Focus on the Family Strengthening Marriage Podcast

Sex is part of God's beautiful design for marriage. Yet, many people today are walking into marriage with a sexual secret. John, Erin and Greg provide some insights on how sex can benefit a marriage, and where to find help if you have a secret you feel ashamed of. Featuring Mr. Gary Thomas and Mrs. Debra Fileta. Find us online at focusonthefamily.com/marriagepodcast or call 1-800-A-FAMILY. Receive the book "Married Sex" for your donation of any amount. Get More Episode Resources Listen Anytime If you've listened to any of our podcasts, please give us your feedback: https://focusonthefamily.com/podcastsurvey/

Sex is about so much more than just a physical connection. It's also about connecting your heart to your spouse's heart. John, Greg and Erin offer a helpful idea for husbands regarding physical intimacy. Featuring Mr. Gary Thomas and Mrs. Debra Fileta. Find us online at focusonthefamily.com/marriagepodcast or call 1-800-A-FAMILY. Receive the book "Married Sex" for your donation of any amount. Get More Episode Resources Listen Anytime If you've listened to any of our podcasts, please give us your feedback: https://focusonthefamily.com/podcastsurvey/

We all want to feel loved. Yet, real love isn't the same as it's typically portrayed in entertainment. John and Greg discuss the beauty and the difficulties that come with marriage, and why it's a relationship worth pursuing. Featuring Mr. Bob Lepine.Find us online at focusonthefamily.com/marriagepodcast or call 1-800-A-FAMILYReceive the book "Love Like You Mean It" for your donation of any amount: https://donate.focusonthefamily.com/don-fofm-podcast-2022-10-25?refcd=1503601Get more episode resources: https://http://www.focusonthefamily.com/episodes/focus-on-marriage-podcast/defining-gods-love/#featured-resource-ctaListen Anytime: https://store.https://store.focusonthefamily.com/showing-true-love-to-your-spouse-digital-download/?refcd=1503601If you've listened to any of our podcasts, please give us your feedback: https://focusonthefamily.com/podcastsurvey/

It's easy to say, "I love you," during the dating phase of a relationship? But, what does that phrase truly mean. John, Greg and Erin offer a perspective on why saying, "I love you," is a significant phrase to use. Featuring Mr. Bob Lepine.Find us online at focusonthefamily.com/marriagepodcast or call 1-800-A-FAMILYReceive the book "Love Like You Mean It" for your donation of any amount: https://donate.focusonthefamily.com/don-fofm-podcast-2022-10-25?refcd=1503601Get more episode resources: https://http://http://www.focusonthefamily.com/episodes/focus-on-marriage-podcast/good-bad-definitions-of-love/#featured-resource-ctaListen Anytime: https://store.https://store.focusonthefamily.com/showing-true-love-to-your-spouse-digital-download/?refcd=1503601If you've listened to any of our podcasts, please give us your feedback: https://focusonthefamily.com/podcastsurvey/

Troubling statistics indicate that pornography addiction is not just a problem for men, but a lot of women are also struggling with it too. John, Greg and Erin discuss how a husband can respond if a wife confesses she's battling a pornography problem. Featuring Mrs. Rosie Makinney.Find us online at focusonthefamily.com/marriagepodcast or call 1-800-A-FAMILYReceive the book "Fight For Love" for your donation of any amount: https://donate.focusonthefamily.com/don-fofm-podcast-2022-06-23?refcd=1498902Get more episode resources: https://www.focusonthefamily.com/episodes/focus-on-marriage-podcast/when-a-wife-struggles-with-porn/#featured-resource-ctaListen Anytime: https://store.focusonthefamily.com/rescuing-your-marriage-from-pornography-digital-download/?refcd=1498902If you've listened to any of our podcasts, please give us your feedback: https://focusonthefamily.com/podcastsurvey/

If you're struggling with pornography, it can be easy to say to yourself, "I'll never tell someone." However, true healing for your marriage happens when you bring a secret into the light. John, Erin and Greg explain why confessing a porn problem is important, and what to do if you admitted you need help, but the confession didn't go well. Featuring Mrs. Rosie Makinney.Find us online at focusonthefamily.com/marriagepodcast or call 1-800-A-FAMILYReceive the book "Fight For Love" for your donation of any amount: https://donate.focusonthefamily.com/don-fofm-podcast-2022-06-23?refcd=1498902Get more episode resources: https://www.focusonthefamily.com/episodes/focus-on-marriage-podcast/confessing-the-embarrassing-secret/#featured-resource-ctaListen Anytime: https://store.focusonthefamily.com/rescuing-your-marriage-from-pornography-digital-download/?refcd=1498902If you've listened to any of our podcasts, please give us your feedback: https://focusonthefamily.com/podcastsurvey/

Every marriage goes through a lot of changes at the beginning. That is especially true for blended family couples. John, Greg, and Erin discuss changes that blended families have to walk through, and provide hope to those who struggle with being too attached to their kids. Featuring Dr. Gary Chapman and Mr. Ron Deal.Find us online at focusonthefamily.com/marriagepodcast or call 1-800-A-FAMILYReceive the book "Building Love Together in Blended Families" for your donation of any amount! https://donate.focusonthefamily.com/don-fofm-podcast-2022-09-13?refcd=1495202Get more episode resources: https://www.focusonthefamily.com/episodes/focus-on-marriage-podcast/adjustments-for-blended-couples/#featured-resource-ctaListen Anytime: https://store.focusonthefamily.com/cultivating-love-in-blended-families-digital-download/?refcd=1495202If you've listened to any of our podcasts, please give us your feedback: https://focusonthefamily.com/podcastsurvey/

A unique challenge that couples in blended families face is trying to win the approval of your spouse's children. John, Erin and Greg share how blended family couples can be patient, as they're trying to make their marriage work. Featuring Dr. Gary Chapman and Mr. Ron Deal.Find us online at focusonthefamily.com/marriagepodcast or call 1-800-A-FAMILYReceive the book "Building Love Together in Blended Families" for your donation of any amount! https://donate.focusonthefamily.com/don-fofm-podcast-2022-09-13?refcd=1495202Get more episode resources: https://www.focusonthefamily.com/episodes/focus-on-marriage-podcast/loving-your-spouses-kids/#featured-resource-ctaListen Anytime: https://store.focusonthefamily.com/cultivating-love-in-blended-families-digital-download/?refcd=1495202If you've listened to any of our podcasts, please give us your feedback: https://focusonthefamily.com/podcastsurvey/

Physical intimacy is a very significant part of your marriage. Yet, it's a topic that many couples are uncomfortable discussing. John, Erin and Greg explain how you can show your spouse grace, when a sexual problem is happening in the marriage. Featuring Mr. Gary Thomas and Mrs. Debra Fileta.Find us online at focusonthefamily.com/marriagepodcast or call 1-800-A-FAMILY.Receive the book "Married Sex" for your donation of any amount: https://donate.focusonthefamily.com/don-fofm-podcast-2022-10-06?refcd=1492001Get more episode resources: https://www.focusonthefamily.com/episodes/focus-on-marriage-podcast/when-you-dont-have-the-talk/#featured-resource-ctaListen Anytime: https://store.focusonthefamily.com/improving-your-sex-life-to-improve-your-marriage-digital-download/?refcd=1492001If you've listened to any of our podcasts, please give us your feedback: https://focusonthefamily.com/podcastsurvey/

One day, the story of your marriage on earth will come to an end. While that may seem sad, recognizing that reality can be a huge motivator for treating your spouse well. John, Erin and Greg discuss how having an eternal perspective has influenced the ways they interact with their spouse. Featuring Mr. Gary Thomas.Find us online at focusonthefamily.com/marriagepodcast or call 1-800-A-FAMILYReceive the book "A Lifelong Love" for your donation of any amount: https://donate.focusonthefamily.com/don-fofm-podcast-2022-06-14?refcd=1491901Get more episode resources: https://www.focusonthefamily.com/episodes/focus-on-marriage-podcast/an-eternal-perspective-for-your-marriage/#featured-resource-ctaListen Anytime: https://store.focusonthefamily.com/breathe-spiritual-life-into-your-marriage-digital-download/?refcd=1468805If you've listened to any of our podcasts, please give us your feedback: https://focusonthefamily.com/podcastsurvey/

Your love story is unique. Reflecting on how you fell in love can bring joy to your relationship now. John, Greg and Erin share about their own love stories and tips for going the distance in your marriage. Featuring Pastor Kevin Thompson. Find us online at focusonthefamily.com/marriagepodcast or call 1-800-A-FAMILY.Receive the book "Friends, Partners and Lover" for your donation of any amount: https://donate.focusonthefamily.com/don-fofm-podcast-2022-06-30?refcd=1457004Get more episode resources: https://www.focusonthefamily.com/episodes/focus-on-marriage-podcast/looking-back-to-go-forward/#featured-resource-ctaListen Anytime: https://store.focusonthefamily.com/embracing-your-role-as-a-spouse-digital/?refcd=1457004If you've listened to any of our podcasts, please give us your feedback: https://focusonthefamily.com/podcastsurvey/

It can be frustrating when it feels like you're the one doing all of the work in your marriage. How do you get unstuck from those scenarios? John, Greg and Erin share how simple adjustments can make the biggest differences in the relationship with your spouse. Featuring Dr. Randy Schroeder. Find us online at focusonthefamily.com/marriagepodcast or call 1-800-A-FAMILYReceive the book "Simple Habits for Marital Happiness" for your donation of any amount: https://donate.focusonthefamily.com/don-fofm-podcast-2022-07-05?recd=1487703Get more episode resources: https://www.focusonthefamily.com/episodes/focus-on-marriage-podcasst/a-few-minute-adjustment/#featured-resource-ctaListen Anytime: https://store.focusonthefamily.com/simple-habits-to-embrace-in-your-marriage-digital-download/?refcd=1460508If you've listened to any of our podcasts, please give us your feedback: https://focusonthefamily.com/podcastsurvey/

The Bible says that wives should submit to their husbands, but that Scripture should never be used in an abusive way. This is especially true if trust in the relationship has been harmed by a pornography addiction. John, Greg and Erin address when biblical submission is misused and how community can help a marriage that's been shaken by a porn struggle. Featuring Mrs. Rosie Makinney.Find us online at focusonthefamily.com/marriagepodcast or call 1-800-A-FAMILYReceive the book "Fight For Love" for your donation of any amount: https://donate.focusonthefamily.com/don-fofm-podcast-2022-06-23?refcd=1483601Get more episode resources: https://www.focusonthefamily.com/episodes/focus-on-marriage-podcast/submitting-to-god-when-its-hard/#featured-resource-ctaListen Anytime: https://store.focusonthefamily.com/rescuing-your-marriage-from-pornography-digital-download/?refcd=1453806If you've listened to any of our podcasts, please give us your feedback: https://focusonthefamily.com/podcastsurvey/

A pornography struggle leads to a lot of shame. To help offer hope to those caught in a cycle of shame, John, Greg and Erin discuss how God's grace can help lead to freedom. Featuring Mrs. Rosie Makinney. Find us online at focusonthefamily.com/marriagepodcast or call 1-800-A-FAMILYReceive the book "Fight For Love" for your donation of any amount: https://donate.focusonthefamily.com/don-fofm-podcast-2022-06-23?refcd=1483601Get more episode resources: https://www.focusonthefamily.com/episodes/focus-on-marriage-podcast/shame-pornography-addiction/#featured-resource-ctaListen Anytime: https://store.focusonthefamily.com/rescuing-your-marriage-from-pornography-digital-download/?refcd=1453806If you've listened to any of our podcasts, please give us your feedback: https://focusonthefamily.com/podcastsurvey/

Knowing and learning to speak your spouse's love language can revolutionize your marriage. The same is also true for those in blended families. John, Greg, and Erin share about ways they've seen how applying the love language principles can positively impact marriages. Featuring Dr. Gary Chapman and Mr. Ron Deal.Find us online at focusonthefamily.com/marriagepodcast or call 1-800-A-FAMILYReceive the book "Building Love Together in Blended Families" for your donation of any amount! https://donate.focusonthefamily.com/don-fofm-podcast-2022-09-13?refcd=1468603Get more episode resources: https://www.focusonthefamily.com/episodes/focus-on-marriage-podcast/love-languages-blended-families/#featured-resource-ctaListen Anytime: https://store.focusonthefamily.com/simple-habits-to-embrace-in-your-marriage-digital-download/?refcd=1460508If you've listened to any of our podcasts, please give us your feedback: https://focusonthefamily.com/podcastsurvey/

Some things in life take time. For blended families, the challenges may be difficult, but it's possible to make it work with God's help. John, Erin and Greg offer hope to those in blended families who are wondering if their relationship can thrive. Featuring Dr. Gary Chapman and Mr. Ron Deal.Find us online at focusonthefamily.com/marriagepodcast or call 1-800-A-FAMILYReceive the book "Building Love Together in Blended Families" for your donation of any amount: https://donate.focusonthefamily.com/don-fofm-podcast-2022-09-13?refcd=1468603Get more episode resources: https://www.focusonthefamily.com/episodes/focus-on-marriage-podcast/crockpot-expectations/#featured-resource-ctaListen Anytime: https://store.focusonthefamily.com/simple-habits-to-embrace-in-your-marriage-digital-download/?refcd=1460508If you've listened to any of our podcasts, please give us your feedback: https://focusonthefamily.com/podcastsurvey/

Small decisions that add up over time can lead to big results. The same principle applies to the investments you make in your marriage. John, Greg and Erin share how you can get started with making little changes to better your relationship. Featuring Mr. Gary Thomas. Find us online at focusonthefamily.com/marriagepodcast or call 1-800-A-FAMILYReceive the book "A Lifelong Love" for your donation of any amount: https://donate.focusonthefamily.com/don-fofm-podcast-2022-06-14?refcd=1468805Get more episode resources: https://www.focusonthefamily.com/episodes/focus-on-marriage-podcast/the-small-things-that-add-up/#featured-resource-ctaListen Anytime: https://store.focusonthefamily.com/breathe-spiritual-life-into-your-marriage-digital-download/?refcd=1468805If you've listened to any of our podcasts, please give us your feedback: https://focusonthefamily.com/podcastsurvey/

Seeking to bless your spouse without expecting anything in return takes maturity. Sometimes, being a blessing might also need to be having a tough conversation. John, Erin and Greg share how to confront your mate in a loving way. Featuring Mr. Gary Thomas.Find us online at focusonthefamily.com/marriagepodcast or call 1-800-A-FAMILYReceive the book "A Lifelong Love" for your donation of any amount: https://donate.focusonthefamily.com/don-fofm-podcast-2022-06-14?refcd=1468805Get more episode resources: https://www.focusonthefamily.com/episodes/focus-on-marriage-podcast/how-can-i-bless-you/#featured-resource-ctaListen Anytime: https://store.focusonthefamily.com/breathe-spiritual-life-into-your-marriage-digital-download/?refcd=1468805If you've listened to any of our podcasts, please give us your feedback: https://focusonthefamily.com/podcastsurvey/

When you've been hurt by your spouse, it's easy to either hold a grudge or not deal with it at all. Is there hope to move on after your mate has wounded you? John, Erin and Greg describe the power of choosing forgiveness, and how to do it, even when your spouse isn't changing. Featuring Dr. Randy Schroeder.Find us online at focusonthefamily.com/marriagepodcast or call 1-800-A-FAMILYReceive the book "Simple Habits for Marital Happiness" for your donation of any amount: https://donate.focusonthefamily.com/don-fofm-podcast-2022-07-05?recd=1460508Get more episode resources: https://www.focusonthefamily.com/episodes/focus-on-marriage-podcasst/forgiving-the-spouse-who-hurt-you#featured-resource-ctaListen Anytime: https://store.focusonthefamily.com/simple-habits-to-embrace-in-your-marriage-digital-download/?refcd=1460508If you've listened to any of our podcasts, please give us your feedback: https://focusonthefamily.com/podcastsurvey/

What you say in the middle of a conflict with your spouse can help resolve the tension or make things worse. Greg and Erin talk with John about how they've learned to get better at handling conflict in their relationship. Featuring Dr. Randy Schroeder.Find us online at focusonthefamily.com/marriagepodcast or call 1-800-A-FAMILYReceive the book "Simple Habits for Marital Happiness" for your donation of any amount: https://donate.focusonthefamily.com/don-fofm-podcast-2022-07-05?recd=1460508Get more episode resources: https://www.focusonthefamily.com/episodes/focus-on-marriage-podcasst/gentleness-for-the-conflict/#featured-resource-ctaListen Anytime: https://store.focusonthefamily.com/simple-habits-to-embrace-in-your-marriage-digital-download/?refcd=1460508If you've listened to any of our podcasts, please give us your feedback: https://focusonthefamily.com/podcastsurvey/

A good marriage is built on a foundation where both spouses are giving their best effort. However, what do you do when it feels like you're the only one doing all the work? John, Greg and Erin discuss how to respond when it seems like your spouse isn't doing his or her job. Featuring Pastor Kevin Thompson.Find us online at focusonthefamily.com/marriagepodcast or call 1-800-A-FAMILY.Receive the book "Friends, Partners and Lover" for your donation of any amount: https://donate.focusonthefamily.com/don-fofm-podcast-2022-06-30?refcd=1457004Get more episode resources: https://www.focusonthefamily.com/episodes/focus-on-marriage-podcast/100-commitment/#featured-resource-ctaListen Anytime: https://store.focusonthefamily.com/embracing-your-role-as-a-spouse-digital/?refcd=1457004If you've listened to any of our podcasts, please give us your feedback: https://focusonthefamily.com/podcastsurvey/

Your marriage needs a strong partnership to function well. Encouraging each other can go a long way to strengthening your relationship. John speaks with Greg and Erin about how they've learned to encourage each other's strengths. Featuring Pastor Kevin Thompson.Find us online at focusonthefamily.com/marriagepodcast or call 1-800-A-FAMILY.Receive the book "Friends, Partners and Lover" for your donation of any amount: https://donate.focusonthefamily.com/don-fofm-podcast-2022-06-30?refcd=1457004Get more episode resources: https://www.focusonthefamily.com/episodes/focus-on-marriage-podcast/developing-a-strong-partnership/#featured-resource-ctaListen Anytime: https://store.focusonthefamily.com/embracing-your-role-as-a-spouse-digital/?refcd=1457004If you've listened to any of our podcasts, please give us your feedback: https://focusonthefamily.com/podcastsurvey/

When it's discovered that a spouse is addicted to pornography, it's heartbreaking because trust has been severed. If this is something that's impacted your marriage or a couple you know, it doesn't have to be the end of the relationship. John, Greg and Erin discuss how having community around you can make a big difference in the fight against pornography. Featuring Mrs. Rosie Makinney.Find us online at focusonthefamily.com/marriagepodcast or call 1-800-A-FAMILYReceive the book "Fight For Love" for your donation of any amount: https://donate.focusonthefamily.com/don-fofm-podcast-2022-06-23?refcd=1453806Get more episode resources: https://www.focusonthefamily.com/episodes/focus-on-marriage-podcast/porn-doesnt-mean-your-marriage-is-over/#featured-resource-ctaListen Anytime: https://store.focusonthefamily.com/rescuing-your-marriage-from-pornography-digital-download/?refcd=1453806If you've listened to any of our podcasts, please give us your feedback: https://focusonthefamily.com/podcastsurvey/

A small bit of curiosity regarding pornography can lead to a dangerous cycle of addiction. John, Erin and Greg share ways that a wife can show her husband grace, while also not putting up with the problem. Featuring Mrs. Rosie Makinney.Find us online at focusonthefamily.com/marriagepodcast or call 1-800-A-FAMILYReceive the book "Fight For Love" for your donation of any amount: https://donate.focusonthefamily.com/don-fofm-podcast-2022-06-23?refcd=1453806Get more episode resources: https://www.focusonthefamily.com/episodes/focus-on-marriage-podcast/grace-and-justice-for-a-porn-addict/#featured-resource-ctaListen Anytime: https://store.focusonthefamily.com/rescuing-your-marriage-from-pornography-digital-download/?refcd=1453806If you've listened to any of our podcasts, please give us your feedback: https://focusonthefamily.com/podcastsurvey/

All of us have annoying habits that get on our spouse's nerves. Rather than sweeping them under the rug, it's better to see those habits as opportunities to work through annoyances together. John talks with Greg and Erin about aggravations they've worked through in their relationship. Featuring Mr. Gary Thomas.Find us online at focusonthefamily.com/marriagepodcast or call 1-800-A-FAMILYReceive the book "A Lifelong Love" for your donation of any amount: https://donate.focusonthefamily.com/don-fofm-podcast-2022-06-14?refcd=1436104Get more episode resources: https://www.focusonthefamily.com/episodes/focus-on-marriage-podcast/paying-attention-to-what-your-spouse-doesnt-like/#featured-resource-ctaListen Anytime: https://store.focusonthefamily.com/breathe-spiritual-life-into-your-marriage-digital-download/?refcd=1450404If you've listened to any of our podcasts, please give us your feedback: https://focusonthefamily.com/podcastsurvey/

Scripture commands to seek God above anything else. But how do you stay focused on the Lord when life gets busy in your marriage? Greg, Erin and John provide some insights on how to stay focused on your purpose as a couple. Featuring Gary Thomas.Find us online at focusonthefamily.com/marriagepodcast or call 1-800-A-FAMILYReceive the book "A Lifelong Love" for your donation of any amount: https://donate.focusonthefamily.com/don-fofm-podcast-2022-06-14?refcd=1436104Get more episode resources: https://www.focusonthefamily.com/episodes/focus-on-marriage-podcast/a-magnificent-obsession-for-your-marriage/#featured-resource-ctaListen Anytime: https://store.focusonthefamily.com/breathe-spiritual-life-into-your-marriage-digital-download/?refcd=1450404If you've listened to any of our podcasts, please give us your feedback: https://focusonthefamily.com/podcastsurvey/

One of the worst things you can do is try to have a serious conversation with your spouse when one or both of you is tired. It might be that you need to set some rules for when you discuss heavy topics. John, Greg and Erin share how setting boundaries on when to have difficult conversations is beneficial to a marriage. Featuring Dr. Randy Schroeder.Find us online at focusonthefamily.com/marriagepodcast or call 1-800-A-FAMILYReceive the book "Simple Habits for Marital Happiness" for your donation of any amount: https://donate.focusonthefamily.com/don-fofm-podcast-2022-07-05?recd=1450401Get more episode resources: https://www.focusonthefamily.com/episodes/focus-on-marriage-podcasst/stay-inside-the-9s/#featured-resource-ctaListen Anytime: https://store.focusonthefamily.com/simple-habits-to-embrace-in-your-marriage-digital-download/?refcd=1450401If you've listened to any of our podcasts, please give us your feedback: https://focusonthefamily.com/podcastsurvey/

When you and your spouse were first dating, you naturally did things to make each other feel happy. As time goes on in marriage, it can be easy to neglect doing those things that drew you together. John, Erin and Greg offer some ideas for how simple habits can actually get better with time and practice in your relationship. Featuring Dr. Randy Schroeder.Find us online at focusonthefamily.com/marriagepodcast or call 1-800-A-FAMILYReceive the book "Simple Habits for Marital Happiness" for your donation of any amount: https://donate.focusonthefamily.com/don-fofm-podcast-2022-07-05?recd=1450401Get more episode resources: https://www.focusonthefamily.com/episodes/focus-on-marriage-podcasst/wise-habits-for-results-you-want/#featured-resource-ctaListen Anytime: https://store.focusonthefamily.com/simple-habits-to-embrace-in-your-marriage-digital-download/?refcd=1450401If you've listened to any of our podcasts, please give us your feedback: https://focusonthefamily.com/podcastsurvey/

Besides your relationship with God, your relationship with your spouse is the most important one. To help illustrate that point, John, Erin and Greg share what it is like when their spouse reaches out to them before other friendships. Featuring Pastor Kevin Thompson.Find us online at focusonthefamily.com/marriagepodcast or call 1-800-A-FAMILY.Receive the book "Friends, Partners and Lover" for your donation of any amount: https://donate.focusonthefamily.com/don-fofm-podcast-2022-06-30?refcd=1443001Get more episode resources: https://www.focusonthefamily.com/episodes/focus-on-marriage-podcast/your-spouse-should-be-first/#featured-resource-ctaListen Anytime: https://store.focusonthefamily.com/embracing-your-role-as-a-spouse-digital/?refcd=1443001If you've listened to any of our podcasts, please give us your feedback: https://focusonthefamily.com/podcastsurvey/

Many couples will tell you that a strong friendship is one of the best aspects of marriage. But if couples are not careful, it can be easy to get caught in the business of everyday life. John, Greg and Erin talk about how they encourage couples to keep their friendship strong, even when times get busy. Featuring Pastor Kevin Thompson.Find us online at focusonthefamily.com/marriagepodcast or call 1-800-A-FAMILY.Receive the book "Friends, Partners and Lover" for your donation of any amount: https://donate.focusonthefamily.com/don-fofm-podcast-2022-06-30?refcd=1443001Get more episode resources: https://www.focusonthefamily.com/episodes/focus-on-marriage-podcast/three-roles-a-spouse-should-play/#featured-resource-ctaListen Anytime: https://store.focusonthefamily.com/embracing-your-role-as-a-spouse-digital/?refcd=1443001If you've listened to any of our podcasts, please give us your feedback: https://focusonthefamily.com/podcastsurvey/

When a wife learns her husband is struggling with pornography, it's very heartbreaking. In that situation, where do you turn to for help? John, Erin and Greg discuss common mistakes wives make in that situation and point to some ways to get help. Featuring Mrs. Rosie Makinney. Find us online at focusonthefamily.com/marriagepodcast or call 1-800-A-FAMILYReceive the book "Fight For Love" for your donation of any amount: https://donate.focusonthefamily.com/don-fofm-podcast-2022-06-23?refcd=1440102Get more episode resources: https://www.focusonthefamily.com/episodes/focus-on-marriage-podcast/when-your-spouse-is-addicted-to-porn/#featured-resource-ctaListen Anytime: https://store.focusonthefamily.com/rescuing-your-marriage-from-pornography-digital-download/?refcd=1440102If you've listened to any of our podcasts, please give us your feedback: https://focusonthefamily.com/podcastsurvey/

Small compromises with pornography can lead to a serious addiction problem. When left undealt with, it will do a lot of harm to your marriage. John, Erin and Greg talk about why some men choose to look at porn, and offer help to those caught in an addiction cycle. Featuring Mrs. Rosie Makinney.Find us online at focusonthefamily.com/marriagepodcast or call 1-800-A-FAMILYReceive the book "Fight For Love" for your donation of any amount: https://donate.focusonthefamily.com/don-fofm-podcast-2022-06-23?refcd=1440102Get more episode resources: https://www.focusonthefamily.com/episodes/focus-on-marriage-podcast/why-sexual-addiction-is-so-dangerous/#featured-resource-ctaListen Anytime: https://store.focusonthefamily.com/rescuing-your-marriage-from-pornography-digital-download/?refcd=1440102If you've listened to any of our podcasts, please give us your feedback: https://focusonthefamily.com/podcastsurvey/

There's an old saying that goes, "You don't just marry your spouse, you marry his or her family." But how do you work through a situation where a relationship with your in-laws is strained? John, Greg and Erin offer some encouragement to couples who are struggling to get along with their in-laws. Featuring Gary Thomas.Find us online at focusonthefamily.com/marriagepodcast or call 1-800-A-FAMILYReceive the book "A Lifelong Love" for your donation of any amount: https://donate.focusonthefamily.com/don-fofm-podcast-2022-06-14?refcd=1436104Get more episode resources: https://www.focusonthefamily.com/episodes/focus-on-marriage-podcast/loving-your-spouse-loving-your-in-laws/#featured-resource-ctaListen Anytime: https://store.focusonthefamily.com/breathe-spiritual-life-into-your-marriage-digital-download/?refcd=1436104If you've listened to any of our podcasts, please give us your feedback: https://focusonthefamily.com/podcastsurvey/

As a husband, one of the best things to recognize is that your wife is God's daughter. John, Greg and Erin discuss how having daughters has helped them understand why this principle is important for marriage. Featuring Gary Thomas.Find us online at focusonthefamily.com/marriagepodcast or call 1-800-A-FAMILYReceive the book "A Lifelong Love" for your donation of any amount: https://donate.focusonthefamily.com/don-fofm-podcast-2022-06-14?refcd=1436104Get more episode resources: https://www.focusonthefamily.com/episodes/focus-on-marriage-podcast/loving-gods-daughter/#featured-resource-ctaListen Anytime: https://store.focusonthefamily.com/breathe-spiritual-life-into-your-marriage-digital-download/?refcd=1436104If you've listened to any of our podcasts, please give us your feedback: https://focusonthefamily.com/podcastsurvey/

While no spouse can meet all of your dreams and desires, it's still important to make your expectations clear. Without sharing what you're expecting, you'll be setting yourself up for disappointment. John, Erin and Greg describe how they've seen unexpressed expectations cause tension in a marriage. Featuring Dr. Randy Schroeder.Find us online at focusonthefamily.com/marriagepodcast or call 1-800-A-FAMILYReceive the book "Simple Habits for Marital Happiness" for your donation of any amount: https://donate.focusonthefamily.com/don-fofm-podcast-2022-07-05?recd=1436203Get more episode resources: https://www.focusonthefamily.com/episodes/focus-on-marriage-podcast/making-expectations-clear/#featured-resource-ctaListen Anytime: https://store.focusonthefamily.com/simple-habits-to-embrace-in-your-marriage-digital-download/?refcd=1436203If you've listened to any of our podcasts, please give us your feedback: https://focusonthefamily.com/podcastsurvey/

All of us have expectations for what we thought marriage would be like. Yet, at some point, things won't go according to plan, and how you respond will make a big difference in those situations. John, Greg and Erin discuss what it looks like for couples to have healthy expectations for each other. Featuring Dr. Randy Schroeder.Find us online at focusonthefamily.com/marriagepodcast or call 1-800-A-FAMILYReceive the book "Simple Habits for Marital Happiness" for your donation of any amount: https://donate.focusonthefamily.com/don-fofm-podcast-2022-07-05?recd=1436203Get more episode resources: https://www.focusonthefamily.com/episodes/focus-on-marriage-podcast/healthy-adjustments-to-your-expectations/#featured-resource-ctaListen Anytime: https://store.focusonthefamily.com/simple-habits-to-embrace-in-your-marriage-digital-download/?refcd=1436203If you've listened to any of our podcasts, please give us your feedback: https://focusonthefamily.com/podcastsurvey/

Couples who go the distance don't just drift into a successful relationship. Truth be told, it takes consistent effort to succeed in marriage. John, Erin and Greg share how you can stay intentional in striving for a great relationship with your spouse. Featuring Pastor Kevin Thompson.Find us online at focusonthefamily.com/marriagepodcast or call 1-800-A-FAMILY.Receive the book "Friends, Partners and Lover" for your donation of any amount: https://donate.focusonthefamily.com/don-fofm-podcast-2022-06-30?refcd=1430710Get more episode resources: https://www.focusonthefamily.com/episodes/focus-on-marriage-podcast/the-intentional-marriage/#featured-resource-ctaListen Anytime: https://store.focusonthefamily.com/embracing-your-role-as-a-spouse-digital/?refcd=1430710If you've listened to any of our podcasts, please give us your feedback: https://focusonthefamily.com/podcastsurvey/

While some video games aren't necessarily bad, if they prevent you from communicating with your spouse, they can do great harm to your marriage. John, Erin and Greg provide some hope to those with a spouse who's addicted to playing video games. Featuring Bill and Pam Farrel.Find us online at focusonthefamily.com/marriagepodcast or call 1-800-A-FAMILYReceive Bill and Pam Farrel's book "The First Five Years: Make the Love Investment That Lasts a Lifetime " for your donation of any amount: https://donate.focusonthefamily.com/don-fofm-podcast-2022-03-01?refcd=1430605Get more episode resources: https://www.focusonthefamily.com/episodes/focus-on-marriage-podcast/marriage-and-video-games/#featured-resource-ctaListen Anytime: https://store.focusonthefamily.com/thriving-in-the-early-years-of-marriage-digital-product?refcd=1430605If you've listened to any of our podcasts, please give us your feedback: https://focusonthefamily.com/podcastsurvey/

Sadly, many married people today have a secret addiction to pornography. If left in the dark, it can destroy the very foundation of your relationship. John, Greg and Erin explain why pornography is so dangerous and offer hope to those who are afraid to confess they have a problem. Featuring Mrs. Rosie Makinney.Find us online at focusonthefamily.com/marriagepodcast or call 1-800-A-FAMILYReceive the book "Fight For Love" for your donation of any amount: https://donate.focusonthefamily.com/don-fofm-podcast-2022-06-23?refcd=1428101Get more episode resources: https://www.focusonthefamily.com/episodes/focus-on-marriage-podcast/the-dangers-of-a-pornography-problem/#featured-resource-ctaListen Anytime: https://store.focusonthefamily.com/rescuing-your-marriage-from-pornography-digital-download/?refcd=1428101If you've listened to any of our podcasts, please give us your feedback: https://focusonthefamily.com/podcastsurvey/

When things aren't going well in your marriage, having supportive friends is one of the best blessings you can have. None of us are meant to go through life isolated and alone. John talks with Greg and Erin about how they try to maintain community amidst their busy schedules. Featuring Dr. Tim and Noreen Muehlhoff.Find us online at focusonthefamily.com/marriagepodcast or call 1-800-A-FAMILYReceive the book "Defending Your Marriage" for your donation of any amount: https://donate.focusonthefamily.com/don-fofm-podcast-2022-03-29?refcd=1427201Get more episode resources: https://www.focusonthefamily.com/episodes/focus-on-marriage-podcast/come-out-of-hiding/#featured-resource-ctaListen Anytime: https://store.focusonthefamily.com/the-spiritual-battle-for-your-marriage-digital/?refcd=1427201If you've listened to any of our podcasts, please give us your feedback: https://focusonthefamily.com/podcastsurvey/

Is it possible to love your spouse without expecting anything in return? Truth be told, we can only love that way if we're relying on God's love to fill our souls. John, Greg and Erin share how they encourage couples to apply this principle to their marriages. Featuring Gary Thomas.Find us online at focusonthefamily.com/marriagepodcast or call 1-800-A-FAMILYReceive the book "A Lifelong Love" for your donation of any amount: https://donate.focusonthefamily.com/don-fofm-podcast-2022-06-14?refcd=1423009Get more episode resources: https://www.focusonthefamily.com/episodes/focus-on-marriage-podcast/loving-without-expectations/#featured-resource-ctaListen Anytime: https://store.focusonthefamily.com/breathe-spiritual-life-into-your-marriage-digital-download/?refcd=1423009If you've listened to any of our podcasts, please give us your feedback: https://focusonthefamily.com/podcastsurvey/

Unrealistic expectations are something all of us struggle with, yet they're very damaging to a marriage. John, Greg and Erin share how they've learned to adjust their expectations in marriage. Featuring Gary Thomas.Find us online at focusonthefamily.com/marriagepodcast or call 1-800-A-FAMILYReceive the book "A Lifelong Love" for your donation of any amount: https://donate.focusonthefamily.com/don-fofm-podcast-2022-06-14?refcd=1423009Get more episode resources: https://www.focusonthefamily.com/episodes/focus-on-marriage-podcast/dont-become-a-spider-spouse/#featured-resource-ctaListen Anytime: https://store.focusonthefamily.com/breathe-spiritual-life-into-your-marriage-digital-download/?refcd=1423009If you've listened to any of our podcasts, please give us your feedback: https://focusonthefamily.com/podcastsurvey/

After your marriage has gone through a hard time, it can be tempting to bring up past hurts to your spouse. The truth is, recovery is anything but an easy road. John, Greg and Erin share how you can be honest about the past in your marriage, without dwelling on it. Featuring Jeff and Cheryl Scruggs.Find us online at focusonthefamily.com/marriagepodcast or call 1-800-A-FAMILY.Receive the book "I Do Again" for your donation of any amount: https://donate.focusonthefamily.com/don-fofm-podcast-2022-03-08?refcd=1423502Get more episode resources: https://www.focusonthefamily.com/episodes/focus-on-marriage-podcast/after-the-storm-has-passed/#featured-resource-ctaListen Anytime: https://store.focusonthefamily.com/hope-for-every-marriage-digital-product/?refcd=1423502If you've listened to any of our podcasts, please give us your feedback: https://focusonthefamily.com/podcastsurvey/

When there's been a betrayal in a marriage, healing can take a long time. While waiting for restoration isn't easy, God is willing to send you some help. John, Greg and Erin discuss how you can be patient in your marriage, when you're hoping for reconciliation. Featuring Jeff and Cheryl Scruggs.Find us online at focusonthefamily.com/marriagepodcast or call 1-800-A-FAMILY.Receive the book "I Do Again" for your donation of any amount: https://donate.focusonthefamily.com/don-fofm-podcast-2022-03-08?refcd=1423502Get more episode resources: https://www.focusonthefamily.com/episodes/focus-on-marriage-podcast/reconciliation-is-still-possible/#featured-resource-ctaListen Anytime: https://store.focusonthefamily.com/hope-for-every-marriage-digital-product/?refcd=1423502If you've listened to any of our podcasts, please give us your feedback: https://focusonthefamily.com/podcastsurvey/

If we're honest, we all struggle with selfishness in marriage. However, a good dose of gratitude can be the best solution for selfishness. John and Greg share how being thankful can greatly benefit your marriage. Featuring Bill and Pam Farrel.Find us online at focusonthefamily.com/marriagepodcast or call 1-800-A-FAMILYReceive Bill and Pam Farrel's book "The First Five Years: Make the Love Investment That Lasts a Lifetime " for your donation of any amount: https://donate.focusonthefamily.com/don-fofm-podcast-2022-03-01?refcd=1416601Get more episode resources: https://www.focusonthefamily.com/episodes/focus-on-marriage-podcast/replacing-selfishness-control/#featured-resource-ctaListen Anytime: https://store.focusonthefamily.com/thriving-in-the-early-years-of-marriage-digital-product?refcd=1416601If you've listened to any of our podcasts, please give us your feedback: https://focusonthefamily.com/podcastsurvey/

All of us can find something annoying about our spouse. But, you can choose to show grace even when you don't feel like doing so. Greg talks with John about how he and Erin have worked through irritations in their relationship. Featuring Bill and Pam Farrel.Find us online at focusonthefamily.com/marriagepodcast or call 1-800-A-FAMILYReceive Bill and Pam Farrel's book "The First Five Years: Make the Love Investment That Lasts a Lifetime " for your donation of any amount: https://donate.focusonthefamily.com/don-fofm-podcast-2022-03-01?refcd=1416601Get more episode resources: https://www.focusonthefamily.com/episodes/focus-on-marriage-podcast/when-little-irritations-meet-grace/#featured-resource-ctaListen Anytime: https://store.focusonthefamily.com/thriving-in-the-early-years-of-marriage-digital-product?refcd=1416601If you've listened to any of our podcasts, please give us your feedback: https://focusonthefamily.com/podcastsurvey/

You and your spouse weren't meant to do life alone. Having other couples around you is key to a healthy relationship. John and Greg discuss how their marriages have been helped by having friends and share where you can go to find community. Featuring Tim and Noreen Muehlhoff.Find us online at focusonthefamily.com/marriagepodcast or call 1-800-A-FAMILYReceive the book "Defending Your Marriage" for your donation of any amount: https://donate.focusonthefamily.com/don-fofm-podcast-2022-03-29?refcd=1413406Get more episode resources: https://www.focusonthefamily.com/episodes/focus-on-marriage-podcast/community-in-the-fight/#featured-resource-ctaListen Anytime: https://store.focusonthefamily.com/the-spiritual-battle-for-your-marriage-digital/?refcd=1413406If you've listened to any of our podcasts, please give us your feedback: https://focusonthefamily.com/podcastsurvey/

While technology is a great tool, spending too much time on a screen can distract you from quality time with your spouse. John talks with Greg, who shares about how he and his wife have had to cut back on screen time in their relationship. Featuring Tim and Noreen Muehlhoff.Find us online at focusonthefamily.com/marriagepodcast or call 1-800-A-FAMILYReceive the book "Defending Your Marriage" for your donation of any amount: https://donate.focusonthefamily.com/don-fofm-podcast-2022-03-29?refcd=1413406Get more episode resources: https://www.focusonthefamily.com/episodes/focus-on-marriage-podcast/deal-with-technology-distractions/#featured-resource-ctaListen Anytime: https://store.focusonthefamily.com/the-spiritual-battle-for-your-marriage-digital/?refcd=1413406If you've listened to any of our podcasts, please give us your feedback: https://focusonthefamily.com/podcastsurvey/

Sadly, many married couples report feeling lonely. Sometimes, it might even take a third-party to help you reconnect. John and Greg share how counseling can help you bridge a gap of loneliness between you and your spouse. Featuring Dr. Greg and Erin Smalley.Find us online at focusonthefamily.com/marriagepodcast or call 1-800-A-FAMILY.Receive Greg and Erin's book "Reconnected: Moving from Roommates to Soulmates in Your Marriage" for your donation of any amount: https://donate.focusonthefamily.com/don-fofm-podcast-2022-03-22?refcd=1410602Get more episode resources: https://www.focusonthefamily.com/episodes/focus-on-marriage-podcast/what-we-long-for-connection/#featured-resource-ctaListen Anytime: https://store.focusonthefamily.com/sharing-the-load-with-your-spouse-digital-download/?refcd=1410602If you've listened to any of our podcasts, please give us your feedback: https://focusonthefamily.com/podcastsurvey/

While you and your spouse cannot trade places, showing empathy to each other can go a long way toward strengthening your relationship. John and Greg discuss how to show empathy, even when there is tension in your relationship. Featuring Dr. Greg and Erin Smalley.Find us online at focusonthefamily.com/marriagepodcast or call 1-800-A-FAMILY.Receive Greg and Erin's book "Reconnected: Moving from Roommates to Soulmates in Your Marriage" for your donation of any amount:https://donate.focusonthefamily.com/don-fofm-podcast-2022-03-22?refcd=1346703Get more episode resources: https://www.focusonthefamily.com/episodes/focus-on-marriage-podcast/when-your-spouse-needs-empathy/#featured-resource-ctaListen Anytime: https://store.focusonthefamily.com/sharing-the-load-with-your-spouse-digital-download/?refcd=1410602If you've listened to any of our podcasts, please give us your feedback: https://focusonthefamily.com/podcastsurvey/