LOA Recon with the Good Vibe Coach

When you notice your expectations aren't fabulous, it's worth taking a moment to turn them around. Here's how to spot and reverse negative expectations ...

How do you know whether your alignment practice is working for you or not? It's a question worth asking now and again. If it's been a while since you evaluated the effectiveness of your vibration management plan, here are three questions to help you know whether your manifesting process is as effective as it could be ...

We're answering your burning questions in this month's Q&A episode, including: How to convince muggle loved ones that law of attraction works How to stop wanting/needing clients How to sell the book/art Tune in for tips on how to improve your manifesting game ...

This is the LOA savvy way to call in more money ... Engaging even one of these top 10 tips can make a dramatic impact to your financial abundance.

When authority figures and loved ones contradict your preferences, don't succumb to their version of reality. They don't know what you're capable of. They don't know the power of your focus. They don't know that you get to have it your way - when you don't let them sway your attention off of what you want. This is your reminder to hold your power when external forces threaten ...

When we wait for reality to change in order to really feel better, we're stuck in manifesting limbo. In order for things to change out there, we have to mean it in here first. That means we don't give up our vibrational instruction even when reality appears to be unchanged. Bashar calls this the "manifesting echo." Easier said than done, but the more you practice, the better you get.

Lately when someone tells me what's wrong with their life and what needs to change, I've been thinking of The Scapegoat movie and what it's like to starve at the feast. Abraham says every moment contains every thing, and it's just a matter of what we choose to pull out of it. What would it be like for a stranger to walk into our life and see nothing but blessings and opportunities, where we've practiced seeing problems and failure? It's a question worth pondering.

Dating a conscious creator? Partnered with an LOA savvy manifestor? Here are ten things that are helpful to know about how we do relationships different than the average bear.

After discovering an issue with a website, I used my best manifesting skills to attract a perfect tech support person. The only problem was that that wasn't what I really wanted. It's a common practice - but certainly not best practice - to focus on how we think we'll get what we want, rather than just tuning into what we actually want.

A weird thing sometimes happens after we use the law of attraction to manifest what we want … Not always, but sometimes, we stop being conscious with our creations. We forget the LOA habits that got us there in the first place, and we start muggling our way through life. Here's how to change that routine and keep your magic engaged for more future success.

When you're tempted to dismiss a cool manifestation because the factors that brought it about were already in play long before you called it in, let's just remember how this actually works ... Yes, you did that. Your creation powers play outside the conventionally understood limits of space and time.

If you've got a dream or desire that hasn't happened yet, I'm going to first ask you how you know that. And then I'm going to ask you to please stop knowing that. Knowing it hasn't happened is what blocks it. We're conscious creators - we can know better than that!

Some people might be born happy and spend their whole lives that way, but the rest of us who practice conscious creation know that feeling better is a discipline. It's not something that comes from manifesting the perfect circumstances. Rather, it's something we choose over and over again, regardless of our situation. We don't wait for the stars to line up. It's not a gene we hope to have inherited. We don't cross our fingers until the mood strikes. Rather, feeling better is the practice of finding one improved thought after another. And that is a discipline.

When you find yourself wanting something from another – whether it's attention, time, acknowledgment, respect, etc. – give it to yourself first. Learning how to give yourself what you want from someone else is a powerful way to align to it. It's not just empowering, but also puts you in vibrational integrity to receive what you want from the world.

What have you manifested lately? That's what I was recently asked, and this was my answer. It's a look at how conscious creation can be part of our every day life - not just reserved for the big dreams and desires we hold near and dear ...

You've got questions; I've got opinions! Oh, the strong opinions! lol How to manifest a hundred thousand dollar windfall? Is it cool to put a spell on the new guy so he sees me as sexy? What's the best way to uplevel an already good life? These are the questions fielded in this episode!

The name of the game in conscious creation is learning how not to rely on external circumstances to feel better. That includes finding ways to feel better before anything changes. But it's easier than we make it out to be. Here are seven reliable ways to feel better before anything else changes ...

What if you didn't have to figure out how to draw the money in, but instead all you had to do was get a proper outflow going? This is an invitation to let your "money out" be the catalyst for "money in." Next time you're feeling cautious about spending a large sum of money or trying to figure out how to get more in, just check your outflow. Are you exhaling properly, or are you doing it with fear and lack? Are you hanging on because you don't trust there will be more? Are you trying to breathe more in without addressing what you've already got? Letting the money out fully (with trust and confidence) inspires the return of it abundantly, and that's what it does when we stop making it harder than that. That's all it takes. It's automatic.

Conscious creators don't operate from rules, but just for fun – if there were ten commandments of creating reality, I imagine they might go something like this ...

Whatever we strongly don't want, we're a magnet for. What we push against, we lock into our experience. That's why it's worth making friends with your debt instead of trying to get rid of it. While it's a common approach to think of debt as a negative thing to avoid at all costs, that's not a vibration that liberates from it. A friendlier perspective will serve you (and your bank account) well!

There's a thought virus many of us are exposed to that can cause lack and shortage when we let it take over our focus. That thought is: "There isn't enough money." If you're not paying good attention, it's easy to succumb to and begin thinking in terms of lack since so many others are thinking it, too! Here's how to vaccinate for this money thought virus ...

It doesn't always happen this way, but sometimes things get worse before they get better after you engage your manifesting power to create what you want. Don't throw in the towel! It could very well be a sign of a strong start and good reason to expect fabulous results as you continue your manifesting practice.

For creators who have their manifesting practice on hold while determining the best way to engage it, this is a reminder that getting it 100% right doesn't matter as much as it does that you just start! Don't get hung up on trying to get it right. Start with what you know and tweak as you go.

It was like a bad experience of deja vu when my favorite cat went awol right before Christmas ... Which gave me yet another opportunity to be the vibrational leader of what I wanted rather than respond to unwanted circumstances in reality. Tune in for a short recap of how I finally gleaned the lessons my loved ones have been trying to teach me all year ...

Next time you wonder whether it's possible to manifest what you want, just remember it's already happening. Everything is. Right now. The only question to consider is how you'll become a vibrational match to what you want ...

When you find yourself tempted to figure out a resolution to a problem or issue, pause and engage your manifesting superpowers first! Feel it out instead of just figuring it out. The actions you're inspired to after activating the vibration of what you want will serve way better than just operating from muggle mode.

Sometime we don't realize that our big manifesting obstacle in creating what we want is knowing how to let life be that good to us. That's what allowing is all about - being willing to live the good life (whatever that means for us each.) That's why having the skills to receive what you want is worth practicing!

Want an easy way to boost your vibe? Drop three tolerations today. Just find an energy drainer you'd like to be rid of, and handle it. Rinse and repeat twice for good measure. Doesn't matter if they're big irritations or small … you'll feel better for eliminating what was dampening your vibe. The result is instant feel good! Or at least, instant feeling better. And that's all it takes to tip something teetering on the edge of your vortex into 3D manifested life.

As soon as I decide someone is doing me wrong, I'm co-creating something I don't want. That's why it's worth changing my mind when I catch myself conjuring an enemy. Magic happens when I decide we're on the same side instead.

If you're wondering what you should be doing, that's a cue that your next move is to get focused on what you want. Because when we're dialed on our desire, inspiration naturally calls us to the next step on that path. If you're not feeling inspired, that's when it's time to remind yourself what you want. And then do whatever calls you most strongly after that!

Next time you think things are going wrong, it might be worth changing your mind before you get too far down that road. We get what we think. So things can turn out much better when we decide it's all working out perfectly. Here's a helpful reminder about the power of remembering that everything is coming together and all is well.

As a full time manifesting coach for over 13 years and a leader of a robust law of attraction membership site, I have a unique insight into the practices of thousands of fellow creators. Here's what I learned after studying those who are exceptionally successful at manifesting what they want ...

We all experience it at one time or another ... something unwanted gets our attention in a way where we get stuck in a bad thought loop. Even though we know this is where we're supposed to redirect our focus, sometimes that seems easier said than done. This is what to do when that happens ...

Bashar's instruction to "follow your highest excitement" sometimes is easier to say than to practice. But it really is a powerful vibrational setup for success when we lead with whatever we find most joyful. It puts us in the vibrational range of everything we ever wanted! Which is why it's a routine worth getting good at. If you've found it tricky to trust whatever sounds fun next, let me introduce you to Harvey, who is a master at following his highest joy moment to moment ...

Do you have a habit of thinking about your big dreams as something that might happen "someday"? They're probably more ready for you today than you realize. Meet your dreams in the present moment by saying yes to them now ...

You know how what we resist persists? And you know how action can't override a dominant vibration? Basic stuff for conscious creators. We all know this. And yet, there I was apparently intending to avoid any more loss in my near future by inviting a puppy into my world. "Forget these seniors who are dropping like flies - it's time for a puppy!" Here's what happened when I realized my resistance to losing another dog might very well be costing me my newest one ...

When you're trying to decide what to do next, that's a sign inner guidance isn't in charge. Because when inner guidance leads the way, we feel pulled by inspiration to joyfully engage whatever it's pointing us toward. So if the next action to take isn't obvious, that's time to practice the end better. Plug in to the pictures and feelings of your desired end result in order to give guidance a chance to point the best way there.

Could magical change be as simple as focusing your mind in the red hot moment? Turns out it's not magic after all - it's the technology we all have within. Tune in for a reminder about how you can engage your focusing power to create minor and major improvements throughout your day ...

What if you had a tool that gave you the kind of leverage that could move mountains and manifest miracles? I had a new tool made recently that looked like Thor's hammer and made me feel like I could do anything! That's when I realized it was a child's toy compared to the tool we've all been gifted ... This is your invitation to engage your manifesting tools the way they were meant to be used.

What if it turned out your greatest dream come true was already manifested right under your nose? Sounds ridiculous, I know. Of course we'd see it if it were here! But it happened to me, and it happened recently. So it might be worth considering you're not as far away from what you want as you think ...

What's driving your latest desire? If it's coming from an attempt to escape what you don't want, you're operating with a vibrational handicap. When we're trying to manifest something from a focus of what we don't want, results are slow and unsatisfying. But when we create from a place of connection to the true desire, that's a cleaner instruction for Universe to play with.

Once I realized I was stuck in a loop of resistance, I transformed that unhelpful vibe by choosing to say yes to what was happening instead of pushing against it. The results already are making me a big fan of the process of welcoming whatever shows up instead of trying to micromanage results.

To aspiring creators who have felt discouraged when their first manifesting attempts didn't turn out as intended, don't let that deter you from the practice. Because it is a practice, just like anything else. It's okay not to feel confident and it's okay to study up and it's okay to pace yourself as you acclimate to new creation skills.

As we think, so shall it be. That's why I recently decided to be good at something I haven't excelled at before. Instead of waiting for the evidence to declare myself a master at romantic relationships, I'm choosing it now. May this example inspire you to decide you're really good at whatever you're ready to be, too. :)

download this episode Conscious creators sometimes wonder whether their manifesting efforts are better focused on their ultimate desired end result, or whether it's more effective to dial on the next obvious step. The answer is completely personal, depending on where you get the most juice, but there's another element worth taking into consideration before you solidify your alignment practice. Tune in for my tips on whether it's better to manifest in baby steps or big leaps, based on years of personal experience as well as with manifesting clients. As always, remember to listen for your own best answer within ...

download this episode Sometimes fellow creators report that they "suspended their manifesting practice" for one reason or another, or that they got distracted and "fell off the LOA wagon." The thing to remember is that if you gave up your manifesting process in favor of something that you enjoyed even more, you're still doing it! You're still practicing effective vibration management, even when you stop visualizing or affirming and start playing and enjoying. And we all know that law of attraction isn't something we turn on or off - it's always working, always in effect, whether we're being deliberate about our focus or not.

download this episode It's so easy to see in others, yet when it was my turn I didn't pause to shift the vibe ... Which is why I could easily invite a reader to focus on what she wanted (when she wondered about her boyfriend's "bad" behavior), but I rolled right along with thoughts about how I never wanted to visit this emergency animal center again. (After picking up my deceased dog's ashes.) Within 24 hours I was in their lobby again, this time with a foster cat whose spay went awry. The thing about resistance - it's a powerful magnet to attract more of the very thing we don't want. I know it, you know it, and yet we still do it. Here's to learning to use our power for good!

download this episode Same words, totally different vibration. That's what happens when you change how you're saying it. Might not work on everything, but it's effective enough to play with now and again. You might just find this is the secret spell that leads you into new vibrational territory once and for all ...

download this episode This month's Q&A episode includes the following questions from listeners: "How did I manifest that?" When wondering how you were a match to an outcome you didn't want, this is one way to approach the question. The psychic told me something I didn't like hearing. What to do with that intel? Finding the better feeling thoughts is really hard when I'm tired and down. What can I do in those situations? Is it possible to see results from affirmations in just a day or two? How can I remedy the split between family members or among friends? If anything here catches your fancy, you're invited to tune in for my short and sweet thoughts.

download this episode When life calls for us to make a major decision, it's easy to let our LOA knowledge fly out the window as our muggle training takes over. We weigh pros and cons, we research and question, analyze and strategize ... When all the while we're missing the one thing that guarantees we make the best decision for our success. That's to align. To activate the vibration of our success in order to be best guided in how to proceed. Read at the blog.