How To GET THE GIRL - An Ask Women Podcast

Kristen and I are no fools. We know we are cute, pretty, maybe even hot by some guys definitions BUT we are no where near model status. Models and the super elite of beauty are in a whole other category when it comes to attraction. That's why we have Johnny Cassell on today's episode. Johnny is a dating coach for the rich, famous and elite. He's on the show to tell us the differences in how to approach and attract beautiful women vs model type women. He also explains how to quickly escalate with any woman and talk about sexual fantasies. It's a great episode to get the year started! On this episode we over analyze: How to get a woman to open up in 10 minutes or lessWhat to say to women to get them to start talking about their sexual fantasiesHow to make a woman fall in love with youHow to get access to models and 10'sAnd much much more! Guest Johnny Cassel Get your female advice straight from the source, a woman - winggirmethod.com Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

How do you state your intentions with women without coming across as needy or eager? And why is it important to state your intentions with women? On this weeks episode we dive into the benefit of clear intentions in dating. So many people are getting frustrated because their dating people who aren't on the same page as they are. Which is why getting clear on your intentions and then letting them be known is so important. Even if you are a woman, you will benefit from listening to this episode. We also discuss and over analyze: How to get clear on your intentions How to say your intentions in a calm, confident way How to figure out someone elses intentions to avoid frustration and pain And so much more! For more tips on how to attract, date, seduce and get any woman you want, go to winggirlmethod.com Sign up for banter lessons with Kristen. go to instantgo.com/kristencarney Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

We've talked about the approach over and over and over again. But what about after the initial approach? How do you keep the conversation going in a way that helps you connect to a woman and get to know her better? You ask questions!!! But what defines a good question and if you ask bad questions, will she find you unattractive? On this weeks episode we dissect the topics of questions to ask women that will get them to open up and connect to you. Even if you are a woman, you will enjoy this episode! Guest: Jason Horton Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

How and what do women think about sex? Is it different than men or is it the same? AND what do women think men think about sex? On this weeks episode we have Psychologist and Sexpert Amie Harwick on the show to explain how and what women think about sex and why it's so different from men. Even if you are a woman you'll love this episode. On this show we also discuss and over-analyze: How to talk sexually to womenHow to escalate a conversation from non sexual to sexualHow to approach women sexually without insulting or harassingHow to be blunt without being insultingWhat women think about men and sexAnd so much more! Guest: Amie Harwick Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Telling stories in a charming way that can keep others engaged and hanging off your every word is a HUGE asset. Not just with women.... with everyone. Being able to charm people with your words is the exact definition of charming and we want you to be charming. We brought in the storytelling and charming conversationalist guru Jeff Bellow to show you how you can easily become a master with your words. Even if you are a woman, you will love this episode. On this episode we also discuss and over analyze: how to talk to all different types of women and adjust your conversation to their style (shy women, aggressive women, strong women)The key to good storytelling and how to easily create a story out of thin airWhat every good story should haveThe common mistakes people make in conversation that have them going blankAnd so much more! Guest: Jeff Bellow More tips and advice on how to attract and get the girl go to winggirlmethod.com Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Unless you've been living under a rock, you've seen what is going on in Hollywood right now with Harvey Weinstein, Kevin Spacey and other huge players in the entertainment world. We want to be clear that from a female POV what these guys were doing was wrong. They raped, took advantage of and pushed themselves onto unwilling victims for their own power pleasure. We've talked to so many wonderful men who are confused by what is going on and unsure of how to move forward. Like you, they are scared out of their minds to approach or make moves on women because they're afraid of it being considered sexual harassment. On this weeks episode we do our best to explain that very fine line and hope that our direction will help you see the difference between building attraction with a willing party vs. raping them. We also discuss: How to check in with women on their comfort levels without being too overbearing or roboticHow to find your own moral compassHow to avoid being a wimp or a sour puss wi Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This is the audio version of our live podcast that we did at the Zoosk headquarters where we over analyzed to death, how to be assertive with women and state your intentions. This topic has been popping up a lot. So many men don't know how to put their intentions out there with women AND be okay with the woman not being receptive to their advances. That's why on this episode we tell you how to be bold and not back down with women. Click here to meet other singles through Zoosk: http://bit.ly/2rRoVJy Guests: Nan and John from Zoosk Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

If you've ever been shot down when asking for a girls number then this episode is for you! Jackie Gold joins us to break down and dissect the correct way to ask for a girls number and the mistakes so many guys make when asking that gets them labelled as creepy or worse... assaulter. Even if you are a woman you will love this episode. On this episode we also over analyze: What makes a guy creepy vs. confident Why women talk about their ex's AND what to do about it How to ask for a woman's number without getting arrested What is the fine line between assault and flirting/stating your intentions How to change a 1st impression And much more! Guests: Jackie Gold Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Continuing with our blast from the past, we pull up an awesome old episode where a big group of ladies reveal how guys can tell when a woman is DTF (down to f*ck). It's also the very first time Adam Gilad was ever on our show. I actually remember him coming on the show and being blown away by the way he delivered his advice. It was so clear and concise and easy to follow. We talked with Adam about how to date younger women, which he is the master at. He's close to 60 and is always dating women in their 20's and 30's. He also threw out tons of tips and tricks for how to date online and make every woman want to get you offline. On this weeks show we also discussed and over analyzed: 1. Signs women give that tell a man they only want to be casual 2. 3 things about online dating most men don't know 3. How to write a profile that makes women write to you first 4. The key to writing a great profile And so much more!! Guest: Adam Gilad For more tips, tools and advice on how to attract, date, Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Repeat Episode. An oldie but a goodie! “Seduction coach” Vince Kelvin & “Sex toy educator”/host of Playboy Radio’s “Play With Me” show, Miyoko, provide an interesting contrast on how to approach potential mates and make relationships work. We LOVE having Vince Kelvin on the show because he always delivers amazing guidance on HOW to do things. Lines, body language and overall mindset included. On this episode we also over analyze: how to be a modern man who can handle feminists, millennial women and women who hate menWhy older women can be easier to dateAnd so much more! Guests: Vince Kelvin & Miyoko Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Repeat Episode but still a goodie ;-0 How the hell do you charm a woman?? There is so much mixed information out there. Which is why on this weeks episode we dive into what it means to be charming AND how to do it! Even though Marni was NOT on this episode it was great. Guests Jordan Harbinger and Michael Costa join Kristen to dive into how to be charming. On this show they also discuss: 1. Exercise for becoming good at small talk (The Tennis Ball Game) 2. Why you are awesome just because you listen to this show 3. Why your tonality is important and how to alter it 4. How to be a reflective listener 5. "The best way to be interesting is to be interested in others" how to authentically ask questions 6. How people learn to be charming And tons more! Guest: Jordan Harbinger & Michael Costa Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Another week of diving into our best of Ask Women Vault. This week on our podcast we have the practice makes perfect master, Brad P on our show. The same Brad P that has now slept with 100's of women (he has a GF now) even though he is an introvert, skinny and looks like big bird... A cute big bird! Brad gives away his best and highly tested conversation routine that took him years to develop and a lot of blood, sweat and tears. Brad tells us exactly what to say at every stage of an interaction with a woman. Even if you are a woman, you will love this episode. Brad also brought up something super interesting to our female guest that a lot of women do not know... It's that something that makes me so good at what I do (ego stroke) He told our adorable female guest Catherine Urbanek that most of what women say they want is BS BECAUSE when they say what they want, they are thinking of a guy they are already totally into, giving it to them. Hopefully I'm phrasing the above correctly becaus Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Are you starting to see a certain pattern popping up in your dating life? For example constantly ending up in the friend zone. Or constantly getting rejected and shot down. Or not getting that second date. Is this pattern causing you great frustration because if it is then this episode is for you. Attraction and male dating expert Scot Mckay joins us to talk about how to break harmful patterns that are hurting your success with women. Even if you are a woman you will love this episode. Scot and the What She Wants team dive deep into the major patterns plaguing men and how to change those patterns so that you can avoid failure. Why you are doing a disservice to women if/when you don't go for it How to recover from a bad first impression Masculine vs. Feminine energy How to stop being put into the friend zone How to make sure you project masculine energy without upsetting her The "big 4": Confidence, Female Defined Masculinity, Creating Comfort, Character How to stop feeling ashamed of y Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Time for another blast from the past with one of our first ever podcasts. To this day Stone Cold Steve Austin is still one of my favorite guests and it's not for the reasons you think. I remember being so impressed with Stone Cold because he had so many different sides to him which made him extremely interesting and strangely attractive. Not sure if I'm supposed to reveal this cause it may ruin his "bad boy" image BUT Steve's actually one of the nicest men I have ever met. His public persona would make you think other wise but he was the sweetest, nicest man I've ever met and all of us girls were in love with him by the end of the podcast. YES we were attracted to him even though he was nice, respectful, and very polite! Steve was open and ready for anything me, Kristen and Haely threw his way. Nothing was off limits for discussion which is how we like it. Steve revealed to us: - How he gets women to do ANYTHING he wants - What went wrong in his past 3 marriages and what you can learn Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Are you a people pleaser? Worse yet... are you a woman pleaser, and I don't mean in the bedroom because that is totally acceptable ;-) Constantly aiming to please in dating and relationships is an instant attraction killer both for the women you're trying to please and YOU. This weeks episode is all about how to own YOU and be proud of who you are and how to stop being a people pleaser. Even if you are a woman, you will LOVE this episode. On this episode we over analyze and discuss: How to figure out who you are and what you like about you How to be proud of who you are and express that to others How to connect to women through your differences How to be ballsy with women without being a jerk How to select people that want what you want How to spot red flags before you get too deep How to respect yourself in dating And so much more! Guest: Mike Photography www.mikelloydphoto.com Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

I'm sure you've heard women say things like "I just want him to pin me up against a wall and take me" or "don't be so tender. I really want that Grr......" but what exactly does that mean and can you do that without accidentally finding yourself in jail?? So many men are confused about what women want in the bedroom. They're even more afraid to do something that could be seen as disrespectful or aggressive. Which is why this week Kristen and I explain how to treat a woman like a lady in the streets but a freak in the bed!!!!! Even if you are a woman, you'll love this episode. We also over analyze: Stupid mistakes guys make on datesHow to broach sticky subjects like STD testing, condoms...Are rich people more attractive and why?How to get back at girls who rejected you without being petty and childishHow to know what women really want vs. what they say they wantWhy doing what a woman tells you is actually a huge turn offAnd so much more! Guests: Marni Kinrys and Kristen Carney To have y Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

We're diving into our Vault of old episodes and bringing back an awesome episode that we originally recorded in 2015 with Tucker Maxx. Or as most people know him "the ultimate A-hole". Tucker joins us and reveals how he got so successful with women and how he turned his player status around and found the perfect woman for him. He spent quite some time identifying the type of woman he wanted and that helped him narrow down how and where he would meet the right women for him. He explains it much better than me :-) Even if you are a woman you will totally love this episode. We also discussed and overanalyzed: How to be okay with being selfish and focusing on YOU How to "just be you" How to set your dating boundaries How approaching women for sex is different than approaching for a relationship How to express your wants to women How to become a player How to figure out what kind of woman you want How to be unapologetic and honest without being an A-hole Plus so much more! Guests: Holly and Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This weeks episode is very interesting because you get to hear how 2 women talk about guys that they can't stop thinking about. Even though they say they're not into these guys... BUT as you'll hear, they sure do spend a lot of energy complaining and thinking about these guys. Even saying that because of their behavior, it makes them want his attention more. As you'll learn from this episode, there are little things you can do to get a woman thinking about you, wanting you to ask her out and getting her to chase you. On this episode we also over analyze: Whether or not you can date outside of your league/class How to make a woman think about you A thing that a lot of guys do that can take advantage of How to make your disability attractive And a ton more! Guest: Rachel O'brien To have your question over analyzed send them to [email protected] If you want to get more tips on how to attract, date, seduce, get and KEEP the women you want, go to winggirlmethod.com Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

The way to any woman's ummmm heart ;) is through a lot of teasing and challenging. A.K.A flirting. If you are not flirting with women that you are interested in, you are not attracting them. That's why on this weeks episode we want to dive into how to playfully tease and challenge CORRECTLY so that women will be excited by you and not shove you straight into the friend zone! Tripp from the popular VLOG Tripp Advice joins us to explain why women are so turned on by playful teasing and challenging and also provides examples of how to playfully tease and challenge women. How to get girls hooked on you No No example of teasing Why stating your POV is super sexy Why Marni's opinion on tipping is RIGHT ;-) How to challenge a woman correctly And much much more! NOTE: Bare with us as we try to master recording for ourselves. The sound is a little off but we're getting solutions and future episodes will be much better :-) Guest: Tripp from Tripp Advice To learn more about Tripp go to: winggirlm Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

We weren't sure what to title this episode because we covered sooooo many amazing topics with wonderful Adam Gilad. But a big chunk of this show was about how to calm, deal with and address a woman's emotions so that in the end, she likes you more. Whether it's a woman you are dating, your wife or even a family member or friend, this episode will tell you exactly what to say to calm any woman down and refrain from getting too emotional. PLUS she will like you more and find you more attractive because of it. GOLD if you ask me :-) We also have the long time listener and all around awesome guy Chuck on the show. Myself and Adam give him actionable advice on how to sexually escalate a conversation with a woman. Whether it's a woman he meets on the street or a woman he's dating. Chuck is now armed with great transition statements that will help him easily escalate things to a more sexual level with any woman he wants. We also over analyzed and discussed Exercises that can help you practice Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

How to talk to women is by far the #1 question that I get asked. Which is why I've dedicated a full episode to the topic how to start and keep great conversations going. My guests Damona Hoffman and Adam Wayne are both experts in communication and were kind enough to share some of their exercises, tips and tools that they use to have awesome conversations that not only spark attraction but also create connection. (Even if you are a woman listening to this show, there is a LOT for you to learn) This week we also over analyze and discuss: 1. How to learn to be playful 2. Questions to ask on dates 3. How to make a conversation flow 4. How to impress a woman in the first 30 seconds of talking 5. How to be fun 6. The 3 C's for creating an attractive online profile And sooooo much more! Guests: Damona Hoffman & Adam Wayne Marni highly recommends this book and thinks it provides great instructions on how to seduce women correctly! To have your question over analyzed send them to ask@askwomenp Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

What the hell does it mean to be charming and how exactly does one become charming? You see tons of other men charming the pants off of other women (literally) but you just can't seem to do it yourself. This week we dive into what it means to be charming and HOW to be charming. It's much easier than you think! Our guests Dave Hine and Kelsey Ale help define why women find charming men so attractive and how you can easily become charming. On this episode we also over analyze: How to go from hello to making out with a woman in under 30 seconds Signs she's interested How to create sexual tension How to start a conversation that sparks attraction How to approach and talk to shy girls How to read a shy girls signals How to express confidence vs. neediness How to appear cool to women Plus so much more!!! Guests: Dave Hine, Kelsey Ale To get a copy of the book I was reading during this show go here: www.winggirlmethod.com/richardr Marni highly recommends this book and thinks it provides great Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Heads up, this episode was recorded out of studio in Marni's kitchen so the quality may not be 100% great but the content is awesome. This week we dive into what you can do to make a great first impression with a woman. There are certain types of dates you can plan and things you can do on the date that will showcase you in a certain light and make her see you as a strong, attractive option. On this show we also discuss: 1. If it's possible to redeem yourself after a bad first impression 2. Great date ideas even if you have no money 3. Mistakes men make that give a bad impression with women 4. Easy things you can do to increase your confidence with women 5. What is means when a woman says she has a boyfriend 6. How to call out a woman when she tests ;you And much more! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Is the person your dating the right person for you? Do they share your values? Are they a drain on your emotions and energy? Are they a psychopath?? These are important things to know before you get to deep into a relationship and reach the point of no return. That's why our guest, Heather Havenwood is on our show sharing her would you rather test for figuring out if the person you are dating is right for you. On this episode we also discuss and over analyze: 1. How to read a woman's body language 2. What do certain body language signals from women really mean? 3. Which would you rather technique and how to use it to select the right people for you 4. What are women in Texas attracted to? 5. How to alter your own body language to be more attractive 6. How to explain to women that you are a MAN 7. How to make a woman open up and explain why she's upset in manglish Even if you are a woman, you will STILL enjoy this episode . Guest: Heather Havenwood If you have a question you want answer Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

NOTE: Please please please take a moment to help us by filling out a survey here: http://www.wondery.com/survey It will help us make our show better for you :-) What the hell are women looking for in a man? What do we find attractive, what turns us off and what makes us want to you over other men? On this weeks episode we find out the answers to these questions plus much much more. My adorable and newly single neighbor/best friend joins us and tells us all about the her experience of dating in 2017 after not dating in over 10 years. The great thing about her is that she is a normal woman, not in entertainment which means she'll provide insight into what REAL women want. On this show we dive into: 1. What to text after a date and what to NEVER text 2. How to express value to women without sounding arrogant 3. How to act on a first date 4. The 10 commandments of dating 5. What women are looking for on the 1st date 6. How to be thoughtful without coming across needy 7. Female 2nd date equ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Approaching a random woman can be pretty freaking scary. That's why this week we have on a special guest who has developed an approaching anxiety annihilator called the 10 Second Detective. Using this tools helps ease those feelings of nervousness and easily start conversations with women you just meet. On this episode we also discuss and over analyze: 1. How to get others talking 2. How to start becoming more confident and how you can LEARN to be confident 3. How to break why people out of their shell 4. How to tell if someone is shy vs. rude vs. bitchy 5. How to stop being shy 6. How to escalate things with a female friend or co-worker 7. Easy ways to create a romantic atmosphere Even if you are a woman, you will STILL enjoy this episode . Guest: Phil (Listener) If you have a question you want answered on air write into [email protected] and follow us at @askwomenpodcast For more tips and advice from Marni go to www.winggirlmethod.com and follow @winggirlmethod For more from Kr Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This week we dive deep into our inbox and answer questions from listeners. It's a full episode of over analyze this, which we actually tried to shorten to don't over analyze this and just give great advice ;-) Pick up artist, life coach and apparently vessel for goddesses to speak through, Vince Kelvin joins us for great conversation, tips and advice. On this show we analyze and advise on: 1. How to avoid the friend zone and get the hell out of it forever 2. WHY women test men and how to pass all tests with flying colors 3. Breaking down mixed messages and how to understand them 4. How to give a good first impression 5. How to approach women and what to say And so much more! Even if you are a woman, you will STILL enjoy this episode . Guest: Vince Kelvin If you have a question you want answered on air write into [email protected] and follow us at @askwomenpodcast For more tips and advice from Marni go to http://www.winggirlmethod.com and follow @winggirlmethod For more from Krist Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Do women give second chances and can you recover from a bad 1st impression? On this weeks episode we bring on one of our favorite regular guests, Marissa Madsen (co-author of The F-Formula) and super cute girl, to discuss this topic in great detail. We also discuss: 1. What's your animal? Quick tool to give you great body language and confidence 2. How to make phone calls less scary 3. How to easily calm your nerves 4. How to have good conversations with women 5. Proper date attire 6. Sexuality killers And so much more!! Even if you are a woman, you will STILL enjoy this episode . Guest: Marissa Madsen If you have a question you want answered on air write into [email protected] and follow us at @askwomenpodcast For more tips and advice from Marni go to http://www.winggirlmethod.com and follow @winggirlmethod For more from Kristen follow her on twitter @kristencar Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

I'm not going to approach her because she seems busy....If I approach now, it will seem creepy...I can't approach her at the gym, that's just wrong.... These are just a few examples of the excuses I hear guys like you use every day to keep them from approaching the women they want. But are these excuses a reality? Is it true that women don't want be approached? On this weeks episode of Ask Women we talk to 24 year old cutie, Clancy about whether or not women want to be approached AND how to approach women. We also discuss: 1. Is it the man's responsibility to approach? 2. Do women let men know when they want to be approached? 3. CAN women make the first move? Approach? 4. Quick ways to get confidence and stop being nervous 5. What does it mean when a woman says MAYBE? 6. Are women turned off by men that are femme? 7. How to alter your voice to sound more masculine And sooooo much more! Guest: Clancy from 3 Day Rule http://www.3dayrule.com You can find out more about Marni's Wing Girl M Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Today we cover everybody's favorite topic... How To Avoid The Friend Zone. Pick Up Artist Brad P joins us to discuss tactics for avoiding the friend zone and how to get out of it when you find yourself stuck in it. On this show we also discussed: 1. What to do when they start pulling away 2. How to re-spark attraction 3. How to appear confident even if you don't have confidence 4. Why even when you do everything RIGHT, it still may not work 5. Dating fatigue.... it's a real thing! 6. How to pick the right people for you And so much more!! Guests: Brad P Learn more about Brad P and his 10 minute seduction technique here: http://www.winggirlmethod.com/10minute-seduction-bradp You can find out more about Marni's Wing Girl Method by going to www.winggirlmethod.com Follow us on Twitter: @winggirlmethod @askwomenpodcast @kristencarney #howtoaskherout #whentoaskherout #datingadviceformen Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Holy Sh&t!!!! 200 episodes of The Ask Women Podcast. That is awesome. To celebrate this huge milestone we dove deep into a topic that we know you want to better understand.... women and sex! Comedian and hot girl Stevie Ryan joins us in studio as well as a rep from the hook up app pure, to tell us about casual sex from the female point of view. On this weeks show we also discuss: 1. Major turns off you may not even know you are doing 2. Top reasons why women will have casual sex 3. How to tell when a woman is up for just sex vs. relationship 4. Signs it's over and you should move on 5. How to spot red flags And so much more! Even if you are a woman, you will STILL enjoy this episode . Guest: Stevie Ryan and Nastya from Pure App If you have a question you want answered on air write into [email protected] and follow us at @askwomenpodcast For more tips and advice from Marni go to http://www.winggirlmethod.com and follow @winggirlmethod For more from Kristen follow her on twitter @k Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This weeks episode was an interesting one as we dove into the topic of when it may be smart to take a break from dating. We also talked about how to know when to avoid someone else. Sometimes it's just not the right time for dating! On this weeks show we also discussed: 1. How to date when you feel depressed and down 2. What to do get over that funk 3. Different types of depression 4. IF it's fair to date when you are depressed 5. How to date a person that suffers from depression 6. How to talk to women about your values And so much more! Guests: Aaron Shwartz, Rayne You can find out more about Marni's Wing Girl Method by going to www.winggirlmethod.com Follow us on Twitter: @winggirlmethod @askwomenpodcast @kristencarney #howtoaskherout #whentoaskherout #datingadviceformen Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

How the hell do you charm a woman?? There is so much information mixed information out there. Which is why on this weeks episode we dive into what it means to be charming AND how to do it! On this show they also discuss: 1. Exercise for becoming good at small talk (The Tennis Ball Game) 2. Why you are awesome just because you listen to this show 3. Why your tonality is important and how to alter it 4. How to be a reflective listener 5. "The best way to be interesting is to be interested in others" how to authentically ask questions And tons more! Guest Jordan Harbinger and Michael Coasta Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Today's show was VERY interesting and I want you to really listen to it because this episode is a great example of real conversations women have about what they expect from men. Kristen and her guest, host of It's Complicated, Jen Golden discuss what they want in a man and the type of man their hoping to meet. (Even if you are a woman listening to this show, there is a LOT for you to learn) Good or bad. Right or wrong. It's what they think and believe. Again a great episode to listen to because it will give you great insight into what women want AND what to do to give that to them without altering who you are. This week is also different because just like the conversation this episode is raw with no editing. Our editor is on vacation ;-) On this show they also discuss: 1. First date DO's 2. Witty first lines that work and don't work 3. HUGE turn offs you may be doing but are not aware you are doing 4. Online picture critiques 5. Tips for letting someone in and getting close 6. Vulnerab Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Relationships are no longer as cut and dry as they once were. Some people want to be monogamous. Some people want to be open and have multiple partners. Some people want to date people of the same sex. Some people don't identify with a "sex". On today's episode we talk about non-traditional relationships and how to define a relationship that works for you and your partner. On this episode we also discuss: 1. Why pickup messes you up with women 2. How to spot your own patterns that are ruining your chances with women 3. How to play hard to get without pushing women away 4. How to be vulnerable with women without looking like a wuss 5. Tips for letting someone in and getting close 6. Vulnerable defined 7. #1 women get excited about And tons more! Guests: Alex Cooper This was a really fun episode and I promise you won't be disappointed when you listen! For more information from Marni go to www.winggirlmethod.com and from Kristen go to @kristencarney If you want to ask us questions that we Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

To be honest, we didn't know what to label this podcast because our guest covered SOOOOOO many different topics. But the biggest theme throughout the show was exploring differences and how to decide your type and what is best for you when selecting mates, dates and casual partners. We discuss: 1. How to eliminate false beliefs and recognize excuses that are stopping you from getting what you want 2. How women think (multi task) and how it applies to sex 3. How womens brains are different 4. How to help a woman get out of her head 5. How to bring up sticky topics with women i.e. too fat, bad breath, smell down there 6. How to spot a flake or ghoster 7. How to be better on the phone 8. how to handle differences with those you date and when to know when/if you are just to different. 9. how to identify your "type" 10. How to know if you are too different and when to call it quits 11. Great openers and topics And tons more! Guests: Sam Tripoli This was a really fun episode and I promise you Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Getting over someone is one of the hardest things to do. That is, until you get under someone else ;-0 On this weeks episode we talk about things you can do to get over someone. Whether you were dating for a short period, a long period or not even at all, these things will help you get over a person and move on to bigger and greater. On this show we also discuss: 1. How to show someone you like them without looking needy or eager 2. What it means to LISTEN in conversation 3. How to have flowing conversation 4. What to do if you are still a virgin 5. If a feminine guy can still be seen as masculine and attractive to women And so much more! Guests: Jerry Rocha and Molly Harper This was a really fun episode and I promise you won't be disappointed when you listen! For more information from Marni go to www.winggirlmethod.com and from Kristen go to @kristencarney If you want to ask us questions that we can answer on air send them to [email protected] You can also listen to all of our p Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Sometimes, you only get 1 shot to make a good impression. Which is why knowing how to rock that first impression is so important!!! That's why this weeks episode is all about the things to avoid when you first meet someone so that you do not make a bad first impression. On this episode we also discuss and cover: 1. How display vulnerability in a sexy/attractive way 2. How to show value and pride vs. arrogance 3. How to express who you are to a woman 4. Why lying will bite you in the butt every time 5. What to do if she flakes or doesn't respond to you 6. How to avoid screwing up over text 7. Cross culture dating and how to do it successfully 8. Best date ideas And so much more! Guests: Molly Harper This was a really fun episode and I promise you won't be disappointed when you listen! For more information from Marni go to www.winggirlmethod.com and from Kristen go to @kristencarney If you want to ask us questions that we can answer on air send them to [email protected] You can als Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Not even sure if I'm spelling Woo correctly. Hope I am! This weeks episode is all about Wooing and how to be devilishly charming. (Even if you are a woman listening to this show, there is a LOT for you to learn) We have Wooing expert in studio with us whose name happens to be Patrick Wu. His name didn't just happen by chance. He's actually extremely charming and provides great tips, advice and actual things to say that will make you come across as charming. Patrick was able to charm me by announcing to all podcast listeners just how funny I am compared to Kristen!!!!!!!!!!! How could I not like the guy after he said that, ha. We also have online expert Damona Hoffman giving some excellent tips on how to set up your profile and construct your first message. On this weeks show we also discuss: 1. Signs she wants to play with you and signs she wants you to back off 2. How to have playful conversations 3. How to know when to call it quits 4. How to move your conversation forward from bante Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

What does she feel/think about sex? I know this is a question that every man wants to know the answer to. There are soooooo many mixed messages about women and what they think/feel about sex. Do they like being seen as sexual? Do they want to be sexual? When is the right time to initiate sexual activity with a woman you are dating...and IF you don't initiate is she going to be insulted and assume you don't like her? I get the confusion which is why we wanted to dig deep into this topic of HOW WOMEN THINK ABOUT SEX!! (Even if you are a woman listening to this show, there is a LOT for you to learn) Michael (my client) is joined by Kristen's doppelganger Zara Mizrahi (she's really really pretty). We asked Michael to join us because he's been asking me a ton of questions, just like the ones above that we know are on your mind as well. One of these big questions is what do women think about sex. Which is a pretty big question that we're heavily diving into on today's episode. On this weeks Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Wikipedia defines romantic chemistry as: Chemistry (relationship) In the context of relationships, chemistry is a simple "emotion" that two people get when they share a special connection. It is not necessarily sexual. It is the impulse making one think "I need to see this [other] person again" - that feeling of "we click". But what the hell does that actually mean and HOW do you use this information to create chemistry with the people you meet. On this weeks episode we dive into what the heck chemistry means and how you can actually create chemistry with the people you date. On this weeks show we also discuss: 1. Chemistry Blockers defined - how to eliminate them and how to make sure you are creating the best opportunity for chemistry to be made 2. How to avoid getting crushed or hurt by someone whose just not that into you 3. How to communicate your intentions clearly to ensure you are on the same page 4. Does money matter to women AND when does it matter? 5. How to decide if you hav Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Chelsea Handler friend and co-star Heather McDonald joins us in studio to discuss what it means to be a man in 2017 and what do women really respond to. Today's show involves some very sticky topics including the female POV on what IS sexual harassment and things women take offense to but aren't telling you about. We also dive into 1. How to avoid frustration and resentment in your Long Term Relationship 2. How to alleviate built up tension between you and your significant other 3. How to "work on" your relationship and what it actually means 4. How to have a successful long term relationship - secrets to success 5. DECODED: The little things women do that confuse you 6. Insecurities women have that men don't know about 7. Things women do that you may misinterpret as her not liking you that actually mean something else And so much more! Guests: Heather McDonald and Mike Falzone This was a really fun episode and I promise you won't be disappointed when you listen! For more information f Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

How the hell do you start a conversation with a complete strange???? Or even worse, a woman you are attracted to??? Mike Falzone is back in studio with us to explain the art of active listening. Something that most people don't do but if they did, conversation would become so much easier for them. Mike gives us examples of: 1. how to actively listen 2. how to create conversation out of thin air 3. how to approach anyone anywhere and always have something to say 4. how to start and continue conversation AND most importantly 5. how to get out of your own head so that you can talk to anyone 6. Why having a plan for conversation will screw you up with women every time Catherine Urbanek joins us for the 2nd half of the show to dig into our inbox and over analyze this! We discuss: 1. When and if and HOW to tell someone you are shy 2. Is it a turn off to be shy? 3. Calling vs. Texting what is better? 4. First date ideas and rules 5. Appropriate first dates for those you meet online 6. How to Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Happy ALMOST Holidays!!! This week it's just Kristen and Marni in studio digging into our mail bag and over analyzing this!!! Topics covered on this show: 1. Why women can change their mind about you at the drop of a dime 2. How to avoid creeping women out or being a creep 3. How to state your intentions without turning her off 4. How your mind is messing up your dating and sex life 5. Trick for making great eye contact that is intoxicating 6. Rules for texting and how to build attraction over text 7. What to talk to women about so that it showcases YOU and helps you select the best women for you 8. How to put you out there in a confident attractive way 9. How to avoid rejection AND so much more!!!! Great dating advice for men from a female perspective. Guests: Marni Kinrys, Kristen Carney and Curt This was a really fun episode and I promise you won't be disappointed when you listen! For more information from Marni go to www.winggirlmethod.com and from Kristen go to @kristencarney If y Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Today's episode is a "special" episode of The Ask Women Podcast. We did a favor to our old producer and voice of man, Mo. He produces a show for The Rock's youtube channel called Friday Night Fred and he asked us if the host could come onto our show in character and of course we said YES. We can't say no to Mo. So this episode is really meant for entertainment BUT: 1. It is entertaining and really funny 2. It does deliver really good, actionable information on how to approach a woman, ask her on a date and plan the date. We also discuss: 1. The modern man and definition for masculinity 2. Why most guys hold back their personality from women and the negative result it has (Nice guy, friend zone) 3. When to bring up sticky topics or "things" about you that may turn someone off? i.e. fetishes, kids, divorce And much more. This was a really fun episode and I promise you won't be disappointed when you listen! For more information from Marni go to www.winggirlmethod.com and from Kristen go t Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This week we dive into dating protocols. The do's and the don'ts that tend to bite you in the butt and ruin your chances. It's tough to know when and how to do things and doing things at the wrong time and the wrong way, can totally screw things up. This week provide you with a cheat sheet for ALL things dating. Things like when to call after you get the number, when to text after a date, WHAT to text after a date, when to kiss, when to have sex, how to communicate what you want even if it's casual, how to end things, how to break up.... And so many more protocols that you will definitely come across when navigating the dating waters. We are joined in studio vivacious Kaz and Rude Jude. Kaz reveals to us about a big protocol mistake that her now ex boyfriend made. You don't want to miss this episode! For more information from Marni go to www.winggirlmethod.com and from Kristen go to @kristencarney If you want to ask us questions that we can answer on air send them to ask@askwomenpodcas Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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Can you recover from making a bad first impression with women? Find out in today's podcast. The funny thing about women is that one day we can see you a certain way - e.g. friend, nice guy, NON sexual, and then the next day we can see you totally differently just because you alter something in your behavior. This is good news for you! On this show, Marni is not in studio and it's just Kristen and KT Tatara discussing how it's possible to recover from making a bad 1st impression and how to you can do it. They also discuss: 1. how to date anyone no matter what race you are. 2. Good first messages to send vs. bad messages 3. When to keep pursuing and when to know to quit 4. How to cast a more narrow net so that you can catch good partners 5. What qualities say "good partner for me" And so much more! Share on Facebook twitter Google+ For more information from Marni go to http://www.winggirlmethod.com and from Kristen go to @kristencarney If you want to ask us questions that we can answer o Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

HAPPY DAY AFTER THANKSGIVING!!!!!! We kept this episode extra intimate and did not bring on a guest. Myself, Kristen and our new sound board operator Omar whiz through tons of questions from listeners like you. On this show we cover: 1. How to keep things casual with someone and how to handle it when they want more 2. How to date with confidence when you have an obvious disability or short coming (this advice can be applied to anything you think is holding you back from dating) 3. How to manage dating and relationship expectations so that both people are on the same page 4. How to eliminate the fear that everyone is watching you when you approach or talk to women 5. How to avoid giving a "F&*K" about what other people think 6. How to be bold and just go for it 7. How to pull others into your conversation with a woman so that you appear higher value and more interesting 8. How to ask a woman out in a cute and funny way (lots of examples of what to do and how to do it) 9. Why being bold Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

We all know that in the beginning stages of meeting and dating someone, we don't really let our real selves show. It's not that you're hiding anything and neither are women BTW, it's just that in beginning everything is at it's best including us. Revealing the "real you" at the wrong time in the wrong way can be the #1 dating and relationship destroyer. So when is it time to get comfortable and start showing her the real you? AND how do you make sure that she's still attracted to you, once those sides get shows? Find out on today's episode. We have comedian Nick on the show to discuss when to reveal the real you and HOW to reveal the real you so that she wants to stick around. We also discuss: 1. How there are multiple ways to say the same thing and what are the best ways to express things to women so that they won't hate you. 2. What to do if you screw up and have a human moment and how to recover from it 3. How to bring up sticky topics with women and avoid conflict 4. Nickname No No Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices