LOA Recon with the Good Vibe Coach

What's driving your latest desire? If it's coming from an attempt to escape what you don't want, you're operating with a vibrational handicap. When we're trying to manifest something from a focus of what we don't want, results are slow and unsatisfying. But when we create from a place of connection to the true desire, that's a cleaner instruction for Universe to play with.

Once I realized I was stuck in a loop of resistance, I transformed that unhelpful vibe by choosing to say yes to what was happening instead of pushing against it. The results already are making me a big fan of the process of welcoming whatever shows up instead of trying to micromanage results.

To aspiring creators who have felt discouraged when their first manifesting attempts didn't turn out as intended, don't let that deter you from the practice. Because it is a practice, just like anything else. It's okay not to feel confident and it's okay to study up and it's okay to pace yourself as you acclimate to new creation skills.

As we think, so shall it be. That's why I recently decided to be good at something I haven't excelled at before. Instead of waiting for the evidence to declare myself a master at romantic relationships, I'm choosing it now. May this example inspire you to decide you're really good at whatever you're ready to be, too. :)

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download this episode Sometimes fellow creators report that they "suspended their manifesting practice" for one reason or another, or that they got distracted and "fell off the LOA wagon." The thing to remember is that if you gave up your manifesting process in favor of something that you enjoyed even more, you're still doing it! You're still practicing effective vibration management, even when you stop visualizing or affirming and start playing and enjoying. And we all know that law of attraction isn't something we turn on or off - it's always working, always in effect, whether we're being deliberate about our focus or not.

download this episode It's so easy to see in others, yet when it was my turn I didn't pause to shift the vibe ... Which is why I could easily invite a reader to focus on what she wanted (when she wondered about her boyfriend's "bad" behavior), but I rolled right along with thoughts about how I never wanted to visit this emergency animal center again. (After picking up my deceased dog's ashes.) Within 24 hours I was in their lobby again, this time with a foster cat whose spay went awry. The thing about resistance - it's a powerful magnet to attract more of the very thing we don't want. I know it, you know it, and yet we still do it. Here's to learning to use our power for good!

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download this episode This month's Q&A episode includes the following questions from listeners: "How did I manifest that?" When wondering how you were a match to an outcome you didn't want, this is one way to approach the question. The psychic told me something I didn't like hearing. What to do with that intel? Finding the better feeling thoughts is really hard when I'm tired and down. What can I do in those situations? Is it possible to see results from affirmations in just a day or two? How can I remedy the split between family members or among friends? If anything here catches your fancy, you're invited to tune in for my short and sweet thoughts.

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download this episode There are three words that don't leave my lips in reference to what I want to manifest. Those words are: "It didn't happen." Or, "It isn't working." Or, "What went wrong?" Because the only way it doesn't happen is if I give that instruction. So I keep the door open by knowing that it's happening right now and I'm expecting it soon. As we speak, the thing I've been wanting is unfolding into my reality in this very moment. Even if I can't see it. Even if it's taken a while. It's happening now. I have no story to tell you about the time it didn't work. (Read at the blog.)

download this episode One of my favorite manifesting stories is from a client who was not only new to law of attraction, but was skeptical of it. Tune in to hear what happened when he opened himself to his creative powers by activating the "Big Winner" vibration before heading to the casino with friends for the weekend. We can all glean tips from this manifesting maestro, including non-attachment to results, releasing the how, as well as shaking off a contrary reality. (Read here.)

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Can you guess the hands down most overlooked, underrated, dismissed manifesting method known by conscious creators? It's not visualizing, or affirming, or scripting of any sort. Even the savviest of creators sometimes forget the power of this one. But you won't after tuning in for this episode, where you will be reminded of the single most underrated way to get what you want once and for all ...

download this episode You're the star of today's episode ... at least, a handful of you who recently emailed questions. :) I gave short and sweet answers to questions including: What to do about anxiety that I should be doing something? What to do about the negative nellies in my life? How do I eliminate doubt about getting what I want? How to handle survivor's/success guilt? This is the first time I published a Q&A episode, so let me know if this is a format that helps or not.

Is it possible to change your bank account by changing your signature? Or your love life? Or your professional success? This episode is my argument for why it might worth playing around with it ... Whether your signature changes or not, as long as your vibration does, it can't help but affect the circumstances of your life.

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download this episode What makes you YOU? Being in our highest alignment calls for us to not only know the answer to that question, and but also to live it. When you know what matters to you most and you prioritize that in life (whatever it is), you are living in the vibrational sweet spot which makes all your manifesting efforts more effective. Tune in for tips on why this question matters even more to conscious creators - and how to discover your personal answers.

download this episode What lens have you practiced seeing life through? When we learn to adjust our perception, our reality follows suit. That's what I experienced after engaging a self-love practice that led me to read hate mail in a completely different tone. While it's an entertaining example of what's possible when we tune ourselves into a particular vibration, it also reveals the power of being deliberate about how we view the world. This is your invitation to get deliberate about choosing the lens you see life through.

download this episode Here's a little manifesting technique to suspend habits of striving and yearning for what you desire, and instead activate the vibration of having it. Experiment with this I Am spell when you notice alignment to your desire is coming up short, and see if it helps you claim what you want in a more confident way. As always, use your own guidance to customize it in a way that works best for you. Read the post here.

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download this episode I recently interviewed my mentor, Jeanna Gabellini, who is a Master Business Coach and the expert at leveraging law of attraction for biz success. Here are three of my favorite takeaways from her inspiring talk: #1, it takes a lot of trust to only do what you want to do. To muggles that sounds easy, and it does get easier with practice - but in the beginning, it takes strong awareness to even know what it is and then tremendous courage to follow your joy! #2, let go of scarcity decision making. When we make decisions out of believing there isn't enough (not enough men, not enough money, not enough time, not enough support, not enough clients, etc.) then that's what we manifest. #3, hoping it works is a sign you don't fully believe. It means you haven't yet decided to have what you want. You're still trying to get there, instead of coming from that place, as Neville might say. (Read at the blog.)

download this episode Here's a tip for the next time you're feeling weighed down with resistance ... either because you're attached to a particular outcome or you're disappointed at one that already unfolded. It's a move that engages your physical body, and it's one you already know. But you've been doing it after the vibration shifts, when you could actually be using it to effect the shift. Tune in or read here for more ...

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One of my new year traditions has been reviewing progress from the prior year and setting bigger targets for the new year. But this year I'm playing it different. Instead of picking new goals for what I want to create in 2018, I'm focusing on extracting the most joy possible from my current reality. Not needing things to change in order to get even happier. No doubt as I rely on myself to find more appreciation and satisfaction, rather than depend on manifesting a new reality for those feelings, I'll achieve the kind of alignment that requires life to get even better across the board.

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When we know that anything we focus on comes true, it invites a review of the stories we tell ... Are your current stories taking you where you want to go, or are they just creating more of the same? Sometimes more of the same is what we want! But when it's not - when we're in the mood for change - it's worth paying attention to the way we speak our world into being. Tune in for a no-nonsense take on the power of telling it the way you want it, along with an invitation to edit your most important stories for highest manifestation success ...

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