarchy of Needs but in reverse order, illustrating how relationships can deteriorate. From the dimming of passion to the depths of despair, Ellen explains how each stage reflects a shift away from the thriving state of a partnership and identifies the behaviors that trigger these declines.Part 3: The 5 Triggering BehaviorsIdentifying specific behaviors that catalyze shifts within the Spiral of Relationship Decline, Ellen offers clarity on how neglect, resentment, resignation, withholding, and torment can undermine a relationship. This segment empowers listeners with the knowledge to pinpoint and address the root causes of relationship issues.Key Takeaways:Understanding the Relationship Hierarchy of Needs and the significance of each level in cultivating a thriving partnership.Recognizing the patterns of decline in relationships and the behaviors that precipitate these shifts.Empowerment through knowledge: Identifying where your relationship stands and actionable steps to reinforce or repair your bond.Call to Action:Reflect on your relationship's current position within the Relationship Hierarchy of Needs and the Downward Spiral of Relationship Decline.Consider how the 5 Triggering Behaviors may be playing a role in your relationship dynamics.Reach out to Ellen for a chance to be a beta tester for an exciting new assessment tool she's developing.Support & Resources:Ellen invites listeners to share their thoughts, either in the P3 Insider's Community or directly with her via email. Or, for one on one brainstorming on a specific situation, listeners can up a time on Ellen's Calendar for a free Relationship Reset Call.Closing Thoughts:Ellen wraps up the episode with an empowering message: armed with knowledge and the right strategies, every individual has the opportunity to navigate their relationship's complexities, make informed adjustments, and foster a deeper, more resilient partnership."Until next time, remember, 'What I want most in the world is for you to Make More Love in Your Life and with Your Wife.'" - Ellen DorianMake More Love Show Website: www.makemorelove.showParent Company - The Passionate Partners Project: www.passionatepartnersproject.comJoin Our Passionate Partners Insider Community: https://www.facebook.com/groups/682764239165105Contact Me Directly: Email: [email protected] direct message me via social media:Facebook:  https://www.facebook.com/ellen.dorian.7/LinkedIn:    https://www.linkedin.com/in/ellendorian/Take the free Relationship Dynamics Quiz: http://makemorelove.show/quizSet up a Free Relationship Reset Call with me:http://relationshipresetcall.com

In this episode of Make More Love, Ellen Dorian dives into the heart of the challenges entrepreneurial men face in balancing a thriving business with a healthy and passionate marriage. With a blend of personal growth tools and practical advice, Ellen aims to empower you to cultivate a marriage filled with joy, connection, and resilience, even amidst the pressures of business ownership.Disclaimer: The Make More Love show is intended for information and entertainment purposes only and is not a substitute for professional healthcare advice.Episode Overview:Ellen opens the discussion with a common scenario many married businessmen face: the struggle to balance work commitments with relationship efforts, illustrated through a client's story about Valentine's Day expectations.Introduction to the Relationship Drive Matrix: a tool to understand the dynamics of seeking joy and connection while navigating emotional pain and isolation in relationships.Ellen breaks down the four quadrants of the Relationship Drive Matrix, each representing different states of relationship health and challenges.Strategies for personal growth and re-engagement in your marriage, emphasizing the "Power of One" — the concept that individual effort can initiate positive change in your relationship.Practical action step: Reflect on the highs and lows of your relationship to identify where you stand on the Relationship Drive Matrix and commit to one small, immediate action to enhance your connection with your partner.Key Points Discussed:The Intersection of Business Ownership and Marriage: Exploring the unique challenges entrepreneurial men face in sustaining a loving, supportive marriage.The Relationship Drive Matrix: A conceptual tool to help men understand their motivations and navigate the complexities of their relationships.The Power of One: Emphasizing the individual's role in fostering a deeper connection and joy within their marriage through personal growth and intentional actions.Call to Action:Follow and Subscribe: Stay connected with the Make More Love show for ongoing support and insights.Share: Know someone who could benefit from this episode? Spread the love and share it with them.Leave a Review: Help other men find and join our community by sharing your experience with the show.Support for You:Visit our website and follow our social channels for more resources.Join our Passionate Partners Insider Community on Facebook for exclusive content.Book a free Relationship Reset Call with Ellen for personalized advice and strategies.Closing Thoughts: Ellen encourages listeners to take proactive steps towards making more love in their lives and with their wives, reminding everyone that change starts with a single choice."Until next time, remember, 'What I want most in the world is for you to Make More Love in Your Life and with Your Wife.'" - Ellen DorianMake More Love Show Website: www.makemorelove.showParent Company - The Passionate Partners Project: www.passionatepartnersproject.comJoin Our Passionate Partners Insider Community: https://www.facebook.com/groups/682764239165105Contact Me Directly: Email: [email protected] direct message me via social media:Facebook:  https://www.facebook.com/ellen.dorian.7/LinkedIn:    https://www.linkedin.com/in/ellendorian/Take the free Relationship Dynamics Quiz: http://makemorelove.show/quizSet up a Free Relationship Reset Call with me:http://relationshipresetcall.com

In this Valentine's Day special, host Ellen Dorian offers entrepreneurial men insightful advice on nurturing a hot and healthy marriage while growing a successful business. This episode dives into overcoming Valentine's Day resistance, planning authentic celebrations, and the importance of continual relationship expansion. Ellen shares historical tidbits, personal anecdotes, and practical tips to ensure listeners are equipped to make their partners feel seen, loved, and appreciated without succumbing to commercial pressures.Key Points Discussed:[00:03:45] Valentine's Day Resistance: Exploring the skepticism surrounding the holiday and how to move past it, emphasizing genuine love and appreciation over commercial gestures.[00:10:22] Authentic Planning: Tips for planning Valentine's Day in a way that resonates with both you and your partner, avoiding the trap of feeling inauthentic.[00:15:38] Continual Expansion: Encouragement to constantly seek improvement and new ways to express love, ensuring your relationship grows and thrives.Featured Resources:All of these are available in the Passionate Partners Insider Community:Love Bites Newsletter: Insights from the pandemic edition--Making Love Under Lockdown.Ultimate Valentine's Day Planning Kit: A comprehensive tool for planning memorable celebrations.Quotes from the Episode:"Love doesn't always have to be about grand gestures. It's the little things that count just as much." "Showing your partner some genuine love and appreciation... is what really matters."Additional Notes:Ellen invites listeners to reflect on their most memorable Valentine's Days and share their experiences via the Passionate Partners Insider Community on Facebook or direct email. This episode is a blend of historical context, personal experiences, and actionable advice designed to help entrepreneurial men make the most of Valentine's Day and their relationships.Make More Love Show Website: www.makemorelove.showParent Company - The Passionate Partners Project: www.passionatepartnersproject.comJoin Our Passionate Partners Insider Community: https://www.facebook.com/groups/682764239165105Contact Me Directly: Email: [email protected] direct message me via social media:Facebook:  https://www.facebook.com/ellen.dorian.7/LinkedIn:    https://www.linkedin.com/in/ellendorian/Take the free Relationship Dynamics Quiz: http://makemorelove.show/quizSet up a Free Relationship Reset Call with me:http://relationshipresetcall.com

In this inaugural episode of "Make More Love," host Ellen Dorian targets the entrepreneurial man striving to maintain a vibrant marriage while growing a successful business. Ellen Dorian, relationship expert and business coach, delves into the often-overlooked connection between personal and relationship challenges and business stagnation. She offers a holistic approach to resolving these issues, emphasizing the importance of personal attention and breaking routines to reignite passion.The episode outlines three major obstacles entrepreneurial couples face and provides actionable strategies for overcoming them. Ellen's aim is to guide her listeners towards winning in marriage, excelling in business, and thriving in all life aspects. The episode is a blend of professional insights and practical advice, making it a valuable resource for business owners seeking to live their best professional and personal lives.Key Takeaways:"…The biggest things that hold people back from business success, aren't usually business issues. They're personal problems, and relationship problems top the list.""Mastering your attention will do more for your relationship than any marriage counseling, therapy, self-help books, gurus, or retreats ever will.""If there's one thing that's true about your sex life, it's that routine will kill it…. Routine is not a recipe for intimate intensity."Key Highlights with Timestamps:[00:00] - Introduction to the show and its focus on entrepreneurial men balancing successful businesses and healthy marriages.[02:15] - Ellen Dorian's background and the realization that personal and relationship issues hinder business success.[04:30] - The holistic approach to tackling problems in business and relationships.[06:45] - Discussion on the vision of entrepreneurial men and the challenges in achieving it.[09:20] - Identifying three key obstacles in relationships for business owners.[12:00] - Strategies to overcome these obstacles and achieve a rock-solid relationship.[15:35] - Importance of breaking out of routine for a passionate relationship.[18:20] - Summary of the episode and an invitation for listener interaction.Keywords: Entrepreneurial Success, Healthy Marriage, Relationship Challenges, Personal Growth, Business Owners, Strategic Planning, Leadership Skills, Passion Revival, Marital Advice, Work-Life BalanceContact me:Make More Love Show Website: www.makemorelove.showParent Company - The Passionate Partners Project: www.passionatepartnersproject.comJoin Our Passionate Partners Insider Community: https://www.facebook.com/groups/682764239165105Contact Me Directly: Email: [email protected] direct message me via social media:Facebook:  https://www.facebook.com/ellen.dorian.7/LinkedIn:    https://www.linkedin.com/in/ellendorian/Take the free Relationship Dynamics Quiz: http://makemorelove.show/quizSet up a Free Relationship Reset Call with me:http://relationshipresetcall.com

Welcome to Episode Zero of 'Make More Love' , a dedicated space for entrepreneurial men like you who are striving to maintain a strong marriage while building their dream business.Meet your host, Ellen Dorian, a seasoned business coach with 17 years of experience in coaching owners of construction companies, who pivoted to become a trusted advisor for personal and relationship challenges as well.The Mission of the show is to help you create a Rock Solid Relationship with your wife, where mutual respect, desire, and true partnership are the cornerstones. We offer a judgment-free zone, tailored specifically for the life of the entrepreneurial man.Expect actionable insights and strategies to apply your business acumen to strengthen your marriage. This is a practical guide to enhancing your marital relationship without therapy, marriage counseling or self-help gurus.Episodes drop weekly. Available on all major podcast platforms. The show format is short, modular segments designed with your real life in mind. Tune in anytime, anywhere – in the car, at the gym, or even on the john. Episodes are captioned for sound-off viewing.Follow and subscribe to 'Rock Solid Relationship' and join Ellen Dorian on this journey towards a fulfilling, fully-integrated life.