Focus on the Family Strengthening Marriage Podcast

If your vehicle had a problem, sometimes, looking in the owner's manual can help you fix it. In the same way, when your marriage faces a challenge, going to Scripture can point you to a solution. John and Greg share some practical ways to focus your relationship on Christ. Featuring Jeff and Cheryl Scruggs.Find us online at focusonthefamily.com/marriagepodcast or call 1-800-A-FAMILY.Receive the book "I Do Again" for your donation of any amount: https://donate.focusonthefamily.com/don-fofm-podcast-2022-03-08?refcd=1411201Get more episode resources: https://www.focusonthefamily.com/episodes/focus-on-marriage-podcast/doing-it-gods-way/#featured-resource-ctaListen Anytime: https://store.focusonthefamily.com/hope-for-every-marriage-digital-product/?refcd=1411201If you've listened to any of our podcasts, please give us your feedback: https://focusonthefamily.com/podcastsurvey/

Even when things seem difficult in your marriage, it's never too late for God to do a miracle. John and Greg discuss how seeking the Lord can make a big difference in your relationship. Featuring Jeff Scruggs.Find us online at focusonthefamily.com/marriagepodcast or call 1-800-A-FAMILY.Receive the book "I Do Again" for your donation of any amount: https://donate.focusonthefamily.com/don-fofm-podcast-2022-03-08?refcd=1411201Get more episode resources: https://www.focusonthefamily.com/episodes/focus-on-marriage-podcast/when-god-changes-a-husbands-heart/#featured-resource-ctaListen Anytime: https://store.focusonthefamily.com/hope-for-every-marriage-digital-product/?refcd=1411201If you've listened to any of our podcasts, please give us your feedback: https://focusonthefamily.com/podcastsurvey/

Is it possible to know whether someone would be a good teammate and show you kindness even before marriage? John and Greg discuss how to show someone grace during the dating phase of a relationship, even when he or she makes a mistake. Featuring Bill and Pam Farrel.Find us online at focusonthefamily.com/marriagepodcast or call 1-800-A-FAMILYReceive Bill and Pam Farrel's book "The First Five Years: Make the Love Investment That Lasts a Lifetime " for your donation of any amount: https://donate.focusonthefamily.com/don-fofm-podcast-2022-03-01?refcd=1411102Get more episode resources: https://www.focusonthefamily.com/episodes/focus-on-marriage-podcast/learning-to-become-a-team/#featured-resource-ctaListen Anytime: https://store.focusonthefamily.com/thriving-in-the-early-years-of-marriage-digital-product?refcd=1411102If you've listened to any of our podcasts, please give us your feedback: https://focusonthefamily.com/podcastsurvey/

Real change in marriage occurs when we stop fixating on everything our spouse needs to change. It takes true character to focus on what you need to work on. John and Greg discuss this important topic for couples who are dating and considering marriage. Featuring Bill and Pam Farrel.Find us online at focusonthefamily.com/marriagepodcast or call 1-800-A-FAMILYReceive Bill and Pam Farrel's book "The First Five Years: Make the Love Investment That Lasts a Lifetime " for your donation of any amount: https://donate.focusonthefamily.com/don-fofm-podcast-2022-03-01?refcd=1411102Get more episode resources: https://www.focusonthefamily.com/episodes/focus-on-marriage-podcast/working-on-you-before-your-spouse/#featured-resource-ctaListen Anytime: https://store.focusonthefamily.com/thriving-in-the-early-years-of-marriage-digital-product?refcd=1411102If you've listened to any of our podcasts, please give us your feedback: https://focusonthefamily.com/podcastsurvey/

What do you do when you and your spouse are constantly getting on each other's nerves? It may be that you're facing a spiritual attack. John, Erin and Greg share how they've found hope when facing spiritual warfare in their marriages. Featuring Dr. Tim and Noreen Muehlhoff.Find us online at focusonthefamily.com/marriagepodcast or call 1-800-A-FAMILY.Receive Tim's book "Defending Your Marriage" for your donation of any amount: https://donate.focusonthefamily.com/don-fofm-podcast-2022-03-29?refcd=1349006Get more episode resources: https://www.focusonthefamily.com/episodes/focus-on-marriage-podcast/5-signs-of-spiritual-attack/#featured-resource-ctaListen Anytime: https://store.focusonthefamily.com/the-spiritual-battle-for-your-marriage-digital/?refcd=1349006If you've listened to any of our podcasts, please give us your feedback: https://focusonthefamily.com/podcastsurvey/

Small problems that aren't talked about in your marriage can turn into big issues later on, John, Greg and Erin discuss why it's important to talk things out with your spouse whenever there is tension in your relationship. Featuring Dr. Tim and Noreen Muehlhoff.Find us online at focusonthefamily.com/marriagepodcast or call 1-800-A-FAMILY.Receive Tim's book "Defending Your Marriage" for your donation of any amount: https://donate.focusonthefamily.com/don-fofm-podcast-2022-03-29?refcd=1349006Get more episode resources: https://www.focusonthefamily.com/episodes/focus-on-marriage-podcast/deal-with-the-little-irritations/#featured-resource-ctaListen Anytime: https://store.focusonthefamily.com/the-spiritual-battle-for-your-marriage-digital/?refcd=1349006If you've listened to any of our podcasts, please give us your feedback: https://focusonthefamily.com/podcastsurvey/

When you and your spouse are in a stressful season, the chances of one of you struggling with depression are much higher than normal. How do you navigate through that type of situation? John, Erin and Greg share why it's worth fighting for your marriage when one of you is struggling with depression.Find us online at focusonthefamily.com/marriagepodcast or call 1-800-A-FAMILY.Receive the Smalley's book "Reconnected: Moving from Roommates to Soulmates in Your Marriage" for your donation of any amount: https://donate.focusonthefamily.com/don-fofm-podcast-2022-03-22?refcd=1346703Get more episode resources: https://www.focusonthefamily.com/episodes/focus-on-marriage-podcast/when-your-spouse-is-depressed/#featured-resource-ctaListen Anytime: https://store.focusonthefamily.com/sharing-the-load-with-your-spouse-digital-download/?refcd=1346703If you've listened to any of our podcasts, please give us your feedback: https://focusonthefamily.com/podcastsurvey/

Every couple, no matter how good their marriage is, has an area in the relationship where they feel lonely. To offer a word of encouragement, John, Greg and Erin discuss how seasons of loneliness will change, and why you can grow through them.Find us online at focusonthefamily.com/marriagepodcast or call 1-800-A-FAMILY.Receive the Smalley's book "Reconnected: Moving from Roommates to Soulmates in Your Marriage" for your donation of any amount: https://donate.focusonthefamily.com/don-fofm-podcast-2022-03-22?refcd=1346703Get more episode resources: https://www.focusonthefamily.com/episodes/focus-on-marriage-podcast/where-you-feel-lonely/#featured-resource-ctaListen Anytime: https://store.focusonthefamily.com/sharing-the-load-with-your-spouse-digital-download/?refcd=1346703If you've listened to any of our podcasts, please give us your feedback: https://focusonthefamily.com/podcastsurvey/

When you first got married, you hoped it would last for a lifetime. Sadly, many couples who say their vows are choosing to get a divorce. John, Erin and Greg offer encouragement to couples who are questioning if they will make it. Featuring Jeff and Cheryl Scruggs.Find us online at focusonthefamily.com/marriagepodcast or call 1-800-A-FAMILY.Receive the book "I Do Again" for your donation of any amount: https://donate.focusonthefamily.com/don-fofm-podcast-2022-03-08?refcd=1342801Get more episode resources: https://www.focusonthefamily.com/episodes/focus-on-marriage-podcast/why-divorce-isnt-the-answer/#featured-resource-ctaListen Anytime: https://store.focusonthefamily.com/hope-for-every-marriage-digital-product/?refcd=1342801If you've listened to any of our podcasts, please give us your feedback: https://focusonthefamily.com/podcastsurvey/

While romantic music and movies can make us feel good, they sometimes paint an unrealistic picture of what marriage is really like. John, Erin and Greg discuss how to stop feeding unrealistic expectations about your marriage. Featuring Jeff and Cheryl Scruggs.Find us online at focusonthefamily.com/marriagepodcast or call 1-800-A-FAMILY.Receive the book "I Do Again" for your donation of any amount: https://donate.focusonthefamily.com/don-fofm-podcast-2022-03-08?refcd=1342801Get more episode resources: https://www.focusonthefamily.com/episodes/focus-on-marriage-podcast/where-unhealthy-expectations-are-born/#featured-resource-ctaListen Anytime: https://store.focusonthefamily.com/hope-for-every-marriage-digital-product/?refcd=1342801If you've listened to any of our podcasts, please give us your feedback: https://focusonthefamily.com/podcastsurvey/

Whether he verbalizes it or not, your husband wants to feel validated. A little bit of encouragement can go a long way in your relationship. John, Erin and Greg share how wives can encourage their husbands. Featuring Bill and Pam Farrel.Find us online at focusonthefamily.com/marriagepodcast or call 1-800-A-FAMILYReceive Bill and Pam Farrel's book "The First Five Years: Make the Love Investment That Lasts a Lifetime " for your donation of any amount: https://donate.focusonthefamily.com/don-fofm-podcast-2022-03-01?refcd=1339902Get more episode resources: https://www.focusonthefamily.com/episodes/focus-on-marriage-podcast/making-your-husband-feel-appreciated/#featured-resource-ctaListen Anytime: https://store.focusonthefamily.com/thriving-in-the-early-years-of-marriage-digital-product?refcd=1339902If you've listened to any of our podcasts, please give us your feedback: https://focusonthefamily.com/podcastsurvey/

Many times, a wife just wants her husband to listen when she needs to talk. John, Greg and Erin discuss how a husband can be a good listener, even he doesn't feel like being one. Featuring Bill and Pam Farrel.Find us online at focusonthefamily.com/marriagepodcast or call 1-800-A-FAMILYReceive Bill and Pam Farrel's book "The First Five Years: Make the Love Investment That Lasts a Lifetime " for your donation of any amount: https://donate.focusonthefamily.com/don-fofm-podcast-2022-03-01?refcd=1339902Get more episode resources: https://www.focusonthefamily.com/episodes/focus-on-marriage-podcast/wives-want-a-selfless-listener/#featured-resource-ctaListen Anytime: https://store.focusonthefamily.com/thriving-in-the-early-years-of-marriage-digital-product?refcd=1339902If you've listened to any of our podcasts, please give us your feedback: https://focusonthefamily.com/podcastsurvey/

Temptation is sometimes a very subtle thing, but not dealing with it can cause a lot of problems in your marriage. John, Erin and Greg share some ways to protect your relationship when you feel tempted in certain areas. Featuring Tim and Noreen Muehlhoff.Find us online at focusonthefamily.com/marriagepodcast or call 1-800-A-FAMILY.Receive Tim's book "Defending Your Marriage" for your donation of any amount: https://donate.focusonthefamily.com/don-fofm-podcast-2022-03-29?refcd=1335908Get more episode resources: https://www.focusonthefamily.com/episodes/focus-on-marriage-podcast/subtle-temptation/#featured-resource-ctaListen Anytime: https://store.focusonthefamily.com/the-spiritual-battle-for-your-marriage-digital/?refcd=1335908If you've listened to any of our podcasts, please give us your feedback: https://focusonthefamily.com/podcastsurvey/

The fact is, spiritual warfare is part of marriage. The key to victory is in relying on God's strength and not on your own. John, Erin and Greg provide hope for couples facing spiritual warfare.Find us online at focusonthefamily.com/marriagepodcast or call 1-800-A-FAMILY.Receive Tim's book "Defending Your Marriage" for your donation of any amount: https://donate.focusonthefamily.com/don-fofm-podcast-2022-03-29?refcd=1335908Get more episode resources: https://www.focusonthefamily.com/episodes/focus-on-marriage-podcast/recognizing-spiritual-warfare/#featured-resource-ctaListen Anytime: https://store.focusonthefamily.com/the-spiritual-battle-for-your-marriage-digital/?refcd=1335908If you've listened to any of our podcasts, please give us your feedback: https://focusonthefamily.com/podcastsurvey/

When you don't feel as close to your spouse as you'd like, how do you reconnect? While some seasons are busier than others, feeling disconnected long-term is not healthy. John, Greg and Erin discuss how listening to each other can help rekindle your relationship.Find us online at focusonthefamily.com/marriagepodcast or call 1-800-A-FAMILY.Receive the Smalley's book "Reconnected: Moving from Roommates to Soulmates in Your Marriage" for your donation of any amount: https://donate.focusonthefamily.com/don-fofm-podcast-2022-03-22?refcd=1332104Get more episode resources: https://www.focusonthefamily.com/episodes/focus-on-marriage-podcast/ending-isolation-in-your-marriage/#featured-resource-ctaListen Anytime: https://store.focusonthefamily.com/sharing-the-load-with-your-spouse-digital-download/?refcd=1332104If you've listened to any of our podcasts, please give us your feedback: https://focusonthefamily.com/podcastsurvey/

In marriage, it's sometimes easy to get caught up in your activities. However, focusing too much on what needs to be done can leave you feeling alone and isolated. John, Greg and Erin discuss creative ways couples can help each other.Find us online at focusonthefamily.com/marriagepodcast or call 1-800-A-FAMILY.Receive the Smalley's book "Reconnected: Moving from Roommates to Soulmates in Your Marriage" for your donation of any amount: https://donate.focusonthefamily.com/don-fofm-podcast-2022-03-22?refcd=1332104Get more episode resources: https://www.focusonthefamily.com/episodes/focus-on-marriage-podcast/sharing-your-spouses-burden/#featured-resource-ctaListen Anytime: https://store.focusonthefamily.com/sharing-the-load-with-your-spouse-digital-download/?refcd=1332104If you've listened to any of our podcasts, please give us your feedback: https://focusonthefamily.com/podcastsurvey/

Even when your marriage hits rock bottom, God will never leave you. John, Greg and Erin provide encouragement to couples who feel like there is no hope for their relationship. Featuring David and Kirsten Samuel.Find us online at focusonthefamily.com/marriagepodcast or call 1-800-A-FAMILY.Receive Kirsten Samuel's book "Choosing a Way Out" for your donation of any amount: https://donate.focusonthefamily.com/don-fofm-podcast-2021-11-23?refcd=1328305Get more episode resources: https://www.focusonthefamily.com/episodes/focus-on-marriage-podcast/where-is-god-when-your-marriage-hits-the-bottom/#featured-resource-ctaListen Anytime: https://store.focusonthefamily.com/loving-your-spouse-through-the-seasons-of-marriage-digital?refcd=1314706If you've listened to any of our podcasts, please give us your feedback: https://focusonthefamily.com/podcastsurvey/

When your mate has suffered past abuse, it might take years or even decades for him or her to heal. The process can be very difficult and full of twists and turns. John, Greg and Erin share how to walk with your spouse, even when he or she is recovering from a traumatic experience. Featuring David and Kirsten Samuel.Find us online at focusonthefamily.com/marriagepodcast or call 1-800-A-FAMILY.Receive Kirsten Samuel's book "Choosing a Way Out" for your donation of any amount: https://donate.focusonthefamily.com/don-fofm-podcast-2021-11-23?refcd=1328305Get more episode resources: https://www.focusonthefamily.com/episodes/focus-on-marriage-podcast/hope-for-the-emotionally-broken/#featured-resource-ctaListen Anytime: https://store.focusonthefamily.com/loving-your-spouse-through-the-seasons-of-marriage-digital?refcd=1314706If you've listened to any of our podcasts, please give us your feedback: https://focusonthefamily.com/podcastsurvey/

When a person chooses to cheat on his or her spouse, it will have devastating consequences on the marriage. John, Greg and Erin will address this heavy topic and provide hope to those who have been betrayed by a spouse. Featuring Jeff and Cheryl Scruggs.Find us online at focusonthefamily.com/marriagepodcast or call 1-800-A-FAMILYReceive the Scruggs' book "I Do Again" for your donation of any amount: https://donate.focusonthefamily.com/don-fofm-podcast-2022-03-08?refcd=1324303Get more episode resources: https://www.focusonthefamily.com/episodes/focus-on-marriage-podcast/symptoms-of-an-affair/#featured-resource-ctaListen Anytime: https://store.focusonthefamily.com/hope-for-every-marriage-digital-product/?refcd=1324303If you've listened to any of our podcasts, please give us your feedback: https://focusonthefamily.com/podcastsurvey/

Sometimes, it can look like you have a good marriage on the surface. But underneath, something is harming the foundation of your relationship. In those moments, what do you do? John, Erin and Greg discuss how to find a safe friend to talk to when your marriage is in trouble. Featuring Jeff and Cheryl Scruggs.Find us online at focusonthefamily.com/marriagepodcast or call 1-800-A-FAMILYReceive the Scruggs' book "I Do Again" for your donation of any amount: https://donate.focusonthefamily.com/don-fofm-podcast-2022-03-08?refcd=1324303Get more episode resources: https://www.focusonthefamily.com/episodes/focus-on-marriage-podcast/when-it-seems-good-but-it-isnt/#featured-resource-ctaListen Anytime: https://store.focusonthefamily.com/hope-for-every-marriage-digital-product/?refcd=1324303If you've listened to any of our podcasts, please give us your feedback: https://focusonthefamily.com/podcastsurvey/

One of the biggest adjustments young couples have to make is in prioritizing your spouse over your family of origin. Sometimes, it's not as easy as you might think. John, Erin and Greg discuss how to respond when your spouse has attachment issues with his or her family. Featuring Mr. Bill and Mrs. Pam Farrel.Find us online at focusonthefamily.com/marriagepodcast or call 1-800-A-FAMILYGet Bill and Pam Farrel's book "The First Five Years" for your donation of any amount: https://donate.focusonthefamily.com/don-fofm-podcast-2022-03-01?refcd=1324803Get more episode resources: https://www.focusonthefamily.com/episodes/focus-on-marriage-podcast/establishing-new-family-rhythms/#featured-resource-ctaListen Anytime: https://store.focusonthefamily.com/thriving-in-the-early-years-of-marriage-digital-product?refcd=1324803If you've listened to any of our podcasts, please give us your feedback: https://focusonthefamily.com/podcastsurvey/

Starting your marriage off well won't happen by accident. To have a thriving relationship, it's important to develop good habits early on. To help couples start well, John, Greg and Erin weigh in with some practical ideas for focusing on the best aspects of your spouse. Featuring Bill and Pam Farrel.Find us online at focusonthefamily.com/marriagepodcast or call 1-800-A-FAMILYGet Bill and Pam Farrel's book "The First Five Years" for your donation of any amount: https://donate.focusonthefamily.com/don-fofm-podcast-2022-03-01?refcd=1324803Get more episode resources: https://www.focusonthefamily.com/episodes/focus-on-marriage-podcast/focusing-on-the-good-in-the-early-years/#featured-resource-ctaListen Anytime: https://store.focusonthefamily.com/thriving-in-the-early-years-of-marriage-digital-product?refcd=1324803If you've listened to any of our podcasts, please give us your feedback: https://focusonthefamily.com/podcastsurvey/

No marriage is perfect, but as Christians, it's important for our marriages to reflect the heart of Christ. Sometimes, that will mean asking a friend for help when we need it. Greg and Erin share with John about how another couple helped them in the early years of their marriage. Featuring Debra Fileta.Find us online at focusonthefamily.com/marriagepodcast or call 1-800-A-FAMILYReceive Debra Fileta's book "Love in Every Season" for your donation of any amount: https://donate.focusonthefamily.com/don-fofm-podcast-2021-10-26?refcd=1317603Get more episode resources: https://www.focusonthefamily.com/episodes/focus-on-marriage-podcast/why-a-christian-marriage-should-stand-out/#featured-resource-ctaIf you've listened to any of our podcasts, please give us your feedback: https://focusonthefamily.com/podcastsurvey/

When the winter season comes, it's important to be prepared in order to stay warm. The same is true for when your marriage goes through a chilly season. Being prepared makes a huge difference. John, Erin and Greg share how to love your spouse even when your marriage faces a winter season. Featuring Debra Fileta.Find us online at focusonthefamily.com/marriagepodcast or call 1-800-A-FAMILYReceive Debra Fileta's book "Love in Every Season" for your donation of any amount: https://donate.focusonthefamily.com/don-fofm-podcast-2021-10-26?refcd=1317603Get more episode resources: https://www.focusonthefamily.com/episodes/focus-on-marriage-podcast/getting-help-in-winter/#featured-resource-ctaIf you've listened to any of our podcasts, please give us your feedback: https://focusonthefamily.com/podcastsurvey/

Destructive addictions usually start with small compromises. The same is true with a pornography problem. John, Greg and Erin discuss some helpful first steps a married man can take if he's struggling with pornography. Featuring Mr. David Samuel.Find us online at focusonthefamily.com/marriagepodcast or call 1-800-A-FAMILY.Receive Kirsten Samuel's book "Choosing a Way Out" for your donation of any amount: https://donate.focusonthefamily.com/don-fofm-podcast-2021-11-23?refcd=1314706Get more episode resources: https://www.focusonthefamily.com/episodes/focus-on-marriage-podcast/the-roots-of-an-addiction/#featured-resource-ctaIf you've listened to any of our podcasts, please give us your feedback: https://focusonthefamily.com/podcastsurvey/

When you've been hurt by your spouse, it's easy to be blind to your own sins and shortcomings. But what do you do when you find out your spouse is addicted to pornography? John, Erin and Greg address how pornography addiction is a growing problem in many marriages, and offer some hope to those who are struggling. Featuring David and Kristen Samuel. Find us online at focusonthefamily.com/marriagepodcast or call 1-800-A-FAMILY.Receive Kirsten Samuel's book "Choosing a Way Out" for your donation of any amount: https://donate.focusonthefamily.com/don-fofm-podcast-2021-11-23?refcd=1314706Get more episode resources: https://www.focusonthefamily.com/episodes/focus-on-marriage-podcast/owning-your-sin-too/#featured-resource-ctaIf you've listened to any of our podcasts, please give us your feedback: https://focusonthefamily.com/podcastsurvey/

In marriage, learning to bring up certain discussions at the right time with your spouse is very important. John, Greg and Erin share some helpful tips on when and when not to have more difficult conversations with your mate. Featuring Rob and Gina Flood.Find us online at focusonthefamily.com/marriagepodcast or call 1-800-A-FAMILYGet Rob Flood's book "With These Words" for your donation of any amount: https://donate.focusonthefamily.com/don-fofm-podcast-2022-01-11?refcd=1314001Get more episode resources: https://www.focusonthefamily.com/episodes/focus-on-marriage-podcast/when-and-when-not-to-talk/#featured-resource-ctaIf you've listened to any of our podcasts, please give us your feedback: https://focusonthefamily.com/podcastsurvey/

Have you ever heard your mate say something, only to ask her about it later and she says, "What? That's not what I meant!" Sometimes, what we mean to say and what our spouse hears can be two completely different things. John, Greg and Erin share a powerful tool to help improve your marriage communication. Featuring Rob and Gina Flood.Find us online at focusonthefamily.com/marriagepodcast or call 1-800-A-FAMILYGet Rob Flood's book "With These Words" for your donation of any amount: https://donate.focusonthefamily.com/don-fofm-podcast-2022-01-11?refcd=1314001 https://www.focusonthefamily.com/episodes/focus-on-marriage-podcast/honey-what-did-you-mean-by/#featured-resource-ctaIf you've listened to any of our podcasts, please give us your feedback: https://focusonthefamily.com/podcastsurvey/

When your marriage faces a crisis, two of the most important things you need are supportive friends and to choose forgiveness. But what about when you don't feel like forgiving? John talks with Erin and Greg about how forgiveness is a process and not a one time decision. Featuring Mr. Mark and Mrs. Jill Savage. Find us online at focusonthefamily.com/marriagepodcast or call 1-800-A-FAMILYReceive Jill Savage's book "Your Next Steps: What to Do When Your Spouse is Unfaithful" for your donation of any amount: https://donate.focusonthefamily.com/don-fofm-podcast-2021-10-12?refcd=1309303Get more episode resources: https://www.focusonthefamily.com/episodes/focus-on-marriage-podcast/accountability-and-forgiveness/#featured-resource-ctaIf you've listened to any of our podcasts, please give us your feedback: https://focusonthefamily.com/podcastsurvey/

Even if your spouse has betrayed you, God promises to still be with you. The Bible reminds us that He is close to those who are brokenhearted. If your marriage is in a dark place, we want to offer some hope. John, Greg and Erin discuss a few helpful tips for couples on how to get through a valley of deep hurts. Featuring Mark and Jill Savage.Find us online at focusonthefamily.com/marriagepodcast or call 1-800-A-FAMILYReceive Jill Savage's book "Your Next Steps: What to Do When Your Spouse is Unfaithful" for your donation of any amount: https://donate.focusonthefamily.com/don-fofm-podcast-2021-10-12?refcd=1309303Get more episode resources: https://www.focusonthefamily.com/episodes/focus-on-marriage-podcast/after-an-affair-is-confessed/#featured-resource-ctaIf you've listened to any of our podcasts, please give us your feedback: https://focusonthefamily.com/podcastsurvey/

Every season your marriage goes through has benefits to it. Even if it's a difficult time, your relationship can come out better on the other side. John, Greg and Erin share about the ways your marriage can grow in the winter season. Featuring Mrs. Debra Fileta.Find us online at focusonthefamily.com/marriagepodcast or call 1-800-A-FAMILYReceive Debra Fileta's book "Love in Every Season" for your donation of any amount: https://donate.focusonthefamily.com/don-fofm-podcast-2021-10-26?refcd=1307011Get more episode resources: https://www.focusonthefamily.com/episodes/focus-on-marriage-podcast/when-you-face-a-winter-season/#featured-resource-ctaIf you've listened to any of our podcasts, please give us your feedback: https://focusonthefamily.com/podcastsurvey/

How does the word "conflict," make you feel? Like it or not, it will be part of your marriage. The key is in how you deal with it when it comes. Greg, Erin and John discuss five styles of conflict and share which ones they identify with the most. Featuring Mrs. Debra Fileta.Find us online at focusonthefamily.com/marriagepodcast or call 1-800-A-FAMILYReceive Debra Fileta's book "Love in Every Season" for your donation of any amount: https://donate.focusonthefamily.com/don-fofm-podcast-2021-10-26?refcd=1307011Get more episode resources: https://www.focusonthefamily.com/episodes/focus-on-marriage-podcast/five-styles-of-conflict/#featured-resource-ctaIf you've listened to any of our podcasts, please give us your feedback: https://focusonthefamily.com/podcastsurvey/

When a wife finds out her husband is struggling with pornography, many times, she feels a sense of, "I'm not good enough." The sting of the betrayal can even trigger hurts from the past. In those situations, what do you do? Greg, Erin and John offer a dose of encouragement to marriages that've been hurt by pornography. Featuring David and Kirsten Samuel.Find us online at focusonthefamily.com/marriagepodcast or call 1-800-A-FAMILY.Receive Kirsten Samuel's book "Choosing a Way Out" for your donation of any amount: https://donate.focusonthefamily.com/don-fofm-podcast-2021-11-23?refcd=1304408Get more episode resources: https://www.focusonthefamily.com/episodes/focus-on-marriage-podcast/when-past-hurts-come-up/#featured-resource-ctaIf you've listened to any of our podcasts, please give us your feedback: https://focusonthefamily.com/podcastsurvey/

Pornography is a dangerous trap that sadly many people are caught in today. But instead of keeping it a secret, it must be brought into the light. John, Erin and Greg discuss how having trustworthy friends around you can help save your marriage from pornography. Featuring David and Kirsten Samuel.Find us online at focusonthefamily.com/marriagepodcast or call 1-800-A-FAMILY.Receive Kirsten Samuel's book "Choosing a Way Out" for your donation of any amount: https://donate.focusonthefamily.com/don-fofm-podcast-2021-11-23?refcd=1304408Get more episode resources: https://www.focusonthefamily.com/episodes/focus-on-marriage-podcast/finding-healing-from-sexual-brokenness/#featured-resource-ctaIf you've listened to any of our podcasts, please give us your feedback: https://focusonthefamily.com/podcastsurvey/

Getting to know your spouse can feel like driving down a road with unexpected turns. On the journey, there will be situations where you bump into conflict. John, Erin and Greg explain how having a relationship with God can help you during marriage conflict. Featuring Pastor Rob and Gina Flood.Find us online at focusonthefamily.com/marriagepodcast or call 1-800-A-FAMILYGet Rob Flood's book: "With These Words" for your donation of any amount: https://donate.focusonthefamily.com/don-fofm-podcast-2022-01-11?refcd=1299805Get more episode resources: https://www.focusonthefamily.com/episodes/focus-on-marriage-podcast/how-would-god-respond-to-marriage-conflict/#featured-resource-ctaIf you've listened to any of our podcasts, please give us your feedback: https://focusonthefamily.com/podcastsurvey/

When you're frustrated with your spouse, it's easy to say hurtful things. In fact, some couples have even said things like, "I married the wrong person!" John, Erin and Greg discuss how you can turn negative emotions around in your marriage, even when you're upset at your mate. Featuring Pastor Rob and Gina Flood.Find us online at focusonthefamily.com/marriagepodcast or call 1-800-A-FAMILYGet Rob Flood's book "With These Words" for your donation of any amount: https://donate.focusonthefamily.com/don-fofm-podcast-2022-01-11?refcd=1299805Get more episode resources: https://www.focusonthefamily.com/episodes/focus-on-marriage-podcast/i-married-the-wrong-person/#featured-resource-ctaIf you've listened to any of our podcasts, please give us your feedback: https://focusonthefamily.com/podcastsurvey/

When a marriage has been hurt by betrayal, the road of recovery takes time. It's not an easy journey, but healing is possible with God's help. John, Greg and Erin offer a healthy perspective for couples traveling the road to recovery. Featuring Mr. Mark and Mrs. Jill Savage.Find us online at focusonthefamily.com/marriagepodcast or call 1-800-A-FAMILY.Get Jill Savage's book "Your Next Steps: What To Do When Your Spouse Is Unfaithful" for your donation of any amount: https://donate.focusonthefamily.com/don-fofm-podcast-2021-10-12?refcd=1296705Get more episode resources: https://www.focusonthefamily.com/episodes/focus-on-marriage-podcast/the-roller-coaster-of-recovery/#featured-resource-ctaIf you've listened to any of our podcasts, please give us your feedback: https://focusonthefamily.com/podcastsurvey/

If your spouse has hurt you, it's easy to start playing the blame game. But doing so will only make things worse, not better. John, Erin and Greg discuss a step you can take toward healing in your marriage, even after being hurt by your spouse. Featuring Mr. Mark and Mrs. Jill Savage.Find us online at focusonthefamily.com/marriagepodcast or call 1-800-A-FAMILY.Get Jill Savage's book "Your Next Steps: What To Do When Your Spouse Is Unfaithful" for your donation of any amount: https://donate.focusonthefamily.com/don-fofm-podcast-2021-10-12?refcd=1296705Get more episode resources: https://www.focusonthefamily.com/episodes/focus-on-marriage-podcast/why-blaming-is-so-dangerous/#featured-resource-ctaIf you've listened to any of our podcasts, please give us your feedback: https://focusonthefamily.com/podcastsurvey/

Having financial goals as a couple can greatly bless your marriage. The key is to get on the same page as a team. John and Greg share how to work together as a team and find contentment in your financial situation as a couple. Featuring Mr. Chuck and Mrs. Ann Bentley.Find us online at focusonthefamily.com/marriagepodcast or call 1-800-A-FAMILY.Get Chuck and Ann Bentley's book "Money Problems, Marriage Solutions" for your donation of any amount: https://donate.focusonthefamily.com/don-fofm-podcast-2021-11-30?refcd=1292601Get more episode resources: https://www.focusonthefamily.com/episodes/focus-on-marriage-podcast/finding-true-peace-and-prosperity/#featured-resource-ctaIf you've listened to any of our podcasts, please give us your feedback: https://focusonthefamily.com/podcastsurvey/

There's a temptation to think you can change your spouse's bad habits. However, no matter how hard you try, true repentance is only possible with God's help. John talks with Erin and Greg about how to move on when your spouse repents from a bad habit. Featuring Chuck and Ann Bentley.Find us online at focusonthefamily.com/marriagepodcast or call 1-800-A-FAMILY.Get Chuck and Ann Bentley's book "Money Problems, Marriage Solutions" for your donation of any amount: https://donate.focusonthefamily.com/don-fofm-podcast-2021-11-30?refcd=1292601Get more episode resources: https://www.focusonthefamily.com/episodes/focus-on-marriage-podcast/when-your-spouse-repents/#featured-resource-ctaIf you've listened to any of our podcasts, please give us your feedback: https://focusonthefamily.com/podcastsurvey/

Conflict is part of marriage. But if you're willing to work through it, your relationship can become stronger even after a fight. John talks with Greg and Erin about how they paint a realistic picture of marital conflict when counseling an engaged couple. Featuring Mrs. Debra Fileta. Find us online at focusonthefamily.com/marriagepodcast or call 1-800-A-FAMILYGet Debra Fileta's book "Love in Every Season: Understanding the Four Stages of Every Healthy Relationship" for your donation of any amount: https://donate.focusonthefamily.com/don-fofm-podcast-2021-10-26?refcd=1289601Get more episode resources: https://www.focusonthefamily.com/episodes/focus-on-marriage-podcast/the-season-of-conflict/#featured-resource-ctaIf you've listened to any of our podcasts, please give us your feedback: https://focusonthefamily.com/podcastsurvey/

When you're engaged, it's easy to think you know your future spouse really well. However, getting to know someone takes time. John talks with Greg and Erin about how engaged couples can develop a healthy friendship before a wedding. Featuring Debra Fileta.Find us online at focusonthefamily.com/marriagepodcast or call 1-800-A-FAMILY.Get Debra Fileta's book "Love in Every Season: Understanding the Four Stages of Every Healthy Relationship" for your donation of any amount: https://donate.focusonthefamily.com/don-fofm-podcast-2021-10-26?refcd=1289601Get more episode resources: https://www.focusonthefamily.com/episodes/focus-on-marriage-podcast/spider-webs-glass-blowing-classes/#featured-resource-ctaIf you've listened to any of our podcasts, please give us your feedback: https://focusonthefamily.com/podcastsurvey/

There's an old saying about marriage, "you don't just marry your spouse, you marry the person's family." If we're honest, sometimes learning to get along with in-laws is a big adjustment. John, Erin and Greg share about staying committed while trying to get along with your spouse's family. Featuring Melanie Shankle.Find us online at focusonthefamily.com/marriagepodcast or call 1-800-A-FAMILY.Get Melanie Shankle's book "The Antelope in the Living Room: The Real Story of Two People Sharing One Life" for your donation of any amount: https://donate.focusonthefamily.com/don-fofm-podcast-2021-11-16?refcd=1286104Get more episode resources: https://www.focusonthefamily.com/episodes/focus-on-marriage-podcast/in-laws-and-staying-committed/#featured-resource-ctaIf you've listened to any of our podcasts, please give us your feedback: https://focusonthefamily.com/podcastsurvey/

As you get to know your spouse, you learn so many things about him or her. While learning new things can be funny, some situations can lead to tension. John, Erin and Greg discuss why loving your spouse is still a decision, even if you don't feel like doing it. Featuring Mrs. Melanie Shankle.Find us online at focusonthefamily.com/marriagepodcast or call 1-800-A-FAMILY.Get Melanie Shankle's book "The Antelope in the Living Room: The Real Story of Two People Sharing One Life" for your donation of any amount: https://donate.focusonthefamily.com/don-fofm-podcast-2021-11-16?refcd=1286104Get more episode resources: https://www.focusonthefamily.com/episodes/focus-on-marriage-podcast/choosing-love-even-when-you-dont-feel-it/#featured-resource-ctaIf you've listened to any of our podcasts, please give us your feedback: https://focusonthefamily.com/podcastsurvey/

When you've made several mistakes in your marriage, it can seem like things could never be restored. But even when you've turned away from doing things God's way, He's still willing to forgive and welcome you back home. John, Erin and Greg offer hope to couples who feel like their marriage is too far gone. Featuring Mark and Jill Savage.Find us online at focusonthefamily.com/marriagepodcast or call 1-800-A-FAMILY.Get Jill Savage's book "Your Next Steps: What To Do When Your Spouse Is Unfaithful" for your donation of any amount: https://donate.focusonthefamily.com/don-fofm-podcast-2021-10-12?refcd=1171608Get more episode resources: https://www.focusonthefamily.com/episodes/focus-on-marriage-podcast/when-god-reaches-us-in-our-mess/#featured-resource-ctaIf you've listened to any of our podcasts, please give us your feedback: https://focusonthefamily.com/podcastsurvey/

We've all known a couple who's thought, "Our marriage can't make it." If that's you, John, Greg and Erin will share how they've seen God restore broken marriages, and provide some tips for preventing an affair. Featuring Mark and Jill Savage.Find us online at focusonthefamily.com/marriagepodcast or call 1-800-A-FAMILY.Get Jill Savage's book "Your Next Steps: What To Do When Your Spouse Is Unfaithful" for your donation of any amount: https://donate.focusonthefamily.com/don-fofm-podcast-2021-10-12?refcd=1171608Get more episode resources: https://www.focusonthefamily.com/episodes/focus-on-marriage-podcast/when-god-showed-up-on-easter/#featured-resource-ctaIf you've listened to any of our podcasts, please give us your feedback: https://focusonthefamily.com/podcastsurvey/

What do you do when it feels like you and your spouse can't agree about money? John and Erin will share how to be patient when you and your mate are struggling to find financial unity. Featuring Chuck and Ann Bentley.Find us online at focusonthefamily.com/marriagepodcast or call 1-800-A-FAMILY.Get Chuck and Ann Bentley's book "Money Problems, Marriage Solutions" for your donation of any amount: https://donate.focusonthefamily.com/don-fofm-podcast-2021-11-30?refcd=1181701Get more episode resources: https://www.focusonthefamily.com/episodes/focus-on-marriage-podcast/changing-bad-money-habits/#featured-resource-ctaIf you've listened to any of our podcasts, please give us your feedback: https://focusonthefamily.com/podcastsurvey/

Money. It's one of the most common reasons couples fight. To help ease financial tension, John and Erin will share a helpful key for when you're frustrated with your spouse's financial choices. Featuring Mr. Chuck and Mrs. Ann Bentley.Find us online at focusonthefamily.com/marriagepodcast or call 1-800-A-FAMILY.Get Chuck and Ann Bentley's book "Money Problems, Marriage Solutions" for your donation of any amount: https://donate.focusonthefamily.com/don-fofm-podcast-2021-11-30?refcd=1181701Get more episode resources: https://www.focusonthefamily.com/episodes/focus-on-marriage-podcast/when-your-money-habits-clash/#featured-resource-ctaIf you've listened to any of our podcasts, please give us your feedback: https://focusonthefamily.com/podcastsurvey/

Sexual sin grows in the dark. But when you bring it into the light by confessing it, the healing process can start. John, Greg and Erin discuss how to find a trustworthy person to confess sin to. Featuring Mr. David and Mrs. Kirsten Samuel.Find us online at focusonthefamily.com/marriagepodcast or call 1-800-A-FAMILY.Get Kirsten Samuel's book "Choosing a Way Out" for your donation of any amount! https://donate.focusonthefamily.com/don-fofm-podcast-2021-11-23?refcd=1181603Get more episode resources: https://www.focusonthefamily.com/episodes/focus-on-marriage-podcast/confessing-sexual-sin-to-your-family/#featured-resource-ctaIf you've listened to any of our podcasts, please give us your feedback: https://focusonthefamily.com/podcastsurvey/

Statistics reveal that many married men are struggling with a pornography addiction, even in the church. If this has impacted your marriage, please know, you're not alone. John, Erin and Greg discuss how to take a step toward healing, after a secret sin has been uncovered. Featuring Mr. David and Mrs. Kirsten Samuel.Find us online at focusonthefamily.com/marriagepodcast or call 1-800-A-FAMILY.Get Kirsten Samuel's book "Choosing a Way Out" for your donation of any amount! https://donate.focusonthefamily.com/don-fofm-podcast-2021-11-23?refcd=1181603Get more episode resources: https://www.focusonthefamily.com/episodes/focus-on-marriage-podcast/when-a-secret-sin-is-uncovered/#featured-resource-ctaIf you've listened to any of our podcasts, please give us your feedback: https://focusonthefamily.com/podcastsurvey/