PLAY PODCASTS
The Science of Why Men Cheat (And How to Stop)
Episode 115

The Science of Why Men Cheat (And How to Stop)

I Wish You Knew

January 16, 20261h 38m

Audio is streamed directly from the publisher (mcdn.podbean.com) as published in their RSS feed. Play Podcasts does not host this file. Rights-holders can request removal through the copyright & takedown page.

Show Notes

New Year's Sale. Up to 40% Off All Programs
https://bundle.adamlanesmith.com/nynm?utm_source=youtube&utm_medium=nyny

RELATIONSHIP MASTERY INTENSIVE 2026 April 23 to 26 | San Diego, California https://adamlanesmith.com/retreat/?utm_source=youtube&utm_medium=retreat

πŸ”— Attachment Assessment: Dr. Orion Taraban returns to break down what most relationship advice gets completely wrong.

We dive into the neurochemistry behind attraction and commitment: dopamine, oxytocin, vasopressin, cortisol; and why chasing "good feelings" is destroying modern relationships.

Adam reveals the Secure Loyalty Equation he and Andrey developed, explaining why purpose and shared challenges create bonds that last decades.

We cover:Β 
β†’ Why "love bombing" actually works (and what that reveals)Β 
β†’ The 58 to 63 day window for rewiring attachment patternsΒ 
β†’ What the prairie vole experiments teach us about human monogamyΒ 
β†’ Building a 1000 year family legacy vs. optimizing for immediate happinessΒ 
β†’ The spiritual case for non;attachment in relationships

πŸ”— Dr. Taraban's new book Starry Night: https://amzn.to/4sGcqOY

Find him: youtube.com/@OrionTaraban

About Adam Lane Smith: Attachment specialist. 17 years married. Author and coach helping one billion people become securely attached.
πŸ”— Website: adamlanesmith.com
πŸ”— Attachment Assessment: https://adamlanesmith.com/attachment-assessment/
πŸ”— Attachment Repair Program: https://adamlanesmith.com/attachment-repair/
πŸ”— Retreat: https://adamlanesmith.com/retreat/?utm_source=youtube&utm_medium=retreat
πŸ”— New Year's Sale: Uutm_source=youtube&utm_medium=nynybundle.adamlanesmith.com/nynm?utm_source=youtube&utm_medium=nyny