Dear Black Gay Men Podcast

This video is your secret guidebook to understanding what kind of versatile you are, what kind of versatile he is, and how y’all can make magic together. #datingadvice #sexcoach Dating "John": https://youtu.be/KKTZk5GmJvQ📲 Subscribe to Dear Black Gay Men PodcastYT: https://www.instagram.com/DearBlackGayMenApple: https://tinyurl.com/5ymdtdx4Spotify: https://tinyurl.com/2p9pye7s🎶 Theme music by The Passion HIFIOur purpose is to be the voice of our culture: talking to Black gay men, about Black gay men and for Black gay men in ways that thinks us forward.➡️ Connect with Jai The GentlemanIG: https://www.instagram.com/JaiTheGentlemanShop: http://www.fullyvers.com/shophttp://www.fullyvers.com This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit dearblackgaymen.substack.com/subscribe

I’ve pursued deeply unavailable men for the my whole life as an out, Black gay man. Giving too much, compensating for their disinterest and releasing all my agency. These are some critical life lessons I picked up along my journey to happiness. Thanks @Case Kenny #relationshipadvice #podcast #blackgaymenCase Kenny’s book: https://amzn.to/3L8A5CACase Kenny’s YouTube video: https://youtu.be/pH5sOHnhcLk📲 Subscribe to Dear Black Gay Men PodcastYT: https://www.instagram.com/DearBlackGayMenApple: https://tinyurl.com/5ymdtdx4Spotify: https://tinyurl.com/2p9pye7s🎶 Theme music by The Passion HIFIOur purpose is to be the voice of our culture: talking to Black gay men, about Black gay men and for Black gay men in ways that thinks us forward.➡️ Connect with Jai The GentlemanIG: https://www.instagram.com/JaiTheGentlemanShop: http://www.fullyvers.com/shophttp://www.fullyvers.com This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit dearblackgaymen.substack.com/subscribe

Can we ever stop overthinking? Is that ever a good thing? Is there a such thing as Virgo seduction? This week, we ring in a new astrological season as I discuss what to your virgo won’t stop virgo-ing. Links:https://www.instagram.com/DearBlackGayMenhttps://www.instagram.com/JaiTheGentlemanShop: http://www.fullyvers.com/shophttp://www.fullyvers.com Theme music by The Passion HIFI This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit dearblackgaymen.substack.com/subscribe

If you’ve ever had boring online conversations with potentials, it’s probably because of one of these reasonsLinks:https://www.instagram.com/DearBlackGayMenhttps://www.instagram.com/JaiTheGentlemanShop: http://www.fullyvers.com/shophttp://www.fullyvers.com Theme music by The Passion HIFI This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit dearblackgaymen.substack.com/subscribe

In this episode, I talk about how I protect my emotions when I'm engaging, and why it's holding some of us back from true connection.Purchase Ethical Slut on Amazon:https://read.amazon.com/kp/embed?asin=B01N0SA1YW&preview=newtab&linkCode=kpe&ref_=cm_sw_r_kb_dp_CBKKSD0KX4HG25MZP686&tag=iamfullyvers-20Links:https://www.instagram.com/DearBlackGayMenhttps://www.instagram.com/JaiTheGentlemanShop: http://www.fullyvers.com/shophttp://www.fullyvers.com Theme music by The Passion HIFI This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit dearblackgaymen.substack.com/subscribe

In this episode, I talk about the epidemic of asking for things we're really not ready for and how I overcame my lack of emotional and sexual preparedness.But then I also talk about why bottoms are the cornerstone of our culture.Links:https://www.instagram.com/DearBlackGayMenhttps://www.instagram.com/JaiTheGentlemanShop: http://www.fullyvers.com/shophttp://www.fullyvers.com Theme music by The Passion HIFI This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit dearblackgaymen.substack.com/subscribe

In this episode, I talk about why getting out of other folks' business is so much more than just gossiping and it actually will unlock your (and others') blessings.ha-ya-bo-ho-ko-shah...Linkshttps://www.instagram.com/DearBlackGayMenhttps://www.instagram.com/JaiTheGentlemanShop: http://www.fullyvers.com/shophttp://www.fullyvers.com Theme music by The Passion HIFI This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit dearblackgaymen.substack.com/subscribe

Encanto had me in the full ugly cry because I realized I'm Bruno with a Mirabel twist. Shop: http://www.fullyvers.com/shophttp://www.fullyvers.com Theme music by The Passion HIFI This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit dearblackgaymen.substack.com/subscribe

I'm taking a break from my "Joe Chronicles" to talk about my last time going to the s*x house...and what I learned from it. Shop: http://www.fullyvers.com/shophttp://www.fullyvers.comTheme music by The Passion HIFI This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit dearblackgaymen.substack.com/subscribe

My best friend Maquan (@TruthfullyLoyal on IG) gave me maybe the best relationship advice I've ever gotten as the dating saga with Joe continues. Shop: http://www.fullyvers.com/shophttp://www.fullyvers.comTheme music by The Passion HIFI This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit dearblackgaymen.substack.com/subscribe

Jerrod Carmichael bravely talks about what it means to live with a lie and the hard journey someone close to him had to take to overcome it. Oh...and he came out as gay.Shop: http://www.fullyvers.com/shophttp://www.fullyvers.com Theme music by The Passion HIFI This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit dearblackgaymen.substack.com/subscribe

I was on a cabin trip...but not one of "those kind" of gay cabin trips and somebody asked me the best question about relationships. I didn't have an answer then, but I got one now.Shop: http://www.fullyvers.com/shophttp://www.fullyvers.comTheme music by The Passion HIFI This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit dearblackgaymen.substack.com/subscribe

I hated on Durand Bernarr so bad. Yes, I'm a hating @ssed n*gga. But I'm overcoming and evolving. You know what I call that? GrowthShop: http://www.fullyvers.com/shophttp://www.fullyvers.com Theme music by The Passion HIFI This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit dearblackgaymen.substack.com/subscribe

I'm watching this White gay couple live off the grid, and I'm thinking, "Do we do stuff like that?" "Do we even want to?" I'm ready to argue, cuz I can feel it coming.http://www.fullyvers.com Theme music by The Passion HIFI This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit dearblackgaymen.substack.com/subscribe

When Jhené Aiko said that, I felt that s**t. This episode is me realizing I aint' where I want to be, but I'm definitely not where I used to be.Shop: http://www.fullyvers.com/shophttp://www.fullyvers.comTheme music by The Passion HIFI This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit dearblackgaymen.substack.com/subscribe

We've traveled down the road and back again. Joe wants to be my friend.Shop: http://www.fullyvers.com/shophttp://www.fullyvers.com Theme music by The Passion HIFI This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit dearblackgaymen.substack.com/subscribe

"I was expressing a relationship" was probably the biggest epiphany I had. "When he walks away from me, I want that n*gga to feel that sh*t."Shop: http://www.fullyvers.com/shophttp://www.fullyvers.comTheme music by The Passion HIFI This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit dearblackgaymen.substack.com/subscribe

It's me. I'm n*ggas. I'm excited to be back to the podcast. Being on this side of this question makes sure I never have to give any answers.Shop: http://www.fullyvers.com/shophttp://www.fullyvers.comTheme music by The Passion HIFI This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit dearblackgaymen.substack.com/subscribe

I talked to Lamont White of Better Way to Meet for my YouTube channel and he told me it's okay to be single. So blame him when I say, "F*ck y'all's Valentines". #SorryNotSorry This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit dearblackgaymen.substack.com/subscribe

I thought I was going to brunch, but I learned what my type is, how I want that nigga to treat me, and why my sister is not the be f*cked with. I need another mimosa...Shop: http://www.fullyvers.com/shopFollow me: http://www.instagram.com/DearBlackGayMenTheme music by The Passion HIFI This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit dearblackgaymen.substack.com/subscribe

You ever wanted to holler at somebody, but his resting b***h face put you off? That was me until I got this big lessonhttp://www.fullyvers.comTheme music by The Passion HIFI This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit dearblackgaymen.substack.com/subscribe

In this episode, I talk about the time someone slid in my DMs but didn't want nothing. This dating life is frustrating. http://www.fullyvers.comTheme music by The Passion HIFI This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit dearblackgaymen.substack.com/subscribe

In this episode, I talk about Joe. Joe wanted to "check the vibe" with me. I guess the vibe I was giving isn't what he intended. His bad... http://www.fullyvers.comTheme music by The Passion HIFI This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit dearblackgaymen.substack.com/subscribe

In this episode, I talk about how a 5-minute conversation with my cousin totally changed my approach to dating.Special thanks to our sponsor iElevate Plus TV. Visit ielevateplustv.com for more information.http://www.fullyvers.comTheme music by The Passion HIFI This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit dearblackgaymen.substack.com/subscribe

In this episode, I talk about a couple simple words can change another Black gay man's day. http://www.fullyvers.comTheme music by The Passion HIFI This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit dearblackgaymen.substack.com/subscribe

In this episode, I want to unpack a new definition of cheating, specialized for Black gay foolishness.http://www.fullyvers.comTheme music by The Passion HIFI This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit dearblackgaymen.substack.com/subscribe

In this episode, I talk about my grandmama's whooping with a switch can help us all through our dating lives. http://www.fullyvers.comTheme music by The Passion HIFI This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit dearblackgaymen.substack.com/subscribe

In this episode, I talk about how dating Geminis who I thought were f*cked, only revealed my own f*cked-upness. http://www.fullyvers.comTheme music by The Passion HIFI This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit dearblackgaymen.substack.com/subscribe

In this episode, I talk about how a trip to the hospital drastically changed how I see friendships, family, and relationships.http://www.fullyvers.com Theme music by The Passion HIFI This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit dearblackgaymen.substack.com/subscribe

In this episode, I talk about why I've been insecure, and how, this birthday, I'm deciding to overcome it.http://www.fullyvers.com Theme music by The Passion HIFI This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit dearblackgaymen.substack.com/subscribe

In this episode, I talk about how it's okay--actually, important--to get excited about the guy who slid in your DMs, even if it doesn't pan out the way you'd hoped. This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit dearblackgaymen.substack.com/subscribe