Got It Podcast

There are rules we all follow… but nobody ever actually wrote them down. You know exactly what I’m talking about. But today… we’re going there. We’re breaking down the unwritten rules between men and women—the ones that shape our relationships, mess with our communication, and sometimes completely hold us back from being real with each other. Where did these rules even come from? Do they actually help us… or are they just outdated expectations we’re too comfortable to challenge? And what happens when you stop playing by them? Let’s talk about it.

This week on the podcast, we’re diving into a conversation that hits a little deeper than usual why men feel like they can’t show their emotional side. From a young age, guys are taught to “man up,” stay tough, and keep everything bottled in. But where did that come from… and what’s it actually costing us? We break down the pressure to fit into society’s version of masculinity, how it impacts mental health, relationships, and identity, and why vulnerability is still seen as weakness instead of strength. This isn’t just talk it’s real experiences, real struggles, and an honest look at what men deal with behind the scenes. If you’ve ever felt like you had to hide how you really feel… this episode is for you.

Why do some of us talk things out… while others shut down? Why do some people feel comfortable expressing emotions… while others were taught to “tough it out”?In this episode of Got It Podcast, we dive into the powerful ways our parents’ parenting styles shaped the adults we became.From strict households to laid-back homes, emotionally open parents to the classic “figure it out yourself” approach, we explore how different upbringings influence everything from relationships and confidence to how we handle conflict and raise our own kids.Mario also shares personal insights as a father raising a son with autism while navigating life with ADHD showing how today’s parents are often trying to break cycles, learn new approaches, and do better than the generation before us.Because at the end of the day, none of our parents had a manual… and most of us are still figuring it out.This conversation gets honest, funny, and real about the differences in how we were raised—and how those differences show up in our lives today.

In this week’s episode of the Got It Podcast, Mario and Pat flip the script and dive into the question: How well do people actually know men? From relationships and expectations to the things men say versus what they really mean, the conversation gets honest, funny, and sometimes a little uncomfortable.They break down the stereotypes surrounding men, the pressure guys often feel but rarely talk about, and why communication between men and women can sometimes feel like two completely different languages. Along the way, Mario and Pat share personal stories, real-life situations, and a few moments that might make you rethink what you thought you knew about the male mind.Whether you’re a man trying to explain yourself or someone trying to understand the men in your life, this episode brings humor, honesty, and perspective to a conversation that doesn’t happen nearly enough.Do we really “get” men… or are we all just guessing?

This week, Pat and Mario challenge each other: Do men really know women… or are we just guessing confidently?They break down common misunderstandings, relationship blind spots, emotional cues, and why “nothing” never actually means nothing.Expect laughs, uncomfortable realizations, and a few moments where the guys admit… we might not be as dialed in as we think

This week, Mario and Pat go all in on the realities of loving someone from miles away. They talk about: The mental side of being apart Jealousy and insecurity (yeah, we’re saying it) How communication changes when physical presence is gone Whether distance builds connection… or exposes cracks And the question nobody wants to ask: Are some relationships only good because of the distance? Mario opens up about what distance really does to a man emotionally — especially when life, kids, business, and stress are already in the mix. Pat challenges the idea of “if it’s meant to be, it’ll work” and breaks down what actually keeps long distance alive.

We’ve all heard the phrase “make-up sex” but what’s really going on underneath it? In this episode, Pat & Mario unpack the emotional psychology behind reconnecting physically after conflict. Is it genuine repair, a release of tension, or a way to avoid the harder conversations?We talk about vulnerability, ego, attachment, and why intimacy can feel so intense after an argument. When does make-up sex actually bring couples closer… and when does it quietly mask unresolved issues?This is an honest, thoughtful conversation about communication, emotional safety, and learning the difference between connection and distraction. If you’ve ever wondered why the closeness hits differently after a fight, this episode is for you.

On this episode of the Got It Podcast, Pat and Mario get real about the moments that feel like everything is falling apart: failed relationships, lost jobs, missed opportunities, and the quiet self-doubt that follows. They talk openly about how those painful endings often carry hidden direction pushing us toward growth, clarity, and paths we never would’ve chosen otherwise.With honesty, humor, and a few hard truths, this conversation is for anyone who’s been knocked down and is wondering “What now?” If you’re in a season of loss, confusion, or transition, this episode reminds you that sometimes failure isn’t a setback it’s a redirection toward something better.

We believe the hard truth, when it’s said with honesty and care, is what actually helps people grow. Not the sugar-coated version. Not the highlight reel. The real stuff.On this podcast, we talk about life, business, mental health, relationships, and the moments that test you because pretending everything’s fine doesn’t move anyone forward. Sometimes the most loving thing you can do is say what needs to be said. If you’re looking for real talk, accountability, and conversations that actually mean something, you’re in the right place. You’ve got it.

In this episode of the Got It Podcast, Mario and Pat sit down to unpack a topic that hits harder than most: abuse in relationships. We talk about the warning signs people miss, the patterns that slowly take over, and the emotional and physical toll it leaves behind.This isn’t a lecture it’s a real conversation about control, fear, manipulation, and the ways people lose themselves trying to hold a relationship together that’s breaking them down. We also dive into why it’s so hard to walk away, how childhood experiences play into adult relationships, and what healing actually looks like once you decide enough is enough.Episode 7 is about clarity, courage, and reclaiming yourself. If you’ve ever felt stuck, confused, or unseen in a relationship, this one’s going to hit home and hopefully remind you that you’re not alone, and you’re stronger than you think.

This Week on the Got It Podcast: Mario and Pat tackle the wild adventure of being in a relationship with someone like Mario who has ADHD also known as “loving a person who can lose their phone, their keys, and their train of thought… all before breakfast.”They break down the chaos, the comedy, the misunderstandings, and the moments where you wonder if you’re dating a partner or a tornado with a heartbeat. From emotional whiplash to hyperfocus superpowers, they unpack what really goes on behind the scenes and why it’s still worth every bit of the madness.If you’ve ever loved someone with ADHD (Mario), this episode will make you laugh, nod your head, and maybe rethink the hiding places for your car keys.

This week on the Got It Podcast, we’re talking Thanksgiving the food, the family chaos, the gratitude, and everything in between. Mario and Pat dive into what the holiday really means, the parts we love, the parts we tolerate, and the moments that actually stick with us. From chaotic kitchens to quiet reflections, we unpack the mix of humor, honesty, and heart that comes with this time of year. It’s Thanksgiving, Got It style: real conversations, real life, and a reminder to appreciate the people and the moments that matter most.

This week on the Got It Podcast, Mario and Pat dive into the disaster that is the modern dating scene. From ghosting to swipe fatigue, nothing’s off-limits. Mario’s mind gets blown (and slightly broken) as he discovers how online dating apps actually work in 2025 algorithms, filters, and all the chaotic nonsense that passes for “connection.” Expect laughs, disbelief, and a few uncomfortable truths about love in the digital age.

In Part 2 of Never Had, the story takes a raw and emotional turn. Pat opens up like never before revealing how his heart was torn apart, the trust that was shattered, and the painful process of trying to piece himself back together again. What started as a conversation about love becomes something much deeper: a story about loss, resilience, and rediscovering self-worth after everything falls apart. Mario stands by his side through it all, helping unpack the heavy moments that most people never talk about out loud. Together, they dive into the stages of heartbreak the shock, the silence, the rebuilding and how those moments can either destroy you or force you to grow. Pat’s honesty is raw. His pain is real. And for anyone who’s ever had their heart broken, this one will hit home. It’s not just about what happened to Pat it’s about what happens after. The healing, the anger, the acceptance, and the moment you realize you’re still standing. This episode is a reminder that sometimes the hardest stories to tell are the ones that free you the most

Season 3 starting off!! This week gets real. Pat shares the story he’s kept close to the chest the relationship that shattered him more than any other. For the first time, he walks us through the heartbreak, the lessons, and the moment everything fell apart.Mario was there through it all, helping pick up the pieces one tough conversation at a time. Together, they unpack what happens when love breaks you, how to rebuild when you feel like there’s nothing left, and why having someone in your corner can change everything.If you’ve ever loved hard, lost deeply, or needed a friend to pull you through the darkest moment… this episode is going to hit home.

It’s spooky season at BossMan Studios, and Mario and Pat are diving deep into the haunted side of love. 🎃👻This Halloween special is all about “tricks or treats” in relationships the red flags, the sweet surprises, and everything in between. But as usual, Mario’s ADHD can’t handle the eerie decorations and jump scares around the studio, making it hard for him to stay focused on the show. From creepy confessions to relationship horror stories, the guys keep it raw, real, and hilarious.Expect laughter, chaos, and a few ghostly moments as the Got It Podcast wraps up the season with a bang (and maybe a few screams).

This week, Mario and Pat dive deep into one of life’s toughest calls timing. Whether it’s ending a relationship, having that big, uncomfortable talk, or taking a leap that could change everything, how do you know when it’s the right time?They explore the signs we ignore, the gut feelings we second-guess, and the moments that force us to move before we’re “ready.” Expect raw honesty, a few laughs, and plenty of real-world reflection on what it means to trust yourself when the clock feels louder than ever.