
Self-Healing Insights: Do You Feel Guilty for Things Outside of Your Control? (TJ | Ep. 318)
Heal Yourself. Change Your Life™ · Brandy Gillmore
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Show Notes
Some of the emotions that affect healing the most are the ones that don't make logical sense—and are often the easiest to overlook.
In this powerful episode of Heal Yourself, Change Your Life®, Brandy Gillmore reflects on a live self-healing session with TJ, a thoughtful, self-aware woman who had been experiencing ongoing upper abdominal pain while also navigating uncertainty around her health following a breast cancer diagnosis.
As the session unfolds, Brandy highlights how deeply held emotions—such as guilt, self-blame, and feeling responsible for things beyond one's control—can quietly influence the body, even when the conscious mind "knows better." TJ had been carrying heavy feelings connected to the loss of her mother, including a long-standing pattern of feeling like she didn't do enough and that she should have been able to fix or prevent what happened.
During the session, TJ was able to see the mind-body connection clearly as her pain initially intensified when these emotions surfaced—and then significantly decreased as key insights shifted. Brandy explains how emotions like guilt, responsibility, and even the desire to reconnect with a loved one who has passed can create subtle internal pulls that affect healing when they remain unexamined.
This episode offers eye-opening awareness into how illogical or counterintuitive emotions can still have a powerful impact on health—and how bringing clarity, compassion, and a new understanding to these patterns can help release both emotional and physical pain.
If you've ever found yourself carrying guilt, self-blame, or emotional responsibility that doesn't quite make sense, this episode offers a gentle yet profound perspective on how healing begins.
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