Just Break Up: Relationship Advice from Your Queer Besties

This episode tackles topics like having a stalker, being a jealous 3rd wheel, and pain that feels like another limb. Join us on Patreon and get an extra episode each week, a back catalog of 100+ episodes, and video! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod TWITTER: @justbreakuppod BLIND DATE: Sonya Renee Taylor Original music, recording, and editing by Spencer Wirth-Davis Advertise on Just Break Up! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This episode tackles topics like when the love we have just won’t disappear, when it feels like we just don’t have enough information, and throwing our self love out the window. Join us on Patreon and get an extra episode each week, a back catalog of 100+ episodes, and video! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod TWITTER: @justbreakuppod BLIND DATE: NPR Book Concierge Original music, recording, and editing by Spencer Wirth-Davis Advertise on Just Break Up! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This episode tackles topics like summoning specters into our relationship space, being a commitmentphobe, and being tired of doing self work. Join us on Patreon and get an extra episode each week, plus a back catalog of 100+ episodes. -SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod TWITTER: @justbreakuppod BLIND DATE: Making plans Original music, recording, and editing by Spencer Wirth-Davis Advertise on Just Break Up! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This episode tackles topics like dreaming about our exes, separation anxiety, and feelings, facts, and trying to fix things. Join us on Patreon and get an extra episode each week, plus a back catalog of 100+ episodes. SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod TWITTER: @justbreakuppod BLIND DATE: Homegoing by Yaa Gyasi Original music, recording, and editing by Spencer Wirth-Davis Advertise on Just Break Up! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This episode tackles topics like roach infestations, #foreveralone, and shame over your number. Join us on Patreon and get an extra episode each week, plus a back catalog of 100+ episodes. SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod TWITTER: @justbreakuppod BLIND DATE: I May Destroy You Original music, recording, and editing by Spencer Wirth-Davis Advertise on Just Break Up! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This episode tackles topics like setting boundaries, blocking people, and knowing our worth. Join us on Patreon and get an extra episode each week, plus a back catalog of 100+ episodes. SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod TWITTER: @justbreakuppod BLIND DATE: Barb and Star Go to Vista Del Mar Original music, recording, and editing by Spencer Wirth-Davis Advertise on Just Break Up! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This episode tackles topics like wanting to chew someone out after blocking them, being terrible and not knowing how to stop, and STI stigma. Join us on Patreon and get an extra episode each week, plus a back catalog of 100+ episodes. SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod TWITTER: @justbreakuppod BLIND DATE: Stumbling on Happiness Original music, recording, and editing by Spencer Wirth-Davis Advertise on Just Break Up! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This episode tackles topics like what is love, feeling neglected in sex, and dating with an expiration date. Join us on Patreon and get an extra episode each week, plus a back catalog of 100+ episodes. SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod TWITTER: @justbreakuppod BLIND DATE: Dance Church Original music, recording, and editing by Spencer Wirth-Davis Advertise on Just Break Up! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This episode tackles topics like not feeling sexy, trusting our own experiences, and asking the universe to cut us some slack. Join us on Patreon and get an extra episode each week, plus a back catalog of 100+ episodes. SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod TWITTER: @justbreakuppod BLIND DATE: Eight Dates: Essential Conversations for a Lifetime of Love Original music, recording, and editing by Spencer Wirth-Davis Advertise on Just Break Up! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This episode tackles topics like flipping the switch to not caring, forgiving ourselves in relationship, and communicating when we’re not okay. Join us on Patreon and get an extra episode each week, a back catalog of 100+ episodes, and free tickets to future live shows! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod TWITTER: @justbreakuppod BLIND DATE: Reply All's "The Test Kitchen" Original music, recording, and editing by Spencer Wirth-Davis Advertise on Just Break Up! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Hi friends! In addition to the free episodes on Spotify, we publish an extra episode every week over on our Patreon page. In honor of Valentine's Day, we've decided to make this week's episode free to everyone. If you like what you hear, you can join us for just $5/month. You'll get access to an extra weekly episode plus our back catalog of more than 100 episodes. Check out our new merch and the sale going on right now at our store! Get tickets for our February 13th live show here! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod TWITTER: @justbreakuppod Original music, recording, and editing by Spencer Wirth-Davis Advertise on Just Break Up! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This episode tackles topics like fear of professional retaliation, when your stepchild has a crush on you, and avoiding the big o. Check out our new merch and the sale going on right now at our store! Get tickets for our February 13th live show here! Join us on Patreon and get an extra episode each week plus a back catalog of 100+ episodes. SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod TWITTER: @justbreakuppod BLIND DATE: Spencer's new album! Original music, recording, and editing by Spencer Wirth-Davis Advertise on Just Break Up! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This episode tackles topics like covering for our friends, neurodiversity in dating, and trusting our instincts in sex. Join us on Patreon and get an extra episode each week plus a back catalog of 100+ episodes. SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod TWITTER: @justbreakuppod BLIND DATE: The Book of Dust: La Belle Sauvage by Philip Pullman Original music, recording, and editing by Spencer Wirth-Davis Advertise on Just Break Up! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This episode tackles topics like getting over a new first love, wanting closure in an ex best friendship, and cheating on your boyfriend for four years. Get tickets for our February 13th live show here! Join us on Patreon and get an extra episode each week plus a back catalog of 100+ episodes. SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod TWITTER: @justbreakuppod BLIND DATE: Surviving Death on Netflix Original music, recording, and editing by Spencer Wirth-Davis Advertise on Just Break Up! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This episode tackles topics like setting boundaries with our parents, wanting breakup reparation, and standing by someone through a crisis. Get tickets for our February 13th live show here! Join us on Patreon and get an extra episode each week plus a back catalog of 100+ episodes. SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod TWITTER: @justbreakuppod BLIND DATE: Unlocking Us with Brené Brown Original music, recording, and editing by Spencer Wirth-Davis Advertise on Just Break Up! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This episode tackles topics like not wanting to be a parent, when hurting people hurt us, and valuing honesty over niceness. Join us on Patreon and get an extra episode each week plus a back catalog of 100+ episodes. SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod TWITTER: @justbreakuppod BLIND DATE: Something Was Wrong Original music, recording, and editing by Spencer Wirth-Davis Advertise on Just Break Up! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This episode tackles topics like moving in with your friends-with-benefits ex, embracing bisexuality, and feeling thrown away and replaceable. Join us on Patreon and get an extra episode each week plus a back catalog of 50+ episodes. SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod TWITTER: @justbreakuppod BLIND DATE: Blooming Again by Lydia Liza and Big Cats Original music, recording, and editing by Spencer Wirth-Davis Advertise on Just Break Up! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This episode tackles topics like disclosing something that feels like a big deal but probably isn’t, when your boyfriend unfollows you on instagram, and why breaking up is hard to do. Our new store, featuring brand new shirts, hoodies, tote bags, and literal red flags, is now open. And we just added new mugs! Join us on Patreon and get an extra episode each week plus a back catalog of 50+ episodes. SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod TWITTER: @justbreakuppod BLIND DATE: The idea of rest (and also Queen's Gambit on Netflix) Original music, recording, and editing by Spencer Wirth-Davis Advertise on Just Break Up! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This episode tackles topics like blocker’s remorse, being exhausted by your friend’s dating drama, and being constantly let down by the people we love. Our new store, featuring brand new shirts, hoodies, tote bags, and literal red flags, is now open. Get free shipping on all orders placed now through Friday, 12/11! Join us on Patreon and get an extra episode each week plus a back catalog of 50+ episodes. SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod TWITTER: @justbreakuppod BLIND DATE: Happiest Season Original music, recording, and editing by Spencer Wirth-Davis Advertise on Just Break Up! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This episode tackles topics like when your abusive ex gets married, when they’re not as into the relationship as you are, and having to fully show up for the first time. Our new store, featuring brand new shirts, hoodies, tote bags, and literal red flags, is now open. Go buy your friends some gifts! Join us on Patreon and get an extra episode each week plus a back catalog of 50+ episodes. SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod TWITTER: @justbreakuppod BLIND DATE: The Last Honey Hunter Original music, recording, and editing by Spencer Wirth-Davis Advertise on Just Break Up! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This episode tackles topics like is it a grudge or a boundary, wanting so badly to get married, and beginning that long journey into yourself. Join us on Patreon and get an extra episode each week plus a back catalog of 50+ episodes. SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod TWITTER: @justbreakuppod BLIND DATE: No Scroll Saturdays Original music, recording, and editing by Spencer Wirth-Davis Advertise on Just Break Up! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This episode tackles topics like knowing who to trust, when we try so hard and still can’t get what we want, and building up our sibling relationships. Join us on Patreon and get an extra episode each week plus a back catalog of 50+ episodes. SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod TWITTER: @justbreakuppod BLIND DATE: The Social Dilemma Original music, recording, and editing by Spencer Wirth-Davis Advertise on Just Break Up! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This episode tackles topics like when they can't commit to you but can commit to someone else a month later, when it's not really about the dog, and learning to set yourself free. Join us on Patreon and get an extra episode each week plus a back catalog of 50+ episodes. SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod TWITTER: @justbreakuppod BLIND DATE: Six Seasons: A New Way With Vegetables Original music, recording, and editing by Spencer Wirth-Davis Advertise on Just Break Up! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This episode tackles topics like when your partner is still in love with their ex, when love just isn't enough, and accountability and forgiveness. Join us on Patreon and get an extra episode each week plus a back catalog of 50+ episodes. SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod TWITTER: @justbreakuppod BLIND DATE: The Keep Going Song by The Bengsons Original music, recording, and editing by Spencer Wirth-Davis Advertise on Just Break Up! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This episode tackles topics like when our partners say they don’t deserve us, blaming ourselves for things we can’t control, and predators. Join us on Patreon and get an extra episode each week plus a back catalog of 50+ episodes. SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod TWITTER: @justbreakuppod BLIND DATE: The Lodge Original music, recording, and editing by Spencer Wirth-Davis Advertise on Just Break Up! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This episode tackles topics like being a bad friend, being together for better or for worse, and dating with boundaries and expectations. Join us on Patreon and get an extra episode each week plus a back catalog of 50+ episodes. SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod TWITTER: @justbreakuppod BLIND DATE: The Pattern Original music, recording, and editing by Spencer Wirth-Davis Advertise on Just Break Up! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This episode tackles topics like relishing a low libido, still missing those who hurt us, and emotional black holes masquerading as people. Join us on Patreon and get an extra episode each week plus a back catalog of 50+ episodes. SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod TWITTER: @justbreakuppod BLIND DATE: Register to vote at vote.org Original music, recording, and editing by Spencer Wirth-Davis Advertise on Just Break Up! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This episode tackles topics like crushing on your therapist, your boyfriend’s guns, and sleeping with your pastor. Join us on Patreon and get an extra episode each week plus a back catalog of 50+ episodes. SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod TWITTER: @justbreakuppod BLIND DATE: The Conscious Kid Original music, recording, and editing by Spencer Wirth-Davis Advertise on Just Break Up! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This episode tackles topics like acting out, dating your professor, and when they're ready to date, but not ready to date you. Join us on Patreon and get an extra episode each week plus a back catalog of 50+ episodes. SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod TWITTER: @justbreakuppod BLIND DATE: Alone on Netflix Original music, recording, and editing by Spencer Wirth-Davis Advertise on Just Break Up! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This episode tackles topics like when senses of humor aren't aligned, how to talk about past abuse with your new boo, and when being cheated on isn't quite what it seems. Join us on Patreon and get an extra episode each week plus a back catalog of 50+ episodes. SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod TWITTER: @justbreakuppod BLIND DATE: Camp Gladiator Original music, recording, and editing by Spencer Wirth-Davis Advertise on Just Break Up! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This episode tackles topics like trusting your gut, living with a hoarder, and ending the cycle of abuse. Join us on Patreon and get an extra episode each week plus a back catalog of 50+ episodes. SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod TWITTER: @justbreakuppod BLIND DATE: Drunk Elephant T.L.C. Sukari Babyfacial Original music, recording, and editing by Spencer Wirth-Davis Advertise on Just Break Up! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This episode tackles topics like watching our friends try to cope, being triggered by our partner’s desires, and falling out of love. Join us on Patreon and get an extra episode each week plus a back catalog of 50+ episodes. SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod TWITTER: @justbreakuppod BLIND DATE: The Umbrella Academy on Netflix Original music, recording, and editing by Spencer Wirth-Davis Advertise on Just Break Up! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This episode tackles topics like staying friends with your ex’s family, how to stay broken up, and trying to keep it casual. Join us on Patreon and get an extra episode each week plus a back catalog of 50+ episodes. SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod TWITTER: @justbreakuppod BLIND DATE: The Color of Law Original music, recording, and editing by Spencer Wirth-Davis Advertise on Just Break Up! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This episode tackles topics like asking "what are we?", feeling replaced, and shame over your number. Join us on Patreon and get an extra episode each week plus a back catalog of 50+ episodes. SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod TWITTER: @justbreakuppod BLIND DATE: Libby Original music, recording, and editing by Spencer Wirth-Davis Advertise on Just Break Up! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This episode tackles topics like schadenfreude, our partners's finances during Corona, and not being able to say “no”. Join us on Patreon and get an extra episode each week plus a back catalog of 50+ episodes. SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod TWITTER: @justbreakuppod BLIND DATE: You're Wrong About Original music, recording, and editing by Spencer Wirth-Davis Advertise on Just Break Up! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This episode tackles topics like when your friends have low standards, learning to love by loving, and sex. Join us on Patreon and get an extra episode each week plus a back catalog of 50+ episodes. SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod TWITTER: @justbreakuppod BLIND DATE: Salt, Fat, Acid, Heat by Samin Nosrat Original music, recording, and editing by Spencer Wirth-Davis Advertise on Just Break Up! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Just Break Up family - Sam's mother-in-law passed away earlier this week. We know the entire JBU community is behind us when we say we are so deeply sorry for this loss, and extend our love and sympathy to Sam's husband Peter. In lieu of a primary episode this week, we're going to share a Patreon episode from this past April. We'll be back next week, but until then, hold your loved ones close, tell them you love them, and move through this week with gratitude and kindness. We love you! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This episode tackles topics like shared interests, dating people with baggage, and reopening doors. Join us on Patreon and get an extra episode each week plus a back catalog of 50+ episodes. SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod TWITTER: @justbreakuppod BLIND DATE: Disclosure on Netflix Original music, recording, and editing by Spencer Wirth-Davis Advertise on Just Break Up! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Just Break Up turned two, and we did a live episode to celebrate! Tonya Ingram shared some poems, and Sam and Sierra tackled topics like dating a late person, the pains of social distancing, and making a real break in a toxic relationship. SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod TWITTER: @justbreakuppod BLIND DATE: The Chicks - Gaslighter Original music, recording, and editing by Spencer Wirth-Davis Advertise on Just Break Up! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This episode tackles topics like reconnecting with long lost friends, being collateral damage, and Covid connection catastrophes. Join us on Patreon and get an extra episode each week, a back catalog of 100+ episodes, and video! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod TWITTER: @justbreakuppod BLIND DATE: The Future Earth: A Radical Vision for What's Possible in the Age of Warming Original music, recording, and editing by Spencer Wirth-Davis Advertise on Just Break Up! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This episode tackles topics like being in love with a friend, when the next girl reaps the benefits of your hard work, and heartbreak. Join us on Patreon and get an extra episode each week, a back catalog of 100+ episodes, and video! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod TWITTER: @justbreakuppod Original music, recording, and editing by Spencer Wirth-Davis Advertise on Just Break Up! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This episode tackles topics like when our partners say we’re the toxic one, relearning ourselves after coming out, and wanting a dignified breakup. Join us on Patreon and get an extra episode each week, a back catalog of 100+ episodes, and video! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod TWITTER: @justbreakuppod Original music, recording, and editing by Spencer Wirth-Davis Advertise on Just Break Up! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This episode tackles topics like dating racists, not getting off, and being a perfectionist dating a perfectionist. Join us on Patreon and get an extra episode each week, a back catalog of 50+ episodes, and free tickets to our upcoming livestream. SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod TWITTER: @justbreakuppod BLIND DATE: March by John Lewis, Andrew Aydin, and Nate Powell Original music, recording, and editing by Spencer Wirth-Davis Advertise on Just Break Up! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This episode tackles topics like disclosing our debt, incompatible sex drives, and feeling like a misfit. Join us on Patreon and get an extra episode each week, a back catalog of 50+ episodes, and free tickets to our upcoming livestream. SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod TWITTER: @justbreakuppod BLIND DATE: The Death and Life of Marsha P. Johnson Original music, recording, and editing by Spencer Wirth-Davis Advertise on Just Break Up! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This episode tackles the topic of white supremacy. Join us on Patreon and get an extra episode each week, a back catalog of 50+ episodes, and free tickets to our upcoming livestream. SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod TWITTER: @justbreakuppod BLIND DATE: Brené Brown with Ibram X. Kendi on How to Be an Antiracist Original music, recording, and editing by Spencer Wirth-Davis Advertise on Just Break Up! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In solidarity with the protests happening in our beloved city of Minneapolis and across the world, we will not be releasing an episode this week. We demand justice for George Floyd, Breonna Taylor, Tony McDade, and countless others murdered by police. They should be here today and they aren't because of white supremacy and state-sanctioned violence. Not uploading an episode is a moment of silence at best. Typing Black lives matter is not enough. The real work comes when we begin to actively dismantle white supremacy within our communities, our governments, and ourselves. To our listeners who are Black, Indigenous and People of Color: We hear you. We see your grief, anger, and exhaustion. We love you and we will work to ensure that love is manifested in actual actions. To our white listeners: We must not be complicit with racism and murder. We cannot be silent. We must be active participants in the dismantling of white supremacy and systemic racism. If you do not understand why this movement is happening or where the outrage is coming from, it's time to self-educate. It's okay if you are new to this but do not let your discomfort keep you from the truth. We all have the opportunity to grow and do things differently. Lean in. Speak out. Donate. Show up. We've compiled some of our favorite resources that have helped us in our ongoing unlearning of white supremacy. That being said, to quote Rachel Cargle: "Anti-racism work is not self-improvement work for white people. It doesn't end when white people 'feel better.' It ends when Black people are liberated." HOW TO HELP RIGHT NOW FREE UNLEARNING RESOURCES AVAILABLE ONLINE: Enough is Enough The 1619 Project Building a Police Free Future Violence in Minneapolis is Rooted in the History of Racist Policing in America 13th Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This episode tackles topics like long term hookups, the joys of falling in love quickly, and when what you want feels unimportant. Join us on Patreon and get an extra episode each week, a back catalog of 50+ episodes, and free tickets to our upcoming livestream. SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod TWITTER: @justbreakuppod BLIND DATE: Ask a Queer Chick Original music, recording, and editing by Spencer Wirth-Davis Advertise on Just Break Up! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This episode tackles topics like reconnecting during Covid, being alone and being lonely, and the awful reality of timing and circumstance. Join us on Patreon and get an extra episode each week, a back catalog of 100+ episodes, and video! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod TWITTER: @justbreakuppod BLIND DATE: Phoebe Reads a Mystery Original music, recording, and editing by Spencer Wirth-Davis Advertise on Just Break Up! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This episode tackles topics like getting it up, is it friendship or is it romance, and establishing boundaries. Join us on Patreon and get an extra episode each week, a back catalog of 100+ episodes, and video! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod TWITTER: @justbreakuppod BLIND DATE: The Chicks - Gaslighter and Julianna Calm Down Original music, recording, and editing by Spencer Wirth-Davis Advertise on Just Break Up! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This episode tackles topics like when they just can't give 100% to you, when your friends can't love all of you, and learning to love by loving. Join us on Patreon and get an extra episode each week, a back catalog of 50+ episodes, and free tickets to our upcoming livestream. SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod TWITTER: @justbreakuppod BLIND DATE: How To Be An Antiracist by Ibram X. Kendi Original music, recording, and editing by Spencer Wirth-Davis Advertise on Just Break Up! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices