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Ep 82Jessica Baum & Adam Lane Smith: Why Emotional Safety Is the Key to Real Love

In this powerful episode, attachment expert Jessica Baum joins Adam Lane Smith to unpack one of the most essential yet misunderstood pillars of a healthy relationship: emotional safety. Together, they explore why safety isn’t just a “nice to have” in love, but a biological and psychological necessity that shapes the way we connect, heal, and grow. Whether you’ve struggled with abandonment wounds, anxious or avoidant patterns, or felt unseen in your relationships, this conversation offers deep clarity and actionable insights. Topics Covered: 👉 Why many women unconsciously expect men to be a source of total safety and why that’s unsustainable 👉 How emotional safety is built through connection, rupture, and repair 👉 The impact of childhood attachment wounds and parental regulation on adult relationships 👉 How men's fear of vulnerability leads them to suppress the very tools that create intimacy 👉 Understanding neurosception and how the nervous system detects safety or threat 👉 Why safety isn’t “doing” more but “being” more present with pain and fear 👉 The unconscious tendency toward self-abandonment in order to maintain connection 👉 Why women often mistake a need for emotional parenting with romantic expectations 👉 The difference between selfless (fear driven) and selfful (grounded) caregiving Emotional safety isn’t a destination. It’s a dynamic, living process between two people willing to show up, attune, and grow. If you're ready to understand your patterns and start healing from the inside out, this conversation is a must. Check out Jessica’s book for deeper insights and take Adam’s free attachment style quiz at adamlanesmith.com to begin building healthier connections today. Stay tuned for more expert insights and relationship advice in future episodes! If you enjoyed this episode, you will probably love our episode titled ‘Attachment Specialist Fixes an Avoidant Woman’ https://youtu.be/zSaZrRedRUc Need more help with your attachment? Work with Adam: www.adamlanesmith.com ------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Follow the “I Wish You Knew” Podcast: -------------------------------------------------- Website: https://iwishyouknew.show/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/theiwishyouknewpodcast/ Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@iwishyouknewshow Snapchat: https://www.snapchat.com/iwishyouknewpod Twitter /X: https://twitter.com/iwishyouknewpod Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/4Ncc0MBgm04xTIQ5ByiCGI Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/i-wish-you-knew/id1713427809 -------------------------------------------------- Follow Adam Lane Smith: -------------------------------------------------- Website: https://adamlanesmith.com/ Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCBO093GsMmnA9tb8lZPhbgg Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/attachmentadam/ Twitter /X: https://x.com/AdamLaneSmith Threads: https://www.threads.net/@attachmentadam Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@attachmentbro ---------- ---------------------------------------- Jessica Baum: Website: https://jessicabaumlmhc.com/ IG: https://www.instagram.com/jessicabaumlmhc/?hl=en The next episode drops Thursday :) See you there. Visit: https://iwishyouknew.show/ to lean more about the podcast To Learn More About @AttachmentAdam https://adamlanesmith.com/ https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCBO093GsMmnA9tb8lZPhbgg https://www.instagram.com/attachmentadam/?hl=en

May 29, 20251h 19m

Ep 81Negotiation is The Secret To Healthy Relationships | Adam Lane Smith | The Attachment Specialist

In this episode, Andrey and Adam dive deep into the foundations of trust-based communication in both professional and personal relationships. They unpack the dangers of transactional thinking, explore how poor communication sabotages connection, and offer practical insight into building relationships rooted in mutual respect rather than leverage. Topics Covered: 👉 The danger of giving power based solely on talent 👉 Why standardization and Six Sigma don't inspire Gen Z workers 👉 The shift from performance-based to trust-based leadership 👉 How fear and unmet expectations destroy relationships 👉 The role of masculine relationships and loyalty in high-performing teams 👉 Love, loyalty, and servitude in business culture 👉 How attachment wounds impact negotiation and influence 👉 The legal and ethical principles of “good faith” negotiation 👉 Why old systems of influence are collapsing in the age of AI 👉 Why leverage-based leadership is unsustainable If this conversation shifted the way you think about negotiation, leadership, or connection—there’s more where that came from. For deeper insight into building trust-based relationships in business and life, visit adamlainsmith.com. Stay tuned for more expert insights and relationship advice in future episodes! If you enjoyed this episode, you will probably love our episode titled ‘Attachment Specialist Fixes an Avoidant Woman’ https://youtu.be/zSaZrRedRUc Need more help with your attachment? Work with Adam: www.adamlanesmith.com ------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Follow the “I Wish You Knew” Podcast: -------------------------------------------------- Website: https://iwishyouknew.show/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/theiwishyouknewpodcast/ Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@iwishyouknewshow Snapchat: https://www.snapchat.com/iwishyouknewpod Twitter /X: https://twitter.com/iwishyouknewpod Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/4Ncc0MBgm04xTIQ5ByiCGI Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/i-wish-you-knew/id1713427809 -------------------------------------------------- Follow Adam Lane Smith: -------------------------------------------------- Website: https://adamlanesmith.com/ Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCBO093GsMmnA9tb8lZPhbgg Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/attachmentadam/ Twitter /X: https://x.com/AdamLaneSmith Threads: https://www.threads.net/@attachmentadam Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@attachmentbro -------------------------------------------------- The next episode drops Thursday :) See you there. Visit: https://iwishyouknew.show/ to lean more about the podcast To Learn More About @AttachmentAdam https://adamlanesmith.com/ https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCBO093GsMmnA9tb8lZPhbgg https://www.instagram.com/attachmentadam/?hl=en

May 23, 20251h 27m

Ep 80Kelly Chase & Adam Lane Smith: Why I Said No at the Altar

In this episode, Kelly Chase from Love Is Blind (Season 1) opens up about her journey from heartbreak and self-abandonment to healing, boundaries, and self-love. She shares what led her to go on the show, what she learned from the experience, and what she's looking for now in love, life, and relationships. ✨ Topics Covered: 👉 Why Kelly went on Love Is Blind and what she hoped to find 👉 The hidden reasons people stay in unhealthy relationships 👉 Her “aha” moment after the show ended 👉 What healthy ambition and partnership mean to her 👉 Dating challenges in today’s world—ghosting, emotional unavailability, and more 👉 Why looks aren’t enough and the power of personality 👉 The emotional cost of people-pleasing and external validation 👉 Navigating modern dating with healed energy and clearer boundaries 👉 What women truly want versus what society pushes 👉 Kelly's real talk on being loved with baggage—not despite it Kelly’s story is a powerful reminder that healing takes courage, and love begins with the relationship you have with yourself. If you’ve ever felt stuck in dating cycles, this episode will speak to your heart. Stay tuned for more expert insights and relationship advice in future episodes! If you enjoyed this episode, you will probably love our episode titled ‘Attachment Specialist Fixes an Avoidant Woman’ https://youtu.be/zSaZrRedRUc Need more help with your attachment? Work with Adam: www.adamlanesmith.com ------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Follow the “I Wish You Knew” Podcast: -------------------------------------------------- Website: https://iwishyouknew.show/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/theiwishyouknewpodcast/ Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@iwishyouknewshow Snapchat: https://www.snapchat.com/iwishyouknewpod Twitter /X: https://twitter.com/iwishyouknewpod Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/4Ncc0MBgm04xTIQ5ByiCGI Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/i-wish-you-knew/id1713427809 -------------------------------------------------- Follow Adam Lane Smith: -------------------------------------------------- Website: https://adamlanesmith.com/ Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCBO093GsMmnA9tb8lZPhbgg Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/attachmentadam/ Twitter /X: https://x.com/AdamLaneSmith Threads: https://www.threads.net/@attachmentadam Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@attachmentbro -------------------------------------------------- Kelly Chase: -------------------------------------------------- IG: https://www.instagram.com/chaselifewithkelly/?hl=en Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCNqhN0CXWVATKfUjwrm65-g The next episode drops Thursday :) See you there. Visit: https://iwishyouknew.show/ to lean more about the podcast To Learn More About @AttachmentAdam https://adamlanesmith.com/ https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCBO093GsMmnA9tb8lZPhbgg https://www.instagram.com/attachmentadam/?hl=en

May 16, 20251h 23m

Ep 79Aurora Culpo & Adam Lane Smith: Breaking the Cycle of Toxic Love

In this episode, Aurora Culpo returns with a candid and emotionally honest update about her personal life. She opens up about the complexity of dating after heartbreak, the internal battles of self-worth, and how she’s navigating a new relationship under the scrutiny of public attention. From emotional triggers and attachment patterns to navigating jealousy and miscommunication, Aurora invites listeners into the real, often messy, human experience of love and healing. Whether you're single, dating, or rebuilding after pain, her vulnerability offers comfort, wisdom, and perspective. ✨ Key Topics Covered: 👉 Dealing with recurring disappointment in dating 👉 The power of being self-correcting in relationships 👉 Balancing vulnerability with privacy in public platforms 👉 How outside opinions can influence a new relationship 👉 Understanding oxytocin, dopamine, and emotional bonding 👉 The effect of family feedback on self-esteem 👉 Navigating jealousy and insecurity in modern dating 👉 How to approach tough conversations with your partner 👉 Miscommunication risks when texting emotional topics 👉 Attachment styles and how they shape connection This is a grounded, heartfelt episode for anyone who’s ever questioned their worth in love, wrestled with their past, or tried to trust again. Stay tuned for more expert insights and relationship advice in future episodes! If you enjoyed this episode, you will probably love our episode titled ‘Attachment Specialist Fixes an Avoidant Woman’ https://youtu.be/zSaZrRedRUc Need more help with your attachment? Work with Adam: www.adamlanesmith.com ------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Follow the “I Wish You Knew” Podcast: -------------------------------------------------- Website: https://iwishyouknew.show/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/theiwishyouknewpodcast/ Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@iwishyouknewshow Snapchat: https://www.snapchat.com/iwishyouknewpod Twitter /X: https://twitter.com/iwishyouknewpod Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/4Ncc0MBgm04xTIQ5ByiCGI Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/i-wish-you-knew/id1713427809 -------------------------------------------------- Follow Adam Lane Smith: -------------------------------------------------- Website: https://adamlanesmith.com/ Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCBO093GsMmnA9tb8lZPhbgg Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/attachmentadam/ Twitter /X: https://x.com/AdamLaneSmith Threads: https://www.threads.net/@attachmentadam Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@attachmentbro ------------------------------------------------- Follow Aurora Cuplo: -------------------------------------------------- Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCJao_5jeoi6k1x4M03-v67g Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/auroraculpo/?hl=en Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@aurora_culpo?lang=en ------------------------------------------------- To Learn More About @AttachmentAdam https://adamlanesmith.com/ https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCBO093GsMmnA9tb8lZPhbgg https://www.instagram.com/attachmentadam/?hl=en

May 8, 20251h 33m

Ep 78Childhood Trauma: How Abandonment Shaped Me | Adam Lane Smith| Anxious Attachment Style

In this deep and vulnerable conversation, Kyle Cease opens up about his personal journey—from using comedy as a defense mechanism to confronting childhood trauma and stepping into authentic healing. He explores how false identities are formed through pain and how real transformation happens when we face the hidden parts of ourselves. With insights on attachment, inner work, spirituality, and the power of humor, this episode is both heart-opening and thought-provoking. Topics Covered: 👉 Using comedy as a survival tool in childhood 👉 How childhood trauma shapes false identities 👉 Secure vs. anxious attachment styles 👉 The role of inner work in personal growth 👉 Letting go of external validation and people-pleasing 👉 The connection between sadness, humor, and healing 👉 Struggles with parental relationships and unmet expectations 👉 Social media, dopamine addiction, and emotional avoidance 👉 The tension between self-help culture and authenticity 👉 Why receiving can be difficult—and how to change that 👉 Allowing God or the present moment to guide transformation Kyle’s story is a powerful reminder that healing doesn’t come from chasing success—it comes from turning inward, being honest with ourselves, and allowing the present moment to lead the way. Whether you're just beginning your healing journey or deep in the work, this episode offers insight, permission, and hope. Stay tuned for more expert insights and relationship advice in future episodes! If you enjoyed this episode, you will probably love our episode titled ‘Attachment Specialist Fixes an Avoidant Woman’ https://youtu.be/zSaZrRedRUc Need more help with your attachment? Work with Adam: www.adamlanesmith.com ------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Follow the “I Wish You Knew” Podcast: -------------------------------------------------- Website: https://iwishyouknew.show/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/theiwishyouknewpodcast/ Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@iwishyouknewshow Snapchat: https://www.snapchat.com/iwishyouknewpod Twitter /X: https://twitter.com/iwishyouknewpod Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/4Ncc0MBgm04xTIQ5ByiCGI Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/i-wish-you-knew/id1713427809 -------------------------------------------------- Follow Adam Lane Smith: -------------------------------------------------- Website: https://adamlanesmith.com/ Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCBO093GsMmnA9tb8lZPhbgg Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/attachmentadam/ Twitter /X: https://x.com/AdamLaneSmith Threads: https://www.threads.net/@attachmentadam Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@attachmentbro -------------------------------------------------- Kyle Cease: -------------------------------------------------- IG: https://www.instagram.com/evolvingoutloud Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/user/kylecease The next episode drops Thursday :) See you there. Visit: https://iwishyouknew.show/ to lean more about the podcast To Learn More About @AttachmentAdam https://adamlanesmith.com/ https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCBO093GsMmnA9tb8lZPhbgg https://www.instagram.com/attachmentadam/?hl=en

May 2, 20251h 46m

Ep 77Is It Ever the Same After an Affair? Dr. Alexandra Solomon & Adam Lane Smith

In this insightful episode, Dr. Alexandra Solomon, a renowned psychologist and expert on relationships and intimacy, joins attachment specialist Adam Lane Smith to answer one of the hardest questions couples face: Can a relationship ever truly recover after an affair? Whether you’ve experienced betrayal or fear it might happen, this episode offers honest answers and real hope. Topics Covered 👉 The psychological impact of infidelity, including PTSD symptoms in betrayed partners 👉 Whether love and trust can truly be rebuilt after someone cheats 👉 Who cheats more—men or women? Exploring modern trends and cultural shifts 👉 What motivates infidelity, and how it’s often tied to identity and emotional disconnect 👉 How insecure attachment styles like anxious-avoidant dynamics set the stage for betrayal 👉 Why communication breakdowns lead to emotional distance and vulnerability to affairs 👉 The path to sexual healing after infidelity and why pleasure can be part of the repair 👉 Unlearning toxic sex scripts shaped by porn and cultural myths 👉 What a “bulletproof relationship” looks like, and how couples can protect against future betrayals 👉 The emotional and behavioral transformation required of the partner who cheated Affairs can devastate—but they can also awaken. Dr. Solomon and Adam Lane Smith share how, with courage and commitment, couples can turn betrayal into breakthrough. For those navigating pain, rebuilding trust, or learning to love securely, this episode offers not just insight—but a roadmap. Stay tuned for more expert insights and relationship advice in future episodes! If you enjoyed this episode, you will probably love our episode titled ‘Attachment Specialist Fixes an Avoidant Woman’ https://youtu.be/zSaZrRedRUc Need more help with your attachment? Work with Adam: www.adamlanesmith.com ------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Follow the “I Wish You Knew” Podcast: -------------------------------------------------- Website: https://iwishyouknew.show/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/theiwishyouknewpodcast/ Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@iwishyouknewshow Snapchat: https://www.snapchat.com/iwishyouknewpod Twitter /X: https://twitter.com/iwishyouknewpod Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/4Ncc0MBgm04xTIQ5ByiCGI Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/i-wish-you-knew/id1713427809 -------------------------------------------------- Follow Adam Lane Smith: -------------------------------------------------- Website: https://adamlanesmith.com/ Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCBO093GsMmnA9tb8lZPhbgg Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/attachmentadam/ Twitter /X: https://x.com/AdamLaneSmith Threads: https://www.threads.net/@attachmentadam Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@attachmentbro ------------------------------------------------- Dr. Alexandra Solomon ------------------------------------------------- Website: https://dralexandrasolomon.com/ IG: https://www.instagram.com/dr.alexandra.solomon/ Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/user/alexandrahs1 ------------------------------------------------- The next episode drops Thursday :) See you there. Visit: https://iwishyouknew.show/ to lean more about the podcast To Learn More About @AttachmentAdam https://adamlanesmith.com/ https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCBO093GsMmnA9tb8lZPhbgg https://www.instagram.com/attachmentadam/?hl=en

Apr 25, 202552 min

Ep 76When Attachment Becomes a Disorder: Can Personality Disorders Be Fixed? | Adam Lane Smith

In this episode, Andrey and Adam unpack the deep connection between attachment styles and personality disorders. Together, they explore how childhood trauma, neurological stress, and emotional dysregulation contribute to avoidant, anxious, and disorganized attachment—and how these patterns can evolve into more severe conditions like borderline personality disorder, bipolar disorder, and even schizophrenia. Adam challenges the medical model, offering hopeful insights on healing, brain health, and the possibility of recovery without relying solely on medication. ✨ Topics Covered ✨ 👉 The difference between attachment styles and personality disorders 👉 How avoidant behaviors can be self-protective—or damaging 👉 The impact of early childhood trauma on long-term attachment 👉 Why the medical model often mislabels people as “broken” 👉 How avoidant attachment differs from avoidant personality disorder 👉 The trauma roots of borderline personality disorder (BPD) 👉 The connection between high-performance households and emotional suppression 👉 What’s really happening in the brain during bipolar disorder 👉 The dangers of overmedication and brain inflammation 👉 Why even schizophrenia can be helped through functional systems 👉 Finland’s powerful approach to treating schizophrenia without meds 👉 How social bonding and oxytocin lead to brain healing 👉 Why chronic stress blocks your potential—and how attachment healing unlocks it 👉 A powerful metaphor about “loving a crocodile” and staying in unsafe emotional patterns Healing from childhood trauma—especially when it starts as early as age 6—takes courage, patience, and truth. If this conversation helped you feel seen or understood, consider sharing it with someone who’s walking a similar path. You’re not alone—and there’s real hope for healing and freedom. Stay tuned for more expert insights and relationship advice in future episodes! If you enjoyed this episode, you will probably love our episode titled ‘Attachment Specialist Fixes an Avoidant Woman’ https://youtu.be/zSaZrRedRUc Need more help with your attachment? Work with Adam: www.adamlanesmith.com ------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Follow the “I Wish You Knew” Podcast: -------------------------------------------------- Website: https://iwishyouknew.show/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/theiwishyouknewpodcast/ Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@iwishyouknewshow Snapchat: https://www.snapchat.com/iwishyouknewpod Twitter /X: https://twitter.com/iwishyouknewpod Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/4Ncc0MBgm04xTIQ5ByiCGI Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/i-wish-you-knew/id1713427809 -------------------------------------------------- Follow Adam Lane Smith: -------------------------------------------------- Website: https://adamlanesmith.com/ Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCBO093GsMmnA9tb8lZPhbgg Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/attachmentadam/ Twitter /X: https://x.com/AdamLaneSmith Threads: https://www.threads.net/@attachmentadam Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@attachmentbro ------------------------------------------------- The next episode drops Thursday :) See you there. Visit: https://iwishyouknew.show/ to lean more about the podcast To Learn More About @AttachmentAdam https://adamlanesmith.com/ https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCBO093GsMmnA9tb8lZPhbgg https://www.instagram.com/attachmentadam/?hl=en

Apr 18, 20251h 41m

Ep 75Evan Marc Katz & Adam Lane Smith Heated Debate | Can We Truly Change Our Partner?

In this episode, Evan Marc Katz joins Adam Lane Smith for a fiery and thought-provoking debate on one of the most challenging questions in relationships: Can we truly change our partner—or is it all about accepting them as they are? From practical dating strategies to deeper emotional dynamics, this conversation dives into the complexities of modern love and long-term compatibility. ✨ Key Topics Covered: 👉 Can good relationships be effortless—or do they always require "hard work"? 👉 Why trying to filter a future husband through dating profiles might be sabotaging your chances 👉 The hidden danger of rushing relationships due to urgency or age 👉 Do men doing more chores really lead to higher divorce rates? 👉 Why chemistry fades—and what truly keeps couples together long-term 👉 Understanding attachment styles: anxious vs. avoidant in real-life dynamics 👉 How discomfort can be a sign of growth in a healthy relationship 👉 Can emotionally avoidant men become devoted, secure partners? 👉 The power of conflict resolution and reading emotional cues 👉 What makes two people truly compatible—beyond cliches Whether you're single and searching or in the middle of navigating a tough dynamic, this conversation offers powerful insights into love, growth, and emotional responsibility. To dive deeper into relationship skills, check out Adam's retreat offerings at https://adamlanesmith.com/retreat/?utm_source=youtube.com&utm_medium=social&utm_campaign=avoidant&utm_content=descriptionlink Stay tuned for more expert insights and relationship advice in future episodes! If you enjoyed this episode, you will probably love our episode titled ‘Attachment Specialist Fixes an Avoidant Woman’ https://youtu.be/zSaZrRedRUc Need more help with your attachment? Work with Adam: www.adamlanesmith.com ------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Follow the “I Wish You Knew” Podcast: -------------------------------------------------- Website: https://iwishyouknew.show/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/theiwishyouknewpodcast/ Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@iwishyouknewshow Snapchat: https://www.snapchat.com/iwishyouknewpod Twitter /X: https://twitter.com/iwishyouknewpod Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/4Ncc0MBgm04xTIQ5ByiCGI Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/i-wish-you-knew/id1713427809 -------------------------------------------------- Follow Adam Lane Smith: -------------------------------------------------- Website: https://adamlanesmith.com/ Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCBO093GsMmnA9tb8lZPhbgg Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/attachmentadam/ Twitter /X: https://x.com/AdamLaneSmith Threads: https://www.threads.net/@attachmentadam Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@attachmentbro -------------------------------------------------- Evan Marc Katz: -------------------------------------------------- IG: https://www.instagram.com/realevanmarckatz/?hl=en Website: https://www.evanmarckatz.com/ The next episode drops Thursday :) See you there. Visit: https://iwishyouknew.show/ to lean more about the podcast To Learn More About @AttachmentAdam https://adamlanesmith.com/ https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCBO093GsMmnA9tb8lZPhbgg https://www.instagram.com/attachmentadam/?hl=en

Apr 10, 20251h 21m

Ep 74He Broke Her Heart But Won Her Back | Brandon Doerkse

Brandon Doerkse opens up about how he nearly lost his marriage due to emotional numbness, distraction, and addiction. For years, he struggled with avoidance, failing to recognize how his actions were eroding the trust and intimacy in his relationship. It wasn’t until he hit rock bottom that he realized the painful truth—his marriage was falling apart, and he was the one responsible. Topics Covered: 👉 The impact of emotional disconnection in marriage 👉 How avoidance and addiction sabotage relationships 👉 Why men must take the first step in healing a broken relationship 👉 Understanding attachment styles and their effect on marriage 👉 The painful realization that led Brandon to transformation 👉 How honesty and accountability helped rebuild trust 👉 The importance of integration with God, family, and self 👉 What true masculine leadership in marriage looks like Brandon’s journey proves that no matter how broken a relationship may seem, healing is possible when a man is willing to confront his shortcomings and take responsibility. His story is a powerful testament to the importance of emotional awareness, faith, and intentional action in restoring love and trust. If this conversation spoke to you, share your thoughts in the comments. Have you faced similar struggles in your relationship? What steps have helped you move forward? Let’s continue the conversation below. Stay tuned for more expert insights and relationship advice in future episodes! If you enjoyed this episode, you will probably love our episode titled ‘Attachment Specialist Fixes an Avoidant Woman’ https://youtu.be/zSaZrRedRUc Need more help with your attachment? Work with Adam: www.adamlanesmith.com ------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Follow the “I Wish You Knew” Podcast: -------------------------------------------------- Website: https://iwishyouknew.show/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/theiwishyouknewpodcast/ Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@iwishyouknewshow Snapchat: https://www.snapchat.com/iwishyouknewpod Twitter /X: https://twitter.com/iwishyouknewpod Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/4Ncc0MBgm04xTIQ5ByiCGI Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/i-wish-you-knew/id1713427809 -------------------------------------------------- Follow Adam Lane Smith: -------------------------------------------------- Website: https://adamlanesmith.com/ Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCBO093GsMmnA9tb8lZPhbgg Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/attachmentadam/ Twitter /X: https://x.com/AdamLaneSmith Threads: https://www.threads.net/@attachmentadam Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@attachmentbro -------------------------------------------------- Brandon Doerkse: -------------------------------------------------- IG: https://www.instagram.com/brandontalksmarriage/?hl=en Threads: https://www.threads.net/@brandontalksmarriage The next episode drops Thursday :) See you there. Visit: https://iwishyouknew.show/ to lean more about the podcast To Learn More About @AttachmentAdam https://adamlanesmith.com/ https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCBO093GsMmnA9tb8lZPhbgg https://www.instagram.com/attachmentadam/?hl=en

Apr 3, 20251h 21m

Ep 73Attachment Specialist Fixes Toxic Marriage | Adam Lane Smith The Attachment Specialist

In this episode, Adam Lane Smith, the Attachment Specialist, navigates the challenges of a toxic marriage. Through raw and honest conversations, Adam uncovers the root causes of their struggles and offers practical guidance to rebuild trust, communication, and emotional connection. Whether you’re facing similar issues or just want to strengthen your relationship, this episode is packed with insights and advice that can make a real difference. Topics Covered: 👉 The impact of unresolved trauma on marriage and relationships 👉 How pressure and past experiences shape relationship dynamics 👉 Addressing touch aversion and intimacy issues 👉 The importance of emotional regulation and safe communication 👉 Building a healthy legacy for children and breaking toxic patterns 👉 Strategies to create a secure and loving environment for the whole family Adam provides powerful insights and actionable steps to help couples rebuild connection and create a healthier, more fulfilling relationship. No matter where you are in your journey, this episode offers hope and practical guidance to transform your relationship dynamics. Don’t miss this transformative conversation—tune in now! Stay tuned for more expert insights and relationship advice in future episodes! If you enjoyed this episode, you will probably love our episode titled ‘Attachment Specialist Fixes an Avoidant Woman’ https://youtu.be/zSaZrRedRUc Need more help with your attachment? Work with Adam: www.adamlanesmith.com ------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Follow the “I Wish You Knew” Podcast: -------------------------------------------------- Website: https://iwishyouknew.show/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/theiwishyouknewpodcast/ Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@iwishyouknewshow Snapchat: https://www.snapchat.com/iwishyouknewpod Twitter /X: https://twitter.com/iwishyouknewpod Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/4Ncc0MBgm04xTIQ5ByiCGI Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/i-wish-you-knew/id1713427809 -------------------------------------------------- Follow Adam Lane Smith: -------------------------------------------------- Website: https://adamlanesmith.com/ Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCBO093GsMmnA9tb8lZPhbgg Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/attachmentadam/ Twitter /X: https://x.com/AdamLaneSmith Threads: https://www.threads.net/@attachmentadam Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@attachmentbro -------------------------------------------------- The next episode drops Thursday :) See you there. Visit: https://iwishyouknew.show/ to lean more about the podcast To Learn More About @AttachmentAdam https://adamlanesmith.com/ https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCBO093GsMmnA9tb8lZPhbgg https://www.instagram.com/attachmentadam/?hl=en

Mar 28, 20251h 40m

Ep 72Adam Lane Smith & Shallon Lester: Avoidant Attachment Red Flags – “Never Trust Words Alone”

In this episode, Adam Lane Smith and Shallon Lester expose the hidden red flags of avoidant attachment and why trusting words alone can lead to heartbreak. They break down the toxic dating patterns that leave women feeling unworthy, discuss why men rarely change without consequences, and share practical strategies to build secure, lasting relationships. Topics Covered: 👉 Why many women settle in relationships out of fear of abandonment 👉 The rise of emotionally unavailable men and the impact on dating 👉 Shallon’s no-nonsense approach to breakups and setting boundaries 👉 Why men rarely change without external consequences 👉 The power of emotional detachment and firm boundaries in dating 👉 How women can communicate their needs effectively without manipulation 👉 The dangers of relying on a partner to define one’s purpose 👉 The struggle of modern women between career success and traditional roles Adam and Shallon reveal the key mindset shifts needed to break free from avoidant attachment and create fulfilling relationships. If you're tired of toxic dating cycles and want real, actionable advice, this episode is a must-watch. Stay tuned for more expert insights and relationship advice in future episodes! If you enjoyed this episode, you will probably love our episode titled ‘Attachment Specialist Fixes an Avoidant Woman’ https://youtu.be/zSaZrRedRUc Need more help with your attachment? Work with Adam: www.adamlanesmith.com ------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Follow the “I Wish You Knew” Podcast: -------------------------------------------------- Website: https://iwishyouknew.show/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/theiwishyouknewpodcast/ Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@iwishyouknewshow Snapchat: https://www.snapchat.com/iwishyouknewpod Twitter /X: https://twitter.com/iwishyouknewpod Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/4Ncc0MBgm04xTIQ5ByiCGI Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/i-wish-you-knew/id1713427809 -------------------------------------------------- Follow Adam Lane Smith: -------------------------------------------------- Website: https://adamlanesmith.com/ Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCBO093GsMmnA9tb8lZPhbgg Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/attachmentadam/ Twitter /X: https://x.com/AdamLaneSmith Threads: https://www.threads.net/@attachmentadam Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@attachmentbro -------------------------------------------------- Shallon Lester: IG: https://www.instagram.com/shallonxo/?hl=en Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCygmWL3k4EpxBmWGGBs5ldw The next episode drops Thursday :) See you there.

Mar 21, 20251h 16m

Ep 71Female Entitlement or Male Weakness? @Hoemath

In this episode, we dive into the growing divide between men and women in modern society. Our guest, HTH, joins the conversation to explore the cultural and psychological shifts affecting relationships, attachment dynamics, and societal structures. Topics Covered: 👉 The messaging that paints men as villains and its long-term impact 👉 Why men are walking away from relationships and societal expectations 👉 The rise of cultural and gender conflicts across the world 👉 How attachment styles influence modern relationships 👉 The effects of societal collapse on human behavior and survival instincts 👉 The growing divide between entitlement and responsibility in today's world If you're struggling with attachment issues or navigating the complexities of modern relationships, our specialized program can help. Designed with structured guidance, it offers a step-by-step approach to healing and personal growth. Join us and take control of your journey. Stay tuned for more expert insights and relationship advice in future episodes! If you enjoyed this episode, you will probably love our episode titled ‘Avoidant Husband & Anxious Wife Coached by Attachment Specialist’ https://youtu.be/QiPEH0o3EKA Use code: IWYK20 for a 20% Exclusive I Wish You Knew Discount https://ruggedlegacygrooming.com/ Need more help with your attachment? Work with Adam: www.adamlanesmith.com A special thanks to our sponsor Rugged Legacy Grooming Supply. Look, Feel, and Be your best with personal hair, beard, and grooming products recommended by top relationship and style specialists. And, unlike other brands, Rugged Legacy designs its products with all-natural oils and scents, made right here in the USA. Need more help with your attachment? Work with Adam: www.adamlanesmith.com ------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Follow the “I Wish You Knew” Podcast: -------------------------------------------------- Website: https://iwishyouknew.show/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/theiwishyouknewpodcast/ Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@iwishyouknewshow Snapchat: https://www.snapchat.com/iwishyouknewpod Twitter /X: https://twitter.com/iwishyouknewpod Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/4Ncc0MBgm04xTIQ5ByiCGI Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/i-wish-you-knew/id1713427809 -------------------------------------------------- Follow Adam Lane Smith: -------------------------------------------------- Website: https://adamlanesmith.com/ Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCBO093GsMmnA9tb8lZPhbgg Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/attachmentadam/ Twitter /X: https://x.com/AdamLaneSmith Threads: https://www.threads.net/@attachmentadam Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@attachmentbro -------------------------------------------------- The next episode drops Thursday :) See you there. Visit: https://iwishyouknew.show/ to lean more about the podcast To Learn More About @AttachmentAdam https://adamlanesmith.com/ https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCBO093GsMmnA9tb8lZPhbgg https://www.instagram.com/attachmentadam/?hl=en

Mar 13, 20251h 44m

Ep 70The Dark Truth Behind My Secure Attachment: Attachment Specialist Adam Lane Smith Tells All

Alyssa shares how growing up in an environment that discouraged emotional expression led to survival-mode thinking. She describes the intense stress it placed on her nervous system and the difficulty of accessing emotional regulation. ✨ Main Topics Covered ✨ 👉 The long-term effects of survivalist attachment and avoidant behaviors 👉 The struggle of balancing masculine and feminine energy in childhood and adulthood 👉 The role of meditation as both a coping mechanism and a trap for avoidant individuals 👉 The journey of healing from disorganized attachment through therapy, mentorship, and faith 👉 The importance of self-reflection and ongoing personal development in overcoming attachment wounds 👉 How structured programs and accountability help individuals repair attachment challenges Adam highlights the value of deep self-work and structured guidance in overcoming avoidant attachment. He encourages listeners to seek support and engage in personal development to build healthier emotional connections. Stay tuned for more expert insights and relationship advice in future episodes! If you enjoyed this episode, you will probably love our episode titled ‘Avoidant Husband & Anxious Wife Coached by Attachment Specialist’ https://youtu.be/QiPEH0o3EKA Use code: IWYK20 for a 20% Exclusive I Wish You Knew Discount https://ruggedlegacygrooming.com/ Need more help with your attachment? Work with Adam: www.adamlanesmith.com A special thanks to our sponsor Rugged Legacy Grooming Supply. Look, Feel, and Be your best with personal hair, beard, and grooming products recommended by top relationship and style specialists. And, unlike other brands, Rugged Legacy designs its products with all-natural oils and scents, made right here in the USA. Need more help with your attachment? Work with Adam: www.adamlanesmith.com ------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Follow the “I Wish You Knew” Podcast: -------------------------------------------------- Website: https://iwishyouknew.show/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/theiwishyouknewpodcast/ Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@iwishyouknewshow Snapchat: https://www.snapchat.com/iwishyouknewpod Twitter /X: https://twitter.com/iwishyouknewpod Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/4Ncc0MBgm04xTIQ5ByiCGI Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/i-wish-you-knew/id1713427809 -------------------------------------------------- Follow Adam Lane Smith: -------------------------------------------------- Website: https://adamlanesmith.com/ Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCBO093GsMmnA9tb8lZPhbgg Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/attachmentadam/ Twitter /X: https://x.com/AdamLaneSmith Threads: https://www.threads.net/@attachmentadam Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@attachmentbro -------------------------------------------------- The next episode drops Thursday :) See you there. Visit: https://iwishyouknew.show/ to lean more about the podcast To Learn More About @AttachmentAdam https://adamlanesmith.com/ https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCBO093GsMmnA9tb8lZPhbgg https://www.instagram.com/attachmentadam/?hl=en

Mar 7, 202554 min

Ep 69Why Women Settle (and How to Finally Put Yourself First)

Many women find themselves in relationships that look perfect on paper but leave them feeling unfulfilled. In this episode, dating expert Julia Mazur shares her personal journey of settling in relationships and how she finally broke free. She discusses societal expectations, personal struggles, and the key mindset shifts needed to prioritize yourself in love and life. ✨ Main Topics Covered ✨ 👉 The dating challenges many women face and why they often settle. 👉 The influence of cultural and family expectations on relationships. 👉 The emotional toll of being in a relationship with the “ideal” partner. 👉 How loneliness and lack of fulfillment pushed Julia to reassess her choices. 👉 The dangers of love bombing and future faking in dating. 👉 The importance of filtering potential partners through meaningful questions. 👉 Understanding feminine energy and how it impacts attraction. 👉 Why being interested in your partner is more important than trying to be interesting. Julia emphasizes that true happiness in relationships starts with self-worth and refusing to settle. She encourages women to trust their instincts, set higher standards, and embrace independence rather than staying in relationships out of fear. Stay tuned for more expert insights and relationship advice in future episodes! If you enjoyed this episode, you will probably love our episode titled ‘Avoidant Husband & Anxious Wife Coached by Attachment Specialist’ https://youtu.be/QiPEH0o3EKA Use code: IWYK20 for a 20% Exclusive I Wish You Knew Discount https://ruggedlegacygrooming.com/ Need more help with your attachment? Work with Adam: www.adamlanesmith.com A special thanks to our sponsor Rugged Legacy Grooming Supply. Look, Feel, and Be your best with personal hair, beard, and grooming products recommended by top relationship and style specialists. And, unlike other brands, Rugged Legacy designs its products with all-natural oils and scents, made right here in the USA. Need more help with your attachment? Work with Adam: www.adamlanesmith.com ------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Follow the “I Wish You Knew” Podcast: -------------------------------------------------- Website: https://iwishyouknew.show/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/theiwishyouknewpodcast/ Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@iwishyouknewshow Snapchat: https://www.snapchat.com/iwishyouknewpod Twitter /X: https://twitter.com/iwishyouknewpod Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/4Ncc0MBgm04xTIQ5ByiCGI Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/i-wish-you-knew/id1713427809 -------------------------------------------------- Follow Adam Lane Smith: -------------------------------------------------- Website: https://adamlanesmith.com/ Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCBO093GsMmnA9tb8lZPhbgg Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/attachmentadam/ Twitter /X: https://x.com/AdamLaneSmith Threads: https://www.threads.net/@attachmentadam Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@attachmentbro -------------------------------------------------- The next episode drops Thursday :) See you there. Visit: https://iwishyouknew.show/ to lean more about the podcast To Learn More About @AttachmentAdam https://adamlanesmith.com/ https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCBO093GsMmnA9tb8lZPhbgg https://www.instagram.com/attachmentadam/?hl=en To Learn More About Julia: https://www.instagram.com/jamazur/?hl=en https://www.instagram.com/pmdpod https://www.tiktok.com/@pmdpod?lang=en

Mar 1, 202550 min

Ep 68Adam Lane Smith Coaches an Avoidant Woman LIVE

🎙️ Welcome to this eye-opening episode of "I Wish You Knew" with hosts Adam Lane Smith, The Attachment Specialist, and Andrey Korikov, CEO and co-founder of Veritas Creative Media. Emily Humpert opens up about her struggles with relationships, attachment challenges, and emotional intimacy. Adam Lane Smith helps her uncover the roots of her avoidance and how it impacts her connections with others. Topics Covered: 👉 Struggles with relationships and repeated failures 👉 Avoidant attachment and emotional barriers 👉 Fear of sacrifice in relationships 👉 The myth of a ‘perfect match’ 👉 Recognizing personal needs in relationships 👉 Emotional intimacy challenges for high performers 👉 Family influence on attachment styles 👉 Oxytocin’s role in emotional bonding 👉 Steps toward secure attachment The episode concludes with a reflection on attachment styles and how emotional avoidance may impact relationships. It emphasizes the importance of emotional connection and suggests working toward secure attachment for long-term relational success. If you’re struggling with attachment challenges, consider joining the Attachment Repair Program to build healthier, lasting relationships. Stay tuned for more expert insights and relationship advice in future episodes! If you enjoyed this episode, you will probably love our episode titled ‘Avoidant Husband & Anxious Wife Coached by Attachment Specialist’ https://youtu.be/QiPEH0o3EKA Use code: IWYK20 for a 20% Exclusive I Wish You Knew Discount https://ruggedlegacygrooming.com/ Need more help with your attachment? Work with Adam: www.adamlanesmith.com A special thanks to our sponsor Rugged Legacy Grooming Supply. Look, Feel, and Be your best with personal hair, beard, and grooming products recommended by top relationship and style specialists. And, unlike other brands, Rugged Legacy designs its products with all-natural oils and scents, made right here in the USA. Need more help with your attachment? Work with Adam: www.adamlanesmith.com

Feb 21, 20251h 31m

Ep 67Aurora Culpo: ‘I Only Date Avoidant Men…’ Here’s Why

🎙️ Welcome to this eye-opening episode of "I Wish You Knew" with hosts Adam Lane Smith, The Attachment Specialist, and Andrey Korikov, CEO and co-founder of Veritas Creative Media. In this episode, Aurora Culp opens up about her experiences with relationships, attachment styles, and why she tends to be drawn to avoidant men. Through personal stories and deep reflections, she explores the patterns that have shaped her love life and what she’s doing to break free from unhealthy cycles. ✨ Main Topics Covered: 👉 Aurora’s struggles with dating and attraction to avoidant men 👉 The role of attachment theory in romantic relationships 👉 How childhood dynamics with parents influence partner choices 👉 The challenges of dating emotionally unavailable partners 👉 The importance of secure attachment and emotional intimacy 👉 Strategies for fostering healthier relationships and breaking toxic cycles 👉 How waiting three months before commitment can impact dating outcomes If you’ve ever found yourself stuck in unhealthy relationship patterns, this episode is for you. Aurora’s journey highlights the power of self-awareness and growth when it comes to love and attachment. Stay tuned for more expert insights and relationship advice in future episodes! If you enjoyed this episode, you will probably love our episode titled ‘Avoidant Husband & Anxious Wife Coached by Attachment Specialist’ https://youtu.be/QiPEH0o3EKA Use code: IWYK20 for a 20% Exclusive I Wish You Knew Discount https://ruggedlegacygrooming.com/ Need more help with your attachment? Work with Adam: www.adamlanesmith.com A special thanks to our sponsor Rugged Legacy Grooming Supply. Look, Feel, and Be your best with personal hair, beard, and grooming products recommended by top relationship and style specialists. And, unlike other brands, Rugged Legacy designs its products with all-natural oils and scents, made right here in the USA. Need more help with your attachment? Work with Adam: www.adamlanesmith.com ------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Follow Aurora Cuplo: -------------------------------------------------- Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCJao_5jeoi6k1x4M03-v67g Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/auroraculpo/?hl=en Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@aurora_culpo?lang=en -------------------------------------------------- Follow the “I Wish You Knew” Podcast: -------------------------------------------------- Website: https://iwishyouknew.show/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/theiwishyouknewpodcast/ Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@iwishyouknewshow Snapchat: https://www.snapchat.com/iwishyouknewpod Twitter /X: https://twitter.com/iwishyouknewpod Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/4Ncc0MBgm04xTIQ5ByiCGI Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/i-wish-you-knew/id1713427809 -------------------------------------------------- Follow Adam Lane Smith: -------------------------------------------------- Website: https://adamlanesmith.com/ Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCBO093GsMmnA9tb8lZPhbgg Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/attachmentadam/ Twitter /X: https://x.com/AdamLaneSmith Threads: https://www.threads.net/@attachmentadam Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@attachmentbro -------------------------------------------------- The next episode drops Thursday :) See you there.

Feb 14, 20251h 29m

Ep 66"I Lost My Fiance in a Plane Crash… Then I Learned the Truth" Stephanie Quayle's Heartbreaking Story

🎙️ This week’s episode features Stephanie Quayle who lost her fiancé in a tragic plane crash. She was consumed by grief—until she uncovered a shocking truth that turned her world upside down. What followed was a painful battle with betrayal, self-destruction, and the struggle to rebuild her sense of self. ✨ In this episode: 👉 The devastating loss that changed everything 👉 Discovering painful truths after her fiancé’s death 👉 How grief led to self-destruction and emotional rehab 👉 Overcoming attachment wounds and learning to trust again 👉 Finding love and building a healthy relationship after betrayal This is not your typical relationship advice. Tune in as we break down common myths, share personal stories, and give you actionable tips to make your relationship stronger than ever. 🎧 Want to build a secure, lasting relationship with an avoidant partner? Take the next step with the How to Love an Avoidant Man course https://adamlanesmith.com/product/how-to-love-an-avoidant-man/ If you enjoyed this episode, you will probably love our episode titled ‘Inside the Mind of Avoidant Women | Avoidant Attachment”’ https://youtu.be/cMoUZ8UmZpY A special thanks to our sponsor Rugged Legacy Grooming Supply. Look, Feel, and Be your best with personal hair, beard, and grooming products recommended by top relationship and style specialists. And, unlike other brands, Rugged Legacy designs its products with all-natural oils and scents, made right here in the USA. Use code: IWYK20 for a 20% Exclusive I Wish You Knew Discount https://ruggedlegacygrooming.com/ Need more help with your attachment? Work with Adam: www.adamlanesmith.com Follow Stephanie Quayle: -------------------------------------------------- Website: https://www.stephaniequayle.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/stephaniequayle/? Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@StephanieQuayle X: https://x.com/StephanieQuayle -------------------------------------------------- Follow the “I Wish You Knew” Podcast: -------------------------------------------------- Website: https://iwishyouknew.show/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/theiwishyouknewpodcast/ Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@iwishyouknewshow Snapchat: https://www.snapchat.com/iwishyouknewpod Twitter /X: https://twitter.com/iwishyouknewpod Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/4Ncc0MBgm04xTIQ5ByiCGI Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/i-wish-you-knew/id1713427809 -------------------------------------------------- Follow Adam Lane Smith: -------------------------------------------------- Website: https://adamlanesmith.com/ Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCBO093GsMmnA9tb8lZPhbgg Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/attachmentadam/ Twitter /X: https://twitter.com/TheBrometheus Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@attachmentbro -------------------------------------------------- Follow Andrey Korikov: -------------------------------------------------- Website: https://veritascreative.media/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/andreykorikov/ Business Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/veritascreative.media/ LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/andreykorikov Twitter /X: https://twitter.com/andreykorikov?lang=en The next episode drops Thursday :) See you there.

Feb 7, 20251h 23m

Ep 65Inside the Mind of Avoidant Women | Avoidant Attachment

This week’s episode features Jessica Preston who dives into the complexities of avoidant attachment in women, exploring personal experiences, emotional patterns, and the impact of past relationships. 🎙️ Welcome to this eye-opening episode of "I Wish You Knew" with hosts Adam Lane Smith, the attachment specialist, and Andrey Korikov, CEO and co-founder of Veritas Creative Media. The discussion highlights the struggles of avoidant individuals in forming deep connections, the role of masculine and feminine dynamics, and the journey toward self-awareness and healing. ✨ Key Moments ✨ 👉 Personal realization of avoidant attachment after multiple divorce 👉 Audience reflections on avoidance and self-acceptance 👉 The preference for being labeled an "island" over "avoidant" 👉 Introduction to the Attachment Repair Program for healing 👉 How avoidance develops as a self-protection mechanism 👉 The impact of avoidant attachment on past relationships 👉 Exploring masculine and feminine dynamics in attachment styles 👉 Evolutionary perspective on avoidant attachment and survival instincts 👉 How early life experiences shape long-term attachment patterns 👉 Navigating relationships with newfound awareness of avoidance This conversation emphasizes the importance of self-reflection, personal growth, and addressing deep-seated attachment issues. Whether you're struggling with avoidance yourself or seeking to understand someone who is, this episode offers valuable insights and practical steps toward healing. 🎧 If you enjoyed this episode, you will probably love our episode titled ‘The #1 Reason Most Relationships Fail (And How to Avoid It)’ https://youtu.be/o5cxBp1oBGk Use code: IWYK20 for a 20% Exclusive I Wish You Knew Discount https://ruggedlegacygrooming.com/ Need more help with your attachment? Work with Adam: www.adamlanesmith.com A special thanks to our sponsor Rugged Legacy Grooming Supply. Look, Feel, and Be your best with personal hair, beard, and grooming products recommended by top relationship and style specialists. And, unlike other brands, Rugged Legacy designs its products with all-natural oils and scents, made right here in the USA. Need more help with your attachment? Work with Adam: www.adamlanesmith.com ------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Follow Jessica Preston: -------------------------------------------------- Website: https://denovofertility.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/denovo_fertility/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/denovofertilitycommunity/ Threads: https://www.threads.net/@denovo_fertility -------------------------------------------------- Follow the “I Wish You Knew” Podcast: -------------------------------------------------- Website: https://iwishyouknew.show/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/theiwishyouknewpodcast/ Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@iwishyouknewshow Snapchat: https://www.snapchat.com/iwishyouknewpod Twitter /X: https://twitter.com/iwishyouknewpod Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/4Ncc0MBgm04xTIQ5ByiCGI Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/i-wish-you-knew/id1713427809 -------------------------------------------------- Follow Adam Lane Smith: -------------------------------------------------- Website: https://adamlanesmith.com/ Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCBO093GsMmnA9tb8lZPhbgg Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/attachmentadam/ Twitter /X: https://twitter.com/TheBrometheus Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@attachmentbro -------------------------------------------------- Follow Andrey Korikov: -------------------------------------------------- Website: https://veritascreative.media/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/andreykorikov/ Business Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/veritascreative.media/ LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/andreykorikov Twitter /X: https://twitter.com/andreykorikov?lang=en The next episode drops Thursday :) See you there.

Jan 31, 20251h 34m

Ep 64The #1 Reason Most Relationships Fail (And How to Avoid It)

🎙️In this powerful episode of I Wish You Knew Podcast, Adam Lane Smith, the attachment specialist, sits down with Axel and Chelby, a couple who faced the emotional turmoil of a breakup, only to come back together stronger than ever. With the help of the attachment specialist they explore the hidden dynamics of breakups, how attachment issues played a role in their separation, and how they navigated living together after calling it quits. This episode uncovers the importance of space, communication, and understanding attachment patterns in relationships—especially after a breakup. We dive deep into the psychological impact of breakups, the fear of history repeating itself, and how a breakup doesn’t have to be the end. Discover how healing is possible even after the most painful moments, and what it really takes to rebuild trust and love. ✨ Key Moments ✨: 👉 The hidden dynamics behind breakups and how they can be avoided. 👉 Why emotional shutdowns and high stress levels often trigger breakups. 👉 How communication (or lack thereof) can make or break your relationship during challenging times. 👉 The role of hormones (like cortisol and oxytocin) in managing stress and emotional connections. 👉 Why conscious decision-making is critical to preventing a repeat breakup in the future. 👉 How attachment styles impact the way you handle relationship stress. 👉 The importance of creating space and boundaries during emotional chaos. Axel and Chelby share their raw, personal journey through emotional exhaustion, feelings of being trapped, and ultimately rediscovering their connection. Join us as we explore how relationships can evolve after a breakup, and learn how to create emotional clarity and healing from attachment wounds. 🎧 If you enjoyed this episode, you will probably love our episode titled ‘Avoidant Husband & Anxious Wife Coached by Attachment Specialist’ https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=QiPEH0o3EKA&ab_ A special thanks to our sponsor Rugged Legacy Grooming Supply. Look, Feel, and Be your best with personal hair, beard, and grooming products recommended by top relationship and style specialists. And, unlike other brands, Rugged Legacy designs its products with all-natural oils and scents, made right here in the USA. Use code: IWYK20 for a 20% Exclusive I Wish You Knew Discount https://ruggedlegacygrooming.com/ Need more help with your attachment? Work with Adam: www.adamlanesmith.com ------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Follow the “I Wish You Knew” Podcast: -------------------------------------------------- Website: https://iwishyouknew.show/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/theiwishyouknewpodcast/ Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@iwishyouknewshow Snapchat: https://www.snapchat.com/iwishyouknewpod Twitter /X: https://twitter.com/iwishyouknewpod Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/4Ncc0MBgm04xTIQ5ByiCGI Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/i-wish-you-knew/id1713427809 -------------------------------------------------- Follow Adam Lane Smith: -------------------------------------------------- Website: https://adamlanesmith.com/ Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCBO093GsMmnA9tb8lZPhbgg Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/attachmentadam/ Twitter /X: https://twitter.com/TheBrometheus Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@attachmentbro -------------------------------------------------- The next episode drops Thursday :) See you there.

Jan 24, 20251h 15m

Ep 63Danielle Silverstein on Why Women Initiate 70% of Divorces

🎙️ Welcome to this eye-opening episode of "I Wish You Knew" with hosts Adam Lane Smith, the attachment specialist, and Andrey Korikov, CEO and co-founder of Veritas Creative Media. This week’s eye-opening episode features Danielle Silverstein who dives deep with the hosts into the real challenges of marriage—beyond the perfect Instagram photos and couple goals. From hidden struggles to painful secrets, we’re revealing what actually happens behind closed doors in relationships. Danielle, Adam, and Andrey share their personal journey through hardship, loss, and the strain of balancing kids, careers, and a relationship. It’s raw, real, and packed with powerful advice that could change the way you view your own relationship. Whether you're in a relationship, struggling in your marriage, or just curious about the behind-the-scenes truth, this episode is a must-watch. Don’t miss it—your love life may never be the same again. ✨ Key Moments ✨: 👉 The importance of supporting each other as a team, particularly in parenting and marriage. 👉 How to avoid resentment from building up in your relationship. 👉 How to maintain the relationship, despite external pressures and distractions. 👉 How to rebuild your marriage and keep it thriving through the hard times. 👉 How different attachment styles (anxious, avoidant) affect romantic relationships. 👉 How a lack of transparency can tear your marriage apart. This is not your typical relationship advice. Tune in as we break down common myths, share personal stories, and give you actionable tips to make your relationship stronger than ever. 🎧 If you enjoyed this episode, you will probably love our episode titled ‘Avoidant Husband & Anxious Wife Coached by Attachment Specialist’ https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=QiPEH0o3EKA&ab_ A special thanks to our sponsor Rugged Legacy Grooming Supply. Look, Feel, and Be your best with personal hair, beard, and grooming products recommended by top relationship and style specialists. And, unlike other brands, Rugged Legacy designs its products with all-natural oils and scents, made right here in the USA. Use code: IWYK20 for a 20% Exclusive I Wish You Knew Discount https://ruggedlegacygrooming.com/ Need more help with your attachment? Work with Adam: www.adamlanesmith.com ------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Follow Danielle Silverstein: -------------------------------------------------- Website: https://www.marriageandmartinis.com/ Instagram:https://www.instagram.com/marriageandmartinis/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/marriageandmartinis/ Threads: https://www.threads.net/@marriageandmartinis Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/6yOFLuFSKGEEfbyNYgFOD8?si=e856e808cdf04603 Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/marriage-and-martinis/id1409173457 -------------------------------------------------- Follow the “I Wish You Knew” Podcast: -------------------------------------------------- Website: https://iwishyouknew.show/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/theiwishyouknewpodcast/ Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@iwishyouknewshow Snapchat: https://www.snapchat.com/iwishyouknewpod Twitter /X: https://twitter.com/iwishyouknewpod Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/4Ncc0MBgm04xTIQ5ByiCGI Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/i-wish-you-knew/id1713427809 -------------------------------------------------- Follow Adam Lane Smith: -------------------------------------------------- Website: https://adamlanesmith.com/ Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCBO093GsMmnA9tb8lZPhbgg Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/attachmentadam/ Twitter /X: https://twitter.com/TheBrometheus Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@attachmentbro -------------------------------------------------- Follow Andrey Korikov: -------------------------------------------------- Website: https://veritascreative.media/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/andreykorikov/ Business Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/veritascreative.media/ LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/andreykorikov Twitter /X: https://twitter.com/andreykorikov?lang=en The next episode drops Thursday :) See you there.

Jan 17, 20251h 17m

Ep 62Avoidant Husband & Anxious Wife Coached by Attachment Specialist

🎙️ Welcome to this transformative episode of "I Wish You Knew" featuring Adam Lane Smith, attachment specialist, as he LIVE coaches a married couple on the path to a blissful marriage. Join us as we watch a married couple navigate their relationship struggles with Adam's coaching—an intimate, raw look at attachment styles, communication breakdowns, and how to heal emotional wounds that have festered for years. In this episode, Adam helps a couple tackle their core issues—his avoidant behavior and her anxious attachment. Through real, on-the-spot coaching, they uncover powerful strategies to break the cycle of emotional disconnect and build a stronger, more secure relationship. ✨ Key Insights From This Coaching Session ✨: 👉 Why avoidant partners shut down—and how to get them to open up. 👉 The powerful technique to restore emotional safety in your marriage. 👉 How to overcome fear of rejection and build emotional safety. 👉 The secret to resolving small conflicts before they grow. 👉 How hormonal cycles (like PMS) can impact communication—and how to navigate them. 👉 How attachment styles affect conflict and connection in marriage. 👉 Tools for self-regulation and co-regulation to improve emotional stability. 👉 Practical tips to foster trust, connection, and intimacy in your relationship. This is a must-watch for anyone in an anxious-avoidant relationship or anyone struggling to understand their partner's emotional needs. Tune in for real solutions that will leave you with a fresh perspective on healing your relationship. 🎧 If you enjoyed this episode, you will probably love our episode titled ‘What Happens When an Avoidant Man Falls in Love’ https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=T7pHG6fHfRw&ab A special thanks to our sponsor Rugged Legacy Grooming Supply. Look, Feel, and Be your best with personal hair, beard, and grooming products recommended by top relationship and style specialists. And, unlike other brands, Rugged Legacy designs its products with all-natural oils and scents, made right here in the USA. Use code: IWYK20 for a 20% Exclusive I Wish You Knew Discount https://ruggedlegacygrooming.com/ Need more help with your attachment? Work with Adam: www.adamlanesmith.com ------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- -------------------------------------------------- Follow the “I Wish You Knew” Podcast: -------------------------------------------------- Website: https://iwishyouknew.show/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/theiwishyouknewpodcast/ Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@iwishyouknewshow Snapchat: https://www.snapchat.com/iwishyouknewpod Twitter /X: https://twitter.com/iwishyouknewpod Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/4Ncc0MBgm04xTIQ5ByiCGI Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/i-wish-you-knew/id1713427809 -------------------------------------------------- Follow Adam Lane Smith: -------------------------------------------------- Website: https://adamlanesmith.com/ Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCBO093GsMmnA9tb8lZPhbgg Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/attachmentadam/ Twitter /X: https://x.com/AdamLaneSmith Threads: https://www.threads.net/@attachmentadam Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@attachmentbro -------------------------------------------------- The next episode drops Thursday :) See you there.

Jan 10, 20251h 16m

Ep 61#1 Advice From Men’s Dating Coach: Modern Women Want THIS

🎙️ In this insightful episode, Jamie, a men’s dating coach who specializes in helping men build authentic connections and attract emotionally secure women, joins Adam Lane Smith, the attachment specialist, and Andrey Korikov, CEO and cofounder of Veritas Creative Media, to break down the hidden dynamics of modern dating and why so many men are struggling to find lasting relationships. Jamie shares her expertise on what healthy women truly want, why most men fail in dating, and actionable strategies to stand out in a crowded, confusing dating world. This episode is perfect for men who want to attract secure women, understand what's been holding them back in dating, and navigate modern dating without gimmicks or games. ✨ Moments You Can’t Miss ✨: 👉 Why men today fear rejection more than ever, and how it’s holding them back in dating 👉 How social media fear-mongering fuels anxiety for both men and women in relationships 👉 The role fear and pornography play in creating unrealistic expectations about intimacy 👉 Why rebuilding a sense of community is essential for healthy dating and relationships 👉 How the internet facilitates communication but hinders authentic, meaningful relationships 👉 Why men crave understanding and connection and how effective communication can build trust and safety This episode is a must-listen for men looking to navigate modern dating, overcome fear and rejection, and build meaningful connections based on trust and authenticity. Discover how to attract emotionally secure women, redefine success in relationships, and create a fulfilling dating life rooted in genuine connection. 🎧 If you enjoyed this episode, you will probably love our episode where Dr. Orion Taraban Unveils the Future of Marriage: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qQ_YYlJVLjE A special thanks to our sponsor Rugged Legacy Grooming Supply. Look, Feel, and Be your best with personal hair, beard, and grooming products recommended by top relationship and style specialists. And, unlike other brands, Rugged Legacy designs its products with all-natural oils and scents, made right here in the USA. Use code: IWYK20 for a 20% Exclusive I Wish You Knew Discount https://ruggedlegacygrooming.com/ Need more help with your attachment? Work with Adam: www.adamlanesmith.com ------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Follow Jamie Date: -------------------------------------------------- Website: https://www.jamiedatecoaching.com/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCvBE9J1LcvDu9zcEqnr1q-w Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/jamiedate/ Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@jamiedate Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/@jamiebdate/ -------------------------------------------------- Follow the “I Wish You Knew” Podcast: -------------------------------------------------- Website: https://iwishyouknew.show/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/theiwishyouknewpodcast/ Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@iwishyouknewshow Snapchat: https://www.snapchat.com/iwishyouknewpod Twitter /X: https://twitter.com/iwishyouknewpod Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/4Ncc0MBgm04xTIQ5ByiCGI Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/i-wish-you-knew/id1713427809 -------------------------------------------------- Follow Adam Lane Smith: -------------------------------------------------- Website: https://adamlanesmith.com/ Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCBO093GsMmnA9tb8lZPhbgg Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/attachmentadam/ Twitter /X: https://x.com/AdamLaneSmith Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@attachmentbro -------------------------------------------------- Follow Andrey Korikov: -------------------------------------------------- Website: https://veritascreative.media/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/andreykorikov/ Business Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/veritascreative.media/ LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/andreykorikov Twitter /X: https://twitter.com/andreykorikov?lang=en The next episode drops Thursday :) See you there.

Jan 3, 20251h 12m

Ep 60Sathiya Sam UNVEILS The ONLY Way To End An Addiction

🎙️ In this powerful episode, addiction recovery coach Sathiya Sam, an addiction recovery coach who guides men to overcome addictive behaviors by connecting with their faith, healing childhood trauma, building authentic identity, and mastering emotional regulation, joins Adam Lane Smith, the attachment specialist, and Andrey Korikov, CEO and cofounder of Veritas Creative Media, to uncover the hidden emotional roots of addiction and its profound impact on our lives. Addiction isn't just about substances—it’s a reflection of deeper emotional wounds, trauma, and unmet needs. Sathiya shares his expertise on how addiction manifests in different ways and why emotional healing is crucial for lasting recovery. ✨ Key Moments To Look Out For ✨: 👉 Why addiction is often a symptom of unresolved trauma and emotional pain 👉 How to shift your identity from someone who struggles with addiction to someone actively rebuilding their life 👉 The vital role of emotional awareness and healthier emotional outlets in overcoming addiction 👉 How to use these recovery principles to break free from other compulsive behaviors 👉 The importance of a supportive network in achieving lasting recovery This episode is a must-listen for anyone who wants to understand the emotional roots of addiction, how to heal from it, and how to create a more fulfilling, authentic life free from destructive patterns. 🎧 If you enjoyed this episode, you will probably love our episode titled: Why Are Modern Men So Miserable? Andrew Shaw Reveals the Shocking Truth: https://www.youtube.com/watch?feature=shared&v=homn2lL2qo4 A special thanks to our sponsor Rugged Legacy Grooming Supply. Look, Feel, and Be your best with personal hair, beard, and grooming products recommended by top relationship and style specialists. And, unlike other brands, Rugged Legacy designs its products with all-natural oils and scents, made right here in the USA. Use code: IWYK20 for a 20% Exclusive I Wish You Knew Discount https://ruggedlegacygrooming.com/ Need more help with your attachment? Work with Adam: www.adamlanesmith.com ------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Follow Sathiya Sam: -------------------------------------------------- Website: https://www.sathiyasam.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/sathiyamesam/ Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@sathiyamesam Twitter /X: https://x.com/sathiyamesam Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/sathiyaMEsam/ LinkedIn: https://ca.linkedin.com/in/sathiya-sam-237120139 Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/man-within-podcast/id1527509233 Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/0xv3trXatgORUBXtCf1xQ7 -------------------------------------------------- Follow the “I Wish You Knew” Podcast: -------------------------------------------------- Website: https://iwishyouknew.show/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/theiwishyouknewpodcast/ Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@iwishyouknewshow Snapchat: https://www.snapchat.com/iwishyouknewpod Twitter /X: https://twitter.com/iwishyouknewpod Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/4Ncc0MBgm04xTIQ5ByiCGI Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/i-wish-you-knew/id1713427809 -------------------------------------------------- Follow Adam Lane Smith: -------------------------------------------------- Website: https://adamlanesmith.com/ Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCBO093GsMmnA9tb8lZPhbgg Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/attachmentadam/ Twitter /X: https://x.com/AdamLaneSmith Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@attachmentbro -------------------------------------------------- Follow Andrey Korikov: -------------------------------------------------- Website: https://veritascreative.media/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/andreykorikov/ Business Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/veritascreative.media/ LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/andreykorikov Twitter /X: https://twitter.com/andreykorikov?lang=en The next episode drops Thursday :) See you there. I

Dec 27, 20241h 26m

Ep 59Larry Hagner Reveals The Digital Dangers Your Kids Face DAILY

🎙️ Welcome to this eye-opening episode of "I Wish You Knew" with Adam Lane Smith, attachment specialist, and Andrey Korikov, CEO and co-founder of Veritas Creative Media. This week, we’re joined by Larry Hagner, founder of "The Dad Edge," for a powerful conversation about the realities of fatherhood in the digital age, the dangers your children face online, and the truth about modern fatherhood that most men are missing. Larry, Adam, and Andrey discuss why being a dad is more than just providing financially, how real connection matters more than ever, and why your presence is your child’s greatest asset. This is a must-watch for every father wanting to step up and protect their family in a world that’s more dangerous than it seems. This is a raw and eye-opening conversation that challenges what it means to be a father in today’s world. It’s not an easy discussion, but it’s a critical one for fathers who want to protect, connect, and build a stronger family bond. ✨ Key Lessons Every Father Needs to Hear ✨: 👉 How to protect your kids from digital addictions before it’s too late. 👉 Why your kids need your presence—not your paycheck. 👉 The hidden dangers of modern fatherhood that no one talks about. 👉 Why fathers are burning out—and how to stop the cycle. 👉 How porn is affecting your relationship with your kids and spouse. 👉 Tips to be present, connected, and stress-free in your fatherhood journey. Tune in for a powerful and transformative experience that will stick with you long after the episode ends. 🎧 If you enjoyed this episode, you will probably love our episode titled ‘Why Are Modern Men So Miserable? Andrew Shaw Reveals the Shocking Truth’ https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=homn2lL2qo4&ab_channel=IWishYouKnewPodcast A special thanks to our sponsor Rugged Legacy Grooming Supply. Look, Feel, and Be your best with personal hair, beard, and grooming products recommended by top relationship and style specialists. And, unlike other brands, Rugged Legacy designs its products with all-natural oils and scents, made right here in the USA. Use code: IWYK20 for a 20% Exclusive I Wish You Knew Discount https://ruggedlegacygrooming.com/ Want to become one of the 2% of content creators who make over a million dollars a year? Veritas Creative Academy offers exclusive access to resources from industry experts. Master the latest trends, learn proven strategies that work, finally hit the 7-figure mark, and become internationally recognized and celebrated: https://veritascreative.media/creator-academy/ Need more help with your attachment? Work with Adam: www.adamlanesmith.com ------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Follow Larry Hagner: -------------------------------------------------- Website: https://thedadedge.com/about/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCyS9kQOWK-BOF2N2A3Sn8ag Instagram:https://www.instagram.com/thedadedge/?hl=en LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/larry-hagner-a82b8715 Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/5btMGyD52czW0RZNOooBhK Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-dad-edge-podcast/id986223478 -------------------------------------------------- Follow the “I Wish You Knew” Podcast: -------------------------------------------------- Website: https://iwishyouknew.show/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/theiwishyouknewpodcast/ Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@iwishyouknewshow Snapchat: https://www.snapchat.com/iwishyouknewpod Twitter /X: https://twitter.com/iwishyouknewpod Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/4Ncc0MBgm04xTIQ5ByiCGI Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/i-wish-you-knew/id1713427809 -------------------------------------------------- Follow Adam Lane Smith: -------------------------------------------------- Website: https://adamlanesmith.com/ Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCBO093GsMmnA9tb8lZPhbgg Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/attachmentadam/ Twitter /X: https://twitter.com/TheBrometheus Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@attachmentbro -------------------------------------------------- Follow Andrey Korikov: -------------------------------------------------- Website: https://veritascreative.media/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/andreykorikov/ Business Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/veritascreative.media/ LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/andreykorikov Twitter /X: https://twitter.com/andreykorikov?lang=en The next episode drops Thursday :) See you there.

Dec 20, 20241h 16m

Ep 58Homeschool Mom WARNS About Public Schools’ Dark Secrets

🎙️ In this eye-opening episode of I Wish You Knew, Adam Lane Smith, the attachment specialist, and Claire Denault, a 2nd-generation homeschool mom, dive into the controversial topic of public schooling vs. homeschooling. From the emotional toll of standardized education to the psychological impact of traditional schooling, Claire and Adam reveal why homeschooling might just be the solution to a broken system. They discuss the trauma children face from being forced into one-size-fits-all education models, and why many kids are leaving school with damaged self-esteem, unmet needs, and a lack of emotional security. Whether you’re already homeschooling or just thinking about it, you don’t want to miss this powerful conversation about the real cost of public schooling and how we can create safer, more secure learning environments for our kids. ✨ Can’t Miss Moments ✨ 👉 How public schools are failing kids emotionally, academically, and socially, and impacting their future. 👉 The hidden dangers of forcing children to fit into a standardized system and how it creates long-term emotional harm. 👉 Why homeschooling is the antidote to a broken school system, offering a healthier and more personalized approach to learning. 👉 How to recognize the signs of emotional damage in your child and how to support them with attachment-based parenting strategies. 👉 Practical steps you can take now to create a learning environment that nurtures your child’s emotional and psychological needs. WATCH NOW to learn the truth about how the school system is impacting your child—and what you can do to protect them. 🎧 If you enjoyed this episode, you will probably love our episode where Alex Clark on The Surprising Truths About SSRIs, Equality & The War on Kids: https://www.youtube.com/watch?feature=shared&v=Hg6gfWmbFNY A special thanks to our sponsor Rugged Legacy Grooming Supply. Look, Feel, and Be your best with personal hair, beard, and grooming products recommended by top relationship and style specialists. And, unlike other brands, Rugged Legacy designs its products with all-natural oils and scents, made right here in the USA. Use code: IWYK20 for a 20% Exclusive I Wish You Knew Discount https://ruggedlegacygrooming.com/ Want to become one of the 2% of content creators who make over a million dollars a year? Veritas Creative Academy offers exclusive access to resources from industry experts. Master the latest trends, learn proven strategies that work, finally hit the 7-figure mark, and become internationally recognized and celebrated: https://veritascreative.media/creator-academy/ Need more help with your attachment? Work with Adam: www.adamlanesmith.com ------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Follow Claire Denault: -------------------------------------------------- Website: https://liveleaflearn.com/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@liveleaflearn Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/live.leaf.learn Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/Live.Leaf.Learn -------------------------------------------------- Follow the “I Wish You Knew” Podcast: -------------------------------------------------- Website: https://iwishyouknew.show/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/theiwishyouknewpodcast/ Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@iwishyouknewshow Snapchat: https://www.snapchat.com/iwishyouknewpod Twitter /X: https://twitter.com/iwishyouknewpod Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/4Ncc0MBgm04xTIQ5ByiCGI Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/i-wish-you-knew/id1713427809 -------------------------------------------------- Follow Adam Lane Smith: -------------------------------------------------- Website: https://adamlanesmith.com/ Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCBO093GsMmnA9tb8lZPhbgg Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/attachmentadam/ Twitter /X: https://x.com/AdamLaneSmith Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@attachmentbro -------------------------------------------------- Follow Andrey Korikov: -------------------------------------------------- Website: https://veritascreative.media/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/andreykorikov/ Business Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/veritascreative.media/ LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/andreykorikov Twitter /X: https://twitter.com/andreykorikov?lang=en The next episode drops Thursday :) See you there.

Dec 13, 20241h 12m

Ep 57LMFT Exposes Dysfunctional Families & Toxic Positivity

🎙️ In this raw and honest episode, Adam Lane Smith, the attachment specialist, and Andrey Korikov, co-founder of Veritas Creative Media, team up with renowned radically honest psychotherapist Whitney Goodman to explore the complex world of dysfunctional families. They delve deep into the heart of toxic positivity, generational trauma, and the impact of permissive and authoritarian parenting styles. Whitney shares her unique perspective on how these dynamics can shape our relationships, careers, and overall well-being. ✨ Key Highlights You Can’t Miss ✨: 👉 How toxic positivity can mask deeper issues and hinder emotional growth 👉 Strategies for healing and breaking free from generational trauma. 👉 How childhood experiences shape our attachment patterns. 👉 How unresolved past trauma, lack of boundaries, or unaddressed grievances impact parent-child relationships. 👉 The evolving role of therapy and its limitations in addressing modern issues because of one-size-fits-all solutions. 👉 Predictions about therapy's future role This episode is a must-listen for anyone who wants to understand the impact of family dynamics, childhood experiences, emotional suppression, and wants to create healthier relationships. 🎧 If you enjoyed this episode, you will probably love our episode where Teal Swan Brutally Dissects Modern Therapy & Healing: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=LWxUn_3ffa4 A special thanks to our sponsor Rugged Legacy Grooming Supply. Look, Feel, and Be your best with personal hair, beard, and grooming products recommended by top relationship and style specialists. And, unlike other brands, Rugged Legacy designs its products with all-natural oils and scents, made right here in the USA. Use code: IWYK20 for a 20% Exclusive I Wish You Knew Discount https://ruggedlegacygrooming.com/ Want to become one of the 2% of content creators who make over a million dollars a year? Veritas Creative Academy offers exclusive access to resources from industry experts. Master the latest trends, learn proven strategies that work, finally hit the 7-figure mark, and become internationally recognized and celebrated: https://veritascreative.media/creator-academy/ Need more help with your attachment? Work with Adam: www.adamlanesmith.com ------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Follow Whitney Goodman : -------------------------------------------------- Website: https://sitwithwhit.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/sitwithwhit Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@whitneygoodmanlmft/ Twitter /X: https://twitter.com/sitwithwhit Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/sitwithwhitney/ LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/whitneylhawkins -------------------------------------------------- Follow the “I Wish You Knew” Podcast: -------------------------------------------------- Website: https://iwishyouknew.show/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/theiwishyouknewpodcast/ Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@iwishyouknewshow Snapchat: https://www.snapchat.com/iwishyouknewpod Twitter /X: https://twitter.com/iwishyouknewpod Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/4Ncc0MBgm04xTIQ5ByiCGI Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/i-wish-you-knew/id1713427809 -------------------------------------------------- Follow Adam Lane Smith: -------------------------------------------------- Website: https://adamlanesmith.com/ Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCBO093GsMmnA9tb8lZPhbgg Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/attachmentadam/ Twitter /X: https://x.com/AdamLaneSmith Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@attachmentbro -------------------------------------------------- Follow Andrey Korikov: -------------------------------------------------- Website: https://veritascreative.media/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/andreykorikov/ Business Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/veritascreative.media/ LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/andreykorikov Twitter /X: https://twitter.com/andreykorikov?lang=en The next episode drops Thursday :) See you there.

Dec 6, 202459 min

Ep 56Fixing The Avoidant Man Part 2

🎙️ In this emotionally charged episode of "I Wish You Knew," Adam Lane Smith, the attachment specialist, and Andrey Korikov, a high-achieving CEO and co-founder of Veritas Creative Media, dive deeper into the journey of overcoming avoidant attachment and breaking free from past traumas. Andrey opens up like never before, reflecting on the ghosts of his past, the challenges of building trust, and the small but significant steps he's taking to reclaim connection and intimacy in his relationships. From confronting the pain of childhood in post-Soviet Russia to navigating the complexities of trust with loved ones, this raw and unfiltered conversation is a powerful exploration of healing, growth, and the path to creating secure relationships. Adam offers insights, challenges Andrey's perspectives, and provides actionable steps for anyone struggling with attachment issues or relationship barriers. ✨ What You’ll Discover in This Episode ✨ 👉 The internal battles faced by avoidant individuals, such as fear of intimacy, difficulty expressing emotions, and the pain of feeling misunderstood. 👉 Why childhood coping mechanisms can block healthy relationships today—and how to move past them. 👉 Practical steps to open up and see vulnerability as a strength, not a weakness. 👉 Why meaningful relationships are crucial for breaking avoidant patterns. 👉 Actionable advice and techniques for rewiring the brain to embrace emotional closeness and create a secure foundation for future relationships. Whether you’re working through your own attachment challenges or seeking to better understand the dynamics of avoidant behavior, this episode is packed with relatable stories, transformative lessons, and a reminder that healing happens one conversation at a time. 🎧 If you enjoyed this episode, you will probably love our episode where The Attachment Specialist Helps Avoidant Man Face Trust Issues LIVE: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xfPgVg08E-E A special thanks to our sponsor Rugged Legacy Grooming Supply. Look, Feel, and Be your best with personal hair, beard, and grooming products recommended by top relationship and style specialists. And, unlike other brands, Rugged Legacy designs its products with all-natural oils and scents, made right here in the USA. Use code: IWYK20 for a 20% Exclusive I Wish You Knew Discount https://ruggedlegacygrooming.com/ Want to become one of the 2% of content creators who make over a million dollars a year? Veritas Creative Academy offers exclusive access to resources from industry experts. Master the latest trends, learn proven strategies that work, finally hit the 7-figure mark, and become internationally recognized and celebrated: https://veritascreative.media/creator-academy/ Need more help with your attachment? Work with Adam: www.adamlanesmith.com ------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- -------------------------------------------------- Follow the “I Wish You Knew” Podcast: -------------------------------------------------- Website: https://iwishyouknew.show/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/theiwishyouknewpodcast/ Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@iwishyouknewshow Snapchat: https://www.snapchat.com/iwishyouknewpod Twitter /X: https://twitter.com/iwishyouknewpod Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/4Ncc0MBgm04xTIQ5ByiCGI Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/i-wish-you-knew/id1713427809 -------------------------------------------------- Follow Adam Lane Smith: -------------------------------------------------- Website: https://adamlanesmith.com/ Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCBO093GsMmnA9tb8lZPhbgg Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/attachmentadam/ Twitter /X: https://x.com/AdamLaneSmith Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@attachmentbro -------------------------------------------------- Follow Andrey Korikov: -------------------------------------------------- Website: https://veritascreative.media/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/andreykorikov/ Business Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/veritascreative.media/ LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/andreykorikov Twitter /X: https://twitter.com/andreykorikov?lang=en The next episode drops Thursday :) See you there.

Nov 29, 20241h 42m

Ep 55Fixing The Avoidant Man Part 1

🎙️ In this revealing episode of "I Wish You Knew," Adam Lane Smith, the attachment specialist, and Andrey Korikov, a high-achieving CEO and co-founder of Veritas Creative Media, dive deep into the hidden struggles of avoidant attachment, guilt, and self-worth among high performers. Adam guides Andrey through the deep, uncomfortable realities of living with avoidant attachment as a leader and the hidden emotional costs that come with high achievement. Andrey bravely opens up about the relentless guilt and inability to feel proud of his accomplishments, a common struggle among avoidant high-achievers. This episode isn’t just a coaching session; it’s a powerful look at the sacrifices high-achieving avoidants make and an invitation for anyone seeking genuine connection to step out of avoidance and into a more fulfilling way of life. ✨ Key Highlights You Can’t Miss ✨: 👉 Why high-achieving avoidants feel trapped in their own success, and the silent guilt they carry. 👉 How Andrey’s relentless drive as a CEO is impacting his relationships, and why he can’t stop. 👉 The real cost of avoidant attachment: How trying to “protect” loved ones can lead to losing them or scaring them. 👉 How dissociating to stay strong can backfire, leading to burnout, detachment, and early death. 👉 The unexpected impact of emotional vulnerability and secure attachment in business, and why it matters in the workplace. Get ready for raw truths and powerful insights on how avoidant attachment can shape, and sometimes sabotage, the lives of high achievers. 🎧 If you enjoyed this episode, you will probably love our episode where The Attachment Specialist Helps Avoidant Man Face Trust Issues LIVE: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xfPgVg08E-E A special thanks to our sponsor Rugged Legacy Grooming Supply. Look, Feel, and Be your best with personal hair, beard, and grooming products recommended by top relationship and style specialists. And, unlike other brands, Rugged Legacy designs its products with all-natural oils and scents, made right here in the USA. Use code: IWYK20 for a 20% Exclusive I Wish You Knew Discount https://ruggedlegacygrooming.com/ Want to become one of the 2% of content creators who make over a million dollars a year? Veritas Creative Academy offers exclusive access to resources from industry experts. Master the latest trends, learn proven strategies that work, finally hit the 7-figure mark, and become internationally recognized and celebrated: https://veritascreative.media/creator-academy/ Need more help with your attachment? Work with Adam: www.adamlanesmith.com ------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- -------------------------------------------------- Follow the “I Wish You Knew” Podcast: -------------------------------------------------- Website: https://iwishyouknew.show/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/theiwishyouknewpodcast/ Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@iwishyouknewshow Snapchat: https://www.snapchat.com/iwishyouknewpod Twitter /X: https://twitter.com/iwishyouknewpod Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/4Ncc0MBgm04xTIQ5ByiCGI Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/i-wish-you-knew/id1713427809 -------------------------------------------------- Follow Adam Lane Smith: -------------------------------------------------- Website: https://adamlanesmith.com/ Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCBO093GsMmnA9tb8lZPhbgg Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/attachmentadam/ Twitter /X: https://x.com/AdamLaneSmith Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@attachmentbro -------------------------------------------------- Follow Andrey Korikov: -------------------------------------------------- Website: https://veritascreative.media/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/andreykorikov/ Business Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/veritascreative.media/ LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/andreykorikov Twitter /X: https://twitter.com/andreykorikov?lang=en The next episode drops Thursday :) See you there.

Nov 22, 20241h 38m

Ep 54Inside the Minds of CEOs Who See Emotions as Threats

🎙️ Are emotions a liability for leaders? In this eye-opening episode, Brian Goldstein, Andrey Korikov, and Adam Lane Smith unpack the surprising truth about why avoidant attachment styles just might be a leader’s secret weapon. If you've ever wondered how top CEOs manage to stay cool under pressure, build high-performing teams, and still get results, this conversation is for you. Brian, Adam, and Andrey keep it real with stories from the field, so you’ll walk away with fresh insights on managing people, tackling burnout, and making the tough calls that drive results. Whether you're an executive, entrepreneur, or just curious about the psychology of leadership, get ready for one of the most refreshingly honest conversations on leadership out there. ✨ Key Highlights You Can’t Miss ✨: 👉 Why some CEOs believe showing feelings is a liability and how this mindset impacts workplace culture. 👉 Brian Goldstein’s ruthless approach to leadership, and his perspective on why empathy has its limits. 👉 Why top executives believe turning off emotions is crucial, even at the expense of personal relationships. 👉 Why CEOs need emotional resilience to build lasting, productive relationships. 👉 Why attachment struggles lead many leaders to a lonely path, driving them away from loved ones and close connections. 👉 How understanding attachment styles can reshape a leader’s approach to business and life. Get ready for a revealing look at the emotional sacrifices behind high achievement, as successful CEOs open up about the real price of leadership. 🎧 If you enjoyed this episode, you will probably love our episode titled ‘Greg Witz on the Real Reason Leaders Struggle with Team Dynamics’ https://www.youtube.com/watch?feature=shared&v=55rzJ_qU2uw A special thanks to our sponsor Rugged Legacy Grooming Supply. Look, Feel, and Be your best with personal hair, beard, and grooming products recommended by top relationship and style specialists. And, unlike other brands, Rugged Legacy designs its products with all-natural oils and scents, made right here in the USA. Use code: IWYK20 for a 20% Exclusive I Wish You Knew Discount https://ruggedlegacygrooming.com/ Want to become one of the 2% of content creators who make over a million dollars a year? Veritas Creative Academy offers exclusive access to resources from industry experts. Master the latest trends, learn proven strategies that work, finally hit the 7-figure mark, and become internationally recognized and celebrated: https://veritascreative.media/creator-academy/ Need more help with your attachment? Work with Adam: www.adamlanesmith.com ------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Follow the Brian Goldstein: -------------------------------------------------- Website: https://www.briangoldphd.com/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@BrianGoldPhd Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/briangoldphd/ TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@briangoldphd Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/briangoldphd LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/brian-goldstein-753a2b309/ Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/4RDzXKDZBrfvbB9jMnX7SH Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/truth-hurts-show/id1653918528 -------------------------------------------------- Follow the “I Wish You Knew” Podcast: -------------------------------------------------- Website: https://iwishyouknew.show/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/theiwishyouknewpodcast/ Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@iwishyouknewshow Snapchat: https://www.snapchat.com/iwishyouknewpod Twitter /X: https://twitter.com/iwishyouknewpod Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/4Ncc0MBgm04xTIQ5ByiCGI Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/i-wish-you-knew/id1713427809 -------------------------------------------------- Follow Adam Lane Smith: -------------------------------------------------- Website: https://adamlanesmith.com/ Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCBO093GsMmnA9tb8lZPhbgg Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/attachmentadam/ Twitter /X: https://x.com/AdamLaneSmith Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@attachmentbro -------------------------------------------------- Follow Andrey Korikov: -------------------------------------------------- Website: https://veritascreative.media/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/andreykorikov/ Business Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/veritascreative.media/ LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/andreykorikov Twitter /X: https://twitter.com/andreykorikov?lang=en The next episode drops Thursday :) See you there.

Nov 15, 20241h 46m

Ep 53What Happens When an Avoidant Man Falls in Love

🎙️ In this revealing episode of "I Wish You Knew," Adam Lane Smith, the attachment specialist, reconnects with a returning guest with an avoidant attachment style. This time, he opens up about his relationship. Adam and his client dive deep into the intense struggles avoidant men face when it comes to trust, vulnerability, and building genuine connections. Kimmi shares the breakthrough moments that led him to realize he isn’t a “bad person” for being guarded, and how opening up has become both a terrifying and rewarding journey. This isn’t just another talk about attachment—it’s an honest look at how fear, trust, and co-regulation play into love and relationships. ✨ Moments You Can’t Miss ✨: 👉 Why opening up feels like losing control for avoidant men. 👉 The moment an avoidant man realizes he might actually want a committed relationship. 👉 Why avoidants test their partners, and how it sabotages true connection. 👉 How co-regulation with a supportive partner can help an avoidant man let down his guard. 👉 What it takes for an avoidant man to finally feel safe, secure, and supported. 👉 Why avoidants keep relationships at arm’s length, and what finally made Kimmi reconsider. 👉 The unexpected relief (and fear) that comes with trusting someone fully. Tune in to gain insights into the internal experiences of avoidant men and learn actionable steps to cultivate deeper emotional intimacy. 🎧 If you enjoyed this episode, you will probably love our previous episode where Adam helps Kimmi face his trust issues in a LIVE coaching session: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xfPgVg08E-E&ab_channel=IWishYouKnewPodcast A special thanks to our sponsor Rugged Legacy Grooming Supply. Look, Feel, and Be your best with personal hair, beard, and grooming products recommended by top relationship and style specialists. And, unlike other brands, Rugged Legacy designs its products with all-natural oils and scents, made right here in the USA. Use code: IWYK20 for a 20% Exclusive I Wish You Knew Discount https://ruggedlegacygrooming.com/ Want to become one of the 2% of content creators who make over a million dollars a year? Veritas Creative Academy offers exclusive access to resources from industry experts. Master the latest trends, learn proven strategies that work, finally hit the 7-figure mark, and become internationally recognized and celebrated: https://veritascreative.media/creator-academy/ Need more help with your attachment? Work with Adam: www.adamlanesmith.com ------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- -------------------------------------------------- Follow the “I Wish You Knew” Podcast: -------------------------------------------------- Website: https://iwishyouknew.show/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/theiwishyouknewpodcast/ Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@iwishyouknewshow Snapchat: https://www.snapchat.com/iwishyouknewpod Twitter /X: https://twitter.com/iwishyouknewpod Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/4Ncc0MBgm04xTIQ5ByiCGI Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/i-wish-you-knew/id1713427809 -------------------------------------------------- Follow Adam Lane Smith: -------------------------------------------------- Website: https://adamlanesmith.com/ Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCBO093GsMmnA9tb8lZPhbgg Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/attachmentadam/ Twitter /X: https://x.com/AdamLaneSmith Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@attachmentbro -------------------------------------------------- The next episode drops Thursday :) See you there.

Nov 8, 20241h 19m

Ep 52Gen Z’s Outlook on Gender Roles, Dating, and Marriage With Kenzie Carter

In this heartfelt and insightful interview, Kenzie Carter shares her journey from dating to engagement, revealing the secrets to building a deep, fulfilling relationship that stands the test of time. From early conversations about values to navigating conflicts with love and respect, Kenzie discusses what truly matters in a partnership. She offers her perspective on why so many relationships struggle, the importance of open communication, and how she and her fiancé foster mutual trust, respect, and affection. Throughout, Kenzie opens up about how she knew her fiancé was "the one," the crucial role of a shared belief system, and the power of consistency in love. We also explore why more young women should express respect and admiration for their partners, and why showing appreciation matters in both big and small moments. Join us for an in-depth look at creating authentic love, bridging generational gaps in understanding relationships, and finding joy and support in the journey of life together. Whether you're looking for relationship advice, inspiration, or just want to see real love in action, this conversation with Kenzie will leave you moved and inspired. If you enjoyed this episode, you would probably love our episode on Avoidant Attachment: https://youtu.be/yqnQ4vCsOAY A special thanks to our sponsor Rugged Legacy Grooming Supply. Look, Feel, and Be your best with personal hair, beard, and grooming products recommended by top relationship and style specialists. And, unlike other brands, Rugged Legacy designs its products with all-natural oils and scents, made right here in the USA. Use code: IWYK20 for a 20% Exclusive I Wish You Knew Discount https://ruggedlegacygrooming.com/ Want to become one of the 2% of content creators who make over a million dollars a year? Veritas Creative Academy offers exclusive access to resources from industry experts. Master the latest trends, learn proven strategies that work, finally hit the 7-figure mark, and become internationally recognized and celebrated: https://veritascreative.media/creator-academy/ Need more help with your attachment? Work with Adam: www.adamlanesmith.com ------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- -------------------------------------------------- Follow the “I Wish You Knew” Podcast: -------------------------------------------------- Website: https://iwishyouknew.show/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/theiwishyouknewpodcast/ Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@iwishyouknewshow Snapchat: https://www.snapchat.com/iwishyouknewpod Twitter /X: https://twitter.com/iwishyouknewpod Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/4Ncc0MBgm04xTIQ5ByiCGI Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/i-wish-you-knew/id1713427809 -------------------------------------------------- Follow Adam Lane Smith: -------------------------------------------------- Website: https://adamlanesmith.com/ Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCBO093GsMmnA9tb8lZPhbgg Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/attachmentadam/ Twitter /X: https://x.com/AdamLaneSmith Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@attachmentbro -------------------------------------------------- Follow Kenzie Carter: -------------------------------------------------- Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thekenziecarter/reels/?hl=en TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@_lilheat_ YouTube: @TheKenzieCarter The next episode drops Thursday :) See you there.

Nov 1, 20241h 8m

Ep 51Why Quitting Therapy Was Necessary for The Attachment Specialist

🎙️ In this bold episode of "I Wish You Knew," Adam Lane Smith, the attachment specialist, and Andrey Korikov, CEO and co-founder of Veritas Creative Media, tackle the broken therapy system and why Adam walked away from it. Adam and Andrey explore the uncomfortable truths about traditional therapy practices, how they often leave people stuck without real solutions, and the importance of having a purpose in relationships and life. They discuss why Adam felt compelled to shift away from a system that prolongs suffering and how he's now on a mission to help people build secure relationships without financial strain. This episode isn’t just a conversation—it’s a powerful call to action for anyone seeking true fulfillment in their relationships and life. ✨ Moments You Can’t Miss ✨: 👉 The shocking reason why Adam Lane Smith quit therapy. 👉 How therapy’s endless sessions might be draining your wallet without ever giving you real results. 👉 The make-or-break steps every couple needs to create a relationship that actually lasts. 👉 The manipulation tactics some avoidants use to justify their toxic behaviors. 👉 How every relationship can be repaired, but only if you're willing to do the work. 👉 Practical solutions to build secure connections without the financial burden of traditional therapy. Get ready to hear the uncomfortable truths and practical advice on building lasting, authentic connections. 🎧 If you enjoyed this episode, you will probably love our episode where Teal Swan Brutally Dissects Modern Therapy & Healing: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=LWxUn_3ffa4&ab_channel=IWishYouKnewPodcast A special thanks to our sponsor Rugged Legacy Grooming Supply. Look, Feel, and Be your best with personal hair, beard, and grooming products recommended by top relationship and style specialists. And, unlike other brands, Rugged Legacy designs its products with all-natural oils and scents, made right here in the USA. Use code: IWYK20 for a 20% Exclusive I Wish You Knew Discount https://ruggedlegacygrooming.com/ Want to become one of the 2% of content creators who make over a million dollars a year? Veritas Creative Academy offers exclusive access to resources from industry experts. Master the latest trends, learn proven strategies that work, finally hit the 7-figure mark, and become internationally recognized and celebrated: https://veritascreative.media/creator-academy/ Need more help with your attachment? Work with Adam: www.adamlanesmith.com ------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- -------------------------------------------------- Follow the “I Wish You Knew” Podcast: -------------------------------------------------- Website: https://iwishyouknew.show/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/theiwishyouknewpodcast/ Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@iwishyouknewshow Snapchat: https://www.snapchat.com/iwishyouknewpod Twitter /X: https://twitter.com/iwishyouknewpod Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/4Ncc0MBgm04xTIQ5ByiCGI Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/i-wish-you-knew/id1713427809 -------------------------------------------------- Follow Adam Lane Smith: -------------------------------------------------- Website: https://adamlanesmith.com/ Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCBO093GsMmnA9tb8lZPhbgg Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/attachmentadam/ Twitter /X: https://x.com/AdamLaneSmith Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@attachmentbro -------------------------------------------------- Follow Andrey Korikov: -------------------------------------------------- Website: https://veritascreative.media/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/andreykorikov/ Business Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/veritascreative.media/ LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/andreykorikov Twitter /X: https://twitter.com/andreykorikov?lang=en The next episode drops Thursday :) See you there.

Oct 25, 20241h 40m

Ep 50Avoidant Man EXPOSES What Avoidant Men Really Think Of You

🚨 FLASH SALE! 🚨 ➡️ Head to https://adamlanesmith.com/october-flash-sale to grab these deals before they’re gone! First, a HUGE thank you for your support. To give back, Adam is running a FLASH SALE for THIS WEEK ONLY on everything you need to fix those frustrating relationship patterns. 🔥 35% OFF How to Love an Avoidant Man or The Attachment Bootcamp 💥 50% OFF both courses—buy one, get one FREE! 👥 15% OFF private coaching with Adam's coaches and 10% OFF Adam's private coaching services. ----------------------------------------- 🎙️ In this eye-opening episode of "I Wish You Knew," the attachment specialist Adam Lane Smith and Andrey Korikov, CEO and co-founder of Veritas Creative Media, confront the harsh realities of avoidant behavior in relationships. In this episode, Adam and Andrey dive into the reality of anxious-avoidant relationships, their differing emotional needs and communication styles, their triggers, and the different ways to find common ground and promote understanding for a healthier relationship dynamic. This episode is not just a discussion—it’s an essential guide for anyone dealing with avoidant partners. ✨ Moments You Can’t Miss ✨: 👉 Why avoidant men struggle with intimacy and how it impacts relationships. 👉 Why anxious partners struggle to get clarity and connection from their avoidant partners, worsening their anxiety. 👉 The manipulation tactics some avoidants use to justify their toxic behaviors. 👉 The crucial role of compassionate communication in preventing fights in anxious-avoidant relationships. 👉 Practical advice for anxious partners and avoidant partners on improving your relationship. 👉 How anxious partners can better understand and cope with avoidant partners. 👉 The importance of vulnerability and emotional honesty in healing anxious-avoidant relationships. Get ready to challenge your perceptions, uncover hidden truths, and explore what it truly takes to build authentic, lasting connections. 🎧 If you enjoyed this episode, you will probably love our episode titled ‘Inside the Mind of Avoidant Men (How It Shapes Relationships)’ https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=kbeNaweVofs A special thanks to our sponsor Rugged Legacy Grooming Supply. Look, Feel, and Be your best with personal hair, beard, and grooming products recommended by top relationship and style specialists. And, unlike other brands, Rugged Legacy designs its products with all-natural oils and scents, made right here in the USA. Use code: IWYK20 for a 20% Exclusive I Wish You Knew Discount https://ruggedlegacygrooming.com/ Want to become one of the 2% of content creators who make over a million dollars a year? Veritas Creative Academy offers exclusive access to resources from industry experts. Master the latest trends, learn proven strategies that work, finally hit the 7-figure mark, and become internationally recognized and celebrated: https://veritascreative.media/creator-academy/ Need more help with your attachment? Work with Adam: www.adamlanesmith.com ------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- -------------------------------------------------- Follow the “I Wish You Knew” Podcast: -------------------------------------------------- Website: https://iwishyouknew.show/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/theiwishyouknewpodcast/ Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@iwishyouknewshow Snapchat: https://www.snapchat.com/iwishyouknewpod Twitter /X: https://twitter.com/iwishyouknewpod Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/4Ncc0MBgm04xTIQ5ByiCGI Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/i-wish-you-knew/id1713427809 -------------------------------------------------- Follow Adam Lane Smith: -------------------------------------------------- Website: https://adamlanesmith.com/ Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCBO093GsMmnA9tb8lZPhbgg Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/attachmentadam/ Twitter /X: https://x.com/AdamLaneSmith Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@attachmentbro -------------------------------------------------- Follow Andrey Korikov: -------------------------------------------------- Website: https://veritascreative.media/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/andreykorikov/ Business Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/veritascreative.media/ LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/andreykorikov The next episode drops Thursday :) See you there.

Oct 18, 20241h 30m

Ep 49Teal Swan Brutally Dissects Modern Therapy & Toxic Relationships

🎙️ In this episode of "I Wish You Knew," Adam Lane Smith, the attachment specialist, sits down with Teal Swan, a renowned spiritual teacher and trauma expert, to brutally dissect the flaws of modern therapy and its impact on relationships. The conversation dives deep into why the current therapy system keeps people stuck in emotional cycles, how unresolved trauma is sabotaging your relationships, and the hidden reasons therapy often fails to bring true healing. Together, they explore the harsh realities of navigating relationships while dealing with trauma and offer powerful insights on how to break free from these toxic patterns to build healthier, more connected relationships. Tune in for an eye-opening discussion that challenges everything you thought you knew about healing and relationships. ✨ Moments You Can’t Miss ✨ 👉 The brutal truth about why modern therapy often keeps you stuck in toxic relationship patterns. 👉 How unresolved childhood trauma is silently controlling your adult relationships. 👉 Why many people feel betrayed by the therapy system, and what they need to do to break free. 👉 How trauma creates a false sense of power in harmful relationships and why it feels familiar. 👉 The hidden reason toxic partners keep showing up in your life, and how to stop the cycle. 👉 Why men aren’t aware of the level of fear women navigate daily, and how it impacts relationships. 👉 Powerful insights into using your emotions as valuable data, even when they feel overwhelming. Don’t miss this eye-opening conversation that challenges the modern therapy system and equips you with the tools to break free from toxic patterns and build healthier, more connected relationships. 🎧 If you enjoyed this episode, you will probably love our episode titled ‘Who Are You Afraid To Be? (& Why You Will Become Him)’ https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xv3wIf4IrGI&ab_channel=IWishYouKnewPodcast A special thanks to our sponsor Rugged Legacy Grooming Supply. Look, Feel, and Be your best with personal hair, beard, and grooming products recommended by top relationship and style specialists. And, unlike other brands, Rugged Legacy designs its products with all-natural oils and scents, made right here in the USA. Use code: IWYK20 for a 20% Exclusive I Wish You Knew Discount https://ruggedlegacygrooming.com/ Want to become one of the 2% of content creators who make over a million dollars a year? Veritas Creative Academy offers exclusive access to resources from industry experts. Master the latest trends, learn proven strategies that work, finally hit the 7-figure mark, and become internationally recognized and celebrated: https://veritascreative.media/creator-academy/ Need more help with your attachment? Work with Adam: www.adamlanesmith.com ------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- -------------------------------------------------- Follow Teal Swan: -------------------------------------------------- Website: https://tealswan.com/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC1KIUp4PNCyIwCPTq1hYzWQ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/tealswanofficial Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@tealswanlive Twitter /X: https://twitter.com/_tealswan Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/tealswanofficial/ -------------------------------------------------- Follow the “I Wish You Knew” Podcast: -------------------------------------------------- Website: https://iwishyouknew.show/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/theiwishyouknewpodcast/ Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@iwishyouknewshow Snapchat: https://www.snapchat.com/iwishyouknewpod Twitter /X: https://twitter.com/iwishyouknewpod Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/4Ncc0MBgm04xTIQ5ByiCGI Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/i-wish-you-knew/id1713427809 -------------------------------------------------- Follow Adam Lane Smith: -------------------------------------------------- Website: https://adamlanesmith.com/ Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCBO093GsMmnA9tb8lZPhbgg Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/attachmentadam/ Twitter /X: https://x.com/AdamLaneSmith Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@attachmentbro -------------------------------------------------- The next episode drops Thursday :) See you there.

Oct 11, 20241h 3m

Ep 48Attachment Specialist Helps Avoidant Man Face Trust Issues LIVE

🎙️ Welcome to this episode of "I Wish You Knew" where Adam Lane Smith, the attachment specialist works with an avoidant man in a powerful LIVE coaching session. Adam coaches him through his struggles with trust issues, emotional openness, and relationship patterns that sabotage love. This week, Adam helps his client unpack deep-rooted fears, guiding him to understand how avoidant attachment impacts his ability to build lasting relationships. It’s a raw and transformative conversation you won’t want to miss. If you’ve ever struggled with avoidant attachment in your own relationships, trust issues, or feeling emotionally distant, this is a must-watch session. Adam breaks down the steps to break free from these destructive patterns and find real, lasting love. ✨ Highlights You Can’t Miss ✨: 👉 Why avoidant men push love away and how to break the cycle. 👉 How testing your partner’s loyalty can sabotage your relationship. 👉 The emotional walls avoidant men build—and how to break them down. 👉 Why trust issues are keeping you from real, lasting love. 👉 How avoidant attachment stems from past trauma—and what to do about it. 👉 Practical coaching tips for avoidant men ready to build real intimacy. Tune in for a transformative and raw live coaching session that will challenge and inspire you to embrace true intimacy in your relationships. 🎧 If you enjoyed this episode, you will probably love our episode titled ‘Avoidant Men and How to Love Them | E24’ https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=AYkiAZ8C8Es&ab_channel=IWishYouKnewPodcast A special thanks to our sponsor Rugged Legacy Grooming Supply. Look, Feel, and Be your best with personal hair, beard, and grooming products recommended by top relationship and style specialists. And, unlike other brands, Rugged Legacy designs its products with all-natural oils and scents, made right here in the USA. Use code: IWYK20 for a 20% Exclusive I Wish You Knew Discount https://ruggedlegacygrooming.com/ Want to become one of the 2% of content creators who make over a million dollars a year? Veritas Creative Academy offers exclusive access to resources from industry experts. Master the latest trends, learn proven strategies that work, finally hit the 7-figure mark, and become internationally recognized and celebrated: https://veritascreative.media/creator-academy/ Need more help with your attachment? Work with Adam: www.adamlanesmith.com ------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- -------------------------------------------------- Follow the “I Wish You Knew” Podcast: -------------------------------------------------- Website: https://iwishyouknew.show/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/theiwishyouknewpodcast/ Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@iwishyouknewshow Snapchat: https://www.snapchat.com/iwishyouknewpod Twitter /X: https://twitter.com/iwishyouknewpod Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/4Ncc0MBgm04xTIQ5ByiCGI Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/i-wish-you-knew/id1713427809 -------------------------------------------------- Follow Adam Lane Smith: -------------------------------------------------- Website: https://adamlanesmith.com/ Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCBO093GsMmnA9tb8lZPhbgg Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/attachmentadam/ Twitter /X: https://x.com/AdamLaneSmith Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@attachmentbro -------------------------------------------------- The next episode drops Thursday :) See you there.

Oct 4, 20241h 12m

Ep 47Dr. Amanda Hanson Exposes Toxic Femininity, Self-Sacrifice, & The Patriarchy

🎙️ In this episode of "I Wish You Knew," Dr. Amanda Hanson, a leading clinical psychologist, joins Adam Lane Smith, the attachment specialist, and Andrey Korikov, CEO and co-founder of Veritas Creative Media, to confront the hidden dangers shaping modern relationships. Dr. Amanda Hanson exposes the toxic influences of femininity, self-sacrifice, and the patriarchy, unmasking how these forces impact every woman’s life and relationships. Together, they dive deep into the roots of these issues, exploring how societal expectations and outdated gender roles can create destructive dynamics in love and life. Tune in to this eye-opening discussion to understand the psychological and emotional triggers at play, and learn how to foster healthier, more authentic relationship dynamics. Discover the crucial steps women can take to advocate for themselves, reclaim their power, and break free from the constraints of toxic femininity and self-sacrifice. ✨ Moments You Can’t Miss ✨: 👉 How toxic femininity is sabotaging relationships and personal well-being. 👉 The hidden dangers of living by outdated traditional gender roles and societal expectations. 👉 Dr. Amanda Hanson exposes the deep-rooted impact of the patriarchy on women’s lives and identities. 👉 How women can reclaim their power and step into their true Queen energy. 👉 The link between attachment styles and how they shape relationship dynamics. 👉 Why selflessness isn’t always noble and how it can destroy your relationships. 👉 Practical advice for women on how to advocate for themselves in love and life. 👉 How embracing vulnerability and emotional honesty can transform relationships. 👉 The importance of breaking free from traditional constraints to live a more authentic and fulfilling life. Don't miss this urgent conversation that challenges the status quo and empowers you to live more fully and authentically. 🎧 If you enjoyed this episode, you will probably love our episode titled ‘Men, Listen Up! Dr. Alyssa Marie on Female Brain & Emotional Struggles’ https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=z6GjOfwdGs4 A special thanks to our sponsor Rugged Legacy Grooming Supply. Look, Feel, and Be your best with personal hair, beard, and grooming products recommended by top relationship and style specialists. And, unlike other brands, Rugged Legacy designs its products with all-natural oils and scents, made right here in the USA. Use code: IWYK20 for a 20% Exclusive I Wish You Knew Discount https://ruggedlegacygrooming.com/ Want to become one of the 2% of content creators who make over a million dollars a year? Veritas Creative Academy offers exclusive access to resources from industry experts. Master the latest trends, learn proven strategies that work, finally hit the 7-figure mark, and become internationally recognized and celebrated: https://veritascreative.media/creator-academy/ Need more help with your attachment? Work with Adam: www.adamlanesmith.com ------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- -------------------------------------------------- Follow Dr. Amanda Hanson: -------------------------------------------------- Website: https://www.amandahanson.com/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCeISwRySyUizwWRu0omK30w Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/midlife.muse Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@midlifemuse LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/revolutionizingmidlife Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/midlife.muse Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/0gxiT7Iw7fdJx57HDc45mm?si=dd846dcc91034cd9 Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/revolutionizing-midlife/id1574406943 -------------------------------------------------- Follow the “I Wish You Knew” Podcast: -------------------------------------------------- Website: https://iwishyouknew.show/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/theiwishyouknewpodcast/ Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@iwishyouknewshow Snapchat: https://www.snapchat.com/iwishyouknewpod Twitter /X: https://twitter.com/iwishyouknewpod Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/4Ncc0MBgm04xTIQ5ByiCGI Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/i-wish-you-knew/id1713427809 -------------------------------------------------- Follow Adam Lane Smith: -------------------------------------------------- Website: https://adamlanesmith.com/ Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCBO093GsMmnA9tb8lZPhbgg Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/attachmentadam/ Twitter /X: https://twitter.com/TheBrometheus Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@attachmentbro -------------------------------------------------- Follow Andrey Korikov: -------------------------------------------------- Website: https://veritascreative.media/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/andreykorikov/ Business Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/veritascreative.media/ LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/andreykorikov Twitter /X: https://twitter.com/andreykorikov?lang=en The next episode drops Thursday :) See you

Sep 27, 20241h 11m

Ep 46Naftali Moses Reveals Why Modern Marriages Struggle Without Traditional Values

🎙️ Welcome to this powerful and thought-provoking episode of "I Wish You Knew" with Adam Lane Smith, the attachment specialist, and Andrey Korikov, CEO and co-founder of Veritas Creative Media. This week, we're diving deep into the complexities of modern masculinity, the importance of authenticity, and the consequences of rejecting our roots. Joined by special guest Naftali Moses, this conversation explores why some men struggle to connect with the women they love, the dangers of straying from traditional values, and the impact of societal norms on our ability to form real, meaningful relationships. In this episode, Adam, Andrey, and Naftali challenge the norms that have shaped our understanding of intimacy, marriage, and respect. This is not just a conversation; it's a call to rediscover what truly matters in our relationships and our lives. Prepare to be engaged, challenged, and inspired to think differently about the world around you. ✨ Moments You Can’t Miss ✨: 👉 The impact of intimacy disorders on relationships. 👉 The dangers of living a life detached from traditional values. 👉 The consequences of rejecting your roots and how it disconnects you from your true self. 👉 The role of open communication in earning respect and fostering trust within families. 👉 How to reintegrate traditional values into your life to achieve deeper, more authentic relationships. 👉 How societal norms and modern media distort our understanding of masculinity, intimacy, and authenticity. 👉 Why embracing vulnerability is essential for building meaningful connections and navigating the complexities of modern relationships. These are tough topics, but they’re essential for understanding how to reconnect with our roots, embrace authenticity, and build deeper connections. Tune in for a powerful and transformative experience that will leave you questioning and reflecting long after the episode ends. 🎧 If you enjoyed this episode, you will probably love our episode titled ‘Who Are You Afraid To Be? (& Why You Will Become Him)’ https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xv3wIf4IrGI A special thanks to our sponsor Rugged Legacy Grooming Supply. Look, Feel, and Be your best with personal hair, beard, and grooming products recommended by top relationship and style specialists. And, unlike other brands, Rugged Legacy designs its products with all-natural oils and scents, made right here in the USA. Use code: IWYK20 for a 20% Exclusive I Wish You Knew Discount https://ruggedlegacygrooming.com/ Want to become one of the 2% of content creators who make over a million dollars a year? Veritas Creative Academy offers exclusive access to resources from industry experts. Master the latest trends, learn proven strategies that work, finally hit the 7-figure mark, and become internationally recognized and celebrated: https://veritascreative.media/creator-academy/ Need more help with your attachment? Work with Adam: www.adamlanesmith.com ------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Follow Naftali Moses: -------------------------------------------------- Website: https://www.naftalimoses.com/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@naftalimoses Instagram:https://www.instagram.com/naftalimoses Facebook:https://www.facebook.com/naftalimosescoaching/ TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@naftalimoses Twitter /X:https://twitter.com/NaftaliMoses -------------------------------------------------- Follow the “I Wish You Knew” Podcast: -------------------------------------------------- Website: https://iwishyouknew.show/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/theiwishyouknewpodcast/ Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@iwishyouknewshow Snapchat: https://www.snapchat.com/iwishyouknewpod Twitter /X: https://twitter.com/iwishyouknewpod Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/4Ncc0MBgm04xTIQ5ByiCGI Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/i-wish-you-knew/id1713427809 -------------------------------------------------- Follow Adam Lane Smith: -------------------------------------------------- Website: https://adamlanesmith.com/ Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCBO093GsMmnA9tb8lZPhbgg Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/attachmentadam/ Twitter /X: https://twitter.com/TheBrometheus Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@attachmentbro -------------------------------------------------- Follow Andrey Korikov: -------------------------------------------------- Website: https://veritascreative.media/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/andreykorikov/ Business Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/veritascreative.media/ LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/andreykorikov Twitter /X: https://twitter.com/andreykorikov?lang=en The next episode drops Thursday :) See you there.

Sep 20, 20241h 27m

Ep 45Havva Ramadan on Grief, Loss, Love and Creativity

🎙️ Welcome to this deeply emotional episode of "I Wish You Knew" with Adam Lane Smith, the attachment specialist, and Andrey Korikov, CEO and co-founder of Veritas Creative Media. This week, we’re joined by the incredibly talented artist and poet, Havva Ramadan, for a raw and heartfelt conversation about the profound grief that comes from unspoken words, the pain of losing a loved one, and the regret of not saying "I love you" when it mattered most. In this episode, we confront the pain of unspoken love, the weight of regret, and the silent burden of grief. Havva, Adam, and Andrey explore the silent burden of grief, the importance of healing emotional wounds, and how embracing vulnerability can lead to deeper connections with those we love. This is a conversation that will touch your heart and stay with you long after it ends. ✨ Key Points That Will Leave a Lasting Impression ✨: 👉 How grief turns inward and the emotional toll it takes on those left behind. 👉 The silent burden of regret and what happens when forgiveness comes too late. 👉 The struggle of moving forward after losing a loved one without closure. 👉 Why expressing love and forgiveness in the moment is crucial for emotional healing. 👉 The impact of unresolved grief on relationships and personal growth. 👉 How to find peace and healing through vulnerability and open communication. 👉 The role of creative expression in processing deep emotional pain. 👉 Practical strategies for embracing emotional intimacy and building stronger connections in the face of loss. This is a heartfelt conversation that dives deep into emotions many of us struggle to face. It’s not an easy discussion, but it’s a necessary one. These are tough topics, but they’re essential to understanding how to heal, forgive, and move forward. Tune in for a powerful and transformative experience that will resonate long after the episode ends. 🎧 If you enjoyed this episode, you will probably love our episode titled ‘Mark Groves on Why We Stay in Toxic Relationships and How to Break Free’ https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=CKPWEY-QJx4 A special thanks to our sponsor Rugged Legacy Grooming Supply. Look, Feel, and Be your best with personal hair, beard, and grooming products recommended by top relationship and style specialists. And, unlike other brands, Rugged Legacy designs its products with all-natural oils and scents, made right here in the USA. Use code: IWYK20 for a 20% Exclusive I Wish You Knew Discount https://ruggedlegacygrooming.com/ Want to become one of the 2% of content creators who make over a million dollars a year? Veritas Creative Academy offers exclusive access to resources from industry experts. Master the latest trends, learn proven strategies that work, finally hit the 7-figure mark, and become internationally recognized and celebrated: https://veritascreative.media/creator-academy/ Need more help with your attachment? Work with Adam: www.adamlanesmith.com ------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Follow Havva Ramadan: -------------------------------------------------- YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC2C5NpjSht-HXF4qHxS8FDg Instagram:https://www.instagram.com/havvaofficial Facebook: facebook.com/havvaramadan TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@havvaofficial_ Twitter /X:https://x.com/havvaofficial Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/au/podcast/a-voice/id1641763512 -------------------------------------------------- Follow the “I Wish You Knew” Podcast: -------------------------------------------------- Website: https://iwishyouknew.show/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/theiwishyouknewpodcast/ Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@iwishyouknewshow Snapchat: https://www.snapchat.com/iwishyouknewpod Twitter /X: https://twitter.com/iwishyouknewpod Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/4Ncc0MBgm04xTIQ5ByiCGI Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/i-wish-you-knew/id1713427809 -------------------------------------------------- Follow Adam Lane Smith: -------------------------------------------------- Website: https://adamlanesmith.com/ Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCBO093GsMmnA9tb8lZPhbgg Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/attachmentadam/ Twitter /X: https://twitter.com/TheBrometheus Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@attachmentbro -------------------------------------------------- Follow Andrey Korikov: -------------------------------------------------- Website: https://veritascreative.media/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/andreykorikov/ Business Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/veritascreative.media/ LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/andreykorikov Twitter /X: https://twitter.com/andreykorikov?lang=en The next episode drops Thursday :) See you there.

Sep 13, 20241h 30m

Ep 44Spiritual Coach Explains Psychedelics and Male Spirituality

🎙️ Welcome to this powerful episode of "I Wish You Knew" with Adam Lane Smith, the attachment specialist, and Andrey Korikov, CEO and co-founder of Veritas Creative Media. This week, we’re joined by Adeyemi Adeyosoye, a renowned spiritual leader and coach, for an eye-opening conversation about the deep emotional challenges that high-performing men face and how psychedelics can be a transformative tool in breaking free from the chains of hypermasculinity. In this episode, we dive into the heart of what it means to be a man trapped by societal expectations—exploring the disconnect that many high-driven men experience in their relationships and emotional lives. Adeyemi shares his profound insights on how psychedelics can unlock the doors to true emotional intimacy, helping men embrace their full selves, heal from past traumas, and find deeper connections with their partners. ✨ Highlights That Will Change Your Perspective ✨: 👉 How psychedelics may help you break the cycle of hypermasculinity and emotional isolation. 👉 Why high-driven men sabotage intimacy and how to overcome it. 👉 The hidden toll of societal expectations on men’s emotional health. 👉 Insights from Adam Lane Smith and Adeyemi on improving emotional intimacy. 👉 How upbringing and culture shape masculinity and emotional expression. 👉 Strategies for men to unlock their true selves and build stronger relationships. 👉 How psychedelics help men conquer fear and embrace vulnerability. 👉 Tips for integrating emotional intimacy into more fulfilling relationships. If you're looking to understand the real impact of psychedelics on masculinity, relationships, and personal growth, this episode is a must-watch. Tune in and discover how to transform your life and relationships in ways you never thought possible. 🎧 If you enjoyed this episode, you will probably love our episode titled ‘Who Are You Afraid To Be? (& Why You Will Become Him)’ https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xv3wIf4IrGI A special thanks to our sponsor Rugged Legacy Grooming Supply. Look, Feel, and Be your best with personal hair, beard, and grooming products recommended by top relationship and style specialists. And, unlike other brands, Rugged Legacy designs its products with all-natural oils and scents, made right here in the USA. Use code: IWYK20 for a 20% Exclusive I Wish You Knew Discount https://ruggedlegacygrooming.com/ Want to become one of the 2% of content creators who make over a million dollars a year? Veritas Creative Academy offers exclusive access to resources from industry experts. Master the latest trends, learn proven strategies that work, finally hit the 7-figure mark, and become internationally recognized and celebrated: https://veritascreative.media/creator-academy/ Need more help with your attachment? Work with Adam: www.adamlanesmith.com ------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Follow Adeyemi Adeyosoye: -------------------------------------------------- Website: https://www.adeyemiadeyosoye.com Instagram:https://www.instagram.com/adeyemiadeyosoye TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@adeyemiadeyosoye Twitter /X: https://twitter.com/RikkiCloos LinkedIn: https://uk.linkedin.com/in/adeyemia YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC5_dNjdSTZWN32XyCLD1LVg -------------------------------------------------- Follow the “I Wish You Knew” Podcast: -------------------------------------------------- Website: https://iwishyouknew.show/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/theiwishyouknewpodcast/ Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@iwishyouknewshow Snapchat: https://www.snapchat.com/iwishyouknewpod Twitter /X: https://twitter.com/iwishyouknewpod Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/4Ncc0MBgm04xTIQ5ByiCGI Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/i-wish-you-knew/id1713427809 -------------------------------------------------- Follow Adam Lane Smith: -------------------------------------------------- Website: https://adamlanesmith.com/ Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCBO093GsMmnA9tb8lZPhbgg Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/attachmentadam/ Twitter /X: https://twitter.com/TheBrometheus Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@attachmentbro -------------------------------------------------- Follow Andrey Korikov: -------------------------------------------------- Website: https://veritascreative.media/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/andreykorikov/ Business Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/veritascreative.media/ LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/andreykorikov Twitter /X: https://twitter.com/andreykorikov?lang=en The next episode drops Thursday :) See you there.

Sep 6, 20241h 1m

Ep 43Why Are Modern Men So Miserable? Andrew Shaw Reveals the Shocking Truth

🎙️ Welcome to the latest episode of "I Wish You Knew" with Adam Lane Smith, the attachment specialist, and Andrey Korikov, CEO and co-founder of Veritas Creative Media. This week, we’re thrilled to feature Andrew Shaw, a psychologist and mental resilience coach. Get ready for an engaging deep dive into the modern challenges of masculinity and the limiting beliefs holding men back. In this episode, Andrew Shaw unpacks the profound impact of social media on men's mental health and navigates the confusion surrounding masculinity in today's world. Tune in for a thought-provoking and enlightening conversation that will help you discover true happiness and contentment in our increasingly complex world. ✨ Moments You Can’t Miss ✨: 👉 The impact of social media and constant information overload on men's mental health and well-being. 👉 The confusion surrounding modern masculinity and the challenges men face in 2024. 👉 Expert advice on overcoming limiting beliefs and the importance of self-awareness. 👉 How routines, systems, and quality relationships can reduce decision fatigue. 👉 Practical strategies for building routines and focusing on core values to find happiness and contentment. 👉 The role of emotional regulation and healthy relationships, especially when it comes to parenting. 👉 How community and support systems enhance life fulfillment. Whether you're struggling with the complexities of modern masculinity, aiming to break free from limiting beliefs, or seeking to enhance your self-awareness and emotional well-being, this episode delivers transformative insights and actionable advice you won't want to miss. 🎧 If you enjoyed this episode, you will probably love our episode titled ‘This is What Kids REALLY Need From Their Dads’ https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Z6cFhJ5sV3E&ab_channel=IWishYouKnewPodcast A special thanks to our sponsor Rugged Legacy Grooming Supply. Look, Feel, and Be your best with personal hair, beard, and grooming products recommended by top relationship and style specialists. And, unlike other brands, Rugged Legacy designs its products with all-natural oils and scents, made right here in the USA. Use code: IWYK20 for a 20% Exclusive I Wish You Knew Discount https://ruggedlegacygrooming.com/ Want to become one of the 2% of content creators who make over a million dollars a year? Veritas Creative Academy offers exclusive access to resources from industry experts. Master the latest trends, learn proven strategies that work, finally hit the 7-figure mark, and become internationally recognized and celebrated: https://veritascreative.media/creator-academy/ Need more help with your attachment? Work with Adam: www.adamlanesmith.com ------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Follow Andrew Shaw: -------------------------------------------------- Website: https://andrewshawbsc.com/ Instagram:https://www.instagram.com/andrewshawbsc/ Twitter /X: https://x.com/andrewshawbsc Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/andrewshawbsc LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/andrewmshawbsc/ -------------------------------------------------- Follow the “I Wish You Knew” Podcast: -------------------------------------------------- Website: https://iwishyouknew.show/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/theiwishyouknewpodcast/ Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@iwishyouknewshow Snapchat: https://www.snapchat.com/iwishyouknewpod Twitter /X: https://twitter.com/iwishyouknewpod Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/4Ncc0MBgm04xTIQ5ByiCGI Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/i-wish-you-knew/id1713427809 -------------------------------------------------- Follow Adam Lane Smith: -------------------------------------------------- Website: https://adamlanesmith.com/ Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCBO093GsMmnA9tb8lZPhbgg Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/attachmentadam/ Twitter /X: https://twitter.com/TheBrometheus Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@attachmentbro -------------------------------------------------- Follow Andrey Korikov: -------------------------------------------------- Website: https://veritascreative.media/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/andreykorikov/ Business Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/veritascreative.media/ LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/andreykorikov Twitter /X: https://twitter.com/andreykorikov?lang=en The next episode drops Thursday :) See you there.

Aug 30, 202435 min

Ep 42Sabastian Enges Explains Why 40% of Americans Fear Civil War

🎙️ Welcome to the latest episode of "I Wish You Knew" with Adam Lane Smith and Sebastian Angus, a motivational coach and consultant with extensive experience in building successful sales teams and analyzing market dynamics. This week, we’re diving into a compelling discussion on the current societal shifts and the crucial role of conflict in personal and professional growth. In this episode, we explore the ongoing societal changes and how conflict, whether internal or external, plays a vital role in shaping our lives. Sebastian Angus shares his insights on why understanding and navigating conflict is essential for personal development and successful relationships. Join us as we unravel how conflict can lead to deeper self-awareness and how the current generation's approach to conflict is affecting their ability to connect and thrive. ✨ Episode Must-Watch Moments ✨: 👉 The evolving role of conflict in personal and professional growth, and why it’s more important than ever. 👉 Sebastian Angus’s insights on how handling conflict effectively can lead to deeper self-awareness and stronger connections. 👉 The impact of current societal shifts on how we perceive and manage conflict. 👉 Strategies for using conflict as a tool for personal and relational improvement. 👉 How understanding and navigating conflict can enhance your professional success and personal relationships. If you’re interested in how conflict shapes our lives and how to turn challenges into opportunities for growth, this episode offers valuable insights to help you thrive. 🎧 If you enjoyed this episode, you will probably love our episode titled ‘Will We Even Recognize Society & Relationships in 20 Years?’ https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=VAry0pjM0Is&feature=youtu.be A special thanks to our sponsor Rugged Legacy Grooming Supply. Look, Feel, and Be your best with personal hair, beard, and grooming products recommended by top relationship and style specialists. And, unlike other brands, Rugged Legacy designs its products with all-natural oils and scents, made right here in the USA. Use code: IWYK20 for a 20% Exclusive I Wish You Knew Discount https://ruggedlegacygrooming.com/ Want to become one of the 2% of content creators who make over a million dollars a year? Veritas Creative Academy offers exclusive access to resources from industry experts. Master the latest trends, learn proven strategies that work, finally hit the 7-figure mark, and become internationally recognized and celebrated: https://veritascreative.media/creator-academy/ Need more help with your attachment? Work with Adam: www.adamlanesmith.com ------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Follow Sabastian Enges: -------------------------------------------------- Website: https://sabastianenges.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/sabastianenges/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/sabastianenges/ Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@sabastianenges Twitter /X: https://twitter.com/sabastianenges Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCjGbjFiaMs3U6yATyyLvz4Q LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/sabastianenges/ Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/5F79r0R7fn1wi7PDy5l5U7 Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/SabastianEnges Threads: https://www.threads.net/@sabastianenges -------------------------------------------------- Follow the “I Wish You Knew” Podcast: -------------------------------------------------- Website: https://iwishyouknew.show/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/theiwishyouknewpodcast/ Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@iwishyouknewshow Snapchat: https://www.snapchat.com/iwishyouknewpod Twitter /X: https://twitter.com/iwishyouknewpod Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/4Ncc0MBgm04xTIQ5ByiCGI Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/i-wish-you-knew/id1713427809 -------------------------------------------------- Follow Adam Lane Smith: -------------------------------------------------- Website: https://adamlanesmith.com/ Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCBO093GsMmnA9tb8lZPhbgg Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/attachmentadam/ Twitter /X: https://twitter.com/TheBrometheus Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@attachmentbro -------------------------------------------------- Follow Andrey Korikov: -------------------------------------------------- Website: https://veritascreative.media/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/andreykorikov/ Business Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/veritascreative.media/ LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/andreykorikov Twitter /X: https://twitter.com/andreykorikov?lang=en The next episode drops Thursday :) See you there.

Aug 23, 20241h 9m

Ep 41Dr. Orion Taban Unveils the Future of Marriage

🎙️ Welcome to the latest episode of "I Wish You Knew" with Adam Lane Smith, the attachment specialist, and Andrey Korikov, CEO and co-founder of Veritas Creative Media. This week, we're excited to welcome Dr. Orion Taraban, an expert on transactional relationships and high-value dynamics, for a provocative discussion on the hidden aspects of relationships and marriage. In this episode, we dive deep into the nature of transactional relationships and the impact of perceived value in romantic connections. Dr. Taraban, who specializes in analyzing the economic models of relationships, offers eye-opening insights into why relationships can feel transactional and how high-value men and women navigate the dating landscape. ✨ Episode Must-Watch Moments ✨: 👉 The surprising truth about how relationships are inherently transactional. 👉 Why some high-value individuals struggle to maintain relationships and what that means for their dating lives. 👉 Dr. Taraban’s perspective on the evolving relevance of marriage and its impact on modern relationships. 👉 How the concept of "high value" versus "low value" influences dating and relationship satisfaction. 👉 The role of emotional intimacy and attraction in making relationships feel less transactional. Whether you're curious about the dynamics of transactional relationships, trying to understand high-value concepts, or questioning the future of marriage, this episode is filled with thought-provoking insights that can reshape your understanding of relationships. 🎧 If you enjoyed this episode, you will probably love our episode titled ‘How Men and Women Deal with Breakups (And Maybe Forgive)’ https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=DlMW80uMwwk A special thanks to our sponsor Rugged Legacy Grooming Supply. Look, Feel, and Be your best with personal hair, beard, and grooming products recommended by top relationship and style specialists. And, unlike other brands, Rugged Legacy designs its products with all-natural oils and scents, made right here in the USA. Use code: IWYK20 for a 20% Exclusive I Wish You Knew Discount https://ruggedlegacygrooming.com/ Want to become one of the 2% of content creators who make over a million dollars a year? Veritas Creative Academy offers exclusive access to resources from industry experts. Master the latest trends, learn proven strategies that work, finally hit the 7-figure mark, and become internationally recognized and celebrated: https://veritascreative.media/creator-academy/ Need more help with your attachment? Work with Adam: www.adamlanesmith.com ------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Follow Dr. Orion Taraban: -------------------------------------------------- Website: https://oriontarabanpsyd.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/psyc.hacks/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/people/PsycHacks/100090053889622/ Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@oriontaraban Twitter /X: https://twitter.com/oriontaraban LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/orion-taraban-070b45168/ -------------------------------------------------- Follow the “I Wish You Knew” Podcast: -------------------------------------------------- Website: https://iwishyouknew.show/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/theiwishyouknewpodcast/ Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@iwishyouknewshow Snapchat: https://www.snapchat.com/iwishyouknewpod Twitter /X: https://twitter.com/iwishyouknewpod Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/4Ncc0MBgm04xTIQ5ByiCGI Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/i-wish-you-knew/id1713427809 -------------------------------------------------- Follow Adam Lane Smith: -------------------------------------------------- Website: https://adamlanesmith.com/ Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCBO093GsMmnA9tb8lZPhbgg Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/attachmentadam/ Twitter /X: https://twitter.com/TheBrometheus Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@attachmentbro -------------------------------------------------- Follow Andrey Korikov: -------------------------------------------------- Website: https://veritascreative.media/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/andreykorikov/ Business Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/veritascreative.media/ LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/andreykorikov Twitter /X: https://twitter.com/andreykorikov?lang=en The next episode drops Thursday :) See you there.

Aug 16, 20241h 25m

Ep 40Men, Listen Up! Dr. Alyssa Marie on Female Brain & Emotional Struggles

🎙️ Welcome to the latest episode of "I Wish You Knew" with Adam Lane Smith, the attachment specialist, and Andrey Korikov, CEO and co-founder of Veritas Creative Media. This week, we’re thrilled to have Alyssa Marie from Alyssa Marie Wellness, a dedicated advocate for mental health and wellness, to discuss the unseen stress women face, the real meaning behind "I'm fine," and the crucial role of therapy in relationships. In this episode, Alyssa Marie sheds light on the dynamics of anxious and avoidant attachment styles, offering strategies for navigating these challenges. We also discuss how therapy can be a powerful tool in bridging gaps and fostering deeper connections. Tune in for a rich conversation on understanding emotional needs and enhancing relationship fulfillment. ✨ Key Takeaways from This Episode ✨: 👉 The hidden stress women carry in relationships and how it affects emotional well-being and relationship dynamics. 👉 The role of anxious and avoidant attachment styles in shaping relationship experiences. 👉 Alyssa Marie’s expert insights on balancing emotional needs and the role of therapy in deepening connections. 👉 Practical advice on recognizing and addressing the common pitfalls in communication between partners. 👉 The role of coaching and therapy in bridging gaps and enhancing understanding between partners. 👉 Strategies for improving emotional communication and support in relationships. Whether you’re navigating anxious-avoidant dynamics, seeking deeper connection, or aiming to understand emotional patterns, this episode offers transformative insights and practical advice. 🎧 If you enjoyed this episode, you will probably love our episode titled ‘Dr. John Delony “ The secret to Happy Marriages is Arguments”’ https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rsYajyA3kfU&list=PLCx2LZCCfdk6R3bL3KewCKp4Z2IDxUuzF&index=15&ab_channel=IWishYouKnewPodcast A special thanks to our sponsor Rugged Legacy Grooming Supply. Look, Feel, and Be your best with personal hair, beard, and grooming products recommended by top relationship and style specialists. And, unlike other brands, Rugged Legacy designs its products with all-natural oils and scents, made right here in the USA. Use code: IWYK20 for a 20% Exclusive I Wish You Knew Discount https://ruggedlegacygrooming.com/ Want to become one of the 2% of content creators who make over a million dollars a year? Veritas Creative Academy offers exclusive access to resources from industry experts. Master the latest trends, learn proven strategies that work, finally hit the 7-figure mark, and become internationally recognized and celebrated: https://veritascreative.media/creator-academy/ Need more help with your attachment? Work with Adam: www.adamlanesmith.com ------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Follow Alyssa Marie: -------------------------------------------------- Website: https://www.alyssamariewellness.com/ Instagram:https://www.instagram.com/alyssamariewellness/ Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@alyssamariewellness Twitter /X: https://x.com/LiaMancao Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/alyssamariewellness/ LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/alyssamancao Amazon: https://www.amazon.com/shop/alyssamariewellness -------------------------------------------------- Follow the “I Wish You Knew” Podcast: -------------------------------------------------- Website: https://iwishyouknew.show/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/theiwishyouknewpodcast/ Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@iwishyouknewshow Snapchat: https://www.snapchat.com/iwishyouknewpod Twitter /X: https://twitter.com/iwishyouknewpod Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/4Ncc0MBgm04xTIQ5ByiCGI Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/i-wish-you-knew/id1713427809 -------------------------------------------------- Follow Adam Lane Smith: -------------------------------------------------- Website: https://adamlanesmith.com/ Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCBO093GsMmnA9tb8lZPhbgg Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/attachmentadam/ Twitter /X: https://twitter.com/TheBrometheus Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@attachmentbro -------------------------------------------------- Follow Andrey Korikov: -------------------------------------------------- Website: https://veritascreative.media/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/andreykorikov/ Business Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/veritascreative.media/ LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/andreykorikov Twitter /X: https://twitter.com/andreykorikov?lang=en The next episode drops Thursday :) See you there.

Aug 9, 20241h 23m

Ep 39Attachment Experts Expose The MIND GAMES of Anxious-Avoidant Couples

🎙️ Welcome to the latest episode of "I Wish You Knew" with Adam Lane Smith, the attachment specialist, and Andrey Korikov, CEO and co-founder of Veritas Creative Media. This week, we're thrilled to have Rikki Cloos, a guide to anxious hearts, join us for an enlightening discussion on attachment styles, relationships, and gender roles. In this episode, we delve into the intricacies of attachment styles and the keys to forming more connected and satisfying relationships through the lens of attachment theory. Rikki Cloos, who helps anxiously attached people through her extensive research in attachment theory, shares valuable insights on healing anxious attachment and finding balance in relationships. ✨ Episode Must-Watch Moments ✨: 👉 The critical role of understanding attachment styles in relationships. 👉 Why avoidant individuals may struggle to express love and how this impacts their connections. 👉 Insightful experiences from Adam Lane Smith and Rikki Cloos on navigating anxious and avoidant attachments. 👉 The influence of upbringing and cultural factors on our attachment styles. 👉 Strategies for managing emotional triggers and fostering healthier, more authentic relationships. 👉 How understanding attachment styles can lead to more connected and satisfying relationships. Whether you're navigating an anxious-avoidant relationship, trying to understand your attachment style, or simply curious about the dynamics of human connections, this episode is packed with valuable insights that can transform your perspective. 🎧 If you enjoyed this episode, you will probably love our episode titled ‘Inside the Mind of Avoidant Men (How It Shapes Relationships)’ https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=kbeNaweVofs&ab_channel=IWishYouKnewPodcast A special thanks to our sponsor Rugged Legacy Grooming Supply. Look, Feel, and Be your best with personal hair, beard, and grooming products recommended by top relationship and style specialists. And, unlike other brands, Rugged Legacy designs its products with all-natural oils and scents, made right here in the USA. Use code: IWYK20 for a 20% Exclusive I Wish You Knew Discount https://ruggedlegacygrooming.com/ Want to become one of the 2% of content creators who make over a million dollars a year? Veritas Creative Academy offers exclusive access to resources from industry experts. Master the latest trends, learn proven strategies that work, finally hit the 7-figure mark, and become internationally recognized and celebrated: https://veritascreative.media/creator-academy/ Need more help with your attachment? Work with Adam: www.adamlanesmith.com ------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Follow Rikki Cloos: -------------------------------------------------- Website: https://www.anxiousheartsguide.com/ Instagram:https://www.instagram.com/anxiousheartsguide/?hl Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@anxiousheartsguide Twitter /X: https://twitter.com/RikkiCloos LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/rikkirogers -------------------------------------------------- Follow the “I Wish You Knew” Podcast: -------------------------------------------------- Website: https://iwishyouknew.show/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/theiwishyouknewpodcast/ Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@iwishyouknewshow Snapchat: https://www.snapchat.com/iwishyouknewpod Twitter /X: https://twitter.com/iwishyouknewpod Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/4Ncc0MBgm04xTIQ5ByiCGI Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/i-wish-you-knew/id1713427809 -------------------------------------------------- Follow Adam Lane Smith: -------------------------------------------------- Website: https://adamlanesmith.com/ Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCBO093GsMmnA9tb8lZPhbgg Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/attachmentadam/ Twitter /X: https://twitter.com/TheBrometheus Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@attachmentbro -------------------------------------------------- Follow Andrey Korikov: -------------------------------------------------- Website: https://veritascreative.media/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/andreykorikov/ Business Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/veritascreative.media/ LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/andreykorikov Twitter /X: https://twitter.com/andreykorikov?lang=en The next episode drops Thursday :) See you there.

Aug 2, 20241h 4m

Ep 38Greg Witz on the Real Reason Leaders Struggle with Team Dynamics

🎙️ Welcome to the latest episode of "I Wish You Knew" with Adam Lane Smith, the attachment specialist, and Andrey Korikov, CEO and co-founder of Veritas Creative Media. This week, we're excited to have Greg Witz, emotional intelligence expert and president and CEO of Witz Education, join us to explore the world of emotional intelligence in leadership. In this episode, we dive into the importance of emotional intelligence for effective leadership. Learn how self-awareness and emotional regulation can transform team dynamics and enhance business relationships. Greg Witz shares insights on how understanding and managing emotions are key to personal and organizational success. ✨ Episode Gems ✨: 👉 The critical role of emotional intelligence in leadership and personal relationships. 👉 How avoidant attachment styles impact leadership and why they can lead to a lack of genuine connection and loyalty. 👉 Real-life experiences from Adam Lane Smith and Greg Witz on navigating complex emotional landscapes. 👉 The impact of upbringing and cultural influences on our communication and attachment styles. 👉 How to manage emotional triggers and build healthier, more authentic relationships. 👉 Why leaders must evolve their emotional intelligence to maintain trust and loyalty within their teams. Whether you're a leader grappling with attachment styles, navigating a tough relationship, or simply curious about the dynamics of the human psyche, this episode is filled with valuable insights that can transform your perspective. 🎧 If you enjoyed this episode, you will probably love our episode titled ‘Inside the Mind of Avoidant Men (How It Shapes Relationships)’ https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=kbeNaweVofs&ab A special thanks to our sponsor Rugged Legacy Grooming Supply. Look, Feel, and Be your best with personal hair, beard, and grooming products recommended by top relationship and style specialists. And, unlike other brands, Rugged Legacy designs its products with all-natural oils and scents, made right here in the USA. Use code: IWYK20 for a 20% Exclusive I Wish You Knew Discount https://ruggedlegacygrooming.com/ Want to become one of the 2% of content creators who make over a million dollars a year? Veritas Creative Academy offers exclusive access to resources from industry experts. Master the latest trends, learn proven strategies that work, finally hit the 7-figure mark, and become internationally recognized and celebrated: https://veritascreative.media/creator-academy/ Need more help with your attachment? Work with Adam: www.adamlanesmith.com ------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Follow Greg Witz: -------------------------------------------------- Website: https://www.witzeducation.com/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/user/WitzEducationTV Instagram:https://www.instagram.com/gmwitz/ Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@gregwitz Twitter /X: https://twitter.com/gregwitz Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/witzeducation/ LinkedIn: https://ca.linkedin.com/in/gregwitz -------------------------------------------------- Follow the “I Wish You Knew” Podcast: -------------------------------------------------- Website: https://iwishyouknew.show/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/theiwishyouknewpodcast/ Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@iwishyouknewshow Snapchat: https://www.snapchat.com/iwishyouknewpod Twitter /X: https://twitter.com/iwishyouknewpod Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/4Ncc0MBgm04xTIQ5ByiCGI Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/i-wish-you-knew/id1713427809 -------------------------------------------------- Follow Adam Lane Smith: -------------------------------------------------- Website: https://adamlanesmith.com/ Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCBO093GsMmnA9tb8lZPhbgg Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/attachmentadam/ Twitter /X: https://twitter.com/TheBrometheus Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@attachmentbro -------------------------------------------------- Follow Andrey Korikov: -------------------------------------------------- Website: https://veritascreative.media/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/andreykorikov/ Business Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/veritascreative.media/ LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/andreykorikov Twitter /X: https://twitter.com/andreykorikov?lang=en The next episode drops Thursday :) See you there.

Jul 26, 20241h 5m

Ep 37Mark Groves on Why We Stay in Toxic Relationships and How to Break Free

🎙️ Welcome to the latest episode of "I Wish You Knew" with Adam Lane Smith, the attachment specialist, and Andrey Korikov, CEO and co-founder of Veritas Creative Media. This week, we're joined by special guest Mark Groves to delve into the complexities of relationships, trust, and authenticity. In this episode, we explore why trust is essential in relationships, how empathy can transform even the most hardened individuals, and what really goes on in the mind of a criminal. We discuss the profound impact of understanding and caring about others' pain, and why these elements are crucial for personal and societal growth. ✨ Top Highlights ✨: 👉 The critical role of trust in building and maintaining healthy relationships. 👉 Why empathy is crucial for understanding others' pain and fostering deeper connections. 👉 Insights into the criminal mind and how their thought processes differ from the norm. 👉 How over-medication can numb powerful emotions and disconnect us from our true feelings. 👉 The impact of upbringing and cultural influences on our ability to apologize and communicate authentically. 👉 The paradox of love and hurt, and why we often fear the very thing we crave. 👉 Real-life experiences from Adam Lane Smith with death row inmates. Join us for a raw and real conversation about love, pain, and the path to true happiness. Whether you're struggling with trust, navigating a tough relationship, or just curious about the human psyche, this episode is packed with insights that can change your life. 🎧 If you enjoyed this episode, you will probably love our episode titled ‘Alex Clark on The Surprising Truths About SSRIs, Equality & The War on Kids’ https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Hg6gfWmbFNY&ab A special thanks to our sponsor Rugged Legacy Grooming Supply. Look, Feel, and Be your best with personal hair, beard, and grooming products recommended by top relationship and style specialists. And, unlike other brands, Rugged Legacy designs its products with all-natural oils and scents, made right here in the USA. Use code: IWYK20 for a 20% Exclusive I Wish You Knew Discount https://ruggedlegacygrooming.com/ Want to become one of the 2% of content creators who make over a million dollars a year? Veritas Creative Academy offers exclusive access to resources from industry experts. Master the latest trends, learn proven strategies that work, finally hit the 7-figure mark, and become internationally recognized and celebrated: https://veritascreative.media/creator-academy/ Need more help with your attachment? Work with Adam: www.adamlanesmith.com ------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Follow Mark Groves: -------------------------------------------------- Website: https://markgroves.com/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UClgLCOnztdrdu6qAOH-PVdA Instagram:https://www.instagram.com/createthelove/?hl=en Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@createthelove Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/createthelove/ Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/5se5aQBcki87JV3zo1RYSi?si=3ff0358a5b454a48 Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-mark-groves-podcast/id1282044290 -------------------------------------------------- Follow the “I Wish You Knew” Podcast: -------------------------------------------------- Website: https://iwishyouknew.show/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/theiwishyouknewpodcast/ Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@iwishyouknewshow Snapchat: https://www.snapchat.com/iwishyouknewpod Twitter /X: https://twitter.com/iwishyouknewpod Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/4Ncc0MBgm04xTIQ5ByiCGI Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/i-wish-you-knew/id1713427809 -------------------------------------------------- Follow Adam Lane Smith: -------------------------------------------------- Website: https://adamlanesmith.com/ Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCBO093GsMmnA9tb8lZPhbgg Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/attachmentadam/ Twitter /X: https://twitter.com/TheBrometheus Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@attachmentbro -------------------------------------------------- Follow Andrey Korikov: -------------------------------------------------- Website: https://veritascreative.media/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/andreykorikov/ Business Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/veritascreative.media/ LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/andreykorikov Twitter /X: https://twitter.com/andreykorikov?lang=en The next episode drops Thursday :) See you there.

Jul 19, 20241h 10m

Ep 36Dr. John Delony “ The secret to Happy Marriages is Arguments “

🎙️ Welcome to the latest episode of "I Wish You Knew" with Adam Lane Smith, the attachment specialist, Andrey Korikov, CEO and co-founder of Veritas Creative Media, and special guest John Delony, featuring insightful discussions on marriage, manhood, relationship dynamics, and personal growth. This week, we dive deep into the transformative journey of reviving marital passion, understanding the importance of regular physical presence, and addressing modern emotional challenges. Join us as we explore the critical role of non-verbal communication in relationships, the importance of consistent family time, and the impact of unresolved childhood traumas on adult relationships. We also discuss how to effectively manage conflicts, embrace emotional vulnerability, and foster deeper connections with loved ones. ✨ Takeaways You Can’t Miss ✨: 👉 The critical role of physical touch and presence in building and maintaining emotional connections within families. 👉 Practical tips for managing anxiety and fostering emotional resilience through self-reflection and conflict de-escalation. 👉 How fathers can model healthy behaviors and the complexities of balancing masculinity with emotional openness. 👉 The impact of societal pressures on men's mental health and strategies for managing these challenges. 👉 Strategies for building a conflict-proof family environment through open communication and consistent emotional presence. 👉 The importance of regular family dinners and consistent interactions in fostering deep emotional connections and reducing loneliness. 👉 The benefits of in-person interactions over digital communication for deepening emotional bonds. Whether you're ready to transform your relationships, craving deeper emotional bonds, or eager to unlock the secrets of true connection, this episode delivers powerful and actionable insights that you simply can't afford to miss! 🎧 If you enjoyed this episode, you will probably love our episode titled ‘Are You Unknowingly Hurting Your Marriage?’ https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=v2rMCjl5Z5k A special thanks to our sponsor Rugged Legacy Grooming Supply. Look, Feel, and Be your best with personal hair, beard, and grooming products recommended by top relationship and style specialists. And, unlike other brands, Rugged Legacy designs its products with all-natural oils and scents, made right here in the USA. Use code: IWYK20 for a 20% Exclusive I Wish You Knew Discount https://ruggedlegacygrooming.com/ Want to become one of the 2% of content creators who make over a million dollars a year? Veritas Creative Academy offers exclusive access to resources from industry experts. Master the latest trends, learn proven strategies that work, finally hit the 7-figure mark, and become internationally recognized and celebrated: https://veritascreative.media/creator-academy/ Need more help with your attachment? Work with Adam: www.adamlanesmith.com ------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Follow John Delony: -------------------------------------------------- Website: https://www.ramseysolutions.com/john-delony YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/johndelony Instagram:https://instagram.com/johndelony Tiktok: https://tiktok.com/@johndelony Twitter /X: https://x.com/johndelony Facebook:https://www.facebook.com/JohnDelony/ -------------------------------------------------- Follow the “I Wish You Knew” Podcast: -------------------------------------------------- Website: https://iwishyouknew.show/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/theiwishyouknewpodcast/ Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@iwishyouknewshow Snapchat: https://www.snapchat.com/iwishyouknewpod Twitter /X: https://twitter.com/iwishyouknewpod Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/4Ncc0MBgm04xTIQ5ByiCGI Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/i-wish-you-knew/id1713427809 -------------------------------------------------- Follow Adam Lane Smith: -------------------------------------------------- Website: https://adamlanesmith.com/ Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCBO093GsMmnA9tb8lZPhbgg Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/attachmentadam/ Twitter /X: https://twitter.com/TheBrometheus Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@attachmentbro -------------------------------------------------- Follow Andrey Korikov: -------------------------------------------------- Website: https://veritascreative.media/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/andreykorikov/ Business Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/veritascreative.media/ LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/andreykorikov Twitter /X: https://twitter.com/andreykorikov?lang=en The next episode drops Thursday :) See you there.

Jul 12, 20241h 19m

Ep 35How Men and Women Deal with Breakups (And Maybe Forgive) |E36 | I Wish You Knew Podcast

🎙️ Welcome to the latest episode of "I Wish You Knew" with Adam Lane Smith, the attachment specialist, Andrey Korikov, CEO and co-founder of Veritas Creative Media, and special guest Cole Zesiger, relationship advisor and coach. Join us as we discuss the evolutionary reasons behind breakup pain, the necessity of behavioral changes for reconciliation, and the importance of accountability. We also delve into the differences in how men and women process breakups, the impact of infidelity, and the steps to rebuild trust and move on. Don't miss this insightful episode filled with expert advice and practical tips for navigating the aftermath of a breakup and finding a path to healing and growth. ✨ Highlights You Can’t Miss: 👉 The impact of infidelity, and the importance of forgiveness and accountability in the aftermath. 👉 The emotional and psychological impact of breakups and why every breakup is equally hard. 👉 The evolutionary reasons behind why breakups are so painful 👉 The importance of community support in overcoming heartache and breakups. 👉 Practical tips for self-forgiveness and rebuilding trust after a breakup. 👉 The necessity of behavioral changes for successful reconciliation and avoiding the repetition of past mistakes. 👉 How different cultural practices can influence relationship dynamics and expectations. Whether you're navigating the aftermath of a breakup, seeking to understand the emotional impact, or aiming to rebuild trust and move on, this episode offers profound and actionable insights you won’t want to miss! 🎧 If you enjoyed this episode, you will probably love our episode titled ‘Why Men Avoid Vulnerability’: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_mXKcUsfwHU&ab_channel=IWishYouKnewPodcast A special thanks to our sponsor Rugged Legacy Grooming Supply. Look, Feel, and Be your best with personal hair, beard, and grooming products recommended by top relationship and style specialists. And, unlike other brands, Rugged Legacy designs its products with all-natural oils and scents, made right here in the USA. Use code: IWYK20 for a 20% Exclusive I Wish You Knew Discount https://ruggedlegacygrooming.com/ Want to become one of the 2% of content creators who make over a million dollars a year? Veritas Creative Academy offers exclusive access to resources from industry experts. Master the latest trends, learn proven strategies that work, finally hit the 7-figure mark, and become internationally recognized and celebrated: https://veritascreative.media/creator-academy/ Need more help with your attachment? Work with Adam: www.adamlanesmith.com ------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Follow Cole Zesiger -------------------------------------------------- Website: https://coachcolezesiger.com/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCbR-Co-YONE96kmIsxQPstA Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/coachcolezesiger/ Twitter /X: https://twitter.com/colezesiger?lang=en Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/t/ZTdcm8oRf Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/cole.zesiger/ -------------------------------------------------- Follow the “I Wish You Knew” Podcast: -------------------------------------------------- Website: https://iwishyouknew.show/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/theiwishyouknewpodcast/ Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@iwishyouknewshow Snapchat: https://www.snapchat.com/iwishyouknewpod Twitter /X: https://twitter.com/iwishyouknewpod Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/4Ncc0MBgm04xTIQ5ByiCGI Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/i-wish-you-knew/id1713427809 -------------------------------------------------- Follow Adam Lane Smith: -------------------------------------------------- Website: https://adamlanesmith.com/ Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCBO093GsMmnA9tb8lZPhbgg Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/attachmentadam/ Twitter /X: https://twitter.com/TheBrometheus Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@attachmentbro Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/AdamLaneSmith/ -------------------------------------------------- Follow Andrey Korikov: -------------------------------------------------- Website: https://veritascreative.media/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/andreykorikov/ Business Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/veritascreative.media/ LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/andreykorikov Twitter /X: https://twitter.com/andreykorikov?lang=en The next episode drops Thursday :) See you there.

Jul 5, 20241h 33m

Ep 34Will We Even Recognize Society & Relationships in 20 Years? |E35 | I Wish You Knew Podcast

🎙️ Welcome to the latest episode of "I Wish You Knew" with Adam Lane Smith, the attachment specialist, Andrey Korikov, CEO and co-founder of Veritas Creative Media, and special guest Markku Wilenius, renowned futurist, award-winning author, professor, and speaker with more than 25 years of experience in future studies. This episode features insightful discussions on the future of relationships, marriage, and society. This week, we explore the concept of marriage as a commitment in a world that values pure freedom and self-pleasure, and how to balance these ideals to avoid chaos. ✨ Key Highlights ✨: 👉 The responsibility aspect of maintaining a healthy and passionate marriage. 👉 How marriage can feel obsolete when the goal is pure freedom, self, or pleasure. 👉 How the value systems we have are shifting, trapping younger generations in fear, loneliness, and doubt. 👉 The dark side of Instagram as a dating app and how it facilitates cheating and undermines trust. 👉 What we can learn from Nordic societies to improve our own relationship dynamics. Join us as we explore what the future will look like for relationships and what future generations will be like in an evolving world. This episode delivers powerful and actionable insights that you simply can't afford to miss! 🎧 If you enjoyed this episode, you will probably love our episode titled ‘Who Are You Afraid To Be? (& Why You Will Become Him)’ https://youtu.be/xv3wIf4IrGI?feature=shared A special thanks to our sponsor Rugged Legacy Grooming Supply. Look, Feel, and Be your best with personal hair, beard, and grooming products recommended by top relationship and style specialists. And, unlike other brands, Rugged Legacy designs its products with all-natural oils and scents, made right here in the USA. Use code: IWYK20 for a 20% Exclusive I Wish You Knew Discount https://ruggedlegacygrooming.com/ Want to become one of the 2% of content creators who make over a million dollars a year? Veritas Creative Academy offers exclusive access to resources from industry experts. Master the latest trends, learn proven strategies that work, finally hit the 7-figure mark, and become internationally recognized and celebrated: https://veritascreative.media/creator-academy/ Need more help with your attachment? Work with Adam: www.adamlanesmith.com ------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Follow Markku Wilenius: -------------------------------------------------- Website: https://www.markkuwilenius.net/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCLW_OxbtOceklr8pu2apKDw Instagram:https://www.instagram.com/markkuwilenius/ Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@markkuwilenius Twitter /X: https://twitter.com/mwilenius LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/markku-wilenius-6776b212/ -------------------------------------------------- Follow the “I Wish You Knew” Podcast: -------------------------------------------------- Website: https://iwishyouknew.show/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/theiwishyouknewpodcast/ Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@iwishyouknewshow Snapchat: https://www.snapchat.com/iwishyouknewpod Twitter /X: https://twitter.com/iwishyouknewpod Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/4Ncc0MBgm04xTIQ5ByiCGI Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/i-wish-you-knew/id1713427809 -------------------------------------------------- Follow Adam Lane Smith: -------------------------------------------------- Website: https://adamlanesmith.com/ Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCBO093GsMmnA9tb8lZPhbgg Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/attachmentadam/ Twitter /X: https://twitter.com/TheBrometheus Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@attachmentbro -------------------------------------------------- Follow Andrey Korikov: -------------------------------------------------- Website: https://veritascreative.media/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/andreykorikov/ Business Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/veritascreative.media/ LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/andreykorikov Twitter /X: https://twitter.com/andreykorikov?lang=en The next episode drops Thursday :) See you there.

Jun 28, 20241h 19m

Ep 33Who Are You Afraid To Be? (& Why You Will Become Him) |E33 | I Wish You Knew Podcast

🎙️ Welcome to the latest episode of "I Wish You Knew" with Adam Lane Smith, the attachment specialist, Andrey Korikov, CEO and co-founder of Veritas Creative Media, and special guest Connor Beaton, featuring insightful discussions on men's psychological development and self-improvement. This week, we dive deep into the transformative journey of integrating the shadow, building emotional connections, and understanding the deeper concepts of masculinity and self-awareness. Join us as we explore the critical role of addressing and integrating one's psychological shadow, the importance of vulnerability, and the impact of unmet needs and traumas from childhood on men's mental health. We also discuss how to navigate the challenges of modern masculinity, turn obstacles into growth opportunities, and achieve true connection with oneself and others. ✨ Key Insights and Takeaways: 👉 The long-term effects and impact of suppressing the psychological shadow on men's behavior and emotional resilience. 👉 The importance of integrating one's shadow and balancing vulnerability with strength. 👉 Practical tips for fostering deep emotional connections and self-acceptance. 👉 The importance of role models and the difficulties men encounter in comprehending and embracing their masculinity. 👉 Understanding the stereotype of the "nice guy syndrome" and how to break free from it. 👉 Strategies for managing the pressures of modern masculinity and creating supportive environments for personal growth. Whether you're looking to improve your self-awareness, seeking to build stronger emotional bonds, or aiming to understand the true essence of masculinity, this episode offers profound and actionable insights you won’t want to miss! 🎧 If you enjoyed this episode, you will probably love our episode titled ‘This is What Kids REALLY Need From Their Dads’ https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Z6cFhJ5sV3E A special thanks to our sponsor Rugged Legacy Grooming Supply. Look, Feel, and Be your best with personal hair, beard, and grooming products recommended by top relationship and style specialists. And, unlike other brands, Rugged Legacy designs its products with all-natural oils and scents, made right here in the USA. Use code: IWYK20 for a 20% Exclusive I Wish You Knew Discount https://ruggedlegacygrooming.com/ Want to become one of the 2% of content creators who make over a million dollars a year? Veritas Creative Academy offers exclusive access to resources from industry experts. Master the latest trends, learn proven strategies that work, finally hit the 7-figure mark, and become internationally recognized and celebrated: https://veritascreative.media/creator-academy/ Need more help with your attachment? Work with Adam: www.adamlanesmith.com ------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Follow Connor Beaton Website: https://connorbeaton.com/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC2exoyYcKLknC5IWiwdAihQ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/mantalks/ Twitter /X: https://twitter.com/connorbeaton Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@mantalks Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/connor.beaton.1 LinkedIn: https://ca.linkedin.com/in/connorbeaton -------------------------------------------------- Follow the “I Wish You Knew” Podcast: -------------------------------------------------- Website: https://iwishyouknew.show/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/theiwishyouknewpodcast/ Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@iwishyouknewshow Snapchat: https://www.snapchat.com/iwishyouknewpod Twitter /X: https://twitter.com/iwishyouknewpod Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/4Ncc0MBgm04xTIQ5ByiCGI Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/i-wish-you-knew/id1713427809 -------------------------------------------------- Follow Adam Lane Smith: -------------------------------------------------- Website: https://adamlanesmith.com/ Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCBO093GsMmnA9tb8lZPhbgg Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/attachmentadam/ Twitter /X: https://twitter.com/TheBrometheus Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@attachmentbro -------------------------------------------------- Follow Andrey Korikov: -------------------------------------------------- Website: https://veritascreative.media/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/andreykorikov/ Business Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/veritascreative.media/ LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/andreykorikov Twitter /X: https://twitter.com/andreykorikov?lang=en The next episode drops Thursday :) See you there.

Jun 21, 20241h 7m