Heal Your Christian Marriage

In this heartfelt episode of The Marriage Architects, hosts Heather and Marc explore one of the most tender transitions in family life, releasing your young adult children into God’s hands. With over 20 years of counseling experience and a foundation rooted in biblical wisdom, they open up about the emotional, spiritual, and relational shifts that come with this season. Anchored in Ecclesiastes 3 “There is a time for everything...” Marc and Heather share personal stories, practical tools, and biblical encouragement for parents navigating this new chapter. From learning how to let go without stepping away, to prioritizing prayer, wisdom, and healthy boundaries, they offer guidance to help couples walk in unity while supporting their children's independence. You’ll be reminded that while parenting changes, your influence doesn’t end; and a strong, Christ-centered marriage can continue to bless generations. Tune in to discover how to release with peace, support with grace, and build a lasting legacy of faith and family. 00:00 Introduction to the Podcast 00:54 Meet Your Hosts: Heather and Marc 01:30 Parenting and Releasing: Summer Series 02:17 Challenges of Parenting Young Adults 03:50 Identity and the Modern World 07:04 The Power of Prayer and Wisdom 13:51 Releasing Your Children to God's Plan 20:19 Practical Tools for Parents 28:24 Conclusion and Resources www.themarriagearchitects.co

When disaster strikes, it doesn't just destroy homes, it can shake the very foundation of marriages and families. In this heartfelt episode, hosts Marc and Heather offer biblical comfort and practical guidance for couples navigating devastating loss from the Texas floods. Discover how to anchor your marriage in God's promises when everything feels uncertain, practical ways to support each other through trauma, and how your community can bring healing to hurting families. Whether you're directly affected or wanting to help others, this episode provides hope-filled wisdom for building resilience in your relationship during life's darkest storms. "God is our refuge and strength, an ever-present help in trouble. Therefore we will not fear, though the earth give way and the mountains fall into the heart of the sea." - Psalm 46:1-2 Join us as we explore how God specializes in redemption—turning what was meant for destruction into something beautiful. Your marriage can emerge stronger, your faith deeper, and your hope renewed. Our prayers are with all those affected by this tragedy. If you would like to support those precious people Convoy of Hope is our trusted organization that is already 'boots on the ground' making a difference. Link HERE: https://convoyofhope.org www.themarriagearchitects.co   00:00 Introduction to the Podcast 00:55 Addressing the Texas Floods 02:55 Coping with Crisis and Grief 04:01 The Importance of Connection 04:36 Biblical Guidance and Prayer 08:05 Understanding and Managing Trauma 10:39 Encouragement and Hope 18:33 Invitation to Faith 20:17 Conclusion and Resources

Some couples are struggling. Others are doing just fine. But what if God has so much more for your marriage? In Episode 51 of The Marriage Architects, Marc & Heather share how saying yes to God transformed their own callings and purpose to launch a global mission to restore and strengthen marriages everywhere ~ ALL from a Home Depot parking lot! With over two decades of biblically grounded, trauma-informed experience, they offer more than just tools for crisis. They cast a greater vision for your marriage ~ a mission and purpose rooted in Christ! Whether you're hurting or doing well, this episode is for you: ✔️ Discover how God wants to use your marriage for His glory ✔️ Learn practical ways to deepen your connection and calling ✔️ Be reminded: “fine” isn’t all God has, He offers abundance “He heals the brokenhearted and binds up their wounds.” Psalm 147:3 “I have come that they may have life, and have it to the full.” John 10:10 Tune in and step into the MORE that God desires for your marriage! #TheMarriageArchitects #HealYourChristianMarriage #MarriageWithMission #AbundantLife #Psalm147 #John1010 #ChristCenteredMarriage www.themarriagearchitects.co 00:00 Introduction to the Heal Your Christian Marriage Podcast 00:54 Celebrating Milestones and New Beginnings 01:32 The Journey of Faith and Obedience 02:24 Overcoming Struggles and Misconceptions 03:49 The Birth of The Marriage Architects 06:37 Heather's Journey and Divine Timing 12:39 The Power of Obedience and Vision 21:24 Expanding the Mission and Future Plans 29:37 Conclusion and Invitation to Connect

🎉 We've hit 50 episodes ~ and we're just getting started! We can hardly believe it but here we are, celebrating a powerful milestone on The Marriage Architects podcast! Join Marc and Heather for a joyful and faith-filled conversation as we reflect on where we’ve been, what God is doing right now, and the God-sized dreams stirring in our hearts for the future. From humble beginnings to a global vision, this episode is all about restoring, reviving, and building strong marriages not just for today, but for generations to come. We’re standing on the unshakable truth of Matthew 7:24: “The wise man builds his house upon the rock.” You’ll hear stories from the journey, behind-the-scenes moments, and a bold look ahead as we unveil the mission to reach more couples, more families, and more nations with the hope, healing, and purpose found in Christ. 🎙️ You’re not just listening, you’re part of this story! Let’s celebrate what God has done and dream together about what’s to come. Here's to the next 50 and beyond! www.themarriagearchitects.co 50 Episodes. Countless Couples. One Faithful God. #TheMarriageArchitects #50EpisodesStrong #BuiltOnTheRock #MarriageOnMission

In this special episode of The Marriage Architects, we’re pulling up a bigger table and welcoming three generations of voices and wisdom! Join Marc and Liz, Heather, her daughter Pastor Annaleah, and baby Sadie Jo (16 months and full of personality!) for a joyful and honest conversation about how having a baby changes a marriage, bringing both new challenges and a deeper connection. Annaleah and her husband Greg are navigating this beautiful season while serving in full-time ministry, and the stories start flying as Marc and Liz chime in with memories from their early days of raising a young family while balancing the demands of church life and leadership. This episode is full of laughter, vulnerability, and timeless encouragement for couples in the early years of parenting—especially those juggling ministry and marriage. You'll walk away reminded that you're not alone, and that God's grace spans generations. Key Verse: Psalm 127 “Children are a heritage from the Lord…” www.themarriagearchitects.co #TheMarriageArchitects #ChristianMarriage #GenerationalFaith #ParentingAndMarriage #MinistryLife #Psalm127 #RealTalkRealFaith

In this dynamic and deeply personal episode of The Marriage Architects, Marc and Liz sit down together to share how their marriage evolved with the arrival of each of their four children. From the delivery room to emergency room drama, they open up about the surprising ways the early parenting years shaped their relationship, especially after baby number three, when conflict, stress, and differing opinions began to challenge their unity. With both vulnerability and humor, Marc and Liz recount the wild ride of early parenthood. The unexpected delivery room surprises to God’s unexpected grace. They testify how Psalm 127 became an anchor for their home: “Unless the Lord builds the house, the builders labor in vain.” It was in surrendering to God individually that they found peace, purpose, and eventually, restoration in their marriage. Whether you're new parents or deep in the trenches, this episode offers hope and laughter for every couple learning to grow together in the chaos and calling of raising children. Tune in for raw stories, real faith, and practical encouragement that reminds us—God is faithful in every season! www.themarriagearchitects.co

In this heartfelt episode of The Marriage Architects, we start with a lighthearted look at the familiar journey of love, marriage, and the joys (and chaos!) of baby carriages. But this conversation takes a tender turn when Marc shares the deeply personal story of the two miscarriages he and Liz walked through together. Moments that tested their faith, their marriage, and their hope. We hold space for the couples who have experienced this silent grief and remind you that you're not alone. Together, we reflect on the powerful truth found in Psalm 127:1 “Unless the Lord builds the house, the builders labor in vain.” And no, the pun isn't lost on us! Join us for an honest, hope-filled conversation about clinging to God in the joy and the sorrow, and building a marriage that weathers all seasons, hand in hand and heart to heart! www.themarriagearchitects.co

Whether you’re newly married or walking in your “’til death do us part” season, THIS summer is for YOU. Join Marc & Heather as they launch our brand-new summer series with an episode all about leaving a legacy of faith, love, and purpose in every season of marriage. God has given us a powerful blueprint in Deuteronomy 6:1-9, known as The Shema — a calling to walk, talk, and live out His blessing for generations to come. Let’s build a marriage that echoes through eternity. Listen now + hear about the incredible guests we have lined up all summer long! #TheMarriageArchitects #SummerSeries2025 #LegacyMarriage #FaithFilledFamily #ChristianMarriage #Deuteronomy6 #TheShema #MarriageGoals #GenerationalBlessing #ParentingAndMarriage #TilDeathDoUsPart

This episode delves into the profound journey of a couple who overcame personal and marital challenges through faith and commitment. The husband vulnerably shares how God softened his prideful, performance-driven heart and reshaped him into a loving, servant-hearted partner. Meanwhile, his wife opens up about her transformation from insecurity and silence to discovering her God-given voice and confidence within their marriage. Through the support of a Spirit-filled church, intentional retreats, and their unwavering commitment to one another, this couple learned to build their relationship on the solid foundation of God’s truth. Their journey is a testament to the power of communication, mutual support, and the redeeming work of Jesus Christ in marriage. "Unless the Lord builds the house, the builders labor in vain." Psalm 127:1a (NIV) This episode will encourage you to invite God into your marriage, pursue healing with courage, and believe that transformation is possible—no matter where you begin. www.themarriagearchitects.co

In this unforgettable Marriage Story, Marc and Heather sit down with Dave and Pat, a couple who’ve shared over 50 years of marriage, 6 children, and a lifelong pursuit of truth, love, laughter, loss, and each other. Dave came from the wild world of rock-n-roll, while Pat was on a spiritual search—exploring everything from Buddhism to Mormonism to Hinduism—longing to answer the deepest questions of her heart. Nothing brought the peace they both craved until, after they married, they each encountered Jesus in a way that changed everything. With humor, honesty, and profound insight, Dave and Pat share how their love for God and one another has been shaped over decades of highs, lows, parenting, spiritual discovery, and relentless commitment. Their story is proof that no matter where you start, God's truth can anchor your marriage, and His love can deepen it year after year. "You will seek me and find me when you seek me with all your heart." Jeremiah 29:13 (NIV) This conversation is full of wisdom, laughter, and raw encouragement. Whether you’ve been married 5 years or 50, Dave and Pat’s story will inspire you to never stop seeking Jesus—and never stop pursuing one another!

In this powerful Marriage Story episode, Marc and Heather sit down with Pastor Bobby and Josie, a couple whose journey is a remarkable testimony of God's radical redemption. Their story began in high school, but it took many unexpected turns before they would discover lasting hope and full time ministry! After dropping out of school and walking through the pain of his parents’ divorce, Bobby spiraled into addiction, battling alcohol and drug use. Meanwhile, he and Josie were trying to build a life together, raising two children, while carrying the weight of their brokenness. But everything changed one Sunday. What happened in that church service would alter the course of their lives forever. Jesus met them where they were and began restoring everything the enemy tried to steal. Today, Pastor Bobby and Josie are living examples of how no story is too far gone, and no marriage too broken, for God to heal and use for His glory. "The light shines in the darkness, and the darkness has not overcome it." John 1:5 (NIV) You’ll be deeply moved and encouraged by their transparency, strength, and the joy that now marks their marriage. This is a story of grace, grit, and God’s unstoppable love!

In Part 2 of this powerful series, Marc and Heather continue the conversation on self-awareness by diving into the impact of personality in marriage. Understanding your own personality and your spouse’s can transform your relationship by eliminating needless conflict, deepening communication, and fostering true intimacy. With their unique blend of clinical insight, relational wisdom, and biblical truth, Marc and Heather help couples move beyond frustration and misunderstanding into a place of empathy and connection. They share practical ways to embrace differences, work with each other's God-designed wiring, and use personality awareness as a tool for building unity and trust. You’ll walk away with a greater appreciation for how God has uniquely crafted both you and your spouse—and how those differences, when understood and honored, can become the very things that strengthen your marriage. Romans 15:7 says to "Accept one another, then, just as Christ accepted you, in order to bring praise to God." Discover how knowing your personality is more than self-help, it's a Spirit-led step toward deeper love, lasting unity, and greater purpose in your marriage. Strength Finders Assessment The Marriage Architects

In this powerful two-part series, Marc and Heather dive deep into how greater connection and intimacy in marriage starts with self-awareness. Drawing from their extensive clinical, relational, and leadership expertise, Marc and Heather share real stories of how simple shifts in self-awareness have led couples to deeper support, richer connection, and lasting transformation. They encourage every listener to recognize and grow in their God-given strengths—and to surrender their weaknesses to Jesus for redemption and restoration. In Part 1, they explore how your Nature, Nurture, and Choices shape hidden patterns that either strengthen or strain your relationship. You'll be inspired to see your personal growth not just as a gift for your marriage, but as a way to glorify God and impact the world around you. "Search me, God, and know my heart; test me and know my anxious thoughts. See if there is any offensive way in me, and lead me in the way everlasting." — Psalm 139:23-24 (NIV) Get ready to unlock the hidden keys to deeper intimacy and connection—starting with you. Connect with Us: www.themarriagearchitects.co Strength Finders Personality Test GiANT 5 Voices 16 Personalities

This Easter weekend, Marc and Heather dive into a powerful and hope-filled conversation about the resurrection power available to every marriage, whether it needs a little remodeling or a complete restoration. Just like the 1950s Denver home that Marc and his wife Liz spent the past year gutting and beautifully remodeling, your marriage can be made new through the redeeming love of Jesus. From outdated foundations to broken walls, nothing is beyond repair when it comes to the transforming work of the Cross. Easter reminds us that Jesus didn’t just come to make things better, He came to make all things new. When we ask Him to forgive, restore, and renew us, He breathes new life into our hearts, homes, and marriages. It’s exciting to put a newly remodeled house on the market but even more thrilling is witnessing a once-hopeless marriage become a testimony of God’s grace and resurrection power! “Therefore, if anyone is in Christ, the new creation has come: The old has gone, the new is here!” – 2 Corinthians 5:17 (NIV) Celebrate the risen Savior and be encouraged, your marriage can rise again. Happy Easter from The Marriage Architects! www.themarriagearchitects.co

This Palm Sunday weekend, Marc and Heather draw a powerful parallel between Jesus’s triumphant entry into Jerusalem and the journey of marriage. Just as Christ entered the city humbly on a donkey, hailed as the King of Kings and the Hope of the World, we enter marriage with high hopes and great expectations. But the road ahead—like Holy Week—is often filled with unexpected challenges, heartbreaks, and seasons of struggle. In this episode, Marc and Heather get real about the highs and lows of marriage, and how every couple needs the resurrection power that only God’s Word and sacrificial love can provide. As we reflect on Palm Sunday and the beginning of Passover week, be reminded: Sunday is coming. In Christ, there is always hope, healing, and new life—even when your marriage feels like it's walking through the valley. “But thanks be to God! He gives us the victory through our Lord Jesus Christ.” 1 Corinthians 15:57 (NIV) Be encouraged by today’s message and take heart—your marriage journey is not without a Saviorwww.themarriagearchitects.co  

What happens when you seek, ask for, and apply God’s wisdom in your marriage? The result is growth, stability, and the beautiful fruit of the Spirit in your relationship! In this final episode of our wisdom series on The Marriage Architects, Marc and Heather dive into the real benefits of walking in wisdom together—through every season of life. Galatians 5:22-23 – “But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, forbearance, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness and self-control.” Psalm 81:16 – “But you would be fed with the finest of wheat; with honey from the rock I would satisfy you.” God desires to pour out His wisdom in abundance, satisfying and strengthening your marriage in ways beyond what you could imagine—like honey from a rock. When you seek His provision and guidance, He blesses your relationship with the wisdom that truly satisfies. What You’ll Gain When You Apply Wisdom in Your Marriage: Love & Joy – Wisdom teaches you how to love deeply and experience lasting joy, even in the hard times.Peace & Patience – Wisdom helps you navigate conflict with grace and patience instead of frustration.Kindness & Goodness – When wisdom leads, your actions toward each other reflect God’s goodness and compassion.Faithfulness & Gentleness – Wisdom strengthens trust, creating a marriage that is steadfast and secure.Self-Control – With wisdom, you respond with grace instead of reacting in frustration, building a marriage that lasts. Seeking God’s wisdom is more than gaining knowledge—it’s transformative. It shapes your faith, deepens your connection, and anchors your marriage in something greater than just the two of you. Are you ready to experience the fruit of wisdom in your marriage? Tune in now and let’s grow together!

Wisdom Gives Purpose to Your Marriage A marriage without purpose can feel like two people just going through the motions. But when God’s wisdom is the foundation of your relationship, it gives purpose, direction, and strength to your marriage. In this episode of The Marriage Architects, Marc and Heather explore how wisdom fuels purpose and helps couples build a relationship that reflects God’s plan in every season and stage of life. Proverbs 19:21 – Many are the plans in a person’s heart, but it is the Lord’s purpose that prevails. Three Key Takeaways: Wisdom Aligns Your Marriage with God’s Purpose ~ When you seek wisdom, you gain clarity on why God brought you together and how He wants to use your marriage for His glory. Jeremiah 29:11 Wisdom Strengthens Your Unity ~ A shared purpose keeps you moving together, even when challenges arise. Instead of pulling apart, wisdom helps you navigate struggles as a team. - Ecclesiastes 4:12 Wisdom Helps You Live Intentionally ~ Without wisdom, it’s easy to drift. But when you pursue God’s vision, you make choices that build a strong, purpose-filled marriage that lasts.  Ephesians 2:10 Don’t settle for just coexisting—seek wisdom, discover your purpose, and build a marriage that thrives! Tune in now and take the next step in your journey together.

What if the key to a thriving marriage isn’t just love, but God’s wisdom guiding your vision? In this episode of The Marriage Architects, Marc and Heather unpack how seeking God’s wisdom gives us the right perspective on our relationships. When we anchor our marriage in His truth, He ignites our dreams, opens our vision, and secures our purpose in His plan. This is an exciting and hope-filled perspective! It’s so simple—but we often make it complicated. The world makes it easy to get distracted, disconnected, and off track. But when we focus on the same target—God’s plan—we can move together through life’s ups and downs with unity and strength. Proverbs 3:5-6 – “Trust in the Lord with all your heart and lean not on your own understanding; in all your ways submit to him, and he will make your paths straight.” Join us as we explore: ~ How wisdom shapes your marriage vision ~ Why anchoring in God’s plan helps avoid unnecessary conflict ~ How to stay connected and move forward together Let’s stop making it harder than it needs to be, God has already given us the blueprint! Tune in and start building a marriage that stands strong, even in the storms.

It's exciting to have dreams for your marriage ~ but are they inspired by the wisdom of God? Too often couples dream without seeking wisdom, leading to distraction, disconnection, and derailment in their relationship. In this episode, we dive into Proverbs 4 and unpack why wisdom is essential for shaping God-honoring dreams for your marriage. Ask yourself:  Are you actively seeking wisdom for your marriage? Do you and your spouse have a dream for your marriage? Is your dream shaped by the wisdom and vision found in Proverbs 4? God’s wisdom isn’t just an option—it’s a necessity. When you get wisdom, you get clarity, direction, and the ability to build a marriage that thrives. Tune in and learn how to dream wisely, pursue God’s vision for your marriage, and step into a future filled with purpose and unity. Don’t dream dumb—GET WISDOM! Pastor Robert Bell's Book: Eighty Barry White Voices LINK HERE

Are you seeking godly wisdom to deepen and strengthen your Christian marriage? Well, you're not alone! It's the "Big Ask" of Solomon and God blessed him abundantly! Today's podcast shares how to apply biblical insights, practical tools, and real-life encouragement to help you and your spouse grow closer to each other and to God. Join Marc and Heather as they unpack timeless wisdom from Scripture, share powerful testimonies, and offer actionable steps to cultivate a marriage that reflects Christ’s love. Whether you’re newlyweds or have been together for decades, join us as we seek God’s guidance to build a thriving, Christ-centered marriage. Tune in and discover how asking for wisdom can transform your relationship—because God promises to give it generously to those who ask! James 1:5

 Is your marriage foundation built on sinking sand or a solid rock? Maybe you've been through a storm and just need to get reconnected again? In this episode, Marc and Heather dive into the two types of marriages—one that feels unstable, disconnected, and exhausting, and another that stands firm on biblical principles through all kinds of changes that we all experience. If you feel distant, divided, or stuck, you’re not alone. Maybe you once had the “perfect” marriage, but now you’re wondering, What happened? The good news is, you don’t have to stay there. Step by step, we’re going to help you move from shaky ground to a solid, unshakable foundation. Tune in as we guide you toward rebuilding your marriage on The Rock—where love, trust, and faith can thrive again! 

Breaking Generational Cycles – A Marriage Restored & Legacy Redeemed In this raw and unedited conversation, step into the middle of a heartbreaking discussion about the affects of divorce—only to witness the incredible power of God at work. Through deep struggles, laughter, and sheer desperation, they choose to fight for their marriage, breaking generational cycles of divorce. Marc also shares about his parents divorce and gives another perspective with valuable insights. Their testimony will encourage you, reminding you that no marriage is beyond God’s healing. Be inspired by their journey of redemption—for themselves, their six children, four daughters-in-law, and thirteen grandchildren! This Marine and Iraq Veteran doesn't hold back his heart and love for God's Word and his amazing wife shares her heart and parallel journey of faith that is impacting their family legacy to the Glory of God!

After Valentine’s Day: Taking Love Beyond a Holiday and Including Vision and Purpose for Your Relationship The chocolates are eaten, the flowers are fading—but how’s your relationship after Valentine’s Day? Love isn’t just about one special day; it’s about the commitment to grow deeper every day. In this episode, we’ll look at the powerful conversation between Jesus and Peter in John 21, where Jesus calls Peter to a greater understanding of love. Just as the Lord desires to take our relationship with Him deeper, He also wants to strengthen and deepen the love in our marriages. No matter what season of life you’re in, God’s love is the foundation that provides the strength, patience, and grace to love one another well. When we receive His love fully, we are equipped to pour it into our marriage—not just on the good days, holidays, but every day. Let’s move beyond the surface and step into a love with vision, purpose, and lasting impact. Tune in now and discover how God’s love can take your marriage to a deeper place! For more information go to: www.themarriagearchitects.co

Valentine’s Day: Love, Laughter & What Really Matters Valentine’s Day is here, and if you’ve ever felt the pressure to make it perfect—this episode is for you! Join us for some much-needed laughter as we share Marc’s hilarious failed attempts at romance (trust us, you’ll relate!). Let’s take the pressure off and get back to the basics of what love truly is and what it can be for your marriage. Love isn’t just grand gestures or picture-perfect moments for social media—it’s found in the daily choices to serve, forgive, and cherish one another. Most importantly, love is modeled after God’s great love, displayed through Jesus' ultimate sacrifice for us. His love is selfless, enduring, and life-changing—and when we renew our love in Him, our marriage will be transformed by His impact. As 1 John 4:19 reminds us,“We love because He first loved us." So, let’s laugh, learn, and lean into a love that lasts far beyond Valentine’s Day. Tune in now! ❤️ www.themarriagearchitects.co Bob Goff's Book Link: LOVE DOES https://www.bobgoff.com/books/love-does/

We're Kicking Off "Love Month" with Honest, Hopeful & Thriving Conversations about Relationships It’s February—The LOVE Month! And what better way to start than with an honest, humorous, and hope-filled conversation about what it really takes to make your marriage thrive? In today’s episode, we’re diving into what we really wish we would have known early in our own marriages! All the joys and the challenges of keeping love alive can feel like a roller-coaster but God has a plan! Whether your relationship is flourishing or in need of repair, we’re here to remind you that God is in the business of restoration. Love isn’t just a feeling—it’s a commitment, a choice, and the greatest gift we can give our spouse. If there are areas in your marriage that feel broken or distant, know that today is a new opportunity to take a step toward healing. God desires for you to experience a love that reflects His own—patient, kind, and enduring. As 1 Corinthians 13 reminds us, faith and hope are essential, but the greatest of these is love! Let’s embrace this season with hearts open to God’s plan for our marriage. Tune in now for encouragement, laughter, and practical wisdom to strengthen your relationship this month and beyond! Reach out to us at: www.themarriagearchitects.co

Building Your Marriage Goals for 2025: Anchored on the Rock As we step into 2025, it’s time to pause, reflect, and check in on the goals and vision you have for your marriage this year. In this episode, we’ll encourage you to set intentional goals that align with God’s purpose for your relationship. We'll discuss the importance of staying connected with the Lord, His Word, and each other, allowing Him to reveal areas where He wants you to grow together. Matthew 7:24 is our anchored verse —building your house on the solid rock of Jesus Christ. We’ll guide you in creating a foundation of faith, love, and communication that can weather any storm. Whether you’re setting your first marriage goals or re-evaluating existing ones, this episode is packed with practical tips and biblical wisdom to inspire and strengthen your relationship in this new year. Let’s partner with God to make 2025 a year of growth and renewal for your marriage! Tune in now and find more information at www.themarriagearchitects.co

Welcome to the Heal Your Christian Marriage podcast! We’re thrilled to share about the incredible time Marc and Liz had in Costa Rica, leading a marriage retreat for pastors and missionary leaders from Central and South America.   It was an unforgettable experience working with a translator to bridge languages and hearts with humor and some tears. Mostly, we’re excited to announce that The Marriage Architects is now bilingual! In this episode, you’ll hear inspiring testimonies from this life-changing retreat and how God is strengthening marriages across borders. As John 14:12 reminds us, “Very truly I tell you, whoever believes in me will do the works I have been doing, and they will do even greater things than these, because I am going to the Father.” Christ for the City International: https://cfci.org/

Welcome to the Heal Your Christian Marriage podcast, where we explore God’s plan for restoration and growth in your marriage. Today, we’re focusing on the stress that natural disasters, like the recent fires in California or hurricanes on the east coast can place on your relationships. Whether you’re in the thick of it or feeling the ripple effects, these trying times reveal cracks but also provide opportunities to rebuild stronger together. God can use these challenges to deepen trust, foster unity, and remind us of the firm foundation we have in Him. As Jesus said in Matthew 7:24, “Therefore everyone who hears these words of mine and puts them into practice is like a wise man who built his house on the rock.” Here are the links to the opportunities to connect, serve or send support: Convoy of Hope: www.convoyofhope.org Dream Center LA:  www.dreamcenter.org Flourishing Church:  www.flourshing.church  

Enjoy Part 2 as Tom and Jo Ann share how their 63-year marriage is filled with purpose and vision. You will be inspired by their stories and words of wisdom that inspires all. They remind us to never underestimate the power of humor, humility, and curiosity in deepening our love for each other and for the Lord. As we invite the Holy Spirit and God’s Word to come alive in our marriage, we can trust in His faithfulness to guide us through every season, stage or any storm that we endure. To God be the glory! Reach out to talk more with us at: www.themarriagearchitects.co

HAPPY NEW YEAR and enjoy Part 1 of our first marriage story from deep in the heart of East Texas! Heather's in-laws, Tom & JoAnn Fields, have been married for 63 years and share how God has been their foundation of love, faith, and humor through any trial to leave a lasting legacy. Here, we believe that no matter how broken things may seem, you are not stuck. With God at the helm, healing is not only possible—it's promised! This is a time to listen, reflect, grow, and draw closer to your spouse and to God, guided by His Word and unwavering grace. In Matthew 7:24, we read that "Therefore everyone who hears these words of mine and puts them into practice is like a wise man who built his house on the rock." Just as this verse teaches us to build our lives on the firm foundation of Christ, listen with us to hear how Tom and JoAnn anchored their marriage on His wisdom and truth, ensuring they can stand strong through every storm. Let’s journey together, trusting that with God, nothing is impossible. Now, let’s dive in!

Welcome to the Heal Your Christian Marriage podcast, where we explore God’s blueprint for love and restoration in marriage. Christmas has passed, but the Light of Jesus doesn’t fade with the season—it’s meant to shine brighter in our hearts and homes! Today, we’ll discuss how to carry His hope and joy into the new year, keeping His presence alive in your marriage. As John 8:12 reminds us, 'I am the light of the world. Whoever follows me will never walk in darkness, but will have the light of life.' Let’s dive into practical ways to nurture His light and grow stronger together in faith and love.

Merry Christmas! In this special episode, we celebrate the joy and hope of Emmanuel, God With Us, this holiday season. We reflect on the truth that God is not only with us but also FOR our marriages, offering His strength and love every day of the year. Be encouraged that your marriage can thrive under His care and guidance. As Romans 8:31 reminds us, “If God is for us, who can be against us?”

In this episode, we dive into the power of fighting for your marriage with courage and faith, uncovering and exposing the lies, sin, and darkness that seek to divide. By surrendering your relationship to God’s truth and grace, you can build a redeemed, joy-filled partnership that strengthens and uplifts each other. Together, you can create a legacy of love and faith that impacts generations. As Ephesians 5:11 reminds us: “Have nothing to do with the fruitless deeds of darkness, but rather expose them."

Connect With Us HERE  The holidays are full of joy—and let’s be honest—stress! From tangled lights to unmet expectations, this season can stretch your patience and your marriage. Join us as we unpack the importance of grace, laughter, and realistic expectations with Philippians 4:6: "Do not be anxious about anything, but in every situation, by prayer and petition, with thanksgiving, present your requests to God."* Because let’s face it—sometimes peace on earth starts with peace in your home!

Marc and Heather delve into the recent wave of challenges within the Christian celebrity community, reflecting on how these events mirror struggles in many families today. They remind listeners that no matter how turbulent the season, God’s heart is always for truth, love, and restoration. With His redeeming power, even the most broken situations can be healed. This passion for helping families experience renewal and hope is at the core of their calling within the body of Christ. As Scripture assures us, “He heals the brokenhearted and binds up their wounds” Psalm 147:3.

Connect with us HERE Keep it simple! Crafting a vision for your marriage even during the holidays begins with a plan that fosters peace, love, and unity. Never assume it will 'just happen' but listen, learn, and laugh with Marc and Heather as they share how you can create the most memorable Christmas ever for you and your family.

Connect with us HERE Navigating grief during the holidays can feel overwhelming and cause relationship problems but God’s love provides comfort and hope even in the hardest seasons. In this episode, we’ll explore practical ways to honor your grief, strengthen your marriage, and find peace together through Jesus Christ. 'The Lord is close to the brokenhearted and saves those who are crushed in spirit.' – Psalm 34:18

Connect With Us HERE Welcome to Heal Your Christian Marriage! Today, we’re diving into a timely topic—Part 2 of navigating Thanksgiving as a couple while balancing the dynamics of family and friends. Holidays can be a season of joy, but they also bring challenges like juggling expectations, setting boundaries, and staying united as a team. Let’s explore how God’s Word, wisdom and grace can guide your marriage to thrive through this holiday season!

Connect With Us HERE Welcome to Heal Your Christian Marriage! Today, we’re diving into a timely topic—Part 1 of navigating Thanksgiving as a couple while balancing the dynamics of family and friends. Holidays can be a season of joy, but they also bring challenges like juggling expectations, setting boundaries, and staying united as a team. Let’s explore how God’s Word, wisdom and grace can guide your marriage to thrive through this holiday season!

Connect With Us HERE Through biblical insights and practical tools, we remind you that feeling stuck doesn’t have to be permanent. God has the power to heal, restore, and strengthen your relationship. Join us in Denver as we prepare for our Marriage Retreat and share on this episode how grace, love, and faith can lead to lasting change for a healthy marriage.

Connect With Us HERE Healing Christian Marriages: Embracing Conflict as a Path to Growth In this episode of the Heal Your Christian Marriage podcast, hosts Heather and Marc from the Marriage Architects dive into the critical topic of conflict in marriage. They discuss how to use the challenges and difficulties in a relationship to make it stronger and more resilient. The episode emphasizes the importance of embracing conflict as a natural and beneficial part of marriage, explaining how it can refine and purify the relationship. Drawing on their research-based, trauma-informed approach and over two decades of experience, Heather and Mark offer practical tools and spiritual insights to help couples deal with conflict in a healthy and constructive manner. Listeners are encouraged to focus on God's wisdom and grace to navigate marital struggles and to view conflict as an opportunity for growth and deeper connection. If you are a Christian couple who is struggling in your marriage, and you want to learn our approach to healing the divisions and creating a God-centered partnership that's stronger than you've ever had before, we encourage you to take our free class at https://www.themarriagearchitects.co

Connect With Us HERE Practical Tools for Building Strong Communication in Marriage In today's episode, we delve into practical tools that can help strengthen communication in your marriage. We discuss the importance of effective communication and provide actionable steps you can take to start building stronger bonds with your spouse. Using the metaphor of a traffic light, we explore what behaviors to stop and start in order to foster better understanding and connection. Additionally, we emphasize the significance of self-awareness, humility, and forgiveness in improving your relationship. Stay tuned as we share valuable insights from our extensive experience in marriage counseling and ministry. If you are a Christian couple who is struggling in your marriage, and you want to learn our approach to healing the divisions and creating a God-centered partnership that's stronger than you've ever had before, we encourage you to take our free class at https://www.themarriagearchitects.co

Connect With Us HERE Building Strong Marriages: The Importance of Vision, Planning, and the Right Tools In this episode,we delve into the significance of planning and vision in building both houses and strong marriages. Featuring a conversation between Marc and Heather, this discussion draws parallels between constructing a home and fostering a healthy relationship. The hosts share personal stories about the challenges they've faced, emphasize the importance of having the right tools (including faith and the Bible), and offer encouragement to couples at various stages of their marital journey. Listeners are invited to explore deeper insights and resources provided by Marriage Architects to help build and fortify their marriages. If you are a Christian couple who is struggling in your marriage, and you want to learn our approach to healing the divisions and creating a God-centered partnership that's stronger than you've ever had before, we encourage you to take our free class at https://www.themarriagearchitects.co

Connect With Us HERE Discovering Purpose in Your Marriage | Marriage Architects Podcast In this episode of the Marriage Architects Podcast, hosts Mark and Heather dive deeper into the concept of purpose within marriage. Emphasizing the importance of living a purposeful life, they discuss practical steps and tools to help couples define and refine their purpose. Through scripture and prayer, listeners are encouraged to identify and establish clear absolutes and flexible goals in their relationships. The episode also highlights the significance of overcoming negative habits and fostering a strong, faith-driven connection. Inspirational quotes and personal anecdotes create a meaningful guide for couples striving to build a solid and dynamic foundation in their marriage. If you are a Christian couple who is struggling in your marriage, and you want to learn our approach to healing the divisions and creating a God-centered partnership that's stronger than you've ever had before, we encourage you to take our free class at https://www.themarriagearchitects.co

Connect With Us HERE. Heal Your Christian Marriage: Discover God's Purpose and Overcome Struggles In this episode of the Heal Your Christian Marriage Podcast, hosts Heather and Mark from The Marriage Architects guide couples in overcoming marital difficulties using a biblically grounded, trauma-informed approach. They emphasize the importance of aligning personal and marital plans with God's purpose, illustrated through scriptures like Jeremiah 29:11 and Ephesians 2. The episode delves into identifying and eliminating negative behaviors, embracing forgiveness, and cultivating a vision for a thriving marriage. Listeners are encouraged to address personal and spousal behaviors that hinder their divine purpose and are invited to explore further resources and classes for deeper marital restoration. If you are a Christian couple who is struggling in your marriage, and you want to learn our approach to healing the divisions and creating a God-centered partnership that's stronger than you've ever had before, we encourage you to take our free class at https://www.themarriagearchitects.co

Connect With Us Here Reigniting Dreams: Vision and Purpose in Christian Marriage In this episode of the Heal Your Christian Marriage podcast, hosts Heather and Mark from The Marriage Architects discuss the critical importance of dreams and visions in sustaining and rejuvenating a Christ-centered marriage. They explore how dreams, whether remembered or forgotten, play a profound role in personal and relational growth. Heather and Mark share their research-based, trauma-informed approach to helping couples rediscover and realign with God's vision for their marriage. They also provide practical tools and starter questions to aid couples in reconnecting and fostering a shared vision, all while emphasizing that it's never too late to reignite hope and dreams, regardless of life's challenges. Listeners are encouraged to pray and seek God's guidance to move from feeling stuck and isolated towards a renewed purpose in life and marriage. If you are a Christian couple who is struggling in your marriage, and you want to learn our approach to healing the divisions and creating a God-centered partnership that's stronger than you've ever had before, we encourage you to take our free class at https://www.themarriagearchitects.co

Connect With Us HERE. Rebuilding and Strengthening Your Christian Marriage: Seeking God's Vision In this episode of the Heal Your Christian Marriage podcast, hosts Heather and Mark from The Marriage Architects delve into the importance of having a clear, God-inspired vision for your marriage. They emphasize a biblically grounded, research-based, and trauma-informed approach to transforming relationships, sharing their experiences of helping countless marriages, including those of ministry leaders. Drawing on two decades of counseling experience, they discuss how writing down individual and collective visions can reveal God's purpose and align couples' dreams. Practical advice and personal stories illustrate how to cultivate a lifelong, Christ-centered marriage. Finally, they invite listeners to explore additional resources and join a free class on restoring and rebuilding Christian marriages. If you are a Christian couple who is struggling in your marriage, and you want to learn our approach to healing the divisions and creating a God-centered partnership that's stronger than you've ever had before, we encourage you to take our free class at https://www.themarriagearchitects.co

Connect With Us HERE God's Relentless Pursuit: Healing and Strengthening Your Christian Marriage In this episode of the Heal Your Christian Marriage podcast, hosts Heather and Mark from The Marriage Architects explore the concept of God's relentless love and how it applies to marriage. They discuss their biblically grounded, trauma-informed approach to healing and strengthening marriages, emphasizing the importance of persistent, passionate pursuit modeled after God's love for His people. They share insights from scripture, personal experiences, and practical tools to help couples reignite passion, discover intimacy, and rebuild a Christ-centered marriage. The episode also highlights resources available through The Marriage Architects to support couples in their journey towards a thriving relationship. If you are a Christian couple who is struggling in your marriage, and you want to learn our approach to healing the divisions and creating a God-centered partnership that's stronger than you've ever had before, we encourage you to take our free class at https://www.themarriagearchitects.co

Connect With Us HERE Building a Strong Christian Marriage: The Importance of a Firm Foundation In this episode of the Heal Your Christian Marriage podcast, Heather and Mark from The Marriage Architects discuss the significance of establishing a solid foundation for your marriage based on biblical principles. Drawing on over two decades of experience, they integrate a faith-centered, trauma-informed approach with practical insights from their background in home remodeling. Through the analogy of wise and foolish builders from Matthew 7:24, they emphasize the necessity of purpose, intention, and effort in cultivating a lifelong, Christ-centered marriage. The episode encourages listeners to evaluate and strengthen their marriages, offering guidance from scripture and personal experiences to navigate challenges and renew their relationship with God's help. If you are a Christian couple who is struggling in your marriage, and you want to learn our approach to healing the divisions and creating a God-centered partnership that's stronger than you've ever had before, we encourage you to take our free class at https://www.themarriagearchitects.co

Connect With Us HERE Cultivating a Christ-Centered Vision for Your Marriage In this episode of the Heal Your Christian Marriage podcast, hosts Heather Fields and Marc Parker delve into the importance of vision in a marriage, which they term as 'visioneering.' Grounded in biblical principles and over two decades of experience, they discuss how to establish a lasting, Christ-centered vision for your marriage. They emphasize the significance of clearly communicating expectations, mutual goals, and the transformative power of God's guidance. The episode also highlights the couple's extensive counseling experience and resources available through their organization, The Marriage Architects. Listeners are encouraged to take actionable steps towards healing and envisioning a thriving marital partnership, regardless of current struggles. If you are a Christian couple who is struggling in your marriage, and you want to learn our approach to healing the divisions and creating a God-centered partnership that's stronger than you've ever had before, we encourage you to take our free class at https://www.themarriagearchitects.co