How To GET THE GIRL - An Ask Women Podcast

This one is a goodie!! We have Andy and Imogen Killyourinnerloser.com on the show to discuss how they have successfully navigated an open relationship and now welcome new women into their bedroom on a regular basis! Here are some of the topics covered on the call - How to have 3somes with 2 girls (including in an open relationship). - How to meet women and get laid on Tinder. - How to be honest and real with women (treating them like they're on the same team as you). - How to leave women better than you found them (how to add to & improve the lives of women you date). Guest: Andy and Imogen Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

The DREADED approach! It's human nature to fear starting a conversation with a stranger. But, good news! You don't have to be afraid anymore. On this week's specially chosen re-run, Mark Sing is here to tell us HOW to eliminate approach anxiety so that you can stop being held back by that crucial first step to meeting the women of your dreams. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Seduction expert Brad P is no longer coaching BUT he made a special exception for the ladies and he is BACK for this show and this show ONLY. And, he's here to teach YOU how to seduce while trying to get the girl. He also gives you the goods on HOW to make a special gal feel oh-so-comfortable so she'll be more likely to let you in, both mentally AND physically. Don't miss this fun episode packed with tips, tricks, methods and TOOLS... so you don't become one :) Guest: Brad P - Bradp.com Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This was an amazing episode with the wonderful dominey drew. She is a master at unblocking all that SH&T you tell yourself that stops you from having massive success with women. Happy New Year! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

For holidays we're taking some time to recharge and we hope you do too. BUT, before you do, here's a hand-selected episode that we're re-airing with Marni's ORIGINAL winggirl, Natela Valentin. In this oldie but goodie, Natela tells us what it actually means to be yourself and why it's so attractive. We also chat about HOW to have great conversations with women so that you don't get stuck in interview mode and we also also get the goods on HOW to be seen as a multi-dimensional man. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Dominey Drew is back and here to help you get to the bottom of WHY you have the struggles with women that you do - things like shyness, approach anxiety, inability to meet women etc. She is going to give you the tools you need to eliminate those road blocks so you can get on the road to dating that is wide open, free and clear. www.domineydrew.com www.KristenandChill.com www.winggirlmethod.com Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This week, we have hot, young (20 something) single Abby on the show to give us the inside scoop on what dating in your 20's is like right now, how it's changed with COVID, what to expect and how to do it successfully. She's also here to talk about approaching - what has and has not worked for her and her friends when they're out and about and how to win her over with a killer smile. For more dating help, go to www.kristenandchill.com and www.winggirlmethod.com Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Confidence is not some elusive thing that can never be realized. It's achievable if you're willing to put in the hard work. And, this week, we have Akeem Griffiths, runner up of Big Brother UK to walk us through, step by step, how to achieve the confidence you deserve. He also gives us the goods on how to successfully approach so you can start connecting with the women that YOU want. Need hands-on help you with confidence or approaching? We're here to help. www.KristenandChill.com www.WinggirlMethod.com Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This is a short little bonus episode where Kristen and I discuss the female POV on hair loss. Special guest: Andrew from the Bosley Team :) Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

You don’t get what you want without asking for it. It's time to STOP sabotaging yourself and Brad DeMint, host of the How to Win podcast and a killer salesman is here to tell us how. Brad gives us the goods on how to ask for what you want but also how to figure out what it is that you even want in the first place. www.braddemint.com www.winggirlmethod.com www.kristenandchill.com Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In honor of International Men's Day, this episode is ALL about men and masculinity. Mark Sing is back to tell us how to harness that manly side of yours and how to use it to your benefit to make your dating life go from zero to hero. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Looking your best is a necessity if you want to turn the volume up on your dating game and Jon Shanahan from TheKavalier.com is here to talk about just HOW to do that. This episode, tune in for men's grooming, fashion, style and how to start forming your own if you're lost in the cargo shorts jungle. www.Stryx.com www.thekavalier.com www.kristenandchill.com www.winggirlmethod.com Guest: Jon Shanahan Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This episode is all about how to FIND that spark and how to KEEP that spark alive. Anne McCarthy from the Twisted History podcast is here to tell us all about what attracted to her husband many years ago and how they still keep making people jealous with their love today. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Instead of looking at your limitations as a flaw, look at them as a gift and the thing that makes you UNIQUE. This week, Mindie Kniss of Lucra, a coaching firm devoted to helping entrepreneurs create wealth in all areas of life, joins us to talk about her late husband and HOW, despite his stature, won her affection and more importantly, her heart and mind. Mindie also talks to us about re-finding passion for yourself and your dating life so you can get back out there with the zest you once had. Guest: Mindie Kniss https://mindiekniss.com/ https://www.instagram.com/mindiekniss/ https://kristenandchill.com/ https://www.winggirlmethod.com/ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Joshua Spodek, best selling author and 3x TEDx speaker joins the show this week to teach us how to seduce and get what what you want, not only in the bedroom, but also in life. Joshua takes Kristen through a mock-convo/date to reveal just how he does it, moment by moment, step by step. https://joshuaspodek.com/ https://twitter.com/spodek https://kristenandchill.com/ https://www.winggirlmethod.com/ Guest Josh Spodek Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

We use language every day but take for granted how powerful it can be if used right. This week, Spencer Burnett is back to use his language to teach you how to use YOUR language, not only to get the girl, but to ALSO build your confidence and self worth. Once those qualities are realized, there's no stopping you from getting everything you want. Guest: Spencer Barnett https://www.facebook.com/spencer.burnett24 https://www.instagram.com/spencerburnett https://kristenandchill.com/ https://www.winggirlmethod.com/ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Doing whatever a woman wants is NOT how you win her affection. And, this week, transformational guide Jaime Haas is here to teach us how to stop pleasing and appeasing women so that you can break patterns that keep you from getting the things that you want in your dating life. Guest: Jaime Hass https://www.facebook.com/jaimebhaas www.jaimebhaas.com Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This week, Marni and Kristen discuss a networking event they attended where all the men were dressed like MEN. But, not just any men. SMART, SOPHISTICATED and most importantly SEXY men. Listen to the ladies as they break down HOW to dress to make her go goo-goo, WHY it makes them so giddy and WHAT you need to start making the sidewalk your runway. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

On today's episode we dive into interior design. A topic we've rarely talked about even though it holds huge importance. We're not talking about the size of your home or how expensive it is. We're talking about the state of your home and why that's so important to women. Our guest Carla Sofia tells us everything you need to know to make your home inviting and exciting to women Guest: Carla Sofia Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Self sabotage is REAL, but the good news? So is STOPPING it. The OTHER good news? It is EASIER than you think. So, this week Dominey Drew, an expert in transpersonal psychology joins us to tell how to SHIFT the distorted ways we see ourselves so you can finally start dating the women you WANT and more importantly, the women you deserve. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Women in their 40's are a HUGE category of women! Some are single moms, some are ball buster alpha females in the business world, some are wounded from past experiences with men. So how do you navigate these muddy waters? Our guest today is going to tell you her experience as a single mom, kick ass business woman dating in today's world. She'll tell you what works and what doesn't work. What to expect and what "things" really mean that come out of the mouth of a woman in her 40's. This was a great episode and even if you are a woman, you will learn something from this! Guest: Heidi, New York single mom who works in the finance industry. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Dating is hard enough as it is, why make it harder by hiding you who you really are and NOT asking for what you want? This week, guest Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby, coach and therapist of growingself.com teaches us how to grow our self confidence so we can be who we truly are. She also gives us the goods on attachment styles and how to recognize what yours may be. If yours is in a not-so-healthy place, not to worry! She gives us the tools we need to begin to change things for the better. Guest: Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Yes, we can all agree that SEX IS FUN! BUT, "fun" sex without any meaning can get real old, real fast. This week, we have Rabbi Shmuel Pollen back to tell us all about HOW to have sex rituals like those in the Jewish community that will give your sex life MORE than just physical pleasure, but mental pleasure as well. This episode will not only help you rev up that spark, it will also help you REIGNITE that spark. Because for her, so much of intimacy is MENTAL. Tap into her mind so you can tap in everywhere else. Get listening. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

There is NOTHING attractive about being vanilla, flat or boring. So, this week, we have Dr. Alise Cortez on to talk about having passion and purpose and WHY it's just so darn sexy and appealing. But, how do you figure out what you're passionate about in the first place? Don't worry! We discuss that too. We give you the tools and tips you'll need to pull out your passion so you can pull people, and more importantly, women, in. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Long title but that's because it's all true. On this episode, we have Social Scientist and data analyst Chris Vaccaro to discuss tools and tactics for eliminating insecurities, fears and limiting beliefs that hold you back with women AND life. This episode was one of my favorites so far because as you know I LOVE learning new ways to coach yourself out of issues.... and I love hearing that many of the teachings I have are also used by scientists ;-) Please listen to this episode and then DO what is said. Try everything and see what happens. We have a bunch of resource links below for you to read more about the tools and tactics discussed in this episode. Enjoy! Guest: Chris Vaccaro - Contact info: [email protected] Resources: Self-Desensitization Instructions: The most proven method to reduce phobias, anxiety, and fear Systematic Desensitization - A Guide to Psychology and it’s Practice Wikipedia - Cognitive Behavioral Therapy Wikipedia: Acceptance and commitment therapy Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

If you’re wondering what traits women are looking for in their dream beau, wonder no further because we have expert Lizzie Brown from Yoga Wake Up filling us and YOU in on the 3 *most* important characteristics women WANT in a MAN. You’ll have to wait until you hit play and listen if you want to know what they are. HINT: one those traits is the VERY THING you’re doing RIGHT NOW. Curious what that is? Great! GET LISTENING. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

NO MORE Snapchat filters. NO MORE wondering for weeks if you and your new match will have chemistry. Getting the “filter off” and getting real when it comes to internet dating will make your dating life so much smoother. So, we have Zach, the founder of the AMAZING dating app “Filter Off” sharing WHERE TO MEET WOMEN ON THE INTERNET, how to NAIL that first online date and how to get the girl to say yes to a virtual date in the first place. Since our daily lives are STILL being lived from behind a screen, it's time to filter the people with the filters and Zach will tell you how. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Seduction expert Brad P is no longer coaching BUT he made a special exception for the ladies and he is BACK for this show and this show ONLY. And, he's here to teach YOU how to seduce while trying to get the girl. He also gives you the goods on HOW to make a special gal feel oh-so-comfortable so she'll be more likely to let you in, both mentally AND physically. Don't miss this fun episode packed with tips, tricks, methods and TOOLS... so you don't become one :) Guest: Brad P - Bradp.com Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

"How do I date outside of my race???" We get this question A LOT. And, Myke, from Social Confidence Mastery is on this week's episode to school you on HOW to go from nervous and timid to CONFIDENT and IN CHARGE with women from any race. Originally from the Philippines, Myke lived in the Middle East and eventually settled in Canada so he knows first hand how hard it can be to slip seamlessly into a new culture. Follow his amazing TIPS and TRICKS and you'll be well on your way to having your pick of any litter. Guest Myke from Social Confidence Mastery Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Did you know that there are a ton of tiny grooming and style things that can completely turn women off that most men have no clue about? Well there are and on this weeks show we will tell you about many of them. 1 HUGE turn off for women is men who do not practice proper grooming.... A.KA manscaping. On this weeks episode we explain how to properly manscape with our awesome guest Anna Horford. This episode is powered by Manscaped. Guest: Anna Harford Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

ALPHA!!!! This word has such a different meaning than it did even 5 years ago. But what the heck does it mean to be alpha? To really be A MAN? Our guest Kevin Aillaud joins us to explain how to be an alpha man and own the world around you. Kevin truly embodies everything he teaches about being a confident alpha man. Which you'll hear on the show. This is an awesome episode :) Guest Kevin Aillaud https://thealphamalecoach.com/ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Will women date short men? Does height really matter to women? If I'm shorter than average, how can I get a leg up in the looks department and be attractive to women? These are the questions we cover on today's podcast. Brock McGoff joins us to tell us why women actually like shorter men better than taller men AND how to be confident about your height. Brock delivers some amazing advice on how to build your confidence about being short and how to improve your style so that your height is never an issue. We also discuss: - Easy ways to improve your style/appearance - Confidence and why "be more confident" is bad advice - Life as a shorter guy - style, dating, career, etc. And so much more! Guest: Brock McGoff - https://www.themodestman.com/ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

I know we're all slowly getting back out there BUT most likely we'll all be moving back in. Which means that online dating will once again become the key resource for meeting women. And virtual dates will be replacing most of your first dates. Which is why we brought on Televisions best resource for online dating Carmelia Ray to discuss how to online dating during a pandemic. We discuss a ton on this show but mainly focus on: 1. How to date online during a pandemic 2. Virtual date best practices 3. What to do on virtual dates 4. Best lighting and angles and outfits for virtual dates and so much more! Guest: Carmelia Ray - https://www.carmeliaray.com/ Find out more about matching making with Carmelia Ray https://carmelia-ray-matchmaking.smartmatchapp.com/client/submissionform/14/ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

How do you even start building your self esteem??? That's a huge question that so many people struggle with and sadly don't try to find an answer for. Lucky for you listeners we have the king of build self esteem AND building muscles on our show today to tell you how to do it. Guest: Matt Reynolds is the Owner of Barbell Logic Barbell-Logic.com Check out our amazing sponsor Tiege Hanley for unbelievable Skin Care programs just for men! http://www.tiege.com/askwomen Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

After a week of yelling and fighting, it’s time to soothe those ears with some Ask Women Podcast action. Communication is the key to ALL relationships. Not just your relationships with women. And right now our words and we use them hold extreme power. Which is why this weeks episode could NOT have come at a better time. This week we have @shawnaleetaylor, a communication and personality EXPERT and owner of Buti Fitness who gives us the goods on personality types, how to determine someone’s, which ones work with which and so much more that will give you a one up on your competition. She also gives us a peek behind her online dating life and how to win her (and her personality type) over. How To Talk To ALL Different Types of Women Get on it. Guest: Shawn Taylor https://www.facebook.com/butiyoga/ https://www.butiyoga.com/ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This is an awesome episode and I know you will LOVE LOVE LOVE it!! We have a return guest, Spencer Burnett on the show to teach about precise language. How the words you speak and think effect your level of attraction, your confidence and overall way of being. It's pretty awesome. Spencer does a live example of his precise language technique on me (Marni) to show new words to say and think that will help eliminate approach anxiety. This description is not doing the technique justice. So you gotta listen and hear for yourself ;) Guest: Spencer Burnett For more info on spencer go to: https://www.winggirlmethod.com/spencerprecise Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Groups of women can be intimidating. I know right now, you probably won't come across tons of groups of women. But it's still a skill set that you want to have in your back pocket JUST in case ;) Which is why we brought on the amazing Patrick James to help teach you how to approach groups of women no matter what age they are. Meaning, we dive into different age groups and tell you how to "crack" the group and get the girl you want. Guest: Patrick James Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

What the heck do other guys do to be successful with women? Well on this weeks episode we have Mindie Kaplan host of The Male Room who shares with us what successful guys do RIGHT with women and how you can do these same things very easily. Check out our amazing sponsor Tiege Hanley for unbelievable Skin Care programs just for men! http://www.tiege.com/askwomen Guest: Mindie Kaplan host of the "MaleRoom" @wearemaleroom @themindieproject Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Past podcast guest and all around awesome guy, KURT joins us to share everything he has learned from 2 years of extensive, painful research in online dating practices. Kurt is just a regular guy whose been through the ups and downs of online dating and asked us if he could share what he's learned from it. He shares useful tips, tools and mindsets for successfully using online dating. Guest: Kurt P Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Nuance. Social Cues. Body Language. These are all very tough things for most people to read. Which is why today's episode has an amazing expert, who I also called friend, to explain how to read ALL signs she's flirting. We dive into what nuance means and why it's SO important to helping you understand the signs she's flirting with you. Our guest is the amazing Suzanne Tabachnick owner of Social Foundations. http://socialfoundationsla.com/ https://www.facebook.com/SocialFoundations/?ref=bookmarks Suzanne Tabachnick is the owner and founder of Social Foundations. Suzanne has over 15 years of experience as a professional social learning coach, working with children and adults that experience social challenges due to Autism Spectrum, ADHD, and Anxiety. Suzanne is also a mother of 2, with an adult child on the spectrum. Guest Suzanne Tabachnick Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Last name revealed: Baumfalk!!! My coach, Adam Wayne joins us on today's podcast to discuss how to communicate your vulnerabilities to women WITHOUT making yourself appear less attractive. In fact, expressing your vulnerabilities to women can actually make you more attractive to women and Adam is going to tell you WHY and how. Even if you are a woman, you will love this episode. Guest: Adam Wayne - Ask Adam ANYTHING - askadamaquestion.com Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Yes I said shortcomings. Did you know you can use the things you don't like about yourself and are not proud of to actually attract more women? Well you can. And on this weeks episode we have an amazing RED HEADED guest who is going to explain how to do it. On this episode we also discuss: - how to find the right woman for you and go after her - how to create a strategy for getting a specific girl - How to attract and get different types of women - How to mentally get past things without going to therapy and so much more! Guest: Yoann Bohbot, Founder of dotsspace.com Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Bobby Rio the KING of nice guys into guys that get girls, joins us to discuss 5 most attractive traits that ALL men need to have and can easily get! Little preview of them. They are: 1. Certainty 2. Non Reactive 3. Claim 4. Quiet Power 5. Integrity He explains in great detail each of these traits and how YOU can gain them easily ;) To learn more about Bobby and get your hands on one of his awesome programs go to: https://www.winggirlmethod.com/bobbyrio5 Link to video from YouTube where bobby walks you through 5 "Older Guy" Qualities Younger Women Chase in a Man | Use THESE Instead of Money to Attract Her: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=oJ3xExpWaAI&t=223s Guest: Bobby Rio Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

David Shade joins us to discuss HOW to date younger women. David is in his mid 70's and has a girlfriend in her 20's. Impossible you say? Listen to find out how he attracts younger women :) Guest David Shade - How To Date Younger Women Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Please know that this episode was recorded pre: corona so we apologize if anything said insults or upsets you. Which it shouldn't, but just in case. You know we can't control our mouths ;) This week we crack The Friend Zone Wide Open!! And tell you exactly how to handle any friend zone situation so that you are never in it again. Guest: Sebastian Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Boy oh boy was this the right time for this episode to come out because we are in a HIGHLY stressful time and need a little help calming down. NLP coach Mark Sing joins us to teach us how to calm anxiety with women and with life. He also gives us a FULL 5 minute relaxation visualization to go through that actually made Kristen cry. It was awesome. Guest: Mark Sing To sign up and work one on one with Mark go to https://www.winggirlmethod.com/marksing STAY SAFE! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This week it's just Marni and Kristen and we're getting super real and dissecting ways to just be YOU. Because when people tell you to "just be yourself" when dating, you probably have no freaking clue what that means. This week we break down what that means and how to do it! when you stop focusing so much on pleasing women and being right guy for "her" that's when the true you comes out and shines. If you want to find out how to grow your inner self work to become a high status man then this episode is for you! Guests: Marni and Kristen Check out our amazing sponsor Tiege Hanley for unbelievable Skin Care programs just for men! http://www.tiege.com/askwomen Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Love this episode. Our guest is definitely very unique. Myke from social confidence mastery joins us to speak to any STEM brain guys who may have trouble with the typical dating advice out there. Myke walked us through how to tell stories, create stories and find ways to make yourself more interesting. He also gave us a routine for flirting that is super easy to follow. It was a great episode! Guest: Myke Macapinlac - http://socialconfidencemastery.com Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This weeks episode is a tribute to a past guest and friend of The Ask Women Podcast Amie Harwick. A talented Sex Therapist and sex educator who sadly died a couple of weeks ago in a tragic accident. This show is a tribute to this beautiful woman and all the amazing advice she shared :) On this weeks show: How and what do women think about sex? AND what do us women think men think about sex? On this weeks episode we dive into the female POV on sex. How we want it, when we want it, how often we want it..... Psychologist and Sexpert Amie Harwick joins us to explain how and what women think about sex and why it's so different from men. On this show we also discuss and over analyze: 1. How to talk sexually to women 2. How to escalate a conversation from non sexual to sexual 3. How to approach women sexually without insulting or harassing 4. How to be blunt and clear on your intentions without being insulting 5. What women think men think about sex And so much more! Guest: Amie Harwick Check out our amazing sponsor Tiege Hanley for unbelievable Skin Care programs just for men! http://www.tiege.com/askwomen Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This was one of my favorite episodes because We have a Rabbi on our show! A rabbi that is going to tell us the 10 different lenses we can use so that we see rejection as a beautiful thing and not a negative thing. It's pretty amazing how you can train your brain to see things and Rabbi Shmuel Pollen tells us how. On this show we also dissect and over analyze: Should you lower your expectations when you get rejected by a girl? Ancient wisdom on how you can actually be happy when you’re rejected What it really means when a girl rejects you How you’ve been wearing the wrong “glasses” for your entire life and how that’s affecting your interactions with girls how to resolve inner and outer conflict what to do when EVERYTHING is going wrong in your life. What Shark Tank can teach you about striking out with girls and so much more... Guest: Rabbi Shmuel Pollen. He is the founder of Noah's Child, a non-profit organization that provides food and medicine to the needy of Gujarat, India, and eastern Ukraine He has published two books on religion and hosts the podcast entitled: Light Unto The Nations he resides in Rockaway, NJ with his five children. Check out our amazing sponsor Tiege Hanley for unbelievable Skin Care programs just for men! http://www.tiege.com/askwomen Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices