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In this season opener, Ellen sits down with Bill Storm — Peak Performance Strategist and veteran of both the Tony Robbins organization and the John Maxwell Leadership Team — for a candid conversation about what really happens to your relationship when you're deep in the work of building a company. Bill opens up about his own 25-year marriage, and the conversation gets real—fast!Part 1: The Blind Spot Business owners are wired for optimism. It's what makes us great at building companies — and it's exactly what makes us miss the warning signs in our relationships. Ellen and Bill talk about the pattern they both see constantly: the erosion that happens while you're heads-down in the business, right up until it's not okay anymore.Part 2: How Do I Even Start? One question Ellen hears a lot from married business owners is not "how do I fix my relationship" — it's "how do I even begin that conversation?" Bill asks it too. Ellen walks him through a simple, business-minded approach to opening that dialogue with your spouse — without it turning into a fight.Part 3: The Relationship SWOT Ellen introduces the first step of the 5-Step Relationship Operating System — a SWOT analysis for your relationship. Strengths, weaknesses, opportunities and threats. Bill uses his own marriage as the live example, and the result is one of the most honest and relatable conversations you'll hear about what it's really like to be married and building a business at the same time.Key Takeaways:You can't just hang in and hope things work out — relationships need a plan just like your business doesThe ego hit of a struggling relationship is real, but it's only useful if it leads to actionYou and your partner showed up with completely different rule books — and nobody told either of you that going inYour spouse is probably hoping you'll start this conversation — it won't be met with the resistance you're expectingCall to Action: Ready to take stock of where your relationship stands? Book a free Relationship Reset Call at relationshipresetcall.com — it's quick, private and free.Closing Thoughts: If this episode hit close to home, you're exactly who this show is for. The good news is that the same skills that make you great at business can make you great at your relationship too. That's what this season is all about — and we're just getting started.Support & Resources: Ellen invites listeners to share their thoughts, either in the P3 Insider's Community or directly with her via email. Or, for one on one brainstorming on a specific situation, listeners can set up a time on Ellen's Calendar for a free Relationship Reset Call. For immediate insights, take the Relationship Dynamics Scorecard: A fast free quiz to pinpoint relationship strengths and stressors, and identify priorities that need your attention. Find it at: MakeMoreLove.show/quiz All links can be found below.Share the Love: If you found this episode helpful, please subscribe, leave a review, and share it with someone who might benefit.Leave a Review for Make More Love: https://www.makemorelove.show/reviews/new/About the Host: Ellen Dorian is a relationship and business coach dedicated to helping high-performing business leaders truly create the business, relationship, and life that most entrepreneurs only dream of.Disclaimer: The Make More Love show is for information and entertainment purposes only, and reflects the personal opinions and experiences of the host and guests. It is not a substitute for professional advice or guidance in specific situations."Love isn't something you just find. You have to make it. And that's my mission — to help you Make More Love, with Your Wife and In Your Life." — Ellen DorianMake More Love Show Website: www.makemorelove.showParent Company - The Passionate Partners Project: www.passionatepartnersproject.comJoin Our Passionate Partners Insider Community: https://www.facebook.com/groups/682764239165105Contact Me Directly: Email: [email protected] direct message me via social media:Facebook:  https://www.facebook.com/ellen.dorian.7/LinkedIn:    https://www.linkedin.com/in/ellendorian/Take the free Relationship Dynamics Quiz: http://makemorelove.show/quizSet up a Free Relationship Reset Call with me:http://relationshipresetcall.com

In this Valentine’s Day special episode, Ellen Dorian dives into the history, meaning, and modern-day pressures of the holiday. Whether listeners are diehard romantics or Valentine’s Day cynics, Ellen provides practical advice and creative ideas to help them plan a day that fits their relationship. From understanding their partner’s expectations to avoiding last-minute stress, this episode is packed with insights to make Valentine's Day a meaningful and stress-free experience.Part 1: Understanding Valentine's DayA look at the origins of the holiday, including its rebellious roots in ancient Rome.Why Valentine’s Day can feel commercialized and how shifting perspectives can help.The significance of aligning with or acknowledging a partner's attachment to the day.Part 2: Meeting Relationship ExpectationsThe importance of understanding a partner’s expectations for Valentine's Day.The consequences of ignoring the holiday if it's important to one partner.Two options: setting clear boundaries or using the holiday to strengthen the relationship.Part 3: Planning a Personalized Valentine’s DayStrategies for different types of relationships:Partners who are indifferent to the holiday.Partners who want something special but aren’t tied to traditions.Traditionalists who expect classic Valentine’s Day elements (roses, chocolates, fancy dinner).Key Takeaways:Understanding how a partner feels about romantic gestures can prevent miscommunication and disappointment.Thoughtful, personalized efforts go a long way in building a stronger, more affectionate relationship.Planning ahead ensures less stress, fewer mistakes, and a better overall experience.Call to Action:Listeners can download the Ultimate Valentine’s Day Planning Kit to get a head start on their planning. The kit includes a timeline, curated gift ideas, and a planner to keep everything organized.Get our Ultimate Valentine's Day Planning Kit:Download it nowClosing Thoughts:Ellen encourages listeners to take one small step to elevate their next Valentine’s Day, whether this year’s celebration is a hit or a lesson learned. Showing a partner that they are understood and appreciated strengthens intimacy, affection, and resilience in the relationship.Support & Resources:Ellen invites listeners to share their thoughts, either in the P3 Insider's Community or directly with her via email. Or, for one on one brainstorming on a specific situation, listeners can set up a time on Ellen's Calendar for a free Relationship Reset Call.All links can be found below."Until next time, remember, 'What I want most in the world is for you to Make More Love with Your Wife and In Your Life.'" - Ellen DorianDisclaimer:The Make More Love show is for information and entertainment purposes only, and reflects the personal opinions and experiences of the host and guests. It is not a substitute for professional advice or guidance in specific situations. Make More Love Show Website: www.makemorelove.showParent Company - The Passionate Partners Project: www.passionatepartnersproject.comJoin Our Passionate Partners Insider Community: https://www.facebook.com/groups/682764239165105Contact Me Directly: Email: [email protected] direct message me via social media:Facebook:  https://www.facebook.com/ellen.dorian.7/LinkedIn:    https://www.linkedin.com/in/ellendorian/Take the free Relationship Dynamics Quiz: http://makemorelove.show/quizSet up a Free Relationship Reset Call with me:http://relationshipresetcall.com

In this special holiday episode, Ellen Dorian reflects on the Spirit of Generosity, a concept she learned from her father and continues to embody in her coaching. Through heartfelt storytelling, she introduces the five aspects of generosity—emotional, relational, philosophical, action-oriented, and legacy-focused—and shares actionable ways to bring these into your relationships. This episode is a guide to creating deeper connections, fostering trust, and leaving a meaningful legacy for your loved ones.Part 1: A Holiday Story About GenerosityEllen shares a moving story about her father’s approach to Christmas and the lessons he imparted through the concept of Santa Claus as the embodiment of generosity.She recounts her dad’s final gift to her, The Gift of the Magi by O. Henry, and how it symbolizes selflessness, love, and sacrifice in relationships.Part 2: The Five Aspects of GenerosityEmotional Generosity: Giving time, attention, and love freely without expecting anything in return. Includes practical tips like using a “root cause analysis” approach to stay present during emotional conversations.Relational Generosity: Paying attention to your partner’s needs and stepping in to share the mental load. Features the “By The Clock” exercise to anticipate and address tasks proactively.Philosophical Generosity: Cultivating a mindset of abundance by focusing on gratitude and appreciation rather than scarcity or criticism.Action-Oriented Generosity: Doing what you say you’ll do, being reliable, and supporting your partner when it matters most, even when it’s inconvenient.Legacy of Generosity: Building a lasting impact through selflessness in relationships, modeled after her father’s example.Part 3: Holiday ReflectionsEllen encourages listeners to embrace the Spirit of Generosity during the holiday season and to pass it forward in their own lives.She reminds listeners that the greatest gift they can give their children is the example of a passionate and connected partnership.Key Takeaways:Generosity is More Than Money. True generosity lies in how you give your time, attention, and care to those you love. It’s about showing up fully and selflessly in ways that matter most.Emotional and Relational Generosity Build Connection.Trust and connection grow when you’re emotionally present and proactive in supporting your partner’s needs—whether by sharing the mental load or simply listening with focus and care.Your Legacy Begins in Your Relationships.The most impactful legacy you leave isn’t material; it’s the example you set in your relationships. Cultivating a passionate and connected partnership shapes how your children and loved ones approach their own connections.Call to Action:Feeling stuck in your relationship? Schedule a free 15-minute Relationship Reset Call with Ellen to identify key challenges and create a plan to move forward.Visit relationshipresetcall.com to book your spot.Closing Thoughts:Ellen closes with a heartfelt wish for joy, peace, and love during the holiday season. She invites listeners to embrace the Spirit of Generosity and leave a legacy their loved ones will treasure.Support & Resources:Ellen invites listeners to share their thoughts, either in the P3 Insider's Community or directly with her via email. Or, for one on one brainstorming on a specific situation, listeners can set up a time on Ellen's Calendar for a free Relationship Reset Call.All links can be found below."Until next time, remember, 'What I want most in the world is for you to Make More Love With Your Wife and in Your Life.'" - Ellen DorianDisclaimer:The Make More Love show is for information and entertainment purposes only. It is not a substitute for the guidance of a qualified mental health or medical professional. Make More Love Show Website: www.makemorelove.showParent Company - The Passionate Partners Project: www.passionatepartnersproject.comJoin Our Passionate Partners Insider Community: https://www.facebook.com/groups/682764239165105Contact Me Directly: Email: [email protected] direct message me via social media:Facebook:  https://www.facebook.com/ellen.dorian.7/LinkedIn:    https://www.linkedin.com/in/ellendorian/Take the free Relationship Dynamics Quiz: http://makemorelove.show/quizSet up a Free Relationship Reset Call with me:http://relationshipresetcall.com

In this heartfelt bonus episode of the Make More Love Podcast, Ellen Dorian addresses the complex emotions that can arise during the Christmas season, especially for those who feel isolated, disconnected, or out-of-step with the festivities. Drawing from personal experiences and real client stories, Ellen offers compassionate strategies for coping with holiday loneliness, respecting individual traditions, and rebuilding meaningful connections—both with ourselves and those we love.Part 1: Navigating the Overwhelm and Outside ExpectationsEllen opens the episode by acknowledging the saturation and pressures of the Christmas season, emphasizing that not everyone celebrates—and for many, the unrelenting holiday messaging can feel isolating or invalidating. She shares her own childhood memories of cross-cultural celebrations and discusses how differing traditions, loss, and changes in family dynamics can leave people feeling invisible or alone.Part 2: Reclaiming the Holidays Through Intention and Small RitualsAfter describing her personal struggles with grief and holiday disconnect, Ellen outlines how she slowly rebuilt her relationship with the season by honoring her feelings, embracing gratitude and generosity, and establishing new, personally meaningful holiday rituals—like joining a caroling group, creating her own movie traditions, or starting small annual rituals just for herself.Part 3: Connection, Grace, and Taking Action—For Yourself and OthersEllen addresses the unique isolation that successful business owners and those in disconnected relationships may experience. She offers a powerful exercise: identifying and fulfilling a childhood wish for yourself (and possibly your partner) to foster reconnection and healing. The episode closes with an appeal for listeners to reach out to those who might be alone, and a reminder that support is available—both through community (like Andy Grant’s virtual hangout) and professional crisis lines.Key Takeaways:Holiday loneliness is real, whether you celebrate or not, and your feelings are valid.Small, intentional changes—like creating a new tradition or reaching out to someone else—can slowly restore a sense of joy and belonging.Giving yourself (and your partner) a “lost” gift from childhood can be a surprisingly meaningful way to reconnect with the spirit of the season.You are not alone—resources, supportive communities, and professional help are available if the season feels overwhelming.Call to Action: Share your own strategies for making the holidays more meaningful with Ellen Dorian by email or in the P3 Insider’s Community. If you’re struggling, consider booking a free Relationship Reset Call for personalized support, or take the Relationship Dynamics Scorecard at MakeMoreLove.show/quiz for immediate insights.Closing Thoughts: Your presence truly is your gift. No matter your circumstances this season, remember that you matter and that reaching out (for support or to offer it) can make a world of difference. Ellen Dorian encourages everyone to take small steps toward building connection, meaning, and, ultimately, more love.Support & Resources: Ellen invites listeners to share their thoughts, either in the P3 Insider's Community or directly with her via email. Or, for one-on-one brainstorming on a specific situation, listeners can set up a time on Ellen's Calendar for a free Relationship Reset Call.For immediate insights, take the Relationship Dynamics Scorecard: A fast free quiz to pinpoint relationship strengths and stressors, and identify priorities that need your attention. Find it at: MakeMoreLove.show/quizGet connected with Andy Grant's Christmas Day Virtual Hangout here:Realmenfeel.org/group U.S. Suicide & Crisis Lifeline You don't have to handle this alone.Help is available 24/7/365 Call or Text 988, or go to chat.988lifeline.org. All Other Links can be found below.Share the Love: If you found this episode helpful, please subscribe, leave a review, and share it with someone who might benefit. Leave a Review for Make More Love:https://www.makemorelove.show/reviews/new/About the Host: Ellen Dorian is a relationship and business coach dedicated to helping high-performing business leaders truly create the business, relationship, and life that most entrepreneurs only dream of.Disclaimer: The Make More Love show is for information and entertainment purposes only, and reflects the personal opinions and experiences of the host and guests. It is not a substitute for professional advice or guidance in specific situations."Love isn't something you find. You have to make it. And that's my mission-- to help you Make More Love, with Your Wife and In Your Life.'"– Ellen DorianMake More Love Show Website: www.makemorelove.showParent Company - The Passionate Partners Project: www.passionatepartnersproject.comJoin Our Passionate Partners Insider Community: https://www.facebook.com/groups/682764239165105Contact Me Directly: Email: [email protected]

The holiday season can transform what should be magical moments into stressful, pressure-filled events—especially for high-performing men balancing relationships, business demands, and personal fulfillment. In this insightful solo episode, host Ellen Dorian shares the practical "GGG Principles"—Gratitude, Generosity, and Grace—as anchors to help couples thrive and deepen connection through the holidays (and beyond).Part 1: The Reality of Holiday ExpectationsEllen explores how holidays often shift from childlike excitement to a time burdened with overwhelming expectations, emotional baggage, and pressure to deliver for loved ones—particularly if the relationship is already strained.Part 2: The GGG Principles for Relationship Success:Gratitude: Move beyond obligatory platitudes. Ellen suggests a personal practice focused on recognizing what you genuinely value about your partner. She provides thoughtful questions to guide listeners through recognizing meaningful attributes and experiences, and encourages using this awareness to foster connection and reduce reactivity.Generosity: True generosity isn’t about sacrifice or guilt, but about giving from surplus—whether that's time, money, energy, skills, or flexibility. Practical examples are shared on how to proactively support your partner and lighten their holiday load, without resentment.Grace: The antidote to perfectionism. Ellen shares how practicing patience, compassion, and forgiveness—even when mistakes happen—can transform your relationship dynamic and foster lasting trust.Part 3: Applying GGG PrinciplesListeners are encouraged to develop gratitude statements, create weekly generosity plans, and let go of rigid expectations. These steps provide real relief and renewed intimacy, keeping stress in check and making space for true human connection. Action Steps for Listeners:Try the grounding gratitude exercise and observe how it shifts your perspective.Make a generosity plan: Choose two stress points and match them to the partner with the right surplus.Practice grace by forgiving imperfections and celebrating best intentions.Key Takeaways:The real win with gratitude comes from genuinely feeling it, not just saying it—let actions follow heartfelt awareness.Generosity works best when you give what you have in abundance, not from scarcity, to avoid burnout and build goodwill.Grace lets go of perfection and nurtures authentic connection; no one gets it right all the time, and accepting this opens the door to real intimacy.Call to Action:Ellen encourages listeners to take the Relationship Dynamics Scorecard: A free, quick quiz to pinpoint relationship strengths and stressors (find it at MakeMoreLove.show/quiz).Whenever you are ready, you can reach out for deeper support: Free Relationship Reset calls, workshops, private coaching, and an Insider Facebook community for ongoing connection and resources. Links are below.Closing Thoughts:You don’t need to create a perfect holiday—just show up with presence, forethought, and a little grace. Small shifts in mindset and action can profoundly change your holiday experience and your relationship.Stay Tuned:Next week, Ellen Dorian will be back with a bonus episode addressing holiday stress when Christmas isn’t your thing. Until then, take care of each other!Support & Resources:Ellen invites listeners to share their thoughts, either in the P3 Insider's Community or directly with her via email. Or, for one on one brainstorming on a specific situation, listeners can set up a time on Ellen's Calendar for a free Relationship Reset Call.All links can be found below."Until next time, remember, 'What I want most in the world is for you to Make More Love with Your Wife and In Your Life.'" - Ellen DorianShare the Love:If you found this episode helpful, please subscribe, leave a review, and share it with someone who might benefit. Love isn’t just found—it’s made!About the Host:Ellen Dorian is a relationship and business coach dedicated to helping high-performing business leaders truly create the business, relationship, and life that most entrepreneurs only dream of. Disclaimer:The Make More Love show is for information and entertainment purposes only, and reflects the personal opinions and experiences of the host and guests. It is not a substitute for professional advice or guidance in specific situations. Make More Love Show Website: www.makemorelove.showParent Company - The Passionate Partners Project: www.passionatepartnersproject.comJoin Our Passionate Partners Insider Community: https://www.facebook.com/groups/682764239165105Contact Me Directly: Email: [email protected] direct message me via social media:Facebook:  https://www.facebook.com/ellen.dorian.7/LinkedIn:    https://www.linkedin.com/in/ellendorian/Take the free Relationship Dynamics Quiz: http://makemorelove.show/quizSet up a Free Relationship Reset Call with me:http://relationshipresetcall.com 0:00:00 – Introduction

Ellen Dorian addresses the stress and conflict that holidays bring to high-performing business leaders, particularly business owners facing Q4 pressures alongside personal obligations. She introduces a strategic planning approach to transform the holiday season from a source of tension into an opportunity for connection. Through the story of client Bill and his wife Gina, Ellen demonstrates how joint planning, clear boundaries, and shared ownership can prevent the annual cycle of holiday resentment that often leads to January's "divorce season."Part 1: Understanding Holiday Pressure Points- Recognition that holidays arrive during Q4 chaos for business owners.- Identification of competing demands: closing deals, managing budgets, and handling staff needs.- Acknowledgment of seasonality impacts—some businesses face their busiest period while others experience dead zones.- The compounding effect of personal demands from partners, family obligations, and social events.- Pressure to appear joyful despite mounting stress.Part 2: The Planning Framework- Starting with baseline questions about what worked, what didn't, what was missing, and what to change.- The necessity of partner buy-in rather than unilateral decision-making.- Bill and Gina's story as a case study in initiating the planning conversation.- Three core elements: planning together, setting limits, and taking ownership.- Two essential ground rules: everything is open for discussion, and protecting the couple comes first.- Establishing a gatekeeping script for external pressures.Part 3: Building Your Holiday Strategy- Two approaches: blue ocean brainstorming or process of elimination.- Using post-it notes to map out events, tasks, and obligations visually.- Three key decisions: enthusiastic yeses, emphatic nos, and the desired outcome.- Establishing boundaries around time, money, travel, work, and special circumstances.- The chocolate mousse rule and the three-hour family visit boundary as practical examples.- Assigning ownership by category rather than individual tasks.- Weekly check-ins to adjust and maintain alignment.Key Takeaways:- Holiday conflicts repeat annually because couples fail to plan or fear disrupting established patterns.- Joint planning creates clarity and protects relationships from external pressures.- Boundaries and clear ownership prevent resentment and energy drain.- Breaking with tradition is necessary when current patterns aren't working.- A united front in public with private discussion space helps manage family pushback.- Regular check-ins keep the plan flexible and responsive to changing circumstances.Call to Action:If the planning process becomes contentious or confusing, Ellen offers a Relationship Reset Call to help work through the challenges. She emphasizes not letting issues drop only to face worse circumstances in January. Listeners can book a free call at relationshipresetcall.com.Closing Thoughts:Ellen previews the next episode's focus on gratitude, generosity, and grace—the "GGG of the holidays"—as tools for managing seasonal chaos. She reflects on recent episodes addressing out-of-control situations and invites listeners experiencing this to reach out. The goal isn't perfection but creating the best opportunity to enjoy life and maintain connection despite competing demands.Support & Resources:Ellen invites listeners to share their thoughts, either in the P3 Insider's Community or directly with her via email. Or, for one on one brainstorming on a specific situation, listeners can set up a time on Ellen's Calendar for a free Relationship Reset Call.All links can be found below."Until next time, remember, 'What I want most in the world is for you to Make More Love with Your Wife and in Your Life." - Ellen DorianDisclaimer:The Make More Love show is for information and entertainment purposes only. It is not a substitute for the guidance of a qualified mental health or medical professional. All content reflects my own opinions, experience, and research and isn’t guaranteed to be complete or accurate, so please don’t treat it as professional advice of any kind. 0:00 Intro1:00 Why Q4 Creates Perfect Storm for Couples3:03 Setting Goals for Different Holiday Experience5:05 Bill and Gina's Holiday Breaking Point7:08 The Three-Part Planning Framework Explained9:40 Three Key Decisions Every Couple Needs12:14 Setting Boundaries Around Time and Money14:46 Taking Ownership and Handling Family Pushback17:19 Three Key Takeaways for Holiday Success19:22 Spreading the Word About Make More LoveMake More Love Show Website: www.makemorelove.showParent Company - The Passionate Partners Project: www.passionatepartnersproject.comJoin Our Passionate Partners Insider Community: https://www.facebook.com/groups/682764239165105Contact Me Directly: Email: [email protected] direct message me via social media:Facebook:  https://www.facebook.com/ellen.dorian.7/LinkedIn:    https://www.linkedin.

Ellen Dorian explores how business owners can strengthen their relationships by treating their partnership as the foundation that holds everything else together. Drawing from a Trevor Noah podcast quote about spending time with his father, she examines the cost of making unilateral business decisions without partner input. The episode provides a framework for integrating business and relationship priorities through structured communication, tiered decision-making, and weekly alignment meetings.Part 1: The Cost of Exclusion- Ellen shares a quote from Roy Wood Jr. about being along for the ride rather than truly included in his father's life.- Business owners often make rapid decisions without consulting partners who will be affected by the outcomes.- Top-down thinking creates resistance and undermines support, even when partners don't openly object.- Shared visions can drift apart over time, leaving couples working toward completely different outcomes.- The question "Are you running your business or is your business running you?" reveals a common trap.Part 2: The Juggling and Herding Problem- Most business owners have three competing priorities: work, family, and personal fulfillment.- Juggling means keeping balls in the air, but one is always falling—you can only hold two at a time.- Herding is attempting to control everything at once, like stuffing three cats in a bag.- Both approaches fail because they rely on one person being solely responsible for everything.- Business decisions directly impact partners whether they've agreed to them or not.Part 3: The Airplane Framework- Ellen introduces a new model: your relationship is the airplane, with two seats in the cockpit.- Everything else—business, kids, extended family, hobbies—belongs in the cabin as passengers.- Kids and business should not fly the plane or always come first.- Strong partnerships create the framework where everything else thrives.- Partners become copilots without becoming business partners.Part 4: Three Best Practices for Partnership Alignment#1 Weekly Business Review Meeting- Hold a short weekly meeting focused on decisions that touch shared life.- Cover four topics: what happened since last meeting, what's coming up, what needs joint decision, and what matters most this week.- Make it enjoyable with coffee, wine, or pancakes—call it whatever makes it fun.- Prevents the "I never heard that" or "you didn't tell me" conflicts.#2 Tiered Decision-Making Categories- Green zone: everyday decisions that don't impact shared life, just keep partner informed.- Yellow zone: give heads up and chance to weigh in, minimize surprises, maximize respect.- Red zone: decisions requiring full discussion before moving forward.#3 Red Zone Topics- Money: any shared resource at risk, new debt, contracts, personal guarantees, compensation changes.- Time: anything significantly changing availability, focus, or energy—major projects, expansion, increased travel.- People: hiring or firing key team members, bringing on investors, forming partnerships.- These decisions affect stress levels, time, and how you show up in the relationship.Key Takeaways:- Your relationship should be the context in which your business, family, and fulfillment exist, not just another competing priority.- The entrepreneur divorce rate sits above 60% because not everyone commits to this level of discipline and openness.- Your partner needs to be an important voice in your business without necessarily working in it.- Trying to control everything by yourself guarantees something will crash, taking everything else down with it.- Real work-life integration requires treating major business decisions as partnership decisions.Call to Action:Ellen encourages listeners to book a free Relationship Reset Call at relationshipresetcall.com to discuss their specific situation. She also invites them to join the Passionate Partners Insider community on Facebook for exclusive content and resources.Closing Thoughts:Ellen emphasizes that she doesn't believe in work-life balance but in integration. The episode provides a playbook for real work-life integration that makes life easier, more connected, and more enjoyable. She challenges listeners to make the mindset shift—whether independently or with her guidance—to transform their relationships and businesses.Support & Resources:Ellen invites listeners to share their thoughts, either in the P3 Insider's Community or directly with her via email. Or, for one on one brainstorming on a specific situation, listeners can set up a time on Ellen's Calendar for a free Relationship Reset Call.All links can be found below."Until next time, remember, 'What I want most in the world is for you to Make More Love with Your Wife and in Your Life." - Ellen DorianDisclaimer:The Make More Love show is for information and entertainment purposes only. It is not a substitute for the guidance of a qualified mental health or medical professional.Make More Love Show Website: www.make

Ellen Dorian shares insights from her 10th anniversary Viking river cruise, highlighting three key moves for long-lasting relationships: acceptance, longevity, and defaulting to yes.Part 1: Acceptance in Long Term Relationships- Recognizing and appreciating your partner's authentic self- Distinguishing between tolerance, resignation, and genuine acceptance- Example: Steve's acceptance of Ellen's coffee house visitsPart 2: Longevity and Vitality- Importance of physical, mental, and emotional health in relationships- Observations from the cruise demographic- Connection between personal vitality and relationship strengthPart 3: Defaulting to Yes- Overcoming the habit of saying no thanks- Benefits of staying open to new experiences together- Example: Hungarian street food cooking classKey Takeaways:- Relationships play out over decades, not days- Staying healthy and active contributes to relationship longevity- Defaulting to yes keeps relationships fresh and engagingCall to Action:Book a free Relationship Reset Call at relationshipresetcall.com for personalized guidance.Closing Thoughts:Relationships, like the Danube, change over time but can keep moving along for years with the right approach.Support & Resources:Ellen invites listeners to share their thoughts, either in the P3 Insider's Community or directly with her via email. Or, for one on one brainstorming on a specific situation, listeners can set up a time on Ellen's Calendar for a free Relationship Reset Call.All links can be found below."Until next time, remember, 'What I want most in the world is for you to Make More Love in Your Life and with Your Wife.'" - Ellen DorianDisclaimer:The Make More Love show is for information and entertainment purposes only, and reflects the personal opinions and experiences of the host and guests. It is not a substitute for professional advice or guidance in specific situations. Make More Love Show Website: www.makemorelove.showParent Company - The Passionate Partners Project: www.passionatepartnersproject.comJoin Our Passionate Partners Insider Community: https://www.facebook.com/groups/682764239165105Contact Me Directly: Email: [email protected] direct message me via social media:Facebook:  https://www.facebook.com/ellen.dorian.7/LinkedIn:    https://www.linkedin.com/in/ellendorian/Take the free Relationship Dynamics Quiz: http://makemorelove.show/quizSet up a Free Relationship Reset Call with me:http://relationshipresetcall.com

Ellen Dorian analyzes the movie "The Roses" as a case study for relationship decline, illustrating Make More Love's Hierarchy of Relationship Needs and Spiral of Decline models. She breaks down the film's plot, highlighting key disruptions that lead to the couple's downfall, and relates these to common relationship issues faced by high-performing individuals.Part 1: Introduction and Movie Analysis- Ellen introduces the episode's focus on "The Roses" as a relationship case study- Explanation of why this movie is an ideal example for the Make More Love model- Breakdown of the couple's initial connection and shared ambitionPart 2: Relationship Disruptions and Missed Opportunities- Identification of five major disruptions in the Roses' relationship- Analysis of how each disruption contributes to the spiral of decline- Discussion of missed opportunities for intervention and repairPart 3: Lessons and Application- Relating the movie's themes to real-life relationship challenges- Introduction of the Relationship Dynamics Scorecard tool- Encouragement for listeners to assess their own relationshipsKey Takeaways:- Shared ambition can be both a strong foundation and a potential pitfall in relationships- Major life events and role changes can significantly impact relationship dynamics- Ignoring relationship issues and failing to seek help can lead to a spiral of decline- Open communication and willingness to address problems are crucial for relationship healthCall to Action:Ellen encourages listeners to take the Relationship Dynamics Scorecard quiz at MakeMoreLove.Show/Quiz Or book a free Relationship Reset call at RelationshipResetCall.com.Closing Thoughts:Relationships require active maintenance and attention to thrive. Recognizing and addressing issues early can prevent the kind of decline depicted in "The Roses."Support & Resources:Ellen invites listeners to share their thoughts, either in the P3 Insider's Community or directly with her via email. Or, for one on one brainstorming on a specific situation, listeners can set up a time on Ellen's Calendar for a free Relationship Reset Call.All links can be found below."Until next time, remember, 'What I want most in the world is for you to Make More Love With Your Wife and in Your Life'" - Ellen DorianDisclaimers:The Roses is a 2025 feature film starring Benedict Cumberbatch and Olivia Colman, directed by Jay Roach, and distributed by Searchlight Pictures. All rights belong to the respective copyright holders. This episode offers commentary and analysis for educational and review purposes only.The Make More Love show is for information and entertainment purposes only, and reflects the personal opinions and experiences of the host and guests. It is not a substitute for professional advice or guidance in specific situations. Make More Love Show Website: www.makemorelove.showParent Company - The Passionate Partners Project: www.passionatepartnersproject.comJoin Our Passionate Partners Insider Community: https://www.facebook.com/groups/682764239165105Contact Me Directly: Email: [email protected] direct message me via social media:Facebook:  https://www.facebook.com/ellen.dorian.7/LinkedIn:    https://www.linkedin.com/in/ellendorian/Take the free Relationship Dynamics Quiz: http://makemorelove.show/quizSet up a Free Relationship Reset Call with me:http://relationshipresetcall.com Listen to Episode 4 Here: Simplifying Complex Relationship Dynamics

Ellen Dorian discusses strategies for managing conflict in relationships, introducing the concept of "passionate problem solving" as an alternative to cold war and hot war conflict styles. She outlines two pathways: early intervention and radical repair, drawing inspiration from kink and BDSM protocols and Japanese apology frameworks.Part 1: Understanding Conflict and Early Intervention- Esther Perel's three categories of conflict: power and control, respect and recognition, care and closeness- Recognizing personal "tells" that signal emotional escalation- Implementing kink-inspired protocols: safe words, negotiated agreements, and aftercarePart 2: Radical Repair for Full-Blown Conflicts- Step-by-step process for addressing conflicts after they've escalated- Naming the hurt, reflecting back, owning responsibility, and offering a radical apology- Reaffirming connection and attacking the problem, not each otherPart 3: Applying Passionate Problem Solving- Factors influencing success: meaning gap, relationship foundation, and personal skills- Importance of practice and commitment to transform conflict handling- Encouragement to seek outside help when neededKey Takeaways:- Early intervention focuses on self-control, not partner control- Repair matters more than being right in conflicts- Always attack the problem, not each other- Passionate problem solving requires practice and disciplineCall to Action:Ellen encourages listeners to book a free Relationship Reset call, join the Passionate Partners Insider community on Facebook, and spread the word about the Make More Love podcast.Closing Thoughts:Passionate problem solving is not a quick fix but can transform how couples handle conflict when practiced consistently.Support & Resources:Ellen invites listeners to share their thoughts, either in the P3 Insider's Community or directly with her via email. Or, for one on one brainstorming on a specific situation, listeners can set up a time on Ellen's Calendar for a free Relationship Reset Call.All links can be found below."Until next time, remember, 'What I want most in the world is for you to Make More Love With Your Wife and In Your Life.'" - Ellen DorianDisclaimer:The Make More Love show is for information and entertainment purposes only, and reflects the personal opinions and experiences of the host and guests. It is not a substitute for professional advice or guidance in specific situations. Make More Love Show Website: www.makemorelove.showParent Company - The Passionate Partners Project: www.passionatepartnersproject.comJoin Our Passionate Partners Insider Community: https://www.facebook.com/groups/682764239165105Contact Me Directly: Email: [email protected] direct message me via social media:Facebook:  https://www.facebook.com/ellen.dorian.7/LinkedIn:    https://www.linkedin.com/in/ellendorian/Take the free Relationship Dynamics Quiz: http://makemorelove.show/quizSet up a Free Relationship Reset Call with me:http://relationshipresetcall.com

Ellen Dorian explores hot war fighting tactics in relationships, discussing the escalation from Cold War to Hot War styles of conflict. She breaks down the spectrum of conflict, from bickering to brutality, and offers insights on recognizing and addressing unhealthy patterns.Part 1: The Spectrum of Conflict- Bickering as the turning point from Cold War to Hot War- Arguing as a conscious form of conflict- Fighting as a more aggressive, theatrical form of conflict- Brutality as the dangerous extreme of relationship conflictPart 2: Understanding Conflict Styles- Cultural and family influences on conflict styles- The impact of mixed conflict styles in relationships- The difference between intensity and intimacy in conflictsPart 3: Recognizing and Addressing Unhealthy Patterns- Four questions to assess your conflict style- The importance of seeking help for abusive situations- Channeling passion into problem-solving and connectionKey Takeaways:- Cold War and Hot War are points on a single scale of escalating conflict- Bickering is not harmless; it's the turning point to Hot War- Intensity is not intimacy, even with makeup sex involved- Conflict handled well can deepen connection and build trustCall to Action:Ellen encourages listeners to book a free Relationship Reset Call at relationshipresetcall.com for personalized guidance on improving their relationship dynamics.Closing Thoughts:Conflict is inevitable, but how you handle it determines the health of your relationship. Learning to channel passion into building rather than destroying is key to a strong partnership.Support & Resources:Ellen invites listeners to share their thoughts, either in the P3 Insider's Community or directly with her via email. Or, for one on one brainstorming on a specific situation, listeners can set up a time on Ellen's Calendar for a free Relationship Reset Call.All links can be found below."Until next time, remember, 'What I want most in the world is for you to Make More Love with Your Wife and In Your Life.'" - Ellen DorianDisclaimer:The Make More Love show is for information and entertainment purposes only, and reflects the personal opinions and experiences of the host and guests. It is not a substitute for professional advice or guidance in specific situations. Make More Love Show Website: www.makemorelove.showParent Company - The Passionate Partners Project: www.passionatepartnersproject.comJoin Our Passionate Partners Insider Community: https://www.facebook.com/groups/682764239165105Contact Me Directly: Email: [email protected] direct message me via social media:Facebook:  https://www.facebook.com/ellen.dorian.7/LinkedIn:    https://www.linkedin.com/in/ellendorian/Take the free Relationship Dynamics Quiz: http://makemorelove.show/quizSet up a Free Relationship Reset Call with me:http://relationshipresetcall.com

Ellen Dorian explores the concept of "never fighting" in relationships, discussing various reasons why couples might claim they don't fight and the potential implications for their relationship health.Part 1: Reasons for "Never Fighting"- Disengagement and avoidance- Temperament and perceptions- Philosophy and healthy skillsPart 2: Analyzing "Never Fighting" in Relationships- Looking beneath the surface- Attacking the problem, not each other- Practicing conflict resolution on small issuesPart 3: The Importance of Healthy Conflict- Distinguishing between harmful avoidance and genuine compatibility- Building intimacy through constructive disagreement- Developing skills for incremental problem-solvingKey Takeaways:- "Never fighting" can indicate various relationship dynamics, both positive and negative- Healthy relationships often involve constructive conflict resolution- Incremental problem-solving can prevent major conflictsCall to Action:Take the Make More Love Relationship Dynamics Quiz for personalized insights into your relationship dynamics.Closing Thoughts:The absence of fighting doesn't necessarily indicate a healthy relationship. It's crucial to understand the underlying reasons and develop healthy conflict resolution skills.Support & Resources:Ellen invites listeners to share their thoughts, either in the P3 Insider's Community or directly with her via email. Or, for one on one brainstorming on a specific situation, listeners can set up a time on Ellen's Calendar for a free Relationship Reset Call.All links can be found below."Until next time, remember, 'What I want most in the world is for you to Make More Love in Your Life and with Your Wife.'" - Ellen DorianDisclaimer:The Make More Love show is for information and entertainment purposes only, and reflects the personal opinions and experiences of the host and guests. It is not a substitute for professional advice or guidance in specific situations. Make More Love Show Website: www.makemorelove.showParent Company - The Passionate Partners Project: www.passionatepartnersproject.comJoin Our Passionate Partners Insider Community: https://www.facebook.com/groups/682764239165105Contact Me Directly: Email: [email protected] direct message me via social media:Facebook:  https://www.facebook.com/ellen.dorian.7/LinkedIn:    https://www.linkedin.com/in/ellendorian/Take the free Relationship Dynamics Quiz: http://makemorelove.show/quizSet up a Free Relationship Reset Call with me:http://relationshipresetcall.com

Ellen Dorian, host of Make More Love, shares insights from her unexpected vacation in Lisbon, emphasizing the importance of balancing structure and spontaneity in both business and relationships. She discusses the need for resilience, planned breaks, and creating systems that allow for personal time off without compromising business operations.Part 1: The Importance of Planned Breaks- Ellen's unplanned vacation in Lisbon highlights the need for breaks before burnout- Resilience as a core principle in Ellen's coaching model- The balance between planning and spontaneity in business and lifePart 2: Lessons from Lisbon's Lifestyle- Contrast between Lisbon's pace of life and typical American city life- The blend of structure and flexibility in Lisbon's culture- Airport workers' strike example: structure serving freedomPart 3: Business Implications and Relationship Intersections- The necessity of creating systems that allow business owners to take time off- Connection between business operations and personal relationships- Importance of scalability and delegation in business growthKey Takeaways:- Don't wait for burnout to take a vacation- Balance structure with flexibility in both business and personal life- Create systems that allow your business to function without constant supervision- Cultivate resilience through intentional planning and spontaneityCall to Action:Book a free Relationship Reset call at relationshipresetcall.com to address business and relationship challenges.Closing Thoughts:Running a successful business isn't about controlling every detail, but about cultivating resilience and finding the right balance between structure and flexibility.Support & Resources:Ellen invites listeners to share their thoughts, either in the P3 Insider's Community or directly with her via email. Or, for one on one brainstorming on a specific situation, listeners can set up a time on Ellen's Calendar for a free Relationship Reset Call.All links can be found below."Until next time, remember, 'What I want most in the world is for you to Make More Love with Your Wife and In Your Life'" - Ellen DorianDisclaimer:The Make More Love show is for information and entertainment purposes only, and reflects the personal opinions and experiences of the host and guests. It is not a substitute for professional advice or guidance in specific situations. Make More Love Show Website: www.makemorelove.showParent Company - The Passionate Partners Project: www.passionatepartnersproject.comJoin Our Passionate Partners Insider Community: https://www.facebook.com/groups/682764239165105Contact Me Directly: Email: [email protected] direct message me via social media:Facebook:  https://www.facebook.com/ellen.dorian.7/LinkedIn:    https://www.linkedin.com/in/ellendorian/Take the free Relationship Dynamics Quiz: http://makemorelove.show/quizSet up a Free Relationship Reset Call with me:http://relationshipresetcall.com

Ellen Dorian addresses a listener's question about whether to end a long-term relationship, offering insights on recognizing emotional attachment, repairing relationships, and considering the hidden costs of divorce.Part 1: Analyzing Emotional Disengagement- Emotional clues indicating persistent attachment to a relationship- The significance of anger, bargaining, and seeking validation- Statistical insights on marital conflicts and desires for changePart 2: Strategies for Relationship Repair- Three-step approach to relationship improvement- Importance of committing to repair regardless of outcome- Shifting mindset and mapping out a strategy- Introduction to the Relationship Hierarchy of NeedsPart 3: Considering Divorce and Its Hidden Costs- Financial, social, and emotional impacts of divorce- Real-life example of post-divorce challenges and successes- Importance of inner work before making major relationship decisionsKey Takeaways:- Recognize emotional clues to determine readiness to end a relationship- Implement a three-step strategy to improve relationship dynamics- Understand and prepare for the hidden costs of divorce- Focus on solving the right relationship problems using the Hierarchy of NeedsCall to Action:Take the free Relationship Dynamics quiz at MakeMoreLove.Show/Quiz to identify the highest priority areas to improve in your relationship.Or,Schedule a Relationship Reset Call for a one on one walk through of your options at www.relationshipresetcall.comClosing Thoughts:Understanding when you are ready to end a relationship is never going to be easy. It's important to check in with yourself and follow the emotional clues that will show whether you are ready to move on. Whether you choose to stay or leave, focus on personal growth and healing. Your path forward should align with your values and long-term happiness.Support & Resources:Ellen invites listeners to share their thoughts, either in the P3 Insider's Community or directly with her via email. Or, for one on one brainstorming on a specific situation, listeners can set up a time on Ellen's Calendar for a free Relationship Reset Call.All links can be found below."Until next time, remember, 'What I want most in the world is for you to Make More Love in Your Life and with Your Wife.'" - Ellen DorianDisclaimer:The Make More Love show is for information and entertainment purposes only, and reflects the personal opinions and experiences of the host and guests. It is not a substitute for professional advice or guidance in specific situations. Make More Love Show Website: www.makemorelove.showParent Company - The Passionate Partners Project: www.passionatepartnersproject.comJoin Our Passionate Partners Insider Community: https://www.facebook.com/groups/682764239165105Contact Me Directly: Email: [email protected] direct message me via social media:Facebook:  https://www.facebook.com/ellen.dorian.7/LinkedIn:    https://www.linkedin.com/in/ellendorian/Take the free Relationship Dynamics Quiz: http://makemorelove.show/quizSet up a Free Relationship Reset Call with me:http://relationshipresetcall.com Here's the episode on the Relationship Hierarchy of Needs:https://www.makemorelove.show/episode-4-simplifying-the-complexities-of-relationship-dynamics/

Ellen Dorian discusses common mistakes made in restaurants that can ruin date nights, offering practical advice to enhance romantic experiences and strengthen relationships.Part 1: Restaurant Etiquette and Date Night Atmosphere- The importance of making reservations- Avoiding rudeness towards restaurant staff- Refraining from extreme menu customization- Handling complaints discreetlyPart 2: Financial Considerations and Tipping- Avoiding price audits and money talk at the table- Handling tipping gracefully- Checking menu prices online before the datePart 3: Enhancing the Date Night Experience- Being mindful of overstaying- Maintaining proper table manners- Keeping intimate behavior discreet- Respecting restaurant propertyKey Takeaways:- Plan the vibe and mood for your date night in advance- Be fully present and engaged with your partner- Treat restaurant staff with respect and kindness- Handle any issues discreetly and away from the table- Keep money discussions off the table during the date- Consider moving to another venue for dessert or nightcapCall to Action:Book a free Relationship Reset Call with Ellen to elevate your next date night and improve your overall relationship.Closing Thoughts:A successful date night can build momentum for daily intimacy and connection in your relationship.Support & Resources:Ellen invites listeners to share their thoughts, either in the P3 Insider's Community or directly with her via email. Or, for one on one brainstorming on a specific situation, listeners can set up a time on Ellen's Calendar for a free Relationship Reset Call.All links can be found below."Until next time, remember, 'What I want most in the world is for you to Make More Love with Your Wife and In Your Life.'" - Ellen DorianDisclaimer:The Make More Love show is for information and entertainment purposes only. It is not a substitute for the guidance of a qualified mental health or medical professional. Make More Love Show Website: www.makemorelove.showParent Company - The Passionate Partners Project: www.passionatepartnersproject.comJoin Our Passionate Partners Insider Community: https://www.facebook.com/groups/682764239165105Contact Me Directly: Email: [email protected] direct message me via social media:Facebook:  https://www.facebook.com/ellen.dorian.7/LinkedIn:    https://www.linkedin.com/in/ellendorian/Take the free Relationship Dynamics Quiz: http://makemorelove.show/quizSet up a Free Relationship Reset Call with me:http://relationshipresetcall.com

Ellen Dorian discusses the importance of enjoying time with your partner and offers strategies to bring fun and playfulness back into relationships, especially for busy professionals.Part 1: Rediscovering Joy in Relationships- Ellen emphasizes the significance of simply enjoying being together- Introduces the concept of "affinity" from her relationship hierarchy of needs- Encourages listeners to reflect on their favorite activities with their partner- Addresses the challenge of relationships on autopilot due to busy lifestylesPart 2: Strategies for Rekindling Fun- Suggests recreating childhood summer memories as a date idea- Shares personal examples of fun childhood activities- Recommends asking partners about their favorite childhood memories- Introduces the concept of "bids for connection" and their importancePart 3: Overcoming Relationship Challenges- Addresses concerns for relationships in serious trouble- Introduces the Relationship Dynamics Scorecard quiz- Explains how to use childhood favorites as "bids for connection"- Emphasizes the power of small, consistent gestures in building strong relationshipsKey Takeaways:- Prioritize pleasure and enjoyment in your relationship- Use childhood memories to create fun, playful experiences with your partner- Small, consistent gestures are more effective than grand, infrequent gestures- Taking initiative to improve your relationship can lead to positive changesCall to Action:Take the Relationship Dynamics Scorecard quiz at makemoreloveShowQuiz.com and schedule a free one-on-one call with Ellen to review your results and create an action plan.Closing Thoughts:Relationships require active effort to maintain and improve. Incorporating playfulness and fun can reignite the enjoyment that brought you together initially.Support & Resources:Ellen invites listeners to share their thoughts, either in the P3 Insider's Community or directly with her via email. Or, for one on one brainstorming on a specific situation, listeners can set up a time on Ellen's Calendar for a free Relationship Reset Call.All links can be found below."Until next time, remember, 'What I want most in the world is for you to Make More Love in Your Life and with Your Wife.'" - Ellen DorianDisclaimer:The Make More Love show is for information and entertainment purposes only. It is not a substitute for the guidance of a qualified mental health or medical professional.Make More Love Show Website: www.makemorelove.showParent Company - The Passionate Partners Project: www.passionatepartnersproject.comJoin Our Passionate Partners Insider Community: https://www.facebook.com/groups/682764239165105Contact Me Directly: Email: [email protected] direct message me via social media:Facebook:  https://www.facebook.com/ellen.dorian.7/LinkedIn:    https://www.linkedin.com/in/ellendorian/Take the free Relationship Dynamics Quiz: http://makemorelove.show/quizSet up a Free Relationship Reset Call with me:http://relationshipresetcall.com

Ellen Dorian discusses the importance of balancing business growth with maintaining a healthy relationship. She emphasizes the risks of neglecting one's partnership while focusing solely on business success, and offers strategies to protect and nurture both aspects of life.Part 1: The Blind Spot in Business Coaching- Ellen shares insights from a recent business coaching conference- Highlights the common oversight of relationship health in business coaching- Introduces the concept of relationship autopilot and its pitfallsPart 2: Common Relationship Delusions for Business Owners- Explores five common misconceptions about relationships while building a business- Discusses the dangers of assuming partner contentment and postponing relationship focusPart 3: Strategies for Relationship Success- Presents five business growth strategies applied to relationships- Emphasizes the importance of strategic planning, resource management, and innovation in partnershipsKey Takeaways:- Investing in relationship support is crucial when growing a business- Recognizing and addressing relationship issues early can prevent catastrophic outcomes- Applying business strategies to relationships can lead to more effective problem-solvingCall to Action:- Take the Relationship Dynamics scorecard quiz at MakeMoreLove.Show/Quiz- Schedule a free one-on-one call with Ellen at RelationshipResetCall.comClosing Thoughts:Ellen compares neglecting relationships to "skipping leg day" in fitness, emphasizing the importance of maintaining balance between business and personal life for overall success and fulfillment.Support & Resources:Ellen invites listeners to share their thoughts, either in the P3 Insider's Community or directly with her via email. Or, for one on one brainstorming on a specific situation, listeners can set up a time on Ellen's Calendar for a free Relationship Reset Call.All links can be found below."Until next time, remember, 'What I want most in the world is for you to Make More Love in Your Life and with Your Wife.'" - Ellen DorianDisclaimer:The Make More Love show is for information and entertainment purposes only. It is not a substitute for the guidance of a qualified mental health or medical professional.Make More Love Show Website: www.makemorelove.showParent Company - The Passionate Partners Project: www.passionatepartnersproject.comJoin Our Passionate Partners Insider Community: https://www.facebook.com/groups/682764239165105Contact Me Directly: Email: [email protected] direct message me via social media:Facebook:  https://www.facebook.com/ellen.dorian.7/LinkedIn:    https://www.linkedin.com/in/ellendorian/Take the free Relationship Dynamics Quiz: http://makemorelove.show/quizSet up a Free Relationship Reset Call with me:http://relationshipresetcall.com

Ellen Dorian discusses the importance of intrinsic passion in relationships, focusing on sex and intimacy. She explores why passion fades, differences between men and women, and provides strategies to reignite passion.Part 1: Understanding Passion in Relationships- Sex as the "glue" of healthy relationships- Differentiating between sex, passion, and intimacy- Reasons for loss of interest in sex for men and women- Rejecting the idea that passion naturally fades over timePart 2: Rekindling Passion- Three core habits supporting intrinsic passion: Vitality, Intimate Intensity, and Prioritizing Pleasure- Five strategies to recharge passion:1. Take responsibility for your own passion2. Avoid keeping score3. Replace magical thinking with proven methods4. Let go of insecurities5. Stop tolerating and take actionPart 3: Practical Application- Immersing in passion-centered thinking- Creating micro-moments of flirtation- Planning connection-focused date nights- Emphasizing intentionality in small, consistent actionsKey Takeaways:- Passion is built into relationships from the start and can be rekindled- Understanding gender differences in passion can prevent misunderstandings- Small, intentional actions can significantly impact relationship passionCall to Action:Listeners are encouraged to try one strategy from the episode to reignite passion in their relationship and share their experiences.Closing Thoughts:Passion comes back by design, not by accident. Applying business growth strategies to relationships can lead to impressive changes.Support & Resources:Ellen invites listeners to share their thoughts, either in the P3 Insider's Community or directly with her via email. Or, for one on one brainstorming on a specific situation, listeners can set up a time on Ellen's Calendar for a free Relationship Reset Call.All links can be found below."Until next time, remember, 'What I want most in the world is for you to Make More Love--With Your Wife and In Your Life.'" - Ellen DorianDisclaimer:The Make More Love show is for information and entertainment purposes only, and reflects the personal opinions and experiences of the host and guests. It is not a substitute for professional advice or guidance in specific situations. Make More Love Show Website: www.makemorelove.showParent Company - The Passionate Partners Project: www.passionatepartnersproject.comJoin Our Passionate Partners Insider Community: https://www.facebook.com/groups/682764239165105Contact Me Directly: Email: [email protected] direct message me via social media:Facebook:  https://www.facebook.com/ellen.dorian.7/LinkedIn:    https://www.linkedin.com/in/ellendorian/Take the free Relationship Dynamics Quiz: http://makemorelove.show/quizSet up a Free Relationship Reset Call with me:http://relationshipresetcall.com