ERP 194: How to Alchemize your Triggers into Insight – an Interview with Tobin Zivon
Empowered Relationship Podcast: Your Relationship Resource And Guide · Dr. Jessica Higgins
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Show Notes
About Tobin Zivon: Tobin Zivon has been a love, intimacy and sacred sexuality coach for over two and a half decades.
The author of The Art of Mindful Living, Tobin helps groups, couples and individuals blossom to their highest potential. His brilliance shines most brightly when working with men, women and couples in the realms of love, intimacy and sacred sexuality. Tobin has been lovingly nicknamed the "couples whisperer" and has worked with thousands of individuals and couples to break through to a new, more fulfilling and connected love life.
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In this episode, Tobin Zivon and Dr. Jessica Higgins discuss:
- How to unlock repetitive frustration patterns and power struggles in relationships.
- Why and how frustrating patterns start in the first place.
- The "divine design" present in 99% of relationships.
- Optimizing love and the two-step dance of embodying our true potential in the areas of love and intimacy.
- Being armed with the skillful means and tools to get at the root of ourselves and our relationships is the second step.
- The traumas and imprints within each of us and learning to live with and through them.
- Common frustrations of the masculine and feminine and how they play into each other.
- The surprising keys for dissolving power struggles (and what keeps them in place).
"If you have the capacity to, first and foremost, meet that [heat] with loving awareness – a willingness to feel - we are starting to drive a wedge into it in that moment. Any moment, any millisecond, that we are feeling, as opposed to letting it run the show or stuffing it down and pretending it doesn't exist, then we are actually doing that alchemy; we are actually healing a part of our being that was imprinted from before this person who's in front of us." — Tobin Zivon
Mentioned:
Facebook: Tobin Zivon
Website: TobinZivon.com & Relationship-Mastery-Secrets.com
Instagram: @tobinzivon
Book: The Art of Mindful Living
Book Reference: A New Earth: Awakening to Your Life's Purpose – Eckhart Tolle
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