Heal Your Christian Marriage

In this heartfelt episode of The Marriage Architects, hosts Heather and Marc explore one of the most tender transitions in family life, releasing your young adult children into God’s hands. With over 20 years of counseling experience and a foundation rooted in biblical wisdom, they open up about the emotional, spiritual, and relational shifts that come with this season. Anchored in Ecclesiastes 3 “There is a time for everything...” Marc and Heather share personal stories, practical tools, and biblical encouragement for parents navigating this new chapter. From learning how to let go without stepping away, to prioritizing prayer, wisdom, and healthy boundaries, they offer guidance to help couples walk in unity while supporting their children's independence. You’ll be reminded that while parenting changes, your influence doesn’t end; and a strong, Christ-centered marriage can continue to bless generations. Tune in to discover how to release with peace, support with grace, and build a lasting legacy of faith and family. 00:00 Introduction to the Podcast 00:54 Meet Your Hosts: Heather and Marc 01:30 Parenting and Releasing: Summer Series 02:17 Challenges of Parenting Young Adults 03:50 Identity and the Modern World 07:04 The Power of Prayer and Wisdom 13:51 Releasing Your Children to God's Plan 20:19 Practical Tools for Parents 28:24 Conclusion and Resources www.themarriagearchitects.co

When disaster strikes, it doesn't just destroy homes, it can shake the very foundation of marriages and families. In this heartfelt episode, hosts Marc and Heather offer biblical comfort and practical guidance for couples navigating devastating loss from the Texas floods. Discover how to anchor your marriage in God's promises when everything feels uncertain, practical ways to support each other through trauma, and how your community can bring healing to hurting families. Whether you're directly affected or wanting to help others, this episode provides hope-filled wisdom for building resilience in your relationship during life's darkest storms. "God is our refuge and strength, an ever-present help in trouble. Therefore we will not fear, though the earth give way and the mountains fall into the heart of the sea." - Psalm 46:1-2 Join us as we explore how God specializes in redemption—turning what was meant for destruction into something beautiful. Your marriage can emerge stronger, your faith deeper, and your hope renewed. Our prayers are with all those affected by this tragedy. If you would like to support those precious people Convoy of Hope is our trusted organization that is already 'boots on the ground' making a difference. Link HERE: https://convoyofhope.org www.themarriagearchitects.co   00:00 Introduction to the Podcast 00:55 Addressing the Texas Floods 02:55 Coping with Crisis and Grief 04:01 The Importance of Connection 04:36 Biblical Guidance and Prayer 08:05 Understanding and Managing Trauma 10:39 Encouragement and Hope 18:33 Invitation to Faith 20:17 Conclusion and Resources

Some couples are struggling. Others are doing just fine. But what if God has so much more for your marriage? In Episode 51 of The Marriage Architects, Marc & Heather share how saying yes to God transformed their own callings and purpose to launch a global mission to restore and strengthen marriages everywhere ~ ALL from a Home Depot parking lot! With over two decades of biblically grounded, trauma-informed experience, they offer more than just tools for crisis. They cast a greater vision for your marriage ~ a mission and purpose rooted in Christ! Whether you're hurting or doing well, this episode is for you: ✔️ Discover how God wants to use your marriage for His glory ✔️ Learn practical ways to deepen your connection and calling ✔️ Be reminded: “fine” isn’t all God has, He offers abundance “He heals the brokenhearted and binds up their wounds.” Psalm 147:3 “I have come that they may have life, and have it to the full.” John 10:10 Tune in and step into the MORE that God desires for your marriage! #TheMarriageArchitects #HealYourChristianMarriage #MarriageWithMission #AbundantLife #Psalm147 #John1010 #ChristCenteredMarriage www.themarriagearchitects.co 00:00 Introduction to the Heal Your Christian Marriage Podcast 00:54 Celebrating Milestones and New Beginnings 01:32 The Journey of Faith and Obedience 02:24 Overcoming Struggles and Misconceptions 03:49 The Birth of The Marriage Architects 06:37 Heather's Journey and Divine Timing 12:39 The Power of Obedience and Vision 21:24 Expanding the Mission and Future Plans 29:37 Conclusion and Invitation to Connect

🎉 We've hit 50 episodes ~ and we're just getting started! We can hardly believe it but here we are, celebrating a powerful milestone on The Marriage Architects podcast! Join Marc and Heather for a joyful and faith-filled conversation as we reflect on where we’ve been, what God is doing right now, and the God-sized dreams stirring in our hearts for the future. From humble beginnings to a global vision, this episode is all about restoring, reviving, and building strong marriages not just for today, but for generations to come. We’re standing on the unshakable truth of Matthew 7:24: “The wise man builds his house upon the rock.” You’ll hear stories from the journey, behind-the-scenes moments, and a bold look ahead as we unveil the mission to reach more couples, more families, and more nations with the hope, healing, and purpose found in Christ. 🎙️ You’re not just listening, you’re part of this story! Let’s celebrate what God has done and dream together about what’s to come. Here's to the next 50 and beyond! www.themarriagearchitects.co 50 Episodes. Countless Couples. One Faithful God. #TheMarriageArchitects #50EpisodesStrong #BuiltOnTheRock #MarriageOnMission

In this special episode of The Marriage Architects, we’re pulling up a bigger table and welcoming three generations of voices and wisdom! Join Marc and Liz, Heather, her daughter Pastor Annaleah, and baby Sadie Jo (16 months and full of personality!) for a joyful and honest conversation about how having a baby changes a marriage, bringing both new challenges and a deeper connection. Annaleah and her husband Greg are navigating this beautiful season while serving in full-time ministry, and the stories start flying as Marc and Liz chime in with memories from their early days of raising a young family while balancing the demands of church life and leadership. This episode is full of laughter, vulnerability, and timeless encouragement for couples in the early years of parenting—especially those juggling ministry and marriage. You'll walk away reminded that you're not alone, and that God's grace spans generations. Key Verse: Psalm 127 “Children are a heritage from the Lord…” www.themarriagearchitects.co #TheMarriageArchitects #ChristianMarriage #GenerationalFaith #ParentingAndMarriage #MinistryLife #Psalm127 #RealTalkRealFaith

In this dynamic and deeply personal episode of The Marriage Architects, Marc and Liz sit down together to share how their marriage evolved with the arrival of each of their four children. From the delivery room to emergency room drama, they open up about the surprising ways the early parenting years shaped their relationship, especially after baby number three, when conflict, stress, and differing opinions began to challenge their unity. With both vulnerability and humor, Marc and Liz recount the wild ride of early parenthood. The unexpected delivery room surprises to God’s unexpected grace. They testify how Psalm 127 became an anchor for their home: “Unless the Lord builds the house, the builders labor in vain.” It was in surrendering to God individually that they found peace, purpose, and eventually, restoration in their marriage. Whether you're new parents or deep in the trenches, this episode offers hope and laughter for every couple learning to grow together in the chaos and calling of raising children. Tune in for raw stories, real faith, and practical encouragement that reminds us—God is faithful in every season! www.themarriagearchitects.co

In this heartfelt episode of The Marriage Architects, we start with a lighthearted look at the familiar journey of love, marriage, and the joys (and chaos!) of baby carriages. But this conversation takes a tender turn when Marc shares the deeply personal story of the two miscarriages he and Liz walked through together. Moments that tested their faith, their marriage, and their hope. We hold space for the couples who have experienced this silent grief and remind you that you're not alone. Together, we reflect on the powerful truth found in Psalm 127:1 “Unless the Lord builds the house, the builders labor in vain.” And no, the pun isn't lost on us! Join us for an honest, hope-filled conversation about clinging to God in the joy and the sorrow, and building a marriage that weathers all seasons, hand in hand and heart to heart! www.themarriagearchitects.co

Whether you’re newly married or walking in your “’til death do us part” season, THIS summer is for YOU. Join Marc & Heather as they launch our brand-new summer series with an episode all about leaving a legacy of faith, love, and purpose in every season of marriage. God has given us a powerful blueprint in Deuteronomy 6:1-9, known as The Shema — a calling to walk, talk, and live out His blessing for generations to come. Let’s build a marriage that echoes through eternity. Listen now + hear about the incredible guests we have lined up all summer long! #TheMarriageArchitects #SummerSeries2025 #LegacyMarriage #FaithFilledFamily #ChristianMarriage #Deuteronomy6 #TheShema #MarriageGoals #GenerationalBlessing #ParentingAndMarriage #TilDeathDoUsPart

This episode delves into the profound journey of a couple who overcame personal and marital challenges through faith and commitment. The husband vulnerably shares how God softened his prideful, performance-driven heart and reshaped him into a loving, servant-hearted partner. Meanwhile, his wife opens up about her transformation from insecurity and silence to discovering her God-given voice and confidence within their marriage. Through the support of a Spirit-filled church, intentional retreats, and their unwavering commitment to one another, this couple learned to build their relationship on the solid foundation of God’s truth. Their journey is a testament to the power of communication, mutual support, and the redeeming work of Jesus Christ in marriage. "Unless the Lord builds the house, the builders labor in vain." Psalm 127:1a (NIV) This episode will encourage you to invite God into your marriage, pursue healing with courage, and believe that transformation is possible—no matter where you begin. www.themarriagearchitects.co

In this unforgettable Marriage Story, Marc and Heather sit down with Dave and Pat, a couple who’ve shared over 50 years of marriage, 6 children, and a lifelong pursuit of truth, love, laughter, loss, and each other. Dave came from the wild world of rock-n-roll, while Pat was on a spiritual search—exploring everything from Buddhism to Mormonism to Hinduism—longing to answer the deepest questions of her heart. Nothing brought the peace they both craved until, after they married, they each encountered Jesus in a way that changed everything. With humor, honesty, and profound insight, Dave and Pat share how their love for God and one another has been shaped over decades of highs, lows, parenting, spiritual discovery, and relentless commitment. Their story is proof that no matter where you start, God's truth can anchor your marriage, and His love can deepen it year after year. "You will seek me and find me when you seek me with all your heart." Jeremiah 29:13 (NIV) This conversation is full of wisdom, laughter, and raw encouragement. Whether you’ve been married 5 years or 50, Dave and Pat’s story will inspire you to never stop seeking Jesus—and never stop pursuing one another!

In this powerful Marriage Story episode, Marc and Heather sit down with Pastor Bobby and Josie, a couple whose journey is a remarkable testimony of God's radical redemption. Their story began in high school, but it took many unexpected turns before they would discover lasting hope and full time ministry! After dropping out of school and walking through the pain of his parents’ divorce, Bobby spiraled into addiction, battling alcohol and drug use. Meanwhile, he and Josie were trying to build a life together, raising two children, while carrying the weight of their brokenness. But everything changed one Sunday. What happened in that church service would alter the course of their lives forever. Jesus met them where they were and began restoring everything the enemy tried to steal. Today, Pastor Bobby and Josie are living examples of how no story is too far gone, and no marriage too broken, for God to heal and use for His glory. "The light shines in the darkness, and the darkness has not overcome it." John 1:5 (NIV) You’ll be deeply moved and encouraged by their transparency, strength, and the joy that now marks their marriage. This is a story of grace, grit, and God’s unstoppable love!

In Part 2 of this powerful series, Marc and Heather continue the conversation on self-awareness by diving into the impact of personality in marriage. Understanding your own personality and your spouse’s can transform your relationship by eliminating needless conflict, deepening communication, and fostering true intimacy. With their unique blend of clinical insight, relational wisdom, and biblical truth, Marc and Heather help couples move beyond frustration and misunderstanding into a place of empathy and connection. They share practical ways to embrace differences, work with each other's God-designed wiring, and use personality awareness as a tool for building unity and trust. You’ll walk away with a greater appreciation for how God has uniquely crafted both you and your spouse—and how those differences, when understood and honored, can become the very things that strengthen your marriage. Romans 15:7 says to "Accept one another, then, just as Christ accepted you, in order to bring praise to God." Discover how knowing your personality is more than self-help, it's a Spirit-led step toward deeper love, lasting unity, and greater purpose in your marriage. Strength Finders Assessment The Marriage Architects

In this powerful two-part series, Marc and Heather dive deep into how greater connection and intimacy in marriage starts with self-awareness. Drawing from their extensive clinical, relational, and leadership expertise, Marc and Heather share real stories of how simple shifts in self-awareness have led couples to deeper support, richer connection, and lasting transformation. They encourage every listener to recognize and grow in their God-given strengths—and to surrender their weaknesses to Jesus for redemption and restoration. In Part 1, they explore how your Nature, Nurture, and Choices shape hidden patterns that either strengthen or strain your relationship. You'll be inspired to see your personal growth not just as a gift for your marriage, but as a way to glorify God and impact the world around you. "Search me, God, and know my heart; test me and know my anxious thoughts. See if there is any offensive way in me, and lead me in the way everlasting." — Psalm 139:23-24 (NIV) Get ready to unlock the hidden keys to deeper intimacy and connection—starting with you. Connect with Us: www.themarriagearchitects.co Strength Finders Personality Test GiANT 5 Voices 16 Personalities

This Easter weekend, Marc and Heather dive into a powerful and hope-filled conversation about the resurrection power available to every marriage, whether it needs a little remodeling or a complete restoration. Just like the 1950s Denver home that Marc and his wife Liz spent the past year gutting and beautifully remodeling, your marriage can be made new through the redeeming love of Jesus. From outdated foundations to broken walls, nothing is beyond repair when it comes to the transforming work of the Cross. Easter reminds us that Jesus didn’t just come to make things better, He came to make all things new. When we ask Him to forgive, restore, and renew us, He breathes new life into our hearts, homes, and marriages. It’s exciting to put a newly remodeled house on the market but even more thrilling is witnessing a once-hopeless marriage become a testimony of God’s grace and resurrection power! “Therefore, if anyone is in Christ, the new creation has come: The old has gone, the new is here!” – 2 Corinthians 5:17 (NIV) Celebrate the risen Savior and be encouraged, your marriage can rise again. Happy Easter from The Marriage Architects! www.themarriagearchitects.co

This Palm Sunday weekend, Marc and Heather draw a powerful parallel between Jesus’s triumphant entry into Jerusalem and the journey of marriage. Just as Christ entered the city humbly on a donkey, hailed as the King of Kings and the Hope of the World, we enter marriage with high hopes and great expectations. But the road ahead—like Holy Week—is often filled with unexpected challenges, heartbreaks, and seasons of struggle. In this episode, Marc and Heather get real about the highs and lows of marriage, and how every couple needs the resurrection power that only God’s Word and sacrificial love can provide. As we reflect on Palm Sunday and the beginning of Passover week, be reminded: Sunday is coming. In Christ, there is always hope, healing, and new life—even when your marriage feels like it's walking through the valley. “But thanks be to God! He gives us the victory through our Lord Jesus Christ.” 1 Corinthians 15:57 (NIV) Be encouraged by today’s message and take heart—your marriage journey is not without a Saviorwww.themarriagearchitects.co  

What happens when you seek, ask for, and apply God’s wisdom in your marriage? The result is growth, stability, and the beautiful fruit of the Spirit in your relationship! In this final episode of our wisdom series on The Marriage Architects, Marc and Heather dive into the real benefits of walking in wisdom together—through every season of life. Galatians 5:22-23 – “But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, forbearance, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness and self-control.” Psalm 81:16 – “But you would be fed with the finest of wheat; with honey from the rock I would satisfy you.” God desires to pour out His wisdom in abundance, satisfying and strengthening your marriage in ways beyond what you could imagine—like honey from a rock. When you seek His provision and guidance, He blesses your relationship with the wisdom that truly satisfies. What You’ll Gain When You Apply Wisdom in Your Marriage: Love & Joy – Wisdom teaches you how to love deeply and experience lasting joy, even in the hard times.Peace & Patience – Wisdom helps you navigate conflict with grace and patience instead of frustration.Kindness & Goodness – When wisdom leads, your actions toward each other reflect God’s goodness and compassion.Faithfulness & Gentleness – Wisdom strengthens trust, creating a marriage that is steadfast and secure.Self-Control – With wisdom, you respond with grace instead of reacting in frustration, building a marriage that lasts. Seeking God’s wisdom is more than gaining knowledge—it’s transformative. It shapes your faith, deepens your connection, and anchors your marriage in something greater than just the two of you. Are you ready to experience the fruit of wisdom in your marriage? Tune in now and let’s grow together!

Wisdom Gives Purpose to Your Marriage A marriage without purpose can feel like two people just going through the motions. But when God’s wisdom is the foundation of your relationship, it gives purpose, direction, and strength to your marriage. In this episode of The Marriage Architects, Marc and Heather explore how wisdom fuels purpose and helps couples build a relationship that reflects God’s plan in every season and stage of life. Proverbs 19:21 – Many are the plans in a person’s heart, but it is the Lord’s purpose that prevails. Three Key Takeaways: Wisdom Aligns Your Marriage with God’s Purpose ~ When you seek wisdom, you gain clarity on why God brought you together and how He wants to use your marriage for His glory. Jeremiah 29:11 Wisdom Strengthens Your Unity ~ A shared purpose keeps you moving together, even when challenges arise. Instead of pulling apart, wisdom helps you navigate struggles as a team. - Ecclesiastes 4:12 Wisdom Helps You Live Intentionally ~ Without wisdom, it’s easy to drift. But when you pursue God’s vision, you make choices that build a strong, purpose-filled marriage that lasts.  Ephesians 2:10 Don’t settle for just coexisting—seek wisdom, discover your purpose, and build a marriage that thrives! Tune in now and take the next step in your journey together.

What if the key to a thriving marriage isn’t just love, but God’s wisdom guiding your vision? In this episode of The Marriage Architects, Marc and Heather unpack how seeking God’s wisdom gives us the right perspective on our relationships. When we anchor our marriage in His truth, He ignites our dreams, opens our vision, and secures our purpose in His plan. This is an exciting and hope-filled perspective! It’s so simple—but we often make it complicated. The world makes it easy to get distracted, disconnected, and off track. But when we focus on the same target—God’s plan—we can move together through life’s ups and downs with unity and strength. Proverbs 3:5-6 – “Trust in the Lord with all your heart and lean not on your own understanding; in all your ways submit to him, and he will make your paths straight.” Join us as we explore: ~ How wisdom shapes your marriage vision ~ Why anchoring in God’s plan helps avoid unnecessary conflict ~ How to stay connected and move forward together Let’s stop making it harder than it needs to be, God has already given us the blueprint! Tune in and start building a marriage that stands strong, even in the storms.

It's exciting to have dreams for your marriage ~ but are they inspired by the wisdom of God? Too often couples dream without seeking wisdom, leading to distraction, disconnection, and derailment in their relationship. In this episode, we dive into Proverbs 4 and unpack why wisdom is essential for shaping God-honoring dreams for your marriage. Ask yourself:  Are you actively seeking wisdom for your marriage? Do you and your spouse have a dream for your marriage? Is your dream shaped by the wisdom and vision found in Proverbs 4? God’s wisdom isn’t just an option—it’s a necessity. When you get wisdom, you get clarity, direction, and the ability to build a marriage that thrives. Tune in and learn how to dream wisely, pursue God’s vision for your marriage, and step into a future filled with purpose and unity. Don’t dream dumb—GET WISDOM! Pastor Robert Bell's Book: Eighty Barry White Voices LINK HERE

Are you seeking godly wisdom to deepen and strengthen your Christian marriage? Well, you're not alone! It's the "Big Ask" of Solomon and God blessed him abundantly! Today's podcast shares how to apply biblical insights, practical tools, and real-life encouragement to help you and your spouse grow closer to each other and to God. Join Marc and Heather as they unpack timeless wisdom from Scripture, share powerful testimonies, and offer actionable steps to cultivate a marriage that reflects Christ’s love. Whether you’re newlyweds or have been together for decades, join us as we seek God’s guidance to build a thriving, Christ-centered marriage. Tune in and discover how asking for wisdom can transform your relationship—because God promises to give it generously to those who ask! James 1:5