Focus on the Family Strengthening Marriage Podcast

Getting to know your spouse can feel like driving down a road with unexpected turns. On the journey, there will be situations where you bump into conflict. John, Erin and Greg explain how having a relationship with God can help you during marriage conflict. Featuring Pastor Rob and Gina Flood.Find us online at focusonthefamily.com/marriagepodcast or call 1-800-A-FAMILYGet Rob Flood's book: "With These Words" for your donation of any amount: https://donate.focusonthefamily.com/don-fofm-podcast-2022-01-11?refcd=1299805Get more episode resources: https://www.focusonthefamily.com/episodes/focus-on-marriage-podcast/how-would-god-respond-to-marriage-conflict/#featured-resource-ctaIf you've listened to any of our podcasts, please give us your feedback: https://focusonthefamily.com/podcastsurvey/

When you're frustrated with your spouse, it's easy to say hurtful things. In fact, some couples have even said things like, "I married the wrong person!" John, Erin and Greg discuss how you can turn negative emotions around in your marriage, even when you're upset at your mate. Featuring Pastor Rob and Gina Flood.Find us online at focusonthefamily.com/marriagepodcast or call 1-800-A-FAMILYGet Rob Flood's book "With These Words" for your donation of any amount: https://donate.focusonthefamily.com/don-fofm-podcast-2022-01-11?refcd=1299805Get more episode resources: https://www.focusonthefamily.com/episodes/focus-on-marriage-podcast/i-married-the-wrong-person/#featured-resource-ctaIf you've listened to any of our podcasts, please give us your feedback: https://focusonthefamily.com/podcastsurvey/

When a marriage has been hurt by betrayal, the road of recovery takes time. It's not an easy journey, but healing is possible with God's help. John, Greg and Erin offer a healthy perspective for couples traveling the road to recovery. Featuring Mr. Mark and Mrs. Jill Savage.Find us online at focusonthefamily.com/marriagepodcast or call 1-800-A-FAMILY.Get Jill Savage's book "Your Next Steps: What To Do When Your Spouse Is Unfaithful" for your donation of any amount: https://donate.focusonthefamily.com/don-fofm-podcast-2021-10-12?refcd=1296705Get more episode resources: https://www.focusonthefamily.com/episodes/focus-on-marriage-podcast/the-roller-coaster-of-recovery/#featured-resource-ctaIf you've listened to any of our podcasts, please give us your feedback: https://focusonthefamily.com/podcastsurvey/

If your spouse has hurt you, it's easy to start playing the blame game. But doing so will only make things worse, not better. John, Erin and Greg discuss a step you can take toward healing in your marriage, even after being hurt by your spouse. Featuring Mr. Mark and Mrs. Jill Savage.Find us online at focusonthefamily.com/marriagepodcast or call 1-800-A-FAMILY.Get Jill Savage's book "Your Next Steps: What To Do When Your Spouse Is Unfaithful" for your donation of any amount: https://donate.focusonthefamily.com/don-fofm-podcast-2021-10-12?refcd=1296705Get more episode resources: https://www.focusonthefamily.com/episodes/focus-on-marriage-podcast/why-blaming-is-so-dangerous/#featured-resource-ctaIf you've listened to any of our podcasts, please give us your feedback: https://focusonthefamily.com/podcastsurvey/

Having financial goals as a couple can greatly bless your marriage. The key is to get on the same page as a team. John and Greg share how to work together as a team and find contentment in your financial situation as a couple. Featuring Mr. Chuck and Mrs. Ann Bentley.Find us online at focusonthefamily.com/marriagepodcast or call 1-800-A-FAMILY.Get Chuck and Ann Bentley's book "Money Problems, Marriage Solutions" for your donation of any amount: https://donate.focusonthefamily.com/don-fofm-podcast-2021-11-30?refcd=1292601Get more episode resources: https://www.focusonthefamily.com/episodes/focus-on-marriage-podcast/finding-true-peace-and-prosperity/#featured-resource-ctaIf you've listened to any of our podcasts, please give us your feedback: https://focusonthefamily.com/podcastsurvey/

There's a temptation to think you can change your spouse's bad habits. However, no matter how hard you try, true repentance is only possible with God's help. John talks with Erin and Greg about how to move on when your spouse repents from a bad habit. Featuring Chuck and Ann Bentley.Find us online at focusonthefamily.com/marriagepodcast or call 1-800-A-FAMILY.Get Chuck and Ann Bentley's book "Money Problems, Marriage Solutions" for your donation of any amount: https://donate.focusonthefamily.com/don-fofm-podcast-2021-11-30?refcd=1292601Get more episode resources: https://www.focusonthefamily.com/episodes/focus-on-marriage-podcast/when-your-spouse-repents/#featured-resource-ctaIf you've listened to any of our podcasts, please give us your feedback: https://focusonthefamily.com/podcastsurvey/

Conflict is part of marriage. But if you're willing to work through it, your relationship can become stronger even after a fight. John talks with Greg and Erin about how they paint a realistic picture of marital conflict when counseling an engaged couple. Featuring Mrs. Debra Fileta. Find us online at focusonthefamily.com/marriagepodcast or call 1-800-A-FAMILYGet Debra Fileta's book "Love in Every Season: Understanding the Four Stages of Every Healthy Relationship" for your donation of any amount: https://donate.focusonthefamily.com/don-fofm-podcast-2021-10-26?refcd=1289601Get more episode resources: https://www.focusonthefamily.com/episodes/focus-on-marriage-podcast/the-season-of-conflict/#featured-resource-ctaIf you've listened to any of our podcasts, please give us your feedback: https://focusonthefamily.com/podcastsurvey/

When you're engaged, it's easy to think you know your future spouse really well. However, getting to know someone takes time. John talks with Greg and Erin about how engaged couples can develop a healthy friendship before a wedding. Featuring Debra Fileta.Find us online at focusonthefamily.com/marriagepodcast or call 1-800-A-FAMILY.Get Debra Fileta's book "Love in Every Season: Understanding the Four Stages of Every Healthy Relationship" for your donation of any amount: https://donate.focusonthefamily.com/don-fofm-podcast-2021-10-26?refcd=1289601Get more episode resources: https://www.focusonthefamily.com/episodes/focus-on-marriage-podcast/spider-webs-glass-blowing-classes/#featured-resource-ctaIf you've listened to any of our podcasts, please give us your feedback: https://focusonthefamily.com/podcastsurvey/

There's an old saying about marriage, "you don't just marry your spouse, you marry the person's family." If we're honest, sometimes learning to get along with in-laws is a big adjustment. John, Erin and Greg share about staying committed while trying to get along with your spouse's family. Featuring Melanie Shankle.Find us online at focusonthefamily.com/marriagepodcast or call 1-800-A-FAMILY.Get Melanie Shankle's book "The Antelope in the Living Room: The Real Story of Two People Sharing One Life" for your donation of any amount: https://donate.focusonthefamily.com/don-fofm-podcast-2021-11-16?refcd=1286104Get more episode resources: https://www.focusonthefamily.com/episodes/focus-on-marriage-podcast/in-laws-and-staying-committed/#featured-resource-ctaIf you've listened to any of our podcasts, please give us your feedback: https://focusonthefamily.com/podcastsurvey/

As you get to know your spouse, you learn so many things about him or her. While learning new things can be funny, some situations can lead to tension. John, Erin and Greg discuss why loving your spouse is still a decision, even if you don't feel like doing it. Featuring Mrs. Melanie Shankle.Find us online at focusonthefamily.com/marriagepodcast or call 1-800-A-FAMILY.Get Melanie Shankle's book "The Antelope in the Living Room: The Real Story of Two People Sharing One Life" for your donation of any amount: https://donate.focusonthefamily.com/don-fofm-podcast-2021-11-16?refcd=1286104Get more episode resources: https://www.focusonthefamily.com/episodes/focus-on-marriage-podcast/choosing-love-even-when-you-dont-feel-it/#featured-resource-ctaIf you've listened to any of our podcasts, please give us your feedback: https://focusonthefamily.com/podcastsurvey/

When you've made several mistakes in your marriage, it can seem like things could never be restored. But even when you've turned away from doing things God's way, He's still willing to forgive and welcome you back home. John, Erin and Greg offer hope to couples who feel like their marriage is too far gone. Featuring Mark and Jill Savage.Find us online at focusonthefamily.com/marriagepodcast or call 1-800-A-FAMILY.Get Jill Savage's book "Your Next Steps: What To Do When Your Spouse Is Unfaithful" for your donation of any amount: https://donate.focusonthefamily.com/don-fofm-podcast-2021-10-12?refcd=1171608Get more episode resources: https://www.focusonthefamily.com/episodes/focus-on-marriage-podcast/when-god-reaches-us-in-our-mess/#featured-resource-ctaIf you've listened to any of our podcasts, please give us your feedback: https://focusonthefamily.com/podcastsurvey/

We've all known a couple who's thought, "Our marriage can't make it." If that's you, John, Greg and Erin will share how they've seen God restore broken marriages, and provide some tips for preventing an affair. Featuring Mark and Jill Savage.Find us online at focusonthefamily.com/marriagepodcast or call 1-800-A-FAMILY.Get Jill Savage's book "Your Next Steps: What To Do When Your Spouse Is Unfaithful" for your donation of any amount: https://donate.focusonthefamily.com/don-fofm-podcast-2021-10-12?refcd=1171608Get more episode resources: https://www.focusonthefamily.com/episodes/focus-on-marriage-podcast/when-god-showed-up-on-easter/#featured-resource-ctaIf you've listened to any of our podcasts, please give us your feedback: https://focusonthefamily.com/podcastsurvey/

What do you do when it feels like you and your spouse can't agree about money? John and Erin will share how to be patient when you and your mate are struggling to find financial unity. Featuring Chuck and Ann Bentley.Find us online at focusonthefamily.com/marriagepodcast or call 1-800-A-FAMILY.Get Chuck and Ann Bentley's book "Money Problems, Marriage Solutions" for your donation of any amount: https://donate.focusonthefamily.com/don-fofm-podcast-2021-11-30?refcd=1181701Get more episode resources: https://www.focusonthefamily.com/episodes/focus-on-marriage-podcast/changing-bad-money-habits/#featured-resource-ctaIf you've listened to any of our podcasts, please give us your feedback: https://focusonthefamily.com/podcastsurvey/

Money. It's one of the most common reasons couples fight. To help ease financial tension, John and Erin will share a helpful key for when you're frustrated with your spouse's financial choices. Featuring Mr. Chuck and Mrs. Ann Bentley.Find us online at focusonthefamily.com/marriagepodcast or call 1-800-A-FAMILY.Get Chuck and Ann Bentley's book "Money Problems, Marriage Solutions" for your donation of any amount: https://donate.focusonthefamily.com/don-fofm-podcast-2021-11-30?refcd=1181701Get more episode resources: https://www.focusonthefamily.com/episodes/focus-on-marriage-podcast/when-your-money-habits-clash/#featured-resource-ctaIf you've listened to any of our podcasts, please give us your feedback: https://focusonthefamily.com/podcastsurvey/

Sexual sin grows in the dark. But when you bring it into the light by confessing it, the healing process can start. John, Greg and Erin discuss how to find a trustworthy person to confess sin to. Featuring Mr. David and Mrs. Kirsten Samuel.Find us online at focusonthefamily.com/marriagepodcast or call 1-800-A-FAMILY.Get Kirsten Samuel's book "Choosing a Way Out" for your donation of any amount! https://donate.focusonthefamily.com/don-fofm-podcast-2021-11-23?refcd=1181603Get more episode resources: https://www.focusonthefamily.com/episodes/focus-on-marriage-podcast/confessing-sexual-sin-to-your-family/#featured-resource-ctaIf you've listened to any of our podcasts, please give us your feedback: https://focusonthefamily.com/podcastsurvey/

Statistics reveal that many married men are struggling with a pornography addiction, even in the church. If this has impacted your marriage, please know, you're not alone. John, Erin and Greg discuss how to take a step toward healing, after a secret sin has been uncovered. Featuring Mr. David and Mrs. Kirsten Samuel.Find us online at focusonthefamily.com/marriagepodcast or call 1-800-A-FAMILY.Get Kirsten Samuel's book "Choosing a Way Out" for your donation of any amount! https://donate.focusonthefamily.com/don-fofm-podcast-2021-11-23?refcd=1181603Get more episode resources: https://www.focusonthefamily.com/episodes/focus-on-marriage-podcast/when-a-secret-sin-is-uncovered/#featured-resource-ctaIf you've listened to any of our podcasts, please give us your feedback: https://focusonthefamily.com/podcastsurvey/

Homes need a strong foundation, and marriages need to be established on God's love. Without it, you won't be nearly as ready when challenges come your way. John and Erin offer some helpful ideas for being strong spiritually as a couple. Featuring Mrs. Debra Fileta.Find us online at focusonthefamily.com/marriagepodcast or call 1-800-A-FAMILY.Get Debra Fileta's book "Love in Every Season: Understanding the Four Stages of a Healthy Relationship" for your donation of any amount: https://donate.focusonthefamily.com/don-fofm-podcast-2021-10-26?refcd=1176601Get more episode resources: https://www.focusonthefamily.com/episodes/focus-on-marriage-podcast/growing-spiritually-in-every-season/#featured-resource-ctaIf you've listened to any of our podcasts, please give us your feedback: https://focusonthefamily.com/podcastsurvey/

When you're falling in love, it can feel like the start of the spring season. Flowers are blooming, the sun is shining and romance is strong. But if we're honest, sometimes falling in love can also reveal our deepest fears. John and Erin discuss how to know if your relationship is healthy in the early stages of romance. Featuring Mrs. Debra Fileta.Find us online at focusonthefamily.com/marriagepodcast or call 1-800-A-FAMILY.Get Debra Fileta's book "Love in Every Season: Understanding the Four Stages of a Healthy Relationship" for your donation of any amount: https://donate.focusonthefamily.com/don-fofm-podcast-2021-10-26?refcd=1176601Get more episode resources: https://www.focusonthefamily.com/episodes/focus-on-marriage-podcast/overcoming-fear-in-the-spring-season/#featured-resource-ctaIf you've listened to any of our podcasts, please give us your feedback: https://focusonthefamily.com/podcastsurvey/

Sometimes, it's good to reflect on why you married your spouse. To help you do that, John and Erin discuss the benefits of remembering how you fell in love. Featuring Mrs. Melanie Shankle.Find us online at focusonthefamily.com/marriagepodcast or call 1-800-A-FAMILY.Get Melanie Shankle's book "The Antelope in the Living Room: The Real Story of Two People Sharing One Life" for your donation of any amount: https://donate.focusonthefamily.com/don-fofm-podcast-2021-11-09?refcd=1174704Get more episode resources: https://www.focusonthefamily.com/episodes/focus-on-marriage-podcast/remembering-what-brought-you-together#featured-resource-ctaIf you've listened to any of our podcasts, please give us your feedback: https://focusonthefamily.com/podcastsurvey/

You married someone who's very different from you! It's part of God's design. While your differences can be a lot of fun, they can also create a lot of tension. John talks to Erin about ways that a couple can have fun with their differences. Featuring Mrs. Melanie Shankle.Find us online at focusonthefamily.com/marriagepodcast or call 1-800-A-FAMILY.Get Melanie Shankle's book "The Antelope in the Living Room: The Real Story of Two People Sharing One Life" for your donation of any amount: https://donate.focusonthefamily.com/don-fofm-podcast-2021-11-09?refcd=1174704Get more episode resources: https://www.focusonthefamily.com/episodes/focus-on-marriage-podcast/having-fun-with-your-opposite-personalities/#featured-resource-ctaIf you've listened to any of our podcasts, please give us your feedback: https://focusonthefamily.com/podcastsurvey/

It's one of the worst things that can happen in a marriage: when your spouse's heart closes. If that happens, it can take a long time for the relationship to be restored. John Fuller and Erin Smalley discuss ways to speak kindly to your spouse, even when he or she doesn't want to talk.Find us online at focusonthefamily.com/marriagepodcast or call 1-800-A-FAMILY.Get Dr. Greg and Erin Smalley's book: "Reconnected: Moving from Roommates to Soulmates in Marriage" for your donation of any amount: https://donate.focusonthefamily.com/don-fofm-podcast-2021-08-10?refcd=1167802Get more episode resources: https://www.focusonthefamily.com/episodes/focus-on-marriage-podcast/opening-a-closed-heart/#featured-resource-ctaIf you've listened to any of our podcasts, please give us your feedback: https://focusonthefamily.com/podcastsurvey/

Let's be honest, sometimes, it's easy to get distracted when your spouse is trying to tell you something. John talks with Dr. Greg and Erin Smalley about why it's important for couples to eliminate distractions and connect on a spiritual level.Find us online at focusonthefamily.com/marriagepodcast or call 1-800-A-FAMILY.Get Dr. Greg and Erin Smalley's book: "Reconnected: Moving from Roommates to Soulmates in Marriage" for your donation of any amount: https://donate.focusonthefamily.com/don-fofm-podcast-2021-08-10?refcd=1167802Get more episode resources: https://www.focusonthefamily.com/episodes/focus-on-marriage-podcast/eliminating-distractions-finding-intimacy/#featured-resource-ctaIf you've listened to any of our podcasts, please give us your feedback: https://focusonthefamily.com/podcastsurvey/

Each season of marriage has a purpose. The key is in choosing to make the most of the one you're in, even when it's not easy. If you feel stuck in a winter season today, Greg, Erin and John will offer you some hope. Featuring Debra Fileta.Find us online at focusonthefamily.com/marriagepodcast or call 1-800-A-FAMILY.Get Debra Fileta's book "Love in Every Season: Understanding the Four Stages of a Healthy Relationship" for your donation of any amount: https://donate.focusonthefamily.com/don-fofm-podcast-2021-10-26?refcd=1162802Get more episode resources: https://www.focusonthefamily.com/episodes/focus-on-marriage-podcast/purpose-of-the-seasons/#featured-resource-ctaIf you've listened to any of our podcasts, please give us your feedback: https://focusonthefamily.com/podcastsurvey/

Every marriage goes through seasons. Some are wonderful, while others are difficult, but each one can help you improve your relationship. John talks with Greg and Erin about seasons in a marriage and how to know if you've been one for too long. Featuring Debra Fileta.Find us online at focusonthefamily.com/marriagepodcast or call 1-800-A-FAMILY.Get Debra Fileta's book "Love in Every Season: Understanding the Four Stages of Every Healthy Relationship" for your donation of any amount: https://donate.focusonthefamily.com/don-fofm-podcast-2021-10-26?refcd=1162802Get more episode resources: https://www.focusonthefamily.com/episodes/focus-on-marriage-podcast/the-seasons-your-marriage-goes-through/#featured-resource-ctaIf you've listened to any of our podcasts, please give us your feedback: https://focusonthefamily.com/podcastsurvey/

If there's a lack of love in your marriage, it's good to evaluate the strength of your relationship with God. The more you prioritize obeying God, the better job you'll do at being a good spouse. John talks to Erin and Greg about what it means for couples to represent Jesus in their marriage. Featuring Guy Lia, Amber Lia, and Jean Daly.Find us online at focusonthefamily.com/marriagepodcast or call 1-800-A-FAMILY.Get Amber and Guy Lia's book "Marriage Triggers" for your donation of any amount: https://donate.focusonthefamily.com/don-fofm-podcast-2021-09-21?refcd=1159401Get more episode resources: https://www.focusonthefamily.com/episodes/focus-on-marriage-podcast/representing-jesus-in-our-marriage/#featured-resource-ctaIf you've listened to any of our podcasts, please give us your feedback: https://focusonthefamily.com/podcastsurvey/

You said something to your spouse, and thought your point was clear. But after a day or two, your mate is really upset. It turns out, your spouse misunderstood what you said. Sound familiar? John, Erin and Greg explain why working through misunderstandings can make your relationship stronger. Featuring Guy Lia, Amber Lia, and Jean Daly.Find us online at focusonthefamily.com/marriagepodcast or call 1-800-A-FAMILY.Get Amber and Guy Lia's book "Marriage Triggers" for your donation of any amount: https://donate.focusonthefamily.com/don-fofm-podcast-2021-09-21?refcd=1159401Get more episode resources: https://www.focusonthefamily.com/episodes/focus-on-marriage-podcast/honey-thats-not-what-i-meant/#featured-resource-ctaIf you've listened to any of our podcasts, please give us your feedback: https://focusonthefamily.com/podcastsurvey/

When your spouse has hurt you, it's easy to hold on to unforgiveness. But doing so will only make things worse. John talks with Greg and Erin about ways couples can take steps toward healing, even if one of the spouses has been unfaithful. Featuring Mark and Jill Savage. Find us online at focusonthefamily.com/marriagepodcast, or call 1-800-A-FAMILY.Get Jill Savage's book "Your Next Steps: What to Do When Your Spouse is Unfaithful" for your donation of any amount: https://donate.focusonthefamily.com/don-fofm-podcast-2021-10-12?refcd=1154701Get more episode resources: https://www.focusonthefamily.com/episodes/focus-on-marriage-podcast/when-unfaithfulness-meets-gods-grace/#featured-resource-ctaIf you've listened to any of our podcasts, please give us your feedback: https://focusonthefamily.com/podcastsurvey/

Sadly, many couples experience the sting of betrayal. When the unfaithfulness comes to light, the damage is shocking. John talks with Greg and Erin about why an affair is so devastating to a marriage, and they'll point you to resources for starting a recovery process. Find us online at focusonthefamily.com/marriagepodcast, or call 1-800-A-FAMILY.Get Jill Savage's book "Your Next Steps: What to Do When Your Spouse is Unfaithful" for your donation of any amount: https://donate.focusonthefamily.com/don-fofm-podcast-2021-10-12?refcd=1154701Get more episode resources: https://www.focusonthefamily.com/episodes/focus-on-marriage-podcast/the-immediate-damage-of-an-affair/#featured-resource-ctaIf you've listened to any of our podcasts, please give us your feedback: https://focusonthefamily.com/podcastsurvey/

You long for meaningful connection with your spouse. However, there are moments when it feels like life and responsibilities keep getting in the way. During those seasons, what do you do? John, Greg and Erin suggest some questions you can ask your spouse as a way to connect with each other. Find us online at focusonthefamily.com/marriagepodcast, or call 1-800-A-FAMILY.Get the book "Reconnected: Moving From Roommates to Soulmates in Your Marriage" for your donation of any amount: https://store.focusonthefamily.com/reconnecting-with-your-spouse-digital-product#refcd=1151703Get more episode resources: https://www.focusonthefamily.com/episodes/focus-on-marriage-podcast/questions-and-answers/#featured-resource-ctaIf you've listened to any of our podcasts, please give us your feedback: https://focusonthefamily.com/podcastsurvey/

Raising kids with your spouse is one of life's greatest blessings. But anyone who's had children will tell you it's not easy to balance them with your marriage. John talks with Greg and Erin about how to prioritize your marriage, even with the constant demands of parenting. Find us online at focusonthefamily.com/marriagepodcast, or call 1-800-A-FAMILY.Get the book "Reconnected: Moving From Roommates to Soulmates in Your Marriage" for your donation of any amount: https://donate.focusonthefamily.com/don-fofm-podcast-2021-08-10?refcd=1151703Get more episode resources: https://www.focusonthefamily.com/episodes/focus-on-marriage-podcast/planets-and-the-sun/#featured-resource-ctaIf you've listened to any of our podcasts, please give us your feedback: https://focusonthefamily.com/podcastsurvey/

Success doesn't happen by accident. It requires planning and making intentional decisions. The same principle is true for your marriage. Greg and Erin talk with John about how practicing simple exercises has made their marriage better. Featuring Dr. Marcus Warner and Pastor Chris Coursey. Find us online at focusonthefamily.com/marriagepodcast, or call 1-800-A-FAMILY.Get the book "The 4 Habits of Joy-Filled Marriages" for your donation of any amount: https://donate.focusonthefamily.com/don-fofm-podcast-2021-08-31?refcd=1146802Get more episode resources: https://www.focusonthefamily.com/episodes/focus-on-marriage-podcast/planning-for-a-thriving-marriage/#featured-resource-ctaIf you've listened to any of our podcasts, please give us your feedback: https://focusonthefamily.com/podcastsurvey/

When you're frustrated with your spouse, it's easy to tell yourself things about him or her that aren't true. We've all been guilty of that before. Greg, Erin and John explain how simple gestures of kindness can calm your emotions, even when you feel frustrated with your mate. Featuring Dr. Marcus Warner and Pastor Chris Coursey.Find us online at focusonthefamily.com/marriagepodcast, or call 1-800-A-FAMILY.Get the book "The 4 Habits of Joy-Filled Marriages" for your donation of any amount: https://donate.focusonthefamily.com/don-fofm-podcast-2021-08-31?refcd=1146802Get more episode resources: https://www.focusonthefamily.com/episodes/focus-on-marriage-podcast/the-story-you-tell-yourself/#featured-resource-ctaIf you've listened to any of our podcasts, please give us your feedback: https://focusonthefamily.com/podcastsurvey/

You love your spouse so much, but we're all still human. Part of being human is getting on each other's nerves. John, Erin and Greg discuss what it looks like for couples to work through irritations during the early years of marriage. Featuring guests Amber Lia, Guy Lia, and Jean Daly. Find us online at focusonthefamily.com/marriagepodcast, or call 1-800-A-FAMILY.Get the book "Marriage Triggers" for your donation of any amount: https://donate.focusonthefamily.com/don-fofm-podcast-2021-09-21?refcd=1143801Get more episode resources: https://www.focusonthefamily.com/episodes/focus-on-marriage-podcast/working-through-triggers-with-honesty/#featured-resource-ctaIf you've listened to any of our podcasts, please give us your feedback: https://focusonthefamily.com/podcastsurvey/

The early years of marriage are filled with bliss and lots of adjustments. With so many changes, getting on each others' nerves is very common as you're learning to live together. John, Greg and Erin give some encouragement to newlyweds who are stepping on each others' toes. Featuring guests Amber Lia, Guy Lia, and Jean Daly. Find us online at focusonthefamily.com/marriagepodcast, or call 1-800-A-FAMILY.Get the book "Marriage Triggers" for your donation of any amount: https://donate.focusonthefamily.com/don-fofm-podcast-2021-09-21?refcd=1143801Get more episode resources: https://www.focusonthefamily.com/episodes/focus-on-marriage-podcast/overcoming-tension-in-the-early-years/#featured-resource-ctaIf you've listened to any of our podcasts, please give us your feedback: https://focusonthefamily.com/podcastsurvey/

When it seems hopeless, Jesus will still meet you where you are. Your marriage might be struggling today, but God can do a miracle in your relationship. John and the Smalleys share how they've seen God restore broken marriages. Find us online at focusonthefamily.com/marriagepodcast, or call 1-800-A-FAMILY.Get Vicki Rose's book "Every Reason to Leave (& Why We Chose to Stay Together)" for your donation of any amount: https://donate.focusonthefamily.com/don-fofm-podcast-2021-08-17?refcd=1142606Get more episode resources: https://www.focusonthefamily.com/episodes/focus-on-marriage-podcast/when-jesus-saved-her-marriage/#featured-resource-ctaIf you've listened to any of our podcasts, please give us your feedback: https://focusonthefamily.com/podcastsurvey/

Many marriages go through a dark season. If you're feeling discouraged today and wondering whether you and your spouse are going to make it, you've come to the right place for hope. Hear John, Erin and Greg explain how it's never too late for God to heal your broken marriage. Find us online at focusonthefamily.com/marriagepodcast, or call 1-800-A-FAMILY.Get Vicki Rose's book "Every Reason to Leave (& Why We Chose to Stay Together)" for your donation of any amount: https://donate.focusonthefamily.com/don-fofm-podcast-2021-08-17?refcd=1142606Get more episode resources: https://www.focusonthefamily.com/episodes/focus-on-marriage-podcast/god-can-redeem-any-marriage/#featured-resource-ctaIf you've listened to any of our podcasts, please give us your feedback: https://focusonthefamily.com/podcastsurvey/

When we get angry at our family, there's typically a deeper reason why. It might even be rooted in unrealistic expectations. Erin, Greg and John discuss how to have healthy expectations for busy seasons, and ways to show your spouse grace when he or she gets upset. Find us online at focusonthefamily.com/marriagepodcast, or call 1-800-A-FAMILY.Get the book "Reconnected: Moving From Roommates to Soulmates in Your Marriage" for your donation of any amount: https://donate.focusonthefamily.com/don-fofm-podcast-2021-08-10?refcd=1137202Get more episode resources: https://www.focusonthefamily.com/episodes/focus-on-marriage-podcast/healthy-expectations-for-busy-seasons/#featured-resource-ctaIf you've listened to any of our podcasts, please give us your feedback: https://focusonthefamily.com/podcastsurvey/

Like music needs a metronome to sound good, your marriage needs a rhythm to help you stay connected. But is that possible when your schedule feels overloaded? John, Erin and Greg discuss ways to make time for your spouse, even with a crowded schedule. Find us online at focusonthefamily.com/marriagepodcast, or call 1-800-A-FAMILY.Get the book "Reconnected: Moving From Roommates to Soulmates in Your Marriage" for your donation of any amount: https://donate.focusonthefamily.com/don-fofm-podcast-2021-08-10?refcd=1137202Get more episode resources: https://www.focusonthefamily.com/episodes/focus-on-marriage-podcast/listen-to-the-metronome/#featured-resource-ctaIf you've listened to any of our podcasts, please give us your feedback: https://focusonthefamily.com/podcastsurvey/

Do you remember what it was like when you and your spouse first fell in love? The attraction was so strong. As time goes on, that same attraction can start to fade if you're not careful. John, Greg and Erin provide some helpful thoughts on how to not lose curiosity in your spouse. Featuring Dr. Marcus Warner and Pastor Chris Coursey. Find us online at focusonthefamily.com/marriagepodcast, or call 1-800-A-FAMILY.Get the book "The 4 Habits of Joy-Filled Marriages" for your donation of any amount: https://donate.focusonthefamily.com/don-fofm-podcast-2021-08-31?refcd=1134502Get more episode resources: https://www.focusonthefamily.com/episodes/focus-on-marriage-podcast/brain-magnets-and-joy-buckets/#featured-resource-ctaIf you've listened to any of our podcasts, please give us your feedback: https://focusonthefamily.com/podcastsurvey/

Just like a garden needs water, your marriage needs simple acts of love in order to thrive. John, Erin and Greg explain how they've seen little things help their marriages. They'll also offer some encouragement to couples who are struggling to love each other. Featuring Dr. Marcus Warner and Pastor Chris Coursey. Find us online at focusonthefamily.com/marriagepodcast, or call 1-800-A-FAMILY.Get the book "The 4 Habits of Joy-Filled Marriages" for your donation of any amount: https://donate.focusonthefamily.com/don-fofm-podcast-2021-08-31?refcd=1134502Get more episode resources: https://www.focusonthefamily.com/episodes/focus-on-marriage-podcast/marriage-is-like-maintaining-a-garden/#featured-resource-ctaIf you've listened to any of our podcasts, please give us your feedback: https://focusonthefamily.com/podcastsurvey/

Telling jokes can be a great way to liven up your marriage. But, a good punch line should never come at your spouse's expense. Greg, Erin and John explain why sarcasm can be toxic for your marriage. Featuring Matt and Lisa Jacobson. Find us online at focusonthefamily.com/marriagepodcast, or call 1-800-A-FAMILY.Get our "100 Ways to Love" book bundle for your donation of any amount: https://donate.focusonthefamily.com/don-fofm-podcast-2021-07-01?refcd=1132501Get more episode resources: https://www.focusonthefamily.com/episodes/focus-on-marriage-podcast/stop-the-sarcasm/#featured-resource-ctaIf you've listened to any of our podcasts, please give us your feedback: https://focusonthefamily.com/podcastsurvey/

While doing things to help your spouse is wonderful, activities should never replace the joy of being together. Greg, Erin and John discuss how they've learned the importance of spending time with their spouses. Featuring Matt and Lisa Jacobson. Find us online at focusonthefamily.com/marriagepodcast, or call 1-800-A-FAMILY.Get our "100 Ways to Love" book bundle for your donation of any amount: https://donate.focusonthefamily.com/don-fofm-podcast-2021-07-01?refcd=1132501Get more episode resources: https://www.focusonthefamily.com/episodes/focus-on-marriage-podcast/when-super-husband-isnt-enough/#featured-resource-ctaIf you've listened to any of our podcasts, please give us your feedback: https://focusonthefamily.com/podcastsurvey/

When you and your spouse were dating, what did you expect marriage to be like? The truth is, many of us go into a lifelong commitment with over-the-top expectations. John, Greg and Erin share examples from their own lives, and give tips for how to let go of unrealistic expectations as a newlywed. Featuring Bill and Vicki Rose. Find us online at focusonthefamily.com/marriagepodcast, or call 1-800-A-FAMILY.Receive Vicki Rose's book "Every Reason to Believe" for your donation of any amount: https://donate.focusonthefamily.com/don-fofm-podcast-2021-08-17?refcd=1127103Get more episode resources: https://www.focusonthefamily.com/episodes/focus-on-marriage-podcast/all-my-expectations/#featured-resource-ctaIf you've listened to any of our podcasts, please give us your feedback: https://focusonthefamily.com/podcastsurvey/

When you get married, it's easy to believe that marriage will solve your problems. However, such an unrealistic expectation can do great harm to your relationship. John, Greg, and Erin discuss what it means to have healthier expectations for marriage. Featuring Bill and Vicki Rose. Find us online at focusonthefamily.com/marriagepodcast, or call 1-800-A-FAMILY.Receive Vicki Rose's book "Every Reason to Believe" for your donation of any amount: https://donate.focusonthefamily.com/don-fofm-podcast-2021-08-17?refcd=1127103Get more episode resources: https://www.focusonthefamily.com/episodes/focus-on-marriage-podcast/when-the-pressure-is-too-much/#featured-resource-ctaIf you've listened to any of our podcasts, please give us your feedback: https://focusonthefamily.com/podcastsurvey/

The truth is, small things can have a very big impact on your marriage. But as the little things add up, it can be hard to make time for each other. John, Greg, and Erin provide some helpful tips to couples who feel overwhelmed by their busy schedules. Find us online at focusonthefamily.com/marriagepodcast, or call 1-800-A-FAMILY.Get the book "Reconnected: Moving From Roommates to Soulmates in Your Marriage" for your donation of any amount: https://donate.focusonthefamily.com/don-fofm-podcast-2021-08-10?refcd=1123702Get more episode resources: https://www.focusonthefamily.com/episodes/focus-on-marriage-podcast/catch-the-little-foxes/#featured-resource-ctaIf you've listened to any of our podcasts, please give us your feedback: https://focusonthefamily.com/podcastsurvey/

When you and your spouse were dating, you probably found each others' quirks to be funny. However, those same things you once thought of as cute can turn into little annoyances. John, Erin and Greg give some hope to couples who feel annoyed with each other.Find us online at focusonthefamily.com/marriagepodcast, or call 1-800-A-FAMILY.Get the book "Reconnected: Moving From Roommates to Soulmates in Your Marriage" for your donation of any amount: https://donate.focusonthefamily.com/don-fofm-podcast-2021-08-10?refcd=1123702Get more episode resources: https://www.focusonthefamily.com/episodes/focus-on-marriage-podcast/more-than-just-roommates/#featured-resource-ctaIf you've listened to any of our podcasts, please give us your feedback: https://focusonthefamily.com/podcastsurvey/

For a lot of couples, talking about sex can feel awkward and uncomfortable. But it doesn't have to be that way. John, Erin and Greg offer encouragement to couples who've lost their passion for intimacy. Featuring Pastor Levi Lusko, Jennie Lusko and Jean Daly.Get the book "Crazy Little Thing Called Marriage" for your donation of any amount: https://donate.focusonthefamily.com/don-fofm-podcast-2021-07-06?refcd=1122904Get more episode resources: https://www.focusonthefamily.com/episodes/focus-on-marriage-podcast/regaining-passion-in-your-marriage/#featured-resource-ctaIf you've listened to any of our podcasts, please give us your feedback: https://focusonthefamily.com/podcastsurvey/

Submission is a biblical principle that will help your marriage. But what does it look like to practice it? John talks with Greg about what submission is not, and Erin discusses the power of an encouraging wife. Featuring Pastor Levi Lusko, Jennie Lusko and Jean Daly.Get the book "Crazy Little Thing Called Marriage" for your donation of any amount: https://donate.focusonthefamily.com/don-fofm-podcast-2021-07-06?refcd=1122904Get more episode resources: https://www.focusonthefamily.com/episodes/focus-on-marriage-podcast/lets-talk-about-submission/#featured-resource-ctaIf you've listened to any of our podcasts, please give us your feedback: https://focusonthefamily.com/podcastsurvey/

A small note, a gentle hug, a tender kiss. These things can add so much to your marriage. But what do you do when you don't feel like being affectionate? John Fuller and Erin Smalley remind us that we can still choose to be romantic with our mate, even when we don't feel like it. Featuring Matt and Lisa Jacobson.Find us online at focusonthefamily.com/marriagepodcast, or call 1-800-A-FAMILY.Get the "100 Ways to Love" book bundle for your donation of any amount: https://donate.focusonthefamily.com/don-fofm-podcast-2021-07-01?refcd=1119502Get more episode resources: https://www.focusonthefamily.com/episodes/focus-on-marriage-podcast/the-gift-of-affection/#featured-resource-ctaIf you've listened to any of our podcasts, please give us your feedback: https://focusonthefamily.com/podcastsurvey/

Sometimes, a small act of love from your spouse can go a long way to brighten your day. But if we're honest, it's easy to neglect showing affection to your mate when life gets busy. John Fuller and Erin Smalley remind us why we shouldn't stop appreciating our spouse. Featuring Matt and Lisa Jacobson.Find us online at focusonthefamily.com/marriagepodcast, or call 1-800-A-FAMILY.Get the "100 Ways to Love" book bundle for your donation of any amount: https://donate.focusonthefamily.com/don-fofm-podcast-2021-07-01?refcd=1119502Get more episode resources: https://www.focusonthefamily.com/episodes/focus-on-marriage-podcast/small-actions-that-show-you-care/#featured-resource-ctaIf you've listened to any of our podcasts, please give us your feedback: https://focusonthefamily.com/podcastsurvey/