Dear Future Wifey

In this dynamic episode of Dear Future Wifey, Laterras and Ashley R. Whitfield sit down with powerhouse couple Michael Jai White and Gillian White for an engaging and insightful conversation about love, marriage, and navigating life in the entertainment industry. Together, they share the stories of how they met, offering insight into the moments that sparked their relationships and the foundations that have kept them strong through the years. From ministry to Hollywood, each couple brings a unique perspective on what it means to build and sustain a lasting union. Michael and Gillian give a behind-the-scenes look at what it’s really like being married in the entertainment industry, including the challenges, sacrifices, and balance required when one (or both) partners are in the spotlight. They also share exciting updates and the inside scoop on their latest projects, giving viewers a glimpse into their creative world. Throughout the conversation, both couples reflect on the principles that have helped them sustain love over time—from communication and trust to faith, friendship, and choosing each other daily. This episode is filled with wisdom, laughter, and real-life relationship gems from couples who have weathered different seasons and remained committed through it all. Whether you’re single, dating, or married, this conversation will inspire you to build a love that lasts—no matter the industry, pressure, or season. #DearFutureWifey #MichaelJaiWhite #GillianWhite #HarryMcKee #Marriage #BlackLove #FaithAndRelationships #LaterrasWhitfield #AshleyWhitfield CONNECT WITH OUR GUEST https://www.instagram.com/officialmichaeljai/ https://www.instagram.com/iamgillianwhite/   CONNECT WITH OUR HOSTS https://www.instagram.com/laterrasrwhitfield https://www.instagram.com/ashleyrwhitfield   ORDER LATERRAS R. WHITFIELD'S NEW BOOK "STUDENT OF LOVE" https://www.StudentofLove.com   WANNA SEE BEHIND-THE-SCENES FOOTAGE? JOIN MY PATREON https://www.Patreon.com/laterrasrwhitfield   SIGN UP FOR THE MAILING LIST https://bit.ly/LRWconnection   PURCHASE "YOU (Dear Future Wifey)" Theme Song http://itunes.apple.com/album/id/1729993404   👑 SUPPORT OUR CAUSE Donate to Kingdom Royale: Empowering foster kids to become royalty: https://www.KingdomRoyale.com   👕 MERCH https://www.DearFutureWifey.com   FOLLOW DEAR FUTURE WIFEY 📸 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/dearfuturewifeypodcast 📘 Facebook: https://www.Facebook.com/DearFutureWifey 🐦 Twitter: https://twitter.com/dfwifeypodcastSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

In this powerful couples conversation on Dear Future Wifey, Laterras and Ashley R. Whitfield sit down with Harry McKee and his wife for a deeply personal and faith-filled dialogue on love, purpose, and perseverance. Harry shares the life-altering story of how he almost lost his life due to a serious health complication, opening up about the physical battle, the emotional toll, and the spiritual perspective that came from facing death so closely. Together, they reflect on how that season reshaped their marriage, their priorities, and their faith in God. The couple also discusses Harry’s decision to walk away from the music industry, unpacking the tension between calling, career, and obedience—and what it looks like to choose purpose over platform. In a lighter but equally meaningful moment, they take it back to the beginning—sharing how they met and the foundation that has carried their relationship through every high and low. With honesty, wisdom, and undeniable love, this conversation highlights what it means to stand by your spouse through life’s most challenging moments and to build a relationship rooted in faith, resilience, and commitment. Whether you’re navigating uncertainty, rediscovering purpose, or believing God for lasting love, this episode will strengthen and inspire you. CONNECT WITH OUR GUEST https://www.instagram.com/jrmckee.co/ https://www.instagram.com/mayadaniele/ CONNECT WITH OUR HOSTS https://www.instagram.com/laterrasrwhitfield https://www.instagram.com/ashleyrwhitfield   ORDER LATERRAS R. WHITFIELD'S NEW BOOK "STUDENT OF LOVE" https://www.StudentofLove.com   WANNA SEE BEHIND-THE-SCENES FOOTAGE? JOIN MY PATREON https://www.Patreon.com/laterrasrwhitfield   SIGN UP FOR THE MAILING LIST https://bit.ly/LRWconnection   PURCHASE "YOU (Dear Future Wifey)" Theme Song http://itunes.apple.com/album/id/1729993404   👑 SUPPORT OUR CAUSE Donate to Kingdom Royale: Empowering foster kids to become royalty: https://www.KingdomRoyale.com   👕 MERCH https://www.DearFutureWifey.com   FOLLOW DEAR FUTURE WIFEY 📸 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/dearfuturewifeypodcast 📘 Facebook: https://www.Facebook.com/DearFutureWifey 🐦 Twitter: https://twitter.com/dfwifeypodcastSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

In this deeply moving episode of Dear Future Wifey, Laterras & Ashley R. Whitfield sits down with health advocate and entrepreneur Coach Gessie Thompson for a transparent conversation about faith, resilience, and the fight to become a mother. Coach Gessie opens up about her 10-year battle with infertility and fibroid complications, sharing the emotional, physical, and financial toll of what she calls her “Million Dollar Baby Journey.” After spending over $1,000,000 in pursuit of conception, she recounts the heartbreak, the hope, and the unwavering faith that carried her through one of the most challenging seasons of her life. With courage and vulnerability, she shares the miraculous story of how she ultimately conceived—and how that victory transformed her pain into purpose. Beyond her personal testimony, Coach Gessie explains how her health struggles awakened her passion for advocacy. She discusses how toxins, lifestyle, and wellness education became central to her mission, ultimately leading her to launch a company dedicated to helping families live healthier, toxin-free lives. This episode is raw, inspiring, and empowering—a reminder that even in prolonged waiting, God can birth purpose, advocacy, and legacy. If you’ve ever wrestled with infertility, chronic health challenges, or the weight of unanswered prayers, this conversation will strengthen your faith and ignite your hope. CONNECT WITH OUR GUEST https://www.instagram.com/coachgessie DETOX NOW 15% Discount Code: wifey https://www.thedetoxnow.com   CONNECT WITH OUR HOSTS https://www.instagram.com/laterrasrwhitfield https://www.instagram.com/ashleyrwhitfield   ORDER LATERRAS R. WHITFIELD'S NEW BOOK "STUDENT OF LOVE" https://www.StudentofLove.com   WANNA SEE BEHIND-THE-SCENES FOOTAGE? JOIN MY PATREON https://www.Patreon.com/laterrasrwhitfield   SIGN UP FOR THE MAILING LIST https://bit.ly/LRWconnection   PURCHASE "YOU (Dear Future Wifey)" Theme Song http://itunes.apple.com/album/id/1729993404   👑 SUPPORT OUR CAUSE Donate to Kingdom Royale: Empowering foster kids to become royalty: https://www.KingdomRoyale.com   👕 MERCH https://www.DearFutureWifey.com   FOLLOW DEAR FUTURE WIFEY 📸 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/dearfuturewifeypodcast 📘 Facebook: https://www.Facebook.com/DearFutureWifey 🐦 Twitter: https://twitter.com/dfwifeypodcastSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

In this unforgettable episode of Dear Future Wifey, Laterras Whitfield sits down with gospel music icons, actors, and beloved husband-and-wife duo David Mann and Tamela Mann for a powerful conversation about love, faith, and the journey of building a marriage that lasts.   David and Tamela reflect on the early days of their love story, including how they met while David was performing in a trio with Kirk Franklin. What began as a musical connection eventually led to years of traveling the world together while touring with Kirk Franklin and serving in ministry through music.   Throughout the conversation, the couple shares candid moments from their decades-long marriage—discussing the importance of faith, laughter, and choosing each other through every season. David also opens up about his mental health struggles, offering an honest look at the battles he has faced and the role Tamela’s love and support have played in his healing journey.   Tamela, in turn, speaks about what it means to stand beside your spouse through difficult seasons, while David proudly expresses how he remains her biggest fan, celebrating her gifts, her success, and the woman she continues to become.   With humor, vulnerability, and wisdom, this episode highlights the power of partnership, perseverance, and keeping God at the center of your relationship.   Whether you’re single, dating, or married, David and Tamela’s story is a beautiful reminder that love grows stronger when two people commit to walking through life—together.     #DearFutureWifey #DavidAndTamelaMann #KirkFranklin #Marriage #FaithAndFamily #BlackLove #LaterrasWhitfield   CONNECT WITH OUR GUEST https://www.instagram.com/davidandtamela/   CONNECT WITH OUR HOSTS https://www.instagram.com/laterrasrwhitfield https://www.instagram.com/ashleyrwhitfield   ORDER LATERRAS R. WHITFIELD'S NEW BOOK "STUDENT OF LOVE" https://www.StudentofLove.com   WANNA SEE BEHIND-THE-SCENES FOOTAGE? JOIN MY PATREON https://www.Patreon.com/laterrasrwhitfield   SIGN UP FOR THE MAILING LIST https://bit.ly/LRWconnection   PURCHASE "YOU (Dear Future Wifey)" Theme Song http://itunes.apple.com/album/id/1729993404   👑 SUPPORT OUR CAUSE Donate to Kingdom Royale: Empowering foster kids to become royalty: https://www.KingdomRoyale.com   👕 MERCH https://www.DearFutureWifey.com   FOLLOW DEAR FUTURE WIFEY 📸 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/dearfuturewifeypodcast 📘 Facebook: https://www.Facebook.com/DearFutureWifey 🐦 Twitter: https://twitter.com/dfwifeypodcastSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Social media makes love look effortless.But what happens behind the posts? In this powerful episode of Dear Future Wifey, Joshua & Jalyka — the viral social media couple known for their chemistry, humor, and transparency — open up about what it really takes to build a relationship that lasts. From sliding in the DMs to navigating purpose, pressure, and public perception, they share: • How they knew this was “the one”• The challenges nobody sees online• Setting boundaries in a public relationship• Faith, accountability, and keeping God at the center• What dating with intention actually looks like This conversation is real, refreshing, and deeply relatable for singles, couples, and anyone believing God for love done right. If you’ve ever wondered how to balance influence, intimacy, and integrity — this episode is for you. ✨ Watch until the end for the advice they would give their “future spouse selves.” Subscribe for more conversations that prepare you for the love you’re praying for. #DearFutureWifey #JoshuaAndJalyka #ChristianDating #RelationshipGoals #FaithAndLove #KingdomMarriageSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

In this powerful episode of Dear Future Wifey, Laterras Whitfield sits down with Brian & Alexis Cole for an honest conversation about love, growth, and building a life rooted in faith and commitment. Known for their transparency and authenticity, the couple opens up about their love story, the lessons they’ve learned through marriage, and the intentional work required to stay connected through every season. They share candid insights on navigating challenges, strengthening their foundation, and choosing each other daily—even when it isn’t easy. Together, they discuss the importance of communication, shared values, and spiritual alignment, as well as the reality of growing individually while remaining united as one. With both wisdom and vulnerability, they reveal how their journey has shaped their purpose and deepened their understanding of covenant. This conversation is filled with practical encouragement, heartfelt moments, and powerful reminders that strong marriages aren’t built on perfection—but on commitment, grace, and the willingness to grow together. Whether you’re single, dating, or married, this episode will inspire you to build love that lasts. #DearFutureWifey #TheColeLife #Marriage #ChristianMarriage #RelationshipGoals  WITH OUR GUEST https://www.instagram.com/_thecolelife_   CONNECT WITH OUR HOSTS https://www.instagram.com/laterrasrwhitfield https://www.instagram.com/ashleyrwhitfield   ORDER LATERRAS R. WHITFIELD'S NEW BOOK "STUDENT OF LOVE" https://www.StudentofLove.com   WANNA SEE BEHIND-THE-SCENES FOOTAGE? JOIN MY PATREON https://www.Patreon.com/laterrasrwhitfield   SIGN UP FOR THE MAILING LIST https://bit.ly/LRWconnection   PURCHASE "YOU (Dear Future Wifey)" Theme Song http://itunes.apple.com/album/id/1729993404   👑 SUPPORT OUR CAUSE Donate to Kingdom Royale: Empowering foster kids to become royalty: https://www.KingdomRoyale.com   👕 MERCH https://www.DearFutureWifey.com   FOLLOW DEAR FUTURE WIFEY 📸 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/dearfuturewifeypodcast 📘 Facebook: https://www.Facebook.com/DearFutureWifey 🐦 Twitter: https://twitter.com/dfwifeypodcastSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

In this transparent and faith-filled episode of Dear Future Wifey, Laterras Whitfield sits down with Christian Bevere, host of the Dear Future Husband podcast, to talk about love, identity, and trusting God’s timing from singleness to marriage.   Christian shares how her platform began while she was praying for her future husband, documenting her journey of faith, preparation, and surrender long before she ever met him. She opens up about the incredible testimony of meeting her husband and getting married within just seven months, and the spiritual clarity that gave her confidence in their covenant.   She also speaks candidly about the pressures of marrying into a well-known ministry family as the daughter-in-law of John and Lisa Bevere, and how she had to guard her identity, her voice, and her marriage while navigating expectations and public perception.   In addition, Christian discusses the heart behind her new books, sharing how her personal seasons of waiting, becoming, and marrying inspired her message to others who are believing God for love.   This conversation is filled with wisdom for singles and newlyweds alike—covering the reality of waiting, the responsibility of marriage, and the importance of becoming secure in who God called you to be before saying “I do.”   Whether you’re in a season of preparation or promise, this episode will encourage you to trust God’s process with your love story.   #DearFutureWifey #ChristianBevere #DearFutureHusband #MarriageTestimony #ChristianDating #FaithAndLove CONNECT WITH OUR GUEST https://www.instagram.com/mrschristianbevere https://www.instagram.com/thedearfuturehusbandpodcast   CONNECT WITH OUR HOSTS https://www.instagram.com/laterrasrwhitfield https://www.instagram.com/ashleyrwhitfield   ORDER LATERRAS R. WHITFIELD'S NEW BOOK "STUDENT OF LOVE" https://www.StudentofLove   WANNA SEE BEHIND-THE-SCENES FOOTAGE? JOIN MY PATREON https://www.Patreon.com/laterrasrwhitfield   SIGN UP FOR THE MAILING LIST https://bit.ly/LRWconnection   PURCHASE "YOU (Dear Future Wifey)" Theme Song http://itunes.apple.com/album/id/1729993404   👑 SUPPORT OUR CAUSE Donate to Kingdom Royale: Empowering foster kids to become royalty: https://www.KingdomRoyale.com   👕 MERCH https://www.DearFutureWifey.com   FOLLOW DEAR FUTURE WIFEY 📸 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/dearfuturewifeypodcast 📘 Facebook: https://www.Facebook.com/DearFutureWifey 🐦 Twitter: https://twitter.com/dfwifeypodcastSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

In this special solo episode of Dear Future Wifey, Laterras Whitfield interviews himself while his co-host and bride, Ashley, is in Los Angeles working the GRAMMYs and the Super Bowl.   With vulnerability and gratitude, Laterras reflects on the first three months of marriage, sharing what has surprised him, stretched him, and strengthened their union. From newlywed adjustments to spiritual growth, he opens up about what this new season has truly been like behind the scenes.   For the first time ever, Laterras also shares never-before-seen footage from his proposal, giving viewers an intimate look at the moment that changed everything.   But this episode isn’t just about marriage—it’s about the journey to it. Laterras offers heartfelt encouragement to those who are still waiting on their spouse, reminding them that waiting is not punishment—it’s preparation. He speaks directly to the singles who have prayed, hoped, and trusted God through seasons of delay.   This episode is reflective, inspiring, and deeply personal—a reminder that love is worth the wait, and when the promise arrives, it will have been worth every process.   CONNECT WITH OUR HOSTS https://www.instagram.com/laterrasrwhitfield https://www.instagram.com/ashleyrwhitfield   ORDER LATERRAS R. WHITFIELD'S NEW BOOK "STUDENT OF LOVE" https://www.StudentofLove   WANNA SEE BEHIND-THE-SCENES FOOTAGE? JOIN MY PATREON https://www.Patreon.com/laterrasrwhitfield   SIGN UP FOR THE MAILING LIST https://bit.ly/LRWconnection   PURCHASE "YOU (Dear Future Wifey)" Theme Song http://itunes.apple.com/album/id/1729993404   👑 SUPPORT OUR CAUSE Donate to Kingdom Royale: Empowering foster kids to become royalty: https://www.KingdomRoyale.com   👕 MERCH https://www.DearFutureWifey.com     FOLLOW DEAR FUTURE WIFEY 📸 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/dearfuturewifeypodcast 📘 Facebook: https://www.Facebook.com/DearFutureWifey 🐦 Twitter: https://twitter.com/dfwifeypodcastSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

  In this special returning guests episode of Dear Future Wifey, Laterras Whitfield welcomes back Dotha & Chanell Sykes for a refreshingly real conversation about love, faith, and navigating uncertainty together.   The couple opens up about Dotha’s life as a professional stunt double, pulling back the curtain on the instability that often comes with a career in Hollywood and how that uncertainty impacted their relationship. They candidly revisit the early days of their love story—when Dotha was unemployed—and discuss modern dating norms, expectations, and whether Chanell would recommend dating a man who’s in between jobs.   Together, they dive into the importance of shared values, mutual support, and what it truly means to take care of one another through sickness and health—not just in theory, but in real life. The conversation is layered with wisdom, laughter, and honesty as they share how comedy—both literally and figuratively—became a source of healing, strength, and connection in their marriage.   This episode is equal parts practical and playful, offering encouragement to couples, singles, and anyone navigating love in the middle of uncertainty.   CONNECT WITH OUR GUEST https://www.instagram.com/therealdother https://www.instagram.com/lovechanellenje   CONNECT WITH OUR HOSTS https://www.instagram.com/laterrasrwhitfield https://www.instagram.com/ashleyrwhitfield   ORDER LATERRAS R. WHITFIELD'S NEW BOOK "STUDENT OF LOVE" https://www.StudentofLove   WANNA SEE BEHIND-THE-SCENES FOOTAGE? JOIN MY PATREON https://www.Patreon.com/laterrasrwhitfield   SIGN UP FOR THE MAILING LIST https://bit.ly/LRWconnection   PURCHASE "YOU (Dear Future Wifey)" Theme Song http://itunes.apple.com/album/id/1729993404   👑 SUPPORT OUR CAUSE Donate to Kingdom Royale: Empowering foster kids to become royalty: https://www.KingdomRoyale.com   👕 MERCH https://www.DearFutureWifey.com   FOLLOW DEAR FUTURE WIFEY 📸 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/dearfuturewifeypodcast 📘 Facebook: https://www.Facebook.com/DearFutureWifey 🐦 Twitter: https://twitter.com/dfwifeypodcastSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

In this unforgettable episode of Dear Future Wifey, Laterras R. Whitfield sits down with Bishop Joseph Walker III and Dr. Stephaine Walker for a conversation that redefines timing, trust, and obedience in love. The Walkers share the remarkable story of how they met during a pivotal season of life—when Dr. Stephaine was working at Harvard and Bishop Walker was three years removed from the loss of his first wife after 11 years of marriage. What followed was a relationship marked by uncommon clarity and conviction, leading them to marriage just three months later. Together, they unpack how discernment, prayer, and emotional readiness shaped their decision, and why pace doesn’t always equal recklessness when purpose is clear. The couple also discuss the unexpected benefits of long-distance dating, including how space strengthened communication, trust, and intentionality. Dr. Stephaine opens up about becoming an unconventional First Lady—sharing how she navigated public expectations without losing her identity, calling, or voice. Her transparency offers wisdom for women who desire partnership without self-erasure. This episode explores: Love after loss and trusting God again Discernment versus delay Long-distance relationship dynamics Marriage that honors individuality and purpose Leading together without losing yourself   🎧 This is a powerful conversation for singles, widows, leaders, and anyone believing God for a love story that doesn’t fit the mold—but fits His plan.   CONNECT WITH OUR GUEST https://www.instagram.com/josephwalker3 https://www.instagram.com/drstephwalker   CONNECT WITH OUR HOSTS https://www.instagram.com/laterrasrwhitfield https://www.instagram.com/ashleyrwhitfield   ORDER LATERRAS R. WHITFIELD'S NEW BOOK "STUDENT OF LOVE" https://www.StudentofLove   WANNA SEE BEHIND-THE-SCENES FOOTAGE? JOIN MY PATREON https://www.Patreon.com/laterrasrwhitfield   SIGN UP FOR THE MAILING LIST https://bit.ly/LRWconnection   PURCHASE "YOU (Dear Future Wifey)" Theme Song http://itunes.apple.com/album/id/1729993404   👑 SUPPORT OUR CAUSE Donate to Kingdom Royale: Empowering foster kids to become royalty: https://www.KingdomRoyale.com   👕 MERCH https://www.DearFutureWifey.com   FOLLOW DEAR FUTURE WIFEY 📸 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/dearfuturewifeypodcast 📘 Facebook: https://www.Facebook.com/DearFutureWifey 🐦 Twitter: https://twitter.com/dfwifeypodcastSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

When life deals its toughest cards, who will stand beside you? Roy and Shanta Q Williams share their powerful journey through serious health challenges that tested their marriage vows in ways they never imagined. From heart attacks to strokes to cancer, this couple's story isn't just about survival—it's about the extraordinary power of commitment when "in sickness and in health" becomes your daily reality. Their candid conversation reveals how they navigated life's unexpected turns while maintaining their sense of humor and deep connection. What began as a chance meeting between two Denver natives blossomed into a 20-year marriage built on friendship, faith, and unwavering support. Through Shanta Q's multiple misdiagnoses and Roy's prostate cancer battle, they discovered what truly matters in a partnership. ## Key Timestamps: 12:30 - How they met and their unique Denver connection - 25:45 - Shanta Q's resistance to marriage despite their compatibility - 38:20 - The beginning of serious health challenges in 2012 - 45:15 - Shanta Q's heart attack and the fight for proper diagnosis - 1:02:30 - Roy's prostate cancer journey and treatment decisions - 1:08:45 - The value of marriage during life-threatening illness ## Key Takeaways: - Statistics show many husbands leave when wives face terminal illness, but Roy never considered it - True independence isn't about doing everything alone—it's having someone who supports you when you can't support yourself - Communication remains the foundation of their relationship through every challenge - Their health journeys transformed into purpose as Shanta Q now uses humor to advocate for health awareness - Marriage provides a unique partnership where vulnerability becomes strength Listen to this moving episode that will make you laugh, reflect, and perhaps reconsider what it truly means to love someone through life's most difficult moments. This is the kind of love story that reminds us what "till death do us part" really looks like in practice. 📸 CONNECT WITH OUR GUEST https://www.instagram.com/heyshantaq PRE-ORDER LATERRAS R. WHITFIELD'S "STUDENT OF LOVE" https://a.co/d/bx0E1iv WANNA SEE BEHIND-THE-SCENES FOOTAGE? JOIN MY PATREON  https://www.Patreon.com/laterrasrwhitfield SIGN UP FOR THE MAILING LIST https://bit.ly/LRWconnection PURCHASE "YOU (Dear Future Wifey)" Theme Song http://itunes.apple.com/album/id/1729993404 👑 SUPPORT OUR CAUSE Donate to Kingdom Royale: Empowering foster kids to become royalty: https://www.KingdomRoyale.com 👕 MERCH https://www.DearFutureWifey.com SUBSCRIBE & LEAVE A REVIEW Youtube Channel: https://www.youtube.com/@DearFutureWifey?sub_confirmation=1 🍏 Apple Podcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/dear-future-wifey/id1506095537 🎵 Google Play: https://play.google.com/music/m/Iae4cjudkuuxmjnjza7zputjfuu?t=Dear_Future_Wifey 🧵 Stitcher: https://www.stitcher.com/podcast/dear-future-wifey 🎧 Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/1r3Ba1GxkpwFkWVqmxZNPA FOLLOW US 📸 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/dearfuturewifeypodcast | https://www.instagram.com/laterrasrwhitfield 📘 Facebook: https://www.Facebook.com/DearFutureWifey 🐦 Twitter: https://twitter.com/dfwifeypodcast See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

In this must-hear episode of Dear Future Wifey, Laterras R. Whitfield sits down with Niya Gonzales, a 31-year-old influencer who recently went viral after making the bold decision to call off her very public engagement.   What sparked widespread conversation—and mixed reactions online—was Niya’s honesty: there was no infidelity, no abuse, no scandal. She simply changed her mind.   In this transparent and emotionally grounded conversation, Niya shares what led to that decision, the internal wrestle of listening to her intuition, and the pressure of making a life-altering choice under the scrutiny of social media. Together, Laterras and Niya unpack the difference between doing what looks right and doing what is right, especially when it comes to marriage.   This episode explores:   The courage it takes to choose clarity over comfort   Why “nothing went wrong” can still be a valid reason to walk away   The emotional toll of public opinion on private decisions   Discernment, self-trust, and honoring your inner voice   Redefining failure, faith, and freedom in relationships   Whether you agreed with her decision or questioned it, this conversation invites you to look deeper—beyond the headlines—and wrestle with what it truly means to choose yourself before saying “I do.”   🎧 This episode is honest, thought-provoking, and necessary.   CONNECT WITH OUR GUEST https://www.instagram.com/niyah.gonzalez   CONNECT WITH OUR HOSTS https://www.instagram.com/laterrasrwhitfield https://www.instagram.com/ashleyrwhitfield   ORDER LATERRAS R. WHITFIELD'S NEW BOOK "STUDENT OF LOVE" https://www.StudentofLove   WANNA SEE BEHIND-THE-SCENES FOOTAGE? JOIN MY PATREON https://www.Patreon.com/laterrasrwhitfield   SIGN UP FOR THE MAILING LIST https://bit.ly/LRWconnection   PURCHASE "YOU (Dear Future Wifey)" Theme Song http://itunes.apple.com/album/id/1729993404   👑 SUPPORT OUR CAUSE Donate to Kingdom Royale: Empowering foster kids to become royalty: https://www.KingdomRoyale.com   👕 MERCH https://www.DearFutureWifey.com   FOLLOW DEAR FUTURE WIFEY 📸 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/dearfuturewifeypodcast 📘 Facebook: https://www.Facebook.com/DearFutureWifey 🐦 Twitter: https://twitter.com/dfwifeypodcastSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

In this deeply vulnerable episode of Dear Future Wifey, Laterras Whitfield sits down with Cora Jakes for one of her most transparent conversations to date. Cora courageously opens up about her decision to speak publicly about her divorce and the abuse her daughter survived, sharing how her family is walking through healing, restoration, and faith in the aftermath. With grace and honesty, she discusses the cost of silence, the power of truth, and what healing looks like when the wounds are personal and public. The conversation also explores what it was like growing up as Bishop T.D. Jakes’ daughter, including the internal struggle of losing her own sense of identity as her father’s name became globally recognized. Cora reflects on carrying expectations, navigating visibility, and finding her voice beyond the weight of a famous last name. Additionally, she shares about her role as the family intercessor—the unseen spiritual labor, the emotional weight it carries, and how prayer became both her refuge and responsibility. This episode is raw, redemptive, and necessary—a powerful reminder that healing is not linear, faith doesn’t eliminate pain, and courage sometimes looks like telling the truth out loud. 📸 CONNECT WITH OUR GUEST https://www.instagram.com/officialcallmecora/ CONNECT WITH OUR HOSTShttps://www.instagram.com/laterrasrwhitfieldhttps://www.instagram.com/ashleyrwhitfield ORDER LATERRAS R. WHITFIELD'S "STUDENT OF LOVE" https://www.StudentofLove.com   WANNA SEE BEHIND-THE-SCENES FOOTAGE? JOIN MY PATREON https://www.Patreon.com/laterrasrwhitfield   SIGN UP FOR THE MAILING LIST https://bit.ly/LRWconnection   PURCHASE "YOU (Dear Future Wifey)" Theme Song http://itunes.apple.com/album/id/1729993404   👑 SUPPORT OUR CAUSE Donate to Kingdom Royale: Empowering foster kids to become royalty: https://www.KingdomRoyale.com   👕 MERCH https://www.DearFutureWifey.com   FOLLOW US 📸 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/dearfuturewifeypodcast | https://www.instagram.com/laterrasrwhitfield 📘 Facebook: https://www.Facebook.com/DearFutureWifey 🐦 Twitter: https://twitter.com/dfwifeypodcastSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

In this powerful and transparent episode of Dear Future Wifey, Laterras Whitfield and Ashley sit down with Kenneth & Tasha Cobbs Leonard for a conversation that feels less like a podcast and more like a full-blown marriage seminar. Kenneth and Tasha open up about how friendship became the foundation of their forever, while also diving into real-time cultural and kingdom conversations. Tasha passionately defends Dr. Karri Bryant, shares her heart behind conversations on modesty, and brings wisdom with both grace and clarity. The couple also discusses: 1. How they manage and build their businesses together 2. The “why” behind their healthy lifestyle transformation 3. The vision and heart behind their church, The Purpose Place 4. What it really takes to steward marriage, health, faith, and purpose at the same time By the end of the episode, Laterras and Ashley admit it felt like they’d just attended a marriage seminar — full of practical gems, spiritual insight, and real-life wisdom every couple (and future couple) needs. Whether you’re married, preparing for marriage, or simply believing God for healthy love, this episode will challenge and encourage you. 👉 LIKE, COMMENT, & SUBSCRIBE for more faith-filled relationship conversations. 🎧 Available on all podcast platforms. CONNECT WITH OUR GUEST https://www.instagram.com/kennethleonardjr https://www.instagram.com/tashacobbsleonard   PRE-ORDER LATERRAS R. WHITFIELD'S "STUDENT OF LOVE" https:/www.StudentofLove.com WANNA SEE BEHIND-THE-SCENES FOOTAGE? JOIN MY PATREON https://www.Patreon.com/laterrasrwhitfield SIGN UP FOR THE MAILING LIST https://bit.ly/LRWconnection PURCHASE "YOU (Dear Future Wifey)" Theme Song http://itunes.apple.com/album/id/1729993404 👑 SUPPORT OUR CAUSE Donate to Kingdom Royale: Empowering foster kids to become royalty: https://www.KingdomRoyale.com 👕 MERCH https://www.DearFutureWifey.com   FOLLOW US 📸 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/dearfuturewifeypodcast | https://www.instagram.com/laterrasrwhitfield 📘 Facebook: https://www.Facebook.com/DearFutureWifey 🐦 Twitter: https://twitter.com/dfwifeypodcastSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.