Dear Future Wifey

In this dynamic episode of Dear Future Wifey, Laterras and Ashley R. Whitfield sit down with powerhouse couple Michael Jai White and Gillian White for an engaging and insightful conversation about love, marriage, and navigating life in the entertainment industry. Together, they share the stories of how they met, offering insight into the moments that sparked their relationships and the foundations that have kept them strong through the years. From ministry to Hollywood, each couple brings a unique perspective on what it means to build and sustain a lasting union. Michael and Gillian give a behind-the-scenes look at what it’s really like being married in the entertainment industry, including the challenges, sacrifices, and balance required when one (or both) partners are in the spotlight. They also share exciting updates and the inside scoop on their latest projects, giving viewers a glimpse into their creative world. Throughout the conversation, both couples reflect on the principles that have helped them sustain love over time—from communication and trust to faith, friendship, and choosing each other daily. This episode is filled with wisdom, laughter, and real-life relationship gems from couples who have weathered different seasons and remained committed through it all. Whether you’re single, dating, or married, this conversation will inspire you to build a love that lasts—no matter the industry, pressure, or season. #DearFutureWifey #MichaelJaiWhite #GillianWhite #HarryMcKee #Marriage #BlackLove #FaithAndRelationships #LaterrasWhitfield #AshleyWhitfield CONNECT WITH OUR GUEST https://www.instagram.com/officialmichaeljai/ https://www.instagram.com/iamgillianwhite/   CONNECT WITH OUR HOSTS https://www.instagram.com/laterrasrwhitfield https://www.instagram.com/ashleyrwhitfield   ORDER LATERRAS R. WHITFIELD'S NEW BOOK "STUDENT OF LOVE" https://www.StudentofLove.com   WANNA SEE BEHIND-THE-SCENES FOOTAGE? JOIN MY PATREON https://www.Patreon.com/laterrasrwhitfield   SIGN UP FOR THE MAILING LIST https://bit.ly/LRWconnection   PURCHASE "YOU (Dear Future Wifey)" Theme Song http://itunes.apple.com/album/id/1729993404   👑 SUPPORT OUR CAUSE Donate to Kingdom Royale: Empowering foster kids to become royalty: https://www.KingdomRoyale.com   👕 MERCH https://www.DearFutureWifey.com   FOLLOW DEAR FUTURE WIFEY 📸 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/dearfuturewifeypodcast 📘 Facebook: https://www.Facebook.com/DearFutureWifey 🐦 Twitter: https://twitter.com/dfwifeypodcastSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

In this powerful couples conversation on Dear Future Wifey, Laterras and Ashley R. Whitfield sit down with Harry McKee and his wife for a deeply personal and faith-filled dialogue on love, purpose, and perseverance. Harry shares the life-altering story of how he almost lost his life due to a serious health complication, opening up about the physical battle, the emotional toll, and the spiritual perspective that came from facing death so closely. Together, they reflect on how that season reshaped their marriage, their priorities, and their faith in God. The couple also discusses Harry’s decision to walk away from the music industry, unpacking the tension between calling, career, and obedience—and what it looks like to choose purpose over platform. In a lighter but equally meaningful moment, they take it back to the beginning—sharing how they met and the foundation that has carried their relationship through every high and low. With honesty, wisdom, and undeniable love, this conversation highlights what it means to stand by your spouse through life’s most challenging moments and to build a relationship rooted in faith, resilience, and commitment. Whether you’re navigating uncertainty, rediscovering purpose, or believing God for lasting love, this episode will strengthen and inspire you. CONNECT WITH OUR GUEST https://www.instagram.com/jrmckee.co/ https://www.instagram.com/mayadaniele/ CONNECT WITH OUR HOSTS https://www.instagram.com/laterrasrwhitfield https://www.instagram.com/ashleyrwhitfield   ORDER LATERRAS R. WHITFIELD'S NEW BOOK "STUDENT OF LOVE" https://www.StudentofLove.com   WANNA SEE BEHIND-THE-SCENES FOOTAGE? JOIN MY PATREON https://www.Patreon.com/laterrasrwhitfield   SIGN UP FOR THE MAILING LIST https://bit.ly/LRWconnection   PURCHASE "YOU (Dear Future Wifey)" Theme Song http://itunes.apple.com/album/id/1729993404   👑 SUPPORT OUR CAUSE Donate to Kingdom Royale: Empowering foster kids to become royalty: https://www.KingdomRoyale.com   👕 MERCH https://www.DearFutureWifey.com   FOLLOW DEAR FUTURE WIFEY 📸 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/dearfuturewifeypodcast 📘 Facebook: https://www.Facebook.com/DearFutureWifey 🐦 Twitter: https://twitter.com/dfwifeypodcastSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

In this deeply moving episode of Dear Future Wifey, Laterras & Ashley R. Whitfield sits down with health advocate and entrepreneur Coach Gessie Thompson for a transparent conversation about faith, resilience, and the fight to become a mother. Coach Gessie opens up about her 10-year battle with infertility and fibroid complications, sharing the emotional, physical, and financial toll of what she calls her “Million Dollar Baby Journey.” After spending over $1,000,000 in pursuit of conception, she recounts the heartbreak, the hope, and the unwavering faith that carried her through one of the most challenging seasons of her life. With courage and vulnerability, she shares the miraculous story of how she ultimately conceived—and how that victory transformed her pain into purpose. Beyond her personal testimony, Coach Gessie explains how her health struggles awakened her passion for advocacy. She discusses how toxins, lifestyle, and wellness education became central to her mission, ultimately leading her to launch a company dedicated to helping families live healthier, toxin-free lives. This episode is raw, inspiring, and empowering—a reminder that even in prolonged waiting, God can birth purpose, advocacy, and legacy. If you’ve ever wrestled with infertility, chronic health challenges, or the weight of unanswered prayers, this conversation will strengthen your faith and ignite your hope. CONNECT WITH OUR GUEST https://www.instagram.com/coachgessie DETOX NOW 15% Discount Code: wifey https://www.thedetoxnow.com   CONNECT WITH OUR HOSTS https://www.instagram.com/laterrasrwhitfield https://www.instagram.com/ashleyrwhitfield   ORDER LATERRAS R. WHITFIELD'S NEW BOOK "STUDENT OF LOVE" https://www.StudentofLove.com   WANNA SEE BEHIND-THE-SCENES FOOTAGE? JOIN MY PATREON https://www.Patreon.com/laterrasrwhitfield   SIGN UP FOR THE MAILING LIST https://bit.ly/LRWconnection   PURCHASE "YOU (Dear Future Wifey)" Theme Song http://itunes.apple.com/album/id/1729993404   👑 SUPPORT OUR CAUSE Donate to Kingdom Royale: Empowering foster kids to become royalty: https://www.KingdomRoyale.com   👕 MERCH https://www.DearFutureWifey.com   FOLLOW DEAR FUTURE WIFEY 📸 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/dearfuturewifeypodcast 📘 Facebook: https://www.Facebook.com/DearFutureWifey 🐦 Twitter: https://twitter.com/dfwifeypodcastSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

In this unforgettable episode of Dear Future Wifey, Laterras Whitfield sits down with gospel music icons, actors, and beloved husband-and-wife duo David Mann and Tamela Mann for a powerful conversation about love, faith, and the journey of building a marriage that lasts.   David and Tamela reflect on the early days of their love story, including how they met while David was performing in a trio with Kirk Franklin. What began as a musical connection eventually led to years of traveling the world together while touring with Kirk Franklin and serving in ministry through music.   Throughout the conversation, the couple shares candid moments from their decades-long marriage—discussing the importance of faith, laughter, and choosing each other through every season. David also opens up about his mental health struggles, offering an honest look at the battles he has faced and the role Tamela’s love and support have played in his healing journey.   Tamela, in turn, speaks about what it means to stand beside your spouse through difficult seasons, while David proudly expresses how he remains her biggest fan, celebrating her gifts, her success, and the woman she continues to become.   With humor, vulnerability, and wisdom, this episode highlights the power of partnership, perseverance, and keeping God at the center of your relationship.   Whether you’re single, dating, or married, David and Tamela’s story is a beautiful reminder that love grows stronger when two people commit to walking through life—together.     #DearFutureWifey #DavidAndTamelaMann #KirkFranklin #Marriage #FaithAndFamily #BlackLove #LaterrasWhitfield   CONNECT WITH OUR GUEST https://www.instagram.com/davidandtamela/   CONNECT WITH OUR HOSTS https://www.instagram.com/laterrasrwhitfield https://www.instagram.com/ashleyrwhitfield   ORDER LATERRAS R. WHITFIELD'S NEW BOOK "STUDENT OF LOVE" https://www.StudentofLove.com   WANNA SEE BEHIND-THE-SCENES FOOTAGE? JOIN MY PATREON https://www.Patreon.com/laterrasrwhitfield   SIGN UP FOR THE MAILING LIST https://bit.ly/LRWconnection   PURCHASE "YOU (Dear Future Wifey)" Theme Song http://itunes.apple.com/album/id/1729993404   👑 SUPPORT OUR CAUSE Donate to Kingdom Royale: Empowering foster kids to become royalty: https://www.KingdomRoyale.com   👕 MERCH https://www.DearFutureWifey.com   FOLLOW DEAR FUTURE WIFEY 📸 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/dearfuturewifeypodcast 📘 Facebook: https://www.Facebook.com/DearFutureWifey 🐦 Twitter: https://twitter.com/dfwifeypodcastSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Social media makes love look effortless.But what happens behind the posts? In this powerful episode of Dear Future Wifey, Joshua & Jalyka — the viral social media couple known for their chemistry, humor, and transparency — open up about what it really takes to build a relationship that lasts. From sliding in the DMs to navigating purpose, pressure, and public perception, they share: • How they knew this was “the one”• The challenges nobody sees online• Setting boundaries in a public relationship• Faith, accountability, and keeping God at the center• What dating with intention actually looks like This conversation is real, refreshing, and deeply relatable for singles, couples, and anyone believing God for love done right. If you’ve ever wondered how to balance influence, intimacy, and integrity — this episode is for you. ✨ Watch until the end for the advice they would give their “future spouse selves.” Subscribe for more conversations that prepare you for the love you’re praying for. #DearFutureWifey #JoshuaAndJalyka #ChristianDating #RelationshipGoals #FaithAndLove #KingdomMarriageSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

In this powerful episode of Dear Future Wifey, Laterras Whitfield sits down with Brian & Alexis Cole for an honest conversation about love, growth, and building a life rooted in faith and commitment. Known for their transparency and authenticity, the couple opens up about their love story, the lessons they’ve learned through marriage, and the intentional work required to stay connected through every season. They share candid insights on navigating challenges, strengthening their foundation, and choosing each other daily—even when it isn’t easy. Together, they discuss the importance of communication, shared values, and spiritual alignment, as well as the reality of growing individually while remaining united as one. With both wisdom and vulnerability, they reveal how their journey has shaped their purpose and deepened their understanding of covenant. This conversation is filled with practical encouragement, heartfelt moments, and powerful reminders that strong marriages aren’t built on perfection—but on commitment, grace, and the willingness to grow together. Whether you’re single, dating, or married, this episode will inspire you to build love that lasts. #DearFutureWifey #TheColeLife #Marriage #ChristianMarriage #RelationshipGoals  WITH OUR GUEST https://www.instagram.com/_thecolelife_   CONNECT WITH OUR HOSTS https://www.instagram.com/laterrasrwhitfield https://www.instagram.com/ashleyrwhitfield   ORDER LATERRAS R. WHITFIELD'S NEW BOOK "STUDENT OF LOVE" https://www.StudentofLove.com   WANNA SEE BEHIND-THE-SCENES FOOTAGE? JOIN MY PATREON https://www.Patreon.com/laterrasrwhitfield   SIGN UP FOR THE MAILING LIST https://bit.ly/LRWconnection   PURCHASE "YOU (Dear Future Wifey)" Theme Song http://itunes.apple.com/album/id/1729993404   👑 SUPPORT OUR CAUSE Donate to Kingdom Royale: Empowering foster kids to become royalty: https://www.KingdomRoyale.com   👕 MERCH https://www.DearFutureWifey.com   FOLLOW DEAR FUTURE WIFEY 📸 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/dearfuturewifeypodcast 📘 Facebook: https://www.Facebook.com/DearFutureWifey 🐦 Twitter: https://twitter.com/dfwifeypodcastSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

In this transparent and faith-filled episode of Dear Future Wifey, Laterras Whitfield sits down with Christian Bevere, host of the Dear Future Husband podcast, to talk about love, identity, and trusting God’s timing from singleness to marriage.   Christian shares how her platform began while she was praying for her future husband, documenting her journey of faith, preparation, and surrender long before she ever met him. She opens up about the incredible testimony of meeting her husband and getting married within just seven months, and the spiritual clarity that gave her confidence in their covenant.   She also speaks candidly about the pressures of marrying into a well-known ministry family as the daughter-in-law of John and Lisa Bevere, and how she had to guard her identity, her voice, and her marriage while navigating expectations and public perception.   In addition, Christian discusses the heart behind her new books, sharing how her personal seasons of waiting, becoming, and marrying inspired her message to others who are believing God for love.   This conversation is filled with wisdom for singles and newlyweds alike—covering the reality of waiting, the responsibility of marriage, and the importance of becoming secure in who God called you to be before saying “I do.”   Whether you’re in a season of preparation or promise, this episode will encourage you to trust God’s process with your love story.   #DearFutureWifey #ChristianBevere #DearFutureHusband #MarriageTestimony #ChristianDating #FaithAndLove CONNECT WITH OUR GUEST https://www.instagram.com/mrschristianbevere https://www.instagram.com/thedearfuturehusbandpodcast   CONNECT WITH OUR HOSTS https://www.instagram.com/laterrasrwhitfield https://www.instagram.com/ashleyrwhitfield   ORDER LATERRAS R. WHITFIELD'S NEW BOOK "STUDENT OF LOVE" https://www.StudentofLove   WANNA SEE BEHIND-THE-SCENES FOOTAGE? JOIN MY PATREON https://www.Patreon.com/laterrasrwhitfield   SIGN UP FOR THE MAILING LIST https://bit.ly/LRWconnection   PURCHASE "YOU (Dear Future Wifey)" Theme Song http://itunes.apple.com/album/id/1729993404   👑 SUPPORT OUR CAUSE Donate to Kingdom Royale: Empowering foster kids to become royalty: https://www.KingdomRoyale.com   👕 MERCH https://www.DearFutureWifey.com   FOLLOW DEAR FUTURE WIFEY 📸 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/dearfuturewifeypodcast 📘 Facebook: https://www.Facebook.com/DearFutureWifey 🐦 Twitter: https://twitter.com/dfwifeypodcastSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

In this special solo episode of Dear Future Wifey, Laterras Whitfield interviews himself while his co-host and bride, Ashley, is in Los Angeles working the GRAMMYs and the Super Bowl.   With vulnerability and gratitude, Laterras reflects on the first three months of marriage, sharing what has surprised him, stretched him, and strengthened their union. From newlywed adjustments to spiritual growth, he opens up about what this new season has truly been like behind the scenes.   For the first time ever, Laterras also shares never-before-seen footage from his proposal, giving viewers an intimate look at the moment that changed everything.   But this episode isn’t just about marriage—it’s about the journey to it. Laterras offers heartfelt encouragement to those who are still waiting on their spouse, reminding them that waiting is not punishment—it’s preparation. He speaks directly to the singles who have prayed, hoped, and trusted God through seasons of delay.   This episode is reflective, inspiring, and deeply personal—a reminder that love is worth the wait, and when the promise arrives, it will have been worth every process.   CONNECT WITH OUR HOSTS https://www.instagram.com/laterrasrwhitfield https://www.instagram.com/ashleyrwhitfield   ORDER LATERRAS R. WHITFIELD'S NEW BOOK "STUDENT OF LOVE" https://www.StudentofLove   WANNA SEE BEHIND-THE-SCENES FOOTAGE? JOIN MY PATREON https://www.Patreon.com/laterrasrwhitfield   SIGN UP FOR THE MAILING LIST https://bit.ly/LRWconnection   PURCHASE "YOU (Dear Future Wifey)" Theme Song http://itunes.apple.com/album/id/1729993404   👑 SUPPORT OUR CAUSE Donate to Kingdom Royale: Empowering foster kids to become royalty: https://www.KingdomRoyale.com   👕 MERCH https://www.DearFutureWifey.com     FOLLOW DEAR FUTURE WIFEY 📸 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/dearfuturewifeypodcast 📘 Facebook: https://www.Facebook.com/DearFutureWifey 🐦 Twitter: https://twitter.com/dfwifeypodcastSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

  In this special returning guests episode of Dear Future Wifey, Laterras Whitfield welcomes back Dotha & Chanell Sykes for a refreshingly real conversation about love, faith, and navigating uncertainty together.   The couple opens up about Dotha’s life as a professional stunt double, pulling back the curtain on the instability that often comes with a career in Hollywood and how that uncertainty impacted their relationship. They candidly revisit the early days of their love story—when Dotha was unemployed—and discuss modern dating norms, expectations, and whether Chanell would recommend dating a man who’s in between jobs.   Together, they dive into the importance of shared values, mutual support, and what it truly means to take care of one another through sickness and health—not just in theory, but in real life. The conversation is layered with wisdom, laughter, and honesty as they share how comedy—both literally and figuratively—became a source of healing, strength, and connection in their marriage.   This episode is equal parts practical and playful, offering encouragement to couples, singles, and anyone navigating love in the middle of uncertainty.   CONNECT WITH OUR GUEST https://www.instagram.com/therealdother https://www.instagram.com/lovechanellenje   CONNECT WITH OUR HOSTS https://www.instagram.com/laterrasrwhitfield https://www.instagram.com/ashleyrwhitfield   ORDER LATERRAS R. WHITFIELD'S NEW BOOK "STUDENT OF LOVE" https://www.StudentofLove   WANNA SEE BEHIND-THE-SCENES FOOTAGE? JOIN MY PATREON https://www.Patreon.com/laterrasrwhitfield   SIGN UP FOR THE MAILING LIST https://bit.ly/LRWconnection   PURCHASE "YOU (Dear Future Wifey)" Theme Song http://itunes.apple.com/album/id/1729993404   👑 SUPPORT OUR CAUSE Donate to Kingdom Royale: Empowering foster kids to become royalty: https://www.KingdomRoyale.com   👕 MERCH https://www.DearFutureWifey.com   FOLLOW DEAR FUTURE WIFEY 📸 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/dearfuturewifeypodcast 📘 Facebook: https://www.Facebook.com/DearFutureWifey 🐦 Twitter: https://twitter.com/dfwifeypodcastSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

In this unforgettable episode of Dear Future Wifey, Laterras R. Whitfield sits down with Bishop Joseph Walker III and Dr. Stephaine Walker for a conversation that redefines timing, trust, and obedience in love. The Walkers share the remarkable story of how they met during a pivotal season of life—when Dr. Stephaine was working at Harvard and Bishop Walker was three years removed from the loss of his first wife after 11 years of marriage. What followed was a relationship marked by uncommon clarity and conviction, leading them to marriage just three months later. Together, they unpack how discernment, prayer, and emotional readiness shaped their decision, and why pace doesn’t always equal recklessness when purpose is clear. The couple also discuss the unexpected benefits of long-distance dating, including how space strengthened communication, trust, and intentionality. Dr. Stephaine opens up about becoming an unconventional First Lady—sharing how she navigated public expectations without losing her identity, calling, or voice. Her transparency offers wisdom for women who desire partnership without self-erasure. This episode explores: Love after loss and trusting God again Discernment versus delay Long-distance relationship dynamics Marriage that honors individuality and purpose Leading together without losing yourself   🎧 This is a powerful conversation for singles, widows, leaders, and anyone believing God for a love story that doesn’t fit the mold—but fits His plan.   CONNECT WITH OUR GUEST https://www.instagram.com/josephwalker3 https://www.instagram.com/drstephwalker   CONNECT WITH OUR HOSTS https://www.instagram.com/laterrasrwhitfield https://www.instagram.com/ashleyrwhitfield   ORDER LATERRAS R. WHITFIELD'S NEW BOOK "STUDENT OF LOVE" https://www.StudentofLove   WANNA SEE BEHIND-THE-SCENES FOOTAGE? JOIN MY PATREON https://www.Patreon.com/laterrasrwhitfield   SIGN UP FOR THE MAILING LIST https://bit.ly/LRWconnection   PURCHASE "YOU (Dear Future Wifey)" Theme Song http://itunes.apple.com/album/id/1729993404   👑 SUPPORT OUR CAUSE Donate to Kingdom Royale: Empowering foster kids to become royalty: https://www.KingdomRoyale.com   👕 MERCH https://www.DearFutureWifey.com   FOLLOW DEAR FUTURE WIFEY 📸 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/dearfuturewifeypodcast 📘 Facebook: https://www.Facebook.com/DearFutureWifey 🐦 Twitter: https://twitter.com/dfwifeypodcastSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

When life deals its toughest cards, who will stand beside you? Roy and Shanta Q Williams share their powerful journey through serious health challenges that tested their marriage vows in ways they never imagined. From heart attacks to strokes to cancer, this couple's story isn't just about survival—it's about the extraordinary power of commitment when "in sickness and in health" becomes your daily reality. Their candid conversation reveals how they navigated life's unexpected turns while maintaining their sense of humor and deep connection. What began as a chance meeting between two Denver natives blossomed into a 20-year marriage built on friendship, faith, and unwavering support. Through Shanta Q's multiple misdiagnoses and Roy's prostate cancer battle, they discovered what truly matters in a partnership. ## Key Timestamps: 12:30 - How they met and their unique Denver connection - 25:45 - Shanta Q's resistance to marriage despite their compatibility - 38:20 - The beginning of serious health challenges in 2012 - 45:15 - Shanta Q's heart attack and the fight for proper diagnosis - 1:02:30 - Roy's prostate cancer journey and treatment decisions - 1:08:45 - The value of marriage during life-threatening illness ## Key Takeaways: - Statistics show many husbands leave when wives face terminal illness, but Roy never considered it - True independence isn't about doing everything alone—it's having someone who supports you when you can't support yourself - Communication remains the foundation of their relationship through every challenge - Their health journeys transformed into purpose as Shanta Q now uses humor to advocate for health awareness - Marriage provides a unique partnership where vulnerability becomes strength Listen to this moving episode that will make you laugh, reflect, and perhaps reconsider what it truly means to love someone through life's most difficult moments. This is the kind of love story that reminds us what "till death do us part" really looks like in practice. 📸 CONNECT WITH OUR GUEST https://www.instagram.com/heyshantaq PRE-ORDER LATERRAS R. WHITFIELD'S "STUDENT OF LOVE" https://a.co/d/bx0E1iv WANNA SEE BEHIND-THE-SCENES FOOTAGE? JOIN MY PATREON  https://www.Patreon.com/laterrasrwhitfield SIGN UP FOR THE MAILING LIST https://bit.ly/LRWconnection PURCHASE "YOU (Dear Future Wifey)" Theme Song http://itunes.apple.com/album/id/1729993404 👑 SUPPORT OUR CAUSE Donate to Kingdom Royale: Empowering foster kids to become royalty: https://www.KingdomRoyale.com 👕 MERCH https://www.DearFutureWifey.com SUBSCRIBE & LEAVE A REVIEW Youtube Channel: https://www.youtube.com/@DearFutureWifey?sub_confirmation=1 🍏 Apple Podcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/dear-future-wifey/id1506095537 🎵 Google Play: https://play.google.com/music/m/Iae4cjudkuuxmjnjza7zputjfuu?t=Dear_Future_Wifey 🧵 Stitcher: https://www.stitcher.com/podcast/dear-future-wifey 🎧 Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/1r3Ba1GxkpwFkWVqmxZNPA FOLLOW US 📸 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/dearfuturewifeypodcast | https://www.instagram.com/laterrasrwhitfield 📘 Facebook: https://www.Facebook.com/DearFutureWifey 🐦 Twitter: https://twitter.com/dfwifeypodcast See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

In this must-hear episode of Dear Future Wifey, Laterras R. Whitfield sits down with Niya Gonzales, a 31-year-old influencer who recently went viral after making the bold decision to call off her very public engagement.   What sparked widespread conversation—and mixed reactions online—was Niya’s honesty: there was no infidelity, no abuse, no scandal. She simply changed her mind.   In this transparent and emotionally grounded conversation, Niya shares what led to that decision, the internal wrestle of listening to her intuition, and the pressure of making a life-altering choice under the scrutiny of social media. Together, Laterras and Niya unpack the difference between doing what looks right and doing what is right, especially when it comes to marriage.   This episode explores:   The courage it takes to choose clarity over comfort   Why “nothing went wrong” can still be a valid reason to walk away   The emotional toll of public opinion on private decisions   Discernment, self-trust, and honoring your inner voice   Redefining failure, faith, and freedom in relationships   Whether you agreed with her decision or questioned it, this conversation invites you to look deeper—beyond the headlines—and wrestle with what it truly means to choose yourself before saying “I do.”   🎧 This episode is honest, thought-provoking, and necessary.   CONNECT WITH OUR GUEST https://www.instagram.com/niyah.gonzalez   CONNECT WITH OUR HOSTS https://www.instagram.com/laterrasrwhitfield https://www.instagram.com/ashleyrwhitfield   ORDER LATERRAS R. WHITFIELD'S NEW BOOK "STUDENT OF LOVE" https://www.StudentofLove   WANNA SEE BEHIND-THE-SCENES FOOTAGE? JOIN MY PATREON https://www.Patreon.com/laterrasrwhitfield   SIGN UP FOR THE MAILING LIST https://bit.ly/LRWconnection   PURCHASE "YOU (Dear Future Wifey)" Theme Song http://itunes.apple.com/album/id/1729993404   👑 SUPPORT OUR CAUSE Donate to Kingdom Royale: Empowering foster kids to become royalty: https://www.KingdomRoyale.com   👕 MERCH https://www.DearFutureWifey.com   FOLLOW DEAR FUTURE WIFEY 📸 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/dearfuturewifeypodcast 📘 Facebook: https://www.Facebook.com/DearFutureWifey 🐦 Twitter: https://twitter.com/dfwifeypodcastSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

In this deeply vulnerable episode of Dear Future Wifey, Laterras Whitfield sits down with Cora Jakes for one of her most transparent conversations to date. Cora courageously opens up about her decision to speak publicly about her divorce and the abuse her daughter survived, sharing how her family is walking through healing, restoration, and faith in the aftermath. With grace and honesty, she discusses the cost of silence, the power of truth, and what healing looks like when the wounds are personal and public. The conversation also explores what it was like growing up as Bishop T.D. Jakes’ daughter, including the internal struggle of losing her own sense of identity as her father’s name became globally recognized. Cora reflects on carrying expectations, navigating visibility, and finding her voice beyond the weight of a famous last name. Additionally, she shares about her role as the family intercessor—the unseen spiritual labor, the emotional weight it carries, and how prayer became both her refuge and responsibility. This episode is raw, redemptive, and necessary—a powerful reminder that healing is not linear, faith doesn’t eliminate pain, and courage sometimes looks like telling the truth out loud. 📸 CONNECT WITH OUR GUEST https://www.instagram.com/officialcallmecora/ CONNECT WITH OUR HOSTShttps://www.instagram.com/laterrasrwhitfieldhttps://www.instagram.com/ashleyrwhitfield ORDER LATERRAS R. WHITFIELD'S "STUDENT OF LOVE" https://www.StudentofLove.com   WANNA SEE BEHIND-THE-SCENES FOOTAGE? JOIN MY PATREON https://www.Patreon.com/laterrasrwhitfield   SIGN UP FOR THE MAILING LIST https://bit.ly/LRWconnection   PURCHASE "YOU (Dear Future Wifey)" Theme Song http://itunes.apple.com/album/id/1729993404   👑 SUPPORT OUR CAUSE Donate to Kingdom Royale: Empowering foster kids to become royalty: https://www.KingdomRoyale.com   👕 MERCH https://www.DearFutureWifey.com   FOLLOW US 📸 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/dearfuturewifeypodcast | https://www.instagram.com/laterrasrwhitfield 📘 Facebook: https://www.Facebook.com/DearFutureWifey 🐦 Twitter: https://twitter.com/dfwifeypodcastSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

In this powerful and transparent episode of Dear Future Wifey, Laterras Whitfield and Ashley sit down with Kenneth & Tasha Cobbs Leonard for a conversation that feels less like a podcast and more like a full-blown marriage seminar. Kenneth and Tasha open up about how friendship became the foundation of their forever, while also diving into real-time cultural and kingdom conversations. Tasha passionately defends Dr. Karri Bryant, shares her heart behind conversations on modesty, and brings wisdom with both grace and clarity. The couple also discusses: 1. How they manage and build their businesses together 2. The “why” behind their healthy lifestyle transformation 3. The vision and heart behind their church, The Purpose Place 4. What it really takes to steward marriage, health, faith, and purpose at the same time By the end of the episode, Laterras and Ashley admit it felt like they’d just attended a marriage seminar — full of practical gems, spiritual insight, and real-life wisdom every couple (and future couple) needs. Whether you’re married, preparing for marriage, or simply believing God for healthy love, this episode will challenge and encourage you. 👉 LIKE, COMMENT, & SUBSCRIBE for more faith-filled relationship conversations. 🎧 Available on all podcast platforms. CONNECT WITH OUR GUEST https://www.instagram.com/kennethleonardjr https://www.instagram.com/tashacobbsleonard   PRE-ORDER LATERRAS R. WHITFIELD'S "STUDENT OF LOVE" https:/www.StudentofLove.com WANNA SEE BEHIND-THE-SCENES FOOTAGE? JOIN MY PATREON https://www.Patreon.com/laterrasrwhitfield SIGN UP FOR THE MAILING LIST https://bit.ly/LRWconnection PURCHASE "YOU (Dear Future Wifey)" Theme Song http://itunes.apple.com/album/id/1729993404 👑 SUPPORT OUR CAUSE Donate to Kingdom Royale: Empowering foster kids to become royalty: https://www.KingdomRoyale.com 👕 MERCH https://www.DearFutureWifey.com   FOLLOW US 📸 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/dearfuturewifeypodcast | https://www.instagram.com/laterrasrwhitfield 📘 Facebook: https://www.Facebook.com/DearFutureWifey 🐦 Twitter: https://twitter.com/dfwifeypodcastSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Season 11 of Dear Future Wifey Podcast kicks off with a historic moment. After five years of hosting the podcast solo, Laterras R. Whitfield welcomes his new bride, Ashley R. Whitfield, as his co-host for the very first time. Together, they sit on the iconic yellow couch to introduce a brand-new season and a brand-new dynamic. In this episode, Laterras and Ashley are interviewed by their pre-marital counselor, Love McPherson. They open up about their mystery bride engagement and how their love story unfolded behind the scenes. They dive deep into their inner children, exploring how childhood experiences shape our appetite for love, intimacy, and connection. The couple also shares how they started dating and what it looked like navigating purpose, timing, and trust along the way. And of course, they answer the question everyone’s been wondering since the wedding… how is married life really going? This conversation is honest, reflective, and full of insight for anyone navigating love, healing, and commitment. Welcome to a new era of Dear Future Wifey.   📸 CONNECT WITH OUR GUEST https://www.instagram.com/ashleyrwhitfield/ https://www.instagram.com/love_mcpherson/   PRE-ORDER LATERRAS R. WHITFIELD'S "STUDENT OF LOVE" https://a.co/d/bx0E1iv   WANNA SEE BEHIND-THE-SCENES FOOTAGE? JOIN MY PATREON https://www.Patreon.com/laterrasrwhitfield   SIGN UP FOR THE MAILING LIST https://bit.ly/LRWconnection   PURCHASE "YOU (Dear Future Wifey)" Theme Song http://itunes.apple.com/album/id/1729993404   👑 SUPPORT OUR CAUSE Donate to Kingdom Royale: Empowering foster kids to become royalty: https://www.KingdomRoyale.com   👕 MERCH https://www.DearFutureWifey.com   FOLLOW US 📸 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/dearfuturewifeypodcast | https://www.instagram.com/laterrasrwhitfield 📘 Facebook: https://www.Facebook.com/DearFutureWifey 🐦 Twitter: https://twitter.com/dfwifeypodcastSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

In this special episode of the Dear Future Wifey Podcast, Laterras Whitfield shares a heartfelt conversation with Kali Scott about her desire for a partner who shares her values and passions, and how she's learned to prioritize healthy relationships. She also dives into her own experiences with dating, including a humorous take on the challenges of online interactions and the importance of being true to oneself. With vulnerability and humor, Kali shares her hopes and dreams for her future marriage, making this episode a must-listen for anyone navigating love and relationships.   📸 CONNECT WITH OUR GUEST https://www.instagram.com/likekaliscott/   PRE-ORDER LATERRAS R. WHITFIELD'S "STUDENT OF LOVE" https://a.co/d/bx0E1iv   WANNA SEE BEHIND-THE-SCENES FOOTAGE? JOIN MY PATREON https://www.Patreon.com/laterrasrwhitfield   SIGN UP FOR THE MAILING LIST https://bit.ly/LRWconnection   PURCHASE "YOU (Dear Future Wifey)" Theme Song http://itunes.apple.com/album/id/1729993404   👑 SUPPORT OUR CAUSE Donate to Kingdom Royale: Empowering foster kids to become royalty: https://www.KingdomRoyale.com   👕 MERCH https://www.DearFutureWifey.com FOLLOW US 📸 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/dearfuturewifeypodcast | https://www.instagram.com/laterrasrwhitfield 📘 Facebook: https://www.Facebook.com/DearFutureWifey 🐦 Twitter: https://twitter.com/dfwifeypodcast   Hashtag: #dearfuturewifey #dearfuturewife #laterraswhitfield #Podcast #PodcastShow #ViralPodcast #YouTubePodcast #TalkShow #InterviewShow #RelationshipAdvice #Relationshipadvice #Datingtips #communicationskills #lovestatus #love #christianity #marriage #marriagevideo #dear #datingSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

In this episode of the Dear Future Wifey Podcast, host Laterras R. Whitfield sits down with Rickey Smiley, a comedian and author who shares his personal story of grief and healing. Rickey opens up about the loss of his son and how it led him to write his book, "Side Show." He talks about the importance of community and the role of prayer in his life, as well as his experiences with the power of kindness and generosity. Rickey also shares his thoughts on marriage and relationships, highlighting the value of finding someone you can live without. 📸 CONNECT WITH OUR GUEST https://www.instagram.com/rickeysmileyofficial PRE-ORDER LATERRAS R. WHITFIELD'S "STUDENT OF LOVE" https://a.co/d/bx0E1iv WANNA SEE BEHIND-THE-SCENES FOOTAGE? JOIN MY PATREON https://www.Patreon.com/laterrasrwhitfield SIGN UP FOR THE MAILING LIST https://bit.ly/LRWconnection PURCHASE "YOU (Dear Future Wifey)" Theme Song http://itunes.apple.com/album/id/1729993404 👑 SUPPORT OUR CAUSE Donate to Kingdom Royale: Empowering foster kids to become royalty: https://www.KingdomRoyale.com 👕 MERCH https://www.DearFutureWifey.comSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

In this episode of the Dear Future Wifey podcast, host Laterras talks with Kristina Smith about navigating co-parenting and dating after divorce. Kristina shares her story of staying in the marital home with her ex-husband, citing concerns for their two daughters' normalcy and her own financial uncertainty. They discuss the challenges of dating as a single mom, including her desire for a partner who can provide spiritual covering and support. Kristina also opens up about her past relationships and her current dating life, highlighting her growth and newfound expectations. This conversation offers a raw and honest look at the complexities of modern relationships. 📸 CONNECT WITH OUR GUEST https://www.instagram.com/kristinabowmansmith/   PRE-ORDER LATERRAS R. WHITFIELD'S "STUDENT OF LOVE" https://a.co/d/bx0E1iv   WANNA SEE BEHIND-THE-SCENES FOOTAGE? JOIN MY PATREON https://www.Patreon.com/laterrasrwhitfield   SIGN UP FOR THE MAILING LIST https://bit.ly/LRWconnection   PURCHASE "YOU (Dear Future Wifey)" Theme Song http://itunes.apple.com/album/id/1729993404   👑 SUPPORT OUR CAUSE Donate to Kingdom Royale: Empowering foster kids to become royalty: https://www.KingdomRoyale.com   👕 MERCH https://www.DearFutureWifey.com   FOLLOW US 📸 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/dearfuturewifeypodcast | https://www.instagram.com/laterrasrwhitfield 📘 Facebook: https://www.Facebook.com/DearFutureWifey 🐦 Twitter: https://twitter.com/dfwifeypodcast   Hashtag: #dearfuturewifey #dearfuturewife #laterraswhitfield #Podcast #PodcastShow #ViralPodcast #YouTubePodcast #TalkShow #InterviewShow #RelationshipAdvice #Relationshipadvice #Datingtips #communicationskills #lovestatus #love #christianity #marriage #marriagevideo #dear #datingSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

In this episode of the Dear Future Wifey Podcast, host Laterras talks with Rob Howard about his journey to finding love and his views on marriage. Rob shares his thoughts on what he's looking for in a partner, including a business partner. He also discusses his past relationships, including a high school girlfriend who cheated on him, and how that experience shaped his views on love and commitment. Additionally, he talks about his current life as a single father and his desire to find a partner who can be a good teammate. 📸 CONNECT WITH OUR GUEST https://www.instagram.com/mrhoward365/ PRE-ORDER LATERRAS R. WHITFIELD'S "STUDENT OF LOVE" https://a.co/d/bx0E1iv WANNA SEE BEHIND-THE-SCENES FOOTAGE? JOIN MY PATREON https://www.Patreon.com/laterrasrwhitfield SIGN UP FOR THE MAILING LIST https://bit.ly/LRWconnection PURCHASE "YOU (Dear Future Wifey)" Theme Song http://itunes.apple.com/album/id/1729993404 👑 SUPPORT OUR CAUSE Donate to Kingdom Royale: Empowering foster kids to become royalty: https://www.KingdomRoyale.com 👕 MERCH https://www.DearFutureWifey.comSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

In a culture obsessed with casual relationships, Shakia Seabrook stands as a powerful counternarrative. This episode dives deep into her journey as the founder of The Sexless Tribe, a community dedicated to abstinence and purity that has grown from social media conversations to global meetups with hundreds of attendees.   Shakia shares her remarkable story of maintaining virginity at 37 years old - not from a place of religious upbringing, but from witnessing the emotional toll of casual relationships around her. What makes her perspective unique is her recent awakening to actually desiring marriage after years of contentment in singleness. Through her seven-year wilderness experience where God stripped away everything, she discovered a deeper purpose in creating a movement that's changing lives across continents.   ## Timestamps: - 8:30 - Shakia explains how she maintained purity without religious influence - 22:15 - The birth of The Sexless Tribe and how it grew from Instagram Lives - 36:40 - Her seven-year wilderness experience that shaped her ministry - 48:25 - The double standard between how society views male and female sexuality - 1:01:30 - Her thoughts on dating timeframes and what she's looking for in a partner   ## Key Takeaways: - Purity isn't just for the religiously raised - it can be a personal choice based on witnessing the consequences of casual relationships - Building a community around abstinence creates support systems for those who feel isolated in their convictions - There's often a double standard where men want to "sow wild oats" but expect purity from potential wives - True intimacy requires vulnerability and letting someone fully into your life - something Shakia is now learning to embrace   Ready to be inspired by a woman who's created a global movement around purity while navigating her own journey toward marriage? Listen now to this powerful conversation that challenges cultural norms and celebrates the beauty of waiting.   📸 CONNECT WITH OUR GUEST https://www.instagram.com/shakiaseabrook22/ https://www.instagram.com/thesexlesstribe/   PRE-ORDER LATERRAS R. WHITFIELD'S "STUDENT OF LOVE" https://a.co/d/bx0E1iv   WANNA SEE BEHIND-THE-SCENES FOOTAGE? JOIN MY PATREON https://www.Patreon.com/laterrasrwhitfield   SIGN UP FOR THE MAILING LIST https://bit.ly/LRWconnection   PURCHASE "YOU (Dear Future Wifey)" Theme Song http://itunes.apple.com/album/id/1729993404   👑 SUPPORT OUR CAUSE Donate to Kingdom Royale: Empowering foster kids to become royalty: https://www.KingdomRoyale.com   👕 MERCH https://www.DearFutureWifey.com   FOLLOW US 📸 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/dearfuturewifeypodcast | https://www.instagram.com/laterrasrwhitfield 📘 Facebook: https://www.Facebook.com/DearFutureWifey 🐦 Twitter: https://twitter.com/dfwifeypodcast   Hashtag: #dearfuturewifey #dearfuturewife #laterraswhitfield #Podcast #PodcastShow #ViralPodcast #YouTubePodcast #TalkShow #InterviewShow #RelationshipAdvice #Relationshipadvice #Datingtips #communicationskills #lovestatus #love #christianity #marriage #marriagevideo #dear #datingSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

What happens when a marriage that starts with secrets and lies transforms into a powerful ministry? JJ and Trina Harrison's raw testimony proves that even the most broken beginnings can become beautiful stories of redemption. Their journey began with teenage romance that led to a secret courthouse wedding—him at 20, her just 18. What followed were ten years of separation, infidelity, and heartbreak. Yet something miraculous happened when JJ finally heard God's voice: "You're ignoring your favor." That divine moment transformed their relationship and eventually their ministry. This episode beautifully demonstrates how transparency about past mistakes creates space for others to find healing. The Harrisons don't glorify their difficult beginning but use it to show God's redemptive power in restoring what seemed irreparably broken. Ready to be inspired by a marriage miracle? Listen now and discover how two people who started with almost nothing but problems built a 31-year marriage and thriving ministry that's changing lives across the world. ## Timestamps & Key Takeaways: - **4:15** - How JJ's hit song "You Deserve It" (144 million YouTube views) came after being dropped by his record label—allowing him to own his masters - **10:30** - The secret wedding story and how Trina's father threatened JJ's "kneecaps" after discovering their elopement - **17:20** - Living separately for years despite being married, functioning more like "baby mama, baby daddy" - **25:45** - The turning point: JJ's revelation that he was "ignoring his favor" and how it changed everything - **34:15** - Four marriage lessons after 31 years: Give permission to fail, trust is built not given, forgive as you've been forgiven, and embrace your spouse's evolution - **44:20** - How their son witnessed their transformation and built a healthier marriage than they initially had 📸 CONNECT WITH OUR GUEST https://www.instagram.com/jjhairston/ https://www.instagram.com/trinahairston/   PRE-ORDER LATERRAS R. WHITFIELD'S "STUDENT OF LOVE" https://a.co/d/bx0E1iv   WANNA SEE BEHIND-THE-SCENES FOOTAGE? JOIN MY PATREON https://www.Patreon.com/laterrasrwhitfield   SIGN UP FOR THE MAILING LIST https://bit.ly/LRWconnection   PURCHASE "YOU (Dear Future Wifey)" Theme Song http://itunes.apple.com/album/id/1729993404   👑 SUPPORT OUR CAUSE Donate to Kingdom Royale: Empowering foster kids to become royalty: https://www.KingdomRoyale.com   👕 MERCH https://www.DearFutureWifey.com   FOLLOW US 📸 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/dearfuturewifeypodcast | https://www.instagram.com/laterrasrwhitfield 📘 Facebook: https://www.Facebook.com/DearFutureWifey 🐦 Twitter: https://twitter.com/dfwifeypodcast   Hashtag: #dearfuturewifey #dearfuturewife #laterraswhitfield #Podcast #PodcastShow #ViralPodcast #YouTubePodcast #TalkShow #InterviewShow #RelationshipAdvice #Relationshipadvice #Datingtips #communicationskills #lovestatus #love #christianity #marriage #marriagevideo #dear #datingSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Dive into an intimate conversation with wedding photographers Kareem and Sandy Virgo as they share their journey from college sweethearts to successful business partners. This candid discussion reveals how they overcame age differences, built a thriving photography business during COVID, and navigated the emotional complexities of fertility struggles and pregnancy loss.   The Virgos open up about the delicate balance of working together as husband and wife, how they've shot over a thousand weddings, and the profound spiritual growth they've experienced along the way. Their story beautifully illustrates how vulnerability, resilience, and faith can transform both personal relationships and professional endeavors.   ## Timestamps: - 8:30 - How Kareem and Sandy met in college despite their 5-year age gap - 23:45 - Transitioning from accounting careers to wedding photography - 37:20 - How they built their business during COVID with virtual photoshoots - 49:15 - Their fertility journey and experience with IVF - 1:05:30 - Navigating pregnancy loss and the different ways men and women process grief - 1:25:40 - The importance of men expressing vulnerability and emotion   ## Key Takeaways: - Success in both marriage and business requires recognizing and valuing each partner's unique strengths - Sometimes what appears to be an obstacle (like COVID) can become your greatest opportunity for innovation - Fertility struggles affect both partners, though often in different ways - Men need permission and space to express vulnerability and process grief - Faith can provide strength during life's most challenging moments   Want to hear more stories of couples who've built legacies together while navigating life's challenges? Listen to this powerful conversation that will inspire you to approach your own relationships with greater intention and compassion.   📸 CONNECT WITH OUR GUEST https://www.instagram.com/photosbyreem https://www.instagram.com/thesandyvirgo   PRE-ORDER LATERRAS R. WHITFIELD'S "STUDENT OF LOVE" https://a.co/d/bx0E1iv   WANNA SEE BEHIND-THE-SCENES FOOTAGE? JOIN MY PATREON https://www.Patreon.com/laterrasrwhitfield   SIGN UP FOR THE MAILING LIST https://bit.ly/LRWconnection   PURCHASE "YOU (Dear Future Wifey)" Theme Song http://itunes.apple.com/album/id/1729993404   👑 SUPPORT OUR CAUSE Donate to Kingdom Royale: Empowering foster kids to become royalty: https://www.KingdomRoyale.com   👕 MERCH https://www.DearFutureWifey.com   SUBSCRIBE & LEAVE A REVIEW Youtube Channel: https://www.youtube.com/@DearFutureWifey?sub_confirmation=1 🍏 Apple Podcast: bit.ly/4og8tOn 🎧 Spotify: https://bit.ly/4odgHqx   FOLLOW US 📸 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/dearfuturewifeypodcast | https://www.instagram.com/laterrasrwhitfield 📘 Facebook: https://www.Facebook.com/DearFutureWifey 🐦 Twitter: https://twitter.com/dfwifeypodcast   Hashtag: #dearfuturewifey #dearfuturewife #laterraswhitfield #Podcast #PodcastShow #ViralPodcast #YouTubePodcast #TalkShow #InterviewShow #RelationshipAdvice #Relationshipadvice #Datingtips #communicationskills #lovestatus #love #christianity #marriage #marriagevideo #dear #dating 📸 CONNECT WITH OUR GUEST https://www.instagram.com/ https://www.instagram.com/   PRE-ORDER LATERRAS R. WHITFIELD'S "STUDENT OF LOVE" https://a.co/d/bx0E1iv   WANNA SEE BEHIND-THE-SCENES FOOTAGE? JOIN MY PATREON https://www.Patreon.com/laterrasrwhitfield   SIGN UP FOR THE MAILING LIST https://bit.ly/LRWconnection   PURCHASE "YOU (Dear Future Wifey)" Theme Song http://itunes.apple.com/album/id/1729993404   👑 SUPPORT OUR CAUSE Donate to Kingdom Royale: Empowering foster kids to become royalty: https://www.KingdomRoyale.com   👕 MERCH https://www.DearFutureWifey.com   FOLLOW US 📸 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/dearfuturewifeypodcast | https://www.instagram.com/laterrasrwhitfield 📘 Facebook: https://www.Facebook.com/DearFutureWifey 🐦 Twitter: https://twitter.com/dfwifeypodcast   Hashtag: #dearfuturewifey #dearfuturewife #laterraswhitfield #Podcast #PodcastShow #ViralPodcast #YouTubePodcast #TalkShow #InterviewShow #RelationshipAdvice #Relationshipadvice #Datingtips #communicationskills #lovestatus #love #christianity #marriage #marriagevideo #dear #datingSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Are you searching for deeper meaning in relationships? This powerful episode of the Dear Future Wifey podcast, recorded live at Forward City Church, dives into the divine purpose of marriage beyond cultural expectations. Host Laterras Whitfield creates a space where singles and couples alike explore how true partnership can chase "ten thousand demons to flight."   The conversation begins with a profound revelation about marriage as more than just personal fulfillment—it's a covenant that unleashes divine power and authority. Through candid discussions with church members ranging from 22 to 39 years old, we hear stories of transformation, healing, and the journey toward becoming the right person rather than just finding the right person.   Key moments include: - 5:30 - The spiritual power that's activated when two people enter covenant marriage - 18:45 - A young man's journey from toxic masculinity to godly leadership - 27:10 - A military veteran's story of marrying for the wrong reasons and finding redemption - 39:25 - Pastor Travis Greene's insights on maintaining marriage through intentional covering - 45:15 - Dr. Jackie Greene's warning about prioritizing motherhood over marriage   This episode challenges listeners to align their preferences with God's will rather than cultural standards. As Dr. Jackie powerfully states: "I could have had karats, but I had a man with character." It's a reminder that character trumps material possessions in building a lasting foundation.   Ready to transform your approach to relationships? Listen now to discover how covenant partnership can unlock healing, purpose, and spiritual authority in your life!   📸 CONNECT WITH OUR GUEST https://www.instagram.com/travisgreenetv https://www.instagram.com/drjackiegreene   PRE-ORDER LATERRAS R. WHITFIELD'S "STUDENT OF LOVE" https://a.co/d/bx0E1iv   WANNA SEE BEHIND-THE-SCENES FOOTAGE? JOIN MY PATREON https://www.Patreon.com/laterrasrwhitfield   SIGN UP FOR THE MAILING LIST https://bit.ly/LRWconnection   PURCHASE "YOU (Dear Future Wifey)" Theme Song http://itunes.apple.com/album/id/1729993404   👑 SUPPORT OUR CAUSE Donate to Kingdom Royale: Empowering foster kids to become royalty: https://www.KingdomRoyale.com   👕 MERCH https://www.DearFutureWifey.com   FOLLOW US 📸 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/dearfuturewifeypodcast | https://www.instagram.com/laterrasrwhitfield 📘 Facebook: https://www.Facebook.com/DearFutureWifey 🐦 Twitter: https://twitter.com/dfwifeypodcast   Hashtag: #dearfuturewifey #dearfuturewife #laterraswhitfield #Podcast #PodcastShow #ViralPodcast #YouTubePodcast #TalkShow #InterviewShow #RelationshipAdvice #Relationshipadvice #Datingtips #communicationskills #lovestatus #love #christianity #marriage #marriagevideo #dear #datingSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

In this deeply moving episode, we sit down with Cassandra Robertson as she shares her journey through grief following the loss of her husband Carl after 33 years of marriage. With raw honesty, Cassandra opens up about the multi-layered nature of grief and how she's learning to navigate her new reality - from the first night alone in their home to finding strength in her community and faith. Cassandra's story isn't just about loss - it's about the beautiful love empire she and Carl built together, one founded on respect, honor and complete devotion. She shares how Carl emptied himself of every ounce of love he had for her, and how she did the same for him until his final breath. Her testimony serves as a powerful reminder of what true covenant love looks like, especially through the "for worse" parts of marriage. ## Timestamps and Key Takeaways:- 5:30 - The multi-layered nature of grief and the importance of community- 12:45 - Returning home alone for the first time and facing grief head-on- 19:20 - Building a "love empire" and protecting what matters in marriage- 27:15 - Finding gratitude even in life's waiting periods- 35:40 - The beauty of emptying yourself completely for someone you love- 42:30 - Advice for those supporting someone through grief This conversation is essential listening for anyone navigating loss, supporting someone through grief, or wanting to build a relationship that stands the test of time. Cassandra's wisdom about "proper love" and her courage to face her new reality will leave you reflecting on how you approach your own relationships and life's inevitable transitions. 📸 CONNECT WITH OUR GUEST https://www.instagram.com/cassandramusic/   PRE-ORDER LATERRAS R. WHITFIELD'S "STUDENT OF LOVE" https://a.co/d/bx0E1iv   WANNA SEE BEHIND-THE-SCENES FOOTAGE? JOIN MY PATREON https://www.Patreon.com/laterrasrwhitfield   SIGN UP FOR THE MAILING LIST https://bit.ly/LRWconnection   PURCHASE "YOU (Dear Future Wifey)" Theme Song http://itunes.apple.com/album/id/1729993404   👑 SUPPORT OUR CAUSE Donate to Kingdom Royale: Empowering foster kids to become royalty: https://www.KingdomRoyale.com   👕 MERCH https://www.DearFutureWifey.com   FOLLOW US 📸 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/dearfuturewifeypodcast | https://www.instagram.com/laterrasrwhitfield 📘 Facebook: https://www.Facebook.com/DearFutureWifey 🐦 Twitter: https://twitter.com/dfwifeypodcast   Hashtag: #dearfuturewifey #dearfuturewife #laterraswhitfield #lovestatus #lovestory #Relationshipadvice #Datingtips #communicationskills #lovestatus #love #christianity #marriage #marriagevideo #dear #datingSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Are you ready for a raw conversation about finding love after trauma? This episode features gospel artist Tasha Page Lockhart and her husband Deangelo Loftin sharing their whirlwind romance that defied conventional timelines. From their first Instagram interaction over a makeup-free photo to a Puerto Rico trip that sealed their commitment, their journey reveals how God orchestrated their union despite past wounds. The couple candidly discusses their individual battles with childhood abuse, addiction, and failed marriages. What makes their story remarkable isn't just the speed of their courtship, but how their shared experiences of healing created a foundation of understanding that many relationships lack. "I understand him and he understands me," Tasha explains, highlighting the profound connection that made their quick transition to marriage feel divinely appointed. ## Timestamps:- 12:30 - How Deangelo first reached out to Tasha through Instagram DMs- 19:45 - Tasha's journey through addiction and recovery- 28:20 - Deangelo reveals childhood trauma and his path to healing- 35:10 - The three breakups that tested their relationship- 42:35 - Their quick engagement and wedding decision- 51:15 - How they handle disagreements with their motto "let love lead" ## Key Takeaways:- True healing requires professional help - Deangelo credits therapy with preparing him for healthy love- God's timing often defies conventional relationship advice- Shared trauma can create deeper understanding when both partners are actively healing- Authenticity in relationships begins with seeing and accepting each other's unfiltered selves- Prayer and spiritual connection can provide the foundation for relationship decisions Ready to be inspired by a love story that proves God can use our deepest wounds to create our greatest connections? Listen to this powerful testimony that reminds us healing is possible and love is worth believing in—even after multiple heartbreaks.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Ever wondered if you're sabotaging your own love story? In this raw and revealing episode, host Laterras R. Whitfield sits down with Johanna King, a woman whose journey from nightclub bottle service to street evangelist showcases the transformative power of faith and self-discovery. Johanna candidly shares her experiences with heartbreak, including a whirlwind 19-day engagement that ended in chaos, and her pattern of friend-zoning the very man who might be her husband. Through tears and laughter, she reveals how past trauma, including two abortions, shaped her approach to relationships and how God's healing power allowed her to break destructive patterns. ## Timestamps and Key Takeaways:- **7:05** - Johanna opens up about her abortion experiences and how faith helped her heal from trauma- **15:30** - The red flags she ignored in a previous relationship, including unhealthy boundaries with an ex- **22:15** - Her 19-day engagement disaster and the importance of proper relationship order- **32:40** - The pattern of returning to a "sweet" man she wasn't initially attracted to- **39:25** - How street evangelism became her ministry and passion- **43:18** - The growth of attraction in her current relationship and learning to value character over status This episode is a masterclass in discernment, showing how we often chase what's toxic while friend-zoning what's healthy. Johanna's story reminds us that sometimes what we think we want isn't what God knows we need. Ready to become a student of love yourself? Don't miss Laterras' upcoming book "Student of Love" - pre-order now through the link in the description! 📸 CONNECT WITH OUR GUEST https://www.instagram.com/godisglamorous/   PRE-ORDER LATERRAS R. WHITFIELD'S "STUDENT OF LOVE" https://a.co/d/bx0E1iv   WANNA SEE BEHIND-THE-SCENES FOOTAGE? JOIN MY PATREON https://www.Patreon.com/laterrasrwhitfield   SIGN UP FOR THE MAILING LIST https://bit.ly/LRWconnection   PURCHASE "YOU (Dear Future Wifey)" Theme Song http://itunes.apple.com/album/id/1729993404   👑 SUPPORT OUR CAUSE Donate to Kingdom Royale: Empowering foster kids to become royalty: https://www.KingdomRoyale.com   👕 MERCH https://www.DearFutureWifey.com   FOLLOW US 📸 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/dearfuturewifeypodcast | https://www.instagram.com/laterrasrwhitfield 📘 Facebook: https://www.Facebook.com/DearFutureWifey 🐦 Twitter: https://twitter.com/dfwifeypodcastSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

What happens when God's plan defies our carefully constructed checklists? In this powerful episode of Dear Future Wifey, host Laterras R. Whitfield welcomes Sophia Ruffin-Wilson and Tommy Wilson to share their extraordinary love story that transcends expectations and proves that divine timing changes everything. Sophia candidly shares her journey from living as a masculine-presenting lesbian to experiencing complete transformation through her faith. Her powerful testimony reveals how identity can be reclaimed from the inside out, challenging common assumptions about deliverance and healing. Meanwhile, Tommy's story of rebuilding life at 46 after a 21-year marriage demonstrates that God's best often arrives when we've stopped trying to orchestrate our own paths. The couple's whirlwind romance—falling in love within two weeks and marrying within months—showcases how God orchestrates connections that defy human logic. Their story isn't just about finding love; it's about discovering purpose through surrender and recognizing that our preconceived "perfect match" often pales in comparison to God's divine selection. ## Key Moments:- 12:30 - Sophia shares her journey from gender dysphoria to complete transformation- 25:45 - The pivotal moment when Sophia saw her true feminine self for the first time- 38:20 - Tommy's perspective on starting over at 46 and finding unexpected love- 45:10 - How their paths crossed years before they actually connected- 52:35 - The importance of allowing people to process their healing without judgment ## Final Thoughts:This episode reminds us that transformation is a process, not an event. As Sophia powerfully states, "My relationship with Jesus is the confirmation of my freedom, and you can't question that." Whether you're walking through your own journey of identity, healing from past relationships, or waiting for God's timing in love, this conversation offers hope that what God has ordained for your life may look nothing like what you imagined—but will be infinitely better. Ready to be inspired by a love story that defies all odds? Listen now and discover how God writes the most beautiful stories with the most unexpected characters. 📸 CONNECT WITH OUR GUEST https://www.instagram.com/yagirl_soph https://www.instagram.com/tdub1414   PRE-ORDER LATERRAS R. WHITFIELD'S "STUDENT OF LOVE" https://a.co/d/bx0E1iv   WANNA SEE BEHIND-THE-SCENES FOOTAGE? JOIN MY PATREON https://www.Patreon.com/laterrasrwhitfield   SIGN UP FOR THE MAILING LIST https://bit.ly/LRWconnection   PURCHASE "YOU (Dear Future Wifey)" Theme Song http://itunes.apple.com/album/id/1729993404   👑 SUPPORT OUR CAUSE Donate to Kingdom Royale: Empowering foster kids to become royalty: https://www.KingdomRoyale.com   👕 MERCH https://www.DearFutureWifey.com   FOLLOW US 📸 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/dearfuturewifeypodcast | https://www.instagram.com/laterrasrwhitfield 📘 Facebook: https://www.Facebook.com/DearFutureWifey 🐦 Twitter: https://twitter.com/dfwifeypodcastSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

What happens when a church offers to pay your rent to move out or give you a free wedding to get married? In this powerful episode, host Laterras Whitfield takes us inside Concord Church's revolutionary "Cohabitation Challenge" - a program that's helped over 120 couples transition from living together to sacred marriage. Through intimate conversations with Pastor Brian Carter, his wife Stephanie, and couples at various stages of the journey, we witness how one church is tackling declining marriage rates in the Black community with radical compassion rather than judgment. ## Timestamps and Key Takeaways:- 8:30 - Pastor Carter explains the three options offered to cohabitating couples: move out with financial support, find another pathway, or commit to marriage through their 90-day challenge- 15:45 - A couple married since 2009 shares how they became part of the very first Grand Wedding- 28:20 - The importance of intentionality in marriage and balancing work life with home life- 37:15 - A previously divorced man describes how his wife's trust in "the Jesus she saw behind him" helped heal his resistance to remarriage- 51:30 - A couple reveals their journey from high school classmates to expectant parents navigating long-distance and cohabitation- 1:08:45 - An engaged couple discusses overcoming family resistance and securing a father's blessing before their upcoming wedding The episode culminates with powerful advice for those currently cohabitating: "You're never going to be ready for anything in life... so if you took that leap to move to Dallas from your hometown, why not take the leap to be with your forever and reap all the benefits and blessings God has for your life?" Don't miss this transformative conversation about choosing covenant over convenience and building marriages that last. Subscribe now for more episodes that discover, uncover, and recover love.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

On this episode of Dear Future Wifey, Jimmy and Irene Rollins invite us into a raw and redemptive conversation about healing, faith, and freedom. Irene shares her journey of overcoming alcohol addiction and what it means to celebrate 10 years of sobriety. She opens up about the power of first admitting she was an alcoholic in order to receive help, and the joy of no longer needing that label as she walks in wholeness today.   Together, Jimmy and Irene reveal how radical transparency has allowed them to heal one another’s wounds and strengthen their marriage. They discuss their belief in a God who still works miracles—not only in supernatural ways but also through the miracle of new perspective, therapy, and counseling.   With wisdom drawn from their personal journey and their books, Jimmy and Irene offer hope for couples who long to experience restoration, freedom, and a love that endures.   📸 CONNECT WITH OUR GUEST https://www.instagram.com/iamjimmyrollins/ https://www.instagram.com/irenerollins   PRE-ORDER LATERRAS R. WHITFIELD'S "STUDENT OF LOVE" https://a.co/d/bx0E1iv   WANNA SEE BEHIND-THE-SCENES FOOTAGE? JOIN MY PATREON https://www.Patreon.com/laterrasrwhitfield   SIGN UP FOR THE MAILING LIST https://bit.ly/LRWconnection   PURCHASE "YOU (Dear Future Wifey)" Theme Song http://itunes.apple.com/album/id/1729993404   👑 SUPPORT OUR CAUSE Donate to Kingdom Royale: Empowering foster kids to become royalty: https://www.KingdomRoyale.com   👕 MERCH https://www.DearFutureWifey.com   FOLLOW US 📸 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/dearfuturewifeypodcast | https://www.instagram.com/laterrasrwhitfield 📘 Facebook: https://www.Facebook.com/DearFutureWifey 🐦 Twitter: https://twitter.com/dfwifeypodcastSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

In this heartfelt episode, Ray Singleton opens up about his journey through love, loss, and new beginnings. Many came to know Ray and his late wife, Roslyn Singleton, through their beautiful and very public love story that touched countless lives around the world. Now, Ken shares how he has navigated grief while embracing life after loss. Alongside him is his new bride, Lexus Singleton, who brings powerful perspective on what it means to walk with someone through healing. Together, Ray and Lexus open up about the challenges and the beauty of their journey—how love can be reborn, how grief can be carried, and how faith sustains them both. This is a vulnerable conversation about resilience, love that endures, and the hope found in second chances.   📸 CONNECT WITH OUR GUEST https://www.instagram.com/willie_qool/ https://www.instagram.com/lexussingletontv   PRE-ORDER LATERRAS R. WHITFIELD'S "STUDENT OF LOVE" https://a.co/d/bx0E1iv   WANNA SEE BEHIND-THE-SCENES FOOTAGE? JOIN MY PATREON https://www.Patreon.com/laterrasrwhitfield   SIGN UP FOR THE MAILING LIST https://bit.ly/LRWconnection   PURCHASE "YOU (Dear Future Wifey)" Theme Song http://itunes.apple.com/album/id/1729993404   👑 SUPPORT OUR CAUSE Donate to Kingdom Royale: Empowering foster kids to become royalty: https://www.KingdomRoyale.com   👕 MERCH https://www.DearFutureWifey.com   FOLLOW US 📸 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/dearfuturewifeypodcast | https://www.instagram.com/laterrasrwhitfield 📘 Facebook: https://www.Facebook.com/DearFutureWifey 🐦 Twitter: https://twitter.com/dfwifeypodcastSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

“I didn’t want to do this interview.” That’s how this interview opens up—and what follows is one of the most raw and vulnerable conversations we’ve ever had.   Sam shares: 👶 Growing up as 1 of 5 kids in poverty with a drug-addicted father 👨‍👩‍👧‍👦 How his incredible adoptive parents changed his life trajectory 💔 His public divorce and the ripple effect it had on his ministry and professional world 🏛️ Why the system of church often leaves no room for pastors to heal, recover, or experience redemption 🔥 And how Laterras pushed him to places he wasn’t comfortable going—but needed to   This episode is about grace, truth, and the courage to tell your story—even when it hurts.   📸 CONNECT WITH OUR GUEST https://www.instagram.com/samcollier   DEAR FUTURE WIFEY LIVE x TOM JOYNER FOUNDATION FANTASTIC VOYAGE 2025 https://fantasticvoyage.blackamericaweb.com/ PROMO CODE: WIFEY   WANNA SEE BEHIND-THE-SCENES FOOTAGE? JOIN MY PATREON https://www.Patreon.com/laterrasrwhitfield   SIGN UP FOR THE MAILING LIST https://bit.ly/LRWconnection   PURCHASE "YOU (Dear Future Wifey)" Theme Song http://itunes.apple.com/album/id/1729993404   👑 SUPPORT OUR CAUSE Donate to Kingdom Royale: Empowering foster kids to become royalty: https://www.KingdomRoyale.com   👕 MERCH https://www.DearFutureWifey.com   FOLLOW US 📸 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/dearfuturewifeypodcast | https://www.instagram.com/laterrasrwhitfield 📘 Facebook: https://www.Facebook.com/DearFutureWifey 🐦 Twitter: https://twitter.com/dfwifeypodcastSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Hook: What does it take to transition well in life and love? This raw conversation dives deep into the journeys of eight transparent panelists. Overview: Popular podcaster Laterras R. Whitfield leads an intimate discussion with a diverse panel about their personal transitions in life and relationships. Guests get vulnerable about singleness, divorce, cancer, and more. Timestamps: 7:30 - Introductions 16:45 - Dating optimism? 26:30 - Abstinence and boundaries37:15 - Overcoming cancer55:30 - Letting your man lead1:16:00 - Proverbs 31 woman today1:23:00 - Getting connected Key Takeaways:- Give your partner grace to become who they're meant to be - You are enough, flaws and all- Submitting to God prepares you for marriage- Community is key during seasons of change CTA: Are you in a season of transition? Tune in to hear stories of hope that will inspire your journey. Search "Dear Future Wifey" now!See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

You may know him as WWE Hall of Famer Titus O’Neil, but behind the spotlight, Thaddeus Bullard has built a legacy far greater than championships. In this inspiring episode, Thaddeus opens up about: 👶 His rough beginnings, being born to a 12-year-old mother 🥊 The resilience that carried him from hardship to the WWE Hall of Fame 👨‍👦 His greatest accomplishment—raising his children with intentional love 🎒 Hosting the nation’s largest back-to-school giveaway, serving 30,000 kids annually at Raymond James Stadium 👑 And his vision behind King’s Court, building spaces that empower the next generation   This is more than a story of success—it’s a story of purpose, fatherhood, and faith in action.   #DearFutureWifey #ThaddeusBullard #TitusONeil #KingsCourt #Fatherhood #BackToSchool #wwehalloffamer 📸 CONNECT WITH OUR GUEST https://www.instagram.com/titusoneilwwe/   DEAR FUTURE WIFEY LIVE x TOM JOYNER FOUNDATION FANTASTIC VOYAGE 2025 https://fantasticvoyage.blackamericaweb.com/ PROMO CODE: WIFEY   WANNA SEE BEHIND-THE-SCENES FOOTAGE? JOIN MY PATREON https://www.Patreon.com/laterrasrwhitfield   SIGN UP FOR THE MAILING LIST https://bit.ly/LRWconnection   PURCHASE "YOU (Dear Future Wifey)" Theme Song http://itunes.apple.com/album/id/1729993404   👑 SUPPORT OUR CAUSE Donate to Kingdom Royale: Empowering foster kids to become royalty: https://www.KingdomRoyale.com   👕 MERCH https://www.DearFutureWifey.com   FOLLOW US 📸 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/dearfuturewifeypodcast | https://www.instagram.com/laterrasrwhitfield 📘 Facebook: https://www.Facebook.com/DearFutureWifey 🐦 Twitter: https://twitter.com/dfwifeypodcast   Hashtag: #dearfuturewifey #dearfuturewife #laterraswhitfield #lovestatus #lovestory #Relationshipadvice #Datingtips #communicationskills #lovestatus #love #christianity #marriage #marriagevideo #dear #datingSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Kittie’s story is raw, inspiring, and a reminder that waiting well is never wasted.   #DearFutureWifey #KittieRose #ChristianDating #PurposefulLove #FaithAndRelationships #godstiming   📸 CONNECT WITH OUR GUEST https://www.instagram.com/kittiejrose https://www.instagram.com/   DEAR FUTURE WIFEY LIVE x TOM JOYNER FOUNDATION FANTASTIC VOYAGE 2025 https://fantasticvoyage.blackamericaweb.com/ PROMO CODE: WIFEY   WANNA SEE BEHIND-THE-SCENES FOOTAGE? JOIN MY PATREON https://www.Patreon.com/laterrasrwhitfield   SIGN UP FOR THE MAILING LIST https://bit.ly/LRWconnection   PURCHASE "YOU (Dear Future Wifey)" Theme Song http://itunes.apple.com/album/id/1729993404   👑 SUPPORT OUR CAUSE Donate to Kingdom Royale: Empowering foster kids to become royalty: https://www.KingdomRoyale.com   👕 MERCH https://www.DearFutureWifey.comSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

In a rare and vulnerable twist, host Laterras Whitfield becomes the guest on his own show—and he’s answering the questions everyone’s been asking. In this deeply personal episode, Laterras opens up about: 💍 His mystery bride and why they’ve chosen to keep her identity private until the wedding 🕊️ The heart behind their unconventional journey to the altar 🎯 His true intentions with marriage—and how he’s navigating this new season with God, grace, and intentionality   If you’ve been following the journey… this is the episode you can’t miss.   #DearFutureWifey #LaterrasWhitfield #MysteryBride #WeddingJourney #FaithAndLove #ChristianDating #MarriageOnPurpose   📸 CONNECT WITH OUR GUEST https://www.instagram.com/   DEAR FUTURE WIFEY LIVE x TOM JOYNER FOUNDATION FANTASTIC VOYAGE 2025 https://fantasticvoyage.blackamericaweb.com/ PROMO CODE: WIFEY   WANNA SEE BEHIND-THE-SCENES FOOTAGE? JOIN MY PATREON https://www.Patreon.com/laterrasrwhitfield   SIGN UP FOR THE MAILING LIST https://bit.ly/LRWconnection   PURCHASE "YOU (Dear Future Wifey)" Theme Song http://itunes.apple.com/album/id/1729993404   👑 SUPPORT OUR CAUSE Donate to Kingdom Royale: Empowering foster kids to become royalty: https://www.KingdomRoyale.com   👕 MERCH https://www.DearFutureWifey.com   FOLLOW US 📸 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/dearfuturewifeypodcast | https://www.instagram.com/laterrasrwhitfield 📘 Facebook: https://www.Facebook.com/DearFutureWifey 🐦 Twitter: https://twitter.com/dfwifeypodcastSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Laterras R. Whitfield welcomes relationship expert Dr. Gary Chapman to share wisdom on marriage, conflict resolution, and thriving in long-term relationships. Overview: In this insightful episode, Dr. Chapman discusses key lessons from his bestselling book "Things I Wish We'd Known Before We Got Married." He shares perspective on the realities of marriage, the importance of learning your spouse's love language, and practical tips for handling conflict, money, and more. Dr. Chapman offers wisdom forged from his own 63-year marriage. Timestamps: 00:05:20 - The 2-year lifespan of romantic love 00:09:30 - Letting go of irritations to find laughter 00:14:40 - Solving conflicts without arguing 00:19:10 - Setting a financial plan before marriage 00:24:30 - Thriving as a single while waiting for a spouse 00:28:50 - Serving others to find meaning in life 00:33:20 - Prayer for the host's upcoming book Key Takeaways: - Romantic love alone isn't enough to sustain a marriage long-term. Learn your spouse's love language. - Laughter and finding humor in your spouse's quirks can strengthen your bond. - Listen empathetically and look for win-win solutions when resolving conflicts. - Agree on a financial plan for giving, saving, spending. Don't keep financial secrets. - Your relationship with God is the foundation. Keep pursuing Him first. CTA: If you're single, engaged or married, don't miss the wisdom in this episode! Tune in now to hear Dr. Chapman's insightful marriage advice.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Pastor Tasha & Kenny Leonard welcomed Laterras to host a special Dear Future Wifey Live for Young Adults Night at The Purpose Place Church in Greenville, South Carolina—and the conversation was REAL.   We dove into questions today’s young adults are wrestling with: 💬 How do singles in church really meet each other? 💍 Do young adults still desire marriage in today’s culture? 💸 Is financial stability a valid reason to delay marriage? ✝️ Are young adults practicing abstinence—or has purity culture lost its voice? 💖 Plus, Pastor Tasha & Kenny Leonard share their own love story and how God brought them together.   This episode is a mix of laughter, transparency, and truth for anyone navigating love, faith, and purpose in today’s world.   📸 CONNECT WITH OUR GUEST https://www.instagram.com/tashacobbsleonard https://www.instagram.com/kennethleonardjr https://www.instagram.com/the.purposeplace   DEAR FUTURE WIFEY LIVE x TOM JOYNER FOUNDATION FANTASTIC VOYAGE 2025 https://fantasticvoyage.blackamericaweb.com/ PROMO CODE: WIFEY   WANNA SEE BEHIND-THE-SCENES FOOTAGE? JOIN MY PATREON https://www.Patreon.com/laterrasrwhitfield   SIGN UP FOR THE MAILING LIST https://bit.ly/LRWconnection   PURCHASE "YOU (Dear Future Wifey)" Theme Song http://itunes.apple.com/album/id/1729993404   👑 SUPPORT OUR CAUSE Donate to Kingdom Royale: Empowering foster kids to become royalty: https://www.KingdomRoyale.com   👕 MERCH https://www.DearFutureWifey.com   FOLLOW US 📸 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/dearfuturewifeypodcast | https://www.instagram.com/laterrasrwhitfield 📘 Facebook: https://www.Facebook.com/DearFutureWifey 🐦 Twitter: https://twitter.com/dfwifeypodcastSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

In this heartfelt and thought-provoking episode, Joy Pittman takes us on a journey through love, faith, and the lessons she’s learned while living fully surrendered to God.   We discuss: ✨ Her personal dating journey and how faith reshaped her approach to relationships 🙏 What it really means to live a life completely yielded to God’s timing and will 💼 Why some men marry women solely to build their businesses—and the impact it leaves behind 💖 A sweet and funny story about her father’s unique dating philosophy, giving each woman he dated just one day a week   This episode is equal parts wisdom, humor, and a gentle challenge to reexamine how we approach love and purpose.   Don’t miss this one—it might change the way you see relationships forever.   📸 CONNECT WITH OUR GUEST https://www.instagram.com/thejoyyouneed/   DEAR FUTURE WIFEY LIVE x TOM JOYNER FOUNDATION FANTASTIC VOYAGE 2025 https://fantasticvoyage.blackamericaweb.com/ PROMO CODE: WIFEY   WANNA SEE BEHIND-THE-SCENES FOOTAGE? JOIN MY PATREON https://www.Patreon.com/laterrasrwhitfield   SIGN UP FOR THE MAILING LIST https://bit.ly/LRWconnection   PURCHASE "YOU (Dear Future Wifey)" Theme Song http://itunes.apple.com/album/id/1729993404   👑 SUPPORT OUR CAUSE Donate to Kingdom Royale: Empowering foster kids to become royalty: https://www.KingdomRoyale.com   👕 MERCH https://www.DearFutureWifey.com   FOLLOW US 📸 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/dearfuturewifeypodcast | https://www.instagram.com/laterrasrwhitfield 📘 Facebook: https://www.Facebook.com/DearFutureWifey 🐦 Twitter: https://twitter.com/dfwifeypodcastSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Our first-ever live show in Chicago was nothing short of unforgettable! Hosted at Living Word Church, this powerful conversation brought laughter, vulnerability, and real talk about love, mental health, and the journey to “I do.”   🔥 Jason Wilson—the church’s funny guy—had the crowd in stitches while dropping serious gems about why it’s time to stop playing and start dating with intention. 🧠 Jacqulyne Horbrook, founder of Black Christian Influencers, opened up about her past marriage and the critical role mental health plays in relationships. 😳 One panelist revealed she’s 26 and has never been on a date—and her honesty sparked an eye-opening discussion. 💍 And let’s just say… you might want to watch until the end. Two contestants may be on the path to engagement 👀   This isn’t just a podcast episode. It’s a moment.   Tap in, laugh loud, and lean into the conversation we all need to be having.   FUTURE WIFEY LIVE x TOM JOYNER FOUNDATION FANTASTIC VOYAGE 2025 https://fantasticvoyage.blackamericaweb.com/ PROMO CODE: WIFEY   WANNA SEE BEHIND-THE-SCENES FOOTAGE? JOIN MY PATREON https://www.Patreon.com/laterrasrwhitfield   SIGN UP FOR THE MAILING LIST https://bit.ly/LRWconnection   PURCHASE "YOU (Dear Future Wifey)" Theme Song http://itunes.apple.com/album/id/1729993404   👑 SUPPORT OUR CAUSE Donate to Kingdom Royale: Empowering foster kids to become royalty: https://www.KingdomRoyale.com   👕 MERCH https://www.DearFutureWifey.com   FOLLOW US 📸 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/dearfuturewifeypodcast | https://www.instagram.com/laterrasrwhitfield 📘 Facebook: https://www.Facebook.com/DearFutureWifey 🐦 Twitter: https://twitter.com/dfwifeypodcastSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

This week’s episode features a dynamic conversation with Dr. Alduan & Mecca Tartt—a power couple whose love story challenges traditional gender roles while highlighting the beauty of mutual respect, faith, and growth. We dive deep into: 💥 Their unique dating journey and how Mecca—an unapologetic alpha woman—set the pace ❤️ What it looks like to pursue and court a strong woman who knows what she wants 👨‍👩‍👧‍👦 Navigating parenting, the decision to expand their family, and how they raise their daughters 🛠️ Real talk about compromise, reconciliation, and the work required to build lasting love This is not just a relationship—it’s a partnership rooted in purpose. 🔔 Don’t forget to subscribe and join the conversation on love, leadership, and letting go of old narratives.  📸 CONNECT WITH OUR GUEST https://www.instagram.com/drtartt/  https://www.instagram.com/meccamooretartt/ DEAR FUTURE WIFEY LIVE x TOM JOYNER FOUNDATION FANTASTIC VOYAGE 2025 https://fantasticvoyage.blackamericaweb.com/ PROMO CODE: WIFEY WANNA SEE BEHIND-THE-SCENES FOOTAGE? JOIN MY PATREON https://www.Patreon.com/laterrasrwhitfield SIGN UP FOR THE MAILING LIST https://bit.ly/LRWconnection PURCHASE "YOU (Dear Future Wifey)" Theme Song http://itunes.apple.com/album/id/1729993404 👑 SUPPORT OUR CAUSE Donate to Kingdom Royale: Empowering foster kids to become royalty: https://www.KingdomRoyale.com 👕 MERCH https://www.DearFutureWifey.comSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

What does healing, purpose, and partnership look like for a woman at the top of her game? In this eye-opening episode, we sit down with Shari’ Nycole—TV producer, media personality, and co-host of the Willie Moore Jr. Show—to unpack her journey from public success to private introspection.   Shari’ opens up about:   Her powerhouse career with TV One, ESSENCE’s Women in Sports initiative, and more   How a season of solitude became sacred preparation for marriage   Why the Church must expand its language around singleness and womanhood   Whether she's open to dating outside her race based on modern relationship statistics   This episode is for every woman redefining what it means to be whole—and every man who wants to understand her better.   🔔 Subscribe and join the conversation as we explore faith, standards, and the evolving language of love.📸 CONNECT WITH OUR GUEST https://www.instagram.com/shari_nycole   DEAR FUTURE WIFEY LIVE x TOM JOYNER FOUNDATION FANTASTIC VOYAGE 2025 https://fantasticvoyage.blackamericaweb.com/ PROMO CODE: WIFEY   WANNA SEE BEHIND-THE-SCENES FOOTAGE? JOIN MY PATREON https://www.Patreon.com/laterrasrwhitfield   SIGN UP FOR THE MAILING LIST https://bit.ly/LRWconnection   PURCHASE "YOU (Dear Future Wifey)" Theme Song http://itunes.apple.com/album/id/1729993404   👑 SUPPORT OUR CAUSE Donate to Kingdom Royale: Empowering foster kids to become royalty: https://www.KingdomRoyale.com   👕 MERCH https://www.DearFutureWifey.com   FOLLOW US 📸 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/dearfuturewifeypodcast | https://www.instagram.com/laterrasrwhitfield 📘 Facebook: https://www.Facebook.com/DearFutureWifey 🐦 Twitter: https://twitter.com/dfwifeypodcastSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

In this deeply moving and empowering episode, we sit down with Lamar and Ronnie Tyler, the trailblazing founders of Black and Married with Kids. What started as a blog became a national movement—and this conversation shows you why.   We cover: 💡 How their #1 priority is educating Black families on financial literacy 📈 How they launched their business and built an empire that centers Black love 🤝 How to earn trust in marriage—not just with words, but with results 💬 Lamar’s powerful perspective on never pre-judging his wife for bringing children into the marriage, shaped by being raised by a single mom himself 👩🏾‍🎓 Ronnie’s brave journey of hiding her pregnancy while at Spelman, only to discover her parents’ unexpected love and support 🎓 Her academic success—graduating with honors from Spelman and pursuing engineering in grad school 🎤 A preview of their impactful marriage and family conference 🚨 And finally—their bold take on the #1 enemy threatening Black marriages and families today   This episode is a masterclass in love, legacy, and building something that lasts.   👇 Drop a comment with your biggest takeaway. 📌 Don’t forget to subscribe and turn on notifications so you never miss an episode of Dear Future Wifey.   📸 CONNECT WITH OUR GUEST https://www.instagram.com/lamartyler/ https://www.instagram.com/ronnieharristyler/   DEAR FUTURE WIFEY LIVE x TOM JOYNER FOUNDATION FANTASTIC VOYAGE 2025 https://fantasticvoyage.blackamericaweb.com/ PROMO CODE: WIFEY   WANNA SEE BEHIND-THE-SCENES FOOTAGE? JOIN MY PATREON https://www.Patreon.com/laterrasrwhitfield   SIGN UP FOR THE MAILING LIST https://bit.ly/LRWconnection   PURCHASE "YOU (Dear Future Wifey)" Theme Song http://itunes.apple.com/album/id/1729993404   👑 SUPPORT OUR CAUSE Donate to Kingdom Royale: Empowering foster kids to become royalty: https://www.KingdomRoyale.com   👕 MERCH https://www.DearFutureWifey.com   FOLLOW US 📸 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/dearfuturewifeypodcast | https://www.instagram.com/laterrasrwhitfield 📘 Facebook: https://www.Facebook.com/DearFutureWifey 🐦 Twitter: https://twitter.com/dfwifeypodcastSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

In this unforgettable episode of Dear Future Wifey, Nick opens up about the divine timing of their love, the joy of fatherhood, and the unthinkable grief of losing his soulmate. With powerful honesty, he shares how he’s held onto faith, rebuilt his life for his sons, and continued to believe in purpose even through pain.   This is more than a story — it’s a testimony.   🙏 Share this with anyone walking through loss, questioning God’s plan, or needing a reminder that beauty can still rise from ashes. CONNECT WITH OUR GUEST https://www.instagram.com/blssd_favrd_called SUPPORT NICK & HIS ADOPTED KIDS https://www.gofundme.com/f/aid-kimberlys-family-after-tragedy   DEAR FUTURE WIFEY LIVE x TOM JOYNER FOUNDATION FANTASTIC VOYAGE 2025 https://fantasticvoyage.blackamericaweb.com/ PROMO CODE: WIFEY   WANNA SEE BEHIND-THE-SCENES FOOTAGE? JOIN MY PATREON https://www.Patreon.com/laterrasrwhitfield   SIGN UP FOR THE MAILING LIST https://bit.ly/LRWconnection   PURCHASE "YOU (Dear Future Wifey)" Theme Song http://itunes.apple.com/album/id/1729993404   👑 SUPPORT OUR CAUSE Donate to Kingdom Royale: Empowering foster kids to become royalty: https://www.KingdomRoyale.com   👕 MERCH https://www.DearFutureWifey.com   SUBSCRIBE & LEAVE A REVIEW Youtube Channel: https://www.youtube.com/@DearFutureWifey?sub_confirmation=1 🍏 Apple Podcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/dear-future-wifey/id1506095537 🎵 Google Play: https://play.google.com/music/m/Iae4cjudkuuxmjnjza7zputjfuu?t=Dear_Future_Wifey 🧵 Stitcher: https://www.stitcher.com/podcast/dear-future-wifey 🎧 Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/1r3Ba1GxkpwFkWVqmxZNPA   FOLLOW US 📸 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/dearfuturewifeypodcast | https://www.instagram.com/laterrasrwhitfield 📘 Facebook: https://www.Facebook.com/DearFutureWifey 🐦 Twitter: https://twitter.com/dfwifeypodcast   Hashtag: #dearfuturewifey #dearfuturewife #laterraswhitfield #lovestatus #lovestory #Relationshipadvice #Datingtips #communicationskills #lovestatus #love #christianity #marriage #marriagevideo #dear #datingSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

What happens when two visionaries fall in love and decide to champion healthy Black relationships for the world to see? In this unforgettable episode, Tommy & Codie Oliver—the powerhouse couple behind the groundbreaking Black Love docuseries—join Dear Future Wifey to share the behind-the-scenes story of their marriage, mission, and movement. From navigating the highs and lows of entrepreneurship and parenting to preserving intimacy while producing a cultural phenomenon, the Olivers get real about what it takes to build something beautiful—on-screen and off. 🎥 They didn’t just film love stories. They lived one. 💬 Get ready for honest dialogue, raw emotion, and priceless wisdom. ❤️ This is a masterclass in purpose-driven partnership. If you’ve ever questioned whether love and legacy can coexist, this episode is your answer. 📸 CONNECT WITH OUR GUEST https://www.instagram.com/blacklove https://www.instagram.com/codieco https://www.instagram.com/producertommy/ FUTURE WIFEY LIVE x TOM JOYNER FOUNDATION FANTASTIC VOYAGE 2025 https://fantasticvoyage.blackamericaweb.com/ PROMO CODE: WIFEY   WANNA SEE BEHIND-THE-SCENES FOOTAGE? JOIN MY PATREON https://www.Patreon.com/laterrasrwhitfield   SIGN UP FOR THE MAILING LIST https://bit.ly/LRWconnection   PURCHASE "YOU (Dear Future Wifey)" Theme Song http://itunes.apple.com/album/id/1729993404   👑 SUPPORT OUR CAUSE Donate to Kingdom Royale: Empowering foster kids to become royalty: https://www.KingdomRoyale.com   👕 MERCH https://www.DearFutureWifey.com   FOLLOW US 📸 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/dearfuturewifeypodcast | https://www.instagram.com/laterrasrwhitfield 📘 Facebook: https://www.Facebook.com/DearFutureWifey 🐦 Twitter: https://twitter.com/dfwifeypodcast   Hashtag: #dearfuturewifey #dearfuturewife #laterraswhitfield #lovestatus #lovestory #Relationshipadvice #Datingtips #communicationskills #lovestatus #love #christianity #marriage #marriagevideo #dear #datingSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.