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How to Lose the Wait

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S4 Ep 6565. The Power of Imperfect Action: Why Messy Progress is the Key to Your Dreams

Helping midlife women shift their mindset from perfectionism to intuitive, courageous, imperfect action, highlighting that progress—not perfection—is the true pathway to fulfillment.Source

Mar 31, 202532 min

S4 Ep 6464. How to Pursue Your Passions with Confidence: Overcoming Doubt amp; Fear

Have you ever felt paralyzed by fear and self-doubt, waiting for the perfect moment to pursue your passions? In this episode of "How to Lose the ‘Wait’," we tackle the fears that hold so many women back and provide practical tools to reframe fear as a catalyst for growth. Discover why fear exists, the common barriers women over 40 face, and how to build resilience. It’s time to stop letting fear dictate your decisions and start showing up for yourself. Ready to take the leap? Listen now and transform your mindset!Source

Mar 15, 202535 min

S4 Ep 6363. Quiet the Critic, Trust Your Gut, Transform Your Life: How Daily Habits Fuel a New Beginning

Ever feel like that little voice of doubt is holding you back? In the latest episode of How to Lose the ‘Wait’, I share a powerful Inner Silence Exercise that helps you quiet your inner critic and make room for new possibilities. It’s time to replace “I’m not enough” with “I am capable and ready to grow.” Tune in now and start your transformation journey!Source

Mar 2, 202521 min

S4 Ep 6262. Overcoming Self-Doubt: Intuition and Confidence Strategies for Women Over 50

Midlife can feel like a crossroads—a time of transformation and self-reflection. Many women grapple with self-doubt and disconnect from their intuition after years of prioritizing others. In our latest episode, we explore how to reclaim your intuitive wisdom and develop the self-trust needed to confidently navigate this stage of life. Discover why so many women lose touch with their inner knowing, the impact of societal conditioning, and practical steps to rebuild your confidence. If you’ve ever felt stuck or ignored your gut instincts, this episode will empower you to trust yourself and step boldly into the life you desire.Source

Feb 20, 202538 min

S4 Ep 6161. Unleashing Midlife Magic: How to Turn Life’s Transitions into Your Superpower

Midlife isn’t a season of decline—it’s a season of transformation! In this empowering episode, we’ll flip the script on navigating change and reclaim your personal power through intuition, self-trust, and confidence. Discover how to create your Midlife Manifesto, turning your vision into actionable steps that build momentum in your daily life. Whether you’re facing menopause, career shifts, or redefining relationships, each transition is an opportunity to rewrite your story. Join me and learn how small, intentional steps can lead to profound transformation. The time to act is now—embrace your next chapter with courage!Source

Feb 1, 202530 min

S4 Ep 6060. Living Without the Wait—How to Fully Step into Your Power

In this empowering episode of How to Lose the 'WAIT', Holly Toscanini dives deep into the invisible weight many midlife women carry—emotional baggage, self-doubt, limiting beliefs, and the fear of being too much or not enough. Holly challenges the myth that weight loss equals confidence, offering actionable steps to shed the emotional burdens holding you back and reclaim your power.Source

Jan 12, 202516 min

S4 Ep 5959. Stop Waiting for Permission: How to Build Unconditional Self-Confidence

Have you ever felt like you’re waiting for permission to finally feel confident—whether it’s permission to speak up, take up[...]Source

Dec 23, 202430 min

S4 Ep 5858. Why People Comment on Your Body (and How to Shut It Down)

In this empowering episode of How to Lose the ‘WAIT’, Holly Toscanini dives into why people feel compelled to comment[...]Source

Dec 7, 202417 min

S4 Ep 5757. Reclaiming Our Sacred Connection with Food

In this powerful episode of How to Lose the ‘WAIT’, host Holly Toscanini invites listeners to explore food as far[...]Source

Nov 24, 202419 min

S4 Ep 5656. The Sum of Our Parts 3- Reclaiming Every Part

In this 3rd and final installment, we move from understanding and challenging societal standards to fully embracing body sovereignty and[...]Source

Nov 17, 202416 min

S4 Ep 5555. The Sum of Our Parts 2- Breaking Free from the Age Cage, Embracing Mid-Life Power and Wisdom

In Part 2, Breaking Free from the Age Cage, Embracing Mid-Life Power and Wisdom, Holly exposes the pressure surrounding aging[...]Source

Nov 17, 202417 min

S4 Ep 5353. The Sum of Our Parts- Age, Wisdom, and the Power of Not Giving a Sh*t

In this 3-part series, The Sum of Our Parts, Holly peels back the layers of body-related insecurity, revealing where it[...]Source

Nov 17, 20243 min

S4 Ep 5454. The Sum of our Parts- Uncovering the Roots, Why Our Bodies Were Never the Problem

11/17/2024 In Part 1 of the Sum of Our Parts, “Uncovering the Roots, Why Our Bodies Were Never the Problem”, we explore where body insecurity begins and how societal standards, family dynamics, and media shape our perceptions from an early age. We trace the origins of body shame and insecurities that affect us throughout life, reinforcing the message that these are not flaws within us but external pressures imposed on us. By understanding these roots, we take the first step toward reclaiming compassion for ourselves and challenging the beliefs that keep us feeling “not enough.” Key Takeaways: Body insecurity is often rooted in societal standards and external influences, not personal flaws. Generational expectations add another layer to body shame, often passed down through family beliefs and cultural norms. Practicing self-compassion helps to release self-blame and enables you to embrace a healthier relationship with your body.

Nov 17, 202416 min

S4 Ep 5252. Why We’re Losing the ‘WAIT’: A New Beginning for Your Journey to Empowerment

The Say,’ When!’ podcast is now “How to Lose the ‘WAIT’ Stop Waiting. Start Living. Tell me, what kind of life do you really want? Do you feel like you’ve been waiting forever for your ‘real life’ to start? Maybe you’ve been holding out for the perfect body, the perfect job, or the perfect relationship, all the while feeling stuck in place. The constant feeling of not being enough—it’s exhausting. What if I told you that the reason you feel this way isn’t because you’re not trying hard enough? The truth is, we’ve been conditioned by a culture that profits from making us feel inadequate. But here’s the good news: you can break free from that story. Imagine what it would feel like to stop waiting and start living, to trust yourself completely, and to embrace who you are, right now. You don’t need to lose weight, get a promotion, or find the ‘perfect’ love to feel worthy. You already are. And your body, your intuition, and your soul are here to guide you. If you’ve ever felt like your life is on hold—waiting for the perfect body, job, or love to come along—this podcast is for you. How to Lose the ‘Wait’ is about more than just ditching diet culture. It’s about releasing the emotional weight that’s kept you from living fully and embracing your true self, right now.

Oct 26, 202421 min

S4 Ep 5151. Breaking Free from Beauty Myths: Embracing Radical Self-Love and Body Acceptance

In this episode, we unpack the powerful themes of body acceptance and radical self-love, drawing inspiration from two iconic works: The Beauty Myth by Naomi Wolf and The Body Is Not An Apology by Sonya Renee Taylor. Key Takeaways: The Beauty Myth: We explored how societal beauty standards have historically oppressed women, shifting our focus from our potential to our appearance, and discussed the importance of rejecting these harmful narratives. Radical Self-Love: Building on Sonya Renee Taylor’s work, we dove into the transformative idea of loving and embracing our bodies as they are—without conditions. A practical exercise and affirmations were shared to help you start this journey. Overcoming Obstacles: We addressed both internal (negative self-talk) and external (societal pressure) barriers to body acceptance, sharing strategies for overcoming these challenges, including a powerful testimonial from a listener named Rachel. Celebrating Your Body: Creative practices like the Body Gratitude Collage and joyful movement were highlighted as ways to foster body appreciation and self-expression. Community Support: We emphasized the importance of surrounding yourself with a supportive community and offered tips on how to find or build one that uplifts your body acceptance journey.

Oct 19, 202430 min

S4 Ep 5050. Speaking of Ourselves: How Language Shapes Women’s Reality

50. Speaking of Ourselves: How Language Shapes Women’s Reality Explore how words shape our reality, influence body image, and reinforce gender stereotypes. Join Holly Toscanini in discussing how shifting our internal and external language can transform our relationship with food, body acceptance, and self-worth. Learn how to reclaim your body and autonomy by choosing empowering words. Key Takeaways Words Shape Our Reality: The language we use, whether in everyday conversations or our internal dialogue, holds the power to shape how we perceive ourselves and the world around us. Shifting harmful narratives, like replacing ‘flawed’ with ‘unique,’ can positively impact our self-image and mindset. Language and Gender Bias: Gendered language often reinforces societal power dynamics. Words used to describe women, such as ‘hysterical’ or ‘bossy,’ can limit how we view ourselves and our potential. By choosing words that empower rather than diminish, we challenge these harmful stereotypes. Reclaiming Ownership of Our Bodies Through Language: Words like ‘sexy’ and ‘sexual’ illustrate how language can either objectify us or help us reclaim agency over our bodies and desires. By consciously selecting words that reflect our true sense of self, we take back ownership of our identity and autonomy. Resources: “5 Everyday Words Women Need to Delete from Their Lives” By Elise Loehnen Published: Jun 29, 2023 Oprah Magazine

Sep 21, 202415 min

S4 Ep 4949. Unlock Your Intuition: 5 Keys to Reconnecting with Your Body

Join Holly as she explores the transformative power of intuition and spirituality in achieving holistic wellness. Holly explores how reconnecting with our intuition can guide us in making better decisions about food, movement, and self-care. You’ll learn why diet culture disconnects us from our natural instincts and how to rebuild trust in our inner wisdom. She'll also introduce the new free eBook, “Unlock Your Intuition: Five Keys to Reconnecting with Your Body,” which provides comprehensive insights into the Five Pillars of Intuitive Reconnection—Intuitive Eating, Mindful Movement, Emotional Resilience, Body Neutrality, and Spiritual Wellness. Download the free eBook, “Unlock Your Intuition: 5 Keys to Reconnecting with Your Body” Key Takeaways: Understanding Intuition: Intuition is your inner compass, a natural and inherent ability to know what’s best for you without needing logical explanations. It’s not mystical; it’s based on your subconscious knowledge and past experiences. Overcoming Fear: Fear, especially ingrained by diet culture, can prevent you from listening to your intuition. Practicing self-compassion, mindfulness, and challenging negative beliefs are essential steps to overcoming fear and accessing your inner wisdom. Building Self-Esteem and Trust: High self-esteem is crucial for developing and trusting your intuition. Celebrate your strengths, practice positive affirmations, set boundaries, and seek support to build confidence and self-trust. Practical Steps to Strengthen Intuition: Engage in mindful practices such as meditation, body scans, and journaling. Pay attention to your bodily sensations and emotional signals to cultivate a deeper connection with your intuition.

Sep 7, 202433 min

S4 Ep 4848. Artful Revolution: Rewriting Your Body’s Story Through Creative Expression

Discover how art can transform your journey toward body acceptance in this empowering episode of ‘Say When!’.Host Holly Toscanini explores the therapeutic power of creativity, highlights inspiring women artists, and offers practical tips for embracing your body through artistic expression.Perfect for women looking to break free from diet culture and celebrate body diversity.Tune in for insightful discussions on body positivity, self-love, and the healing power of art.Key takeaways:Art as a Powerful Tool for Body Acceptance: Art offers a unique and liberating way to explore and express feelings about your body. Engaging in creative activities can help shift your perception and foster a deeper sense of self-love and body acceptance, whether through painting, photography, writing, or movement.Challenging Societal Norms Through Creativity: Many women artists are using their work to challenge narrow societal beauty standards and promote body diversity. By embracing art as a form of resistance, you can contribute to a broader movement that celebrates all bodies and encourages a more inclusive view of beauty.Overcoming Barriers to Creativity: You don’t need to be a professional artist to benefit from the healing power of art. Start small, embrace imperfections, and remember that the process of creating is more important than the final product. Engaging in creative expression is a journey toward self-discovery, empowerment, and body positivity.Resources:Dianne Bondy @diannebondyyogaofficial https://diannebondy.com/ https://yogaforeveryone.tv/catalogMegan Jayne Crabbe @bodyposipanda https://www.meganjaynecrabbe.com https://www.instagram.com/meganjaynecrabbe/?hl=enMichelle Elman (@scarrednotscared) https://michelleelman.com/ https://www.instagram.com/michellelelman/?hl=enSally Hewett @sally_hewett https://www.instagram.com/sally_hewett/?hl=enTeri Hofford @terihofford https://terihofford.com https://www.instagram.com/terihofford/?hl=enVisithra Manikam @vissyarts https://www.visithra.com/ https://www.instagram.com/vissyarts/?hl=enToyin Ojih Odutola @toyinojihodutola https://www.instagram.com/toyinojihodutola/?hl=en https://toyinojihodutola.comJessamyn Stanley @mynameisjessamyn https://jessamynstanley.com/ https://theunderbelly.com/Taynee Tinsley @tayneetinsley https://www.tayneetinsley.comConnect with Holly: Instagram: @hollytoscanini Facebook: HollyToscanini Website: www.hollytoscanini.com

Aug 24, 202431 min

47. Fitness Freedom: Exercise Without Obsession

In this episode, Holly explores the transformative concept of “Fitness Freedom,” encouraging listeners to shift their focus from weight loss to well-being and joy. Drawing from the Health at Every Size (HAES) philosophy, Holly shares practical tips and real-life stories to help you find joy in movement and create a supportive fitness community. Tune in to learn how to break free from obsessive exercise and embrace a balanced, joyful approach to fitness. Key Takeaways: Redefine Fitness Goals: Shift your focus from weight loss to enjoying the physical, mental, and emotional benefits of exercise. Embrace Joyful Movement: Discover and engage in physical activities that you genuinely enjoy, such as dancing, hiking, or yoga. Mindfulness in Exercise: Incorporate mindfulness into your fitness routine to enhance your experience and stay present in the moment. Body Positivity and Acceptance: Promote body positivity and acceptance within yourself and your community to foster a supportive fitness environment. Connect with Like-minded Individuals: Join HAES-aligned classes, workshops, and online communities to find support and inspiration on your fitness journey. Disclaimer: This podcast is for educational purposes only and does not substitute for professional medical advice. Always consult with a healthcare provider before starting any new exercise program. Connect with Holly: Instagram: @hollytoscanini Facebook: HollyToscanini Website: www.hollytoscanini.com

Aug 10, 202423 min

S4 Ep 4646. Body Talk: Understanding Your Body’s Language

Today we’re discussing a topic that’s incredibly relevant in our fast-paced, diet-obsessed culture: understanding our body language. In a world where we’re constantly bombarded with messages about how we should look, eat, and feel, it’s easy to lose touch with our bodies’ inherent wisdom. But our bodies are always communicating with us, and today, we’re going to learn how to listen. Key Takeaways: Understanding Body Language: Learn about the non-verbal cues we give through our facial expressions, gestures, posture, and movements. Understanding these signals can enhance communication and self-perception. The Science Behind Body Language: Explore the biological reality of the mind-body connection. Understand how emotions manifest physically and learn to interpret these signals. Emotions and the Body: Discover how different emotions trigger various physical responses and how to manage them through emotional intelligence. Food and Intuition: Intuitive eating is about listening to your body’s hunger and fullness cues rather than following external diet rules. Mindfulness and Self-Compassion: Develop these practices to better understand and care for your body. Responding to Your Body: Create supportive rituals and routines that honor your body’s needs. Connect with Holly: Instagram: @hollytoscanini Facebook: Holly Toscanini Website: www.hollytoscanini.com

Jul 27, 202421 min

S4 Ep 4545. Diet Fads: The Good, The Bad, and The Hilarious

In this episode of “Say When!”, we take a humorous yet critical look at the world of diet fads and fitness trends that have captivated us over the years. From the bizarre Tapeworm Diet to the ever-popular Keto and Intermittent Fasting, we explore how deeply ingrained diet culture can lead us to try anything to lose weight, often at the expense of our health. We also delve into the significant health risks posed by dangerous diet fads promoted on social media, such as Teatoxes and the Apple Cider Vinegar Diet. Through laughter and real talk, we encourage listeners to embrace body acceptance, trust their intuition, and adopt healthier, more sustainable approaches to wellness. Key Takeaways: Diet Culture’s Influence: Many people are willing to try extreme and sometimes dangerous diet fads due to the pervasive influence of diet culture, which often prioritizes quick fixes over long-term health. Health Risks of Popular Diets: Diets like Teatoxes, the Apple Cider Vinegar Diet, and Water Fasting pose significant health risks, including dehydration, nutrient deficiencies, and digestive issues, despite their widespread promotion by influencers. Importance of Body Acceptance: Embracing body acceptance and intuitive eating can lead to a healthier relationship with food and our bodies, moving away from the harmful cycle of chronic dieting and unrealistic body standards.

Jul 13, 202424 min

S4 Ep 4444. How to Stop Procrastinating: Empowering Women to Achieve Their Goals

In this episode, Holly unpacks the pervasive issue of procrastination and self-sabotage that often hinders our personal growth and fulfillment. Holly unpacks the roots of these self-defeating behaviors, exploring how procrastination steals our time, diminishes productivity, increases stress, and erodes self-esteem. You’ll discover practical strategies to break free from procrastination, including cognitive-behavioral techniques, mindfulness practices, and actionable tips for enhancing motivation and productivity. Holly also breaks down the unique challenges women face, such as societal expectations, self-doubt, and emotional labor, providing tailored solutions to overcome these barriers. Let’s explore the detrimental effects of procrastination, understand the mental roadblocks that keep us stuck, and learn how to reclaim our time and goals. With engaging listener stories and real-life examples, this episode is packed with insights to help you take the first step towards a more empowered, fulfilling life. Don’t miss out on this transformative episode! Listen now and take the first step towards overcoming procrastination and self-sabotage. Remember to visit Holly’s website at www.hollytoscanini.com to sign up for the Freedom From Diets Assessment, designed to help you break free from patterns that hold you back and live your most empowered life. The Pomodoro Technique

Jun 29, 202429 min

S4 Ep 4343. Sacred Vessels: Your Body is a Sanctuary of Self-Love and Healing

In this episode, Holly reinforces the message that treating the body as a sanctuary is a journey of self-discovery, acceptance, and reverence. She offers a heartfelt exploration of the body as a sacred vessel, emphasizing its role as a sanctuary for self-love, healing, and respect. Holly encourages listeners to view their bodies beyond physical attributes, recognizing them as intricate unions of spirit, emotion, and unique essence. Key Takeaways: 1. Redefining Body Perception: Holly challenges societal standards that reduce bodies to mere physical attributes, advocating for a holistic view where the body is seen as a complex, functioning universe housing mind, spirit, and emotions. 2. The Body as a Sacred Vessel: Drawing parallels with spiritual and religious contexts, Holly encourages listeners to view their bodies as sacred containers deserving of love and care, disrupting commercialized and commodified self-worth. 3. Autonomy and Self-Preservation: Emphasizing body autonomy, Holly discusses breaking free from societal expectations and internalized criticism, advocating for a view of the body as miraculous and worthy of celebration. 4. Spiritual and Cultural Context: The episode touches on various cultures like ancient Egypt, India, and Indigenous beliefs, highlighting how these cultures revered the body as a sacred space, thus grounding the discussion in a historical and multicultural perspective.

Jun 15, 202426 min

S4 Ep 4242. Reclaiming Your Mind: Kara Loewentheil’s New Book “Take Back Your Brain”

In this episode of “Say When!”, host Holly Toscanini explores Kara Loewentheil’s new book, Take Back Your Brain: How a Sexist Society Gets in Your Head and How to Get it Out. Holly discusses the key themes and practical strategies Kara presents for combating internalized sexism and diet culture. From understanding the pervasive influence of societal messages on women’s self-perception to utilizing tools like thought ladders for building self-esteem and confidence, this episode offers valuable insights and actionable steps for reclaiming control over one’s mind and life. Holly also shares personal anecdotes from her coaching practice and highlights the importance of financial empowerment and authentic relationships. Key Takeaways: Understanding Internalized Sexism: Recognize how societal messages shape self-perception and lead to self-doubt, imposter syndrome, and the relentless pursuit of physical perfection. Diet Culture and Patriarchy: Learn how diet culture, intertwined with patriarchal norms, perpetuates unrealistic beauty standards, undermines self-worth, and creates a cycle of guilt and shame. Practical Steps to Reclaim Body Image: Develop media literacy, embrace body positivity, and join supportive communities to counteract the negative impacts of diet culture and patriarchy. Overcoming Romantic Relationship Challenges: Identify and address societal conditioning that equates worth with romantic success to build authentic, fulfilling relationships based on mutual respect and emotional independence. The Power of Thought Ladders: Utilize thought ladders to shift from negative to positive thoughts gradually, fostering self-acceptance and confidence in various aspects of life, including body image, relationships, and financial empowerment. Tune in to discover how you can take back your brain and lead a more empowered, confident, and fulfilling life. Resources: Take Back Your Brain: https://www.takebackyourbrainbook.com/ School of New Feminist Thought: https://schoolofnewfeministthought.com/ UnFck Your Brain Podcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/unf-ck-your-brain-feminist-self-help-for-everyone/id1229434818

Jun 9, 202423 min

S4 Ep 4040. From Restriction to Liberation: Transform Your Eating Habits and Self-Image

Fed up with restrictive dieting? Holly offers a fresh perspective on intuitive living and escaping diet culture. She covers everything from the basics of intuitive eating to overcoming body image struggles, supported by insights from ‘The Wellness Trap’ by Christy Harrison. Tune in to start your path to body positivity and food freedom. In today’s episode, we delved into the transformative journey away from diet culture towards intuitive eating and body positivity. Here are the top three key takeaways: The Power of Personal Transformation: Through the ‘Freedom from Diets Assessment’ (now called the Intuitive Woman Blueprint) and stories from real women who have embarked on this journey, we highlighted how personalized insights and actionable steps can lead to significant life changes—enhancing self-acceptance, reducing food-related anxiety, and increasing overall life satisfaction. Understanding and Rejecting Diet Culture: We explored what diet culture is and how it negatively impacts our mental and physical health by promoting unrealistic beauty standards and unhealthy eating habits. Recognizing and rejecting these influences is the first step towards healing our relationship with food and our bodies. Embracing Intuitive Eating: Intuitive eating is a practice that encourages us to listen to our body’s hunger and fullness cues without judgment. We discussed its core principles and how it leads to better health outcomes by fostering a balanced and mindful approach to eating. Learn tools to break free from restrictive eating patterns and receive inspiration to reclaim your power over food and develop unconditional self-confidence. The Wellness Trap: Break Free From Diet Culture, Disinformation, and Dubious Diagnosises and Find Your True Well-Being- Christy Harrison

May 25, 202424 min

S4 Ep 4141. Unpacking the Spiritual Crisis of Diet Culture: The Religion of Thinness

Dive into the world of holistic health in this episode of ‘Say, ‘When!’ as we explore effective strategies to escape the restrictive chains of diet culture. Discover the benefits of intuitive eating and learn how to value your mental, spiritual, and physical health equally. Read ‘The Religion of Thinness’ for deeper insights. Key Takeaways Understanding the Psychological and Emotional Aspects: We’ve explored how chronic dieting often stems from deeper emotional needs and how it can become a coping mechanism that affects our mental, spiritual, and physical health. Holistic Approach to Well-being: It’s crucial to approach health and wellness by equally valuing our mental, spiritual, and physical health. This holistic view can lead us to more sustainable, fulfilling lifestyles. Breaking Free: We’ve discussed practical strategies for breaking free from the dieting cycle, focusing on intuitive eating and activities that nourish our bodies and souls. Resources Michelle M. Lelwica’s book, “The Religion of Thinness: Satisfying the Spiritual Hungers Behind Women’s Obsession with Food and Weight.”

May 18, 202435 min

S4 Ep 3939. Diet Culture Exposed- Unmasking Its Impact and How to Break Free

In today’s episode of “Say When!”, we explore the pervasive influence of diet culture and its impact on our self-perception and everyday lives. We uncovered how diet culture not only shapes our eating habits but also affects our self-esteem, relationships, and mental health. By unmasking the harmful effects of diet culture, we empower ourselves to embrace a healthier, more fulfilling approach to living that celebrates diversity in body shapes and sizes and focuses on genuine well-being rather than unrealistic beauty standards. Key Takeaways: Understanding Diet Culture: We discussed the various ways diet culture manifests, from labeling foods as good or bad to promoting exercise as a form of punishment rather than enjoyment. Recognizing these patterns is the first step toward breaking free from their grip. The Impact of Diet Culture: Diet culture not only affects our eating and exercise habits but deeply influences our self-worth and emotional health. By challenging the norms of diet culture, we can reclaim our self-esteem and develop a more compassionate relationship with our bodies. Embracing Body and Food Freedom: We emphasized the importance of tuning into our body’s natural cues and rejecting external pressures, fostering an environment where we can find true satisfaction and joy in our eating habits and body image.

Apr 21, 202425 min

S3 Ep 3838. Redefining Strength: Kim Hagle’s Transformative Approach to Fitness and Self-Acceptance

In today’s episode, you’ll meet Personal Trainer Kim Hagle. After a decade in the fitness industry, Kim witnessed first-hand the detrimental cycle of weight loss obsession and body shaming. Her personal and professional experiences led her to a powerful realization: there’s more to fitness and health than meets the eye. Moving beyond the traditional focus on aesthetics, Kim embraced a holistic approach, prioritizing strength, capability, and mental well-being. Together we’ll explore Kim’s transformative path, her unique approach to fitness and nutrition, and how she’s helping women everywhere to redefine what it means to be fit and healthy. So, let’s dive into this inspiring conversation with Kim and discover how to turn what some of us might consider our worst enemy into our greatest ally. Key Takeaways: 1. Redefining Fitness and Health: Kim’s journey underscores the importance of moving beyond aesthetic goals in fitness, focusing instead on strength, capability, and overall well-being. 2. The Detrimental Cycle of Diet Culture: Kim highlighted how the focus on weight loss and body shaping in the fitness industry often leads to a harmful cycle of starting and stopping, contributing to feelings of failure and moving people further from true health. 3. Empowerment Through Holistic Wellness: Kim’s approach to training and nutrition emphasizes mental and emotional health, along with physical fitness, demonstrating the need for a holistic approach to wellness. 4. Breaking Free from Unhealthy Obsessions: Her personal experience with an unhealthy obsession with diet and exercise serves as a powerful reminder of the need for balance and self-compassion in our fitness and nutritional endeavors. 5. Challenging Societal Norms and Misconceptions: Kim passionately addresses and challenges the misconceptions around body size and health, advocating for a more inclusive and accepting understanding of fitness and wellness. Kim Hagle – Certified Personal Trainer, Registered Holistic Nutritionist, and Body Image Coach. Website https://radiantvitality.ca/ Instagram @radiantvitalitywellness Email [email protected] You Tube https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCeCejjFy1TXkdvrPfX-arSw Power in Motion Podcast https://radiantvitality.ca/podcast/

Mar 24, 202433 min

S3 Ep 3636. From Body Struggles to Body Peace: Kristina Sims’ Transformative Path

In this deeply inspiring Episode #36 of ‘Say When!’, we are joined by Kristina Sims, a multifaceted wellness practitioner who encompasses the roles of a massage therapist, Reiki master, and yoga instructor.Kristina shares her personal and professional journey of overcoming body struggles to find a place of peace and acceptance.She opens up about her early struggles with body image and how these challenges set the stage for her journey towards healing and self-discovery.The episode is packed with practical advice and compassionate wisdom for anyone looking to embark on a journey of self-acceptance, healing, and finding peace with their body. Tune in to this compelling episode to discover how you too can embark on a transformative path towards body peace and holistic wellness.Key Takeaways:Holistic Approach to Healing: Kristina discusses how her work in massage therapy, Reiki, and yoga not only aids others in their healing journeys but also plays a critical role in her own path to wellness.Journey into Intuitive Eating: Kristina shares her transformative experience with intuitive eating, explaining how it helped her develop a healthier relationship with food and her body.Integrating Mind, Body, and Spirit: A key focus of the conversation is on the integration of mind, body, and spirit in achieving overall wellness. Kristina provides insights into how this holistic integration can lead to a more balanced and fulfilled life.Empowering Others Through Personal Experience: Drawing from her own experiences, Kristina talks about how she uses her journey to inspire and empower others facing similar struggles, especially in her practice as a wellness coach. Work With Kristina https://www.goldensoulwi.com/https://www.goldensoulwi.com/offeringsInstagram @goldensoulwiFacebook Golden Soul Wi

Mar 23, 202446 min

S3 Ep 3737. How To Be A Kick-Ass Mom: Embracing the Messy Beauty of Motherhood

In this episode, I have a special guest, Randi Cox, host of Thick Thighs and Confident Vibes podcast. Randi shares her inspiring journey from Weight Watchers counselor to non-diet advocate, emphasizing self-acceptance and self-care for mothers. We discuss body image and dieting in children, the importance of setting boundaries and reconnecting with passions, and the parallels between oppressive diet culture and societal expectations of mothers. Join us as we empower listeners to define what it means to be a kickass mom and embrace the messy beauty of motherhood. Ready to stop letting motherhood kick you in the ass, and become a kick-ass mom? With a background in non-diet life coaching and a passion for helping women improve their body image, Randi Cox is all about helping you ditch the shoulds and rules society throws at moms. Say goodbye to mom guilt and hello to more fun mom feels! Together, you’ll flip the script on motherhood, reclaim your identity, prioritize self-care, and live life on your own terms. Don’t forget to check out the links to Randi’s website, Instagram, podcast, and her free audio course on dismantling mom guilt and finding joy in motherhood. Let’s ditch the guilt and bring in more kickass energy! Website https://randicox.com/ Instagram @randicoxcoaching Podcast: Thick Thighs and Confident Vibes

Mar 9, 202447 min

S3 Ep 3535. Unshrinking: Overcoming Misogyny and Fatphobia

Today’s episode discusses the complex and often challenging topics of misogyny and fatphobia. Drawing inspiration from the works of philosopher and author Kate Manne, Holly explores how societal standards and biases shape our perceptions and treatment of women’s bodies. This episode isn’t just about understanding these issues; it’s a call to action for personal empowerment and societal change. Holly emphasizes the psychological and emotional toll these societal pressures can have on women. She provides practical strategies for individuals to challenge internalized beliefs about body image and self-worth, highlighting the importance of self-compassion, self-care, and resilience. Holly also discusses the critical role of collective action, encouraging listeners to critically evaluate media messages, engage in advocacy and education, and support one another in the journey toward body positivity and inclusivity.Key Takeaways Understanding Misogyny and Fatphobia Psychological Impact Strategies for Personal Empowerment Importance of Collective Action Empowerment Leads to Societal Change This episode is a must-listen for anyone looking to understand and challenge the deep-seated biases against women’s bodies and embrace a journey of self-love and collective empowerment. Unshrinking: How to Face Fatphobia by Kate Mannehttps://www.katemanne.net/unshrinking.html

Feb 10, 202424 min

S3 Ep 3434. From Diet Myths to Midlife Empowerment: Kate Williams-Stone Unveils the Truth

In this episode, we explore the transformative journey of midlife and shatter the myths surrounding diets and wellness.Today, I’m joined by the insightful Kate Williams Stone, a non-diet health and life coach dedicated to empowering women in perimenopause.Kate opens up about her holistic approach to wellness, emphasizing the importance of intuitive eating and hormone-honoring health habits.She shares her wealth of knowledge and personal experiences, providing invaluable insights for women navigating the often challenging waters of perimenopause.Key Takeaways: Debunking Diet Myths: Kate challenges the widespread myths about diets and health in midlife, encouraging women to embrace a more intuitive and liberating approach to eating.Empowerment in Perimenopause: Discover how Kate’s approach empowers women to take control of their health and wellness during perimenopause, a time often marked by confusion and misinformation.Holistic Health Habits: Learn about the hormone-honoring practices that Kate advocates for, which not only address physical health but also encompass emotional and spiritual well-being.Intuitive Eating Journey: Gain insights into how intuitive eating can transform your relationship with food, especially during the significant life changes in midlife.Breaking Free from Restrictive Narratives: Kate discusses the importance of breaking free from the restrictive narratives of diet culture, offering a path towards a more fulfilling and self-compassionate life.Join us in this enlightening conversation with Kate Williams Stone, and get ready to challenge what you thought you knew about health and wellness in midlife. Tune in to Episode #34 for an episode that promises not just insights but a roadmap to empowerment and truth.Connect with Kate at www.KateWilliamsStone.comInstagram at @katewstoneGET YOUR MUST-HAVE GUIDE FOR YOUR NON-DIET PERIMENOPAUSE JOURNEY Get the jumpstart you need to hormone-supporting habits in midlife without a restrictive diet!www.KateWilliamsStone.com/guide

Jan 27, 202451 min

S3 Ep 3333. Empowering All Bodies: The Deanna Beaton Fitness Revolution

In this inspiring episode of ‘Say When!’, I had the pleasure of speaking with Deanna Beaton, a trailblazer in the fitness industry. As a fat, queer, asthmatic personal trainer with knee and shoulder injuries, Deanna brings a unique and inclusive perspective to fitness and wellness. Her journey challenges conventional fitness norms and highlights the importance of creating a space where all bodies are welcomed and celebrated. Deanna Beaton’s insights and experiences are not just transformative for those in the fitness world but are also deeply resonant for anyone looking to embrace a more accepting and compassionate approach to health and wellness. Her story is a powerful reminder that fitness is for everyone, and health can be pursued in a way that honors and celebrates our unique bodies and journeys. Key Highlights: Inclusive Fitness Philosophy: Deanna shared her vision for a fitness world that embraces all body types and abilities. She emphasizes the importance of rejecting the one-size-fits-all approach to fitness and instead, creating personalized and adaptable workout routines. Challenging Toxic Fitness Culture: Deanna spoke passionately about the need to dismantle the harmful aspects of traditional fitness culture, which often promotes unrealistic and exclusionary standards of health and beauty. Holistic Approach to Wellness: She underscored the interconnectedness of physical, mental, and emotional health in her coaching methods. Deanna believes in empowering her clients to listen to their bodies and find joy in movement, rather than focusing solely on weight loss or aesthetic goals. Empowerment Through Acceptance: A significant part of our discussion revolved around building self-acceptance and trust in one’s own body. Deanna’s approach is centered on empowering individuals to find fitness routines that are enjoyable and sustainable. Deanna Beaton Website https://deannabeaton.com/ Instagram @deannabeaton Link Tree linktr.ee/DeannaBeaton Freebies https://deannabeaton.com/freebies/

Jan 12, 202453 min

S3 Ep 3232. New Year, Empowered You: Changing Mindsets, Changing Lives

Changing your mindset can be a more transformative and fulfilling New Year’s resolution than any diet or exercise regimen. In this last episode in 2023, Holly encourages embracing a new year with confidence, self-love, and a renewed commitment to living authentically. Key Takeaways Discover the power of mindset in shaping our lives and rejecting body transformation resolutions. Embrace self-compassion, intuitive eating, and body neutrality to improve self-esteem, relationships, resilience, and authenticity. Explore the societal pressures contributing to body insecurities and the exploitation by diet and beauty industries. Promote body neutrality and self-compassion as healing tools, and practice self-awareness and positive self-talk. Tune into your body’s needs with intuitive eating and find joy in movement. Embrace a new mindset of understanding, acceptance, and love for oneself. Consider working with a non-diet coach for support towards body acceptance and a positive mindset.

Dec 30, 202312 min

S2 Ep 3131. From Traditional Nutritionist to Intuitive Eating: A Conversation with Violeta Puente

In today’s episode, you’ll meet Violeta Puente, a nutritionist and intuitive eating counselor. She specializes in helping women over 40 improve their relationship with food, body, and drinking. With a focus on unlearning societal norms, she guides clients to understand the origins of their beliefs and thoughts about food and body. Through her program, Diet Free Happy Me, she teaches the self-coaching model and incorporates mindfulness to help women feel at peace with food and themselves. Trusting one’s own intuition is key on the journey to intuitive eating. Violeta Puente A Womans’ Guide to Enjoying Warm Bread & Butter without Guilt A Woman’s Guide to Making Peace with Drinking Weekly email series “Good Enough!” Website (learn more about me and my coaching) www.violetanutrition.com Instagram https://www.instagram.com/violetanutrition/

Dec 23, 202315 min

S2 Ep 3030. Lisa Branscomb and The LifeBliss Approach to Wellness

Life Bliss Wellness is a holistic self-care approach for black women that focuses on spirituality, sensuality, joy, and relaxation. It challenges mainstream wellness narratives and addresses the unique needs of black women. By embracing femininity and pleasure without guilt, women can break free from societal expectations and experience true happiness. The approach promotes sisterhood, acceptance, and abundance, and offers practical steps for self-discovery and healing. Regardless of background or identity, everyone can access wellness and fulfillment. Starting in January 2024- LifeBliss New Year’s Soft Life Reset. Key Takeaways Lisa Branscomb is the founder of Life Bliss Wellness, a holistic approach to self-care for black women. Her approach to wellness focuses on joy, happiness, and self-trust as essential elements of health. She draws inspiration from the teachings of Tantra yoga, which emphasizes moving meditation and the connection between spirituality, sensuality, and joy. Lisa promotes body acceptance, sensuality, and joy, and aims to break free from the forces of diet culture and consumerism. She also believes that embracing femininity and sensuality is crucial for overall wellness and encourages women to trust themselves and their bodies. Website: https://lifeblisswellness.com/ email: [email protected] Instagram @lifeblisslisa

Dec 17, 202357 min

S2 Ep 2929. Say ‘When!’ to Unwanted Advice: Handling Body Comments with Grace

In this enlightening episode, host Holly Toscanini delves into the pervasive issue of unwanted body comments and provides actionable strategies for setting boundaries, maintaining self-respect, and reclaiming your narrative. Embark on a journey to reclaim your body, your narrative, and your inherent worth. By the end of this episode, you’ll be empowered with the tools and confidence to tackle unwanted body comments head-on and foster a deeper sense of body acceptance. So go ahead and say ‘When!’ to reclaiming your life, one conversation at a time. Key Takeaways The Problem: Unsolicited comments about weight and appearance are all too common and can seriously impact self-esteem and body image. Why People Comment: Social norms, misguided intentions, and lack of awareness often fuel these intrusive remarks. Setting Boundaries: Learn to say ‘When!’ to unwanted advice—a powerful, boundary-setting term that aligns with Holly Toscanini’s coaching philosophy focused on intuitive eating, Health At Every Size, and body acceptance. Strategies for Handling Comments: Techniques include polite deflection, assertive yet respectful responses, and self-care tips for emotional well-being post-encounter.

Dec 2, 202314 min

S2 Ep 2828. Spiritual Feasts: Food, Heritage, and Intuitive Eating

In this heartfelt episode, Holly Toscanini explores the multi-dimensional aspects of our relationship with food. Starting with the universal experience of gathering around a table, the episode digs deep into how food serves as a living connection to our ancestry, heritage, and even spirituality. Holly challenges the dogmas of diet culture and introduces the liberating concept of intuitive eating as a holistic approach to nourishment. Key Takeaways: 1. Food as a Heritage Preserver: Food is not just about satisfying hunger; it’s a thread that ties us to our cultural roots. Special recipes and cooking techniques often serve as cherished family traditions. 2. Food Bringing Families Together: Studies show that sharing meals can lead to lower levels of stress and higher emotional well-being. “Breaking bread” together is more than just a phrase—it’s a binding ritual. 3. Food in Social Rituals and Community: Beyond the family, food plays an essential role in community building. Events like potlucks, holidays, and religious rites offer more than just sustenance; they weave the fabric of our social lives. 4. Food and Spirituality: From sacred meals in religious traditions to the principles of mindful eating, Holly discusses how food nourishes not just the body, but also the soul. 5. Intuitive Eating and Culture: This episode shatters the myth that intuitive eating is a ‘new-age’ concept, showing its roots in various cultural and spiritual practices. 6. The Downside of Diet Culture: Holly tackles the way diet culture demonizes many cultural foods, forcing unnecessary choices between heritage and ‘health.’ 7. Gentle Nutrition and Inclusivity: With intuitive eating, all foods can have a place in your life. It’s about listening to your body, balancing nutrition with pleasure, and breaking free from diet-induced guilt. Don’t miss the opportunity to reconnect with your food heritage and incorporate intuitive eating principles into your life. For more resources, tips, and a community that understands your journey, visit www.hollytoscanini.com. Tune in and nourish not just your body, but also your soul, your traditions, and your sense of community. Remember, “Food is the ingredient that binds us together.” What’s your dieting personality quiz?

Nov 18, 202322 min

S2 Ep 2727. The Myth of the ‘Perfect’ Body

In today’s episode of “Say When!” we take a deep dive into the fascinating evolution of society’s definition of the “perfect body.” From ancient Greece’s muscle-bound gods to today’s broader acceptance of diverse body shapes, we explore how cultural shifts have shaped—and are still shaping—our perception of beauty and body image. Join Holly as she takes a journey through time, challenging the ever-changing, often contradictory ideals that have defined what it means to have a “perfect body” through the ages. Key Takeaways 1. Changing Beauty Standards: Understand that the ideal of a “perfect body” has shifted dramatically throughout history, proving there’s no universal standard for beauty. 2. Cultural Impact: Explore how societal changes have influenced body ideals, from the Renaissance’s celebration of fuller figures to the ’80s fixation on thinness as fitness. 3. Iconic Influencers: Recognize the role of key personalities, like Jane Fonda in the ’80s, in shaping and promoting specific body ideals. 4. Towards Inclusivity: Celebrate the encouraging shift towards accepting a broader range of body types in today’s culture. 5. Self-Appreciation: Emphasize the importance of viewing your own body positively, appreciating it for what it is now, rather than what society dictates it should be. By the end of this episode, you’ll have a clearer perspective on how beauty standards have evolved and how to navigate your personal journey towards body acceptance. What’s your dieting personality? Take the free quiz

Nov 4, 202319 min

S2 Ep 2626. Behind the Scenes: My Approach to Holistic Health and Well-Being

​​In today’s revealing episode, Holly Toscanini takes you behind the scenes of her holistic approach to health and well-being, which transcends mere physicality. As your trusted guide, she invites you into her world of intuitive eating, mindset management, emotional well-being, and spiritual connection. This episode is a deep dive into the transformative power of body acceptance and body neutrality. Rooted in non-diet culture, this is a safe space that fosters self-love, self-care, and an unapologetic celebration of one’s authentic self. By embracing your beautiful imperfections, you can ignite real transformation. Holly encourages listeners to embed these practices into their everyday lives, emphasizing that the real magic lies in the “practice.” This episode isn’t just about food or stress; it’s a call to reshape your relationship with yourself, your body, and your life. Remember, you’re not alone; Holly is cheering you on every step of the way. Don’t forget to visit her website for more empowering resources, and remember, you are enough just as you are. Key Takeaways Holistic Health is Multidimensional Learning to trust your body’s signals for hunger and fullness, and rejecting diet culture, is crucial for a balanced relationship with food. Your mental landscape shapes your experiences. Addressing and managing emotions rather than suppressing or ignoring them is vital for overall well-being. Reconnecting with your intuition or higher self adds a layer of depth to your holistic health journey. Body neutrality empowers you to love and accept your body as it is, moving beyond societal ideals of beauty and wellness. Transformation comes through the consistent practice of these principles. Safe, Non-Diet Spaces where diet culture is not perpetuated are critical. Being true to who you are and embracing your “beautiful imperfections” is not only liberating but also transformative. What’s your dieting personality quiz?

Oct 21, 202321 min

S2 Ep 2525. The Art of Being ‘Enough’: Untangling the Paradox of Being a Woman

Are you tired of constantly trying to measure up to society’s ever-changing and often contradictory standards? If so, you’re not alone. In this eye-opening episode of How to Lose the ‘WAIT’, (formerly Say, “When!”) host Holly Toscanini dives deep into the labyrinth of double binds and conflicting expectations that weigh down so many women today. Inspired by Greta Gerwig’s impassioned speech on the impossibilities of womanhood, Holly explores topics ranging from the paradoxes of health and beauty to the tightrope walk between career success and personal life. The episode wraps up with practical strategies for navigating these complicated norms, offering a roadmap for women to find their authentic selves amidst the noise. You’ll come away feeling seen, understood, and ready to untangle the societal knots that bind you. Share your stories and strategies for navigating life’s double binds by emailing Holly at [email protected] or by DMing her on Facebook or Instagram. Key Takeaways – Unpacking Gerwig’s Wisdom: Why society demands that women be extraordinary, yet never ‘good enough.’ – The Health and Beauty Paradox: Why women are expected to be thin but can’t admit they want to lose weight. – Money and Career Conundrums: The unwritten rules around financial success and being a ‘boss’ without stepping on toes. – Motherhood vs. Career Woman or the Choice of Neither: Exploring the silent judgments that accompany each choice. – Answering for Others and The Paradox of Femininity: The unfair expectations around accountability and sisterhood. – Ageism, Expectations, and the Emotional Toll: How conflicting ideals exhaust us emotionally and psychologically. What’s your dieting personality quiz?

Oct 7, 202325 min

S2 Ep 2424. Overcoming the Fear of Gaining Weight

In today’s heart-to-heart episode, Holly Toscanini tackles that nagging worry lurking in the back of every woman’s mind when contemplating ditching diets for good—”But what if I gain weight?” Breathe easy, because Holly has your back! She dives into the empowering framework of Intuitive Eating, where you’ll learn to reclaim your body’s natural intelligence to guide your food choices and find weight stability. And hey, while we’re at it, let’s give that ‘Thin Ideal’ a good shake-up, shall we? Holly also urges you to reframe your perception of control when it comes to your body, teaching you to tune into your own hunger and fullness cues. So, get ready for a soul-soothing, perspective-shifting episode that emphasizes the practice of self-compassion, body neutrality, and the crucial understanding that your weight is not your worth! Key Takeaways: Tackling the Weight-Gain Worry- Confront and dismantle the pervasive fear of gaining weight that stops many women from leaving behind the dieting cycle. Unleash Your Intuitive Eater- Reconnect with your body’s innate wisdom to guide your food choices and stabilize weight—supported by solid, scientific studies. Debunking the ‘Thin Ideal’- Challenge societal obsessions with thinness and learn how to shift your mindset for a more empowering relationship with your body. Listen to Your Body- Discover how to interpret hunger and fullness cues, allowing for a healthier, more balanced approach to eating. Self-Compassion & Body Neutrality- Master the art of treating yourself kindly and cultivating a neutral, accepting perspective of your body. Your Worth Isn’t Your Weight- Embrace the revolutionary idea that your value isn’t tied to the number on a scale. What’s your dieting personality? Take the free quiz Instagram @hollytoscanini Facebook @Holly Toscanini Health Coach

Sep 23, 202325 min

S2 Ep 2323. Challenging Negative Body Talk

In today’s illuminating episode, Holly Toscanini dives deep into the pervasive, damaging beauty standards that have led to an epidemic of negative self-talk and body dissatisfaction. And guess what? It’s high time we put a full stop to this! Holly guides you through the process of flipping the script—of taking control of the conversations that usually spiral into appearance-based judgments. Armed with the tools of self-compassion, body acceptance, and a non-diet approach to health, you’ll learn how to cultivate not just a healthier relationship with your body but a more nourishing mental landscape as well. So, whether you’re seeking strategies to redirect body-focused conversations or looking to amplify your mental well-being, this episode is your blueprint. Key Takeaways: The Cost of Unrealistic Beauty Standards– Understand how relentless societal pressures, especially on young girls and women, give rise to harmful body talk and beliefs. The Mental Health Toll– Discover how toxic conversations about appearance chip away at self-esteem and emotional well-being, supported by the latest psychological research. Challenge, Redirect, Affirm-Equip yourself with actionable strategies to turn negative body talk on its head, and how to positively affirm both yourself and others. Holistic Health– Gain a nuanced understanding of why focusing on overall mental and emotional health—rather than merely diet—is the path to true well-being. Empowerment through Professional Help– Learn why reaching out to professionals can be an empowering step toward lasting body positivity and acceptance. What’s your dieting personality? Take the free quiz! Instagram @hollytoscanini Facebook @Holly Toscanini Health Coach

Sep 9, 202319 min

S2 Ep 2222. Embracing A Happy & Childless Life with Helen Gallagher

In today’s enriching episode, I sit down with Helen Gallagher, the visionary behind Happy and Childless, to delve into the often misunderstood realm of childlessness. We discuss how societal norms can burden individuals with a sense of obligation, and we explore practical pathways to break free from these societal shackles. Key Insights: Prioritize Self-Care: Life without children can be fulfilling and meaningful when we give ourselves the gift of self-love and acceptance. Emotional Intelligence: Navigating the complex emotions around childlessness calls for a respectful and non-judgmental space. Learning to forgive yourself is a crucial step in moving ahead. Holistic Well-Being: Our conversation underscores the importance of cultivating a healthier relationship with our minds and bodies. This encompasses everything from mental resilience to nourishing ourselves properly. Reach out for Support: Helen is not just an expert; she’s also a supportive guide who can help lighten your emotional load. Connecting with her can offer fresh perspectives and invaluable support. So if you’ve ever felt pressured by society’s expectations or struggled with the complexities of childlessness, this is one conversation you won’t want to miss. Find Helen Gallager on Instagram @happyandchildless www.happyandchildless.co.uk Happy and Childless Podcast Happy and Childless App What’s your dieting personality? Take the free quiz Ready to lose the ‘wait’? Schedule your coaching call with Holly today! Instagram @hollytoscanini Facebook @Holly Toscanini Health Caoch Linked IN Holly Toscanini

Aug 26, 202333 min

S2 Ep 2121. What’s Your Dieting Personality?

Introducing the, “What’s Your Dieting Personality Quiz” This quiz offers guidance in shifting away from dieting and towards acceptance, self-compassion, and balance. Are you The Optimistic Struggler, The Confused Seeker, The Frustrated Quitter, or The Reluctant Accepter? This episode emphasizes that diet culture does not determine our worth or happiness, and encourages people to take back their power, redefine their own standards of health and beauty, and embrace intuitive eating practices and body acceptance. Additionally, it reinforces the message of self-love and body acceptance and a weight-neutral approach to health. Click here to take the What’s Your Dieting Personality Quiz now! Key Takeaways Understanding our individual relationship to food and dieting is key to shifting our perspective from dieting to acceptance and balance. Seeking personalized yet practical methods of shifting away from dieting can provide guidance and empower us to reclaim control of our relationship with food. Rejecting diet culture and redefining our own standards of health and beauty is necessary to break free from dieting and create a healthier relationship with food and body. Is your diet causing more harm than good? Take the quiz to find out!

Aug 13, 202320 min

S2 Ep 2020. Breaking Free How Empowering Communities Help Transform Body Image

Welcome to another eye-opening episode of ‘Say When’ with Holly Toscanini. Today, we’re diving deep into the transformative power of community in reshaping our relationship with our bodies and ourselves. Are you ready to break free from the shackles of diet culture and step into a space of soul-nourishing self-acceptance? Then this is your episode! Community isn’t just a buzzword; it’s a lifeline. Find out how connecting with like-minded souls online and embracing the beautiful messiness of vulnerability can be your catalyst for personal growth and emotional healing. This isn’t just about tips and tricks; it’s about shared journeys, collective wisdom, and transformative, lived experiences. Listen in as Holly brings together the collective voices of seasoned professionals, intuitive coaches, and empowered individuals from social media communities. These are the people who understand the complexities of food and body dynamics and are ready to guide you toward a sense of unparalleled comfort and profound healing. Key Takeaways: Community isn’t a luxury; it’s a need. Connection fuels our resilience, providing us with the strength and motivation to rewrite our body narratives. Vulnerability isn’t a weakness; it’s a portal to liberation and self-acceptance that empowers us to say no to societal standards and yes to ourselves. Dismantling diet culture is no small feat, but the journey is less arduous when we’re not walking it alone. Find your tribe and empower your transformation. From virtual villages to heartfelt hashtags, online platforms offer a haven of affirmation and encouragement that can uplift us on those harder days. Trust the collective wisdom of these empowering communities to provide the insights, understanding, and self-compassion you’ve been yearning for. Don’t miss this compelling episode of ‘Say When,’ where community is not just celebrated but recognized as a cornerstone in our collective journey toward embracing ourselves, just as we are. Is it time to drop your diet? Take this quiz to find out.

Jul 30, 202315 min

S2 Ep 1919. Embracing Movement

In this insightful episode of How to Lose the ‘WAIT” (formerly the ‘Say When,’ podcast), Holly Toscanini invites you to reframe your entire understanding of exercise through the liberating lens of non-diet self-care. The focus here isn’t about sculpting the ‘perfect’ body—no, this conversation is about embracing movement as a joyful act of self-respect, love, and holistic well-being. Let’s take the guilt and punishment out of the exercise equation once and for all. Holly guides you through the how-tos of setting empowering, clear-cut goals for physical activity that are all about you—your comfort, your joy, and your own personal benchmarks of success. Inclusive spaces for exercise are more than just a buzzword; they’re a non-negotiable for creating a safe and affirming environment where you can truly be yourself. Don’t let a packed schedule hold you back. Discover how bite-sized bursts of movement can naturally weave into your day, enhancing both your physical and mental vitality. And hey, if you’re wondering where to start, Holly breaks down why a healthcare professional’s advice can be a valuable stepping stone on this journey. But let’s not forget the soul-soothing balm of nature. Join Holly as she uncovers how the great outdoors can elevate your exercise regimen into a transformative experience of connection—both with the world around you and with yourself. Key Takeaways: Ditch the ‘exercise as punishment’ narrative; welcome movement as an authentic act of self-love and care. The world is your playground! Connect with nature to amplify the joy and depth of your physical activities. Exercise isn’t a one-size-fits-all; personalize your movement goals and seek spaces that celebrate you, just as you are. Remember, self-care is holistic. Exercise is just one facet of it, and rest is its equally important counterpart. Join Holly Toscanini on ‘Say When’ to shift the paradigm of what exercise can mean for you, freeing yourself from society’s limiting beliefs about body size and shape, and embracing a more fulfilling, self-affirming way to move through the world. Is your diet causing more harm than good? Take this quiz to find out. Schedule your free coaching call

Jul 16, 202321 min

S2 Ep 1818. Empowering Non-Diet Living Through Meditation

In this transformative episode, Holly Toscanini unravels the life-changing magic of mindfulness as a catalyst for whole-person wellness and self-empowerment. Tune in as Holly shares invaluable insights on how the practice of mindful meditation is far more than a trend—it’s a tool for radical self-love, body acceptance, and spiritual enrichment. Come along on a voyage that spans the full spectrum of human experience: mental, physical, emotional, and spiritual. Learn how mindfulness serves as your Swiss Army knife in dismantling the cultural myths and personal insecurities instilled by diet culture. Replace self-judgment with self-compassion and shift from survival to thriving as you embrace intuitive eating and body love as your birthrights. But that’s not all. Holly dives deep into the emotional reservoirs often neglected or misunderstood. She guides you in navigating through these emotions, thereby empowering you with emotional resilience and the ability to say yes to yourself unapologetically. As if that weren’t enough, this episode also opens a window to the realm of spirituality, offering you pathways to connect with your innermost wisdom and higher self. Key Takeaways: Mindfulness isn’t just a buzzword; it’s an essential practice for dismantling self-doubt and negative narratives perpetuated by diet culture. Your body is not an object to be fixed but a vessel for experience. Mindfulness empowers you to connect with its inherent wisdom and nourish it lovingly. Emotional intelligence and self-acceptance aren’t just good-to-haves; they’re non-negotiable for a fulfilled life. Open up to spiritual exploration as you connect deeply with your intuition and your authentic self, setting the stage for a life of purpose and joy. Step into the world of ‘Say When,’ and transform your journey into one of unique self-love, intuitive wisdom, and prioritized well-being. Quiz- Is Your Diet Causing More Harm Than Good? Take this free quiz to find out.

Jul 2, 202325 min

S2 Ep 1717. Transforming Women’s Lives The Power of Non-Diet Coaching

The Transformational Power of Non-Diet Coaching with Holly Toscanini Feeling like you’re perpetually stuck in a dieting doom-loop? That ends today. As a non-diet coach, I’ve created a sanctuary for you to prioritize your health through sustainable, soul-nourishing changes. Say ‘Say When!’ to fads and quick fixes; we’re all about lifelong well-being here. What You’ll Experience: Mindset Makeover: Open the doors to a transformative way of thinking about your health and self-worth. Intuitive Eating Unveiled: Learn to trust your body’s wisdom as we break down the principles of intuitive eating. Let’s make peace with the plate! Nutrition, The Gentle Way: Unpack the evidence-based principles of Gentle Nutrition that encourage holistic well-being rather than the number on a scale. Move with Joy: Exercise becomes a celebration, not a punishment. We explore movement as an act of self-love. Mindfulness as a Lifeline: Integrate mindfulness techniques to navigate life’s ups and downs with resilience and grace. The Confidence Boost: Discover how working with a non-diet coach like me can help you carve out an unshakable sense of self and navigate through diet culture’s labyrinth of lies. Get Started Today: Ready to dive in? Kick off your journey with a complimentary coaching call or take our insightful free quiz to gauge where you stand. Key Takeaways: Sustainable is Sensational: With non-diet coaching, you’re investing in lifestyle changes that stick, not fleeting trends that fizzle out. Healthy Habits Over Quick Fixes: This isn’t your run-of-the-mill diet plan; we’re building a sustainable, joyful relationship with food and self. Reclaim Your Self-Esteem: Working closely with a coach, you’ll disentangle your self-worth from societal expectations, reducing the emotional toll of poor body image. So, are you ready to ditch the diet dogma and step into a more empowered, enlightened version of yourself? Let’s make it happen!

Jun 18, 202323 min

S2 Ep 1616. A Compassionate Approach To Eating: Gentle Nutrition

The Gentle Nutrition Guide to Joyful, Mindful Eating Are you exhausted by diet dogma and ready for a culinary experience that celebrates you—just as you are? In today’s episode, we unpack the liberating concept of Gentle Nutrition, a philosophy that empowers you to create a fulfilling, judgment-free relationship with food and your body. What You’ll Learn: Dismantling Diet Dictatorship: Get the tools to identify and reject the diet mentality that’s been holding you back from fully enjoying your food and your life. Custom Culinary Choices: Make your plate your canvas! We’ll guide you on how to customize your food choices based on your individual preferences, cultural background, and unique health needs. The Resistance against Fat Shaming and Phobia: Let’s get vocal. We explore how to practice body acceptance and self-care as acts of defiance against societal norms that breed shame and discrimination. Expert Guidance for Gentle Nutrition: Whether it’s a health coach or a therapist, we discuss how professional input can elevate your Gentle Nutrition journey. Building Sustainable Habits: From meal planning to incorporating nutrient-rich foods, we share effective strategies for creating lifelong, joyful eating habits. Eating as an Act of Joy: Put the pleasure back into your meals. Learn how to focus on the sensory joys of variety and balance in your diet. Additional Support Routes: We highlight the power of community, from online support groups to podcasts that echo the Gentle Nutrition message. So, set the table for a feast of wisdom, self-compassion, and culinary joy as we dive into this life-changing approach to eating.

Jun 4, 202337 min