Kingdom Sexuality

Keeping in with the Spiritual Intimacy theme, Alana had the pleasure of interviewing Aaron and Jennifer Smith! Authors of The Marriage Gift, Aaron and Jennifer chat about their journey of spiritual intimacy and prayer and how intimate but necessary it is. Check out their website here! Find them on IG here! ⁠⁠Want to join Unite & Ignite? ⁠⁠⁠The month of November is all about Spiritual Intimacy! Don't wait!! Want more from Kingdom Sexuality? Come hang out! ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Instagram⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Facebook Group⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Patreon⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Website⁠⁠⁠ Want to hear YOUR review at the beginning of an episode??? Leave one on Apple Podcasts or send us a DM on Instagram- you might just hear it in the next one! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

A successful marriage involves more than just two individuals; it’s a partnership with each other and with God. This partnership is fortified through prayer! So join Alana, Tiera, and Kyle as they discuss the importance of prayer in a Christian marriage! ⁠⁠Want to join Unite & Ignite? ⁠⁠The month of November is all about Spiritual Intimacy! Don't wait!! Want more from Kingdom Sexuality? Come hang out! ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Instagram⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Facebook Group⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Patreon⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Website⁠⁠ Want to hear YOUR review at the beginning of an episode??? Leave one on Apple Podcasts or send us a DM on Instagram- you might just hear it in the next one! Links from today's episode: 30 Prayers for Your Wife ebook 30 Prayers for Your Husband ebook Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Attending church together is a priority for many couples, and is an important one. But how else can you up your spiritual intimacy? Join the KS Team as they dive into really practical ways that you can have more spiritual intimacy in your marriage! ⁠Want to join Unite & Ignite? ⁠The month of November is all about Spiritual Intimacy! Don't wait!! Want more from Kingdom Sexuality? Come hang out! ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Instagram⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Facebook Group⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Patreon⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Website⁠ Want to hear YOUR review at the beginning of an episode??? Leave one on Apple Podcasts or send us a DM on Instagram- you might just hear it in the next one! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Spiritual intimacy is one of the most important, yet least talked about, aspects of marital health! Tune in as Alana, Kyle, and Tiera chat about what spiritual intimacy is, what is a Christ-centered marriage, and what roadblocks try to keep couples from cultivating this in their marriage. Want to join Unite & Ignite? The month of November is all about Spiritual Intimacy! Don't wait!! Want more from Kingdom Sexuality? Come hang out! ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Instagram⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Facebook Group⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Patreon⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Website⁠ Want to hear YOUR review at the beginning of an episode??? Leave one on Apple Podcasts or send us a DM on Instagram- you might just hear it in the next one! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Trigger warning: the KS team talks about miscarriage during this episode and wanted to disclose that and send love to those who have experienced loss or those currently going through it. Shout out to the patrons who chose this weeks episode! Want to become a patron and get all the sweet perks? Tap here! This episode is a tough one, but one that's been requested for a long time. Praying that it's helpful in whatever you've walked through, or can help in the future. Want more from Kingdom Sexuality? Come hang out! ⁠⁠⁠⁠Instagram⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠Facebook Group⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠Patreon⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠Website⁠ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

You asked and they answered!! Alana, Tiera, and Kyle answer an assortment of questions sent in by YOU, their listeners and followers! You won't want to miss it! Want more from Kingdom Sexuality? Come hang out! ⁠⁠⁠Instagram⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠Facebook Group⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠Patreon⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠Website⁠ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Huge shout out to this episodes sponsor Married Dance! They're an amazing,Christian-owned, sex toy shop! Check them out and use our code KINGDOMSEXUALITY for 10% off! Been itching to hear more of our thoughts on the topic of sex toys?? Then this is the episode for you! Alana, Kyle, and Tiera tackle the topic more in depth and build off of last weeks episode. Want more from Kingdom Sexuality? Come hang out! ⁠⁠⁠Instagram⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠Facebook Group⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠Patreon⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠Website⁠ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Huge shout out to this episodes sponsor ⁠Married Dance!⁠ They're an amazing,Christian-owned, sex toy shop! Check them out and use our code KINGDOMSEXUALITY for 10% off! The KS Team is going through the Do's and Don'ts of Sex Toys in this part 1 of the 2 part series! The goal of this series is not to persuade you to use toys, or shame you out of using them, but rather to educate on both sides! Links from today's episode: Married Dance use the code KINGDOMSEXUALITY for 10% off! Want more from Kingdom Sexuality? Come hang out! ⁠⁠Instagram⁠⁠ ⁠⁠Facebook Group⁠⁠ ⁠⁠Patreon⁠⁠ ⁠⁠Website Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Flirting seems to be so important at the beginning of a relationship- pursuing one another, heightened excitement, and so much passion! But once we get married some of that starts to change, tune into the episode to hear why and how to get the fun and passion back! Links from today's episode: The Flirtation Experiment Unite & Ignite Want more from Kingdom Sexuality? Come hang out! ⁠⁠Instagram⁠⁠ ⁠⁠Facebook Group⁠⁠ ⁠⁠Patreon⁠⁠ ⁠⁠Website Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

The KS Team has an exciting announcement... they're releasing a brand new MEMBERSHIP!! You'll hear all about it in this episode where Alana, Kyle, and Tiera go over all of the exciting perks that will be fun for you and your spouse AND will increase connection! Want to join the club?? https://www.kingdomsexualityministry.com/uniteandignite Use the code UIEARLYBIRDPODCAST and get 20% off during the early bird window! We can't wait for you to join!! Want more from Kingdom Sexuality? Come hang out! ⁠Instagram⁠ ⁠Facebook Group⁠ ⁠Patreon⁠ ⁠Website Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Want to get to know the KS Team better? They put a questions box over on Instagram asking "what are some things you assume about us, individually and as a team?". So in this hilarious episode Kyle's wife, Samantha, presents the assumptions to each team member and they share whether or not it's accurate or not! This episode is a hoot, so tune in! Want more from Kingdom Sexuality? Come hang out! ⁠Instagram⁠ ⁠Facebook Group⁠ ⁠Patreon⁠ ⁠Website Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Is pain during sex normal? What is vaginismus? How can husbands support their wives in this journey? Alana and Tiera chat with Jessica Seitz and they blast through those those questions and more in this incredible interview! Jessica's Instagram: @painfree.intimacy Jessica's website: painfreeintimacy.com Want more from Kingdom Sexuality? Come hang out! ⁠Instagram⁠ ⁠Facebook Group⁠ ⁠Patreon⁠ ⁠Website Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Shout out to our incredible Patrons who picked this weeks topic!! If you're interested in becoming a patron or learning more about Patreon go to patreon.com/kingdomsexuality! Ever wondered how to go about sending spicy text messages to your spouse?? Curious what to say, or if there's a secure place to even do that? Tune into the episode to find out!! Links from today's episode: Intimately Us App Spice It Up FREEBIE! Opposites: Location Want more from Kingdom Sexuality? Come hang out! Instagram Facebook Group Patreon Website Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Big thank you to this episodes sponsor, Faithful Counseling! Looking for some affordable Christian counseling? Use this link to get 10% off your first month! As Christians we can sometimes find it difficult to navigate certain things in our marriage. We see things in the movies but wonder "is this okay for our marriage?". So if you've ever wondered that when it comes to "talking dirty" in the bedroom, you're going to want to tune into this episode! Shout out to our incredible Patron's who chose this weeks episode topic! Want more from Kingdom Sexuality? Come hang out! Instagram Facebook Group Patreon Website Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Big thank you to this episodes sponsor, Faithful Counseling! Looking for some affordable Christian counseling? Use this link to get 10% off your first month! We all seem to do it sometimes... so let's talk about keeping score. Is there any benefit to this in a marriage? Is it a useful tool? Alana, Kyle, and Tiera chat all about it- tune in now! Want more from Kingdom Sexuality? Come hang out! Instagram Facebook Group Patreon Website Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

The great debate is finally happening. The Kingdom Sexuality Team finally discusses the pros and cons of scheduling sex vs keeping sex spontaneous! You won't want to miss it!! Links from today's episode: ONE Extraordinary Marriage Episode 133: Intimacy When You Have Small Kids Want more from Kingdom Sexuality? Come hang out! Instagram Facebook Group Patreon Website Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Ladies, do you notice your energy or mood change throughout your cycle? Did you know there are certain times in your cycle your body is more "ready" to be intimate?? Tune into this casual chat with Alana and Tiera as Tiera guides us through the female cycle and how it impacts pleasure! Links from today's episode: - Taking Charge of Your Fertility Book - Beloved Fertility use the code KSFOLLOWER to get $50 off any package! - TempDrop Fertility Tracker Use code AFKINGDOMSEXUALITY for 10% off! Want more? Come hang out with us! Instagram Facebook Group Patreon Website Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Big thank you to this episodes sponsor, Faithful Counseling! Looking for some affordable Christian counseling? Use this link to get 10% off your first month! You're not going to want to miss this incredible episode where Alana and Kyle sit down with Dr. Juli Slattery and talk about her new book: God, Sex, and Your Marriage. They talk about how, when it comes to Christian sexuality and marriage, there are common issues like a lack of intimacy and communication and that being "sexually active" isn't the same as being "sexually intimate." Juli explains how, to build intimacy, couples can talk openly and seek help if needed. And how, in a Christian marriage, it's about finding a balance of passion and pleasure, not just ticking off "marital duty" boxes. God cares about our sexual growth and maturity, focusing on respect, understanding, and having fun along the way! You won't want to miss this one! If you're not already be sure you check Kingdom Sexuality out on Instagram @kingdomsexuality. That's where you'll see even more of the KS content! Weekly sex positions for you to try, connect questions, content geared towards men, and more!! Have a topic suggestion for the team? Send a DM or email them at [email protected]. Don't forget to check out their website www.kingdomsexualityministry.com and the new Facebook Group! They're also on Patreon now! So support Kingdom Sexuality there for some exciting and exclusive perks! And, don't forget to leave them a review on Apple Podcasts! Links from today's episode: Juli Slattery's website: authenticintimacy.com God Sex and Your Marriage book Java with Juli Podcast Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Looking for a safe place to purchase bedroom toys? Married Dance is a Christian, discreet, nudity-free, marriage-focused adult toy store that might have just what you're looking for! Use our code KINGDOMSEXUALITY for 10% off! You're not going to want to miss this incredible interview Alana did with Kim and Darlene Unrau. Combining all of the training these two have creates this incredible Jesus-loving, marriage-equipping, and very wise couple! So tune in and enjoy the wealth of knowledge that Kim and Darlene bring! Want more? Come hang out with us! Instagram Facebook Group Patreon Website Links from today's episode: Kim and Darlene's Website Books mentioned on today's episode: Awaken Love The 5 Love Needs of Men & Women The Gift of Sex Seven Principles for Making Marriage Work Eight Dates Good Pictures Bad Pictures - Young Kids Good Pictures Bad Picture - Junior Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Looking for a safe place to purchase bedroom toys? Married Dance is a Christian, discreet, nudity-free, marriage-focused adult toy store that might have just what you're looking for! Use our code KINGDOMSEXUALITY for 10% off! In this Dr. Josh Kruse, a Registered Psychologist at Dr. Josh Kruse & Associates Counselling & Consulting, and Pastor at Village Church (@thisisvillagechurch) in Surrey, Canada, answers all of these questions and more! Kyle and Alana bring the questions that YOU asked over on Instagram. Dr. Josh is a wealth of knowledge, you're not going to want to miss this one!! - What is counseling actually like? (5:30) - When to go to counseling? (8:00) - What if one spouse wants to go and the other refuses? (9:20) - What should/does premarital counseling look like? (14:00) - How to set up the wedding night for sexual success? (17:40) - What to do when one of the couple has previous sexual experience and the other doesn’t? How much to disclose to your spouse about your sexual past? (20:40) - If my marriage is in a good place, what purpose does it serve to see a counselor? (24:55) - How to rebuild connection when I feel like it’s gone? (28:40) - How to manage emotions and stay present during conflict/tough conversations? (31:15) - How to be a supportive wife when I feel like his work and projects take up all his time? (35:55) - How to get over resentment towards my spouse from unmet expectations? (38:35) - What to do when you feel like you can’t bounce back after an argument? Or when neither person will back down and it’s a stalemate? (40:45) - How to maintain the marriage when your spouse is battling depression? (45:00) - How to feel loved when my spouse won’t love me by my love language? (47:35) - What is the biggest difference you see between couples that are doing great vs those that are struggling? (51:15) - How to handle when one spouse wants something but the other doesn’t? (54:00) - How to manage when one spouse has a much higher sex drive than the other? Or when it seems like one spouse is apathetic towards sex? (58:55) - How can women turn their mind off and just enjoy sex? (1:02:25) - How to talk about past sexual trauma with my spouse? (1:06:25) Want more? Come hang out with us! Instagram Facebook Group Patreon Website Links from today’s episode: Dr. Josh Kruse: Website Instagram Podcast Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

You're not going to want to miss this incredible interview with Unrelenting Pursuit!! In this episode, Alana and Tiera sit down with Brad and Lisa Valencia and explore the intricacies of affairs and their impact on relationships. Brad and Lisa share their story and then they discuss what constitutes an affair and the difference between emotional and physical affairs. The concept of "affair-proofing" a marriage is debated, along with thoughts on friendships with the opposite sex and whether porn addiction can be considered an affair. Signs of infidelity are explored, along with insights on self-blame and handling judgment from others. Also, in the episode they provide guidance on confessing, deciding whether to stay or divorce, and how to start rebuilding trust. You're not going to want to miss this one. If you're not already be sure you check Kingdom Sexuality out on Instagram @kingdomsexuality. That's where you'll see even more of the KS content! Weekly sex positions for you to try, connect questions, content geared towards men, and more!! Have a topic suggestion for the team? Send a DM or email them at [email protected]. Don't forget to check out their website www.kingdomsexualityministry.com and the new Facebook Group! They're also on Patreon now! So support Kingdom Sexuality there for some exciting and exclusive perks! And, don't forget to leave them a review on Apple Podcasts! Links from today's episode: Unrelenting Pursuit Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Shout out to our lovely patrons who decided on this week's podcast episode topic! Want to know more about Patreon? Check it out here! In this episode, Alana, Tiera, and Kyle explore ways to maintain intimacy when you have young kids. From feeling "touched out" to co-sleeping dilemmas, they've got you covered. Discover whether it's acceptable to have a romantic encounter while the little ones are in the room and learn how to spark desire even when you're utterly exhausted. They also tackle the awkward scenario of kids walking in at the wrong moment and how much PDA is acceptable around your kids! With practical advice like scheduling date nights, flirty texts, shared hobbies, and creative use of spaces, you'll find plenty of inspiration to keep the romance alive amidst the chaos of parenting. If you're not already be sure you check Kingdom Sexuality out on Instagram @kingdomsexuality. That's where you'll see even more of the KS content! Weekly sex positions for you to try, connect questions, content geared towards men, and more!! Have a topic suggestion for the team? Send a DM or email them at [email protected]. Don't forget to check out their website www.kingdomsexualityministry.com and the new Facebook Group! They're also on Patreon now! So support Kingdom Sexuality there for some exciting and exclusive perks! And, don't forget to leave them a review on Apple Podcasts! Links from today's episode: Birds & Bee's (use the code KINGDOM for 20% off the course!) Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Join the KS Team as they explore the challenges faced by newlywed couples in navigating changing family dynamics and dealing with finances in this new season. They discuss the concept of "leaving and cleaving," highlighting three important aspects: financial leaving, emotional leaving, and spiritual leaving. Alana, Tiera, and Kyle also emphasize the importance of open communication and setting boundaries with families, while maintaining empathy and understanding. Additionally, the Team provide insights into managing finances as a married couple, including tithing, joint bank accounts, bill payments, regular financial check-ins, and aligning spending priorities. Overall, this episode aims to equip newlyweds with practical tools to navigate the complexities of family dynamics and financial management in their marriage journey. If you're not already be sure you check Kingdom Sexuality out on Instagram @kingdomsexuality. That's where you'll see even more of the KS content! Weekly sex positions for you to try, connect questions, content geared towards men, and more!! Have a topic suggestion for the team? Send a DM or email them at [email protected]. Don't forget to check out their website www.kingdomsexualityministry.com and the new Facebook Group! They're also on Patreon now! So support Kingdom Sexuality there for some exciting and exclusive perks! And, don't forget to leave them a review on Apple Podcasts! Links from today's episode: Ruthless Elimination of Hurry book Love Your First Year (use code KINGDOM15 for a discount!) Faithful Counseling Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Engagement is an exciting time, but it can also be stressful and confusing. Alana, Kyle, and Tiera chat about advice they DID receive during their own seasons of engagement and advice they WISH they had gotten while they were engaged. Some tips they shared were; when it comes to sex, take your time and learn each other's anatomy, find trusted mentors to help keep you accountable during dating and engagement, have conversations about "sexpectations" before AND after the wedding, get good premarital counseling, and be explicit with each other about your needs and wants. These tips can help make your engagement easier and more enjoyable. And remember, the wedding is just the beginning of your journey together!! If you're not already be sure you check Kingdom Sexuality out on Instagram @kingdomsexuality. That's where you'll see even more of the KS content! Weekly sex positions for you to try, connect questions, content geared towards men, and more!! Have a topic suggestion for the team? Send a DM or email them at [email protected]. Don't forget to check out their website www.kingdomsexualityministry.com and the new Facebook Group! They're also on Patreon now! So support Kingdom Sexuality there for some exciting and exclusive perks! And, don't forget to leave them a review on Apple Podcasts! Links from today's episode: Nitty Gritty Wedding Night Run Down Faithful Counseling Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In this episode, the KS Team has some very special guests: Kait and JJ Tomlin from Heart of Dating!! They discuss the challenges and joys of singleness and dating in today's world, particularly from a Christian perspective. Kait and JJ share their own experiences and insights on a variety of topics, including: What does the dating world look like today, and what are the biggest challenges facing Christian singles? Navigating talking about sexual history when dating someone who's had previous relationships. How to handle your sex drive while single. Ways that married couples can support their single friends when life is busy. You can find Kait and JJ's stuff on their website: www.heartofdating.com or on Instagram! If you're not already be sure you check Kingdom Sexuality out on Instagram @kingdomsexuality. That's where you'll see even more of the KS content! Weekly sex positions for you to try, connect questions, content geared towards men, and more!! Have a topic suggestion for the team? Send a DM or email them at [email protected]. Don't forget to check out their website www.kingdomsexualityministry.com and the new Facebook Group! They're also on Patreon now! So support Kingdom Sexuality there for some exciting and exclusive perks! And, don't forget to leave them a review on Apple Podcasts! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Listened to our other orgasm series episodes but still had questions? Alana, Kyle, and Tiera go through questions that you guys, those who did the Orgasm Survey, asked! They answer questions like: How do I tell my husband when I didn't have an orgasm? What's the best way to learn to orgasm the same time as my wife? Why do some orgasms feel better than others? Can some only orgasm with a vibrator? If you're not already be sure you check Kingdom Sexuality out on Instagram @kingdomsexuality. That's where you'll see even more of the KS content! Weekly sex positions for you to try, connect questions, content geared towards men, and more!! Have a topic suggestion for the team? Send a DM or email them at [email protected]. Don't forget to check out their website www.kingdomsexualityministry.com and the new Facebook Group! They're also on Patreon now! So support Kingdom Sexuality there for some exciting and exclusive perks! And, don't forget to leave them a review on Apple Podcasts! Links from today's episode: Faithful Counseling She Comes First Cunnilingus Episode The Penis Book Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Looking for a way to help "porn proof" your devices? Check out Covenant Eyes! Use the code KS30 for your first 30 days free! If you're looking for a sure fire way to have multiple orgasms every time you're intimate with your spouse... the KS Team is sorry to disappoint. In this episode, Tiera, Kyle, and Alana chat about the mythical creature of multiple orgasms and whether it's really possible to achieve. They reveal the results of a survey they conducted and they also talk about the role of cervical position and cycle in women's ability to have multiple orgasms, and the different types of multiple orgasms in men. The KS Team also give some tips for trying to achieve multiple orgasms, such as trying different types of stimulation and not pushing yourself too hard. So, if you're curious about the elusive multiple orgasm, give this podcast episode a listen! If you're not already be sure you check Kingdom Sexuality out on Instagram @kingdomsexuality. That's where you'll see even more of the KS content! Weekly sex positions for you to try, connect questions, content geared towards men, and more!! Have a topic suggestion for the team? Send a DM or email them at [email protected]. Don't forget to check out their website www.kingdomsexualityministry.com and the new Facebook Group! They're also on Patreon now! So support Kingdom Sexuality there for some exciting and exclusive perks! And, don't forget to leave them a review on Apple Podcasts! Links from today’s episode: TempDrop use code AFKINGDOMSEXUALITY for 10% off! Penis Book Married Dance use code KINGDOMSEXUALITY for 10% off! Kyle’s articles: -https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC4896089/ -https://doi.org/10.1016/j.jsxm.2021.09.010 -https://doi.org/10.1080/00224499.2020.1743224 -https://doi.org/10.1016/j.sxmr.2015.12.004 -https://doi.org/10.1016/j.jsxm.2021.06.017 Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Have you listened to part one of the Orgasm Series yet?? If not, the team highly recommends you check it out before listening to this one! In this episode Alana, Kyle, and Tiera chat about many of things they skipped over in the first episode. Things like, practically, what are the first steps when it comes to having an orgasm? Does using toys have an impact on my ability to orgasm with my spouse? And they also go through what YOU, those who did the orgasm survey, found helpful when it came to finally achieving an orgasm! If you're not already be sure you check Kingdom Sexuality out on Instagram @kingdomsexuality. That's where you'll see even more of the KS content! Weekly sex positions for you to try, connect questions, content geared towards men, and more!! Have a topic suggestion for the team? Send a DM or email them at [email protected]. Don't forget to check out their website www.kingdomsexualityministry.com and the new Facebook Group! They're also on Patreon now! So support Kingdom Sexuality there for some exciting and exclusive perks! And, don't forget to leave them a review on Apple Podcasts! Links from today's episode: Married Dance (code KINGDOMSEXUALITY for 10% off!) Thoughts During Sex episode Anatomy episode Come As You Are Awaken Love Kyle's Sextimony Covenant Eyes (use the code KS30 for 30 days free!) *again, Alana's audio isn't the best! sorry about that!!* Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

*unfortunately Alana's audio isn't great in this episode, we're sorry about that!!* It's the series that SO many of you have been waiting for! Alana, Kyle, & Tiera go in depth into what an orgasm is, some of the statistics from our orgasm survey, what kind of orgasms there are, and what YOU say they feel like! This is the first part of our series, so if there are things we didn't cover in this episode, just wait! It might be coming!! If you're not already be sure you check Kingdom Sexuality out on Instagram @kingdomsexuality. That's where you'll see even more of the KS content! Weekly sex positions for you to try, connect questions, content geared towards men, and more!! Have a topic suggestion for the team? Send a DM or email them at [email protected]. Don't forget to check out their website www.kingdomsexualityministry.com and the new Facebook Group! They're also on Patreon now! So support Kingdom Sexuality there for some exciting and exclusive perks! And, don't forget to leave them a review on Apple Podcasts! Links from today's episode: Come As You Are Awaken Love Anatomy Episode 7 Different Orgasms for Men Birds and Bee's sex ed course (Use code KINGDOM20 for 20% off the course) Brandi Harris' sex ed course (Use code KINGS23 for at 10% discount!) Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

It seems like couples are either very pro shower sex, or anti-shower sex, which one are you?? Tune into this hilarious episode as Alana, Tiera, and Kyle share the pros and cons of shower sex, what lube to use, and positions that make it easier!! If you and your spouse don't actually shower together yet, that's a great place to start when it comes to this! Schedule a time to just be in the shower together! Then, as you get more comfortable, try something new! Shower sex can be a really fun way to spice things up. If you're not already be sure you check Kingdom Sexuality out on Instagram @kingdomsexuality. That's where you'll see even more of the KS content! Weekly sex positions for you to try, connect questions, content geared towards men, and more!! Have a topic suggestion for the team? Send a DM or email them at [email protected]. Don't forget to check out their website www.kingdomsexualityministry.com and the new Facebook Group! They're also on Patreon now! So support Kingdom Sexuality there for some exciting and exclusive perks! And, don't forget to leave them a review on Apple Podcasts! Links from today's episode: COCONU- Oil Based Lube YES! Oil Based Lube (use the code KINGDOMSEXUALITY for a discount!) Tandem Episode 103: OPPOSITES: Sizes Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Huge shout out to our incredible Patrons for this episode choice! Thank you!! The KS team has a question for you: Have you ever thought about NOT sleeping in pjs? It's an interesting thing to think about if that's what you've always done, but it's something to consider! There are pro's and con's to sleeping naked, or with less clothes on, but one thing is certain- according to research the team did- those who sleep with less clothes have more sex!! So might be worth a conversation! Tune in as Tiera, Kyle, and Alana chat about why you should consider sleeping naked tonight!! If you're not already be sure you check Kingdom Sexuality out on Instagram @kingdomsexuality. That's where you'll see even more of the KS content! Weekly sex positions for you to try, connect questions, content geared towards men, and more!! Have a topic suggestion for the team? Send a DM or email them at [email protected]. Don't forget to check out their website www.kingdomsexualityministry.com and the new Facebook Group! They're also on Patreon now! So support Kingdom Sexuality there for some exciting and exclusive perks! And, don't forget to leave them a review on Apple Podcasts! Links from today's episode: One Extraordinary Marriage: SLEEP NAKED Mattress Protector Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

The media shows us, when it comes to cleaning up after sex, that you can just kiss your partner and roll over for snuggles and snoozing. But alas. If you've been married for any length of time you'll know that there's a bit more to it than that. Or, if you're engaged and no one has ever told you what it looks like to "clean up" after being intimate- this episode is for you. Alana, Tiera, and Kyle really casually and practically go through what it looks like to properly clean up after intercourse. They also share how YOU, their followers on Instagram, clean up after sex! Excited for you to take a listen! If you're not already be sure you check Kingdom Sexuality out on Instagram @kingdomsexuality. That's where you'll see even more of the KS content! Weekly sex positions for you to try, connect questions, content geared towards men, and more!! Have a topic suggestion for the team? Send a DM or email them at [email protected]. Don't forget to check out their website www.kingdomsexualityministry.com and the new Facebook Group! They're also on Patreon now! So support Kingdom Sexuality there for some exciting and exclusive perks! And, don't forget to leave them a review on Apple Podcasts! Links from today's episode: DudeWipes Drip Stick Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Time to talk expectations... but around sex. Did you go into your marriage with set expectations when it came to sex? How did you find navigating it? Do you and your spouse talk about expectations now? Expectations not shared are usually expectations unmet. So how can we navigate having these conversations well? Tune in as Tiera, Kyle, and Alana chat about healthy "sex-pectations". If you're not already be sure you check Kingdom Sexuality out on Instagram @kingdomsexuality. That's where you'll see even more of the KS content! Weekly sex positions for you to try, connect questions, content geared towards men, and more!! Have a topic suggestion for the team? Send a DM or email them at [email protected]. Don't forget to check out their website www.kingdomsexualityministry.com and the new Facebook Group! They're also on Patreon now! So support Kingdom Sexuality there for some exciting and exclusive perks! And, don't forget to leave them a review on Apple Podcasts! Links from today's episode: Faithful Counseling Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

It's time to get to know the newest member of the Kingdom Sexuality team! Tiera!! In this episode she shares her journey, specifically in the area of intimacy, and how she's grown in those areas. She is going to bring such a wealth of knowledge to the team, specifically in the areas of trying to conceive, fertility, and women's sexual health. Alana and Kyle are absolutely thrilled to have her along during this wild ride. The Lord brought her along at such an amazing time and there's no doubt she's the perfect fit for Kingdom Sexuality. If you're not already be sure you check Kingdom Sexuality out on Instagram @kingdomsexuality. That's where you'll see even more of the KS content! Weekly sex positions for you to try, connect questions, content geared towards men, and more!! Have a topic suggestion for the team? Send a DM or email them at [email protected]. Don't forget to check out their website www.kingdomsexualityministry.com and the new Facebook Group! They're also on Patreon now! So support Kingdom Sexuality there for some exciting and exclusive perks! And, don't forget to leave them a review on Apple Podcasts! Links from today's episode: Pelvic Floor PT Answers All! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

The incredible Kingdom Sexuality patrons were the ones who chose this weeks episode, so a huge THANK YOU to them!! Do you ever struggle with your thoughts during sex? Thinking about a past relationship experience, something you saw in porn, or even just your mind is wandering thinking about what's for dinner tomorrow?? This episode is for you! Alana, Kyle, and Tiera chat about what we do when/if we struggle with wrong thoughts during sex or if our mind wanders during intimacy. They also share some tips and things you can do to get your mind back in the zone during sex! The team gets really practical here, sharing simple tips like: make eye contact, be aware of your senses, and how "mindfulness" could also be a big help! And if you're not already be sure you check Kingdom Sexuality out on Instagram @kingdomsexuality. That's where you'll see even more of the KS content! Weekly sex positions for you to try, connect questions, content geared towards men, and more!! Have a topic suggestion for the team? Send a DM or email them at [email protected]. Don't forget to check out their website www.kingdomsexualityministry.com and the new Facebook Group! They're also on Patreon now! So support Kingdom Sexuality there for some exciting and exclusive perks! And, don't forget to leave them a review on Apple Podcasts! Links from today's episode: Come As You Are Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This is an episode you won't want to miss! Alana sits down with Brandi K. Harris, MS, LPC & LMFT. Brandi is a professional counsellor, author, speaker, teacher, and coach and her and Alana dive into all sorts of really good topics. They chat sexual education, when to have "those talks" with your kids, the science behind sexual desire, how to reignite the spark in your marriage, and so much more!! Brandi does a beautiful job of explaining arousal and desire and how these are actually two different things. You can find more of Brandi on Instagram @brandikharris, or check out her website! And if you're not already be sure you check Kingdom Sexuality out on Instagram @kingdomsexuality. That's where you'll see even more of our content! Weekly sex positions for you to try, connect questions, content geared towards men, and more!! Have a topic suggestion for us? Send a DM or email us at [email protected]. Don't forget to check out our website www.kingdomsexualityministry.com and our new Facebook Group! We're also on Patreon now! So support us there for some exciting and exclusive perks! And, don't forget to leave them a review on Apple Podcasts! Links from today's episode: Journal of Adolesence Come as You Are Episode 5: Let's Spice It Up! Jay Stringer: Unwanted Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Along with being a great episode on the when's and if's of family planning- it's also an exciting episode where Alana and Kyle get to introduce Kingdom Sexuality's NEWEST MEMBER!! Tiera is a wealth of knowledge when it comes to the topic of fertility and women's health and KS is absolutely thrilled to have her apart of the team! Her sextimony will be coming in a few weeks, so this episode doesn't go too in depth into who Tiera is- instead it's an episode where the team chats about "how do you know when you're ready to have kids?" and "how do you know when to be done growing your family?". Questions that KS gets often from followers. And if you're not already be sure you check Kingdom Sexuality out on Instagram @kingdomsexuality. That's where you'll see even more of our content! Weekly sex positions for you to try, connect questions, content geared towards men, and more!! Have a topic suggestion for us? Send a DM or email us at [email protected]. Don't forget to check out our website www.kingdomsexualityministry.com and our new Facebook Group! We're also on Patreon now! So support us there for some exciting and exclusive perks! And, don't forget to leave them a review on Apple Podcasts! Kyle and I are SO excited to have Tiera join us on the team. God has brought her to us at the perfect time and we feel so confident that she's the exact person we needed to come alongside us on this beautiful journey. We can't wait for you guys to get to know her better! -Alana Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In case you were unaware... Valentine's Day is fast approaching! So with that in mind, Alana and Kyle thought it would be a fun idea to share some date night ideas! There's something for those of you who want to stay in, those who want to go out, and those of you who want something spicy. But they don't just end it there, they also touch on something that might be prevalent in your life around this time in February... what if your spouse just isn't into Valentine's Day? How do you navigate that? Where does there need to be compromise and heart inspection? Tune in! And if you're not already be sure you check Kingdom Sexuality out on Instagram @kingdomsexuality. That's where you'll see even more of our content! Weekly sex positions for you to try, connect questions, content geared towards men, and more!! Have a topic suggestion for us? Send a DM or email us at [email protected]. Don't forget to check out our website www.kingdomsexualityministry.com and our new Facebook Group! We're also on Patreon now! So support us there for some exciting and exclusive perks! And, don't forget to leave them a review on Apple Podcasts! Links from today's episode: Intimately Us App Married Dance (use the code KINGDOMSEXUALITY for 10% off!) Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

The incredible Kingdom Sexuality patrons were the ones who chose this weeks episode, so a huge THANK YOU to them!! The KS Team put a questions box up on Instagram asking women who follow us "what do you wish men knew about sex?" and this episode is all of those responses!! (Ladies, share this with your man!) From vocalizing things in the bedroom, go slow and soft, to "when we say keep going- KEEP GOING- don't change speed!" This episode has it all! And if you're not already be sure you check Kingdom Sexuality out on Instagram @kingdomsexuality. That's where you'll see even more of our content! Weekly sex positions for you to try, connect questions, content geared towards men, and more!! Have a topic suggestion for us? Send a DM or email us at [email protected]. Don't forget to check out our website www.kingdomsexualityministry.com and our new Facebook Group! We're also on Patreon now! So support us there for some exciting and exclusive perks! And, don't forget to leave them a review on Apple Podcasts! Links from today's episode: Episode 98: Emotional Intimacy with One Extraordinary Marriage Prayers for Your Wife ebook Prayers for Your Husband ebook Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Kyle and Alana put a lot of work into this Oral Sex Series finale so that it wouldn't blow... (pun intended). But in all seriousness, these oral sex episodes have had so much thought, research, and data behind them. So in this weeks finale oral sex episode they talk about fellatio (aka: oral sex being done on a man, a blow job, or BJ). Alana and Kyle discuss some of the statistics from the survey's they put out over the past few weeks, why many women have a difficult time giving oral sex on their husband, some tips to help, how to go about bringing up the subject of oral sex with your spouse, and so much more! And if you're not already be sure you check Kingdom Sexuality out on Instagram @kingdomsexuality. That's where you'll see even more of our content! Weekly sex positions for you to try, connect questions, content geared towards men, and more!! Have a topic suggestion for us? Send a DM or email us at [email protected]. Don't forget to check out our website www.kingdomsexualityministry.com and our new Facebook Group! We're also on Patreon now! So support us there for some exciting and exclusive perks! And, don't forget to leave them a review on Apple Podcasts! Links we mentioned in today's episode: Married Dance (use the code KINGDOMSEXUALITY for 10% off!) Oral Blessings article Hot, Holy, & Humorous article Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Well, we said this episode is coming and here it is! You wanted to hear more information about cunnilingus? Listen in! It's a longer episode but Alana and Kyle tackle SO much really valuable information. Things like: how do you even begin to start talking about oral sex with your spouse? and why do some women struggle when it comes to receiving oral sex? Kyle and Alana also ran a big survey before doing this series and gathered a bunch of data. You’ll hear it woven in throughout this episode and NEXT week’s episode as well. They got almost 4,500 responses, so the data is from a decent-sized sample and data set! Also, if you haven't listen to episode 112: Deep Dive Into Anatomy it's recommended to go listen to that one first, as there's quite a bit of anatomy talk in this episode and the one to come. And if you're not already be sure you check Kingdom Sexuality out on Instagram @kingdomsexuality. That's where you'll see even more of our content! Weekly sex positions for you to try, connect questions, content geared towards men, and more!! Have a topic suggestion for us? Send a DM or email us at [email protected]. Don't forget to check out our website www.kingdomsexualityministry.com and our new Facebook Group! We're also on Patreon now! So support us there for some exciting and exclusive perks! Links from today's episode: She Comes First - US Link - Canadian Link Opposites: Wants Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

The highly anticipated, long awaited oral sex episode is here! Alana and Kyle will be doing more in depth episodes on fellatio and cunnilingus in the coming episodes but Seth and Melanie Studley did a FANTASTIC job starting off this series. You're not going to want to miss this one. They chat about questions like: How would a couple, who’s struggled with the idea of oral sex, introduce it into their marriage? What should the conversations look like? What considerations should be given to hygiene prior to oral? How does a woman work on getting her mind in the zone for oral sex? We're excited for you to tune in! Connect with Seth and Melanie Studley: Instagram- @anatomyofmarriage Website- www.anatomyofus.com And if you're not already be sure you check Kingdom Sexuality out on Instagram @kingdomsexuality. That's where you'll see even more of our content! Weekly sex positions for you to try, connect questions, content geared towards men, and more!! Have a topic suggestion for us? Send a DM or email us at [email protected]. Don't forget to check out our website www.kingdomsexualityministry.com and our new Facebook Group! We're also on Patreon now! So support us there for some exciting and exclusive perks! Links from today's episode David Schnarch: Passionate Marriage Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Buckle up for this in depth chat on both male and female anatomy!! Kyle uses his medical knowledge of the body to discuss everything anatomy! And when we say everything, we mean everything!! Some of this information might not seem relevant, but it is actually so helpful when it comes to bringing more pleasuring to a woman! Like, did you know the "g-spot" is actually just a clitoral cluster?? And did you know that the vagina gets longer when a woman becomes more aroused?? Husbands, you're going to want to listen to this one so you are able to bring your understand your wife's body to the next level! We also chat about what women want men to know about their anatomy and what men wish women knew about their bodies! Be sure to follow us on Instagram @kingdomsexuality to see more of our content! You'll see weekly sex positions, couples challenges, Thursday content for men, and so much more! Have an idea of what you'd like to hear us talk about? Send us a DM or an email at [email protected]! Links from today's episode: She Comes First: -US LINK -CANADIAN LINK Come As You Are: -US LINK -CANADIAN LINK Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

So many of these "this is the newly discovered 6 love language!" have been coming out, are they valid? Is there a love language that's missing? Tune in as Alana and Kyle chat about the supposed 6th love language: feeling seen/known. Is feeling seen or feeling known its own love language? Is it a combination of a few? Do you feel seen when your spouse speaks your love language? We'd love to know your thoughts! Shoot us a DM or an email sharing your thoughts!! Be sure to follow us on Instagram @kingdomsexuality to see more of our content! You'll see weekly sex positions, couples challenges, Thursday content for men, and so much more! Have an idea of what you'd like to hear us talk about? Send us a DM or an email at [email protected]! Link's from today's episode: 5 Love Language Book Love Language Quiz Prayers For Your Husband eBook Prayers For Your Wife eBook Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Ho Ho HOLD UP, you can still be intimate when you're around family this Christmas?? Yep! Listen in as Kyle and Alana chat about some ways you can make intimacy more of a priority this Christmas! Spoiler alert: it starts with decreasing the amount of stress in your life!! They discuss some other times of day you can have sex when you're around family, different locations, and how removing as much stress as possible will help increase both your libido and energy!! Merry Christmas, from the KS Team. Praying this Christmas is filled with so much love, joy, and Jesus. Be sure to follow us on Instagram @kingdomsexuality to see more of our content! You'll see weekly sex positions, couples challenges, Thursday content for men, and so much more! Have an idea of what you'd like to hear us talk about? Send us a DM or an email at [email protected]! Links from today's episode: Come As You Are (US link) Come As You Are (Canadian link) Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Prepare to have a very jolly Christmas, because Alana and Kyle are giving you Kingdom Sexuality's very first SEX CHALLENGE!! Not sure what a sex challenge is? Basically, it's committing to being intimate for a set number of days in a row. In this episode they go through a bunch of FAQ's when it comes to sex challenges. Questions like: Does it HAVE to be sex every day? How do I bring up the idea of a sex challenge to my spouse? What happens if I'm not in the mood one of the days? And so much more!! If you join the 12 Days of Christmas sex challenge we would LOVE to hear how it went for you! So be sure to join our Facebook group: Kingdom Sexuality Community and share how it's impacted your marriage! Be sure to follow us on Instagram @kingdomsexuality, that's where you'll find even more of our content! Weekly sex positions, content specific to men, connect questions, couples challenges, and so much more!! Have a topic suggestion for us? Send us a DM on Instagram or shoot us an email at [email protected]! And be sure to leave us a review and you might just hear it in the next episode. Links from today's episode: Intimately Us App Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

We all know that this time of the year can be a busy time. Typically well meaningly so, but things can get real busy real quick. So how can we be proactive about this and protect our connection when the craziness of the holidays come around? What are some practical ways to make space for connection during busy times? Alana and Kyle chat through those questions and so much more! They mentioned this quote in the episode: "If you let it, the busyness of life will kill your marriage." So it’s up to you and your spouse to start now. Decide together that this Christmas will be a Christmas of connection instead of one filled with hurry and busyness. Be sure to follow us on Instagram @kingdomsexuality to see more of our content! We share weekly sex positions, couples challenges, content for men, and so much more! And don't forget to leave us a review on Apple Podcasts and you might just hear it at the start of our next episode! Links from today's episode: Prayers For Your Wife eBook Prayers For Your Husband eBook The Ruthless Elimination of Hurry Book Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

We all know the beautiful season of giving is nearing, so Kyle and Alana start off the episode by diving into some fun sexy stocking stuffers! But on top of that, they also go more into: what can you be giving your spouse that's worth even MORE than a physical gift? Things like the gift of being present, the gift of exploration, and the gift of selflessness. Putting off our selfish nature OUTSIDE of the bedroom and seeing how it transforms things INSIDE the bedroom. Be sure to follow us on Instagram @kingdomsexuality to see more of our content! We share weekly sex positions, couples challenges, content for men, and so much more! And don't forget to leave us a review on Apple Podcasts and you might just hear it at the start of our next episode! Links from today's episode: US Amazon Store Canadian Amazon Store Mentionables (use the code KINGDOM for 10% off!) COCONU (code KINGDOMSEXUALITY for 15% off!) Married Dance Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Today on the KS podcast Alana and Kyle have a couple of very special guests with us to help us close out our opposites series. Abe and Elaine Romero join in today to chat about what it looks like for them to have a commuter marriage! Living in different states how can they stay connected emotionally? Sexually?? What advice do they have for other long distance marriages? How can couples be cultivating connection when they're in different locations? They chat through this, and more! You won't want to miss it. Check out Abe and Elaine's IG pages: @commutermarriagesupport and @marriage.isajoke! Make sure you follow us on Instagram @kingdomsexuality to see all of our content! We share weekly sex positions, connect questions, couples challenges, and so much more! Links from todays episode: -Ultimate Intimacy -Intimately Us Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Whether it’s differences in where you want to live, what you want to do in the bedroom, or if you even WANT each other in the bedroom (meaning more drive related). I feel like at some point in time we’ve all had these sorts of opposites come up in our marriages. So how do you navigate this? When you and your spouse want different things? Alana and Kyle dive into this and so much more in this episode, so listen up! Follow us on Instagram @kingdomsexuality to see more of our content! You'll see weekly sex positions, content specific to men, couples challenges, connect questions, discounts, and so much more! Links from today's episode: Article by Sheila Wray Gregoire Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices