Dr Justin Coulson's Happy Families

Ever wondered how to go beyond the tinsel and treats of Christmas to create a truly holy and meaningful celebration? Justin and Kylie Coulson take you on a journey through the "Three Levels of Christmas," offering heartfelt ideas and inspiring stories to bring joy and purpose to your family’s holiday season. Whether it's singing carols, setting up nativity scenes, or reflecting on deeper spiritual themes, this episode is full of inspiration for making Christmas a time of connection, love, and purpose. In this episode: Understanding different perspectives & beliefs Creating a Christ-centred Christmas The three levels of Christmas: Level 1: Santa Claus, gifts, & festive indulgence Level 2: The nativity story & spiritual reflection Level 3: Celebrating Jesus' life & message Ideas for making Christmas more meaningful, including carolling, nativity scenes, & giving back Stories from listeners about their faith-centred Christmas traditions Related Links: Christmas Day and Divorced Families 10 Easy Traditions That Can Make Christmas Meaningful For Your Family Have I Ruined Christmas for My Child by Telling the Truth About Santa? Find us on Facebook or TikTok Subscribe to the Happy Families newsletter Leave a voice memo here or email your questions/comments to [email protected] omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Does Christmas gift-giving feel more like a burden than a joy as you try to find a balance between gift-giving and avoiding entitlement? Dr. Justin Coulson and Kylie discuss how to preserve the magic of the season while avoiding the trap of indulgence and entitlement. In this episode: Finding perspective Reflecting on the true meaning of Christmas Having zero agenda—relationships, games, joyful moments What to do when Christmas is hard Focusing on others—emphasising giving, kindness, and family traditions over materialism The Secret to Happiness? Giving.—Elizabeth Dunn research Related Links: How to Unspoil your Kids this Christmas [Webinar] Find us on Facebook or TikTok Subscribe to the Happy Families newsletter Leave a voice memo here or email your questions/comments to [email protected] omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

"Are we there yet?" Long family road trips can definitely be painful, BUT they can also be a great opportunity for some quality family time! We share a list of some helpful road trip games to keep everyone entertained. I-spy Spotto I went to the shops and I bought The alphabet game Car cricket Old MacDonald Had A Farm The Goanna Gang Bingo This Is The Song That Never Ends Peel The Avocado The Fart Game Stay quiet or else! Find us on Facebook or TikTok Subscribe to the Happy Families newsletter Leave a voice memo here or email your questions/comments to [email protected] omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Some Christmas movies that will keep your children from getting underfoot while you get the gifts wrapped! G-rated options: The Polar Express Klaus Arthur Christmas Elf Home Alone Santa Clause Honourable (grown up) mentions: Christmas Chronicles Bad Santa The Holiday Nativity movies: The Nativity Story (2006) Chasing The Star (2017) VeggieTales: The Little Drummer Boy (2011) The Star (2017) Journey to Bethlehem (a musical) (2023) The First Christmas (1998) Purchase Tis the Season to be Cranky or How to Unspoil your Kids this Christmas Find us on Facebook or TikTok Subscribe to the Happy Families newsletter Leave a voice memo here or email your questions/comments to [email protected] omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Christmas is a time where we can really lean into and celebrate family traditions!  Christmas traditions: Gifts, Santa. decorating Spending time with loved ones Advent, carols, the nativity Christmas Eve, stockings, pyjamas, Jolabokaflod Christmas ninjas - giving & serving others Related Links: Take Back Christmas Family Traditions Help Kids Make Sense of Life Find us on Facebook or TikTok Subscribe to the Happy Families newsletter Leave a voice memo here or email your questions/comments to [email protected] omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Feel like you're drowning in a sea of Christmas "shoulds" and "musts" as a parent? Or that you're constantly running on empty, with no energy left to enjoy moments with your kids?  This episode of I'll Do Better Tomorrow addresses the burnout that many parents experience during the holiday season and beyond.  Listen in to hear Justin and Kyle share their own struggles and insights, as well as some helpful tips on how to break free from the cycle of exhaustion and find joy in the simple things again.  In this episode: Kylies in a flunk in the lead up to Christmas, feeling burnt out and stressed Prioritising tasks Introjection motivation What is it that you want? Taking time to reflect on what has worked in the past for mental, physical, and emotional well-being Alfie Kohn Do one thing well Making time for loved ones Related Links: Self Care Strategies That Really Work We Need to Talk About Parent Wellbeing [ Webinar ] Burnt Out [ FREE webinar ] Find us on Facebook or TikTok Subscribe to the Happy Families newsletter Leave a voice memo here or email your questions/comments to [email protected] omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

This episode unpacks Australia's groundbreaking social media ban for kids under 16, set to roll out by Christmas 2025. With tech giants stepping up enforcement, parents are relieved, while teens face digital detoxes. Join the discussion as we explore Prince Harry’s surprising critique, parents’ joys and woes, and strategies for tackling this new era of tech parenting. In this episode: New legislation Australia's incoming social media ban cannot be considered overreach | Sky News  Bullying over social media Parental reactions Prince Harry's comments  Why Harry has it royally wrong on social media dangers | Daily Telegraph Implementation, digital IDs Navigating conversations with kids Acknowledging sadness and disappointment, FOMO The flow-on effect of the ban The 3 Es of Effective Discipline: Explore, Explain, Empower Related Links: Super Solutions for Technology Troubles [Webinar] Unplug Childhood - join the village Find us on Facebook or TikTok Subscribe to the Happy Families newsletter Leave a voice memo here or email your questions/comments to [email protected] omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

This episode takes a heartfelt turn as we delve into one of the most touching Christmas stories ever written—O. Henry’s The Gift of the Magi. Whether you’re a longtime fan of the tale or hearing it for the first time, its timeless message of love and sacrifice is sure to move you. In this episode: A reflection on Christmas storytelling O. Henry’s The Gift of the Magi Sacrifice, love, and the spirit of giving Related Links: 10 Easy Traditions That Can Make Christmas Meaningful For Your Family Gifts our Children Need For Christmas Find us on Facebook or TikTok Subscribe to the Happy Families newsletter Leave a voice memo here or email your questions/comments to [email protected] omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Christmas is almost here! In this festive episode, we share five simple yet impactful ways to elevate your holiday celebrations. Whether it’s through meaningful traditions, playful gift exchanges, or acts of kindness, we’re here to help you focus on what truly matters—time, connection, and joy. In this episode: Focus on time together Fun with gifts Christmas Eve traditions Jolabokaflod - Icelandic book tradition Acts of service Neighbourhood connections Related Links: Minimising Materialism this Christmas 10 Ways to ‘Unspoil’ the Children this Christmas Find us on Facebook or TikTok Subscribe to the Happy Families newsletter Leave a voice memo here or email your questions/comments to [email protected] omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

As the end of the year closes in us, we take a look back at 2024 and the top five episodes you listened to this year. Click on the links to go back and listen to an episode. Number 5 - #1041 Screens Suck Number 4 - #1042 Work & Home School Life Balance Number 3 - #1009 ADHD in Adults & Toddlers Number 2 - #1038 Managing Emotional Dysregulation Number 1 - #1055 Why The Kids Don't Listen Find us on Facebook or TikTok Subscribe to the Happy Families newsletter Leave a voice memo here or email your questions/comments to [email protected] omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

It's the weekly wrap up, where we look back at the week that was and figure out ways that we can improve in our parenting. In this episode: Despite being guaranteed downtime this year, Kylie is feeling more tired than ever. If we want to do better, we need to do less. Self awareness is a game changer. Putting your whole self into whatever you are doing. Related Links: Leidy Klotz - Subtract Find us on Facebook or TikTok Subscribe to the Happy Families newsletter Leave a voice memo here or email your questions/comments to [email protected] omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

This Christmas, skip the shopping stress and focus on what really matters. From creating a stress-free environment to embracing meaningful traditions, we explore how these intangible gifts—none of which require wrapping paper or a credit card—can bring joy and connection to your family. In this episode: Peace Presence not presents Playfulness Purpose Family traditions Reject the pursuit of perfection 3 Levels of Christmas Related Links: Take Back Christmas 10 Easy Traditions That Can Make Christmas Meaningful For Your Family Find us on Facebook or TikTok Subscribe to the Happy Families newsletter Leave a voice memo here or email your questions/comments to [email protected] omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

What happens when online bullying transcends the screen and starts shaping young lives in tragic ways? With eSafety Commissioner Julie Inman Grant, we uncover the harsh realities of cyberbullying, sextortion, and the online traps facing today’s youth. Learn about innovative tools and strategies available to parents, educators, and schools to protect children, as well as the importance of staying engaged in your kids’ digital lives. In this episode: The role of Australia's eSafety Commissioner Cyberbullying & mental health Emerging online threats (doxing, sextortion, violent language, isolating victims) Contagion effect of self harm Parental awareness & responsibility Cooperation from platforms Removing content Tools and resources for parents and educators Teaching kids to report bullying & collect evidence Setting boundaries & modelling respectful communication at home Strategies for managing kids' screen time Related Links: #639 Online Sextortion With Detective Superintendent Jayne Crossling Lifeline Australia - 13 11 14 Kids Helpline - 1800 55 1800 13YARN Australia | For First Nation Australians - 13 92 76 Find us on Facebook or TikTok Subscribe to the Happy Families newsletter Leave a voice memo here or email your questions/comments to [email protected] omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

As the holidays approach, many parents are preparing their children for the transition into school. Zoe Wragg, a parent educator and former primary school teacher, shares practical advice on making this major change easier. From understanding what school readiness really means to offering tips for supporting reading development, Zoe will help ease your worries. Plus—strategies for a smooth start to 2025 with simple, actionable tips that parents can apply during the holidays. In this episode: Transitioning children to school School readiness Overcoming overwhelm in preparing children for school Reading skills and supporting beginning readers Free school readiness checklist Tips for parents navigating the holidays and preparing for school next year www.edzocate.com.au Related Links: Starting School Activity Book [A free Happy Families resource!] The Big Debate: Should you Delay your Child’s Start in School? Facing First Day Fears [Webinar] Find massive savings during the Happy Families Black Friday Sale Find us on Facebook or TikTok Subscribe to the Happy Families newsletter Leave a voice memo here or email your questions/comments to [email protected] omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

A few months ago we spoke about the momentum that was building for age restrictions around social media for children under 16. On Friday those laws were passed in the Australian Parliament, so we thought this was the perfect opportunity to replay this episode, as it will help your family navigate the changes that are ahead. In Australia, children below a certain age will be banned from social media as part of a national plan to counter its negative effects on youth. We discuss the government's commitments, the challenges this new legislation may face, and what parents can do now to protect their kids in a screen-saturated world. In this episode: 'National Social Media Age Limit' | A Current Affair Why 13+ is the current legal age Collecting personal data Politics and obstacles facing this legislation The impact of social media on kids Using screens well: with intentionality, self-regulation, limits Play-based childhood vs screen-based childhood Holding tech companies accountable What parents can do while waiting for legislation to pass Kids need smart parents not smartphones Building community Unplug Childhood - sign the pledge & join the village today! The Screen Smart Series: 'Unplug Childhood' & 'Tweens, Teens & Screens' (included in membership). Related links: #980 The Anxious Generation With Jonathan Haidt Tech Giants are Anti-Kids Black Friday sale ends tonight! Find us on Facebook or TikTok Subscribe to the Happy Families newsletter Leave a voice memo here or email your questions/comments to [email protected] omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

It's Friday, which means our weekly 'I'll Do Better Tomorrow' reflections, looking back on the week that was and thinking of ways we can improve as parents. As the year winds down, Kylie and Justin reflect on their goals and parenting approaches, offering a mix of humor, candid thoughts, and lessons learned. Topics discussed in this episode: Our words of the year - EMBRACE (Kylie) and PRESENT (Justin) - did we live up to them? Justin putting the important things on hold to have fun with the kids. The "good enough" parent Fun pool games Homeschool reflections Kylie discovering that the things we have always held tightly to, may not be what's important now. Find massive savings during the Happy Families Black Friday Sale Find us on Facebook or TikTok Subscribe to the Happy Families newsletter Leave a voice memo here or email your questions/comments to [email protected] omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Dive with us into three issues impacting parents today: Woolies has partnered with Roblox (and parents are mad!). The rise of nicotine pouches among teens as a discreet alternative to vaping or smoking. Proposed legislation to ban kids under 16 from accessing social media and the challenges of enforcement. In this episode: Roblox Rewards at Woolies Thousands of Australians Call for Woolworths to Axe Partnership with Gaming App Roblox | Daily Telegraph Teens getting "nic-sick" with zyns Addictive, hard to detect, easy to procure Nicotine pouches gaining popularity with teens despite being illegal in Australia | ABC News Opposition to the social media legislation Finding refuge & safety online Policing legislation Unplug Childhood Related Links: #974 Roblox Rules The Screen Smart Series [Webinars] Smells Like Teen Spirit Summit (More nirvana. Less drama.) Bad Influence of Influencers Find us on Facebook or TikTok Subscribe to the Happy Families newsletter Leave a voice memo here or email your questions/comments to [email protected] omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

How do we teach our boys about consent in a world filled with mixed messages and harmful influences? Daniel Principe shares his experience working with boys, schools, and families to address this challenge. From tackling online influences to reshaping outdated notions of masculinity, Daniel paints a hopeful yet realistic picture of where we stand and what needs to improve. He explains why starting conversations early and normalising openness can make all the difference—and why no child is ever beyond hope. Daniel Principe is a boys' advocate, speaker, Australian of the Year nominee, and Consent Can't Wait ambassador. In this episode: Consent & boys: what's working & what's not? Exposure to harmful online content Normalising open conversations about consent, porn & relationships Building emotional literacy Reshaping societal ideas about masculinity How to protect your child from becoming victims or perpetrators of harmful behaviours Removing punishment & shame No Matter What Building strong men of the future Related Links: Boys & Screens: Gaming, Gambling, & Pornography [Webinar] Helping Our Boys Grow Into Men Pornography-Proofing Your Kids #226 More Than Consent Education with Melinda Tankard-Reist Find us on Facebook or TikTok Subscribe to the Happy Families newsletter Leave a voice memo here or email your questions/comments to [email protected] omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Is repeating a year of school really the best solution for struggling students? Join us as we unpack the research, share personal stories, and discuss why alternatives like tailored teaching/differentiation, extra support, and starting school at the right age may yield better outcomes for your child. Whether you’re grappling with this decision or curious about educational trends, this episode offers valuable insights to guide you. In this episode: Pros/cons of grade retention Differences in learning (heterogeneity) Delaying the start of formal education (redshirting) Competency & self-esteem Global trends in repeating a school year Effectiveness of grade retention: A systematic review and meta-analysis Social consequences Alternatives to retention Practical advice for parents with struggling students Related Links: Starting School Activity Book The Big Debate: Should you Delay your Child’s Start in School? Find us on Facebook or TikTok Subscribe to the Happy Families newsletter Leave a voice memo here or email your questions/comments to [email protected] omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

With Christmas just around the corner, it's time for men to step up and do some shopping! Don't let Mum be the only one without a present under the tree this year. This episode explores why many far too mums feel left out during the festive season and just want to be thought of by their family. Tune in for practical tips, heartfelt conversations, and a reminder that the best gifts don't have to break the bank. In this episode: The cognitive load of gift-giving Not enough men are buying the women in their lives Christmas presents Money & budgets Materialism Unique gift ideas Supporting local charities Giving Machine | Light The World Related Links: 16 Gifts our Children Need For Christmas Minimising Materialism this Christmas Christmas Day and Divorced Families Find us on Facebook or TikTok Subscribe to the Happy Families newsletter Leave a voice memo here or email your questions/comments to [email protected] omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Parenting isn’t always smooth sailing, especially with a teenager in the house. In this reflective episode, Justin shares a wake-up call about his own negativity bias and how shifting his focus transformed a tricky relationship. Kylie brings balance with a reminder that kids spell love as T-I-M-E. Whether you’re juggling the chaos of year-end or simply trying to connect better, this episode offers inspiration to help you do better tomorrow. In this episode: Parenting teenagers Teens & screens Relationship bucket Focusing on the negative vs finding the positives in relationships #148 Flecks of Gold Intentional 1-1 time with each child Kids spell love T.I.M.E Related Links: Building Strong Parent-Child Connections That Last Miss-Connection Webinar (Why Your Teenage Daughter “Hates” You, Expects the World, and Needs to Talk) Intentional vs. Unintentional Parenting Find us on Facebook or TikTok Subscribe to the Happy Families newsletter Leave a voice memo here or email your questions/comments to [email protected] omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Curious about homeschooling? After a year of diving into this countercultural approach to education, Justin and Kylie share the surprising benefits, the unexpected challenges, and the transformative impact it’s had on their family. In this episode: Highs & lows of homeschooling Facebook post - join the conversation! Emotional regulation Neurodivergence #1111 - Home Schooling 101 With Brett Campbell of Euka Freedom, flexibility & tailored learning Challenges - financial constraints, socialisation, expectations De-schooling Unrealistic expectations Connection with friends Related Links: How to Help when School Sucks #405 The Homeschool Parent - Deb #1038 - Managing Emotional Dysregulation Find us on Facebook or TikTok Subscribe to the Happy Families newsletter Leave a voice memo here or email your questions/comments to [email protected] omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Consent, respect, and healthy relationships—how can parents prepare their children for these crucial aspects of life? Chanel Contos, founder of the Teach Us Consent movement, joins Justin to discuss the challenges of addressing normalised sexual violence, the role parents play in creating open dialogues, and the crucial inclusion of boys in these conversations. In this episode: Talk About Consent | consent.gov.au Normalised sexual violence Pornography Consent Laid Bare: Sex, Entitlement & the Distortion of Desire by Chanel Contos Educating parents & teachers Age-appropriate conversations Respect, boundaries & removing shame Lifeline Australia - 13 11 14 Kids Helpline - 1800 55 1800 13YARN Australia | For First Nation Australians - 13 92 76 Related Links: Sex, Consent & Staying Safe [Webinar] #217 The Age of Consent with Rebecca Sparrow Find us on Facebook or TikTok Subscribe to the Happy Families newsletter Leave a voice memo here or email your questions/comments to [email protected] omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Are we giving kids the equivalent of car keys to a digital world they're not prepared to navigate? In this episode, Dr. Justin Coulson and guest Matt Purcell dive into the complex issue of kids and social media. From the psychological toll it takes on young users to the uphill battle parents face in managing screen time, we explore practical solutions and innovative tools like 'Social Kung Fu' to empower families and to protect our children. In this episode: Impact of social media on youth mental health Age restrictions for social media Balancing online independence & safety Forming alliances among families (The Heads Up Alliance, Unplug Childhood) Algorithms Holding social media accountable Social Kung Fu - equipping kids with verbal & cyber self-defence skills Code of conduct with devices Related Links: 5 Ways to Set Screen Time Limits With Your Children Unplugged Parenthood: Reducing Screen Time to Strengthen Family Connections The Screen Smart Series Find us on Facebook or TikTok Subscribe to the Happy Families newsletter Leave a voice memo here or email your questions/comments to [email protected] omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Dr Emma Watkins is bringing something new to the table with an exclusive project every parent will want to hear about. Join us for a behind-the-scenes look into her inspiring journey! In this episode: The Wiggles Emma Memma Dr Emma Watkins' PhD Abstract Sign-language Self-care & goats Balancing dreams with realistic goals Endometriosis & fertility challenges A Dream for Every Night with Emma Watkins - Audible Book Related links: Self Care Strategies That Really Work Find us on Facebook or TikTok Subscribe to the Happy Families newsletter Leave a voice memo here or email your questions/comments to [email protected] omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Ever faced the uphill battle of convincing your kids to put down their devices, step into nature, and engage with life? I'll Do Better Tomorrow: Justin and Kylie chat about dealing with pushback when you know what's best for your kids, but they resist. In this episode: Tech-free teens Firm but loving encouragement to step outside comfort zones Modelling active engagement Motivating teenagers Wild Robots movie Making bids for connection Tough love Find us on Facebook or TikTok Subscribe to the Happy Families newsletter Leave a voice memo here or email your questions/comments to [email protected] omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Dive into cutting-edge studies on parenting and child development, from income's role in behaviour to the debate over smacking's effects. Find out what the latest research says about the best ways to support our kids’ growth! In this episode: Impact of income on children's behaviour & development New study...better support would bring lifelong benefits | The Conversation Preschoolers: physical activity, screen time & sleep Study reveals most three and four-year-olds don’t get enough exercise or sleep, but too much screen time | The West Australian School mobile phone bans ‘Protecting a generation’: School phone bans pass the test | The Daily Telegraph Smacking harms child development Negative effects of childhood spanking may be overstated, study claims | NY Post Study published in the Marriage & Family Review Data vs morality & philosophy The Parenting Revolution by Dr Justin Coulson Related Links: Why It’s Not Ok To Smack Your Kids Unplug Childhood #1060 - No Hang-Ups With School Phone Bans Screen Time Guidelines Updated for the Touchscreen Generation Find us on Facebook or TikTok Subscribe to the Happy Families newsletter Leave a voice memo here or email your questions/comments to [email protected] See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Raising a neurodivergent child can feel like an uphill battle, especially within a rigid school system. In this episode, Dr. Justin Coulson, along with Madonna King and Rebecca Sparrow, share essential strategies for empowering neurodivergent children and offer hope to parents navigating this challenging path. In this episode: Out of the Box: A Guide to Navigating Neurodivergence by Madonna King and Rebecca Sparrow Common struggles of ND kids Undiagnosed girls Masking & camouflaging Lack of training & resources in schools 3 basic psychological needs Parent-school partnerships Homeschooling Tips for ND kids starting a new school Related Links: Supporting Autistic Children [The Course] Help For The ADHD Parent Championing Neurodiversity Webinar One-Minute Wellbeing: Fifty Quick Tips for Educators Find us on Facebook or TikTok Subscribe to the Happy Families newsletter Leave a voice memo here or email your questions/comments to [email protected] omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

At a recent Fathers of Girls conference, Kylie brought a room full of dads to tears as she spoke about the power of time and connection in parenting. Listen to her heartfelt message, reminding us that it is the time we spend with our children that truly matters. In this episode: Personal Progress Interviews Creating a safe space Having your child's back no matter what Love is spelt T.I.M.E Fostering deep connections with your child Related Links: I Work Full-time. How do I Connect With my Kids? Building Strong Parent-Child Connections That Last Miss-Connection | 7 Day Connection Challenge Find us on Facebook or TikTok Subscribe to the Happy Families newsletter Leave a voice memo here or email your questions/comments to [email protected] omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Schoolies Week can be a thrilling time for teens, but it’s often a nerve-wracking experience for parents. In this episode, we share two essential strategies every parent needs to help their teens navigate Schoolies Week safely and responsibly. In this episode: Schoolies: a rite of passage? Open, honest communication (before and during Schoolies) Safety planning Creating strong support networks Boundaries Peer pressure Responsible drinking Consent "Strong and safe" Related Links: 5 Essential Conversations to Have with Your Teen Before Schoolies #886 Get Set for Schoolies With Paul Dillon Find us on Facebook or TikTok Subscribe to the Happy Families newsletter Leave a voice memo here or email your questions/comments to [email protected] omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Every Friday we do "I'll Do Better Tomorrow", where Justin and Kylie reflect on the week that was, and how they can be better parents tomorrow. In this episode: Dads and straight up conversations Girls are layered Dadding vs Babysitting Not dropping your son-in-law in it. Don't sweat the small stuff Find us on Facebook or TikTok Subscribe to the Happy Families newsletter Leave a voice memo here or email your questions/comments to [email protected] omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

"Region Beta Paradox"is a phenomenon where minor annoyances that don't seem urgent can actually cause more stress over time if left unaddressed. We apply this concept to parenting, showing how minor behaviours in children, like whining or sibling squabbles, can escalate if repeatedly ignored, affecting both the child's development and the parent's well-being. In this episode: The Region Beta Paradox Why small annoyances can harm us more than big disruptions | PSYCHE Parenting implications of ignoring minor behaviours Psychological toll on parents Importance of empathy and emotional regulation in responding to children Solutions for parents Self-care and setting boundaries Avoiding screens Related Links: How to Respond When Triggered by Your Child Self-Care Strategies That Really Work Overwhelm: Self-care Strategies for When Everything is Too Much [Webinar] Why Our Kids Need Us to Set Limits Unplugged Parenthood: Reducing Screen Time to Strengthen Family Connections Developmental Milestones: What to Expect From Birth to Adulthood Find us on Facebook or TikTok Subscribe to the Happy Families newsletter Leave a voice memo here or email your questions/comments to [email protected] omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Bullying can have a huge impact on our kids' lives. Recently, Dr Justin had a conversation with Rachel and Sarah on their podcast The Parenting Couch. Today's snippet from that covers definitions of bullying, how to open up conversations about it, and what steps to take when your child is involved. Find the link to the full conversation in our show notes. In this episode: What is bullying? Verbal, physical, repeated, cyber-bullying Having conversations with your kids Emotions Feeling seen, heard, valued Encouraging empathy and "upstanding" behaviour What to do when bullying happens When to involve other parents Related Links: Stop the Bully: Proven Strategies to Empower Your Child, with Dr Justin Coulson | The Parenting Couch Podcast Find us on Facebook or TikTok Subscribe to the Happy Families newsletter Leave a voice memo here or email your questions/comments to [email protected] See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

*Listener discretion advised* A concerned parent, Emily, has sent in a sensitive but increasingly relevant question. Emily’s seven-year-old son confided that his friend was suggesting inappropriate behaviours, including taking photos of private areas. Listen in for guidance on handling difficult conversations, protecting children’s safety, and fostering trust. In this episode: Importance of a trusting parent-child relationship Developmental appropriate behaviour Girlfriend/boyfriend in primary school Guidance on sensitive conversations Steps for addressing friend's behaviour Age-appropriate education on bodies, boundaries, consent Empowering children Ongoing vigilance and support Related Links: Should our Young Children have Boyfriends or Girlfriends at School? #1071 – Body Boundaries With Jayneen Sanders 7 Strategies For When Your Child Accidentally Finds Pornography #898 Porn-Proofing Your Kids with Kristen Jenson Find us on Facebook or TikTok Subscribe to the Happy Families newsletter Leave a voice memo here or email your questions/comments to [email protected] See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Why do our kids seem like they're never listening, no matter how many times we repeat ourselves? Today, we share nine practical strategies that can help you to communicate more effectively with your kids, reduce those frustrating moments, and strengthen family connections... without repeating yourself over and over (and over!) again. In this episode: Why repeating instructions doesn’t work Common misunderstandings between parents and kids How to improve communication Related Links: What To Do When Kids Won’t Listen How to Get Your Kids to Really Listen [Ebook + AudioBook] Find us on Facebook or TikTok Subscribe to the Happy Families newsletter Leave a voice memo here or email your questions/comments to [email protected] omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

The secret ingredient every child craves for feeling loved and understood is their parent's undivided time and attention. Discover why making small sacrifices in your busy schedule to connect with your kids can have a profound impact on your relationship with them. In this episode: Halloween Fathers of Girls QLD politics & corporal punishment Kylie's riding, Justin's writing Love is spelt T.I.M.E Making time for the things that matter most Intentional connection Don't miss the final intake for our Supporting Autistic Children Course with Dr Justin Coulson & Dr Joey Lawrence Find us on Facebook or TikTok Subscribe to the Happy Families newsletter Leave a voice memo here or email your questions/comments to [email protected] omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Halloween can be an equal mix of excitement for the kids and chaos for parents, right? And finding a balance between our children's desire for independence (to have fun, to explore, and to eat ALL the sugar) whilst maintaining a sense of safety is a challenge. We share some practical tips to help make Halloween meaningful for your family, from building community connections to teaching social skills, plus some fun twists on the classic trick-or-treat! 🎃👻 In this episode: Balancing fun & safety for kids Setting boundaries & rules Alternative Halloween celebrations Trunk-or-treat Cultural differences (gore vs fun) Community & family bonding Teaching social skills and life lessons Related Links: An Australian Halloween Worried about too much sugar? Some helpful tips from 'Kids Eat In Color' Don't miss the final intake for our Supporting Autistic Children Course with Dr Justin Coulson & Dr Joey Lawrence Find us on Facebook or TikTok Subscribe to the Happy Families newsletter Leave a voice memo here or email your questions/comments to [email protected] omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Is homeschooling right for your family? A rising number of Australian parents are questioning if this alternative path could truly work for them and their children’s unique needs. We delve into the realities of homeschooling with Brett Campbell, CEO of Australia’s largest homeschooling provider, Euka, as he shares insights, data, and tips that could transform the way you think about your child’s education. In this episode: Top reasons for homeschooling Flexible schedule Socialisation Finding community University Pathway – Grade 11 & 12 Options Future Learners Podcast Misconceptions about homeschooling Related Links: #1042 – Work & Home School Life Balance How to Help when School Sucks #503 - Home Schooling 101 Find us on Facebook or TikTok Subscribe to the Happy Families newsletter Leave a voice memo here or email your questions/comments to [email protected] See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Are the classic birth order stereotypes of the responsible eldest, the overlooked middle child, and the free-spirited youngest really grounded in science—or are we just buying into myths? Join us as we unpack the surprising research behind these family labels and discover what truly shapes your child’s personality, beyond their place in the sibling lineup. In this episode: Birth order stereotypes What your sibling birth order does—and doesn’t—explain | VOX Birth Order Theory - Alfred Adler Gender roles & family dynamics Family size, age gaps, & unique circumstances Confirmation bias Personality traits & birth order Avoiding rigid labels Supporting Autistic Children Course with Dr Justin Coulson & Dr Joey Lawrence Find us on Facebook or TikTok Subscribe to the Happy Families newsletter Leave a voice memo here or email your questions/comments to [email protected] omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Three news stories for 'This Week in Parenting': Is your phone getting in the way of quality time with your kids? Research shows that when parents are glued to their devices, children are more likely to struggle with anxiety, depression, and attention issues! A proposal to replace team sports with yoga and pilates in Victorian schools raises concerns about the balance between physical activity and academic focus. Plus, why homeschooling is booming in QLD! In this episode: Parents Distracted By Smartphones Linked To Higher Anxiety In Kids | Forbes Negative impact on child development Being intentional with screen use Feeling seen, heard & valued Private schools ditch footy for yoga in APS shake-up | Herald Sun Mindfulness Team sports & competition Sedentary learning Home-schooling explosion in Qld fed by bullied children | The Courier Mail Related Links: #1107 - This Week in Parenting: Roblox Hell & Parental Health Hazards Our Phones Are Wrecking Us Supporting Autistic Children Course with Dr Justin Coulson & Dr Joey Lawrence Find us on Facebook or TikTok Subscribe to the Happy Families newsletter Leave a voice memo here or email your questions/comments to [email protected] omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

When a child is upset or angry, it’s easy to think their outburst is about the immediate problem. The real challenge for parents is identifying the deeper emotions driving these reactions. Kylie shares a conversation with her daughter that started as a fight over Roblox but ended with heartfelt tears over a completely different issue. By taking the time to talk with our kids, we can help them uncover the true reasons behind their strong feelings. In this episode: Play dates & Roblox 14 reasons why.... Homeschooling Need for connection Hindenburg Research: Roblox Roblox - a tool for sexual predators The 3 Es of Effective Discipline: Explore, Explain, and Empower Related Links: Keeping kids safe on Roblox Why Your Kids Need a Tribe Supporting Autistic Children Course with Dr Justin Coulson & Dr Joey Lawrence Find us on Facebook or TikTok Subscribe to the Happy Families newsletter Leave a voice memo here or email your questions/comments to [email protected] omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

This Week in Parenting: Roblox is a ridiculously popular game—but not just with kids..and not always for gaming! We take a quick look at the dark side of this platform and how parents can keep children safe online. While a recent report warns that parenting can harm mental health, Justin and Kylie suggest that parenting doesn't need to be stressful—we just need a little less pressure and a lot more fun. Finally, Meta has shifted the responsibility of protecting kids online to parents, while failing to adequately safeguard children on their platforms. In this episode: Roblox: a paedophile hellscape Roblox Inflated Data And Doesn’t Protect Underage Gamers | Forbes Parental stress & isolation Where is the village? Parenting Is Hazardous to Your Health, the Surgeon General Warns | WSJ Age-verification for social media Meta wants app stores and Aussie parents to act as social media age limit 'gateway' | The Daily Telegrap Parental Guidance Season 3 applications open Supporting Autistic Children Course (early bird pricing ends soon!) Related Links: Keeping kids safe on Roblox It Takes A Village… But the Village is Sick #1072 – Does Parenting Have a PR Problem? Answers with Dr Justin Coulson | The Screen Smart Series Find us on Facebook or TikTok Subscribe to the Happy Families newsletter Leave a voice memo here or email your questions/comments to [email protected] omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Paediatric Dietician Karina Savage, founder of Nourishing Kids, chats with Justin about gut microbiome, sharing practical tips for parents on creating a healthy eating environment for children. In this episode: Good bugs, bad bugs - gut bacteria Symbiosis/dysbiosis & immunity Fussy eating Leaky gut Probiotics & prebiotics (fibre) Force creates resistance (or anxiety) Nourish With Karina The Easy Feed Podcast with Karina Savage (Paediatric Dietician) Related Links: How do I Get My Child to Eat Healthy Food Without the Power Struggles? #1101 – Fussy to Healthy Eaters With Karina Savage Find us on Facebook or TikTok Subscribe to the Happy Families newsletter Leave a voice memo here or email your questions/comments to [email protected] omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Neda's 3-year-old son enjoys rough play but struggles to dial it back with his younger sibling, sometimes leading to unintentional harm. Dr. Justin offers six strategies to help every parent manage this lack of regulation in little ones. Emma from Brisbane knows that picking your battles is a pro-parenting tip. But the challenge of knowing when to enforce clear and consistent boundaries and when to step back (without becoming "white noise" to your kids!) can be relentless. In this episode: Cognitive development Lack of regulation Boys & rough play Quality time Risky, active play Building sibling bonds Family meetings: 3 questions Asking kids for consent before sharing consent/correction "But why?" Related Links: #764 Should We Stop Our Boys Playing Rough? Teaching Kids Kindness [Webinar] The Case for Risky Play in an Age of Overprotection #1045 – The Art & Science of Family Meetings Find us on Facebook or TikTok Subscribe to the Happy Families newsletter Leave a voice memo here or email your questions/comments to [email protected] Become a Happy Families Member todaySee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Has your child been hanging around with a friend that you don't approve of? Does your kid's behaviour change when they spend time with certain friends? Perhaps you've been thinking of stepping in and putting some control around who your kids are friends with. In this episode: Is it a good idea to control our children's friendships? Relationships are hard Relationships are two ways Whey stepping in may hinder learning and growth Related Links: Maternal Disapproval of Friends damages the Peer Status of Pre and Early Adolescents Forbidden Friends as Forbidden Fruit How do I Keep my Daughter Away from her Boyfriend? Supporting Autistic Children Course (NDIS approved) Find us on Facebook or TikTok Subscribe to the Happy Families newsletter Leave a voice memo here or email your questions/comments to [email protected] Become a Happy Families Member todaySee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Are you feeling a little overwhelmed with parenting and in your home-work-life balance? You're not alone! For 'I'll Do Better Tomorrow' we discuss the importance of structure—the foundation of building competence—and how it provides the framework and tools for parents and children alike to feel effective. In this episode: “A compliment is not an insult to the other” Kylie is training for a triathlon Parental overwhelm Structure 3 basic psychological needs Homeschool Being a good friend Bedtime routines Related Links: We Need to Talk About Parent Wellbeing Supporting Autistic Children Course (NDIS approved) Find us on Facebook or TikTok Subscribe to the Happy Families newsletter Leave a voice memo here or email your questions/comments to [email protected] Become a Happy Families Member today See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Justin and Kylie dive into the latest research to help parents raise healthier, happier kids. With schoolies, summer BBQs, and end-of-year celebrations just around the corner, we look at data around the effects of alcohol on teens and the risks associated with parental supply. Plus, why digital switching leaves you feeling less satisfied and refreshed, and a simple "thank you" can lower parental stress and increase relationship satisfaction. In this episode: Think giving your teen alcohol is safe? Read this - Sarah Perillo| | Herald Sun Parental supply of alcohol Risks associated with teen drinking Myth - The Mediterranean Effect Fast-forward to boredom: How switching behavior on digital media makes people more bored | Journal of Experimental Psychology Digital Switching Boredom ‘Thank You’ really would be nice: Perceived gratitude in family relationships | The Journal of Positive Psychology Feeling appreciated and valued Family chaos Expressing gratitude Related Links: Should We be Giving our Teens Alcohol? Six Science-Backed Benefits of Gratitude #2: How Gratitude Can Make Your Family Happier Find us on Facebook or TikTok Subscribe to the Happy Families newsletter Leave a voice memo here or email your questions/comments to [email protected] Become a Happy Families Member todaySee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Karina Savage, Paediatric Dietician and founder of Nourishing Kids, chats with Justin about some of the most common challenges parents have with feeding kids, and what parents can do to help create healthy eaters in a stress-free way. In this episode: Nourish With Karina The Easy Feed Podcast with Karina Savage (Paediatric Dietician) Fussy eating habits, sensory issues Healthy eating behaviours Lack of food standards / regulations in Australia Safe foods Recognising small wins Family meal times 'Feeding ecosystem' - getting the fundamentals right Understanding the why behind fussy eating Gut health Related Links: How do I Get My Child to Eat Healthy Food Without the Power Struggles? #1008 - Family Dinner Deep Dive Eat Right Without a Fight [E-Book] Food Rules by Michael Pollard Find us on Facebook or TikTok Subscribe to the Happy Families newsletter Leave a voice memo here or email your questions/comments to [email protected] Become a Happy Families Member todaySee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Today we have an anonymous question from a mum who's got a happy go lucky teenager, happy to coast through life, as well as a husband who is coasting through the chores with his earbuds in. Does she need to change either of these behaviours? In this episode: Giving kids autonomy Force creates resistance Perspective Upside-Downside conversation Connection Boundaries, expectations, finding compromise Explore underlying dynamics Related Links: #754 Why Doing Their Best Might Not Be the Best The Biggest Relationship Mistakes We All Make Find us on Facebook or TikTok Subscribe to the Happy Families newsletter Leave a voice memo here or email your questions/comments to [email protected] Become a Happy Families Member todaySee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

The harmful message being pushed onto senior students—that individual academic success is the ultimate priority in their final years of school—sends Mrs. Happy Families on an angry rant! You can help guide your senior student towards a healthy balance between academic achievement and the joy, connection, and recreation that are essential for their well-being. In this episode: Preparing for final year of school Scarcity mentality & competition Coping with stress/anxiety Finding balance Heavy focus on results & unhealthy elevation of university Drop-out rates in first year university Multiple pathways after school The importance of self-control 3 E’s conversation with senior students: Explore, Explain, Empower What’s important to you educationally? What do you need and how can we support you? Related links: #1095 - Exams: Less Stress More Success Enough: Overcoming Anxiety, Perfectionism, & Self Loathing Find us on Facebook or TikTok Subscribe to the Happy Families newsletter Leave a voice memo here or email your questions/comments to [email protected] Become a Happy Families Member todaySee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.