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272: Brian Sexton and Being Prepared to Serve

Brian Sexton is the host of The Intentional Encourager Podcast and author of People Buy From People: 10 Powerful People Lessons From the Ultimate People Person, My Dad. Today, Brian shares how prayer influenced his life early, his dad’s profound influence, and how he stopped running from a call to preach. He also shares an interesting connection between his family and his wife’s family that he never saw coming. Brian’s story reminds us that with a little intionality, we can all encourage someone every day. Listen to Brian’s story now! Stories Brian shared: Growing up in Ohio in an influential area The blister that prayer removed as a baby His dad’s encouragement to know God Why he always tries to live in repentance Meeting his wife and how God provided How his mother-in-law knew his grandfather Sensing a call to preach during a revival Learning the value of intentionality How losing his dad sent him into the spiritual desert The dream he had about his father Learning to be his own man The three points of encouragement Great quotes from Brian: People who want to be liberated will do just about anything to be set free. God is the ultimate connector. I was trying to reason with God about things he already knew. If you have a cell phone, you can be an encourager. Encouraged people, empower people. Resources we mentioned: The Intentional Encourager Podcast Eric’s episode on Brian’s show People Buy From People: 10 Powerful People Lessons from the Ultimate People Person–My Dad by Brian Sexton Related episodes: Vicki Proffit and the Encouragement of God Blake Brewer and a Father’s Legacy Sue Donaldson and the Welcoming Heart of God The post Brian Sexton and Being Prepared to Serve appeared first on Eric Nevins.

Dec 6, 202157 min

271: Hope Johnson and Waiting for God to Answer Prayer

Hope Johnson is a writer and podcaster based in Upstate New York. She is the host of Hope Unyielding, a podcast where people share stories of God's faithfulness in the dark and difficult times of their lives. Today, Hope shares the story of how she learned Russian, struggled during a year teaching English, and how she wrestles with God because her “five year plan” didn’t come to fruition. Hope is a deep thinker whose story will remind you to honor and love the Lord even when you feel like he’s abandoned you. Listen to Hope’s story now! Stories Hope shared: Feeling called to be a writer Growing up in Maine with a dad who was a professional magician The example of faith in action that her parents set for her The encouragement to pray whether she should go to Russia Learning to separate God from his people in her mind Going to Gordon College to major in linguistics Teaching college courses in Russia Struggling with mental health The Muslim friend who had a dream about and helped her Teaching international students English Struggling with singleness What it’s like to be a single person in the church Surrendering her marital status to the Lord after a break up Learning to be comfortable with being unsatisfied Learning her identity is in Christ not her relationship status What churches can do to better serve singles Great quotes from Hope: I wish everyone in the church who’s married would realize that there’s something they can learn from us. I want to offer real stories where real hope shines through. Faith and feelings are not synonyms. I’ve learned to sit with not feeling satisfied and not feel guilty about it. Resources we mentioned: Hope’s website The Brothers Karamazov by Fyodor Dostoevsky by Fyodor Dostoevsky Related episodes: Tiffany Jo Baker and Giving Life to Dreams Chuck DeGroat and the Invitation to Obscurity Alicia Michelle and the Renewing of Your Mind The post Hope Johnson and Waiting for God to Answer Prayer appeared first on Eric Nevins.

Nov 29, 202152 min

270: Dorsey Ross and the Story We All Tell

Dorsey Ross is a public speaker and podcaster. He was born with Apert’s Syndrome. Today, Dorsey shares his parent’s choice to nurture and support him, going to college when many didn’t think he could, and becoming a speaker and podcaster. Dorsey’s story is full of challenges that he’s overcome with God’s help. His spirit will encourage you to face your challenges, too. Listen to Dorsey’s story now! Stories Dorsey shared: Growing up in Queens, New York Being born with Apert's Syndrome His parent’s decision to nurture him Being picked on and in hospitals as a child Giving his life to Christ at the age of 13 in a worship service Asking God why he was born this way Wanting to become a youth pastor Going to college in spite of a teacher who didn’t think he could The Bible study group that helped his anxiety Going to Bible college and how that shaped him Seeking a ministry position but the doors kept closing Getting an opportunity to share his story Beginning to speak around the country Why he loves the story of Paul’s thorn in the flesh Starting a podcast on a whim Great quotes from Dorsey: Can’t is not in my vocabulary. He is our hope. He is our peace. Whatever you’re dealing with, you’re not alone. Resources we mentioned: Dorsey’s website Related episodes: Tiffany Jo Baker and Giving Life to Dreams Cliff Haddox and the Story That Grows With You Dr. Michelle Bengston and Overcoming Anxiety The post Dorsey Ross and the Story We All Tell appeared first on Eric Nevins.

Nov 22, 202134 min

269: Christa Hutchins and How Failure Refines

Christa Hutchins equips busy communicators and leaders with project management and problem solving skills so they can turn their big ideas into a successful ministry or business. Today, Christa shares how she experienced her faith as just one part of her life, how a public failure taught her humility, and how that led her to new opportunities. She also shares how she learned to use her gifts to help others bring their dreams to life. Christa’s story reminds us that God uses failure to refine us. Listen to Christa’s story now! Stories Christa shared: Growing up in Florida in a Christian home Being aware that she was a performer in church How she decided to be a chemical engineer Choosing to walk away from problematic behaviors in college Joining a Christian group and being discipled How her career progressed Failing for the first time and how that influenced her faith Having to face her pride and learn humility Volunteering with Proverbs 31 Ministries Learning that using her skills is ministry The “new thing” that God was doing with her business Strategies that help creative people Great quotes from Christa: Clarity comes from action. Failure was part of the route to where God was leading me. I love you too much to let your dream die. Resources we mentioned: Christa’s website The Move Forward Journal (Use code HALFWAY to get 10% off) Related episodes: Merritt Onsa and the Patient Love of God Dan Rudman and Ripples of the Gospel September McCarthy and Suffering as Sanctification The post Christa Hutchins and How Failure Refines appeared first on Eric Nevins.

Nov 15, 202144 min

268: Travis Johnson and World Changing Community

Travis Johnson is an active duty officer in the United States navy and the host of the Nonprofit Architect Podcast. Today, Travis shares about moving dozens of times as a child because of his mom’s mental illness. He also shares how he felt the Lord’s presence, got out of the abusive situation, and found stability in the Navy. Travis has found a way to give back by enabling and supporting nonprofit organizations through podcasting and his own service. Travis’s story reminds us that the Lord can use our background no matter how difficult. Listen to Travis’s story now! Stories Travis shared: Starting his podcast Nonprofit Architect Growing up with a mother with bipolar disorder needing to move often Taking control of his family at 9 years old Going to Bible camp one summer Experiencing a supernatural happening before moving out Joining the Navy to get a stable life Finding a church in Oklahoma City that showed him what church should look like The group who helped him understand the Christian life Realizing people in Bahrain were just like him How podcasting has changed his life Great quotes from Travis: No amount of shared DNA gives someone permission to treat you a certain way. I just showed up with a good attitude and willing to help. Everywhere you go, it’s just people. Resources we mentioned: Travis’s website Christian Podcasters Association if you want to start one Related episodes: Amy Watson on Trauma, Healing, and Community Trevor Kapralos and the Power of Community Christina Dent and Compassion for Others The post Travis Johnson and World Changing Community appeared first on Eric Nevins.

Nov 8, 202144 min

Tiffany Jo Baker and Giving Life to Dreams

Tiffany Jo Baker is a caffeinated mom of two teen girls, surrogate mom who has delivered five babies for three families dealing with infertility. Today, Tiffany shares how she went her own, self-destructive way as a teenager, and the dramatic steps her parents took to get her back. She also shares how she became a surrogate mom, and the calling the Lord gave her to help others bring their dreams to life. Tiffany’s story reminds us that no matter where you are, God has plans for you if you’ll only step into them. Listen to Tiffany’s story now! Stories Tiffany shared: Growing up in a Christian family in Ohio Going rogue in high school and how God redeemed Her “burning bush” experience Getting a fresh start in college Learning spiritual disciplines and new thought patterns How she became passionate about surrogacy Pitching the idea to her husband What she learned from being a surrogate Her role in the body of Christ as a “dream carrier” Getting released to speak and write Securing an internship to learn online business Learning to be present Great quotes from Tiffany: None of us have all that we need to do all that God has called us to do. If you’re confident, people will give you the responsibility. I do soul care, self care, and dream care. Our minds are a powerful weapon. Resources we mentioned: Tiffany Jo’s website Related episodes: Alicia Michelle and the Renewing of Your Mind John Ramstead and From Accident to Purpose Dr. Heather Thompson Day and the Sustaining Hand of God The post Tiffany Jo Baker and Giving Life to Dreams appeared first on Eric Nevins.

Nov 1, 202141 min

266: Scott Distler and Creating Space to Listen

Scott Distler is an author and the lead pastor of an Evangelical Free church in Northern Michigan. Today, Scott shares about the mentors who shaped him, how a betrayal sent him into a dark time, and the steps he took to get out of it. Scott learned to slow down and make space for his relationship with God in the difficult season and he shares those lessons. Scott’s story reminds us that our identity must come from who Jesus says we are not our accomplishments. Listen to Scott’s story now! Stories Scott shared: Pastoring a church in Northern Michigan Spending his childhood in church Feeling called to become a pastor as a junior in high school Going to Bible school to learn Scripture His mentor’s advice about how to pray specifically The moment that he knew the Lord answered his prayer How is pastor mentored him and his best advice Becoming spiritually arrogant before his “cave experience” When his main supporter turned against him at church Learning that his source of significance is in the Lord Starting to journal as a spiritual practice Realizing that Jesus understands betrayal The practice of gratitude he kept with his wife Why he decided to write The Cave Great quotes from Scott: Even though my greatest hurts in life have come from the church, I still believe in the local church. Everything that happens to you makes you bitter or better. The choice is yours. My source of significance has to be Jesus. Resources we mentioned: Scott’s church website The Cave: When Ministry Becomes Misery by Scott Distler Ministering to Problem People in Your Church: What to Do With Well-Intentioned Dragons by Marshall Shelley Related episodes: Mark Brownson and Honesty with God Alicia Michelle and the Renewing of Your Mind Jim Barnard Finds Hope in Suffering Through Community The post Scott Distler and Creating Space to Listen appeared first on Eric Nevins.

Oct 25, 202144 min

265: Alicia Michelle and the Renewing of Your Mind

Alicia Michelle is an author, Bible teacher, podcaster and certified NeuroCoach. Known as the Mindset Makeover Coach, she equips Christian women with practical brain-and-biblically-based tools so they know HOW to renew their minds in order to overcome negative thinking and cultivate godly confidence. Today, Alicia shares how campus ministry changed her life, the health crisis that made her reevaluate, and what she has learned about renewing your mind in a godly way. Alicia’s story reminds us that we are wonderfully made and learning about how always yields benefits. Listen to Alicia’s story now! Stories Alicia shared: Her business as a neurocoach and being a mom Growing up in Los Angeles Becoming a Christian through Cru at college The mentor who shaped her early walk with Jesus Moving back to Los Angeles Meeting her husband at church Struggling with all the “shoulds” of having a new family The health crisis that changed her identity Leaving a missions trip with a health issue How the Lord helped her slowly rebuild her life How we change things we believe Integrating brain science and spirituality Great quotes from Alicia: I heard Christians are nice. It is strange to return to your hometown and not be the person you were. Resources we mentioned: Alicia’s website: Vibrant Christian Living Related episodes: Sarah Geringer and Transforming Your Thought Life Cyd and Geoff Holsclaw and the God Who Likes You Dr. Michelle Bengtson and Overcoming Anxiety Dan Rudman and Ripples of the Gospel The post Alicia Michelle and the Renewing of Your Mind appeared first on Eric Nevins.

Oct 18, 202154 min

264: John Ramstead from Accident to Purpose

John Ramstead is a keynote speaker and trainer, former combat Navy fighter pilot, leadership coach, international podcast host and bestselling author of On Purpose with Purpose–Discovering How to Live Your Best Life. Today, John shares about losing his dream of being a Top Gun pilot, the accident that nearly killed him, and the process of healing physically, mentally, and spiritually. John discovered that the Lord w0uld provide and give him a new identity. John’s story reminds us that God works even the worst of circumstance together for our good. Listen to John’s story now! Stories John shared: Growing up as a church kid in Minnesota Getting into Top Gun as a pilot and then losing the dream Giving his live to Christ during a church service Building a business to drive himself Living in “smoldering discontent” Starting his own company thinking it would help his discontent The accident that changed his life Experiencing the love of God in his presence The long healing process he went through Realizing he was angry with God because of his painful healing process Trusting God for finances as he healed How Romans 8:28 helped him get through pain The coach’s question that changed his perspective Why he wrote On Purpose with Purpose Great quotes from John: He’s in relationship with us even if we’re not meeting him halfway. Excellence is the standard but grace is the word. Get to know and love that better version of yourself that God sees. Resources we mentioned: John’s website, Beyond Influence On Purpose With Purpose: Discovering How to Live Your Best Life by John Ramstead Related episodes: Cherlyn Decker and Learning to Roar Cari Jenkins and Who You Really Are Paul Edwards and Serving God’s Other Children The post John Ramstead from Accident to Purpose appeared first on Eric Nevins.

Oct 11, 202154 min

263: Dr. Heather Thompson Day and the Sustaining Hand of God

Dr. Heather Thompson Day is a speaker, writer, author of 7 books including her latest It's Not Your Turn. Today, Heather shares how her faith changed when she broke off an engagement and decided to wait on the Lord. She tells how she learned to listen to her feelings but not let them drive her and why she is striving to be more present in her interactions. Through it all, Heather has experienced the Lord guiding, directing, and providing unexpectedly. Heather’s story reminds us that sometimes our calling is to be faithful to show up where the Lord asks us to be. Listen to Heather’s story now! Stories Heather shared: Growing up in the back of a van as her dad entertained around the country Breaking off an engagement and deciding to wait on the Lord Getting a phone call from the man who would become her husband The moment that her VP gave her a meal card and what she learned Why “feelings can get in the car but faith drives” Leaders have to lead and what that means for us Connecting relationship to faith Praying about moving back to Michigan Why we should trust God in all circumstances Her calling to serve young people Why you need to be available to your children Showing up and its value to you How to restore dignity to people in interactions How meditation affects your brain Great quotes from Heather: I can’t plan for God, but I can walk with him. The deepening of my faith came with deep water. When you get to where you’re going, go back for those where you came from. Sometimes it’s not your turn and it’s not your fault. Resources we mentioned: Heather’s website It’s Not Your Turn: What to Do While You’re Waiting for Your Breakthrough by Dr. Heather Thompson Day Christian Podcasters Association Related episodes: Traci Rhoades and the Case of Spiritual Envy Cliff Haddox and the Story that Grows With You Chuck DeGroat and the Invitation to Obscurity The post Dr. Heather Thompson Day and the Sustaining Hand of God appeared first on Eric Nevins.

Oct 4, 202143 min

262: Traci Rhoades and the Case of Holy Envy

Traci Rhoades is an author, blogger, and Bible teacher. Today, Traci shares her early curiosity with hands on faith, why a humanities class opened her up to more Christian traditions, and how reading more widely led her deeper. She also shares why she wrote her book Not All Who Wander (Spiritually) Are Lost. Traci’s story teaches us that different traditions give us fresh understanding of our ancient faith. Listen to Traci’s story now! Stories Traci shared: How her blog opened her up to new traditions Growing up in rural Missouri Teaching elementary students as a high schooler Going to a private Christian university How two classes in humanities shaped her faith Meeting her husband and moving to Michigan How reading more widely led her deeper What she believes godly fruit is and why it matters Why she wrote her book for Evangelicals for whom it wasn’t enough Great quotes from Traci: It’s funny to me that there are practical reasons that God uses in divine ways. I didn’t realize how much wider would lead me deeper. If you expect to find a church that won’t hurt you, you won’t. Resources we mentioned: Traci’s website Not All Who Wander (Spiritually) Are Lost: A Story of Church A Fellowship of Differents: Showing the World God’s Design for Life Together by Scot McKnight Streams of Living Water: Celebrating the Great Traditions of Christian Faith by Richard J. Foster Related episodes: Sarah Geringer and Transforming Your Thought Life Karen Swallow Prior and the Spiritual Practice of Reading Fiction Aimee Byrd and Recovering from Biblical Manhood and Womanhood The post Traci Rhoades and the Case of Holy Envy appeared first on Eric Nevins.

Sep 20, 202159 min

261: Joe Pomeroy and How Grace Cancels Shame

Joe Pomeroy is a businessman, speaker, and author. Today, Joe shares how he came to the end of himself when his marriage was breaking down, what he did to get help, and how he learned to accept grace. Now, Joe helps men apply what they know from business to their family in order to become the fathers and husbands they want to be. Joe’s story reminds us that even when we feel no worth, Jesus still finds us valuable. Listen to Joe’s story now! Stories Joe shared: How he became a family leadership coach Growing up in a Christian family in Arizona Realizing the struggle his family went through Feeling like he needed to be perfect and going through shame cycles The moment in his early 30s that changed his view of righteousness How his marriage began breaking down Feeling like he was pushing his wife out Having a “man-sized tantrum” about something he cannot remember now Realizing he needed help Learning how to accept himself as he is Discovering how to run a family like a business Using the principle of ROI Trying to create a business around business and family Great quotes from Joe: Now I recognize there is power in vulnerability. Most of the time, I wasn’t in darkness. I was in shadow. When we put ourselves in the right place, we’re able to be an instrument of God for others. I believe that all truth belongs to He Who Is the Truth. Every day we deserve love because God has declared it so. Resources we mentioned: Joe’s website Hold Me Tight: Seven Conversations for a Lifetime of Love by Sue Johnson Related episodes: Jay Bakker and Discovering Unbelievable Grace Shá Sparks and Finding Purpose Manny Randawa and the Conduit of Grace The post Joe Pomeroy and How Grace Cancels Shame appeared first on Eric Nevins.

Sep 13, 202144 min

260: Dr. Michelle Bengtson and Overcoming Anxiety

Dr. Michelle Bengtson is a board certified clinical neuropsychologist, author, and fellow podcaster. Today, Michelle shares about struggling with depression and anxiety, how she worked so hard she made herself sick, and the practice that helped her trust the Lord with everything. She also shares how to train your brain to think positively and let God’s Word give us identity instead. Michelle’s story reminds us that the Lord nevers wastes our pain. Listen to Michelle’s story now! Stories Michelle shared: Growing up as a church kid in Michigan Struggling with depression after getting sick Health struggles as a child Self-punishment as a child for not being good enough How to take a step back from acting on emotions Learning what the Lord said about who she is How her son challenged her thinking How your brain is like a running trail The reception of her first book Why perfectionism has no place at church Episodes of her podcast that are helpful Great quotes from Michelle: Who but God would know that a book on worry, fear, and anxiety would need to come out in fall of 2019? Drivenness really comes back to a spirit of fear. Be careful what you say to yourself because you’re listening. I thought I was responsible for the harvest. Resources we mentioned: Michelle’s website Breaking Anxiety's Grip Hope Prevails Bible Study: Insights from a Doctor’s Personal Journey Through Depression Hope Prevails: Insights from a Doctor’s Personal Journey through Depression Related episodes: Marc Schelske and The Wisdom of Your Heart Julie Hamilton and Trusting Over Pleasing Terry Wardle and the Healing Journey Sarah Geringer and Transforming Your Thought Life The post Dr. Michelle Bengtson and Overcoming Anxiety appeared first on Eric Nevins.

Sep 6, 202147 min

259: Cliff Haddox and The Story that Grows With You

Cliff Haddox is a pastor and TikToker (@RevnGeek). Today, we talk about his TikTok, why he started it, and how the platform has influenced his ministry. Cliff also shares the dangerous prayer he prayed, why community is so great in seminary, and the struggle of being unwanted at his church. We also talk about ways to engage people online during Sunday services. Cliff’s story reminds us that God is always leading when we’re open to following him. Listen to Cliff’s story now! Stories Cliff shared: How Cliff got into TikTok Growing up in WV in a Christian family The pastor who mentored him through questions Going to college to be a broadcaster The invitation to a young adult group that solidified his faith The moment he gave God his life How quickly his life changed after praying to see if God had a different plan for his life Getting called into ministry Going to seminary in Louisville, KY How seminary challenged his assumptions The Christian community that he had in seminary How he left a church that wanted to leave the denomination The problem with prosperity gospel Learning to engage online during Covid Great quotes from Cliff: What I have is the assurance that I’ve always had it [salvation]. Faith formation is very different from the academic side of seminary. From the academic side, you have to be prepared to have a wrecking ball swung through everything that the little old ladies taught you in Sunday School. Jonah is a story that grows up with you. If you ever go to seminary, treasure the time you’re there because, if you’re lucky it will be the closest to Christian community like the Bible you’ll ever experience. There is no time when God offers an Easy button. Resources we mentioned: Cliff’s church website Cliff’s TikTok Related episodes: Markus Watson and How Suffering Transforms Merritt Onsa and the Patient Love of God Christina Dent and Compassion for Others The post Cliff Haddox and The Story that Grows With You appeared first on Eric Nevins.

Aug 30, 202157 min

258: Janell Wood and the Shaping of Identity

Janell Wood is the podcaster behind Finding Something Real. Today, Janell shares about the youth pastor who served as a great example of God’s love, when she wrestled with a sinful relationship, and how the Lord met her through a series of miscarriages. Janell learned to trust the Lord with each experience and finally accepted that he gets to choose who she becomes. Her podcast serves young women with questions about faith by making them part of the conversation. Janell’s story reminds us that the truest thing about us is that we are loved by our maker. Listen to Janell’s story now! Stories Janell shared: How she got into hosting exchange students Growing up in a Christian family in Washington State The day her older sister left home The youth pastor who showed her Jesus Looking for love in all the wrong places The relationship that she knew was sin but couldn’t give up Moving to Pennsylvania and having weeks alone with God Dealing with anxiety that was compounding Wrestling with God after a series of miscarriages Discussing her belief in God with her husband and his wise words The church service that helped her Choosing the Lord after the birth of their daughter Discovering her identity in Christ Why she has different co-hosts on her show Great quotes from Janell: I always wanted Christ because I loved who he was. We can talk about Jesus and get in the Word but the Christian walk was not meant to be walked alone. The more you look at yourself, the more messed up your identity game will be. “Being heard is so close to being loved that for the average person they are indistinguishable.” David Augsburger Resources we mentioned: Janell’s website Crazy Love: Overwhelmed by a Relentless God by Francis Chan Believing God – Bible Study Book: Experience a Fresh Explosion of Faith by Beth Moore Related episodes: Dan Rudman and Ripples of the Gospel Cliff Ravenscraft and Finding Himself in Christ Cherlyn Decker and Learning to Roar The post Janell Wood and the Shaping of Identity appeared first on Eric Nevins.

Aug 24, 202152 min

257: Jeff Brown the Exponential Value of Reading

Jeff Brown is an award winning radio producer and personality, who launched his podcast in 2013. He is the host of Read to Lead and just published his first book of the same title. Today, Jeff shares how the Lord provided a job and moved him into Christian radio, how dark moments motivate him to draw closer to the Lord, and why he started Read to Lead. He also shares why reading is such a valuable habit that you cannot afford to miss out on. Jeff’s story reminds us that learning is an essential component of life with God. Listen to Jeff’s story now! Stories Jeff shared: Publishing his first book Growing up in Indianapolis, IN Loving radio even as a child and testing on it Growing up in a Christian family but deciding not to go as a teenager Accepting Christ on Easter Sunday Getting a job in Christian radio providentially Moving to Nashville and working in the Christian music industry Getting married and divorced Feeling the Lord’s comfort when this happened Losing his job in radio and pivoting into small business Starting the Read to Lead podcast The habits of successful people Why he decided to start the show he did How reading got him noticed at worked and advanced his career Great quotes from Jeff: When you find what interests you, research books in that industry. When adverse things happen, those things get my attention and bring me to my knees. When the person who hired you leaves, and you are not replacing them, tidy up your resume. Resources we mentioned: Read to Lead Book website Jeff’s website Read to Lead: The Simple Habit That Expands Your Influence and Boosts Your Career by Jeff Brown and Jesse Wisnewski Multipliers, Revised and Updated: How the Best Leaders Make Everyone Smarter by Liz Wiseman Do You Talk Funny?: 7 Comedy Habits to Become a Better (and Funnier) Public Speaker by David Nihill Related episodes: Karen Swallow Prior and the Spiritual Practice of Reading Fiction Kevin White and Audacious Generosity Rachel Joy Welcher and the Spirituality of Unmet Longings The post Jeff Brown the Exponential Value of Reading appeared first on Eric Nevins.

Aug 16, 202148 min

256: Erica Wiggenhorn and Learning to be Brave

Erica Wiggenhorn a speaker and author of three Bible studies including her most recent, Letting God Be Enough: Why Striving Keeps You Stuck & How Surrender Sets You Free. Today, Erica shares how she learned to enjoy studying the Bible, how she learned the difference between faith and trust, and the moment she realized that God is enough for her. Erica also takes us through some painful moments when the Lord shaped her identity. Erica’s story reminds us that the Lord will always lead even through the dark places. Listen to Erica’s story now! Stories Erica shared: Growing up in a Christian family but not going to church every week Being terrified by the preacher at her grandparent’s church Going to Christian school as a child The youth pastor who patiently answered her questions Feeling guilt because she didn’t enjoy reading the Bible Beginning to pursue bible study while dealing with infertility Realizing the difference between faith and trust Learning to shed the busyness as a sign of godliness The process of sanctification for her The moment she learned that the Lord is enough for her Great quotes from Erica: You can’t teach what you won’t live. I realized that I had been feasting on crumbs rather than dining at the Savior’s table. When we seek his approval, we can begin to let go of self-imposed expectations. Resources we mentioned: Erica’s website Letting God Be Enough: Why Striving Keeps You Stuck & How Surrender Sets You Free by Erica Wiggenhorn Unexplainable Jesus: Rediscovering the God You Thought You Knew by Erica Wiggenhorn Related episodes: Caroline Harries and The Invitation of Hope Dan & Lindsey McKenzie are Living a Big Adventure Together Erin Davis and the Twin Anchors of Life with God The post Erica Wiggenhorn and Learning to be Brave appeared first on Eric Nevins.

Aug 10, 202154 min

255: Mark Brownson and Honesty with God

Mark Brownson is a pastor and author. Mark’s recently published book is Honesty, A Believer’s Struggle with Prayer and Faith. Today, Mark shares his struggle to teach himself to read, achieving his dream to go to seminary, and his experience pastoring churches. Through it all, Mark has wrestled with God in prayer with an honesty seldom found among God’s people. Mark’s story reminds us that the Christian life is one of being with God even when it’s not easy. Listen to Mark’s story now! Stories Mark shared: Teaching himself to read in seventh grade Finding faith in Jesus while being disciplined by his mom Discipleship on the couch listening to Christian radio Going to college at Azusa Pacific with his dyslexia Helping out with a church plant and feeling a call to ministry How a comparative religion class shaped him Going back to Montana State and teaching for awhile Deciding to go to seminary How seminary shaped him Pastoring churches in Ohio and Pennsylvania Meeting his wife as God’s provision His wife’s bipolar breakdown on their honeymoon Learning to share the Gospel as a “weak thing” How he serves his community Great quotes from Mark: The Christian life is certainly no bed of roses, at least it hasn’t been for me. God and I frequently have arguments. He always wins. My relationship with God is one of honesty. Faith is akin to dependence. Resources we mentioned: Connect with Mark Honesty: A Believer’s Struggle with Prayer and Faith by Mark Brownson Related episodes: Charles Causey and Chasing Candor Mike Elder and the Legacy of Faith Rob Burns and Crossing Cultures The post Mark Brownson and Honesty with God appeared first on Eric Nevins.

Aug 2, 202148 min

254: Shā Sparks and Finding Purpose

Shā Sparks is the CEO (Chief Excitement Officer) of Sparks of Fire International, a Certified Fearless Living Coach and Trainer, host of The Power of Investing in People Podcast, and Co-Founder of #FIRESTARTERS Book Project. Today, Shā shares how she spent much of her life without love and waiting to die, how she broke up with alcohol, and why she decided to pray for herself. Shā also tells us how God led her into her calling helping other as a coach. Her story reminds us that learning to receive love is an important part of the journey. Listen to Shā’s story now! Stories Shā shared: Spending many years wanting to die Why she chose the title “Chief Excitement Officer” Growing up on a farm in Central Iowa Her dad’s anger at home and how it started depression in her Having a kegger at 11 year old Dealing with suicidal ideation Feeling that the Lord was always with her even in her darkest time Sensing the devil speaking to her Giving her life to Christ after a DUI at 16 Realizing that she needed to leave her abusive relationship Deciding to pray for herself instead Getting counseling to discover herself for the first time Contemplating the love of God Getting into coaching to help women out of abusive relationships Great quotes from Shā: I was so giving that I forgot to give to myself. I thought if I had needs, I was a bad person. The reality is we all have needs. Love is what really surprised me. When you are working to heal, you are working on your purpose. Resources we mentioned: Shā’s website FIRESTARTERS: How to Be a Spark of Hope in the Midst of Change by Sha Sparks Women Who Love Too Much: When You Keep Wishing and Hoping He’ll Change by Robin Norwood Boundaries Updated and Expanded Edition: When to Say Yes, How to Say No To Take Control of Your Life by Henry Cloud and John Townsend Related episodes: Paul Sohn and Finding Your God-Given Purpose Idella Kercher and God’s Abundant Provision Marc Schelske and the Wisdom of Your Heart The post Shā Sparks and Finding Purpose appeared first on Eric Nevins.

Jul 26, 202148 min

253: Chuck DeGroat and Invitation to Obscurity

Chuck DeGroat is professor of pastoral care and Christian Spirituality at Western Theological Seminary and author of When Narcissism Comes to Church. Today, Chuck shares about dealing with anxiety his entire life, pursuing a life of influence, and how stepping back from that helped him find wholeness. Chuck also discusses the brokenness that so many pastors experience and how we can facilitate wholeness. Chuck’s story reminds us that honesty is the key to walking with the Lord. Listen to Chuck’s story now! Stories Chuck shared: Growing up on Long Island, NY Experiencing anxiety as a kid The chaotic nature of his religious world as a child Why he was drawn to Calvinism Going to Dort College to find a softer version of reformed faith Moving to Chicago and having a bit of a faith crisis Feeling like he should go to seminary in Florida Reaching the height of anxiety while in seminary Going to see the professor of counseling Deciding to get a degree in counseling to buy some time Getting called out for flirting with a client Taking a job at a church plant and getting fired years later Moving to San Francisco and a new kind of anxiety and busyness Getting counseling that picked up the fractured pieces Why we get so many narcissistic pastors Great quotes from Chuck: We all at some level have to reckon with our own dividedness. We are all walking contradictions. Resources we mentioned: Chuck’s website When Narcissism Comes to Church: Healing Your Community From Emotional and Spiritual Abuse Wholeheartedness: Busyness, Exhaustion, and Healing the Divided Self Toughest People to Love: How to Understand, Lead, and Love the Difficult People in Your Life — Including Yourself The Rise and Fall of Mars Hill Related episodes: Jeff Munroe and Stewarding Your Pain Kristin Kobes Du Mez and Knowing Christian History Laura Barringer & Scot McKnight on Becoming an Agent of Tov The post Chuck DeGroat and Invitation to Obscurity appeared first on Eric Nevins.

Jul 19, 20211h 4m

252: Cherlyn Decker and Learning to Roar

Cherlyn Decker is a best-selling author, speaker, and coach. Today, Cherlyn shares how she spent her life trying to achieve, how it all came crashing down when she lost her job, and the steps took through the spiritual desert. Cherlyn also tells us how she ended up with a spiritual director and how that helped her during a tough time. Cherlyn’s story reminds us that the Lord often takes away our self-made and protective identities to show us our true selves. Listen to Cherlyn’s story now! Stories Cherlyn shared: Growing up in Washington DC Giving her life to Christ at youth camp Learning to hear God’s voice on a regular basis Surrendering her law career Meeting her husband at church during law school Receiving directional dreams from the Lord Hiring a spiritual director for help Why we have to go through the desert Getting rid of a poverty mindset How she sees herself today Why she wrote her book ROAR Back Great quotes from Cherlyn: I’m extremely mouthy with the Lord. I never knew I was going to struggle with who I was. God really does the best transformation work. Resources we mentioned: Cherlyn’s website ROAR Back: Transforming Struggle Into Strength by Cherlyn Decker Related episodes: Patrick Meyers and The Kind Initiator Cherrilynn Bisbano and the Struggle for Identity in Christ Cliff Ravenscraft and Finding Yourself in Christ Jonathan Puddle and the Nearness of God The post Cherlyn Decker and Learning to Roar appeared first on Eric Nevins.

Jul 12, 202144 min

251: Janna Thompson and Spiritual Sassy Pants

Janna Thompson is the creator behind Project Shine. Today, Janna shares some surprising moments when the Lord has spoken and worked in her life. Janna shares how the Lord met her when contemplating suicide, protected her during a horrific car crash, and provided for her needs. She also lets us into her prayer closet where we glimpse the intimate nature of her relationship with him. Sometimes that involves putting on her “sassy pants” and asking God some tough questions. Janna’s story reminds us that the Lord can handle them. Listen to Janna’s story now! Stories Janna shared: Growing up in a non-denominational, traditional church Feeling rejection and insecurity as a child Beginning to see into the spiritual world Her parent’s divorce and how that left her feeling like an orphan Overdosing on anxiety medicine at high school graduation Dropping out of college and going to live with her dad Challenging God to show up or she would commit suicide (National Suicide Prevention Lifeline: 800-273-8255) A horrific car accident that should have killed her Meeting her husband because of the accident Putting on her “sassy pants” to talk to God Challenging God to give her a car The miracle of a baby after an infertility diagnosis Her daughter Clara’s birth The healing of Clara and trusting God for healing Great quotes from Janna: Being a parent is my greatest adventure. Good, bad, or ugly, no matter what you describe about the spiritual realm, it sounds scary. His pursuit of me was greater than my ability to misunderstand him. Prayer was never meant to be a monologue. Never fall for the trap that God has rejected you. Resources we mentioned: Project Shine Related episodes: Patrick Meyers and the Kind Initiator Lauren Gaskill and the Joy of Healing Tim Morris and How Your Heart’s Desire Unlocks Your Purpose The post Janna Thompson and Spiritual Sassy Pants appeared first on Eric Nevins.

Jun 28, 20211h 18m

250: Drew Moser and Enneagram Type is Just the Beginning

Dr. Drew Moser is the Founder & CEO of TypeTrail, and enneagram-based coaching firm. He’s the author of The Enneagram of Discernment: The Way of Vocation, Wisdom, & Practice and is co-host of Fathoms: An Enneagram Podcast. Today, Drew shares about sensing a call to ministry, beginning marriage in a season of grief, and how discovering Enneagram gave him a better understanding of himself. His story reminds us that knowing ourselves is a key part of the journey with Christ. Listen to Drew’s story today! Stories Drew shared: Getting into and serving others through Enneagram Growing up in Central, Illinois in a Christian family Feeling small looking at the empty and dark church sanctuary Challenging his teachers with hard questions Feeling like an imposter as he was being celebrated in high school Feeling shame, guilt, and a hangover after a night of partying and how that brought him back Opening up to his youth pastor and feeling accepted Switching his major to Christian ministry How his “perfect life” crumbled Starting marriage in a season of grief Moving to Denver to attend Denver Seminary Doing some counseling to help move through grief How grief gave him empathy for others Discovering Enneagram as a way to understand his team Great quotes from Drew: Type is the trailhead. Is the Enneagram Christian? No. Is the Enneagram anti-Christian? No Resources we mentioned: Andrew’s website for TypeTrail The Enneagram of Discernment: The Way of Vocation, Wisdom, and Practice Fathoms: An Enneagram Podcast Lament for a Son by Nicholas Wolterstorff Related episodes: Suzanne Stabile and How Enneagram Helps Relationships Jim Gum and Healing Through Enneagram Ryan Lui and Embracing Your Uniqueness The post Drew Moser and Enneagram Type is Just the Beginning appeared first on Eric Nevins.

Jun 21, 202154 min

249: Sue Donaldson and The Welcoming Heart of God

Sue Donaldson is an author, speaker, and podcaster. Today, Sue shares about doubting her faith in college, struggling with her singleness, and learning to lean on the Lord more than her husband. Sue is a master at creating great conversations and she tells us how that became part of her ministry. Plus, she reminds us that not being hospitible is really about pride, not personality. Her story will encourage you to just be a friend to make a friend. Listen to Sue’s story now! Stories Sue shared: Forgetting how much she enjoys speaking Growing up in a Christian family in Southern California Giving her life to Christ at 15 when she understood the Gospel Waking up one day and doubting her faith in college The woman who helped her understand doubt Learning that it is her faith not her parent’s faith Becoming a missionary teaching Why she decided to marry her husband Learning to depend on the Lord more than her husband How she got into teaching Scripture How she began creating more meaningful conversations Ministering to women via wine nights Great quotes from Sue: When you get to do God’s gift, it’s not a drag. It’s okay to doubt. God is big enough for your questions. When you study who God is, you can’t help but open your home. Don’t be afraid to open your door. Resources we mentioned: Sue’s website Say Something Special: 252 Conversation Starters by Sue Donaldson Hospitality 101: Lessons From the Ultimate Host A 12-Week Bible Study by Sue Donaldson Related episodes: Carol Wilson and Following the Lord’s Leading Gisela Kreglinger and Savoring the Goodness of God Laura Flanders and the Mentored Life The post Sue Donaldson and The Welcoming Heart of God appeared first on Eric Nevins.

Jun 14, 202148 min

248: Jay Bakker and Discovering Unbelievable Grace

Jay Bakker is an author and speaker at Revolution Church. If his name looks familiar, it’s because he is the son of famed televangelists Jim and Tammy Faye Bakker. Today, Jay shares about growing up as his parents rose to fame and fell, how he ignored God for a season, and discovering the radical nature of grace. He describes getting sober and why he things of theology as art. Jay’s story reminds us that God accepts us as we are because he loves us. Listen to Jay’s story now! Stories Jay shared: Growing up as a televangelist kid How his parent’s scandal affected him Realizing that his parents really believed what they preached Going to the alter a thousand times as a child Ignoring God in order to live Beginning to understand grace through Bible study Joining a 12 step program to get sober Starting Revolution in Atlanta Getting dialectic behavior therapy Struggling through doubt Accepting others to accept himself Thinking of theology as art Where he thinks the church is headed Great quotes from Jay: So much of what I’d been taught, and the culture I grew up in was only part of the story. Grace is anarchy. You don’t get an asterisk. I’m not going to let someone’s political views make me hate them. Resources we mentioned: Revolution The Ragamuffin Gospel: Good News for the Bedraggled, Beat-Up, and Burnt Out by Brennan Manning Peter Rollins Related episodes: Jamie Rowe and Finding His True Home D.L. Mayfield and the Gift of Paying Attention James Prescott and Processing Grief Well The post Jay Bakker and Discovering Unbelievable Grace appeared first on Eric Nevins.

Jun 7, 20211h 5m

247: Amy Watson on Trauma, Healing, and Community

Amy Watson is a businesswoman and podcaster. Today, Amy shares her story of unbelievable trauma and the community the Lord used to help her heal. Amy tells us about being abused by a serial killer, finally sharing what was happening and getting help, and the moment she felt safe enough to fall apart. Amy has turned her story into the ability to minister to others with similar ones through her podcast Wednesdays with Watson and it’s making a difference. Her story reminds us that the Lord wastes nothing, even our most painful moments. Listen to Amy’s story today! Stories Amy shared: Growing up in Florida Being padlocked in a room by her mom and stepdad Meeting and being abused by Henry Lee Lucas, a notorious serial killer The church people who showed up at the door with candy Her mother inviting a pedophile into her home who abused her at 14 Telling a woman at church what happened The moment she felt safe enough to fall apart Going to the hospital and being diagnosed with PTSD The moment she learned that her ex-husband passed away The friend who made her family The first time she was dropped off at a foster family Writing in the psych ward Why we have to be careful about our language The value of community for healing trauma Great quotes from Amy: I have been an adult as long as I can remember. Trauma does not have to be the end of your life. The thing the Lord has used the most is his people who love me. Resources we mentioned: Amy’s website Markus Watson’s website and episode of HT Related episodes: Mary DeMuth and Her Avenue for Healing Shea Watson and Conquering Shame Caroline Abbott and Coming Home to the Lord The post Amy Watson on Trauma, Healing, and Community appeared first on Eric Nevins.

May 31, 202156 min

246: Charles Causey and Chasing Candor

Chaplain Colonel Charles Causey is an author, pastor, and chaplain. Today, Charles shares with us his story of resisting the call to ministry, how the Lord’s providence has cared for his family through the years, and why he decided to become a writer. We also discuss his latest book Candor which is all about navigating difficult conversations with love and grace. Charles’s story reminds us that the Lord’s heart for us is always truth but also love. Listen to Charles’s story now! Stories Charles shared: Growing up in Leavenworth, KS Feeling a little inoculated to the faith by college Getting involved in Campus Crusade for Christ in a small revival Giving his life to Christ at a backpacking camp Feeling God’s call to serve him full time Switching over to being a chaplain in the Army reserves A moment of worship that shaped him How his ministry set him up for enjoying seminary Making a deal with God to have time with his family How getting laid off allowed him to apply for jobs and still get paid Planting a church in Minnesota Struggling with God while living away from his family Deciding to become a writer while deployed during the Surge Why he wrote his book Candor Great quotes from Charles: Sometimes you feel lost when you’re not around those you love the most. God has big shoulders. Write for yourself. Resources we mentioned: Charles’ website Candor: The Secret to Succeeding at Tough Conversations by Charles Causey The Lion and the Lamb: The True Holocaust Story of a Powerful Nazi Leader and a Dutch Resistance Worker by Charles Causey In Danger Every Hour: A Civil War Novel by Charles Causey Related episodes: Rob Burns and Crossing Cultures Billie Jauss and Home is Where We Are Mike Elder and the Legacy of Faith The post Charles Causey and Chasing Candor appeared first on Eric Nevins.

May 25, 202155 min

245: Billie Jauss and Home is Where We Are

Billie Jauss is an author, speaker, podcaster, and baseball wife. today, Billie shares how she sensed a connection to God as a young woman, when an atheist counselor advised her to go back to church, and how she as discovered the value of sharing herself with others. Billie writes and podcasts devotional material and hosts Bible studies which help many stay grounded in the Bible. She also gives us a peek behind the scenes of what it’s like living inside of baseball. Billie’s story reminds us that whatever your life is like, God is right there with you. Listen to Billie’s story now! Stories Billie shared: Getting into baseball and writing devotionals Growing up in rural North Carolina in a protestant family Sensing a connection with the Lord as a young woman Separating from her husband during a hard time The question her counselor asked that sent her back to church The priest who advised her to go to a Bible-based church How her husband noticed her growth Learning Jeremiah 29:11 and what it mean to her Feeling like she had to hide who she was Being available when fellow baseball wives need her The difficulty of being in a sport like baseball The value of Baseball Chapel The times she’s been disappointed in God Great quotes from Billie: Baseball is a family. Fans are a family. Home is where we all are together. He is the way, the truth, and the life. To turn back to him is what Resources we mentioned: Billie’s website Making Room: Doing Less So God Can Do More by Billie Jauss (Amazon affiliate link that sends a small commission my way if you use it) Baseball Chapel Related episodes: Gari Meacham and Hitting Life’s Curveballs Jamie Rowe and Finding His True Home Manny Randhawa and the Conduit of Grace The post Billie Jauss and Home is Where We Are appeared first on Eric Nevins.

May 17, 202149 min

244: Jonathan Puddle and the Nearness of God

Jonathan Puddle is the author of You Are Enough: Learning to Love Yourself the Way God Loves You, and is a pastor and podcast host himself. Today, Jonathan shares the first time he was moved by the Holy Spirit, deconstructing his faith for a season, and falling in love with Jesus all over again. Jonathan’s love for the Lord comes through as he shares his story and it’s a really beautiful way to reflect on the goodness and nearness of Him. Jonathan’s story reminds us that God loves us deeply. Listen to Jonathan’s story now! Stories Jonathan shared: Quitting his day job to become a writer Growing up as a YWAM kid around the world Moving to Toronto to join the Toronto blessing His mom leading him through the “sinner’s prayer” at four Being moved at a Delirious concert by the Holy Spirit How to think about supernatural experiences Getting into the house church movement Experiencing God while making pizza with a friend Deconstructing shortly after he got married Moving to Finland and not going to church for a season Discovering Jesus through the Eastern tradition How church history helped him Going to a Roman Catholic church and drawing from multiple Christian streams How the Holy Spirit spoke to him about his faith community Deciding to start his podcast Great quotes from Jonathan: I never renounced the faith that’s never occurred to me I just couldn’t make it all work in the package I’d been given. When you’re in the wilderness, God feeds you from his own hand. We were taught that pride is the unworthy thing and the antidote is self-hatred. [That experience] has given me a faith in God’s willingness and God’s ability to come and disrupt our lives. The issue with pride is self-righteousness not thinking too highly of yourself. Resources we mentioned: Jonathan’s website You Are Enough: Learning to Love Yourself the Way God Loves You The Lean Startup: How Today’s Entrepreneurs Use Continuous Innovation to Create Radically Successful Businesses by Eric Ries Pagan Christianity?: Exploring the Roots of Our Church Practices by Frank Viola Related episodes: Paul Edwards and Serving God’s Other Children Tricia Lott Williford and How God Works in the Waiting Iain Bradbeer and God as the Architect The post Jonathan Puddle and the Nearness of God appeared first on Eric Nevins.

May 10, 202157 min

243: Charmaine Cooper and the Everywhere God

Charmaine Cooper is an author, speaker, and host of the the Char Candid Podcast. Today, Charmaine shares her experience at the Toronto Blessing, her struggle to forgive her father, and why she chose to go to seminary. Charmaine is a dynamic storyteller who saved one of the best stories for last involving hearing God on the dance floor. Charmaine’s story reminds us that God is with us everywhere even if we try to avoid him. Listen to Charmaine’s story now! Stories Charmaine shared: Born and raised in Toronto, Canada Growing up in a pentecostal family Her parents’ divorce and how that affected her Giving her life to Christ at 19 as part of the Toronto blessing Depression after her father refused to see her dying mother The struggle to forgive her father How the Lord used a Ronald Reagan movie to keep her from suicide Writing the adventures of our lives and noting God Getting her masters degree in theology Serving the Persian Christian community How getting a masters of divinity shaped her Great quotes from Charmaine: It’s amazing how, in time, the feeling follows the acts of faith. I love seeing how the church is so human and yet God uses them. Just because you’re alone, does not mean you need to embrace loneliness. Resources we mentioned: Charmaine’s website and podcast Related episodes: Quentin Banks is Free in Christ Forever Kevin White and Audacious Generosity Engel Jones and the Power of Connection The post Charmaine Cooper and the Everywhere God appeared first on Eric Nevins.

May 3, 202154 min

242: Manny Randhawa the Conduit of Grace

Manny Randhawa is MLB.com reporter, Statcast researcher, and author of The Blake Street Bombers. Today, Manny shares how his dad’s political desire led him to faith, the surprising sermon that let him to pray for salvation, and how he ended up being a sports writer. He also shares how he led his mom to Christ. Plus, we geek out a little bit about baseball, of course. Manny’s story reminds us that God is always working even when our circumstances are painful. Listen to Manny’s story now! Stories Manny shared: Growing up in the San Francisco area to immigrants from India How his parents arranged marriage affected him When his dad asked him to go to church Going to a Christian school as a way of becoming American The conversation with a leader at a retreat that stayed with him Getting emotional during worship songs The experiences in worship that kept happening and his intellectual pursuit Praying while listening to Joel Osteen wrap up a sermon The kind of abuse he lived through from his father Leading his mom to Christ Deciding not to become a lawyer Praying to become a baseball writer Starting to write for Bleacher Report Getting an internship at MLB.com and his first story on the cover of the webpage Learning he was clinically depressed How God answering his prayer changed his view of God’s fatherhood Talking to Juan Pierre and other Christians in MLB Experiencing God as father The story of how he wrote his book The Blake Street Bombers Great quotes from Manny: If you’re not an emotional guy, everything has to make sense…but it didn’t. If you’re young and depressed, you don’t know it. The very cause of distress in my life, God used as a conduit to put me in the right place. We say “right place, right time,” but actually God places you there. Resources we mentioned: Manny’s website Manny’s Twitter The Blake Street Bombers by Manny Randhawa Related episodes: Skye Jethani and Living Life with God Gari Meacham and Hitting Life’s Curveballs Jerry Schemmel and Christ in the Wreckage The post Manny Randhawa the Conduit of Grace appeared first on Eric Nevins.

Apr 26, 20211h 15m

241: Sheila Wray Gregoire and the Great Sex Rescue

Sheila Wray Gregoire is a popular speaker, marriage blogger, and the author of nine books, including The Good Girl's Guide to Great Sex and her latest book, The Great Sex Rescue, which she coauthored with her daughter Rebecca Lindenbach and Joanna Sawatsky. Today, Sheila shares how she became a Christian sex blogger, when she first realized that she must stand for justice, and how studying the messages Christians were sending about sex affected her faith. Plus, we talk all about the research behind The Great Sex Rescue, and the more faithful way to look at a hot issue like sex. This conversation reminds us that love and mutuality is the way. Listen to Sheila’s story today Stories Sheila shared: Picking up a copy of Love and Respect and how that bothered her Growing up as an evangelical in multiple denominations Struggling with gender roles and her own calling Being ready to ditch the faith at 16 Losing a son after five years of marriage Discovering her spiritual prophetic gift Getting into blogging about sex by accident Why it’s sad we’ve turned sex into a transaction How sex and power are related The mutuality of sex in the Bible Why men are the victims of shame The message that is sent when sex is taught as an obligation Great quotes from Sheila: Life does not have to be happy for it to be real. Your faith can still be genuine even when you’re grieving. It doesn’t you’re spiritually weak to grieve. My heart is with the oppressed. When I see an injustice I can’t handle it and I need to speak out. God is an intimate God. When we follow Jesus we are not harmed. Resources we mentioned: Sheila’s blog The Great Sex Rescue: The Lies You’ve Been Taught and How to Recover What God Intended Books we mentioned: Making of Biblical Womanhood by Beth Allison Barr A Church Called Tov: Forming a Goodness Culture That Resists Abuses of Power and Promotes Healing by Scot McKnight and Laura Barringer Jesus and John Wayne: How White Evangelicals Corrupted a Faith and Fractured a Nation by Kristin Kobes Du Mez We Too: How the Church Can Respond Redemptively to the Sexual Abuse Crisis by Mary DeMuth When Narcissism Comes to Church: Healing Your Community From Emotional and Spiritual Abuse by Chuck DeGroat Related episodes: J. Parker and How the Gospel Applies to Sex Thomas Umstattd Jr. and Untwisting the Gospel Chris Taylor and Sex and Spiritual Growth The post Sheila Wray Gregoire and the Great Sex Rescue appeared first on Eric Nevins.

Apr 19, 202155 min

240: Shea Watson and Conquering Shame

Shea Watson is the cohosts The Pantry Podcast with his wife Michelle. Today, Shea shares his journey of sexual abuse at 8 years old, joining the army to avoid jail for drug dealing, and realizing he was losing it in the special forces. He constantly strived to keep up appearances by succeeding in high school sports and excelling in the army but it wasn’t enough to base his identity. Finally, after the failure of his second marriage, he turned to the Lord. Shea’s story reminds us that God’s love overcomes shame. Listen to Shea’s story now! Stories Shea shared: The Pantry Podcast with his wife Being abused as an 8 year old Going to live with his dad and the requirements to go to church Trying to prove himself Getting into drug dealing to make some money Joining the military to escape Wanting to achieve in the Army Having PTSD while he was still in the Army Telling his superiors that he needed help Feeling like he was running from God Staying at Walter Reed in a psychiatric unit for two years Struggling with drug addiction When his sister took him in and loved him Getting married to a woman who became his fix Having 8 miscarriages and the sorrow that comes from that experience His dream about Jesus being crucified Starting The Pantry Podcast with his wife Michelle Great quotes from Shea: I needed someone to tell me I was good because I didn’t feel good inside. My life in the Army started through reckless decisions. I was tired of turning to things to cover the pain. I didn’t want to put a band-aid on it anymore. Resources we mentioned: Shea’s website Related episodes: John Swanger Shares Light in Dark Places Cherrilyn Bisbano and the Struggle for Identity in Christ Blake Brewer and A Father’s Legacy The post Shea Watson and Conquering Shame appeared first on Eric Nevins.

Apr 12, 202152 min

239: Merritt Onsa the Patient Love of God

Merritt Onsa is a trail guide for the passionate and creative Christian woman who wants to get over her fear of failure, comparison, and imposter syndrome so she can get moving on her God-shaped dream without wasting more time second-guessing herself, procrastinating, or trying to be perfect. Today, Merritt shares how her ex-boyfriend led her to Christ, learning to be honest with her story, and how her husband taught her about God’s patient love. Merritt’s story reminds us how sweet the Lord’s patience is with us. Listen to Merritt’s story now! Stories Merritt shared: Growing up in Central California whose parents were educators Knowing of God until her parents stopped going to church Feeling like she had to be a perfect kid and seeing God as the bully in the sky Moving to Dallas for a job The infidelity that broke up her relationship The change she saw in her ex-boyfriend that piqued her interest in God Clicking on the “Free Gift” button on her friend’s church and hearing the Gospel Celebrating her conversion with her friend Going to Celebrate Recovery Healing through serving and learning to be honest with her story How she met and married her husband and the provision from God Caring about women finding freedom Why Zephaniah 3:17 matters to her Great quotes from Merritt: This man that I had betrayed ministered to me. When I stopped hiding, the healing exponentially grew. The infatuation and passion that you see in movies is unsustainable for a marriage. Resources we mentioned: Merritt’s website Merritt’s podcast Related episodes: Brandy Goebel and Running Back to You Tracy Winchell and the Value of Starting Over Tammy Helfrich is Trust Falling with God The post Merritt Onsa the Patient Love of God appeared first on Eric Nevins.

Apr 5, 202148 min

238: Phil Mershon and the Creative’s Journey

Phil Mershon is the founder and host of the Man in the Pew Show. By day, he is director of events for Social Media Examiner. He’s a jazz saxophonist, songwriter, former pastor, and author of two forthcoming books. Today, Phil shares the journey of discovering he is a creative. He shares how he studied economics, the mentor who encouraged him to speak and write, and how he discovered his need to express his creativity every day. Phil’s story reminds us that it’s so valuable to know yourself and express yourself creatively. Listen to Phil’s story now!! Stories Phil shared: Clinging to God in the middle of chaos in his life Growing up in a church-going family High school pranks at church Going to Wheaton College and studying economics Discovering that he was more artistic than analytical The mentor who challenged him to try speaking Going to seminary to study worship Serving churches and moving around the country Struggling with depressive cycles as a creative Getting to Social Media Examiner Learning that he has to express parts of himself Great quotes from Phil: I wasn’t around people who could see that side [the creative side] of me. Abundance is the way the Kingdom works. There are certain parts of who I am that I can’t allow to go unexpressed. I am more than enough because God is more than enough. Resources we mentioned: Phil’s website Related episodes: Matt Tommey and Partnership in the Gospel Patrick Meyers and the Kind Initiator Matt Rhodes Blends Spiritual Formation and Creativity The post Phil Mershon and the Creative’s Journey appeared first on Eric Nevins.

Mar 29, 202146 min

237: Kristin Du Mez and Knowing Christian History

Kristin Du Mez is Professor of History at Calvin University and author of Jesus and John Wayne. If you haven’t heard about this book yet, you will soon because it is lighting Evangelicalism on fire. Kristin shares about growing up a bit sheltered in Northwest Iowa Dutch country, how moving and travel began to expand her understanding of the world, and why she decided to address militarism in the Christian faith. Kristen’s story reminds us that we need to know Christian history to understand our faith. Listen to Kristin’s story now! Stories Kristin shared: Growing up in Dutch Reformed circles in Northwest, Iowa Feeling supported and nurtured in that area Moving to Tallahassee, FL and learning that she was a little sheltered Spending a year in Germany Growing up always believing and making a profession of faith in college Cultivating spiritual experiences through reading in Christian history Observing how faith can be used to grasp for power A summer of discontent How understanding Christianity changed her faith The history of biblical literalism and how that shaped her Taking off the pressure to be right Landing on intellectual engagement as a way to inform her faith Deciding to address militarism in Christian faith Wrestling with whether she should be bringing issues to the fore How the cold war influenced our faith today How the Bible gets distorted and treated as truth The fruit of the Spirit as the definition of biblical masculinity Great quotes from Kristin: My working assumption was that Christianity is constant within history. If anything, my historical studies disrupted this notion of communion with my fellow believers. If you’re holding on so tightly to your narrow conception of truth, that’s a faith that can easily be shaken. A lot of Evangelicals have bought into a very us versus them mentality, that God is on our side and therefore anything that I do is righteous. Resources we mentioned: Kristin’s website Jesus and John Wayne: How White Evangelicals Corrupted a Faith and Fractured a Nation Related episodes: Karen Swallow Prior and the Spiritual Practice of Reading Fiction Kyle Strobel and Integrating Spirituality and Theology Jeff Munroe and Stewarding Your Pain Aimee Byrd and Recovering From Biblical Manhood and Womanhood The post Kristin Du Mez and Knowing Christian History appeared first on Eric Nevins.

Mar 22, 202147 min

236: Rob Lohman and Breaking Addiction

Rob Lohman currently helps people suffering from substance abuse to find freedom from addiction and incarceration. Today, Rob shares his journey of avoiding consequences for destructive actions, the moment God spoke to him in a bar, and the action that sent him to prison. Today, Rob helps others break the chains of addiction as an interventionist. His story reminds us that God is still pursuing us no matter how messy our lives become. Listen to Rob’s story now! Stories Rob shared: Growing up in several cities in a Christian family Drinking beer behind the bushes at church camp Alcoholic tendencies in high school Avoiding consequences throughout college Not liking himself and needing a change of heart The moment the Lord spoke to him in a bar Sensing God’s presence as he lifted a barbell too much for his weight Discovering gambling at 15 Learning how to live sober Meeting his wife and getting married Dealing with creeping insecurity after marriage and fatherhood His finances getting messed up through gambling Setting boxes on fire on his patio The journey of confession Getting arrested after confessing Being sentenced to 13 years in prison His wife’s journey of trying to figure out what to do Discovering who he is in Christ Repairing his marriage after getting out Getting trained to do recovery intervention Great quotes from Rob: Parents and loved ones, don’t ever quit praying for your kids. Resources we mentioned: Rob’s website Seven Days In Utopia Victory Over the Darkness: Realize The Power Of Your Identity In Christ by Neil Anderson Related episodes: Mike Savage and God’s Great Sacrificial Love Amber Cullum and the Journey to Grace Mark Casson and the Clay’s Perspective The post Rob Lohman and Breaking Addiction appeared first on Eric Nevins.

Mar 15, 202152 min

235: Christina Dent and Compassion for Others

Christina Dent, Founder and President of End It For Good, a conservative nonprofit advocating a health-centered approach to drugs rather than a criminal justice approach. Christina lives in Mississippi and changed her own mind about how to best handle drugs after she became a foster parent. She started End It For Good several years ago to invite others to learn and consider changing their minds too so we can save lives, preserve families, and strengthen communities. Today, Christina shares how she survived a literal train wreck, the loving mom who challenged her views of drug addiction, and starting End It For Good to educate others on the issue. Christina’s story reminds us that the grace of God heals our deepest needs. Listen to Christina’s story now! Stories Christina shared: Leading End it For Good Growing up in a Christian home in Mississippi Giving her life to Christ at a Christian camp at 9 Family devotions and how that influenced her Experiencing a train wreck in Chicago Her parent’s cancer diagnosis How the suffering shaped her Meeting a mother and child through foster care The problems with our cultural narrative about drugs Why it’s easier to “otherize” people Researching to find a better way to handle drugs The three ways that prohibition of drugs harms people Understanding the reasons why people use drugs What your church can do to help Great quotes from Christina: I want my life to matter. If it’s short or if it’s long, I want to be faithful. Her struggle with addiction is not a lack of love for her son. This is not a criminal issue. What a tragedy it would be to take this son from a mother who dearly loves him. We’re using trauma to fix a problem made worse fundamentally by trauma. The criminal justice system is not the right tool for a complex medical crisis like drug addiction. Resources we mentioned: End It For Good 2 Minutes Chasing the Scream (The Opposite of Addiction is Connection) by Johann Hari Related episodes: Shari Malott and Fighting for Hope Rob Decker Discovers God’s Tenderness for Him Craig Greenfield and Good News for the Poor The post Christina Dent and Compassion for Others appeared first on Eric Nevins.

Mar 8, 20211h 16m

234: Paul Edwards and Serving God’s Other Children

Paul Edwards is an executive ghostwriter, CEO, bestselling author and host of Influencer Networking Secrets podcast. Today, Paul shares the story of finding Christ at a lonely time, struggling with pride in his work life, and the communities that changed the course of his life. Paul knows the value of a great connection and today, he’s using skills he learned in insurance to serve others. Paul’s story reminds us that we’re all God’s children with a calling to serve. Listen to Paul’s story today! Stories Paul shared: Leading a marketing firm for faith-based leaders Growing up in Edmonton, Canada then moving to the US Relationship with his father who is an atheist Finding Christ in England at Hillsong Church Losing his job and looking for work Joining the US Military and going to Iraq Learning how to network while working in insurance Feeling completely alone as he struggled The Wild at Heart Boot Camp that changed his life Mentoring young adults and how that plays into his calling Deciding to write a book about networking Why networking is so valuable Great quotes from Paul: Most people’s lack of faith is stemming from pain somewhere in their life. Everytime I develop professionally it’s because I’m in a mastermind. It’s a privilege to serve God by serving his other children. Resources we mentioned: Paul’s website Influencer Networking Secrets: How to Build the Magnetic Influence, Meaningful Connection and Profitable Publicity of a Radically Generous Entrepreneur by Paul Edwards Wild at Heart Boot Camp Thou Shall Prosper: Ten Commandments for Making Money by Rabbi Daniel Lapin Related episodes: Gill Bentham and Living in the Locks with the Lord Os Guinness and Carpe Diem Redeemed Neil Matthews and Accepting God’s Acceptance The post Paul Edwards and Serving God’s Other Children appeared first on Eric Nevins.

Mar 1, 202152 min

233: Cherrilynn Bisbano and the Struggle for Identity in Christ

Cherrilynn Bisbano is an award winning author and speaker. Today, Cherrilynn shares about finding Christ at her lowest point, sensing God’s presence, and learning to study the Bible as a spiritual practice. Cherrilyn also shares how the Lord revealed her identity as his and used her gives to completely change her career. Cherrilynn’s story reminds us that the Lord is always working to show us who we are. Listen to Cherrilynn’s story now! Stories Cherrilynn shared: Helping writers achieve their dream of publication Suffering 18 losses in her family in a short time Growing up in New England in a military family with an abusive father Looking for the way to heaven in her 20s Putting her identity in her relationship with men Finding Christ when her sister asked her to pray for her Learning to accept God’s love for her Overcoming complaining as a practice Feeling a spiritual hug at her lowest point The value of the word “Abba” to her How the Lord is using her gift of encouragement in the writing industry Why you can trust God Great quotes from Cherrilynn: I tried to find my identity in men, in my job, everywhere but Christ. He wants to use you to breathe life into other people but he first needs to breathe life into you. Immanuel is not just a Christmas carol. It’s a way of life. Resources we mentioned: Cherrilynn’s website Shine Don’t Whine by Cherrilynn Bisbano Related episodes: Blake Brewer and A Father’s Legacy Lauren Gaskill and the Joy of Healing Randall Sean Garcia and the Father’s Love for Us The post Cherrilynn Bisbano and the Struggle for Identity in Christ appeared first on Eric Nevins.

Feb 22, 202146 min

232: Kevin White and Audacious Generosity

Kevin White is a pastor and author of Audacious Generosity. Today, Kevin shares the story of finding Christ as a young man, feeling called to ministry, and almost burning out while trying to achieve. When the church he planted voted him out, he had to reconsider what God was asking of him. Through the struggle, he founded a ministry that today serves over 500 families in his area. Then the Lord awoke his heart to India and he’s taken over 1,000 people to visit and minister there. Kevin’s story reminds us that it’s all God’s grace so we can hold everything with an open hand. Listen to Kevin’s story now! Stories Kevin shared: How 2020 is different for him Giving his life to Christ at 10 Being relieved that his parents got divorced at 12 Feeling very lonely and lost in high school Going to a Gospel meeting to report on a mission trip and how that changed his life Reading the Bible for hours and asking his pastor for answers Feeling called to ministry The woman who paid for his first year of college with unexpected scholarships The two halves of his life Feeling like not enough throughout his ministry Getting voted out of the pastorate Being angry with God for not honoring his sacrifice The pastor who discipled him through the process of going through the spiritual desert His first trip to India and how it changed him The lean years and how he searched for God’s presence The prayer that began to change his situation Founding a ministry that serves 500 families a month Turning over the ministry to others Taking 1000 people to India on mission trips The miracle of technology for spreading the Gospel Passing on generosity to his children Great quotes from Kevin: As a 17 year old I knew the desire for peace. When I went to India, I saw the presence of God in a way I had never been exposed to in America. Giving is not an expectation; it’s an opportunity God gives us. Resources we mentioned: Kevin’s website Audacious Generosity: How to Experience, Receive, and Give More Than You Ever Thought Possible by Kevin White With Love From Jesus Related episodes: Jeff Brodsky is Barefoot Until the Last Child is Rescued Amber Cullum and the Journey to Grace Craig Greenfield and Good News for the Poor The post Kevin White and Audacious Generosity appeared first on Eric Nevins.

Feb 15, 20211h 5m

231: Sarah Symons and Setting the Captives Free

Sarah Symons is the Founder and Executive Director of Her Future Coalition, an international charity fighting human trafficking and other severe gender violence with shelter, education and employment. Over the past 15 years, Her Future Coalition has walked alongside over 5000 women and children in India, Nepal, Cambodia, and Thailand on their journey to freedom and independence. Today, Sarah shares how she found faith, the mixed blessing of a legalistic background, and how God directed her to a film that changed her life. Sarah’s story reminds us that God is setting captives free and sometimes it’s not a metaphor. Listen to Sarah’s story now! Stories Sarah shared: Helping women become slavery-proof Growing up in Michigan in a Unitarian family Going to a somewhat legalistic Baptist church at 13 Attending Bob Jones University and how that stagnated her faith Her career as a singer/songwriter for film and TV Watching a movie about trafficking at the Tribeca Film Festival Emailing an organization working in Nepal The experiences that moved her on her first trip to Nepal Experiencing God’s love wrap around her after seeing horrific devastation on human faces How people can get involved Her spiritual gift of relentless positivity The connection between mind and body How Covid affected education in India Great quotes from Sarah: A lot of people wish we could drop in and offer a workshop. But it’s a ten year walk to recover, at least. It certainly was a life-changing opportunity but not in the way I planned. God was everywhere for me in all that. I couldn’t have done that trip without my faith. Resources we mentioned: Her Future Coalition International Justice Mission Standing in the Way: From Trafficking Victim to Human Rights Activist by Anjali Tamang & Sarah Symons Related episodes: Jeff Brodsky is Barefoot Until the Last Child is Rescued Jordan Vargo and Justice on a Mission Craig Greenfield and Good News for the Poor The post Sarah Symons and Setting the Captives Free appeared first on Eric Nevins.

Feb 8, 202150 min

230: Blake Brewer and A Father’s Legacy

Blake Brewer is on a mission to help 1 MILLION Dads write at least one well written, meaningful, lasting Legacy Letter to their children. Blake has three children under 5. He absolutely loves being a father. As he leads his family and his children, he draws from many mentors, but none more important than his late father Larry Brewer. Today, Blake shares how losing his father and the letter he left changed the course of his life. Blake’s story reminds us that a father’s approval, attention, and adoration mean everything to their children. Listen to Blake’s story now! Stories Blake shared: Growing up in Texas in a Christian family When his dad took a day off work to take him to the pastor Refusing to pray in public at church camp Studying accounting in college The day his life changed when his dad died on vacation Praying for God to save his dad’s life The letter that his dad left for him What his dad encouraged him to do Grieving for his dad Asking why this terrible event happened The first time he shared his faith with someone Having the idea to start a movement helping dads give letters to their kids The impact you can have on your kids Great quotes from Blake: If there’s a God, do I even want to follow a God who would allow this to happen? It was so healing for me to share to start to minister to other people and allow God to work through me. Every time I was scared, I would go back to my dad and it was like courage from my dad. Resources we mentioned: Blake’s website: Legacy Letter Challenge The Fuel & The Flame: Ignite Your Life & Your Campus for Jesus Christ by Steve Shadrach Related episodes: Randall Sean Garcia and the Father’s Love for Us Caroline Harries and the Invitation to Hope Tim Winders and Redefining Success The post Blake Brewer and a Father’s Legacy appeared first on Eric Nevins.

Feb 1, 202144 min

229: September McCarthy and Suffering as Sanctification

September McCarthy has been married to her husband Dan for 30 years. Together they have ten children and four grandchildren. They have been homeschooling their children for 24 years, and have launched six, with four more still at home. Today, September shares how she met Jesus at family camp, how losing multiple children shaped her, and why she took a whole year off. Her sabbatical brought healing and clarity for where God is taking her and her ministry. September’s story reminds us that suffering and sabbath is for our sanctification. Listen to September’s story now! Stories September shared: Raising ten children and four grandchildren Her ministry of writing and speaking Taking a one year sabbatical from her work Growing up in a very goal driven home Meeting Jesus at 13 years old at family camp Losing multiple children Why she and her husband have ten children The friend who told her it was time to heal Living with fear and wrestling with it Feeling insecure at a conference event What she learned about herself during her sabbatical Her wheel of priority Her best parenting tips for all parents Great quotes from September: A place of healing is not fixed by a one week vacation. Some of my best “yes moments” are saying no. Confidence misplaced will lead to bankruptcy. Resources we mentioned: September’s website September’s Shop The Mom to Mom Podcast The Case for Christ: A Journalist’s Personal Investigation of the Evidence for Jesus (Case for … Series) by Lee Strobel Related episodes: Rachel Joy Welcher and the Spirituality of Unmet Expectations Jay Holland and the Goodness of God Lauren Gaskill and the Joy of Healing The post September McCarthy and Suffering as Sanctification appeared first on Eric Nevins.

Jan 18, 202149 min

228: Laura Barringer & Scot McKnight and Becoming an Agent of Tov

Laura Barringer and Scot McKnight are the authors of the new book A Church Called Tov and it is an important one. Today, Laura and Scot share their sorrow at the news that Bill Hybels had been sexually inappropriate with women over his career. The response from Willow Creek bothered both of them deeply because Laura attended Willow and Scot had listened to Hybels over the years. As someone who trains pastors, Scot was concerned with the damage the Willow scandal would do to his students. We talk about what tov means and how to create a culture of goodness in our churches. Laura and Scot’s stories remind us that pursuing goodness is essential to the Christian life. Listen to Laura and Scot’s story today! Stories Laura and Scot shared: The motivation for writing Whether or not spiritual abuse is unique to large, Chicago area churches Scot growing up in a world of “decisionism” Scot praying to be filled with the Holy Spirit and having a spiritual experience Scot going to major Christian publisher’s book stores in Grand Rapids Laura coming to terms with not having a “moment” of coming to faith How the news about Bill Hybels affected Laura How good preachers mediate Christ Scot reading outside his tradition and how reading the Gospels helped him Why Laura felt a responsibility to speak out How they found out about the scandal Developing skills of discernment The concept of tov in Scripture Becoming an agent of tov yourself Great quotes from Laura and Scot: I grew into the faith as I grew. We need to develop skills of discernment to see people who will lead toward toxicity and people who will work toward tov. (Scot) Tov is a master category for understanding the way we are to live before God. Any notion that we remain worthless or useless type people is an exaggeration of the emphasis of the Bible…the emphasis in the Bible is you were a sinner… and now you have been called to walk in the new ways of righteousness, and justice, and peace, and love, and grace. Resources we mentioned: Scot McKnight’s blog A Church Called Tov: Forming a Goodness Culture That Resists Abuses of Power and Promotes Healing by S The Jesus Creed: Loving God, Loving Others – 15th Anniversary Edition by Scot McKnight Related episodes: Mary DeMuth and The Safest Place for Sexual Abuse Survivors Skye Jethani and Living Life with God Steve Simms and the Joy of Early Christianity The post Laura Barringer & Scot McKnight and Becoming an Agent of Tov appeared first on Eric Nevins.

Jan 11, 20211h 0m

227: Chris Taylor and Sex and Spiritual Growth

Chris Taylor is a writer and speaker about sexual intimacy in Christian marriage. She blogs and hosts multiple podcasts about the subject. Today, Chris shares the story of how she became a Christian sex blogger. She tells us about the moment she first experienced Christian community, how sex changed from fun to burdensome, and how God gave her a message from her mess. Her story reminds us that God redeems everything for his glory. Listen to Chris’s story today! Stories Chris shared: Here ministry to women struggling with sex in marriage Growing up going to a “hippie church” The moment she first experienced community Learning that Jesus taught us how to live and love others Having sex with her boyfriend in high school and the feeling of regret The negative message she took from a Sunday School teacher about sex A season of promiscuity Meeting her husband and feeling that the relationship was different Resenting her husband for wanting to have sex Looking up Christian marriage to prove her husband wrong The women’s Bible study that planted seeds How God put the puzzle pieces of her desires together to create a ministry Praying in images Two spiritual experiences that helped her experience healing Why you should take baby steps in your sexual journey Great quotes from Chris: Social justice is about caring for other people and making sure they have what they need to live. I am the poster child for the idea that God uses your mess to become a message. My sexual journey parallelled my spiritual journey in ways that still surprise me. Resources we mentioned: Chris’s website Forgiven Wife Honeycomb and Spice Knowing Her Sexually Sex Chat for Christian Wives The Marriage Bed Related episodes: J. Parker and How the Gospel Applies to Sex Thomas Umstattd Jr. and Untwisting the Gospel Rachel Joy Welcher and the Spirituality of Unmet Longings The post Chris Taylor and Sex and Spiritual Growth appeared first on Eric Nevins.

Jan 4, 202151 min

226: James Early and the Value of Christian Unity

James Early is a podcaster and prison minister. Today, James shares about asking questions about faith as a high school student, learning how to apply Scripture practically, and what he learned from being a stay-at-home dad before that was a thing. James loves the Lord and wanted to be a minister early in life. Now his podcast reaches around the world as he shares the message of the Kingdom of God available today. James’ story reminds us that even when we think our impact is small, the Lord use us in unexpected ways. Listen to James’ story now! Stories James shared: Starting his podcast The Bible Speaks to You Growing up in Texas with a dad who was presbyterian and a mom was a Christian Scientist Asking question in high school and feeling unsatisfied Understanding John 3:16 in third grade Deciding to go to the Christian Scientist church Applying Scripture to his relationship with his brother How the healing emphasis of Christian Scientist denomination appealed to him His plans to share the Gospel with the world and God’s more gradual plan How God spoke to him when he felt discouraged Wanting to be a prayer healer Getting passed over for promotions and how that shaped him How he became a stay at home dad Learning about God’s love by taking care of his kids Joining a prison ministry How podcasting came out of his prison ministry Finding his place in the body of Christ through podcasting Great quotes from James: I am really grateful now that I didn’t get those promotions. You’ve got to keep that ego in check. I can say all the things I’m supposed to say; but when are you putting this into practice? It’s not your theology that gets you into heaven. Resources we mentioned: James’ website: The Bible Speaks to You Praying with the Mind of Jesus Related episodes: Bobby Jackson and Community that Heals Gari Meacham and Hitting Life’s Curveballs Randall Sean Garcia and the Father’s Love for Us The post James Early and the Value of Christian Unity appeared first on Eric Nevins.

Dec 28, 202054 min

225: Kent Dickerson and Yearning for God’s Beauty

Kent Dickerson is a preacher, writer, and seminar presenter, currently from South Korea. Today, Kent shares the story of how he gave his life to Christ, the moment when lust got ahold of him, and how he overcame the struggle of pornography in his life. Kent had a radical encounter with God’s love in the Alps and it changed his life. His story reminds us to focus on God his character and beauty instead of all the other things that impress us. Listen to Kent’s story now! Stories Kent shared: How he ended up in South Korea Growing up in Abilene, TX and later Colorado Springs, CO Going to church every time the doors were open Giving his life to Christ at a revival and being baptized Discovering pictures of a nude woman Developing a “duality of heart” wanting to serve the Lord and his secret Joining and then leaving the ministry The janitor turned pastor who began to teach him about prayer Having an affair that led to divorce A season of depression he felt after the divorce and discovering Psalms Finding himself back into pornography Getting desperate with God Sharing his struggle with a group and finding he was not alone for the first time Getting into accountability Beginning to find victory over his lust Asking the Father to give him victory Praying at the gym and experiencing worship Worshiping God at the Alps What the Scriptures reveal about the Lord Great quotes from Kent: I had a relationship with the Bible not the God of the Bible. I was finally at a place to receive what he had for me all along. Can I experience you through the temptation? All my life I’ve been chasing beauty…and it’s because my yearning for God’s beauty was so strong. Resources we mentioned: Kent’s website Remade: A Preacher Finds Victory Over Porn and Complaint by Kent Dickerson A Walk to Emmaus Experiencing God: Knowing and Doing the Will of God (Bible Study) by Henry Blackaby Related episodes: J. Parker and How the Gospel Applies to Sex Neil Matthews and Accepting God’s Acceptance Ronda Nelson and the Gift of Grace The post Kent Dickerson and Yearning for God’s Beauty appeared first on Eric Nevins.

Dec 21, 202056 min

224: Karen Swallow Prior and the Spiritual Practice of Reading Fiction

Karen Swallow Prior is Research Professor of English and Christianity and Culture at Southeastern Baptist Theological Seminary. Today, Karen shares how she resisted the Lord early in life, becoming a pro-life protester and getting arrested five times, and how getting hit by a bus was a mystical experience. Karen also shares how reading classic literature is an important and formative experience that just happens to be fun as well. Karen’s story reminds us that engaging culture means thoughtful reading. Listen to Karen’s story today! Stories Karen shared: Growing up in a Christian family in the American Northeast The “old fashioned” thread of her family’s faith Attending a baptist church as a child Resisting the Lord in late adolescence and early adulthood Becoming instantly pro-life after a presentation at her church Being arrested five times and spending four days in jail Discovering her gifts for teaching and prophecy Experiencing God’s love personally when her dog ran away Getting hit by a bus as a mystical experience What she learned about what trauma does to people Why people should read the classics for themselves How language shapes the experience of literature Why Evangelicals need to ask better questions Great quotes from Karen: My whole life centered around books when I was a little girl. I love teaching because I love learning. [Reading fiction] is an embodied, incarnational experience. This is where the culture is being shaped, on social media. We are living in a new dark age in the sense that there is so much information that it’s very difficult to tell truth from fact. But the real battle is that we care about the difference. Evangelicals don’t like the questions; we just like the answers. Art is about the questions. Resources we mentioned: Karen’s website Booked: Literature in the Soul of Me by Karen Swallow Prior On Reading Well: Finding the Good Life through Great Books by Karen Swallow Prior Related episodes: Skye Jethani and Living Life with God Michelle Rayburn and Growing in Christ Amy Patton Say God is in Your Story The post Karen Swallow Prior and the Spiritual Practice of Reading Fiction appeared first on Eric Nevins.

Dec 14, 202051 min

223: Jamie Rowe and Finding His True Home

Jamie Rowe is a recording artist best known as the lead singer of Guardian. His latest recording is This is Home available wherever you get great music. Today, Jamie shares how the Lord spoke to him as a teenager, discovering he could sing, and how he joined Guardian. The men in the group became mentors and helped him through difficult times. And Jamie shares a dark season a few years ago that cost him his marriage but gave him a new perspective on God’s grace as well. Jamie’s story reminds us that we always depend on the goodness of God. Listen to Jamie’s story now! Stories Jamie shared: Growing up in Indiana feeling like he didn’t fit in His anger when his mom found Jesus What God said to him at 17 that changed his life The group of people who discipled him Expectations of Christian musicians Singing Wanted Dead or Alive and passing it around Connecting with Guardian Losing his dad suddenly and how Tony Palacios became his friend through it Working with great producers like the Elefante brothers and Steve Taylor Wearing the mask for Christian music Going through a divorce and the spiritually dark season he experienced time Finding a church that walked with him through it Enjoying the life he has now Great quotes from Jamie: God is a lot more powerful than we allow him to be. I love the mystery of Christianity. In a lot of ways Christian music became my Christianity. Resources we mentioned: Jamie’s website This Is Home on Amazon Music (affiliate link) Journey Biker Church Jamie’s photography Instagram Related episodes: John Schlitt is a Rock Star Redeemed Ronda Nelson and the Gift of Grace Jay Kim and Why We Need Real People The post Jamie Rowe and Finding His True Home appeared first on Eric Nevins.

Dec 7, 202054 min