Emotional Badass

In this episode I share my deeply personal experiences of domestic abuse, aiming to shed light on the complexities and red flags of such relationships within a mental health context. Drawing from both my own journey and the collective experiences of my clients, I highlight the nuanced indicators of abuse, ranging from intense early relationship progression to controlling behaviors and isolation tactics. Throughout the narrative, I emphasize the inherent dangers of manipulation and the importance of recognizing harmful dynamics for what they are. Amidst the pain and trauma, my experiences with resilient figures like Ann, who stood up to my abuser, serve as a beacon of hope, demonstrating that it is possible to escape the cycle of violence, reclaim self-love and respect, and foster healthier relationships and better mental health. RESOURCES: WORK WITH NIKKI 1:1 30 DAYS TO PEACE COURSE ⁠⁠PATREON COMMUNITY INTRO TO BOUNDARIES THE BOUNDARIES INTENSIVE BOOK CLUB NARCISSIST ABUSE RECOVERY WORKSHOP THE FREE MORNING ROUTINE ⁠⁠ WEEKLY NEWSLETTER SIGNUP⁠⁠ THE PATTERNSCAPES WELLNESS DECK ⁠BRAIN FM: CODE: emotionalbadass for 20% off your membership FOLLOW US: YouTube Instagram Facebook TikTok⁠⁠ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In this episode, we journey through the winding landscape of dating, love, and relationships. How can you transform your dating patterns for better mental health? Unraveling myths, reframing misconceptions, and highlighting the importance of self-love. Tune in as we discuss the power of positive thinking and the law of attraction, explore how to redefine rejection, and learn to approach dating with boldness and authenticity. Discover a pragmatic perspective on love that balances emotions and practicality, arguing that true love is a daily commitment rather than a constant flood of affection. Guiding us throughout is the central theme of self-love, acting as the compass leading us towards healthier and more fulfilling relationships. Join us and reshape your understanding of love and dating. Highly Sensitive People often struggle with past influences and societal conditioning. This episode explores practical tips for confidence building, establishing boundaries, and understanding the difference between anxiety and intuition. Embrace personal growth and resilience with guidance to navigate dating as an HSP, fostering healthier relationships and positive mental health outcomes. RESOURCES: WORK WITH NIKKI 1:1 30 DAYS TO PEACE COURSE ⁠⁠PATREON COMMUNITY INTRO TO BOUNDARIES THE BOUNDARIES INTENSIVE BOOK CLUB NARCISSIST ABUSE RECOVERY WORKSHOP THE FREE MORNING ROUTINE ⁠⁠ WEEKLY NEWSLETTER SIGNUP⁠⁠ THE PATTERNSCAPES WELLNESS DECK ⁠BRAIN FM: CODE: emotionalbadass for 20% off your membership FOLLOW US: YouTube Instagram Facebook TikTok⁠⁠ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Today, we explore the importance of critical thinking and decision-making in everyday life, essential components of maintaining mental health. We discuss the former college experience, which fostered resilience and a strong anti-victim mentality, crucial for mental health development. There is evidence that the current emphasis on comfort and feelings in colleges has swung the pendulum too far, hindering personal growth and emotional maturation in the realm of mental health. I share a powerful story about the significance of a seemingly simple act, offering a tissue to a client in a mental health counseling session. This act challenged the notion of empowerment and highlighted the complexities of human connection and vulnerability in mental health settings. I explain the nuances of societal messaging, the limitations of scientific evidence, and the importance of trusting one's intuition in navigating life's challenges and supporting mental health. RESOURCES: WORK WITH NIKKI 1:1 30 DAYS TO PEACE COURSE ⁠⁠PATREON COMMUNITY INTRO TO BOUNDARIES THE BOUNDARIES INTENSIVE BOOK CLUB NARCISSIST ABUSE RECOVERY WORKSHOP THE FREE MORNING ROUTINE ⁠⁠ WEEKLY NEWSLETTER SIGNUP⁠⁠ THE PATTERNSCAPES WELLNESS DECK ⁠BRAIN FM: CODE: emotionalbadass for 20% off your membership FOLLOW US: YouTube Instagram Facebook TikTok⁠⁠ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In this episode, we delve into the often misunderstood world of highly sensitive men within the mental health spectrum. Inspired by my mentor, Dr. Barbara Herlihy, a pioneer of feminist theory in psychology, we explore how this theory benefits not only women but also men, particularly those who are highly sensitive. Amidst the current climate of women's empowerment, I express concerns about the marginalization of men in discussions of mental health, drawing from personal experiences and highlighting the positive influence of sensitive men in my life. We examine the unique questions and struggles faced by highly sensitive men of all ages, emphasizing the importance of fostering healthy masculinity without stigmatizing sensitivity. The conversation also navigates the balance of power in gender relationships, stressing the need to educate both sexes about their inherent strengths and the importance of not abusing them. We confront the fears surrounding male energy, especially for those with traumatic histories, and suggest working towards building trust and safety. The goal is to keep the conversation going, encouraging understanding, acceptance, and most importantly, communication about mental health and HSP (Highly Sensitive People) in our diverse world. RESOURCES: WORK WITH NIKKI 1:1 30 DAYS TO PEACE COURSE ⁠⁠PATREON COMMUNITY INTRO TO BOUNDARIES THE BOUNDARIES INTENSIVE BOOK CLUB NARCISSIST ABUSE RECOVERY WORKSHOP THE FREE MORNING ROUTINE ⁠⁠ WEEKLY NEWSLETTER SIGNUP⁠⁠ THE PATTERNSCAPES WELLNESS DECK ⁠BRAIN FM: CODE: emotionalbadass for 20% off your membership FOLLOW US: YouTube Instagram Facebook TikTok⁠⁠ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In the spirit of 'The Don't List,' today we delve into 19 straightforward methods to attract misery into your mental health, from giving in to fear and overanalyzing everything, to letting politics consume your mental well-being. Rather than fostering positivity and fulfillment, this episode dives deep into practices that breed misery in your mental health journey, such as self-sabotage and a penchant for low-vibrational emotions. The episode concludes with a crucial reminder that life is a series of choices, emphasizing the importance of recognizing these detrimental habits to actively steer clear of them. It’s an unconventional approach to enhancing your mental health, challenging listeners to reassess their habits and choose a path that leads to lightness, purpose, joy, peace, happiness, and spiritual clarity in their mental health practice. RESOURCES: WORK WITH NIKKI 1:1 30 DAYS TO PEACE COURSE ⁠⁠PATREON COMMUNITY INTRO TO BOUNDARIES THE BOUNDARIES INTENSIVE BOOK CLUB NARCISSIST ABUSE RECOVERY WORKSHOP THE FREE MORNING ROUTINE ⁠⁠ WEEKLY NEWSLETTER SIGNUP⁠⁠ THE PATTERNSCAPES WELLNESS DECK ⁠BRAIN FM: CODE: emotionalbadass for 20% off your membership FOLLOW US: YouTube Instagram Facebook TikTok⁠⁠ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Today we dive into the concept of 'heart-centered' living and its role in healing, especially for those with traumatic histories. Do you struggle with feeling disconnected from your body and emotions as a Highly Sensitive Person? Gain insights that can help HSPs reconnect with their bodies and foster better mental health. Learn how trauma and tension from childhood can lead to disembodiment and discover mindfulness techniques to heal and cultivate peace. Embrace heart-centeredness and unlock a compassionate, patient, and forgiving approach to life. This episode is your guide to achieving emotional and physical well-being. RESOURCES: WORK WITH NIKKI 1:1 30 DAYS TO PEACE COURSE ⁠⁠PATREON COMMUNITY INTRO TO BOUNDARIES THE BOUNDARIES INTENSIVE BOOK CLUB NARCISSIST ABUSE RECOVERY WORKSHOP THE FREE MORNING ROUTINE ⁠⁠ WEEKLY NEWSLETTER SIGNUP⁠⁠ THE PATTERNSCAPES WELLNESS DECK ⁠BRAIN FM: CODE: emotionalbadass for 20% off your membership FOLLOW US: YouTube Instagram Facebook TikTok⁠⁠ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Today we focus on 'detaching with love' a strategy for self-improvement and better relationships. It emphasizes mindfulness to break unhelpful patterns, self-reflection for emotional understanding, questioning attachments for emotional clarity, and setting boundaries to avoid self-sabotage. Although challenging, mastering this practice leads to personal growth, healthier relationships, and improved emotional intelligence. Are you an HSP struggling with unhealthy attachments? Learn the power of "detaching with love" and how mindfulness, self-reflection, and emotional resilience can enhance your mental health. Insights are provided on recognizing and shifting outdated patterns, setting boundaries, and fostering healthier relationships. Embrace these strategies to create positive change in your life and achieve personal growth and much needed mental health boost. RESOURCES: WORK WITH NIKKI 1:1 30 DAYS TO PEACE COURSE ⁠⁠PATREON COMMUNITY INTRO TO BOUNDARIES THE BOUNDARIES INTENSIVE BOOK CLUB NARCISSIST ABUSE RECOVERY WORKSHOP THE FREE MORNING ROUTINE ⁠⁠ WEEKLY NEWSLETTER SIGNUP⁠⁠ THE PATTERNSCAPES WELLNESS DECK ⁠BRAIN FM: CODE: emotionalbadass for 20% off your membership FOLLOW US: YouTube Instagram Facebook TikTok⁠⁠ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Are you struggling with detachment and personal growth? Today we navigate through the intricacies of personal transformation, self-discovery, and the human identity. I discuss my personal journey through changing my name and the profound impact it had on my self-perception, opening a gateway to numerous life lessons. From coping with the ridicule and judgement of others, dealing with repressed memories, and experiencing relentless internal battles, to the repeated process of taking on new names with each marriage, only to later relinquish them. We are not defined by our names, but we are so much more. The episode exploration of the liberation found in detachment, the significance of intuition, the power of self-empowerment, and the courage to embrace change and let go to enhance mental health and self-discovery. Learn about the significance of letting go with love and respect, particularly for Highly Sensitive Persons (HSP). This practice helps us navigate past traumas, build resilience, and foster a deeper understanding of our true identity, contributing to overall mental well-being. RESOURCES: WORK WITH NIKKI 1:1 30 DAYS TO PEACE COURSE ⁠⁠PATREON COMMUNITY INTRO TO BOUNDARIES THE BOUNDARIES INTENSIVE BOOK CLUB NARCISSIST ABUSE RECOVERY WORKSHOP THE FREE MORNING ROUTINE ⁠⁠ WEEKLY NEWSLETTER SIGNUP⁠⁠ THE PATTERNSCAPES WELLNESS DECK ⁠BRAIN FM: CODE: emotionalbadass for 20% off your membership FOLLOW US: YouTube Instagram Facebook TikTok⁠⁠ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Are you grappling with Mother's Day emotions? We navigate the complexities of relationships, particularly the mother-child dynamic. We delve into personal experiences and professional insights, spotlighting the emotional minefield of Mother's Day and discussing healing our mental health through the lens of Maya Angelou's 'Letter to My Daughter.' Whether you've had to sever ties with a parent or are grappling with your own decision not to become a parent, we provide a space to explore the pain, healing, and resilience that accompanies these experiences. I share my personal experiences, academic knowledge, and insight into healing out mental health through inner child work. Tune in to explore how the pain can evolve and lead to peace, joy, and personal growth, and how we can become the supportive figures we need in our own lives. RESOURCES: WORK WITH NIKKI 1:1 30 DAYS TO PEACE COURSE ⁠⁠PATREON COMMUNITY INTRO TO BOUNDARIES THE BOUNDARIES INTENSIVE BOOK CLUB NARCISSIST ABUSE RECOVERY WORKSHOP THE FREE MORNING ROUTINE ⁠⁠ WEEKLY NEWSLETTER SIGNUP⁠⁠ THE PATTERNSCAPES WELLNESS DECK ⁠BRAIN FM: CODE: emotionalbadass for 20% off your membership FOLLOW US: YouTube Instagram Facebook TikTok⁠⁠ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In today's episode, we delve into a powerful song that promotes healing and self-discovery, particularly for deeply emotional individuals, trauma survivors, and highly sensitive people; 'Heavy' by Bird Talkers We discuss the importance of moving beyond the mental realm and embracing experience as a means to heal, addressing the roots of loneliness, and the necessity of becoming our own best friends. The episode also covers the significance of acknowledging our dark sides, understanding the human need to be witnessed, and learning to let go of heavy burdens that weigh us down. Through self-forgiveness, gratitude, and empathy, we can cultivate a sense of connection and support, ultimately leading to a lighter, more liberated life. How do we truly heal from trauma and overthinking? Discover the transformative power of experiencing emotions in the body. By embracing our dark side, connecting through music, and learning to let go of heavy burdens, Highly Sensitive People (HSPs) can find emotional freedom and improved Mental Health. This episode delves into the importance of feeling seen and heard, offering strategies for navigating loneliness and building quality relationships. RESOURCES: WORK WITH NIKKI 1:1 30 DAYS TO PEACE COURSE ⁠⁠PATREON COMMUNITY INTRO TO BOUNDARIES THE BOUNDARIES INTENSIVE BOOK CLUB NARCISSIST ABUSE RECOVERY WORKSHOP THE FREE MORNING ROUTINE ⁠⁠ WEEKLY NEWSLETTER SIGNUP⁠⁠ THE PATTERNSCAPES WELLNESS DECK ⁠BRAIN FM: CODE: emotionalbadass for 20% off your membership FOLLOW US: YouTube Instagram Facebook TikTok⁠⁠ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Today I'm discussing the importance of play in our lives and its role in mental health. Despite living in an information age, the healing we seek is often found in doing rather than thinking. Embracing playfulness and silliness is not only a way to heal a fried nervous system, but it also helps us transition from a survival mindset to a thriving one. So let's dive into why play matters and how it can be a vital part of your mental health journey. Are you struggling with anxiety and depression? Discover how play can be a powerful tool for improving mental health and helping Highly Sensitive People (HSPs) thrive. In this insightful discussion, I share practical tips on incorporating play into your daily life, from daydreaming and embracing silliness to engaging in creative activities. Learn how reconnecting with your playful side can help transition from survival to thriving, offering essential self-care and nourishment for your well-being. RESOURCES: WORK WITH NIKKI 1:1 30 DAYS TO PEACE COURSE ⁠⁠PATREON COMMUNITY INTRO TO BOUNDARIES THE BOUNDARIES INTENSIVE BOOK CLUB NARCISSIST ABUSE RECOVERY WORKSHOP THE FREE MORNING ROUTINE ⁠⁠ WEEKLY NEWSLETTER SIGNUP⁠⁠ THE PATTERNSCAPES WELLNESS DECK ⁠BRAIN FM: CODE: emotionalbadass for 20% off your membership FOLLOW US: YouTube Instagram Facebook TikTok⁠⁠ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This week we explore the dangers of victim mentality in today's society. As a mental health advocate, I've seen the impact of the philosophy of victimhood and how it can leave us feeling powerless and stuck. Through this episode, we will dive into the role of mindfulness in retraining our brains to offer a different perspective, cultivating resilience, and empowering ourselves to overcome obstacles and challenges. I'll also discus the widely debated topic of trigger warnings and how good intentions can backfire, creating entitlement and irrational beliefs that perpetuate victim mentality. Join us as we discuss how to cultivate muscles for this life and lean into triggers to desensitize ourselves, take control of our thoughts, and find peace, ease, and grounded centeredness within ourselves. Learn how mindfulness and resilience can help Highly Sensitive People (HSPs) overcome this mindset and reclaim their personal power. I delve into the importance of accepting life's discomforts and leaning into triggers to build emotional fortitude. By taking personal responsibility and letting go of past trauma, HSPs can cultivate inner peace, ease, and grounded centeredness. Discover practical strategies to transform your mental health and embrace a more empowered, resilient life. RESOURCES: WORK WITH NIKKI 1:1 30 DAYS TO PEACE COURSE ⁠⁠PATREON COMMUNITY INTRO TO BOUNDARIES THE BOUNDARIES INTENSIVE BOOK CLUB NARCISSIST ABUSE RECOVERY WORKSHOP THE FREE MORNING ROUTINE ⁠⁠ WEEKLY NEWSLETTER SIGNUP⁠⁠ THE PATTERNSCAPES WELLNESS DECK ⁠BRAIN FM: CODE: emotionalbadass for 20% off your membership FOLLOW US: YouTube Instagram Facebook TikTok⁠⁠ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

There’s a big question that many people ask themselves: do I need help healing? Do I need therapy, a coach, a massage therapist, meds, or a support group? These are difficult questions to answer because of the word "need." In actuality, all we really need is air to breathe, water to hydrate, food, shelter, and some touch. A better question to ask is, am I surviving or thriving? This question has a completely different vibration that opens up the possibility of evaluating where we are on our journey and what kind of help we may want to bring in. Do you struggle with asking for help? Learn how shifting your focus from "need" to "choice" empowers you to embrace available support and thrive. In this episode, I discuss the value of therapy in overcoming hyper-independence, understanding self-worth, and setting boundaries. Discover how therapy helps highly sensitive people (HSPs) navigate mental health challenges and build self-reliance, ensuring you avoid abusive relationships and trust yourself to make healthy decisions. The Book: Toxic Parents: Overcoming Their Hurtful Legacy and Reclaiming Your Life by Susan Forward RESOURCES: WORK WITH NIKKI 1:1 30 DAYS TO PEACE COURSE ⁠⁠PATREON COMMUNITY INTRO TO BOUNDARIES THE BOUNDARIES INTENSIVE BOOK CLUB NARCISSIST ABUSE RECOVERY WORKSHOP THE FREE MORNING ROUTINE ⁠⁠ WEEKLY NEWSLETTER SIGNUP⁠⁠ THE PATTERNSCAPES WELLNESS DECK ⁠BRAIN FM: CODE: emotionalbadass for 20% off your membership FOLLOW US: YouTube Instagram Facebook TikTok⁠⁠ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Today I reflect on why we use the term "rude awakening" and how it relates to self-development and mental health. As someone who teaches and practices self-development and spiritual betterment, I can attest that my own awakenings have felt rude. Awakenings are not just one singular moment of realization but rather a series of uncomfortable layers that we expand upon. We resist change, and our ego fights against the new knowledge that comes with an awakening. I share my personal experiences with rude awakenings, the hard work that is therapy, and how to embrace the discomfort of what's coming. We must be open to change, accept that we can only change ourselves, and be kind to ourselves during the process. Ultimately, when we know better, we can do better. Struggling with emotional outbursts in therapy? These episodes often stem from deep-seated emotional pain and can be particularly challenging for Highly Sensitive Persons (HSPs). I discuss how to handle client aggression with empathy, set clear boundaries, and use mindfulness to manage emotional triggers. Healing the inner child is key to overcoming these challenges and improving mental health. Learn practical strategies to foster a compassionate therapeutic environment and support clients on their path to wellness. RESOURCES: WORK WITH NIKKI 1:1 30 DAYS TO PEACE COURSE ⁠⁠PATREON COMMUNITY INTRO TO BOUNDARIES THE BOUNDARIES INTENSIVE BOOK CLUB NARCISSIST ABUSE RECOVERY WORKSHOP THE FREE MORNING ROUTINE ⁠⁠ WEEKLY NEWSLETTER SIGNUP⁠⁠ THE PATTERNSCAPES WELLNESS DECK ⁠BRAIN FM: CODE: emotionalbadass for 20% off your membership FOLLOW US: YouTube Instagram Facebook TikTok⁠⁠ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

As human beings, we are highly impressionable creatures, easily influenced by our environment and upbringing. Our childhood experiences and the messages we receive over time program us, shaping our self-talk and internal conversation. We often develop a critical internal voice that tends to highlight our flaws and mistakes, rather than offering us compassion and support. Today, let's do some positive reframing of our internal dialogue so we can attract a happier mindset. Are you tired of the constant negative self-talk affecting your mental health? Discover how mindfulness and positive reframing can help Highly Sensitive People (HSPs) transform their internal dialogue into self-respect and attract positive experiences. By recognizing and challenging negative thoughts, you can build a foundation of self-love and resilience. Join us as I share insights on cultivating a healthy internal conversation and reprogramming your mind for positivity. RESOURCES: WORK WITH NIKKI 1:1 30 DAYS TO PEACE COURSE ⁠⁠PATREON COMMUNITY INTRO TO BOUNDARIES THE BOUNDARIES INTENSIVE BOOK CLUB NARCISSIST ABUSE RECOVERY WORKSHOP THE FREE MORNING ROUTINE ⁠⁠ WEEKLY NEWSLETTER SIGNUP⁠⁠ THE PATTERNSCAPES WELLNESS DECK ⁠BRAIN FM: CODE: emotionalbadass for 20% off your membership FOLLOW US: YouTube Instagram Facebook TikTok⁠⁠ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

On today's episode we will be discussing the impact of rageful parenting on our lives. While most parent strive to provide a safe and nurturing environment, some parents are emotionally abusive and react with anger, frustration, and rage at their children. This creates a hostile home environment that leaves a lasting impact on a childs emotional well-being. In this episode, we will explore the effects of rageful parenting, from low self-esteem to difficulty with relationships, and provide practical strategies for overcoming these challenges. Join us as we delve into this complex topic and discover ways to heal our mental health and move forward. How can you heal from a rageful home and build healthier relationships? Discover the path to overcoming trauma and hypervigilance by embracing boundaries and fostering self-worth. Healing from rageful parenting is a nuanced journey involving unraveling learned survival strategies and reteaching the body calmness. I, a seasoned psychotherapist, share insights on navigating this path for Highly Sensitive Persons (HSPs). Learn to reject the trauma identity, establish healthy boundaries, and embrace imperfections to achieve true mental health and personal growth. RESOURCES: WORK WITH NIKKI 1:1 30 DAYS TO PEACE COURSE ⁠⁠PATREON COMMUNITY INTRO TO BOUNDARIES THE BOUNDARIES INTENSIVE BOOK CLUB NARCISSIST ABUSE RECOVERY WORKSHOP THE FREE MORNING ROUTINE ⁠⁠ WEEKLY NEWSLETTER SIGNUP⁠⁠ THE PATTERNSCAPES WELLNESS DECK ⁠BRAIN FM: CODE: emotionalbadass for 20% off your membership FOLLOW US: YouTube Instagram Facebook TikTok⁠⁠ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Here are 9 simple tools and strategies to help unlock our focus and creativity. By utilizing these as often as we can allow focusing to become a habit, and make an ironic shift from our go-go culture to the realization that slow is the secret fast. Are the demands of modern life impacting your focus and mental health? Discover practical tips to navigate attention issues exacerbated by technology and parenting pressures. Learn how slowing down, practicing gratitude, and mindful meditation can help HSPs regain mental balance. I share insightful strategies for better mental health and personal growth, emphasizing the importance of centering practices in a world that values constant activity. Here are some of the tips I recommend: 1. Meditation 2. Gratitude 3. Food is Mood 4. Timer 5. Limit Social Media Scrolling 6. Brain.FM 7. Prioritize Sleep 8. Wellness Formulas like HealthyCell 9. Supplements/Herbs RESOURCES: WORK WITH NIKKI 1:1 30 DAYS TO PEACE COURSE ⁠⁠PATREON COMMUNITY INTRO TO BOUNDARIES THE BOUNDARIES INTENSIVE BOOK CLUB NARCISSIST ABUSE RECOVERY WORKSHOP THE FREE MORNING ROUTINE ⁠⁠ WEEKLY NEWSLETTER SIGNUP⁠⁠ THE PATTERNSCAPES WELLNESS DECK ⁠BRAIN FM: CODE: emotionalbadass for 20% off your membership FOLLOW US: YouTube Instagram Facebook TikTok⁠⁠ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

I learned about abortion through my experience of growing up in a Catholic society in New Orleans and listening to the conversations around me. Abortion is a complex issue that should be approached with an open mind and an open heart. People must be cautious of making assumptions and oversimplifying the issue, as well as falling into the "tribalism" of choosing one side or the other. It is important to explore all options without feeling pressure or shame and become your own authority figure. Cancel culture and media can lead to a heightened sense of fear and shame when discussing controversial topics, and it is important to be aware of psychological manipulation. It is important to evaluate what has been taught to us and make decisions based on our own mental health. How can HSPs maintain their mental health in a world dominated by cancel culture and tribalism? Join me as I discusses the importance of empathy and compassion in decision-making. This episode offers practical advice for overcoming fear and shame, helping Highly Sensitive People make informed, grounded choices. Learn why prioritizing quality of life is crucial for your mental health and discover strategies to navigate complex issues with nuance and understanding. "We need to be able to evaluate things from our minds, our hearts, our intuitions. We need to be able to listen to people, share their stories and listen from all of those parts with discernment." In this episode, I discuss: 1. How does the internet and social media play a role in creating assumptions about people? 2. What are the dangers of succumbing to tribalism and cancel culture? 3. How can we navigate complex topics such as abortion with an open mind and heart? RESOURCES: WORK WITH NIKKI 1:1 30 DAYS TO PEACE COURSE ⁠⁠PATREON COMMUNITY INTRO TO BOUNDARIES THE BOUNDARIES INTENSIVE BOOK CLUB NARCISSIST ABUSE RECOVERY WORKSHOP THE FREE MORNING ROUTINE ⁠⁠ WEEKLY NEWSLETTER SIGNUP⁠⁠ THE PATTERNSCAPES WELLNESS DECK ⁠BRAIN FM: CODE: emotionalbadass for 20% off your membership FOLLOW US: YouTube Instagram Facebook TikTok⁠⁠ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Andrea Dunlop embarks on a journey to unravel the mystery of Munchausen by Proxy and help others affected by this emotionally-rewarding and deadly form of child abuse, which has significant mental health implications. What drives a caregiver to fabricate or induce illness in a child? Munchausen Syndrome by Proxy (MSBP) is a disturbing form of child abuse that often goes unnoticed, impacting the mental health of its victims in profound ways. In this episode, we uncover the signs, psychological impact, and nuances of MSBP, spotlighting Andrea Dunlop’s efforts to raise awareness and support those affected. Understanding MSBP is key to providing victims with the mental health support they need and preventing further abuse. Andrea Dunlop is an author, consultant, and member of the American Professional Society on the Abuse of Children's Munchausen by Proxy committee. She is the co-creator of Munchausen Support, which provides resources for frontline professionals, families, and survivors dealing with Munchausen by Proxy. RESOURCES: WORK WITH NIKKI 1:1 30 DAYS TO PEACE COURSE ⁠⁠PATREON COMMUNITY INTRO TO BOUNDARIES THE BOUNDARIES INTENSIVE BOOK CLUB NARCISSIST ABUSE RECOVERY WORKSHOP THE FREE MORNING ROUTINE ⁠⁠ WEEKLY NEWSLETTER SIGNUP⁠⁠ THE PATTERNSCAPES WELLNESS DECK ⁠BRAIN FM: CODE: emotionalbadass for 20% off your membership FOLLOW US: YouTube Instagram Facebook TikTok⁠⁠ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Love yourself to unlock your freedom, peace, light, and joy. Navigating relationships with narcissistic or low-empathy parents can be complex for highly sensitive individuals, often leaving them feeling anxious or self-doubting. Embracing the reality of one’s upbringing and committing to self-love and healing can foster resilience and improve mental health, setting the stage for inner peace and healthier connections in life. I have learned an important lesson from my clients about parenting and relationships - that it is necessary work to figure out how to negotiate with parents who have a mix of narcissistic and warm traits. I have also learned that some families have a level of mind control and dysfunction that is cult-like, and that it is important to draw boundaries and speak up for yourself. In addition, I have seen the benefits of unconventional therapy including psychedelics. Finally, I have learned that love is more than just a feeling, but a practice, consistency, faith and respect for yourself and others. "What doesn't kill us does make us stronger. That cliche is true. And after it makes us stronger, it also helps us become freer." Here's what I cover in this episode: 1. How can understanding one's own family dynamics help bring peace and freedom? 2. What are the potential benefits of using psychedelics as a mental health treatment? 3. What does it mean to practice self-love, and how can it help us relate to others? RESOURCES: WORK WITH NIKKI 1:1 30 DAYS TO PEACE COURSE ⁠⁠PATREON COMMUNITY INTRO TO BOUNDARIES THE BOUNDARIES INTENSIVE BOOK CLUB NARCISSIST ABUSE RECOVERY WORKSHOP THE FREE MORNING ROUTINE ⁠⁠ WEEKLY NEWSLETTER SIGNUP⁠⁠ THE PATTERNSCAPES WELLNESS DECK ⁠BRAIN FM: CODE: emotionalbadass for 20% off your membership FOLLOW US: YouTube Instagram Facebook TikTok⁠⁠ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

With 17 years of experience in the field of psychotherapy, I've witnessed my clients' strength and resilience while learning the power of connection, intuition and humor in overcoming trauma. What role does humor play in healing trauma and improving mental health? Uncover the transformative power of humor and human connections for trauma survivors and HSPs, with insights from Nikki Eisenhauer's extensive experience in mental health. Highly Sensitive People will find valuable lessons on how humor can lighten the burden of trauma and foster resilience. By embracing humor and going with the flow, trauma survivors and HSPs can find new paths to healing and personal growth, turning pain into a source of strength. In this episode you'll learn: 1. How my clients have been my greatest teachers 2. What I've learned about going with the flow 3. How the funniest people gone to hell and back with their trauma RESOURCES: WORK WITH NIKKI 1:1 30 DAYS TO PEACE COURSE ⁠⁠PATREON COMMUNITY INTRO TO BOUNDARIES THE BOUNDARIES INTENSIVE BOOK CLUB NARCISSIST ABUSE RECOVERY WORKSHOP THE FREE MORNING ROUTINE ⁠⁠ WEEKLY NEWSLETTER SIGNUP⁠⁠ THE PATTERNSCAPES WELLNESS DECK ⁠BRAIN FM: CODE: emotionalbadass for 20% off your membership FOLLOW US: YouTube Instagram Facebook TikTok⁠⁠ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Existentialism is a philosophical framework that emphasizes personal choice and the creation of meaning in life. This belief is centered around the idea of freedom of choice, that we have the power to make choices in life, regardless of our circumstances. It also involves rejecting the victim mentality, taking control of our lives and making choices that positively impact us. Victor Frankel, a renowned psychiatrist, explored the idea of finding meaning in life through his book, "Man's Search for Meaning." He encouraged individuals to forge their own path and create meaning in their lives. Existentialism also touches on the concept of existence preceding essence, questioning our beliefs, embracing personal responsibility, authenticity, and recognizing the absurdity in life. Are you ready to unlock the power of personal choice and find deeper meaning in life? In this episode, we delve into how existentialism empowers individuals, especially Highly Sensitive Persons (HSPs), to embrace radical personal responsibility. Discover how mental health can be transformed through the freedom of choice and the journey of creating your own meaning. Tune in to learn how to harness your inner strength, thrive, and supercharge your mental health RESOURCES: WORK WITH NIKKI 1:1 30 DAYS TO PEACE COURSE ⁠⁠PATREON COMMUNITY INTRO TO BOUNDARIES THE BOUNDARIES INTENSIVE BOOK CLUB NARCISSIST ABUSE RECOVERY WORKSHOP THE FREE MORNING ROUTINE ⁠⁠ WEEKLY NEWSLETTER SIGNUP⁠⁠ THE PATTERNSCAPES WELLNESS DECK ⁠BRAIN FM: CODE: emotionalbadass for 20% off your membership FOLLOW US: YouTube Instagram Facebook TikTok⁠⁠ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In this weeks show, we welcome new listeners and will explore various mental health terms used on the show, specifically focusing on Highly Sensitive People (HSP) and ways to understand, embrace, and love our highly sensitive selves. I will discuss topics such as sensory sensitivity, emotional and mental sensitivity, and theories about the cause of high sensitivity. I will also differentiate between introverts and extroverts, and how they recharge and get their energy. Additionally, I will explain the concept of high sensation seeking, which can be confusing for many, but is important to understand and accept for those who fall into this category. Furthermore, I will discuss neurodivergent, an umbrella term for mental or neurological differences, including those on the autism spectrum, and how existentialism has played a role in my mental health journey. RESOURCES: WORK WITH NIKKI 1:1 30 DAYS TO PEACE COURSE ⁠⁠PATREON COMMUNITY INTRO TO BOUNDARIES THE BOUNDARIES INTENSIVE BOOK CLUB NARCISSIST ABUSE RECOVERY WORKSHOP THE FREE MORNING ROUTINE ⁠⁠ WEEKLY NEWSLETTER SIGNUP⁠⁠ THE PATTERNSCAPES WELLNESS DECK ⁠BRAIN FM: CODE: emotionalbadass for 20% off your membership FOLLOW US: YouTube Instagram Facebook TikTok⁠⁠ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Have you ever felt like you were in a toxic relationship but couldn't escape? Do you feel like you're in a situation you can't see a way out of? How can understanding manipulation enhance your mental health? In this week's episode I share part 2 of my story of breaking free from an abusive marriage. This is a story of strength and resilience, and learning to trust myself and my intuition for my mental health. I teach through how to take back our power in the face of manipulative, abusive, and narcissistic relationships. This episode provides an in-depth look at the mechanics of manipulation and its impact on Highly Sensitive Persons (HSPs). Discover practical tips for maintaining boundaries and enhancing self-awareness. Nikki Eisenhauer guides listeners through her own stories of overcoming abuse, offering hope and strategies for those feeling trapped in similar situations. RESOURCES: WORK WITH NIKKI 1:1 30 DAYS TO PEACE COURSE ⁠⁠PATREON COMMUNITY INTRO TO BOUNDARIES THE BOUNDARIES INTENSIVE BOOK CLUB NARCISSIST ABUSE RECOVERY WORKSHOP THE FREE MORNING ROUTINE ⁠⁠ WEEKLY NEWSLETTER SIGNUP⁠⁠ THE PATTERNSCAPES WELLNESS DECK ⁠BRAIN FM: CODE: emotionalbadass for 20% off your membership FOLLOW US: YouTube Instagram Facebook TikTok⁠⁠ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

After experiencing years of manipulation and abuse, I learned how to begin decoding manipulation. As a highly-sensitive teenager I was on a desperate journey to break free and reclaim my life, learning the hard way that true freedom requires trusting my intuition and honoring my inner voice. Why is trusting your intuition critical for recovery? This episode dives into the role of intuition in healing, emphasizing how crucial it is for Highly Sensitive Persons (HSPs) and survivors of abuse. Nikki Eisenhauer shares her experiences to illustrate how honing in on one's intuitive signals can serve as a powerful defense against manipulation and mental health crises. If you are interested in supporting us even more than a 5-star review, you can find Emotional Badass on Patreon where you will get hundreds of hours of bonus episodes, monthly video livestreams, discounts, and can join in the community. https://www.patreon.com/emotionalbadass RESOURCES: WORK WITH NIKKI 1:1 30 DAYS TO PEACE COURSE ⁠⁠PATREON COMMUNITY INTRO TO BOUNDARIES THE BOUNDARIES INTENSIVE BOOK CLUB NARCISSIST ABUSE RECOVERY WORKSHOP THE FREE MORNING ROUTINE ⁠⁠ WEEKLY NEWSLETTER SIGNUP⁠⁠ THE PATTERNSCAPES WELLNESS DECK ⁠BRAIN FM: CODE: emotionalbadass for 20% off your membership FOLLOW US: YouTube Instagram Facebook TikTok⁠⁠ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Here's what I cover with Casey McGuire Davidson in this episode: 1. How did Casey McGuire Davidson's journey to sobriety teach her to change her relationship with alcohol, life, and love? 2. What is the impact of alcohol on American culture and how can it be addressed? 3. What drove Casey McGuire Davidson to make the decision to become sober, and how can her story help others redefine their relationship to alcohol? Casey McGuire Davidson is a life coach and sobriety coach for busy women. She hosts the Hello Someday Podcast for sober curious women, and works with clients to help them change their relationship with alcohol. In a candid discussion, Casey reveals her battle with binge drinking, and mental health decline, and the steps she took to break free from alcohol’s grip. Now a sober and sobriety coach, Casey uses her experiences to help others struggling with substance abuse, highlighting the often hidden impacts of drinking on mental health. Through her podcast, she educates listeners on how normalized drinking culture can lead to addiction, offering practical advice on recognizing harmful habits, seeking support, and celebrating progress in sobriety. Casey’s story is a testament to the power of commitment and community in overcoming addiction and building a fulfilling, alcohol-free life If you are interested in supporting us even more than a 5-star review, you can find Emotional Badass on Patreon where you will get hundreds of hours of bonus episodes, monthly video livestreams, discounts, and can join in the community. https://www.patreon.com/emotionalbadass RESOURCES: WORK WITH NIKKI 1:1 30 DAYS TO PEACE COURSE ⁠⁠PATREON COMMUNITY INTRO TO BOUNDARIES THE BOUNDARIES INTENSIVE BOOK CLUB NARCISSIST ABUSE RECOVERY WORKSHOP THE FREE MORNING ROUTINE ⁠⁠ WEEKLY NEWSLETTER SIGNUP⁠⁠ THE PATTERNSCAPES WELLNESS DECK ⁠BRAIN FM: CODE: emotionalbadass for 20% off your membership FOLLOW US: YouTube Instagram Facebook TikTok⁠⁠ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

On today's episode, I'm discussing the concept of dry January and sobriety, and how it can help you conquer unhealthy habits. This is an actionable tip to get real and honest about the role that alcohol plays on your body, mind, and mental health. Dry January is an opportunity to take on a challenge and find your true self, free of alcohol's crutch, and break addiction and unhealth habits. It gives us a framework, a community, and a challenge. I'm passionate about this idea and I will outline, in detail, how to be successfully sober in this episode. Let's face the challenge together and find the words that can help inspire us to live a more purposeful, productive, and healthy life. How can Dry January help break unhealthy habits? Let's find out! RESOURCES: WORK WITH NIKKI 1:1 30 DAYS TO PEACE COURSE ⁠⁠PATREON COMMUNITY INTRO TO BOUNDARIES THE BOUNDARIES INTENSIVE BOOK CLUB NARCISSIST ABUSE RECOVERY WORKSHOP THE FREE MORNING ROUTINE ⁠⁠ WEEKLY NEWSLETTER SIGNUP⁠⁠ THE PATTERNSCAPES WELLNESS DECK ⁠BRAIN FM: CODE: emotionalbadass for 20% off your membership FOLLOW US: YouTube Instagram Facebook TikTok⁠⁠ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Do you often feel overwhelmed by your sensitivity and emotional triggers? As an HSP, recognizing and addressing your inner child can lead to profound healing. Learn self-soothing techniques and observe your bodily responses to gain better control over your mental health. We share insights on how to balance mindfulness with practical planning, helping you stay present and reduce anxiety about the future. Tune in to discover effective strategies for emotional regulation and personal growth. If you are interested in supporting us even more than a 5-star review, you can find Emotional Badass on Patreon where you will get hundreds of hours of bonus episodes, monthly video livestreams, discounts, and can join in the community. https://www.patreon.com/emotionalbadass RESOURCES: WORK WITH NIKKI 1:1 30 DAYS TO PEACE COURSE ⁠⁠PATREON COMMUNITY INTRO TO BOUNDARIES THE BOUNDARIES INTENSIVE BOOK CLUB NARCISSIST ABUSE RECOVERY WORKSHOP THE FREE MORNING ROUTINE ⁠⁠ WEEKLY NEWSLETTER SIGNUP⁠⁠ THE PATTERNSCAPES WELLNESS DECK ⁠BRAIN FM: CODE: emotionalbadass for 20% off your membership FOLLOW US: YouTube Instagram Facebook TikTok⁠⁠ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

It's a common dilemma for empaths, HSPs, survivors, and seekers alike: how can intuition be used as an exercise for our healing and growth? We often feel stuck between head knowledge and the unknown, and it's difficult to decipher emotion and our response to it. Today, I'm offering you an invitation. I'm guiding you through an exercise that I like to call The Intuitive Mind-Body Exercise - an exercise that will help you strengthen your relationship with yourself and strengthen your confidence in deciphering messages over time. This episode will take you on a mental health journey, one that requires a bit of letting go and allowing me to guide you. As we move forward, I'll be offering up different language and ideas. We'll be visiting our head, heart, and gut space, taking note of all that we experience. By the end, I'll outline in detail how I used the Intuitive Mind-Body exercise and how mental health and intuition play pivotal roles in your daily life. RESOURCES: WORK WITH NIKKI 1:1 30 DAYS TO PEACE COURSE ⁠⁠PATREON COMMUNITY INTRO TO BOUNDARIES THE BOUNDARIES INTENSIVE BOOK CLUB NARCISSIST ABUSE RECOVERY WORKSHOP THE FREE MORNING ROUTINE ⁠⁠ WEEKLY NEWSLETTER SIGNUP⁠⁠ THE PATTERNSCAPES WELLNESS DECK ⁠BRAIN FM: CODE: emotionalbadass for 20% off your membership FOLLOW US: YouTube Instagram Facebook TikTok⁠⁠ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

A meditation for sleep. This is a meditation series continuation from The Mermaid Meditation, and I know many of you really liked it--it was shared so much that many new listeners found me because of that meditation so, this is the next in the series. Dive into this sleep meditation designed for Highly Sensitive Persons (HSPs) and their inner child. Our gentle guidance helps you create a tranquil space for deep relaxation. With mindful breathing techniques and soothing imagery, you'll find comfort and peace, letting go of the day's stresses. Perfect for enhancing your sleep and promoting emotional well-being. If you are interested in supporting us even more than a 5-star review, you can find Emotional Badass on Patreon where you will get hundreds of hours of bonus episodes, monthly video livestreams, discounts, and can join in the community. https://www.patreon.com/emotionalbadass RESOURCES: WORK WITH NIKKI 1:1 30 DAYS TO PEACE COURSE ⁠⁠PATREON COMMUNITY INTRO TO BOUNDARIES THE BOUNDARIES INTENSIVE BOOK CLUB NARCISSIST ABUSE RECOVERY WORKSHOP THE FREE MORNING ROUTINE ⁠⁠ WEEKLY NEWSLETTER SIGNUP⁠⁠ THE PATTERNSCAPES WELLNESS DECK ⁠BRAIN FM: CODE: emotionalbadass for 20% off your membership FOLLOW US: YouTube Instagram Facebook TikTok⁠⁠ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This episode is a follow up and part 2 to last weeks episode. Today we further explore Drama and go over some practical tips that can help us identify drama and suicidal thought. Discover how to reframe your self-talk, build self-discipline, and prioritize intuition for better mental health. We provide essential advice for highly sensitive people (HSP) to transform their inner dialogue and reduce drama. Find out how to cultivate a supportive network and engage in hobbies that uplift your spirit and enhance your well-being. If you are interested in supporting us even more than a 5-star review, you can find Emotional Badass on Patreon where you will get hundreds of hours of bonus episodes, monthly video livestreams, discounts, and can join in the community. https://www.patreon.com/emotionalbadass RESOURCES: WORK WITH NIKKI 1:1 30 DAYS TO PEACE COURSE ⁠⁠PATREON COMMUNITY INTRO TO BOUNDARIES THE BOUNDARIES INTENSIVE BOOK CLUB NARCISSIST ABUSE RECOVERY WORKSHOP THE FREE MORNING ROUTINE ⁠⁠ WEEKLY NEWSLETTER SIGNUP⁠⁠ THE PATTERNSCAPES WELLNESS DECK ⁠BRAIN FM: CODE: emotionalbadass for 20% off your membership FOLLOW US: YouTube Instagram Facebook TikTok⁠⁠ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Today I'm going to define and differentiate trauma, drama, and theatrics-- and I hope sharing my process of self discovery when it comes to the difference between these helps you see, understand, and ultimately guide yourself away from unnecessary drama and toward easier healing by better respecting your most precious recourses of time and energy. Highly Sensitive Persons (HSPs) often struggle with distinguishing life's unavoidable drama from unnecessary, self-created drama. Understanding this difference is crucial for mental health and energy conservation. We share powerful insights on how HSPs can set boundaries, make conscious choices, and foster healing by minimizing unnecessary drama. Dive into this enlightening discussion and learn how to navigate the complexities of drama to create a more peaceful and empowered life. RESOURCES: WORK WITH NIKKI 1:1 30 DAYS TO PEACE COURSE ⁠⁠PATREON COMMUNITY INTRO TO BOUNDARIES THE BOUNDARIES INTENSIVE BOOK CLUB NARCISSIST ABUSE RECOVERY WORKSHOP THE FREE MORNING ROUTINE ⁠⁠ WEEKLY NEWSLETTER SIGNUP⁠⁠ THE PATTERNSCAPES WELLNESS DECK ⁠BRAIN FM: CODE: emotionalbadass for 20% off your membership FOLLOW US: YouTube Instagram Facebook TikTok⁠⁠ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Do you find it challenging to manage your emotions as an HSP? Understanding and guiding your vibes can make a significant difference. Highly Sensitive People (HSPs) often perceive and respond to emotional and environmental vibrations deeply. We, as life coaches and psychotherapists, discuss how HSPs can become more aware of their vibes and use mindfulness to manage them. Learn how embracing self-care practices can transform negative energy into positive vibes, leading to improved mental health and emotional resilience. Join us to explore these transformative strategies. If you are interested in supporting us even more than a 5-star review, you can find Emotional Badass on Patreon where you will get hundreds of hours of bonus episodes, monthly video livestreams, discounts, and can join in the community. https://www.patreon.com/emotionalbadass RESOURCES: WORK WITH NIKKI 1:1 30 DAYS TO PEACE COURSE ⁠⁠PATREON COMMUNITY INTRO TO BOUNDARIES THE BOUNDARIES INTENSIVE BOOK CLUB NARCISSIST ABUSE RECOVERY WORKSHOP THE FREE MORNING ROUTINE ⁠⁠ WEEKLY NEWSLETTER SIGNUP⁠⁠ THE PATTERNSCAPES WELLNESS DECK ⁠BRAIN FM: CODE: emotionalbadass for 20% off your membership FOLLOW US: YouTube Instagram Facebook TikTok⁠⁠ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Today I'm discussing 3 ways music can be used as a tool for self-care. People often struggle with family relationships, personal growth, and loneliness. Music can be a great way to help us process our feelings and get to a place of acceptance. I'll be sharing some song lyrics that helped me through my own process of grief and healing. I hope you'll find it helpful too. What does it mean to establish boundaries as a Highly Sensitive Person (HSP)? Boundaries are crucial for mental health, yet highly sensitive individuals often face unique challenges in setting them. Join us as we explore the art of boundaries, discuss the impact of dysfunctional family dynamics, and share insights on managing emotional eating. Discover how to embrace self-care, achieve trauma recovery, and move from survival mode to thriving. If you are interested in supporting us even more than a 5-star review, you can find Emotional Badass on Patreon where you will get hundreds of hours of bonus episodes, monthly video livestreams, discounts, and can join in the community. https://www.patreon.com/emotionalbadass RESOURCES: WORK WITH NIKKI 1:1 30 DAYS TO PEACE COURSE ⁠⁠PATREON COMMUNITY INTRO TO BOUNDARIES THE BOUNDARIES INTENSIVE BOOK CLUB NARCISSIST ABUSE RECOVERY WORKSHOP THE FREE MORNING ROUTINE ⁠⁠ WEEKLY NEWSLETTER SIGNUP⁠⁠ THE PATTERNSCAPES WELLNESS DECK ⁠BRAIN FM: CODE: emotionalbadass for 20% off your membership FOLLOW US: YouTube Instagram Facebook TikTok⁠⁠ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Why being honest with yourself and taking responsibility for your own happiness is important in relationships. I discuss compatibility, red flags, "bumper car mentality" in dysfunctional relationships, and how to break these patterns. You will learn why being honest with yourself and taking responsibility for your own happiness is important in relationships, and how chemistry can paint red flags white. Do you find yourself in repetitive, unhealthy relationship cycles? Recognizing and healing our dysfunctional patterns and traumas is essential for building healthy and authentic relationships. We explore how Highly Sensitive Persons (HSP) can identify dysfunctional patterns, prioritize healing, and cultivate genuine connections. Learn the importance of authenticity, compatibility beyond chemistry, and the role of intuition in fostering mental health and meaningful relationships. RESOURCES: WORK WITH NIKKI 1:1 30 DAYS TO PEACE COURSE ⁠⁠PATREON COMMUNITY INTRO TO BOUNDARIES THE BOUNDARIES INTENSIVE BOOK CLUB NARCISSIST ABUSE RECOVERY WORKSHOP THE FREE MORNING ROUTINE ⁠⁠ WEEKLY NEWSLETTER SIGNUP⁠⁠ THE PATTERNSCAPES WELLNESS DECK ⁠BRAIN FM: CODE: emotionalbadass for 20% off your membership FOLLOW US: YouTube Instagram Facebook TikTok⁠⁠ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

How to silence your inner critic and live a more fulfilling life. In this episode you will learn: 1. How the inner critic or inner bully can touch nearly every waking and sleeping moment of our lives. 2. How suicide is often suggested by the inner critic, and how this can be prevented. 3. How authenticity is everything, and how it is available for everyone. We provide practical tips for Highly Sensitive Persons (HSPs) to shut down self-criticism and embrace their strengths. Learn how mindfulness and self-affirmation can significantly improve your mental health. Tune in for actionable advice on silencing the inner critic and fostering a positive self-image. If you are interested in supporting us even more than a 5-star review, you can find Emotional Badass on Patreon where you will get hundreds of hours of bonus episodes, monthly video livestreams, discounts, and can join in the community. https://www.patreon.com/emotionalbadass RESOURCES: WORK WITH NIKKI 1:1 30 DAYS TO PEACE COURSE ⁠⁠PATREON COMMUNITY INTRO TO BOUNDARIES THE BOUNDARIES INTENSIVE BOOK CLUB NARCISSIST ABUSE RECOVERY WORKSHOP THE FREE MORNING ROUTINE ⁠⁠ WEEKLY NEWSLETTER SIGNUP⁠⁠ THE PATTERNSCAPES WELLNESS DECK ⁠BRAIN FM: CODE: emotionalbadass for 20% off your membership FOLLOW US: YouTube Instagram Facebook TikTok⁠⁠ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Nikki explores codependency, people pleasing, fault and blame vs. responsibility, the incest wound and secret breaking, grief, acceptance, guilt vs. shame, appropriate touch and giving ourselves whatever we need, healthy risk and permission to ask me anything. Are you struggling with the lingering effects of childhood abuse and seeking ways to heal? Healing from childhood abuse requires recognizing and overcoming codependent patterns, finding supportive relationships, and embracing the challenging yet rewarding journey of self-development. In this insightful discussion, we delve into the importance of mental health for Highly Sensitive Persons (HSPs), therapy, and establishing boundaries. Learn practical strategies for recovery and how to build a network that truly supports your mental well-being. RESOURCES: WORK WITH NIKKI 1:1 30 DAYS TO PEACE COURSE ⁠⁠PATREON COMMUNITY INTRO TO BOUNDARIES THE BOUNDARIES INTENSIVE BOOK CLUB NARCISSIST ABUSE RECOVERY WORKSHOP THE FREE MORNING ROUTINE ⁠⁠ WEEKLY NEWSLETTER SIGNUP⁠⁠ THE PATTERNSCAPES WELLNESS DECK ⁠BRAIN FM: CODE: emotionalbadass for 20% off your membership FOLLOW US: YouTube Instagram Facebook TikTok⁠⁠ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

On Todays show I'm sitting down with Eric Zimmer from The One You Feed Podcast, where we discuss addiction, growth, and recovery. How can spiritual growth help you overcome addiction and trauma? In this episode, Eric Zimmer shares his incredible journey from being a homeless heroin addict to hosting a successful podcast and coaching business. Discover the power of spiritual habits, Zen practices, and the importance of supportive communities in recovery. We and Eric delve into the challenges of high sensitivity, the impact of childhood trauma, and the significance of aligning actions with core values for sustained mental health improvement. RESOURCES: WORK WITH NIKKI 1:1 30 DAYS TO PEACE COURSE ⁠⁠PATREON COMMUNITY INTRO TO BOUNDARIES THE BOUNDARIES INTENSIVE BOOK CLUB NARCISSIST ABUSE RECOVERY WORKSHOP THE FREE MORNING ROUTINE ⁠⁠ WEEKLY NEWSLETTER SIGNUP⁠⁠ THE PATTERNSCAPES WELLNESS DECK ⁠BRAIN FM: CODE: emotionalbadass for 20% off your membership FOLLOW US: YouTube Instagram Facebook TikTok⁠⁠ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In this week's episode, Nikki breaks down the effects of stranger sexual abuse and ongoing sexual abuse by a care taker and gives guidance on how and where to focus healing in recovery. Learn to care for your inner and outer environment, create sanctuary, and consider the continuum of hyper sexuality to asexuality, and what to do with our abuse dreams. What are the key steps to reclaiming self-worth after childhood sexual abuse? At Emotional Badass, we explain that survivors must recognize their inherent strength and navigate the nuanced impacts of trauma. Developing strong boundaries helps create a safe space for growth, allowing survivors to rebuild their sense of self and establish healthier relationships. For Highly Sensitive People (HSP), understanding and addressing these challenges is vital for achieving mental health stability and personal empowerment. RESOURCES: WORK WITH NIKKI 1:1 30 DAYS TO PEACE COURSE ⁠⁠PATREON COMMUNITY INTRO TO BOUNDARIES THE BOUNDARIES INTENSIVE BOOK CLUB NARCISSIST ABUSE RECOVERY WORKSHOP THE FREE MORNING ROUTINE ⁠⁠ WEEKLY NEWSLETTER SIGNUP⁠⁠ THE PATTERNSCAPES WELLNESS DECK ⁠BRAIN FM: CODE: emotionalbadass for 20% off your membership FOLLOW US: YouTube Instagram Facebook TikTok⁠⁠ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In this week's episode, Nikki breaks down and uses illness as a guru in the quest to grow ourselves, heal, and shed what no longer serves. Explore the trappings of critical self talk influenced by what is happening in our bodies before we know our bodies are fighting an illness. Ever wonder why illness feels more overwhelming for you as a highly sensitive person? It’s not just in your head. HSPs often face added frustration and self-criticism during sickness, but acceptance and self-kindness can make a huge difference. We highlight the significance of understanding the mind-body connection and practicing supportive self-talk. Learn how to manage your emotions better, conserve energy, and improve your mental health by embracing these practical strategies. RESOURCES: WORK WITH NIKKI 1:1 30 DAYS TO PEACE COURSE ⁠⁠PATREON COMMUNITY INTRO TO BOUNDARIES THE BOUNDARIES INTENSIVE BOOK CLUB NARCISSIST ABUSE RECOVERY WORKSHOP THE FREE MORNING ROUTINE ⁠⁠ WEEKLY NEWSLETTER SIGNUP⁠⁠ THE PATTERNSCAPES WELLNESS DECK ⁠BRAIN FM: CODE: emotionalbadass for 20% off your membership FOLLOW US: YouTube Instagram Facebook TikTok⁠⁠ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Nikki chats with Crystal to discuss the need for discernment in healing relationships, marketing, pressure sales, the importance of trusting and acting from intuition, healing after falling into the web, subtle gas lighting and values misalignment. This episode may be of particular interest to therapists and coaches who see, feel, and help others through the discombobulation of subtle manipulation. RESOURCES: WORK WITH NIKKI 1:1 30 DAYS TO PEACE COURSE ⁠⁠PATREON COMMUNITY INTRO TO BOUNDARIES THE BOUNDARIES INTENSIVE BOOK CLUB NARCISSIST ABUSE RECOVERY WORKSHOP THE FREE MORNING ROUTINE ⁠⁠ WEEKLY NEWSLETTER SIGNUP⁠⁠ THE PATTERNSCAPES WELLNESS DECK ⁠BRAIN FM: CODE: emotionalbadass for 20% off your membership FOLLOW US: YouTube Instagram Facebook TikTok⁠⁠ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This week's episode is a story highlighting finding my voice, speaking up, racial tensions in Louisiana in the 90s, workplace family systems, work ethic, transmuting fear through experience. Is it challenging to speak up and assert yourself as a Highly Sensitive Person? We discuss the transformative power of finding your voice and overcoming people-pleasing tendencies. We share how early job experiences and personal connections with diverse individuals can help break down fears and foster personal growth. Explore the journey of developing assertiveness, balancing when to speak and when to stay silent, and the impact on your mental health. Join us to learn how to navigate this path and enhance your self-expression, confidence, and overall well-being. RESOURCES: WORK WITH NIKKI 1:1 30 DAYS TO PEACE COURSE ⁠⁠PATREON COMMUNITY INTRO TO BOUNDARIES THE BOUNDARIES INTENSIVE BOOK CLUB NARCISSIST ABUSE RECOVERY WORKSHOP THE FREE MORNING ROUTINE ⁠⁠ WEEKLY NEWSLETTER SIGNUP⁠⁠ THE PATTERNSCAPES WELLNESS DECK ⁠BRAIN FM: CODE: emotionalbadass for 20% off your membership FOLLOW US: YouTube Instagram Facebook TikTok⁠⁠ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

The wisdom of a natural child's tantrum and release. Helping to heal childhood trauma and emotional neglect through permission for the body to release emotion vs. stuffing it down and controlling it. We look at the the peril in trying to control emotion vs. release it in a healthy way. Do you find it difficult to express your emotions? Many HSPs and those with childhood trauma struggle with this. We offer insights into how allowing yourself to tantrum and fully release emotions can lead to significant mental health improvements. This episode focuses on practical strategies for emotional healing, overcoming the inner critic, and nurturing your inner child. Learn how embracing your emotions can help you recover from emotional neglect and foster lasting personal growth. RESOURCES: WORK WITH NIKKI 1:1 30 DAYS TO PEACE COURSE ⁠⁠PATREON COMMUNITY INTRO TO BOUNDARIES THE BOUNDARIES INTENSIVE BOOK CLUB NARCISSIST ABUSE RECOVERY WORKSHOP THE FREE MORNING ROUTINE ⁠⁠ WEEKLY NEWSLETTER SIGNUP⁠⁠ THE PATTERNSCAPES WELLNESS DECK ⁠BRAIN FM: CODE: emotionalbadass for 20% off your membership FOLLOW US: YouTube Instagram Facebook TikTok⁠⁠ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

What many of us are dealing with is having grown up in heavily critical and negative households and circumstances and personalities and that leave us with low self worth and esteem. Inner child work meets us in the psychological spots where we are stuck, stunted, and lost. Have you ever felt unworthy or constantly sought approval from others? For HSPs, this struggle is often intensified in relationships with narcissistic individuals. In this episode, we highlight the importance of self-approval and becoming your own authority figure for better mental health. Learn how inner child work and setting boundaries can help you break free from dysfunctional dynamics and reclaim your self-worth. Tune in to discover the transformative power of self-approval and emotional resilience for Highly Sensitive People RESOURCES: WORK WITH NIKKI 1:1 30 DAYS TO PEACE COURSE ⁠⁠PATREON COMMUNITY INTRO TO BOUNDARIES THE BOUNDARIES INTENSIVE BOOK CLUB NARCISSIST ABUSE RECOVERY WORKSHOP THE FREE MORNING ROUTINE ⁠⁠ WEEKLY NEWSLETTER SIGNUP⁠⁠ THE PATTERNSCAPES WELLNESS DECK ⁠BRAIN FM: CODE: emotionalbadass for 20% off your membership FOLLOW US: YouTube Instagram Facebook TikTok⁠⁠ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Exploring personal power and personal responsibility as cornerstones of good mental health through the quotes of best selling author, change artist, and mental health professional Dr. Robert Anthony. If you are interested in supporting us even more than a 5-star review, you can find Emotional Badass on Patreon where you will get hundreds of hours of bonus episodes, monthly video livestreams, discounts, and can join in the community. https://www.patreon.com/emotionalbadass <p><br></p> <p><strong>RESOURCES:</strong></p> <p><a href="https://www.emotionalbadass.com/coaching" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferer">WORK WITH NIKKI 1:1</a></p> <p><a href="https://www.emotionalbadass.com/peace" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferer">30 DAYS TO PEACE COURSE</a></p> <p><a href="https://www.patreon.com/emotionalbadass" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferer">⁠⁠PATREON COMMUNITY</a></p> <p><a href="⁠https://www.EmotionalBadass.com/intro⁠⁠⁠⁠" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferer">INTRO TO BOUNDARIES</a></p> <p><a href="⁠https://www.EmotionalBadass.com/boundaries⁠⁠⁠⁠" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferer">THE BOUNDARIES INTENSIVE</a></p> <p><a href="https://www.emotionalbadass.com/bookclub" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferer">BOOK CLUB</a></p> <p><a href="https://www.emotionalbadass.com/workshops" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferer">NARCISSIST ABUSE RECOVERY WORKSHOP</a></p> <p><a href="https://www.emotionalbadass.com/morning-routine" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferer">THE FREE MORNING ROUTINE</a> ⁠⁠</p> <p><a href="https://www.EmotionalBadass.com/newsletter⁠⁠" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferer">WEEKLY NEWSLETTER SIGNUP</a>⁠⁠ </p> <p><a href="⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.getpatternscapes.com⁠⁠" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferer">THE PATTERNSCAPES WELLNESS DECK</a></p> <p>⁠<a href="https://www.brain.fm/emotionalbadass" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferer">BRAIN FM</a>: CODE: emotionalbadass for 20% off your membership </p> <p><br></p> <p><strong>FOLLOW US:</strong></p> <p><a href="https://www.youtube.com.com/emotionalbadass/⁠⁠" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferer">YouTube</a></p> <p><a href="https://www.instagram.com/emotional.badass" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferer">Instagram</a></p> <p><a href="https://www.facebook.com/emotionalbadass⁠⁠" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferer">Facebook</a></p> <p><a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@emotionalbadass" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferer">TikTok</a>⁠⁠</p> Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Visualization gives us a chance to work with our resistance, living vs. stagnating, through healthily risking. We work with our resistance and deepen our relationship with self and encouraging healthy change. If you are interested in supporting us even more than a 5-star review, you can find Emotional Badass on Patreon where you will get hundreds of hours of bonus episodes, monthly video livestreams, discounts, and can join in the community. https://www.patreon.com/emotionalbadass RESOURCES: WORK WITH NIKKI 1:1 30 DAYS TO PEACE COURSE ⁠⁠PATREON COMMUNITY INTRO TO BOUNDARIES THE BOUNDARIES INTENSIVE BOOK CLUB NARCISSIST ABUSE RECOVERY WORKSHOP THE FREE MORNING ROUTINE ⁠⁠ WEEKLY NEWSLETTER SIGNUP⁠⁠ THE PATTERNSCAPES WELLNESS DECK ⁠BRAIN FM: CODE: emotionalbadass for 20% off your membership FOLLOW US: YouTube Instagram Facebook TikTok⁠⁠ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Do you find yourself deflecting compliments and absorbing criticism deeply? Hypervigilance, a trait developed from traumatic childhood experiences, can make it challenging to receive positive feedback. We explore how Highly Sensitive Persons (HSPs) can reprogram this response through mindfulness and meditation, improving their mental health. Understand the importance of building healthy boundaries to filter what should be accepted and what should be kept out, fostering a more positive self-view. RESOURCES: WORK WITH NIKKI 1:1 30 DAYS TO PEACE COURSE ⁠⁠PATREON COMMUNITY INTRO TO BOUNDARIES THE BOUNDARIES INTENSIVE BOOK CLUB NARCISSIST ABUSE RECOVERY WORKSHOP THE FREE MORNING ROUTINE ⁠⁠ WEEKLY NEWSLETTER SIGNUP⁠⁠ THE PATTERNSCAPES WELLNESS DECK ⁠BRAIN FM: CODE: emotionalbadass for 20% off your membership FOLLOW US: YouTube Instagram Facebook TikTok⁠⁠ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

How to deal with the story maker of the mind by listening with the heart. Why we build up walls and how to take them down. Are you curious about how heart-centered healing can transform your mental health? By balancing mind and heart logic, we can break down protective walls and build healthier boundaries. We explore how discernment is crucial in reclaiming personal authority and preventing trauma repetition, helping Highly Sensitive People (HSPs) embrace vulnerability and foster genuine connections. RESOURCES: WORK WITH NIKKI 1:1 30 DAYS TO PEACE COURSE ⁠⁠PATREON COMMUNITY INTRO TO BOUNDARIES THE BOUNDARIES INTENSIVE BOOK CLUB NARCISSIST ABUSE RECOVERY WORKSHOP THE FREE MORNING ROUTINE ⁠⁠ WEEKLY NEWSLETTER SIGNUP⁠⁠ THE PATTERNSCAPES WELLNESS DECK ⁠BRAIN FM: CODE: emotionalbadass for 20% off your membership FOLLOW US: YouTube Instagram Facebook TikTok⁠⁠ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

On today's show; Part 2 of accepting the uncomfortableness in life, and the struggle of it with a peaceful warriors mentality. We learn to accept the real challenges of being alive while looking for the beauty and fortification within it all. RESOURCES: WORK WITH NIKKI 1:1 30 DAYS TO PEACE COURSE ⁠⁠PATREON COMMUNITY INTRO TO BOUNDARIES THE BOUNDARIES INTENSIVE BOOK CLUB NARCISSIST ABUSE RECOVERY WORKSHOP THE FREE MORNING ROUTINE ⁠⁠ WEEKLY NEWSLETTER SIGNUP⁠⁠ THE PATTERNSCAPES WELLNESS DECK ⁠BRAIN FM: CODE: emotionalbadass for 20% off your membership FOLLOW US: YouTube Instagram Facebook TikTok⁠⁠ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

On today's show; accepting the uncomfortableness in life, and the struggle of it with a peaceful warriors mentality. We learn to accept the real challenges of being alive while looking for the beauty. We explain how highly sensitive people can manage depression by balancing these tendencies and accepting life's discomforts. Learn how letting go of control and maintaining a positive mindset can enhance emotional resilience and mental health. This episode provides valuable insights for HSPs seeking personal growth and healing. RESOURCES: WORK WITH NIKKI 1:1 30 DAYS TO PEACE COURSE ⁠⁠PATREON COMMUNITY INTRO TO BOUNDARIES THE BOUNDARIES INTENSIVE BOOK CLUB NARCISSIST ABUSE RECOVERY WORKSHOP THE FREE MORNING ROUTINE ⁠⁠ WEEKLY NEWSLETTER SIGNUP⁠⁠ THE PATTERNSCAPES WELLNESS DECK ⁠BRAIN FM: CODE: emotionalbadass for 20% off your membership FOLLOW US: YouTube Instagram Facebook TikTok⁠⁠ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices