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322: Suzie Eller and Getting Started with Prayer
Suzie Eller is an author and podcaster with a new book called Prayer Starters: Talking with God about Hard Times and also the Prayer Starters podcast. Today, Suzie shares about the ordinary people who shaped her in simple ways, why she determined to write about things that mattered after cancer, and how she learned to pray. Suzie brings much wisdom to our prayer life that she’s learned from her own. Suzie’s story reminds us that the Lord is never far away if we only turn an ear toward him to listen. Listen to Suzie’s story in your favorite podcast app today! Stories Suzie shared: Working at Proverbs 31 and developing her own ministry Growing up in a fractured family not knowing about God Finding Christ in her late teens when friends knocked on her door with an invitation Challenging God because of her family life The ordinary people who shaped her Going to college and getting married at 20 Studying the Bible as much as she could Receiving a breast cancer diagnosis at 31 Starting a writing career after her survival Deciding to just start somewhere with writing Diving into content creation Learning how to pray through journaling Making video curriculum while grieving and the community she found How she joined Proverbs 31 What she learned by working there How Prayer Starters helps you Great quotes from Suzie: Unless we wrestle out those hard questions, our faith is someone else’s faith. Wrestling with God is part of my faith because it always has been. Is there a chance, God, that you want to talk to me? Just show up is a really powerful path to connection with God. Resources we mentioned: Suzie’s website Prayer Starters: Talking with God about Hard Times by Suzie Eller Suzie’s books on Amazon Related episodes: Sue Donaldson and The Welcoming Heart of God Dan Rudman and Ripples of the Gospel Heather Oncken and How to Be a Friend Sarah Geringer and Transforming Your Thought Life The post Suzie Eller and Getting Started with Prayer appeared first on Eric Nevins.

321: Noble Gibbens and Emotional Healing for Growth
Noble Gibbens is a coach, speaker, and podcaster known as the EQ Gangster because of his big beard and tattoos. Today, Noble shares how he developed a very unhealthy relationship with God full of self-loathing, what happened when he gave up on performing for people, and the moment he learned about emotions. He also gives us a little strategy for how to properly process emotions when we have them. Noble’s story reminds us that God loves the whole of our human persons including our emotions. Listen to Noble’s story in your favorite podcast app now! Stories Noble shared: Being an executive coach to large companies Learning how to stuff and avoid emotions as a child Developing a performance based relationship with the Lord Pursuing God throughout his early adulthood Getting financially independent at age 30 Experiencing depression when he stopped performing Performing at West Point Realizing that he hated himself during a dark night The tattoos that remind him of the lessons of this season Spending time in Scripture during depression Discovering his feelings and emotions Reading the Bible for emotions in a new way How to understand and process emotions Great quotes from Noble: I didn’t feel safe talking about emotions for four decades. I thought I was extra holy because I hated myself more than you hate yourself. I became the Christian that I used to hate. If you don’t heal your emotional issues, your friends, family, and coworker will be forced to. Emotionally healthy people help heal people emotionally. Resources we mentioned: Noble’s website Emotionally Healthy Spirituality by Pete Scazzero Feelings Wheel Related episodes: Marc Schelske and the Wisdom of Your Heart Meg Glesener and the Smile of God Os Guinness and Carpe Diem Redeemed The post Noble Gibbens and Emotional Healing for Growth appeared first on Eric Nevins.

320: Courtney Lowman and Building a Culture of Discipleship
Courtney Lowman is a speaker, teacher, and the podcaster behind The Journey of Ruth podcast. Today, Courtney share how she found amazing mentors early on, the moment when heartbreak brought clarity, and the ministry that the Lord has given her since. Courtney is passionate about discipleship because she knows that one “meal” on Sunday isn’t enough to feed you for the entire week. She now provides resources for disciplers around the world including with her newest resource, the Bible Journal for Busy Women. Courtney’s story reminds us that God often has plans for us beyond our limited imaginations. Listen to Courtney’s story in your favorite podcast app now! Stories Courtney shared: Hosting the Journey of Ruth Podcast Growing up in Arizona as a pastor’s kid Experiencing the difficulty of ministry as a child The women who let them sit with them on Sunday and were her first mentors The vision the Lord used to draw her deeper Evaluating her friendships for depth Clubbing for Jesus in France Wrestling with going to international missions Learning that missions is discipleship Seeing that her podcast is having an international impact Her mom getting brain cancer and other struggles Great quotes from Courtney: Sunday morning is not enough to feed you fully for the entire week. No one else is going to feed you. Go out and use the gifts God has given you to serve your community. Resources we mentioned: Courtney’s website Building Bold Disciples Bible Journal for Busy Women Related episodes: Loren Hicks and the Practice of Discipleship Cheyenne Olson and the Foundation of Scripture Caesar Kalinowski and Discipleship as Mission The post Courtney Lowman and Building a Culture of Discipleship appeared first on Eric Nevins.

319: Peter Englert and Digital Ministry & Mentorship
Peter Englert is a pastor, podcaster, and writer who has a unique ministry using podcasting as a discipleship tool. You know I love to share great examples of new media making a difference. Today, Peter shares how he ended up in ministry, the mentors who showed him incredible kindness, and how his ministry has evolved to include the digital world. Plus, Peter reminds us that digital and physical don’t always have to be in conflict. Often, they actually augment one another. Listen to Peter’s story in your favorite podcast app today! Stories Peter shared: His ministry in Rochester and online Growing up in NY and being told he was destined to be a talk show host Connecting with people from the Northeast Being in church three times a week as a kid Feeling called to ministry at 13 Putting his career in ministry on hold but seeing how God worked it out anyway The mentors who have shaped him by inclusion Getting let go from a job A season of transition when the Lord asked him to be faithful How his job has evolved to change ministry His dream for how in person and digital ministries coexist Great quotes from Peter: We’re scared to tell our stories but that’s what God wants us to do. Sometimes we miss out because we are not patient. If I’m going to be talking 70% of the time, I may as well put it online. Resources we mentioned: Peter’s website Why God Why Podcast Browncroft Community Church Related episodes: Laura Flanders and the Mentored Life Jeff Tacklind and the Winding Path of Transformation Jay Kim and Analog Church The post Peter Englert and Digital Ministry & Mentorship appeared first on Eric Nevins.

318: Jodie Niznik and Creating Space for God
Jodie Niznik served in vocational ministry for over twelve years. Her calling and passion is to equip people to create space for God in their lives and take another step in their journey with Jesus. She does this through writing, teaching, and her Scripture meditation podcast. Today, Jodie shares about how finding Christ at church camp, the first time she learned about lectio divina, and how she helps others engage the practice. Jodie’s story reminds us that there are many ways engage the Lord if we just take a little time. Listen to Jodie’s story in your favorite podcast app now! Stories Jodie shared: The process of lectio divina and the guardrails we need Growing up in Atlanta with a good family. Finding Christ at church camp at 13 Having a very performative view of her faith Deciding to do things on her own and the distress that resulted Discovering Christian community at the University of Boulder Getting married and moving to Texas Hearing God tell her to go to seminary Her experience with God through school Starting to work at her church at the end of her schoolwork “on fumes” Experiencing lectio divina for the first time Leading her first lectio experience Meditating on Psalm 37 The process of practicing lectio Why she started a podcast about lectio, So Much More: Creating Space for God Deciding to move away from working at the church Experiencing God through a painful experience Great quotes from Jodie: I had to slow down or I wasn’t going to do any kind of work God called me to (24:16) There’s not a return but there is a new space. God wants to speak to you through His Word. Resources we mentioned: Jodie’s website Strengthening the Soul of Your Leadership: Seeking God in the Crucible of Ministry by Ruth Haley Barton Related episodes: Sharon Swing and How to Listen to Your Life Traci Rhoades and A Firm Foundation Sarah Geringer and Transforming Your Thought Life The post Jodie Niznik and Creating Space for God appeared first on Eric Nevins.

317: Randy Mortensen and Removing the Stigma of Addiction
Randy Mortensen is a guide for talented management professionals whose drive has led them down a path of compulsive and destructive behaviors, the host of the Courageous Recovery podcast, and a published author. Today, Randy shares how he came to Christ after years of being a church attender, how he finally quit drinking, and the ministries he’s started to help others do the same. Randy work hard and achieves much but has also suffered because of addiction. Randy’s story reminds us that shame never gets the last word because Jesus took it all for us. Listen to Randy’s story now in your favorite podcast app! Stories Randy shared: Being a public speaker around the world Sneaking a beer out of his dad’s man cave Losing his five year old son Sitting in the Lutheran church every week as a kid Giving his life to Christ when his mentor invited him over for an afternoon Going forward for an alter call at an Amway event Teaching with Willow Creek across the country Living the high life with success Hearing from God in Haiti The moment he realized he had to stop drinking Going to rehab to give up alcohol Launching a faith-based recovery program Why he started the Courageous Recovery Podcast Great quotes from Randy: My business life was always very successful, but my personal choices were horrible. First you have to be willing. Then you have to be obedient. It’s the obedience that’s the hard part. For those who are struggling with mental health, we need to serve them not judge them. Resources we mentioned: Randy’s website From Success to Significance: When the Pursuit of Success Isn’t Enough by Lloyd Reeb Related episodes: Rob Decker Discovers God’s Tenderness Christina Dent and Compassion for Others Engel Jones and the Power of Connection The post Randy Mortensen and Removing the Stigma of Addiction appeared first on Eric Nevins.

316: Amy Fritz the Community of the Broken
Amy Fritz is the host of the Untangled Faith podcast, a mom, and wife, with a heart for those hurt by leaders they trust. Today, Amy shares how her somewhat charmed upbringing was shattered when her mom died suddenly, how she ran away to Middle Tennessee, and discovering that all was not as it seemed at a prominent Christian organization. Dealing with the sense of betrayal took time and ultimately gave her compassion for others dealing with the trauma from spiritual abuse. Amy’s story reminds us that God is still good even when the leaders who use his name aren’t. Listen to Amy’s story in your favorite podcast player now! Stories Amy shared: Being a mom and wife in Middle Tennessee Growing up in Minnesota in a new Christian family Feeling like the trophy student and model Christian Losing her mom to brain cancer during an MRI Struggling with the problem of pain and grief in the world Running away to Middle Tennessee and joining The Lampo Group Getting a warning from another wife early on Realizing that there were problems at the company The social media interactions that raised red flags The moment the spiritual abuse dawned on her husband Noticing her friend had disappeared Leaving the company with no job ahead of time. Being harassed by his former company What Amy has learned about herself after going through heartbreak Great quotes from Amy: I had such a golden growing up experience that I did not see a lot of terribly painful things. All the truthful things in the world, they don’t stand up next to sitting next to somebody and letting them grieve. We talk a lot about sin nature but don’t seem to apply it to ourselves. Narcissism is in the blood of our churches. I knew God would provide for us. Resources we mentioned: Amy’s website & podcast The Way of the Dragon or the Way of the Lamb: Searching for Jesus' Path of Power in a Church that Has Abandoned It by Jamin Goggin & Kyle Strobel The Daily Beast article on Dave Ramsey Narcissism and The System It Breeds by Diane Langberg The Religion News Service Article featuring Amy Related episodes: Kyle Strobel and Integrating Spirituality and Theology Nicole Jacobsmeyer and Joy After Suffering Chuck DeGroat and the Invitation to Obscurity The post Amy Fritz the Community of the Broken appeared first on Eric Nevins.

315: Don Larson and Doing Good with Business
Don Larson is the CEO and Founder of Sunshine Nut Company cashews where he helps bring work and wealth to Mozambique. Today, Don shares how he found Christ after years of going to church, becoming massively successful, and deciding to walk away from a huge paycheck. Don tells us the story of surrendering to the Lord which led him to start selling nuts around the world. Don’s story reminds us that when God calls you to something, following may be costly but it’s always worth it. Listen to Don’s story in your favorite podcast player now! Stories Don shared: Living in Mozambique full time working with the Sunshine Nut Company Growing up in Connecticut and Pennsylvania Working at Hershey and their orphanage Going to church a little more than Easter and Christmas Converting to Roman Catholicism to get married Giving their lives to Christ at 29 when they attended a Bible-based church Knowing God was there but exactly connected to him How God spoke to him after taking a job at Campbell’s and a few months off Growing more and more charismatic A word from God through someone on the street Hearing from God to start a business in developing countries Going to International House of Prayer Learning to get out of God’s way while he builds the business Great quotes from Don: God provides everything you need for the calling he has for you. Business is an incredible platform for showing God’s love. I realized I’d climbed up the wrong ladder. Resources we mentioned: Sunshine Nut Company Related episodes: Kevin Wilson and Planting Seeds Gisela Kreglinger and Savoring the Goodness of God Craig Greenfield and Good News for the Poor The post Don Larson and Doing Good with Business appeared first on Eric Nevins.

314: Nicole Jacobsmeyer and Joy After Suffering
Nicole Jacobsmeyer is a mom of four, wife, and author. Today, Nicole shares how she nearly lost her faith after suffering, the wise woman who encouraged her to serve even while it was messy, and how she learned to trust God in the middle of it all. Through her authenticity and the sharing of her own struggles, Nicole encourages women to keep going when all seems lost. Nicole’s story reminds us that the Lord is personal and present even as we suffer and that, it’s often those moments where we find him. Listen to Nicole’s story on your favorite podcast player now! Stories Nicole shared: Being a mom turned author with a young family Starting her blog because her husband was in medical school and it was hard to get out Why she wrote Take Back Your Joy Moving around a lot as a child in a Christian family Having a terrible experience at college including a rape Believing that if you do good things, God will bless you Questioning every belief because of betrayal from her dad Turning the shame inward onto herself Learning that becoming like Christ means suffering How the blind man in John 9 ministers to her Why we hold tightly to our identities Losing a baby through miscarriage A vision of a baby girl that the Lord gave her Great quotes from Nicole: The fact that she saw me as Christ does made me want to dive into the Word again. I always prayed that God would make me more like his Son. We pray that a lot but we don’t know what it will take. We don’t realize how personal God is. Resources we mentioned: Nicole’s website Take Back Your Joy: Fighting for Purpose When Life Is More Than You Can Handle by Nicole Jacobsmeyer Related episodes: Sue Donaldson and The Welcoming Heart of God September McCarthy and Suffering as Sanctification Jodi Rosser and Growing Deep The post Nicole Jacobsmeyer and Joy After Suffering appeared first on Eric Nevins.

313: Kevin Wilson and Planting Seeds
Kevin Wilson is the host of the podcast A Christian Podcast with Kevin Wilson. I had the pleasure of being on a panel with Kevin at Podcast Movement in August, 2022. His approach to evangelism in his podcast fascinated so I had to hear more of his story. Today, Kevin shares about how moving around as a child affected him, the group that so lived Acts 2 that he couldn’t resist Jesus, and how he follows curiosity to interact with others about faith. Kevin’s story reminds us that evangelism is a true gift and we can learn from his. Listen to Kevin’s story today! Stories Kevin shared: Connecting at Podcast Movement Growing up in Detroit, Michigan Moving around a lot and ending up in NC Meeting a group of believers in college that lit his flame for the Lord How the fellowship of believers helped him Investing time and intentionality in his faith Starting his podcast A Christian Podcast with Kevin Wilson Evolving his show to go outside and talk to people Following curiosity to ask genuine questions of people who believe differently Embracing his gifting as an evangelist Experiencing a season when God’s plan was not clear Great quotes from Kevin: I recognize my role as a seed planter. I’ve disagreed with people but never had a conversation end in anger. Humility is required for a relationship with God. Resources we mentioned: Kevin’s details Kevin’s Discord Related episodes: Jay Kim and the Spiritual Formation of Technology Karen Gonzalez and Beyond Welcome Mark Scandrette and Unconventional Christianity The post Kevin Wilson and Planting Seeds appeared first on Eric Nevins.

312: Traci Rhoades and a Firm Foundation
Traci Rhoades is an author, Bible teacher, writer, listener, and follower of Jesus who cares deeply about church unity, church history, everyone reading God’s word, and engaging with others on Twitter. She was last with us on episode #262 and has a new book out called Shaky Ground: What to Do After the Bottom Drops Out. Today, we talk about discovering the gift of listening, exploring Christian traditions different from our own, and how spiritual practices can see us through dark seasons. Traci reminds us that being curious is a spiritual discipline worth pursuing. Listen to my conversation with Traci wherever you get your podcasts! Stories Traci shared: Navigating life with a freshman in high school How she explored various church traditions Why learning to listen is a crucial part of the journey Exploring the church calendar and prayer Practicing lectio divina Why she wrote Shaky Ground Learning to trust the Holy Spirit Using prayer books for her personal prayer The power of silence for spiritual formation How an Ash Wednesday service made her weep How spiritual practices help you through dark seasons Great quotes from Traci: A curious mind serves me better than an arguing one. Once I let go of the fear, I already knew how to listen to the Holy Spirit. The only time there was silence in my church was when someone missed their queue. Imagine if we all walked around as deeply healed people. Resources we mentioned: Traci’s website Shaky Ground: What to Do After the Bottom Drops Out by Traci Rhoades Traci’s first appearance on Halfway There Orthodoxy and Heterodoxy: Finding the Way to Christ in a Complicated Religious Landscape by Fr. Andrew Stephen Damik The Deeply Formed Life by Rich Villodas Holy Silence: The Gift of Quaker Spirituality by J. Brent Bill A Celebration of Discipline by Richard Foster Related episodes: Traci Rhoades and the Case of Holy Envy Mike Savage and God’s Great Self-Sacrificial Love Heather Thompson Day and The Sustaining Hand of God The post Traci Rhoades and a Firm Foundation appeared first on Eric Nevins.

311: Andrew McWilliams and Learning Abundance
Andrew McWilliams is the founder of The McWilliams Group Real Estate and Andrew McWilliams Coaching. Achieving top 1% status among all RE/MAX agents internationally, Andrew has guided many new and seasoned agents to success, sharing philosophy, lessons, and principles from his personal journey. Today, Andrew shares his struggle to find his place in ministry, how a rejection led him to a new level of ministry, and why sometimes having a truck is magical. We also talk about mindset and how much flows from that starting place. Andrew’s story reminds us that when we trust the Lord we can’t play small. Listen to Andrew’s story wherever you get your podcasts! Stories Andrew shared: Growing up in NE Georgia Learning that faith is a relationship Looking for the “one thing” he should be doing Getting into ministry while looking up to teaching pastors The staff retreat that changed everything The definition of success and how it changed How being rejected from his church gave him a new identity Learning that there are seasons Finding his wife because she had a truck Starting out in real estate Why he had to avoid the self-help aisle Discovering how the gurus he liked were citing Scripture Learning about abundance and becoming a co-creator Discovering that he was actually a shepherd of his team The invitation to contribute to Think Big! Sharing his bankruptcy story Great quotes from Andrew: I saw a bigger God at that point. I’ve hit a plateau and I need to find the bigger path because this one is too small. I had to get outside the church to get to where I could hear other voices but I found God right there. There’s so much God has for us and we are playing small. Resources we mentioned: Andrew’s website Think Big! as a contributor Experiencing God by Henry Blackaby Related episodes: Tim Winders and Redefining Success Jill Baughan and the Adventure of Joy James Bryan Smith and Loved Beyond Imagination The post Andrew McWilliams and Learning Abundance appeared first on Eric Nevins.

310: Karen González and Beyond Welcome
Karen González is a speaker, writer, storyteller, and immigrant advocate, who herself immigrated from Guatemala as a child. Karen is a previous guest who shared her story on episode #166. Today, Karen and I talk about normalizing movement of population, why being a stranger in a strange land should give Christians empathy, and what to do about Christian nationalism. Karen’s work reminds us of God’s view of immigrants and challenges us to serve. care for, and love them. You won’t want to miss this episode. Listen to Karen’s story today wherever you get your podcasts! Stories Karen shared: How her first book, The God Who Sees, was received Why movement of people between countries (and states) is normal What it’s like being a stranger in a strange land What it means to “center” immigrants in the conversation What we lose if we require assimilation instead of Christlikeness The difference between integration and assimilation The rise of Christian nationalism and what to do about it The difference between a nationalistic view and the way Jesus sees people Great quotes from Karen: People have always moved for the reasons they move today. When you are who you are, it’s flaws and all. We ask people to conform to our image. Resources we mentioned: Karen’s website Beyond Welcome: Centering Immigrants in Our Christian Response to Immigration by Karen González Journey to the Common Good by Walter Brueggemann Related episodes: Karen Gonzalez and the God Who Sees Kristin Kobes Du Mez and Knowing Church History D.L. Mayfield and the Gift of Paying Attention. The post Karen González and Beyond Welcome appeared first on Eric Nevins.

309: Jay Kim and The Spiritual Formation of Technology
Jay Kim is a pastor and author in Silicon Valley and a previous guest on episode #206. I invited Jay back to discuss his latest book Analog Christian: Cultivating Contentment, Resilience, and Wisdom in the Digital Age. In this conversation, Jay shares the situation we find ourselves in with technology, what’s at stake if we do not use wisdom to handle it, and practices that can help get your freedom back. Jay encourages us to be wise about what we allow to shape who we become so we can be shaped as Jesus would have us. Listen to this conversation with Jay Kim wherever you get your podcasts! Stories Jay shared: Pastoring in the heart of Silicon Valley Releasing Analog Church during the pandemic How digital can be good Finding himself using technology for no reason What is at stake if we are unintentional about technology use The quest that sent him looking for how to be content, resilient, and wise Meditating on the idea of love Why you should practice a digital sabbath Great quotes from Jay: Every human being is being formed at all times. If my enslavement is forming me, my guess is that the way it’s forming me is very different than the way Jesus wants to form me. Love atrophies when it’s not in motion. Resources we mentioned: Jay’s website Analog Christian: Cultivating Contentment, Resilience, and Wisdom in the Digital Age by Jay Kim Analog Church: Why We Need Real People, Places, and Things in the Digital Age by Jay Kim The Tech Wise Family by Andy Crouch Related episodes: Jay Kim and Why We Need Real People Rodney Olson and Kicking at the Darkness Chris Martin and How Social Media Shapes Us The post Jay Kim and The Spiritual Formation of Technology appeared first on Eric Nevins.

308: Jodi Rosser and Growing Deep
Jodi Rosser is an author, speaker, and podcaster. She is the host of the Depth Podcast, a podcast to help others grow deeper in their faith and stronger in their relationships. Today, Jodi shares about what she learned through her life’s biggest heartbreak, divorce. She talks us through the struggle and dark days but also the gifts she received like emotional literacy, learning empathy, and freedom from shame. Jodi’s story reminds us that we grow deep before we grow up. Listen to Jodi’s story in your favorite podcast player now! Stories Jodi shared: Growing up in a Christian family with three sisters Feeling God’s love as a sophomore in college Getting married and going to couple’s group Why she wishes she had read more widely as a young woman Getting her journal when she realized her family would be broken How the Lord helped her during the difficult days Learning emotional literacy as they navigated the painful divorce Struggling with empathy before her heartbreak How her divorce changed her struggle with anger Helping her son through his emotions The conference that encouraged her How God encouraged her to write about her divorce experience The responses she received that changed her The leap of faith to start a podcast Great quotes from Jodi: What if your greatest heartbreak catapults you to your greatest growth? “Mom, don’t you know loss shapes character?” Allow yourself to grieve and go through the pain. God does not want you to live shackled in your shame. I used to thing grace was only for eternal salvation but there’s also daily grace. Resources we mentioned: Jodi’s website Depth: Growing Through Heartbreak to Strength by Jodi Rosser Girls with Swords: How to Carry Your Cross Like a Hero by Lisa Bevere Related episodes: Sarah Geringer and Transforming Your Thought Life Corey Nathan and Remembering the Humanity Jill Baughn and the Adventure of Joy The post Jodi Rosser and Growing Deep appeared first on Eric Nevins.

307: Corey Nathan and Remembering the Humanity
Corey Nathan is a businessman, theater nerd, fellow podcaster, husband, and father. He’s passionate about creating space in the public sphere for to talk about politics and religion from the “screamers” who’ve come to dominate these conversations. Today, Corey explains how a Jewish kid from New Jersey found Christ, what his conversion meant for his family, and why he believes civil discourse need to make a comeback. Corey’s story reminds us that the Lord is always working if we just have eyes to see and patience to wait for him. Listen to Corey’s story now! Stories Corey shared: How a theater ministry was one of his most rewarding experiences Growing up in an observant Jewish family The incorrect foundation that many Evangelicals start with Embodiment in his Jewish roots Being a big question asker as a kid Looking for mentorship as he had a family His mentor, Hal, who just kept giving him books to read How the Sermon on the Mount spoke to him His parent’s reaction to his conversion The long conversation he had with his dad Asking questions about Scripture with his friends Why he started Talking Politics & Religion Without Killin’ Each Other His advice for engaging in political discussions Great quotes from Corey: This is God’s creation and he is going about redeeming it. Big questions just haunted me. I don’t care about immigration policy as much as I care how we’re talking to each other. When want to enter into an extended conversation, have some influence, and maybe be persuasive, it means opening yourself up to the possibility of being persuaded. And that’s dangerous! But the truth is always going to be true. Resources we mentioned: Corey’s website More Than a Carpenter by Josh McDowell Simply Christian by N.T. Wright New Testament and the People of God by N.T. Wright Related episodes: Andrew Klavan and the Truth and Beauty Os Guinness and Understanding Our Moment Jen Rosner and Finding Messiah The post Corey Nathan and Remembering the Humanity appeared first on Eric Nevins.

306: Lauren Roskilly and Trusting God For Healing
Lauren Roskilly is a coach, author, and speaker. Today, Lauren shares about growing up in rural Sussex, England, leaving paganism, and finding dramatic physical healing. Lauren also describes significant mental health issues she suffered, including a suicide attempt, and how the Lord began to change her after a prayer of desperation. Lauren’s story reminds us that even when we suffer, the Lord is present and powerful when we turn to him. Listen to Lauren’s story now! Stories Lauren shared: Growing up in rural Sussex, England Calling herself a “white witch” The stranger who knew things about her at the pub The conversation with window cleaner that changed her life Attempting suicide after struggling with mental health because of a health condition Where God was while she was suffering Praying in desperation to the Lord and his response The moment of surrender with the Lord Stepping out in faith that the results for her health The woman on the bus who healed her Learning to listen and recognize the Lord’s voice Great quotes from Lauren: My focus wasn’t on Him anymore but He was there. I wasn’t asking why. I was asking what. The difference is key. It wasn’t an instant zap; it was a journey. Resources we mentioned: Lauren’s website Healing Toxic Emotions by Mary Islieb Cleaning Up Your Mental Mess: 5 Simple, Scientifically Proven Steps to Reduce Anxiety, Stress, and Toxic Thinking by Dr. Caroline Leaf Related episodes: Gil Bentham and Living in the Locks with the Lord James Prescott and Processing Grief Well Kari Bartkus and the Friendship of Jesus The post Lauren Roskilly and Trusting God For Healing appeared first on Eric Nevins.

305: Benjamin Hunter and Telling a Great Story
Benjamin Hunter is a Christian Colorado Filmmaker who loves to tell stories of all sizes. Today, Ben shares with us what he learned from having a brother with cerebral palsy, how he discovered he was an artist, and the moment the Lord inspired him to start his own film production company. He also gives us a little insight into what it takes to make a movie and the documentary he’s making to honor his brother. Ben’s story reminds us that obedience when God calls is always the best choice. Listen to Ben’s story today! Stories Benjamin shared: Growing up in a Christian family in Colorado His brother Joshua who had cerebral palsy and how Ben’s life was affected Asking the what if questions and how life might have been different Struggling with not going to church when he got his first job Deciding to get baptized on his own Learning to rely on the Lord for his relational needs Meeting his wife at a speed dating event How he got into photography and filmmaking Getting a cinematography merit badge in Boy Scouts Going to film school because he wanted to make his own film project Hearing from God to start his own production company Deciding to make his new film True North Great quotes from Benjamin: It doesn’t matter what physical capabilities someone has, you should treat them the same. I don’t know how to do that but I’ll try. Resources we mentioned: Ben’s website 33 Years Production Related episodes: Jill Baughan and the Adventure of Joy Cliff Haddox and the Story that Grows With You Michael Woodward and Living a Significant Story The post Benjamin Hunter and Telling a Great Story appeared first on Eric Nevins.

304: Jill Baughan and The Adventure of Joy
Jill Baughan is an author, speaker, podcaster and joy-seeker who, through adventure and play, helps people find joy, no matter what else is happening good, bad or ugly in life. Long ago, as a kid on the Tilt-A-Whirl,she learned a valuable life lesson, and that was this: It is entirely possible for a human being to laugh and throw up at the same time. Today, Jill shares how her father’s death changed her view of God, how she learned to have fun and follow Jesus at the same time, and the real value of lament. Jill’s story reminds us that it’s both the laughter and the tears that make life beautiful. Listen to Jill’s story in your favorite podcast app now! Stories Jill shared: Signing up to be the Chick-fil-a cow and what she learned from it Feeling like life was as good as it gets growing up in Indiana The vacation that changed their family The first prayer she remembers praying The poor reaction to her father’s death that shaped her view of God How the church surrounded her family Searching for how to have a relationship with God as a teenager Going to church camp Discovering 1 Corinthians 13 and what it meant to her The youth leader that taught her that you can have fun and still follow Jesus Struggling with infertility Her daughter’s divorce and how God taught her to pray The value of lament Why she stared a writing and her podcast Great quotes from Jill: I still love the Church; I haven’t always loved the church. I didn’t really ask questions for a long time after that. I loved them before I knew them. God came near. And he brought redemption out of brokenness. Prayer is a mystery. Even if you get a “happy ending” that does not negate the sorrow you experienced. Resources we mentioned: Jill’s website Born to Be Wild: Rediscover the Freedom of Fun by Jill Baughan A Hope Deferred: A Couple’s Guide to Coping With Infertility by Jill Baughan Searching for Sunday: Loving, Leaving, and Finding the Church by Rachel Held Evans Related episodes: Caroline Harries and the Invitation of Hope Douglas Groothuis and Walking Through Twilight Becky Antkowiak and Faithfulness Through Grief The post Jill Baughan and The Adventure of Joy appeared first on Eric Nevins.

303: Ryan James Miller and Rediscovering Identity
Ryan James Miller is a performance coach, founder of the Foundations to Freedom Coaching Academy, husband of 20+ years, and father to two daughters. Today, Ryan shares how he came to Christ when nothing else satisfied, how he found a community and surrender ed to the Lord, and the mentors that shaped his walk. Then, Ryan tells about his experience at the Las Vegas shooting on October 1, 2017. That experience catalyzed him to become a better follower of Jesus. Ryan’s story reminds us that we cannot afford to waste a moment. Listen to Ryan’s story in your favorite podcast now! Stories Ryan shared: Rediscovering identity and how Growing up in a Roman Catholic church in Orange County, CA The emotional turmoil of his family while growing up Walking away from his faith entirely until he was 26 The moment he woke up and decided to “give God a shot” The huge fight with his wife that made him take faith more seriously Finding a community that helped him grow How Mark Driscoll woke him up to faith Getting recruited to plant a church Diving into reformed theology How God protected him while working in the church Experiencing the shooting in Las Vegas on October 1, 2017 The perspective that brushing with death gave him Why he started Foundations to Freedom Coaching Academy Great quotes from Ryan: God has to ruin my life to get me to realize what I really have. What God has in store for us has nothing to do with us and everything to do with him. God had been calling me my whole life. Resources we mentioned: Ryan’s website Crazy Love by Francis Chan Radical by David Platt The Rise and Fall of Mars Hill Related episodes: Angus Nelson and the Power of Being in Christ Heather Oncken and How to Be a Friend Michelle Lazurek and Learning to Let Go The post Ryan James Miller and Rediscovering Identity appeared first on Eric Nevins.

302: Sam Feeney and Experiencing God as Father
Sam Feeney is an author, strategist, coach, husband, and father of five. Today, Sam shares with us the paths he meandered as a young man, how everything changed when he met his wife, and what it meant to learn about God as Father. Also, he tells us why his family took a huge leap of faith and moved from Pennsylvania to Colorado. Sam is passionate about helping men grow in their faith and interactions with their families. Sam’s story reminds us that God is one but also three persons and keeping that perspective changes everything. Listen to Sam’s story on your favorite podcast app now! Stories Sam shared: Growing up in Pennsylvania in a Christian family Resisting faith because it might mean his dad was right Deciding that he would become a Christian despite of his relationship with his father Reconnecting with God on summers off during college How meeting his wife changed him How learning to be married challenged them Learning about the Holy Spirit and navigating the ditches Finding a church that had a good balance of faith in the Trinity Holding his son helped bring healing Why the idea of fatherhood is so valuable Moving to Colorado with his family and the faith it took Starting a business and his podcast, Made to Thrive How career affects men and their interactions with their family Great quotes from Sam: For a long time I resisted faith because it might mean my dad was right. If my dad loves me half as much as I love this kid, I’ve undersold him. If you put eternity in our hearts, we’re looking for where he shows up as soon as possible. My biggest challenge as a dad is trying to prolong credibility with my kids as long as I can. Resources we mentioned: Sam’s website Top Five Regrets of the Dying: A Life Transformed by the Dearly Departing by Bronnie Ware Forgotten God – Reversing Our Tragic Neglect of the Holy Spirit by Francis Chan Extraordinary: The Life You’re Meant to Live by John Bevere How Long, O Lord?: Reflections on Suffering and Evil by D.A. Carson The Life of Trust: The Autobiography of George Müller: With An Introduction by George Müller Related episodes: Tim Winders and Redefining Success Les Hughes and Jon Sanders and the Rise of EntrePastors Kari Bartkus and the Friendship of Jesus The post Sam Feeney and Experiencing God as Father appeared first on Eric Nevins.

301: Lisa Appelo and The Lord’s Mercy
Lisa Appelo is a speaker and author including her latest book Life Can Be Good Again: Putting Your World Back Together After It All Falls Apart. Today, Lisa shares how she found faith while growing up in Florida, learning to trust through a financial crisis, and how she called on that trust when her husband died suddenly. She had to learn how to parent as a single mom while dealing with grief and eventually the Lord led her back to writing. Lisa’s story reminds us that the Lord’s mercy isn’t always what we want but is always what we need. Listen to Lisa’s story in your favorite podcast app now! Stories Lisa shared: Being a homeschooling mom of seven Growing up in Florida in a church going family Struggling with trusting the Bible and being directed to Jesus by a professor Going to Youth Camp and rededicating her life at camp Meeting her husband at church in high school and how their faith grew together Reading the Gospel of John and deciding she would believe Trusting God through a financial crisis and how God came through Her husband’s death and how it affected her Sensing God’s presence and people’s prayers as she picked up the pieces Learning to parent as a single mom How 2 Corinthians 10:5 helped her and how she fought the lies of fear Learning how self-control had become an idol Deciding to write instead of return to law Why she wrote Life Can Be Good Again Great quotes from Lisa: Lord, do not let this be a mountain top. I want this to be real. I saw God in ways I never would have otherwise. When we step out in faith, he never calls us into a deal; he calls us to himself. Resources we mentioned: Lisa’s website Life Can Be Good Again: Putting Your World Back Together After It All Falls Apart by Lisa Appelo Countdown to Christmas: Unwrap the Christmas Story with Your Family in 15 Days by Lisa Appelo Related episodes: Harriett Miller and a Fierce Faith Tricia Lott Williford and How God Works in the Waiting Michelle Bengston and Overcoming Anxiety The post Lisa Appelo and The Lord’s Mercy appeared first on Eric Nevins.

300: Andrew Klavan and The Truth and Beauty
Andrew Klavan is an award-winning writer, screenwriter, and media commentator. An internationally bestselling novelist and two-time Edgar Award-winner, Klavan is also a contributing editor to City Journal, the magazine of the Manhattan Institute, and the host of a popular podcast on DailyWire.com, The Andrew Klavan Show. Today, Andrew shares the story of how the Gospels captured his attention as literature, finding Christ in his 40s, and the joy he’s found in Jesus. Andrew’s story reminds us that God is everywhere if we only have eyes to see. Listen to Andrew’s story in your favorite podcast app! Stories Andrew shared: Growing up in a classic American suburb in a Jewish family Being bar mitzvahed and receiving gifts His guilt about not caring about the faith and throwing away his gifts Looking for tough guy role models in books His father’s anger about catching him reading the Bible Wrestling with Jesus being in the center of his cultural and literary understanding Dealing with mental illness in his 20s The psychairistrist who helped cure him which he believes was a miracle Starting to pray in his 40s in an off-handed way Talking to God in his car and understanding that he should be baptized The change that came over him after believing His wife’s conversion as well Finding Christ on every page of his memoir and realizing that the story wasn’t about him at all Trying to get to know Jesus through reading the Gospels Reflecting on his joy found in Christ Teaching himself Greek so he can read Scripture in its original language Studying the Gospels and the lines from the English poets that kept coming to mind The Gospel-centered way of seeing the world Struggling with envy and how it got better through Christ Great quotes from Andrew: Everything I found true and beautiful was represented in literature by Christ. I believe both as a son and as a parent, you When you’re not a cradle Christian, you’re not afraid to ask God questions. Doubt is a really important function of faith. Resources we mentioned: Andrew’s website The Truth and Beauty: How the Lives and Works of England’s Greatest Poets Point the Way to a Deeper Understanding of the Words of Jesus by Andrew Klavan The Great Good Thing: A Secular Jew Comes to Faith in Christ by Andrew Klavan The Mind of the Maker by Dorothy Sayers Related episodes: Jen Rosner and and Finding Messiah Os Guinness and Carpe Diem Redeemed Karen Swallow Prior and the Spiritual Practice of Reading Fiction The post Andrew Klavan and The Truth and Beauty appeared first on Eric Nevins.

299: Ryan George and Living With Courage
Ryan George has traveled to all seven continents and both polar circles. An adrenaline junkie, Ryan is a certified wingwalker a bungee jumping enthusiast, and a via ferrata connoisseur. Today, Ryan shares why he was baptized in three denominations, how he discovered “adrenaline” activities, and what he’s learned about the Lord while pursuing them. Ryan’s story reminds us that the Lord is never far away, even when life seems at its most dangerous. Listen to Ryan’s story now! Stories Ryan shared: The two kinds of adrenaline junkies and which he is Getting baptized into three different denominations The moment in 2006 when he surrendered his life to Christ Small group conversations that allowed him to ask hard questions Taking his brother on a trip to New Zealand and doing lots of fun stuff Outward Bound and how that helped his discipleship Going to Antarctica and why he wanted to go to all the continents How having a daughter changed him What he’s learned about the Lord on each continent The overview effect and how that shaped him Why he’s careful about what he posts online Experiencing God when he does adrenaline junkie activities Great quotes from Ryan: God doesn’t have borders or favorites. I like to places that make everything in my life seem smaller on purpose. I never dream too big for God. Travelling the world has made me more humble. It’s hard to have bad theology when you’re living Christ’s example. Resources we mentioned: Ryan’s website Scared to Life: Tales of a Good God Who Reveals His Heart When Ours Is Racing by Ryan George Endurance: Shackleton’s Incredible Voyage by Alfred Lansing Related episodes: Angus Nelson and the Power of Being in Christ Jen Rosner and Finding Messiah Amy Debrucque and Conquering Fear Aaron Niequist and Swimming in the Eternal Current The post Ryan George and Living With Courage appeared first on Eric Nevins.

298: James Bryan Smith and Loved Beyond Imagination
James Bryan Smith is a professor at Friends University in Wichita, Kansa and author, including his new book, The Good and Beautiful You. Today, James tells us how he found Christ, his amazing set of mentors, and the season when he forgot his first love. He also shares how God thinks about us and why it’s different that you may have been told. James’ story reminds us that no matter where you are on the journey, you’re loved by God deeply. Listen to James’ story in your favorite podcast app now! Stories James shared: His work at Friends University as a teacher Growing up in a Methodist church in Denver Giving his life to Christ before he went to college Being mentored by spiritual formation luminaries Having Rich Mullings in his attic for two years Learning the spiritual disciplines from Richard Foster Going to seminary and being ordained in the United Methodist Church Why he wrote this book How he realized that his soul had needs that weren’t being taken care of Why memorization of Scripture is valuable to him Great quotes from James: It goes a lot better if I think I’m quite marvelous. Every need my soul has, Jesus provides. I want to be at the point where I love God even if God doesn’t provide all my spiritual feelings. God is crazy about you and loves you more than you can imagine. Resources we mentioned: James’ website Things Above Podcast ApprenticeInstitute.org The Good and Beautiful You: Discovering the Person Jesus Created You to Be by James Bryan Smith Related episodes: Laura Barringer and Scot McKnight and Becoming an Agent of Tov Amy Jackson and Trusting God with the Questions Brian Zahnd and the Beauty of Christ The post James Bryan Smith and Loved Beyond Imagination appeared first on Eric Nevins.

297: Les Hughes and Jon Sanders and The Rise of EntrePastors
Les Hughes and Jon Sanders are pastors who help pastors and others with a ministry background create a life of financial freedom as entrepreneurs. Today, Les and Jon share their individual spiritual experiences including resisting ministry and surrendering to the Lord. Plus, they share how being pastors led them to start coaching other pastors to create side hustles and other streams of income. The freedom that’s available is unlike anything we’ve seen before and may be how people serve in the future. Les and Jon’s story remind us that the Lord uses everything, not just the things we think are sacred. Listen to Les and Jon’s story in your favorite podcast app now! Stories Les and Jon shared: Why Les and Jon started EntrePastors Jon was born and raised in a pastor’s family in the MidWest Jon resisting the call to ministry and becoming a firefighter Les growing up with parents who were first generation Christians The sense of God’s presence Les had as a child in tumultuous times Les giving his life to Christ as a child Les realizing that the anger he had was unhealthy The student pastor who discerned what was really happening in Les Jon’s experience of spiritual freedom How the Lord broke Jon’s heart for rural America Les’s experience in ministry How a heart attack helped Les slow down and enjoy the journey Learning to repent of pride for Jon Meeting one another in a mastermind How EntrePastors came about The freedom that pastors can have by creating their own businesses Great quotes from Les and Jon: It’s not anyone else’s job to provide for my family. It’s my job. (Les) It’s a shame when a pastor needs to leave a church environment to increase their income. (Les) I never felt abandoned by God and I know now that’s just grace (Les). The church is a terrible business model. (Jon) If we can free some pastors up to go do some things in the marketplace, we can alleviate a lot of struggle for both the pastors and the church. (Jon) Resources we mentioned: EntrePastors website Small Town Big Church, Jon’s podcast Related episodes: Robin T. Jennings and the Light of the World Brian Zahnd and the Beauty of Christ Heather Oncken and How to Be A Friend The post Les Hughes and Jon Sanders and The Rise of EntrePastors appeared first on Eric Nevins.

296: Ryan Ragozine and Finding Faith Again
Ryan Ragozine, host of the Thinker Sensitive podcast. Today, Ryan shares his incredible journey growing up in a Christian family in Detroit. When he was 12 he lost his faith in God and turned to philosophy to find answers. He also shares the moment when his faith was revived, what he learned from his season of doubt and anxiety, and why he stared a podcast. Ryan’s story reminds us that no matter where you are on the spiritual journey, God isn’t finished with us. Listen to Ryan’s story in your favorite podcast app now! Stories Ryan shared: Why he started Thinker Sensitive, a podcast for thinking seekers Growing up in Detroit, Michigan in a Christian family Praying while he was in bed and the question that challenged his faith What he lost with his faith Feeling jealous that faith was easy for his friends Why he didn’t tell his parents Turning to philosophy to find answers Deciding that certainty is not a human possibility The mystical experience when faith revived at 20 What he learned from his seasons of doubt Going to study theology and struggling with OCD and anxiety The trip to California that changed his anxiety Why he started Thinker Sensitive Great quotes from Ryan: Philosophy in its root form is simply deep contemplation. The kind of certainty I was looking for is actually humanly impossible. All humans have to exercise faith. It just depends on what my faith is in and how well supported it is by reason. Finding God again was about him not about me. Just because you have doubts, doesn’t mean the answers don’t exist. Resources we mentioned: Ryan’s website and podcast Related episodes: Michelle Lazurek and Learning to Let Go Loren Hicks and the Practice of Discipleship Meg Glesener and the Smile of God The post Ryan Ragozine and Finding Faith Again appeared first on Eric Nevins.

295: Ernest Randolph and the Way of the Cross
Ernest Randolph spent 35 years working with youth in formal and informal roles. A graduate of Denver Seminary, he’s led Bible studies and house church for the past six years. Today, Ernest shares his calling to ministry, what happened when he chose between career and ministry, and how writing helped him clarify his faith. Ernest’s book Resurrecting the Cross is his understanding of the work of Christ and why it matters for today. Ernest’s story reminds us that while not everything goes according to our plan, God is always with us still. Listen to Ernest’s story now! Stories Ernest shared: Growing up in Wyoming Being confused by his parents actions as a kid Finding Christ at Children’s Evangelism Fellowship Feeling called to ministry at camp Taking a solo backpacking trip after high school Repairing a van to take kids to camp and how God showed up Leaving for North Carolina wilderness camp Coming back to Colorado and going to seminary Choosing between seminary and working as an electrician The depth he learned in seminary Losing his ministry position and how that affected him The wilderness years Writing to discover what he himself believes Great quotes from Ernest: God does amazing things wherever you are. When you’re in a church, sometimes you feel obligated to believe things that sometimes just aren’t true. The meat is that we live by the Spirit. He came to teach us to endure suffering for the sake of love. When you understand the way of the cross, it changes your whole mindset. Resources we mentioned: Ernest’s website Resurrecting the Cross by Ernest Randolph Denver Seminary Related episodes: Amy Watson on Trauma, Healing, and Community Douglas Groothuis and Walking Through Twilight Hope Johnson and Waiting for God to Answer The post Ernest Randolph and the Way of the Cross appeared first on Eric Nevins.

294: Jen Rosner and Finding Messiah
Jennifer Rosner is affiliate assistant professor of systematic theology at Fuller Theological Seminary and the author of Finding Messiah: A Journey Into the Jewishness of the Gospel, which releases on May 24, 2022. Today, Jen shares how a Jewish girl found Christ in college, how her faith actually grew at Yale seminary, and the dark night she experienced in her graduate work. She reminds us that questioning God and faith are not mutually exclusive. Jen’s story is a testament to the unity of the Gospel in the Testaments. Listen to Jen’s story now! Stories Jen shared: Growing up in Lake Tahoe, CA in a Jewish family Meeting Christian students in college and asking questions The practices that she celebrated in her family and the historicity of her roots Encountering Jesus through Cru and a Vineyard church Seeing the difference faith in Jesus made for her friends Reading John 15-17 and learning about abiding in Jesus The bond she felt with her brother as they both began believing in Jesus at the same time How going to Yale for her Master of Divinity built her faith Her cousin’s faith that challenged her Christianity Why faith and questions are not antithetical The embodied nature of Judaism and why it’s valuable How disconnected the Gospel has become from God’s covenant with Israel Great quotes from Jen: There’s a real humility to saying “I don’t know but let’s talk about it together.” It’s a spiritual discipline to sit with the tensions. Resources we mentioned: Jen’s website Finding Messiah: A Journey into the Jewishness of the Gospel by Jennifer M. Rosner Healing the Schism: Karl Barth, Franz Rosenzweig, and the New Jewish-Christian Encounter by Jennifer M. Rosner Related episodes: Skye Jethani and Living Life with God Kari Bartkus and the Friendship of Jesus Marjorie Gunnoe and Integrating Faith and Science The post Jen Rosner and Finding Messiah appeared first on Eric Nevins.

293: Angus Nelson and the Power of Being in Christ
Angus Nelson is a high-performance coach for men, one of America's top performance strategists and founder of Evolve Men Coaching. Today, Angus shares with us how he found Christ and the zeal with which he pursued ministry. Then, his business and life hit the proverbial fan and he had to reconsider his attitudes toward success, money, and most importantly, himself. Now, Angus reminds us of the power available to those in Christ including you. Listen to Angus’ story today! Stories Angus shared: Growing up in Central Wisconsin Travelling the world and starting a business Losing $72k in one weekend Blowing up his life through pornography, alcohol, and debt The story he was telling himself about his acceptability to God The teacher that helped him understand himself differently Learning new mindsets that help him Learning new ideas about money and the books that helped him Helping a group of top performers Selling his dream house and the journey that sent him on Why the construct of humility doesn’t serve us The questions to ask the Lord about your life Great quotes from Angus: Humility is leaning into who you truly are. When you show up as vulnerable, you give people permission to do the same. I’m not afraid to show my shadows because we all have them. Resources we mentioned: Angus’s website Becoming the Person You Want to Be by Dr. James B. Richards Is Discipleship for Super Christians Only by Dallas Willard Thou Shall Prosper by Rabbi Daniel Lapin You are a Badass at Making Money by Jen Sincero Think and Grow Rich by Napoleon Hill The Science of Getting Rich by Wallace D. Wattles Related episodes: Mike Sares and Water, Spirit, and Scum Tiffany Jo Baker and Giving Life to Dream Tim Morris and How Your Heart’s Desire Unlocks Your Purpose The post Angus Nelson and the Power of Being in Christ appeared first on Eric Nevins.

292: Amy Debrucque and Conquering Fear
Amy Debrucque is a wife, mom of four, cancer survivor, and co-author of Embolden. She is the founder of the Life On Purpose Movement and host of the Life On Purpose Podcast where she encourages women to live on purpose instead of fear. Today, Amy shares how she found a personal relationship with Jesus, how a cancer diagnosis changed that relationship, and her mission to help women live in courage. Amy’s story reminds us that whatever you’re afraid of, the Lord is bigger. Listen to Amy’s story now! Stories Amy shared: Growing Roman Catholic in Central New York Leaving the Roman Catholic church to find more engagement Why she still loves getting on her knees to pray Learning what it meant to have a personal relationship with Jesus Receiving a cancer diagnosis at 40 that caused her to surrender to the Lord How cancer was her wake up call What the Lord said to her that brought surrender Starting Life on Purpose Finding the root of your fear Deciding to write a journal because she couldn’t find what she was looking for Great quotes from Amy: Fear is real but courage can get the final say. Unknown I had two boxes: my whole life and I had God. I didn’t realize they were so disconnected. Embrace those awkward and uncomfortable moments because it does get easier. For as much time as we spend scrolling through other people’s lives on social media, we can take some time for ourselves. Resources we mentioned: Amy’s website em.bold.en by Amy and Blair Debrucque Related episodes: John Morgan and How to Overcome Fear Dr. Michelle Bengtson and Overcoming Anxiety Rodney Olsen and Kicking at the Darkness The post Amy Debrucque and Conquering Fear appeared first on Eric Nevins.

291: Allen Taylor and Giving Up Control
Allen Taylor is an author, editor, and publisher. His most recent release is I Am Not the King, a personal testimony of his faith in Jesus Christ. Today, Allen shares with us the pentecostal church he was raised in, how study helped him escape legalism, and how he became a writer. Allen shares that grace is the key that helped him overcome sin. Allen’s story reminds us that the Lord is always working even when we struggle. Listen to Allen’s story today! Stories Allen shared: Working as a freelance technology author Growing up in a pentecostal church with a rageaholic father Joining the army and going to college How his life unravelled in college Asking God for a sign and the spontaneous praise he experienced How his Bible reading challenged his received faith Finding a church family after college Why grace is important as a concept Getting fired from a Christian bookseller Developing his resistance to temptation Struggling with God as father because of his relationship with his own father Dealing with anger as he matured Writing his testimony to his mom and how that became his book Great quotes from Allen: Legalism is evident to everyone except those who are in it. God breaks down barriers. Resources we mentioned: Allen’s website I am Not The King: A Personal Testimony of Growth in Jesus Christ by Allen Taylor Related episodes: Travis Johnson and World Changing Community Shá Sparks and Finding Purpose Mark Karris and Stop Being Superstitious The post Allen Taylor and Giving Up Control appeared first on Eric Nevins.

290: Heather Oncken and How to Be a Friend
Heather Oncken is an entrepreneur, a nurse, and a fellow podcaster. Her show Connecting in the Chaos is about how to develop and maintain friendship as an adult. Today, Heather shares how her family came to Christ, why she walked away from Christ as a young woman, and how the Lord redeemed all the pain it caused. We also talk about why she started a podcast about friendships and some ideas for how to make friends and be a good one. Heather’s story reminds us that your intentional action matters in your relationships with God and others. Listen to Heather’s story today! Stories Heather shared: Heather’s heart for friendship Becoming a Christian family in sixth grade Deciding to reject Jesus for three years in her mid-20s Being rejected by her daughter’s father The moment of surrender during the pregnancy Deciding that God was enough for her The gratitude she has for her family The pain of her parent’s relational struggles and the anger that goes with it Learning to let go of needing to understand The simple gesture of a friend that changed her life How she started to listen to others The value of intention in relationships Great quotes from Heather: She saved me because she’s what brought me back to the Lord. I think He is honored with our honesty. The brokenness showed me how much I needed other people. We think of friendships as a luxury but they are essential. Resources we mentioned: Heather’s website Related episodes: Merritt Onsa and the Patient Love of God Jay Kim and Why We Need Real People Sue Donaldson and the Welcoming Heart of God Thomas Umstattd Jr. and Untwisting the Gospel The post Heather Oncken and How to Be a Friend appeared first on Eric Nevins.

289: Chris Martin and How Social Media Shapes Us
Chris Martin is an editor at Moody Publishers and a social media, marketing, and communications consultant. He writes regularly in his Substack newsletter, Terms of Service, and is publishing a book by the same name in February. Today, Chris shares how he was led into ministry, got a job working in publishing, and why he thinks social media does more harm than good. We have an extensive conversation about what social media is doing to us, common misconceptions, and what we can do to think more critically about it. Every Christian should be asking and seeking answers to these questions. Chris’ story reminds us that God often leads through our circumstances to the exact place we need to be. Listen to Chris’ story now! Stories Chris shared: Growing up in a Christian family in Indiana Thinking of faith in very transactional terms as a child The Sunday School teacher who led him to Christ Choosing to go to Taylor for college The intervention his friends staged to go into ministry How having theological debates shaped him Not getting a scholarship to Trinity Evangelical Divinity School Getting a job in social media and going to seminary The car accident that gave him a sense of reverence for the Lord Coaching authors on how to use social media How social media is shaping us Great quotes from Chris: I want you to steward your gifts better on the internet. Even though I’d grown up in church, I’d never been taught theology. Man created social media to serve man; but man has come to serve social media. Social media are not neutral tools that can be used for good or evil. Resources we mentioned: Chris’s website Terms of Service: The Real Cost of Social Media by Chris Martin Amusing Ourselves to Death: Public Discourse in the Age of Show Business by Neil Postman The Age of Surveillance Capitalism: The Fight for a Human Future at the New Frontier of Power by Shoshana Zuboff Related episodes: Jay Kim and Why We Need Real People Felicia Song and Digital Discipleship Phil Mershon and the Creative’s Journey The post Chris Martin and How Social Media Shapes Us appeared first on Eric Nevins.

288: Marjorie Gunnoe and Integrating Faith and Science
Marjorie Gunnoe is a psychology professor at Calvin University in Grand Rapids, MI. Her book The Person in Psychology and Christianity, is soon to be released. Today, Marjorie shares the story of how her fundamentalist background shaped her, the moment that allowed her to ask more questions, and why she was so interested in psychology. We also talk about the concept of original sin and why it’s time to rethink it. Marjorie’s story reminds us that Christian faith and sciences like psychology are not inherently locked in conflict. Listen to Marjorie’s story now! Stories Marjorie shared: Growing up in Michigan into a conservative, fundamentalist family Going to a Christian Reformed school Making a comment about the rapture in 9th grade and the results Her mother’s faithfulness to her understanding of Scripture The moment her husband gave her permission to ask questions Driving on the DC Beltway that shifted her perspective Allowing her hermeneutic to change How the last couple of election cycles rattled her Doing divorce research in graduate school Coming back to the two greatest commandments Studying the idea of original sin and how the doctrine affects us How our early experiences shape our views of God Great quotes from Marjorie: In some ways, the God that I knew growing up was always far away. Every Christian prioritizes different Scriptures I need the central orientating theme of love. You don’t need to compartmentalize your faith and science. Resources we mentioned: The Person in Psychology and Christianity: A Faith-Based Critique of Five Theories of Social Development by Marjorie Gunnoe Related episodes: Cyd & Geoff Holsclaw and the God Who Likes You Alexander Lowry’s Journey in Faith and Finance Laura Flanders and Jesus and Her Bleeding Heart The post Marjorie Gunnoe and Integrating Faith and Science appeared first on Eric Nevins.

287: Alec Kassan and Planting Your Purpose
Alec Kassan is a podcaster, author, and consultant for online ministries. Today, Alec shares how he experienced the leading of God, found his purpose while exploring many options, and began serving online ministries. Alec also shares that busyness does not always equal accomplishment. He learned to rest in what God wanted even if it meant moving on from a project. Alec’s story reminds us that his ways are not our ways. Listen to Alec’s story now! Stories Alec shared: Growing up in New Jersey in a Christian family The mission trip that began to help him see God more clearly Getting caught with his phone on the trip How he learned to listen to God over his family The time God spoke to him about a printer Inviting Joey to a mission trip Attending a Vineyard church and finding a spiritual mentor Seeking his fulfillment via busyness Great quotes from Alec: I was trying to feel fulfilled by filling my schedule. You don’t focus on the fruit first; you have to focus on the root. Resources we mentioned: Alec’s podcast Alec’s YouTube Planting Your Purpose: A 20 Day Guide to Discovering God’s Calling by Alec Kassan Related episodes: Jonathan Monsour and How Faith Became His Own Nancy Kay Grace and Trusting the Peace Katie Hornor and Rain as a Blessing The post Alec Kassan and Planting Your Purpose appeared first on Eric Nevins.

286: Michelle Lazurek and Learning to Let Go
Michelle Lazurek is a multi-genre, award winning author, and literary agent. Today, Michelle shares the story of the high cost she paid to follow Jesus in a tradition other than the one she grew up in. She also shares the moments when had to surrender to the Lord and the path that led her to a writing career. Her latest book is I Surrender All (Sort Of), and we talk about those moments when we don’t want to, even when it’s good for us. Michelle’s story reminds us that the Lord is gentle especially when we struggle. Listen to Michelle’s story now! Stories Michelle shared: Growing up going to church with her grandmother Going to Catholic school Doubts that began to creep in as a high schooler Asking questions about Lent The friend who helped lead her to a new relationship with Jesus Deciding that she wanted to follow Jesus on her own Going forward after a sermon about communion Arguing with her family over becoming a Protestant Being thrown out of her family’s house Getting into a small group that discipled her Planting a church and how God felt distant Getting into writing as a career Why writing is a marathon not a sprint Struggling with anxiety and how that produced her latest book Great quotes from Michelle: I had been in Catholic school my entire life and I couldn’t touch the Bible. I thought to myself, “What else do I need to know about my faith?” The church has always be family to me. You’re a writer whether you write for ten people or ten thousand. Jesus does what he wants to do with his books when he wants to do them. Resources we mentioned: Michelle’s website I Surrender All (Sort Of) Laying Down Our Agendas So God Can Do the Impossible by Michelle Lazurek Righteous and Lost: Finding Hope for the Pharisee Within by Michelle Lazurek Related episodes: Hope Johnson and Waiting For God to Answer Prayer Brandon Andress and the Controversy of Love Lisa Kohut and Clarity Through Surrender Erica Wiggenhorn and Learning to be Brave The post Michelle Lazurek and Learning to Let Go appeared first on Eric Nevins.

285: Robin T. Jennings and the Light of the World
Robin T. Jennings is an ordained Episcopal minister and author of 3 books on spiritual growth through vision and renewal. Today, Robin shares his unexpected journey to seminary and the priesthood, discovering spiritual renewal and formation, and learning to surrender to the Lord. Robin’s heart is to serve the next generation as they face new challenges to their discipleship to Jesus. Robin’s story reminds us that walking with the Lord is a partnership. Listen to Robin’s story now! Stories Robin shared: Finding himself in a season of solitude and silence Growing up on the North Shore of Chicago in an Episcopal family The impression he had of reverence for God Working for an Episcopal boys home The mentor who suggested he go to seminary How seminary shaped his faith Going to Memphis to serve a church Becoming the rector and “playing the role” Being mentored by Gerald May Getting spiritual direction Resolving the outer and inner tension he felt How his children helped him Learning to surrender to the Lord and love Deciding to use new media to reach the next generation Great quotes from Robin: What silence has done for me is allow the Lord to have a word. Once you love someone, you find yourself closer to something you call holy. When it comes to surrendering to God, that’s the source of love. Resources we mentioned: Robin’s website A Letter to the Church and the Next Generation: Spiritual Growth through the Witness of James by Robin T. Jennings May You Live in Christ!: Spiritual Growth Through The Vision of St. Peter by Robin T. Jennings The Door To Renewal: Spiritual Growth Through the Mind of St. Paul by Robin T. Jennings Care of Mind/Care of Spirit: A Psychiatrist Explores Spiritual Direction by Gerald May The Dark Night of the Soul: A Psychiatrist Explores the Connection Between Darkness and Spiritual Growth by Gerald May Related episodes: Phileena Heuertz and Christian Contemplation Jeff Tacklind and the Winding Path of Transformation Laura Flanders and The Mentored Life The post Robin T. Jennings and the Light of the World appeared first on Eric Nevins.

284: Kari Bartkus and the Friendship of Jesus
Kari Bartkus is a podcaster and spiritual director who walks with women during times of grief or heartache. Today, Kari shares her ability to see the hurting people, how she discovered spiritual formation, and why she walks with those going through grief. She also shares practices that you can use to serve the grieving and aren’t we all right now so that you give what’s needed when. Kari’s story reminds us that Jesus is close to the brokenhearted. Listen to Kari’s story now! Stories Kari shared: Growing up in a Christian family in Indiana Sensing Jesus as a friend Going forward at an alter call in tears Craving God’s word as a high schooler Learning communication and Bible in college Writing and editing at a church in the area Growing into spiritual formation as a children’s ministry director The holy moments of spiritual direction Her observation about how spiritual care is distributed in the body of Christ Caring for those who are grieving What people need most going through grief Why seeing people is important to Kari The moment when someone ministered to her by seeing her Starting her podcast, Let’s Encourage One Another The value of asking permission Spiritual practices for walking through grief Great quotes from Kari: Some relationships are about being in proximity to one another. We’re all made in God’s image and because of that, we’re all worthy of respect. It’s easy for us to overlook people, especially those that we’re not similar to. Resources we mentioned: Kari’s website Kari’s Grief Journal Related episodes: Becky Antkowiak and Faithfulness Through Grief James Prescott and Processing Grief Well Janell Wood and the Shaping of Identity The post Kari Bartkus and the Friendship of Jesus appeared first on Eric Nevins.

283: Loren Hicks and the Practice of Discipleship
Loren Hicks is a pastor and the podcaster behind the 5 Minute Discipleship podcast. Today, Loren shares the lessons he’s learned in over two decades of ministry, how the Lord redirected through heartbreak, and how he pivoted to serve his congregation during Covid. Loren is passionate about helping people take the next step in the faith. His story reminds us that even when our plans don’t work out as we expect, it’s the Lord who directs our paths. Listen to Loren’s story now! Stories Loren shared: Serving as a local pastor in California Growing up in Texas in a Christian family His family’s return to the Lord through Loren’s uncle’s death Sensing God’s call as a child Beginning to preach at 15 How his father encouraged him in the journey Becoming a youth pastor and pastoring a small church Getting declined for overseas missions Moving to California to do campus ministry Learning the practices of solitude and silence Focusing on learning how to be with the Lord not doing for the Lord How the pandemic shaped his identity with God Starting the 5 Minute Discipleship podcast His passion for discipleship Great quotes from Loren: God has unique ways of working. Trying to understand the grace of God has been a theme of my life. The doing flows out of the being. Resources we mentioned: Loren’s website The Spirit of the Disciplines: Understanding How God Changes Lives by Dallas Willard Related episodes: Markus Watson and How Suffering Transforms Felicia Song and Digital Discipleship Caesar Kalinowski and Discipleship as Mission The post Loren Hicks and the Practice of Discipleship appeared first on Eric Nevins.

282: Nancy Kay Grace and The Imprint of Grace
Nancy Kay Grace is a pastor’s wife, cancer survivor, and author. She understands dealing with unexpected challenges. Today, Nancy shares about how the Lord provided in ministry, her struggle with cancer, and learning rest in the Lord when those challenges arise. She reminds us to remember that we are his children and that he loves us, which is pure comfort when challenges arise. Listen to Nancy’s story today! Stories Nancy shared: Serving in ministry for 45 years with her husband Growing up in Chicago in a church-going family Moving around with her husband “Sneaking in the back” at a college church meeting and meeting her husband Serving in rural churches Questioning her faith after her husband was let go Learning to pray specifically about her needs Discovering that she had tongue cancer Worshipping the Lord as she recovered How the Lord has provided doctors over the years Learning to listen to the voice of the Lord Great quotes from Nancy: The optimism fades but we still trust the will of God. We have to love the people but look at the Lord and trust his promises. I will speak for the Lord. I had to rest in God and then go forward again. Resources we mentioned: Nancy’s website The Grace Impact by Nancy Kay Grace 12 Words For Christmas: An Advent Devotional by Nancy Kay Grace Related episodes: Amber Cullum and the Journey to Grace Jesse Bean and Grace Greater than Effort Joe Pomeroy and How Grace Cancels Shame The post Nancy Kay Grace and Trusting the Peace appeared first on Eric Nevins.

281: Brandon Andress and The Controversy of Love
Brandon is the author of What Can't Be Hidden (2021) and bestselling Beauty in the Wreckage: Finding Peace in the Age of Outrage. Today, Brandon shares how he learned not to be afraid of new ideas, the spiritual grief he suffered, and what he learned about being a good shepherd through it. We also discuss the radical idea of Christlike love and what makes it so controversial. Brandon’s story reminds us that the journey with the Lord sometimes leads to unexpected places. Listen to Brandon’s story now! This episode is sponsored by The Ten Minute Bible Hour. Thanks to Matt and his team for supporting us. Go check them out! Stories Brandon shared: Growing up in Indiana in a Christian family The fundamentalist family church he great up in and why he loved about it The sudden desire to read theology Learning not to be afraid of other people and ideas Why love is a controversial idea How 2017 was a spiritual desert through grief What suffering taught him about shepherding people Why he wrote a work of fiction The professor who helped him become a writer Meeting the husband of his high school English teacher Great quotes from Brandon: I want to know things deeply and I’m going to search until I find it. I don’t need to move forward in my life in a defensive posture. Whenever you’re tilling up the ground, it sure does provide opportunities to see beauty. Resources we mentioned: Brandon’s website and Su What Can’t Be Hidden by Brandon Andress Beauty in the Wreckage: Finding Peace in the Age of Outrage by Brandon Andress The Myth of a Christian Nation: How the Quest for Political Power Is Destroying the Church by Greg Boyd Everything Belongs: The Gift of Contemplative Prayer by Richard Rohr Related episodes: Brian Zahnd and the Beauty of Christ Phileena Heuertz and Christian Contemplation Erik Fisher and the Productive Life The post Brandon Andress and The Controversy of Love appeared first on Eric Nevins.

280: Becky Antkowiak and Faithfulness Through Grief
Becky Antkowiak is a writer, leader of the 540 Community for writers, and my new best friend. Today, Becky shares with us her story of following a calling that seemed to not work out only to discover how God uses everything. Becky also opens up about a season of grief and lets us in on how she found the Lord when he seemed absent. Becky leads a group of writers called the 540 Community and explains why everyone has a story to tell. Becky’s story reminds us that no matter where we find ourselves, God is working. Listen to Becky’s story now! Stories Becky shared: Homeschooling and working at Redemption Press Growing up in Virginia Going to Bible college The pastor that she looked up to Convincing her grandfather that she loved Jesus at 4 years old The spiritual biographies that influenced her Learning that teaching was not for her Feeling angry that the Lord didn’t take her overseas Why “living for God” does not mean “ministry” work How her husband helped her through the anger Receiving a lupus diagnosis Sensing God’s distance while grieving her sister Processing her grief and where God is in the middle of grief Why she started the 540 Community Great quotes from Becky: You don’t need a crazy education to homeschool but you do need to have commitment. As long as you are putting your best effort in, you’re working hard, and you’re happy, find a way to do that for Jesus. I lived in a bubble until the last year. Resources we mentioned: Becky’s website 540 Facebook group Redemption Press Through Gates of Splendor by Elizabeth Elliot George Müller: Delighted in God Related episodes: September McCarthy and Suffering as Sanctification Douglas Groothuis and Walking Through Twilight James Prescott and Processing Grief Well The post Becky Antkowiak and Faithfulness Through Grief appeared first on Eric Nevins.

279: Rodney Olsen and Kicking at the Darkness
Rodney Olsen is a husband, father, cyclist, blogger and podcaster. Today, Rodney shares the moment he knew he wanted to be in radio, the somewhat meandering path he took to get there, and the providential meeting that sealed the deal. Rodney is passionate about helping believers anchor their faith in Christ with a Kingdom view of the world. His story will remind you to take action against the darkness. Oh, there’s a cool Bruck Cockburn reference in there, too. Listen to Rodney’s story today! Stories Rodney shared: Why he started his podcast, Bleeding Daylight Growing up in Western Australia His dad’s faith and why he abandoned it Giving his life to Christ at a church camp Studying to be a chef Moving to Christian radio How the Lord puts things in our hearts to do How his radio station brought people to the Lord Why we need not fear the dark night of the soul The poverty that Compassion fights around the world Great quotes from Rodney: We can be a whole lot more than we imagine if we follow Jesus’ lead. If you’re going to go deep-diving into faith, you’ve got to have an anchor. Resources we mentioned: Rodney’s website Faith Tried and Triumphant by Martin Lloyd-Jones Related episodes: Travis Johnson and World Changing Community Christina Dent and Compassion for Others Meg Glesener and the Smile of God The post Rodney Olsen and Kicking at the Darkness appeared first on Eric Nevins.

278: LaTrae Wilson and the Great Exchange
LaTrae Wilson is an author and podcaster. Today, Trea shares what it was like growing up as a pastor’s kid, why she walked away after high school, and how the Lord brought her back. Her journey to healing the wounds took a commitment to valuing herself and accepting the grace and love of God. Trea’s story reminds us that no matter how far away we go, it’s only one step back. Listen to Trea’s story now! Stories LaTrae shared: Growing up in Oakland, CA as a pastor’s kid Why she moved to Texas Giving her life to Christ as a child Wandering away when she was 18 How her son saved her life Struggling with wanting to be cared for and ending up in bad relationships Figuring out what she was looking for by reading journals How her story is like her grandmother’s The kinds of relationships that held her back Realizing that she needed to love herself better Joining a community to help Why she’s writing a book and starting a podcast Great quotes from LaTrae: My son saved my life. I saw God work miracles, through my son. If I didn’t love myself, I didn’t love God the way I should love God. God is love; he is an emotional person. Resources we mentioned: Trea’s website UNRAVELED: Managing Love, Sex and Relationships Related episodes: Christa Hutchins and How Failure Refines Scott Distler and Creating Space to Listen Tiffany Jo Baker and Giving Life to Dreams The post LaTrae Wilson and the Great Exchange appeared first on Eric Nevins.

277: Brian Zahnd and the Beauty of Christ
Brian Zahnd is a pastor, author, and America mystic. Today, Brian shares his first experience with Jesus, the season when he began to “renovate his theological house,” and how to think about deconstruction. Through his writing, Brian has become one of the pastors shining light on the path for those ready to leave American Evangelicalism but not ready to leave Christ. His latest book, When Everything’s On Fire, is his latest spotlight on the path toward Christ. Listen to Brian’s story now! Stories Brian shared: Growing up passively going to church His spiritual experience when he was 15 When David Wilkerson prayed for him The history of thought from the Enlightenment How the Jesus Movement influenced him What Eugene Peterson told him about his pentecostal background The men who influenced him as a pastor How his church began to grow Why he started to feel uneasy and what he began to read Praying “God, show me what to read.” The “risky” period as he sought Jesus What might have happened if he missed that train How he thinks about deconstruction Why he likes the term “water to wine” better than deconstruction How love factors into spiritual life Great quotes from Brian: America is a tough place to be a mystic. If anything, I felt like I was front-sliding not backsliding. You can do bad theology in good faith. I need to find a Christianity that was worthy of the Christ who captured my heart. Trust Christ and his beauty to win the day. Resources we mentioned: Brian’s website When Everything’s on Fire: Faith Forged from the Ashes by Brian Zahnd David Wilkerson: The Cross, the Switchblade, and the Man Who Believed The Divine Conspiracy 1st (first) edition Text Only by Dallas Willard Renovation of the Heart: Putting On the Character of Christ by Dallas Willard Related episodes: Chuck Mallot is a Hippie Turned Saint Step by Step on the Camino with Jan Costas Keith Giles and Separating Church from State The post Brian Zahnd and the Beauty of Christ appeared first on Eric Nevins.

276: Conell & Rhonda Hollins and Marriage Matters
Conell & Rhonda Hollins our podcasters and are first time authors of their forthcoming book marriage material which is a training manual base on their experience teaching for the last 13 years. Today, Conell and Rhonda share how their relationship sharpened their faith, how they became marriage teachers, and tips for staying connected. Conell and Rhonda’s story reminds us that prioritizing your marriage is always a good idea. Listen to Conell & Rhonda’s story today! Stories Conell & Rhonda Hollins shared: Rhonda growing up in Chicago in a religious family Rhonda outgrowing a performance based faith When their son Ethan was born needing open heart surgery Conell growing up in a family that went to church but didn’t believe Joining the church’s marriage ministry Learning how to communicate in marriage and “heated fellowship moments” Rhonda wondering if their work was busy work Tips for how to get reconnected when you’re busy Finding time for one another Why they decided to write a book Great quotes from Conell & Rhonda Hollins: Marriage is what you make it. It’s a long conversation checkered with disputes. (Conell) I was doing my way instead of Yahweh. (Rhonda) Flowers go a long way. (Conell) Resources we mentioned: Conell and Rhonda’s website Marriage Material: Pre & Post-Marital Training Guide by Conell and Rhonda Hollins Related episodes: Meg Glesener and the Smile of God Tom Schwab and the Richness of Relationship Rachel Joy Welcher and the Spirituality of Unmet Longings The post Conell & Rhonda Hollins and Marriage Matters appeared first on Eric Nevins.

275: C. Christopher Smith and Empowering Conversations
Christopher Smith is the Senior Editor of The Englewood Review of Books, and author of several books, including most recently: How The Body of Christ Talks: Recovering the Practice of Conversation in the Church. Today, Christopher shares the place of reading in his spiritual journey, how he learned to untangle depression from doubt, and why he believes in the power of a great conversation. We also talk about some best practices for hosting conversations at your church. Christopher’s story reminds us that we learn best in conversation. Listen to Christopher’s story now! Stories Christopher shared: Starting The Englewood Review of Books Growing up in a Christian family in Washington D.C. in a Grace Brethren church His tenuous relationship with church even in college Developing his sense of historical church through reading Going to graduate school and learning about the history of ideas Learning how to disentangle depression from doubt How community plays into depression Why embodiment needs to be valued How the practice of conversation captured his heart Why defining terms is important for a conversation What a facilitated conversation looks like Great quotes from Christopher: The dark nights of the soul that I’ve been through sometimes feel particularly lonely. I’m hopeful that when we take our life together seriously, churches can offer hope to those who struggle with loneliness and isolation. The abundant life of God in community is really good news and much better than the alternative. Conversation didn’t magically help us resolve things, but it helped us to know and trust one another even when we didn’t agree. Resources we mentioned: The Englewood Review of Books Celebration of Discipline, Special Anniversary Edition: The Path to Spiritual Growth by Richard Foster How the Body of Christ Talks: Recovering the Practice of Conversation in the Church by C. Christopher Smith Lost Connections: Why You're Depressed and How to Find Hope by Johann Hari The Soul of Shame: Retelling the Stories We Believe About Ourselves by Curt Thompson Related episodes: Felicia Song and Digital Discipleship Jay Kim and Why We Need Real People Skye Jethani and Living Life with God The post C. Christopher Smith and Empowering Conversations appeared first on Eric Nevins.

274: Jerry Dugan and Becoming a New Man
Jerry Dugan is the producer and host of Beyond the Rut podcast, a show that discusses pursuing and achieving your dreams without compromising your faith, family, or health. Today, Jerry shares about growing up through divorce, his dad's attempted suicide, and combat experiences that gave him resilience and perspective on life. He also shares how it all led him to give his life to Christ and eventually start serving men through his podcast. Jerry’s story reminds us that the Lord often has plans for us long before we know what they are. Listen to Jerry’s story now! Stories Jerry shared: Growing up in a military family Encountering racism in his own extended family His family’s mix religious beliefs His parent’s divorce and dad’s suicidal period Praying during Operation Iraqi Freedom Getting a wake up call in Baghdad His wife’s prayer for him while he was at war Giving his life to Christ after going to church for a year Why he started Beyond the Rut to serve men Why you should watch Dune Great quotes from Jerry: It’s a bigger world than the town I was living in. The family we wound up with was the complete opposite of all the fears we had. My daughter cannot know that she had a monster for a dad. I had a plan to not really be a Christian. Resources we mentioned: Jerry’s website, Beyond the Rut Related episodes: Travis Johnson and World Changing Community Dr. Heather Thompson Day and the Sustaining Hand of God Cliff Haddox and the Story That Grows With You The post Jerry Dugan and Becoming a New Man appeared first on Eric Nevins.

273: Felicia Song and Digital Discipleship
Felicia Song is a professor of sociology who studies social and cultural impact of digital technologies. Restless Devices: Recovering Personhood, Presence and Place in the Digital Age. Today, Felicia share her experience growing up in a fundamentalist, Chinese church, discovering the Holy Spirit in college, and what she’s learned about God by studying sociology. We also talk about her book and how Christians can be wise as we live with technology. Felicia’s story reminds us to be wise about how we think and practice technology as Christians. Listen to Felicia’s story now! Stories Felicia shared: Teaching sociology at Westmont Growing up in a Christian family in New Jersey The vibrant Chinese church she attended Never not believing in God Joining InterVarsity and interacting with non-Asian Christians for the first time Attending a Vineyard church for the first time Discovering that she came from a fundamentalist tradition Going to L’Abri Fellowship Noticing her students getting email for the first time What she’s learned about God from studying sociology How liturgy formed her experience Why she wrote Restless Devices Her encouragement for the way forward with technology Great quotes from Felicia: It’s not so much the content that shapes us; it’s really the form or the practices. As human beings, we are meaning makers. We live in a meaning-filled world because we serve a meaning-filled God. We do not need to live under the tyranny of our technologies. We serve a good Lord, but technologies are often brutal and merciless lords. Resources we mentioned: Felicia’s website Restless Devices: Recovering Personhood, Presence, and Place in the Digital Age by Felicia Song Fundamentalism and American Culture (New Edition) by George Marsden Truce Podcast Amusing Ourselves to Death: Public Discourse in the Age of Show Business by Neil Postman The Art of Gathering: How We Meet and Why It Matters by Priya Parker Related episodes: Jay Kim and Why We Need Real People Grace Ji-Sun Kim and Healing Our Broken Humanity Os Guinness and Understanding Our Moment The post Felicia Song and Digital Discipleship appeared first on Eric Nevins.