Digital Dating with Anonymous Andrew

I post on youtube sometimes, Finally figured how to separate the audio from the video. So this is a recent youtube rant about dating, the direction of the podcast and some a date gone horribly wrong. Still making some of the mistakes, dumb mistakes, that I should know by now. I am too much of a nice guy.

Ep. 28: as each episode gets produced I am amazed at the amount of perspective and insights there are into relationships and their breakdowns. I know you guys are getting tired of my story, I am starting to really get into relationships in general. From how to choose the right partner to what happens and why our partners do what they do and how they relationship begins to decay. Chris's perspective and his holistic approach and how he explained narcissism, gaslighting, more importantly the origins of narcissism from the childhood perspective. There were so many topics he covered, I have to have him back, Please if you enjoyed this episode and have questions please reach out to me, When I have Chris back we can ask him your questions. If you have a relationship story you would like to share anonymously, I welcome you on. If you are stuck and don't know how to handle your situation. Please reach out and we will help youChris Paprotny is a certified trauma specialist and hypnotherapist who has been helping people heal from trauma in its many forms over the last four years. In addition to trauma-informed life coaching and hypnotherapy, his background is in the field of human behaviour, reiki energy healing, and child psychology.Website: https://www.physicalfinesse.comPensight: https://pensight.com/x/physicalfinesseltdTikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@physicalfinesseltdInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/physicalfinesseltdYouTube:https://www.youtube.com/@physicalfinesseltd2540 I can be found on these platofrms:Andrew PAnonymousAndrew Podcast-Life & The Choices We Make. Podcast Website: https://rss.com/podcasts/anonymousandrew/YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@anonymousandrewpodcastInstagram: @anonymousandrewpodcastTwitter:AAndrewpodcast

Ep 27: Nancy and I played zoom tag for days until we finally sat caught up. What a delightful woman. Nancy shares with us her perspective on relationships, Goes into the biological aspect of it. Dopamine, serotonin & oxytocin. I really enjoyed speaking with her. I will be buying her book which is available on Amazon. She is a blogger as well which are available on her website. I will be reading those as well!Nancy's Book: Around Which All Things BendWebsite: https://nancyperpall.com/ Facebook: nancyperpallInstagram: Nancy perpall

Ep-26: Rolland Sarver has an amazing take on our self value. How we see ourselves and how others see us. What is the difference? One of my favorite interviews with a guest.Roland Sarver:Book: The Value Message Website: https://www.thevaluemessage.com/The book is available on Amazon: https://www.amazon.com/Value-Message-Celebrate-Uncover-Potential/dp/B0BGCK5MQXMy info:Andrew PAnonymousAndrew Podcast-Life & The Choices We Make. Podcast Website: https://rss.com/podcasts/anonymousandrew/YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@anonymousandrewpodcastInstagram: @anonymousandrewpodcastTwitter:AAndrewpodcast

Ep-25: I came across Keith Wilson from his book. While he specializes in reconciliation, it comes in many forms. Keith has some very good insights into thew world on amends, and forgiveness, addiction and so much more. I enjoed talking with Keith. I hope you enjoy this episode too.Keith Wilson LMHChttps://keithwilsoncounseling.com/about/Author of the book: The Road to Reconciliation:A Comprehensive Guide to Peace When Relationships Go BadMy info:Andrew PAnonymousAndrew Podcast-Life & The Choices We Make. Podcast Website: https://rss.com/podcasts/anonymousandrew/YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@anonymousandrewpodcastInstagram: @anonymousandrewpodcastTwitter:AAndrewpodcast

Episode 24 -Wow-Do not judge a book by it's cover. At first I didn't think Anna Thellmann would be the right fit for my podcast. Not only was she amazing, what she had to offer is exactly what I (we) needed to hear. Her insight into red flags, healing, knowing when to exit a relationship and when to know it is the right time to begin dating again is unparalleled. I am honored to have had the opportunity to interview this amazing intimacy coach. If you enjoy this interview and would like to reach out to Anna, you can get in touch with her via email and you’ll find her on LinkedIn and [email protected]/in/annathellmanncoachingFB Anna Thellmannhttps://www.facebook.com/profile.phpid=100068025781657--Andrew PAnonymousAndrew Podcast-Life & The Choices We Make. Podcast Website: https://rss.com/podcasts/anonymousandrew/PodcastYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCMYH5hXpS94ORITIy_AyclQ+Instagram: @anonymousandrewpodcastTwitter:AAndrewpodcast

Episode 24: Angelica shares her story of a horrible summer she had with a man who used her, deceived her and of course gaslighted her. This topic needs to be talked about more and more. My goal is to help people to see the red flags early on to avoid the heartbreak and trauma of the bitter end to a romance. If we can identify the red flags early on we can avoid so much time and heartbreak by walking away earlier. She also shares her experience on the dating apps. If you have a stroy and want to share you can contact below.#gaslighting #breakups #heartbreak #dating apps [email protected] @anonymousandrewpodcasttwitter: AAndrewpodcastPodcast website: https://rss.com/podcasts/anonymousandrew/Youtube:https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCMYH5hXpS94ORITIy_AyclQ

Episode 22-I converse with Anonymous Sofie, a woman I met on a dating app (long time ago) We never dated but became good friends. She shares her experience in the current dating app universe. The pros and cons. The red flags, how to be safe, etc. I wanted a woman perspective into the dating app. Over the next several months as I shift from my grief over the loss of this past relationship, now that I am past it, I will be exploring the world of dating on and off line.· My info:· Anonymous Andrew Podcast-Life & The Choices We Make.· Website: https://www.anonymousandrewpodcast.com· Instagram: @anonymousandrewpodcast· Facebook: FACEBOOK.COM/anonymousandrewpodcast· Threads: https://www.threads.net/@anonymousandrewpodcast· YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@anonymousandrewpodcast· X: AAndrewpodcast· #podmatch Music by: freebeats.io

Lyn Smith, The Queen of Hearts is a renowned author, self-improvement influencer and podcaster (among many other titles) interviews me on her podcast entitled "Hearts-Entwined" With her permission I am sharing this episode with you. This was recored back in early March of 2023.Thank you Lyn Smith-Queen of HeartsHer podcast/contact info:https://bit.ly/[email protected] Website:https://omny.fm/shows/hearts-entwined/playlists/podcast

Just a quick bonus to ask you to watch a short film by Spike Jonze called "I'm Here". This short film blew me away. The person who recommended that I watch will be coming on in the coming week so he and I can discuss this film. It has everything to do with this podcast. There is the book version called "There are many of us" which Spike Jonze adapted the short film. Please watch this short film. It is available on Youtube. Here is the link https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6OY1EXZt4okAndrew PAnonymousAndrew Podcast-Life & The Choices We Make.Podcast Website: https://rss.com/podcasts/anonymousandrew/PodcastYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCMYH5hXpS94ORITIy_AyclQ+Instagram: @anonymousandrewpodcastTwitter:AAndrewpodcast

My weekly Friday night checkin, But this time I have some news, I have met some one. But in typical fashion, something is off. Trust issues are kicking in. Red Flags are flying! What to do?AnonymousAndrew Podcast-Life & The Choices We Make.Podcast Website: https://rss.com/podcasts/anonymousandrew/PodcastYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCMYH5hXpS94ORITIy_AyclQ+Instagram: @anonymousandrewpodcastTwitter:AAndrewpodcast

I have been waiting to do this interview for a long time! This gentlemen has insight into relationships that have inspired me so much, he is like a sponsor to me. Anonymous David has asked me to alter his voice. So you will hear this interview in chipmunk mode (his voice) David has finally broken free of the pattern that many of us find ourselves. He is in a healthy happy loving relationship now. But He doesn't want his past to come back to haunt him. So I have honored his request to alter his voice. Ladies & Gentlemen, I am am proud to present you Anonymous David with incredible insight into relationships with person with PBD, narcissistic tendencies, gaslighting and the whole gamut. Enjoy the show.· My info:· Anonymous Andrew Podcast-Life & The Choices We Make.· Website: https://www.anonymousandrewpodcast.com· Instagram: @anonymousandrewpodcast· Facebook: FACEBOOK.COM/anonymousandrewpodcast· Threads: https://www.threads.net/@anonymousandrewpodcast· YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@anonymousandrewpodcast· X: AAndrewpodcast· Music by: freebeats.io

I share an instagram reel (audio version) that resonated so much I had to share. I give credit to the person who shared this reel. Then in my usual fashion on go off on a rant. Hey, it is what I do! If you are struggling with alcoholism, mental illness or an abusive relationship and need someone to talk to, I am here to listen. Instagram: @anonymousandrewpodcastemail: [email protected]: AAndrewpodcast

Interview with Sam Knickerbocker who is a successful entrepreneur with a few different business ventures. -Regularly speaks to hundreds of people. While he has a whole platform different from the theme of this podcast, he shares his meaning of Americas Legacy Expert. How he got to where he is today and his insights into dating, relationships, gaslighting, How to choose wisely. Know what you want from a partner and so much more. -Has Been Featured on “The Brad Lea Podcast” Episode 197, “Stop Talking, Take Action, Get Results. Business and Personal Growth with Jen Du Plessis,” “D2D Podcast by Sam Taggart” and many more! -Hosts a podcast called Fuel Your Legacy, where he's interviewed people like Sam Taggart, Ty Bennett, Rob Murgatroyd, Nicholas Bayerle, and more. -Author of "Fuel Your Legacy-the 9 Pillars to Build a Meaningful Legacy" book. - Has educated and led hundreds of families and individuals to a path of financial freedom and peace. He can talk about the following subjects: -How to transform your income by healing your life. -How to shift your mindset with finances into a positive relationship. -How to create a legacy that will last through many generations. -He can talk about the S.M.A.R.T. way to create a legacy. -And anything in the sphere of sales. Here are two links to have access to his free e-book and webinar that he hosts if you want to also check those out: E-book Webinar He will be excited to promote the episode to his audience through many social media platforms. Let me know if you are interested in having him and I will get the interview coordinated. Here are a few links to learn more about him as well. Face book Instagram Twitter Free e-book: Fuel Your Legacy: 9 Pillars to Build A Legacy Website: https://samknickerbocker.com/ Phone: 385-323-2493 [email protected] https://www.facebook.com/photo/?fbid=4112043565482381&set=a.150054341681343&__tn__=%3C

Heather is a Certified Self-Love & Healing Coach. After 10 years of an abusive marriage with a narcissist, finding herself in a world of trauma, lack of self-love & worth, feeling co-dependent and anxiety. She took her life back. She shares how she did it and how she now helps women heal and step into their most Fierce selves. Here is Heather Baker contact info:Instagram and TikTok @theheather_nicoleWebsite: www.heathernicolecoaching.comEmail: [email protected] Free E-Book: https://mailchi.mp/3efa12efa2ab/rewriteyournarrativefreebie

I share how an ex girlfriend made my birthday yesterday very special. They say you can't be friends with an ex. Well I challenge that, I have proof. Of course I am not talking about my recent ex who shredded my heart, This is someone I dated a while ago. No specifics, as she is special to me and her anonymity is sacred. Thank you to all my listeners. Please leave a review and rating if your platform allows it. Until next time! (next episode another Life Coach to share her insights

I talk with David Price a Certified Professional Life Coach who helps men and women overcome everyday boundaries holding them back from the life they want to live, No matter how helpless or hopeless they feel. Where was he when I needed him! Look and ye shall find. David is fantastic. When you are stuck in a situation and don't know how to get out, he shares his secrets to how he did it! David Price Contact info:Facebook: David Price (Morehead City NC)https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=100015415965649email: [email protected] contact info: [email protected]: @anonymousandrewpodcastTwitter: AAndrewpodcast

The phrase HURT PEPLE HURT PEOPLE. Meaning someone who has been hurt in the past (some form of trauma) will hurt others. either on purpose or subconsciously. I ramble my thoughts on this phrase. A pre-cursor to eventually a guest to discuss this. How do we identify a "hurt person" early on in the dating phase? Do all "hurt people hurt others" I have been hurt but I dont hurt others (not intentionally) What do we mean by hurt others? Infidelity? manipulations etcAnonymous Andrew Podcast-Life & The Choices We Make. Website: https://www.anonymousandrewpodcast.comInstagram: @anonymousandrewpodcastFacebook: FACEBOOK.COM/anonymousandrewpodcastThreads: https://www.threads.net/@anonymousandrewpodcastYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@anonymousandrewpodcastX:AAndrewpodcast

Episode 12: I babble about self-love. Have some interviews lined up to discuss what it means to self love. Whether they happen or not I wanted to give you my perspective on self-love. Self-worth. This episode is also available on Youtube.· My info:· Anonymous Andrew Podcast-Life & The Choices We Make.· Website: https://www.anonymousandrewpodcast.com· Instagram: @anonymousandrewpodcast· Facebook: FACEBOOK.COM/anonymousandrewpodcast· Threads: https://www.threads.net/@anonymousandrewpodcast· YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@anonymousandrewpodcast· X: AAndrewpodcast· Music by: freebeats.io

Long time coming, I finally was able to get a qualified professional to join us to discuss Gaslighting in relationships, what it looks like. She presents one of her own cases which is an amazing story of one person experience of gaslighting that has been going on for 30 years. I want to personally thank Della Marie Mullins -MSW, Licensed Marriage Family Counselor for taking the time out of her busy schedule to side down and help us understand this all to common practice. Della has a practice in NYC. She can be contacted by these venues: She is taking on new patients. If you live in NYC and need help in your marriage, or family life, or romantic relationship, she is available.Business Website: https://www.spillthateawithdee.com Email address: [email protected] Phone number: 929-263-4816Instagram: @spillthateawithdeeTwitter: @DellMu45338931 Facebook: della Mullins Tiktok: @spillthateawithdeeIf you are a professional and would like to com on to discuss any of the red flags topics, or you have a story of your own you would like to share with us. I can be reached at [email protected] @anonymousandrewpodcast-Twitter AAndrewpodcast and of course facebook under Andrew Polizzo (not my real last name)

Anonymous Paul (not his real name) shares his story of a marriage with a woman who took him on a tremulous journey for 25 years. Trying to do the right thing for his family, by being the sole breadwinner, the ex-wife put him through some horrible times, including cheating, blaming, double standards, etc. And yes gaslighting was involved. But yet he stayed as long as he could. If you have a story you would like to share with us of a relationship gone horribly wrong. Pease contact me, all info [email protected]. Instagram @anonymousandrewpodcast. Facebook Andrew Polizzo (of course not my last name) I am also on youtube, Just search for Anonymousandrew podcast and subscribe to my channel. Thank you for listening! Ciao!

Mental Stillness! What is it? I explain what it is to be mentally ill and still. Why people choose to go through life with a mental diagnosis and not be treated. If you have a story about yourself or a relationship where you or your partner were diagnosed with a mental disorder and would like to share with us. (Anonymously of course) I can be reached on IG @anonymousandrewpodcast or anonymousandrewpodcast @gmail.com. If you are a professional or fellow podcast and would like to be a guest I would love to hear from you. Ciao!Anonymous Andrew Podcast-Life & The Choices We Make. Website: https://www.anonymousandrewpodcast.comInstagram: @anonymousandrewpodcastFacebook: FACEBOOK.COM/anonymousandrewpodcastThreads: https://www.threads.net/@anonymousandrewpodcastYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@anonymousandrewpodcastX:AAndrewpodcast

I talk about being stalked on social media by my ex. What is the purpose especially if she wanted out of the relationship and has something to hide. I am out of her life, why continue to gaslight me, and harass me. I talk about how they can make multiple accounts on Instagram and even if you block them they get around it. Do you have a story about being stalked online post breakup? Follow me on IG and (send me a DM that you heard this episode so I don't block you. Partially [email protected] IG @anonymousandrewpodcastyoutube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCMYH5hXpS94ORITIy_AyclQ

Ep-7: I just had therapy. EMDR. I talk about how difficult it is to process this trauma. If you are in a relationship where you are feeling anxious ALL the time and are being lied to, cheated on and gaslit, listen to this and please GET OUT of the relationship. Walk away· My info:· Anonymous Andrew Podcast-Life & The Choices We Make.· Website: https://www.anonymousandrewpodcast.com· Instagram: @anonymousandrewpodcast· Facebook: FACEBOOK.COM/anonymousandrewpodcast· Threads: https://www.threads.net/@anonymousandrewpodcast· YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@anonymousandrewpodcast· X: AAndrewpodcast Music by: freebeats.io

Gaslighting is all around us. Yes we seem to accept it. It is a form of manipulations that can actually damage a person to the point they may be put on medication either to get over the trauma or during the gaslighting itself. I posted a version of this on youtube. Here is the link https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Ks0hPdjMt7s This episode is a variations of that, If you have been gaslit or going through that now I want to hear from you. I can be reached at [email protected], IG @anonymousandrewpodcast, twitter Aandrewpodcast -facebook and a website in the works.

This is part 2 of my interview with my son, who shared the same experiences as I did in my last relationship. lies, gaslighting, cheating, manipulation and more. The choices we make in relationships. Why do we keep going back, accepting the behaviors of these partners. If you have a story of gaslighting, or deception, cheating, manipulation in a past relationship or a current one. I would like to hear from you. If you would like to share this story with us I will put you on an episode. I am on IG @anonymousandrewpodcast, You tube https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCMYH5hXpS94ORITIy_AyclQTwitter @Aandrewpodcast. email:[email protected] website coming soon.

Episode -4 I interview a very special guest. One of my sons. He has mirrored me up to this point in his life with regard to relationships. Listen to the similarities of the choices he made. The type of women he chose. This is a part one of a 2 part interview.Please follow me on IG @anonymousandrewpodcast. On Twitter Aandrewpodcast. On Youtube. anonymousandrewpodcast and of course you can email me [email protected]. When I figure out how to make this links for you I will make it easier. But again I am producing this on my own. I have a lot of social media and content and editing etc that needs to be done. Its a slow burn my friends.https://wordpress.com/view/anonymousandrewpodcast.wordpress.com

As I slowly produce this podcast which is booking guests, coming up with topics, etc. I would like to hear your story. If you are in or have been in a relationship and was lied to, gaslighted, cheated on and/or simply ignored the red flags, I would like to hear your story. If you are a podcaster and are interested in being a guest on my show please let me know. We all have hundreds of decisions we need to make everyday. Some are simply which parking spot to take. Making the right decisions in our life are crucial to a healthy lifestyle both mentally and emotionally. Sounds so simple yet I have yet to implement this into my romantic life! I am on Instagram @anonymousandrewpodcast or email me [email protected]. and twitter @AAndrewpodcast

Ep 2: This episode is why I started this podcast. What you will hear is what happened in my last relationship. This episode is about the red flags in a relationship. The odd gaslighting behaviors and deceptions, lying and cheating that we (I) chose to ignore. This episode is why I started this podcast. Soon we will dive into these behaviors, examine them and why we choose to ignore them, and resulting in heartbreak and misery.I am looking for similar stories from you. If you identify with this story please let me know.. I might have you on as a guest to tell your story. I want to hear from professionals or other podcasters who may want to help us figure out why we let this type of behavior to continue.· My info:· Anonymous Andrew Podcast-Life & The Choices We Make.· Website: https://www.anonymousandrewpodcast.com· Instagram: @anonymousandrewpodcast· Facebook: FACEBOOK.COM/anonymousandrewpodcast· Threads: https://www.threads.net/@anonymousandrewpodcast· YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@anonymousandrewpodcast· X: AAndrewpodcast Music by: freebeats.io

This is an impromptu episode based on a phone call I just received. I had to share it. This podcast is going to cover everyday life and what it throws at you, How we deal with it. I was just handed my butt to me by a family member for my behavior during and after a breakup, Deservingly so I might add. Life & the choices we make! · My info:· Anonymous Andrew Podcast-Life & The Choices We Make.· Website: https://www.anonymousandrewpodcast.com· Instagram: @anonymousandrewpodcast· Facebook: FACEBOOK.COM/anonymousandrewpodcast· Threads: https://www.threads.net/@anonymousandrewpodcast· YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@anonymousandrewpodcast· X: AAndrewpodcast Music by: freebeats.io

This is my pilot episode. Introduction and bio and topics that I plan to cover. Join me to learn about the red flags of life. How to not get caught in the vortex of relationships, our inner thoughts, mental & physical health. Are you struggling with addiction, relationships, paranoia or going through a breakup? I am there and doing that. With the help of my support network, friends, guests, and interviews with other podcasters, authors and professionals, each week we will tackle all topics related to getting you through these challenging concerns. I want to hear from you. Your story of a relationship gone wrong. Gaslit, lied to cheated on, Especially if you found out your ex was an High paid VIP escort. I am on:IG @anonymousandrewpodcastTwitter @[email protected]