Daddy Issues with Violet Benson

Manifesting the love you deserve starts with knowing your worth and setting clear intentions. Take the time to reflect on what you truly want in a relationship and focus on the positive aspects you want to attract. Today, Violetta shares how she manifested the ideal guy she wanted to date through the love letter method. This method of manifesting what you want, although silly-sounding at first, is worth a shot. Who knows, the partner you’ve been looking for might be that guy you met at yesterday’s dinner party.WANT MORE EPISODES? SUBSCRIBE TO MY PREMIUM PODCAST HERE - https://almostadulting.supercast.com/What to Listen For:00:00 Introduction01:02 Manifesting - The Love Letter Method04:49 How can you look for a partner when you hate men?10:07 “The love letter I wrote a few months back…”14:21 You deserve love18:43 Setting an intention and getting obsessed over someone Get more content on:@almostadulting on Instagram@violetbenson on Instagram@daddyissues_ on InstagramYouTubeSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

This month, we jumped into Reddit and picked out the most WTF confessions.  While the act of cheating can take many different forms, the underlying motivations and consequences of cheating remain consistent across all situations. One of the primary reasons why people cheat is a lack of satisfaction or fulfillment in their current situation.Violetta is back and ready as she sits down to listen to some of the most unbelievable and somehow outrageous relationship confessions on the internet. From men complaining about their wife’s weight just right after she had given birth to cheating men who seem to have never learned their lessons, these confessions will leave you sighing in disbelief! If you want to be featured on the next Confession Corner call Violet at 424-278-4268 and leave an anonymous voicemail!Advertise with Almost Adulting at Gumball.fm TALKSPACE: To match with a licensed therapist today, go to www.talkspace.com/adulting What to Listen For:00:00 Introduction02:04 Confession #1: She loves me05:02 Confession #2: Her body is not the same as before10:41 Confession #3: She gained a lot of weight18:56 Confession #4: She ruined the movie experienceGet more content on:https://www.instagram.com/almostadulting/https://www.instagram.com/violetbenson/https://www.instagram.com/daddyissues_/https://www.youtube.com/c/daddyissues See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Have you ever wondered what it's like to struggle with infertility? Infertility affects millions of people around the world and can be caused by a variety of factors, including age, genetics, medical conditions, and lifestyle choices. Coping with infertility can be a lonely and isolating experience, but it's important for those struggling to know that they're not alone.    Today on Almost Adulting, Violetta welcomes Dr. Shahin Ghadir. As a founding partner of Southern California Reproductive Center, Dr. Ghadiris board-certified in both Obstetrics and Gynecology and Reproductive Endocrinology and Infertility. He is currently an assistant clinical professor in the department of Obstetrics and Gynecology at the David Geffen School of Medicine at UCLA and at the Keck School of Medicine at USC.Dr. Ghadir debunks the most common myths about egg freezing, the truth about infertility in women and men and the causes behind it, and what it takes for an IVF pregnancy to succeed. Advertise with Almost Adulting at Gumball.fm What to Listen For:00:00 Intro01:45 Fertility affects both men and women02:28 The most common infertility causes04:09 Biggest myths in the use of birth control05:15 Infertility in men07:20 Fertility is different for every woman08:18 Choosing to delay having children10:49 Myth #1: It’s only for women who wants to delay motherhood17:47 Myth #2: You need to freeze a lot of eggs19:23 Myth #3: Frozen eggs last forever20:25 The success rate of egg freezing27:26 The average cost of the entire process28:42 The biggest side effects31:14 Success stories33:47 Which couples are a good candidate for IVF?33:24 What is IVF?38:39 Who undergoes IVF?39:17 Is IVF unethical?40:19 Emotional impact of IVF on couples43:27 Helping women ovulateConnect with Dr. Ghadir on:https://drghadir.com/https://www.instagram.com/drshahinghadir/https://www.scrcivf.com/ https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-fertile-life-with-dr-shahin-ghadir/id1558042643 Get more content on:https://www.instagram.com/almostadulting/https://www.instagram.com/violetbenson/https://www.instagram.com/daddyissues_/ https://www.youtube.com/c/daddyissues See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

How can one navigate the difficult and emotional process of dealing with grief and family problems? Coping with grief, conflicts with family members, or other familial issues can be emotionally draining and can take a toll on an individual's mental health. Today, Violetta sits down to share a very personal situation that she and her family are currently going through. No light-hearted moments, no well-thought advice. Just raw and vulnerable moments with her during this difficult and challenging time. Advertise with Almost Adulting at Gumball.fm  What to Listen For:00:00 Intro01:35 Something’s wrong with my mom…09:12 Don’t hold back from sharing when you’re struggling11:27 We were all doing our best not to cry…16:40 We all have bad days and you’re not alone20:10 The hardest thing we do when we’re grieving21:49 You’ll never know when is your last time with someoneGet more content on:@almostadulting on Instagram@violetbenson on Instagram@daddyissues_ on InstagramYouTubeSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Have you ever wondered if height really matters? According to one wise mom, what men lack in height, they make up for in other ways. But is it enough to make a difference?   Today on Almost Adulting, we welcome internet personality, comedian, and podcast host Trevor Wallace! Violetta and Trevor start their conversation with a random but hilariously funny game, the rapid fire questions. Then, the duo talk about situational dating scenarios where they pitch in their thoughts and opinions with a little bit of p*rn talk on the side, sexual preferences, and the do’s and don’ts of casual and long-term dating.Advertise with Almost Adulting at Gumball.fm CARE.COM - Visit www.care.com/petsTUSHY - Checkout www.hellotushy.com/ADULTING and use promo code: ADULTINGZOCDOC - Find your local doctor by visiting www.zocdoc.com/ What to Listen For:00:00 Intro02:50 I’m like a Kardashan but I wasn’t in the front line04:36 What do people don’t know most about you?06:30 Let’s do Rapid Fire Questions14:05 Why can’t we tickle ourselves?15:51 Where is the cl*toris?18:37 What should girls do when you’re licking her down there?19:40 Do you get things faster with *9?21:18 You're on a deserted island, what will you bring?23:24 When you go back in time…23:59 Is it safer to drink your urine or saliva?25:35 What comes first: cereal or milk?28:14 She’s a 10 but…52:26 Suspicion - the biggest turn offs for guys53:05 Is physical attraction everything?54:38 What’s your biggest icks?56:25 What is the most obvious sign that he likes you? 01:01:46 Biggest red flags to look out for01:06:57 Porn is like a fantasy land 01:09:43 What keeps you up at night?01:10:37 Have you learned anything now that you’re thirty?Connect with Trevor on:https://www.youtube.com/c/TrevorWallacehttps://www.instagram.com/trevorwallace/https://www.facebook.com/TrevorWallaceComedy/https://www.tiktok.com/@trevorwallacehttps://trevorwallacecomedy.com/ https://www.youtube.com/@StiffSocks Get more content on:https://www.instagram.com/almostadulting/https://www.instagram.com/violetbenson/https://www.instagram.com/daddyissues_/ https://www.youtube.com/c/daddyissues See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

WELCOME TO CONFESSION CORNER!Have you ever had a sexual experience that left you in stitches? Well, you're not alone! We're all about sharing the most hilarious and unforgettable tales of sexual misadventures.    Today, Violetta is joined by her friend Steeven Zuleta for another round of funny sex stories. From a breakup s*x that turned out to be a weird kink your partner never told you about to accidentally farting on your partner’s face while he’s eating you up! We got all sorts of fan stories you won’t get enough of. So tune in and laugh with us!If you want to be featured on the next Confession Corner episode, call Violetta at 424-278-4268 and leave an anonymous voicemail!Advertise with Almost Adulting at Gumball.fm CARE.COM - Visit www.care.com/petsTUSHY - Checkout www.hellotushy.com/ADULTING and use promo code: ADULTINGZOCDOC - Find your local doctor by visiting www.zocdoc.com/What to Listen For:00:00 Introduction04:40 Story #1: We decided to have breakup s*x25:04 Story #2: He was eating me and I farted!30:56 Story #3: I didn’t wipe all the way and we we’re having a doggyConnect with Steven on:https://www.instagram.com/steevenz/https://www.tiktok.com/@steevenzzz Get more content on:https://www.instagram.com/almostadulting/https://www.instagram.com/violetbenson/https://www.instagram.com/daddyissues_/https://www.youtube.com/c/daddyissuesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Whether you're an introvert who needs alone time or a social butterfly who thrives on interactions, there's no one-size-fits-all approach to dating.   Today on Almost Adulting,we welcome back internet personality, comedienne, and podcast host Hannah Berner! Violetta and Hannah explain why guys with addiction problems are the best partners because they love deeply and intensely but can be unhealthy and unsustainable in the long run and how emotional stress and pain will eventually affect your body and your overall well-being. The duo encourages listeners to figure out their own ways of dating and relationships that work for them.   Advertise with Almost Adulting at Gumball.fm TALKSPACE: www.talkspace.com/ADULTINGWhat to Listen For:00:00 Intro01:55 Would you give Dan Bazarian a bj?04:01 Calm dudes have big d*ck energy05:58 What happened to your arm?10:19 When you’re a good people pleaser16:32 No one cares for your internal struggles19:00 Emotional pain leads to physical pain21:50 What else people don’t know about you?22:35 Happiness is also a passing emotion25:14 Surprising things when you date a sober guy27:06 What’s married life like?31:00 When you don’t realize you’ve been ghosted34:40 The dumbest thing you can laugh at now41:01 Tips to dating 43:24 Guys who love licking you down there    Connect with Hannah on:https://hannahberner.com/https://www.tiktok.com/@hannah_bernerhttps://www.instagram.com/hannahberner/Berning in Hell PodcastGiggly Squad PodcastGet more content on:https://www.instagram.com/almostadulting/https://www.instagram.com/violetbenson/https://www.instagram.com/daddyissues_/ https://www.youtube.com/c/daddyissues See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Hey Besties! Welcome back to another Benson Knows Best Q&A session. What would you do if you were ghosted by the person you thought was into you?Today, Violetta discusses how clinging to one another is an important part of intimacy, but only if it's a two-way street, the importance of self-awareness in relationships and how our reactions can impact their outcome, and why you need to raise your standards and not settle for being valued solely for your looks.If you want to be featured on the next Benson Knows Best episode and call in to have a live conversation with Violetta, send a DM now!Advertise with Almost Adulting at Gumball.fm What to Listen For:00:00 Intro02:03 Exciting updates!03:36 This is what happened in my recent trip14:34 Is it wrong to be clingy?18:39 We don’t have a label22:41 He ghosted you and then he comes backGet more content on:@almostadulting on Instagram@violetbenson on Instagram@daddyissues_ on InstagramYouTubeSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Why is talking about sex in the early stages of dating such a challenge? Could it be the fear of rejection or judgment? Or maybe it's those pesky societal norms telling us to keep things hush-hush.  Today on Almost Adulting, sex and relationships therapist Todd Baratz is back! Violetta and Todd explores the ways to break down societal norms and overcome the shame associated with sex, practical tips for having open and comfortable conversations about sex with potential partners, how pornography and media influences our views about sex, and offers insights on navigating this sensitive topic with your partner. If you're ready to take your sexual relationships to the next level, don't miss out on the latest insights and expert advice!Advertise with Almost Adulting at Gumball.fm BABBEL - Visit www.babbel.com/ Promo Code: ADULTINGPROVINCETOWN - Check out www.ptowntourism.com SHOPIFY - Visit www.shopify.com/adulting CARE.COM - Check out www.care.com/pets What to Listen For:00:00 Intro01:55 I went to this event last night…04:18 Do not be too bothered by the society’s standards06:05 How do you get past s*xual shame?07:35 Why is it difficult to have initial conversations about s*x?13:04 Should you disclose your s*xual history to your current partner?15:44 Have conversations about your expectations right at the beginning23:25 Sexual chemistry versus attraction26:07 How do you bring back attraction?33:57 How movies and p*rn have influenced our views about s*x37:16 Fact: Not everyone can org*sm42:24 Do you expect your partner to not watch p*rn?46:45 When is watching p*rn considered detrimental?52:32 When should you discuss kinks?54:17 How soon should you open up about having a child?57:57 How necessary is your kink for you?01:00:16 Expressing discomfort about kinks isn’t offensive01:02:56 Skills is a skill you constantly practice01:07:04 The relationship you have with yourself in s*xual relationshipsConnect with Todd on:https://www.instagram.com/yourdiagnonsense/https://www.facebook.com/yourdiagnonsense/https://www.tiktok.com/@yourdiagnonsensehttps://www.toddsbaratz.com/Your Diagnonsense PodcastGet more content on:https://www.instagram.com/almostadulting/https://www.instagram.com/violetbenson/https://www.instagram.com/daddyissues_/ https://www.youtube.com/c/daddyissuesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

WELCOME TO CONFESSION CORNER!This week, we are going to feature bad, worse, and funny s*x stories. And since we couldn’t get enough of the revelations and teas spilled last Thursday, Francesca Farago is joining us again today!  Join Violet and Francesca as they react to fan stories about getting infection over a forgotten tampon, from getting embarrassed over v*ginal farts to getting horrified over your partner accidentally sh*tting on the bed, and finding out that pushy guy you dated was actually a gay p*rn star. Listen in to find out how these stories played out!If you want to be featured on the next Confession Corner call Violet at 424-278-4268 and leave an anonymous voicemail!Advertise with Almost Adulting at Gumball.fm BABBEL - Visit www.babbel.com/ Promo Code: ADULTINGPROVINCETOWN - Check out www.ptowntourism.comSHOPIFY - Visit www.shopify.com/adultingCARE.COM - Check out www.care.com/petsWhat to Listen For:00:00 Introduction01:08 Story #1: Queefing and sh*tting on the bed10:34 Story #2: It’s the size of a pinky18:56 Story #3: Turns out he was a gay p*rn star23:48 Story #4: I thought I lost my nuva ring27:26 Story #5: The forgotten tampon39:09 He booked another girl in the next roomGet more content on:@almostadulting on Instagram@violetbenson on Instagram@daddyissues_ on InstagramYouTubeSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Welcome to another episode of Benson Knows Best!This week, due to public demand, we’re going to be sharing a few top Hollywood secrets you’d never find out through the media. The keyword being top secret, no name dropping anything. Just facts that are common in the industry but not open to the public.Today, Violetta sits down to answer questions you guys sent in. She’ll start with 8 Hollywood secrets that are so shocking you’ll start to wonder how they were able to keep them hidden from the radar of the public eye. She answers a few more questions about keeping your emotions in check and more tips on how to harmlessly flirt with a guy and get him getting interested in you. Interested to know more Hollywood secrets? Tune in and be the first to know! Advertise with Almost Adulting at Gumball.fm What to Listen For:00:00 Introduction05:17 Question #1: 8 best kept secrets in Hollywood21:58 Unknown facts about me 29:31 Question #2: How do I not become a bitter person?36:47 Question #3: How can you make a guy chase you? Get more content on:@almostadulting on Instagram@violetbenson on Instagram@daddyissues_ on InstagramYouTubeSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Hey Besties! Love month is almost over. And as we come close to the end of February, let’s wrap it up with self love!Today on Almost Adulting, we welcome body confidence advocate, speaker, writer, and host of The Papaya Podcast, Sarah Landry. Violetta and Sarah focus on self-love as an essential aspect of our emotional, mental, and physical well-being. They share their thoughts on how we can develop a positive self-image, improve our relationships with others, and reduce stress and anxiety by cultivating self-love. Rebuilding self-confidence can be challenging but taking small steps such as practicing self-compassion, setting realistic goals, and celebrating small accomplishments can help us regain a sense of empowerment and self-assurance. Listen in because it’s never too late to start loving yourself more!Advertise with Almost Adulting at Gumball.fm LUME: Visit www.lumedeodorant.com and get 5% off of a Lume Starter Pack using the code: ADULTINGTUSHY: Visit www.helotushy.com/ADULTING and get a 10% off of your orderZOCDOC: Check out www.zocdoc.com/adultingWhat to Listen For:00:00 Introduction01:07 What was your original last name?03:37 Self love before anything else06:57 Physical manifestation of anxiety11:15 We have to listen to others as well13:46 Losing 100lbs19:09 A woman’s body changes throughout her life27:31 Body insecurities31:51 Love is an action34:03 Your body is majestic39:40 S*xless pregnancy44:54 There wasn’t a lot of thinking about ‘me’46:07 You can’t build the same house again49:20 Your partner as your best friend56:04 It’s okay to ask for help01:00:02 Divorce is always on the table01:02:17 The biggest lessons learned01:05:19 Childhood dream01:11:00 Learn to love yourself while loving someone elseConnect with Sarah on:The Birds PapayaThe Papaya PodcastInstagramGet more content on:@almostadulting on Instagram@violetbenson on Instagram@daddyissues_ on InstagramYouTubeSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

WELCOME TO CONFESSION CORNER - PART 3Hey Besties! this month's confession corner is all about your WORST first dates! We couldn’t get enough of last week’s drunken first date stories about hilarious, shocking, or just the worst ever you’re starting to have second thoughts about dating. Today, Violetta and her childhood friend Bree are back with another batch of horrible date stories. One includes giving the guy multiple chances despite the barrage of red flags in the hopes that it will somehow ‘get better’ in the end. The other ended up getting ditched for another girl in the bar. Listen up as the girls pitch in their own stories of worst first dates and some pieces of advice on how not to end up with a bad date!Advertise with Almost Adulting at Gumball.fm LUME: Visit www.lumedeodorant.com and get 5% off of a Lume Starter Pack using the code: ADULTINGTUSHY: Visit www.helotushy.com/ADULTING and get a 10% off of your orderZOCDOC: Check out www.zocdoc.com/adulting What to Listen For:00:00 Intro01:24 Hoping for a better date until the end06:37 One time I had a bad date…11:28 We dated for 48 hours14:56 He was a virgin24:54 What it means when they say, “You’re so high maintenance?”29:33 Sexual dancing with another girl33:57 Do FaceTime before you date44:54 Average boyfriend penis is for marriage50:54 Stay away from s*x workers onlineGet more content on:@almostadulting on Instagram@violetbenson on Instagram@daddyissues_ on InstagramYouTubeSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Hey Besties! Happy Heart’s Day! It’s Valentine’s week so it’s only natural that we talk about being in love and experiencing these strong feelings with the right partner.  Today on Almost Adulting, we welcome back celebrity heartthrob, best-selling author, esteemed host of The Viall Files podcast, and adored member of Bachelor Nation, Nick Viall. A year ago or so, Violet and Nick talked about dating advice from a man's perspective. This time, their conversation revolves around growing in love instead of staying in love, the value of being consistent throughout the relationship which people don’t talk about a lot, how trust and open communication, despite sounding cliché, is the ultimate key to a lasting love! All these and of course making each other a priority works too! So listen in to find out more simple yet realistic love advice!Advertise with Almost Adulting at Gumball.fm HONEYLOVE: Visit www.honeylove.com and use code: ADULTINGWhat to Listen For:00:00 Introduction02:09 The love story05:43 Try to make it work07:41 Those times we felt the most09:20 What did she DM?11:35 Feeling unsure 14:37 Building emotional connection19:11 Feelings change22:30 Making each other a priority26:17 Growing in love28:23 Trust and communication35:24 Do you want a life partner?38:11 Situationship 40:19 Meet and greet with family & friends42:15 Grocery store rule44:31 The biggest red flag47:44 I like you, BUT…52:25 Choose your partner everyday56:17 Being cheated on01:00:55 Be an old school lover  Connect with Nick on:InstagramYouTubeTikTokThe Viall FilesDon't Text Your Ex Happy BirthdayGet more content on:@almostadulting on Instagram@violetbenson on Instagram@daddyissues_ on InstagramYouTubeSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

WELCOME TO CONFESSION CORNER - PART 2Hey Besties! this month's confession corner is all about your WORST first dates where you call in with YOUR hilarious stories - Today, Violetta and her childhood friend Bree sit down to listen to some of your horrible date stories. Specifically the ones that include a drunk and/or drugged story that ended up in a failed date and for some, an actual relationship. Listen as these two besties from high school give their best drunk perspectives while also catching up on their new techniques of ways that they masturbate.Advertise with Almost Adulting at Gumball.fm What to Listen For:0:00 Intro2:05 Bree got a Lexus in high school7:20 Bree loves sex11:20 Take a shot of 194211:49 Caller #117:22 Caller #220:08 Samantha from Sex and the City23:52 First time I ever masturbated25:23 Caller #326:40 Trip to Mexico30:10 Caller #438:00 How to Virgos show love42:00 EndingGet more content on:@almostadulting on Instagram@violetbenson on Instagram@daddyissues_ on InstagramYouTubeSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Hey Besties! In the second week of the LOVE month, we will focus on dating - when to know when you’ve found the right man for you.Today on Almost Adulting, Violet is once again joined by Millionaire Matchmaker Patti Stanger. There is no stopping the two from going deep into the dating game. They discuss how success can affect the relationship depending on who’s more successful, turning casual dates into serious relationships (that can potentially lead to engagement, and eventually marriage), how a man’s attitude is dependent on whether he’s found the ‘right’ girl for him, the ups and downs that comes with dating, and so much more! Advertise with Almost Adulting at Gumball.fm BABBEL: Go to www.babbel.com/ADULTINGPROVINCETOWN: Visit www.ptwontourism.com SHOPIFY: Visit www.shopify.com/ADULTING TALKSPACE: Go to www.talkspace.com code: ADULTINGWhat to Listen For:00:00 Introduction04:03 Securing the ring08:44 You own a home and you’re successful13:57 Cheating15:30 Casual to serious dating24:27 Don’t live together if you’re not engaged28:40 When he decides to marry you31:44 The switch34:54 Attachment style and love language40:29 The man is consistent, the boy is not45:36 They will be romantic for the right girl49:40 Men bond through emotions and consistency55:16 Not everyday is perfect59:01 Sex magic01:06:02 When you can’t see a future with someone01:08:50 A pair and a spare01:15:19 The motherly partner01:19:06 When you know you’re the deal01:21:07 A restart or a negotiation?01:25:59 Tips to better dating life Connect with Patti on:InstagramTwitterBooksMillionaire's ClubMatchmaker FragranceGet more content on:@almostadulting on Instagram@violetbenson on Instagram@daddyissues_ on InstagramYouTubeSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

WELCOME TO CONFESSION CORNER!This week we’re diving into our worst first dates ever because well…everyone has one.Join Violet as she listens and reacts to all of your most cringeworthy, hilarious, and unbelievable tales of dating disasters. From spending the night in the hospital to getting pegged with a pool ball, we've got it all. So grab a glass of wine, sit back, and be glad it wasn’t you who had to endure any of these disasters. If you want to be featured on the next Confession Corner call Violet at 424-278-4268 and leave an anonymous voicemail!Advertise with Almost Adulting at Gumball.fm What to Listen For:00:00 Introduction01:29 He shattered glass and injured himself opening a window06:43 I got a DUI14:41 No offense to you, women are disgusting21:01 He asked me to pay for dinner25:10 Because I said no to sex, he messed up my birthday31:12 The secret to his curly hairGet more content on:@almostadulting on Instagram@violetbenson on Instagram@daddyissues_ on InstagramYouTubeSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Hey Besties! Welcome to the month of LOVE! This month we will be diving into everything relationships so you know what that means…the good, the bad, and the unavoidable uglyTo kick off love month on Almost Adulting Violet is joined by human connection specialist and friend of the show, Mark Groves! Mark is the founder of Create The Love movement and is a self-described ‘emotional translator’. Together the two focus on the painful topic of why so many of us are not only consistently drawn to unavailable people, but spend so much time being caretakers and trying to ‘fix’ them. Violet and Mark then deep dive into the baggage many of us carry and explain how so many of us unknowingly exist in an emotionally dysregulated response state - which may explain an issue or two in your relationship. Besties, we’re kicking off love month strong with things you NEED to be aware of, but it’ll feel good in the end. Can’t have the good without weeding out the bad!Advertise with Almost Adulting at Gumball.fm What to Listen For:00:00 Introduction01:04 Why are people emotionally unavailable?04:03 Signs that tell you’re emotionally unavailable09:58 Different people bring our different attachment styles15:34 Dating is not black and white anymore20:02 You have to learn discernment22:53 Dating is a sorting process26:20 Taking the caretaker role30:04 Dysregulated response state 36:11 A regulated and secure person38:19 You need to express your thoughts42:00 You are the five people closest to you43:00 Should you stay or leave a relationship?46:02 Be the creator of your life 50:02 Venting out or seeking advice?Connect with Mark on:Instagram https://www.instagram.com/createthelove/Twitter https://twitter.com/createtheloveYouTube https://www.youtube.com/user/markgrov...Create the Love https://createthelove.com/Get more content on:@almostadulting on Instagram@violetbenson on Instagram@daddyissues_ on InstagramYouTubeSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Hey Besties! It’s the last Tuesday of the month, so you know what that means! To close this month Violet gives us a special Benson Knows Best episode, featuring a Q&A session where she reads messages from you all and gives the life changing advice that we all need.  This week Violet channels her inner MUA influencer and finally lets everyone in on her skincare and hair routine. Next, Violet dives into the many questions you all sent in and does NOT hold back. From relationship struggles, to what he REALLY means when he sends you mixed signals, and even a special challenge Violet reveals at the end of the episode that she will be doing with you. That’s what Besties are for right? Don’t forget to send in your questions so you can be featured on the next Benson Knows Best and get some much needed advice from your big sis, Violet!Advertise with Almost Adulting at Gumball.fm What to Listen For:00:00 Introduction01:37 What’s your skincare / makeup routine?05:21 The mix signal is confusing09:46 I had no idea he’s a divorcé12:49 She’s 30 and she doesn’t have a job20:01 Setting an intention or wanting something so bad 23:36 How do I date when I detest men?Get more content on:@almostadulting on Instagram@violetbenson on Instagram@daddyissues_ on InstagramYouTubeSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

WELCOME TO CONFESSION CORNER!This week is a continuation of CC: SUGAR BABIES, where Violet will be sitting and reacting to ALL of your risque (and risky) sugar baby endeavors. Sit back and relax because things are about to get a little crazy besties. Advertise with Almost Adulting at Gumball.fm Zocdoc: https://www.zocdoc.com/ADULTING What to Listen For:00:00 Introduction02:18 What if you are this guy’s karma?08:00 “Sir, I’m just trying to get paid!”09:13 “I knew his daughter!”15:07 Don’t recommend that your sugar daddy should go to therapy21:16 “He liked the way my ass moved.”23:23 “I’m not sleeping with them, period.”  Get more content on:@almostadulting on Instagram@violetbenson on Instagram@daddyissues_ on InstagramYouTubeSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Today, due to popular demand, Violet starts the episode with the worst to easiest zodiac sign to date followed by everything you need to know on how to attract an AIR SIGN MAN and get him hooked!!She dives into how to attract a PISCES, CANCER, & SCORPIO (in that order) men. Signs this man likes you, what he’s looks for in a lady, what he dislikes, and the most n least compatible matches with him.Make sure to subscribe to Almost Adulting so you never miss an episode again!! NEW EPISODES EVERY TUESDAY & THURSDAYAdvertise with Almost Adulting at Gumball.fm What to Listen For:00:00 Introduction01:34 What it’s like to date a Pisces/Cancer/Scorpio man04:09 Worst to easiest zodiac sign to date12:03 The Water Signs13:34 The Pisces Man - the most anxious zodiac24:41 The Cancer Man - the most emotional zodiac33:04 The Scorpio Man - the deepest and most secretive zodiacGet more content on:@almostadulting on Instagram@violetbenson on Instagram@daddyissues_ on InstagramYouTubeSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

WELCOME TO CONFESSION CORNER!!! Hey Besties, Happy New Year! As promised, we are bringing back an exciting episode series this year. And so, the long wait is over. It’s finally here!Today, Violetta and Kiana sit down to listen to several fan stories. To spice things up a bit, we will be hearing from sugar babies and their experiences with their sugar daddy (or daddies, for those lucky enough to have more than one). From avoiding having s*xual contact and not getting reimbursed for a Bahamas trip to a 75-year old cocaine-user grandpa and getting mind-blown through skull fucking, these stories just keeps coming!Advertise with Almost Adulting at Gumball.fm What to Listen For:00:00 Introduction01:02 Story #1: “I’m just trying it out.”06:34 Story #2: “Oh, skull fucking?”12:35 Story #3: “I didn’t get reimbursed for the trip.”20:26 Story #4: “My 75-year old sugar daddy.”24:04 Story #5: “I currently have 2 sugar daddies.”Get more content on:@almostadulting on Instagram@violetbenson on Instagram@daddyissues_ on InstagramYouTubeSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Happy New Year Besties! Welcome to another year of Almost Adulting! To kick off 2023 we’re starting the month with FOUR consecutive Benson Bootcamps. These boot camps are specifically designed so you start the year off strong with help from none other than your big sister, Violet! Now are you ready for your best year yet?In today's inaugural Benson Bootcamp, we’re setting the tone for this year! How are we doing that? By being DELUSIONAL. And no, not the kind of delusional that your ex-best friend was, but the kind that is going to change your life for the better. Today Violet deep dives into the mindset that she has sworn by from a young age. A mindset that she credits for all the success she’s obtained thus far. By implementing teachings such as the law of assumption, frequency illusions, and being straight up delusional about the life you see for yourself, there is no one who can knock you off your pivot or deter you from the life you’re creating for yourself. This is YOUR year Bestie, now go take it!Advertise with Almost Adulting at Gumball.fm PROVINCETOWN TOURISM: http://www.ptowntourism.comTALKSPACE: http://www.talkspace.com promo code: ADULTING for $100 off!BABBEL: http://www.babbel.com promo code: ADULTINGSHOPIFY: http://www.shopify.com/adulting What to Listen For:00:00 Introduction03:24 Write down what you want05:02 When should you be delusional?10:03 The law of assumption13:51 Always the lucky one16:13 “I wanted to be rich…”22:23 Think of that one person who’s living their best life23:38 Frequency illusion26:18 Do this exercise with a friend27:51 Everything comes in threeGet more content on:@almostadulting on Instagram@violetbenson on Instagram@daddyissues_ on InstagramYouTubeSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

WELCOME TO THE FIRST TUESDAY EPISODE OF 2023!!Today due to popular demand, Violetta starts the episode with some breakup advice and the best revenge to take! Followed by everything you need to know on how to attract an AIR SIGN MAN and get him hooked!! Violetta dives into how to attract a LIBRA, GEMINI, & AQUARIUS (in that order) men. Signs this man likes you, what he’s looks for in a lady, what he dislikes, and the most n least compatible matches with him.Make sure to subscribe to Almost Adulting so you never miss an episode again!! NEW EPISODES EVERY TUESDAY & THURSDAYSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

GOODBYE 2022 and hello a new promising and better year!! HELLO 2023Get inspired with this short episode by learning what do to manifest the best year of your life like I did.Fast forward to minute 35 for a quick one minute manifesting mantra to repeat to yourself every day to manifest the best year yet!!! THANK ME LATER BESTIES.Don't forget to subscribe to the podcast so you never miss an episode!! NEW EPISODES EVERY TUESDAY & THURSDAY.Get more content on:@almostadulting on Instagram@violetbenson on Instagram@daddyissues_ on InstagramYouTubeAdvertise with Almost Adulting at Gumball.fm See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Hey Besties! To conclude Mentor month, we have a continuation of last week's interview with the illustrious Robert Greene! Again, Robert is the author of 6 New York Times bestsellers including the infamous The 48 Laws of Power and The Art of Seduction. So get your pen and paper out, we’re taking notesThis week on Almost Adulting Robert takes a deep dive explaining the difference between deception and lying by telling us stories from his past and how through trial and error he learned some of his greatest powers. Violet and Robert also teach tactics to help us not overreact, and some extremely valid reasons as to why you should NOT send that text…at least in the moment. Finally, Robert tells us the honest truth about why when people show us their true colors the first time, we need to believe them. This applies to that guy you don’t wanna get rid of too! These lessons are the perfect way to end the year and get us ready to take on the next - and this is gonna be the best year yet. Happy Holidays Besties and stay safe! See you in 2023!Advertise with Almost Adulting at Gumball.fm What to Listen For:00:00 Introduction00:23 The power of deception05:27 Envy and people wanting someone from you07:46 Why is the book “48 Laws of Power” popular in prison?09:39 The worst advice became the best advice13:58 Deception vs. lying18:40 When someone’s mask falls off22:03 Advice for people in the workspace28:33 It’s difficult for women in the workplace30:39 Study of human behavior34:44 Be patient 36:45 Train yourself to not react right away39:51 For people in power and leadership43:16 Be okay to admit you’re wrong46:20 The one book Robert would want you to read48:32 Your real power & using your weakness as your strength50:49 Gaining power from respect vs. fearConnect with Robert on:https://powerseductionandwar.com/https://twitter.com/robertgreenehttps://www.instagram.com/robertgreeneofficial/Get more content on:@almostadulting on Instagram@violetbenson on Instagram@daddyissues_ on InstagramYouTubeSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Hey Besties! To continue mentor month, this week on Almost Adulting we are joined by yet another legend, Robert Greene! Robert is the author of 6 New York Times bestsellers including the infamous The 48 Laws of Power and The Art of Seduction. Together Violet and Robert go through some of the most important lessons in his iconic books and unpack the TRUE meanings behind them - regardless of any ‘bad press’ they may have received. Throughout the conversation Violet and Robert drop gems about how to further your trajectory in life: from learning how to see behind the ‘mask’ people put on for others, to finding your true purpose (even if that means failing). Finally, Robert speaks on what he feels is his most important lesson taught in the 48 Laws of Power, and how you can apply it to your life and reap the benefits. Get your notebooks out Besties, we’re taking over the world in 2023!Advertise with Almost Adulting at Gumball.fm EVERLYWELL: https://www.everlywell.com/ADULTING for 20% off your next at-home lab test!What to Listen For:00:00 Introduction01:13 How it all started04:19 Observing people closely08:40 Is The 48 Laws of Power evil?14:11 The Law of Five16:23 The Laws of Human Nature19:19 We aren’t born with boldness23:42 Russian heritage26:29 Do you need manipulation to succeed?28:52 Think of other people's interest31:55 Being shy/introspective is not a bad thing38:56 How to re-assess yourself this new year44:36 We suffer when we choose the wrong things48:06 Be less interested in yourself and more interested in other people51:41 You’re born uniqueCheck out Robert on:https://www.amazon.com/stores/author/B001IGV3IShttps://powerseductionandwar.com/https://www.instagram.com/robertgreeneofficial/ Get more content on:@almostadulting on Instagram@violetbenson on Instagram@daddyissues_ on InstagramYouTubeSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

WELCOME TO TUESDAY'S VAULT ARCHIVES!!Want to get an Earth sign obsessed with you???? Look no further than today's brand new episode of how to attract a Taurus, Capricorn, and a Virgo.On today's episode, Violet is presenting a zodiac series for the rest of the month! Every Tuesday this month, she will be introducing 3 new zodiac signs and how to date them. How to attract them. How to play them. What they like and not like and their best matches.LISTEN AND DOWNLOAD THIS EPISODE RIGHT NOW SO YOU KNOW WHAT YOU'RE GETTING INTO!See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Hey Besties! We are officially kicking off mentor month! There’s no better way to end the year than with words of wisdom from icons to send us into the new year right, so let’s get into it!This week on Almost Adulting Violet is joined by Nick Pope. Nick Pope is a journalist, media commentator, and former lead of the British Government's Ministry of Defence, where he was responsible for investigating UFO phenomena. The two talk about EVERYTHING UFO’s! From places with the most sightings, why the government may or may not be hiding their findings from the public, and how soon we may find out the truth about extraterrestrial life and what that means for us. Although it may not be like the movie ET, there is definitely something out there. Besties, put your thinking caps on and tune in!Advertise with Almost Adulting at Gumball.fm What to Listen For:00:00 Introduction00:51 Is there life outside of Earth?04:02 The amount of information that can be disclosed05:15 What was the project trying to accomplish?06:26 The place with the most UFO sightings07:25 The silliest questions/concept about UFO10:32 Wildest conspiracy theories13:10 Is there a time difference between planets?14:24 Parallel universes20:07 Potential attacks from aliens23:18 What would they look like?28:10 Media’s perception of UFO’s31:11 Alien abductions?35:16 How does collaboration work between countries?38:02 There is life elsewhere41:35 Most famous UFO sighting44:43 Proudest life accomplishments48:32 What’s the smartest thing you can ask?51:00 Would you live on an alien planet?55:24 What are you currently passionate about?Check out Nick’s books:https://www.amazon.com/Nick-Pope/e/B001KISGAC https://www.ancientalienslivetour.com/ http://nickpope.net/wpte19/https://twitter.com/nickpopemodGet more content on:@almostadulting on Instagram@violetbenson on Instagram@daddyissues_ on InstagramYouTubeSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

 WELCOME TO TUESDAY'S VAULT ARCHIVES!!Want to get a fire sign obsessed with you????  Look no further than today's brand new episode of how to attract an Aries, Leo, and a Sagittarius.On today's episode, Violet is presenting a zodiac series for the rest of the month! Every Tuesday this month, she will be introducing 3 new zodiac signs and how to date them. How to attract them. How to play them. What they like and not like and their best matches.LISTEN AND DOWNLOAD THIS EPISODE RIGHT NOW SO YOU KNOW WHAT YOU'RE GETTING INTO!See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

HEY BESTIES AND WELCOME TO TUESDAY'S VAULT ARCHIVES!!Did you know there are different types of vagina canals?? Listen to today's episode to learn which canal you have and which pecker is your perfect match.On this episode, Violet is joined by Sophia 'Miacova' Esperanza where they also discuss, being vegan & an environmentalist, vaginas, reasons why we stay in a controlling toxic relationships, and when it's time to let go.THIS WEEK’S PODCAST IS BROUGHT TO YOU BY: EVERLYWELL: http://www.everlywell.com/ADULTING for 20% off your next at-home lab testATHLETIC GREENS: http://www.athleticsgreens.com/VIOLETBENSON Advertise with Almost Adulting at Gumball.fm Get more content on:@almostadulting on Instagram@violetbenson on Instagram@daddyissues_ on InstagramYouTubeSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Hey Besties! To conclude Scorpio month, we’re welcoming a very special guest. Today on Almost Adulting we are joined by Long Island Medium star, New York Times best-selling author, and the host of the Hey Spirit! podcast, Theresa Caputo. Theresa has been seeing, feeling, and sensing spirits since she was four years old. During today's episode Theresa explains that she is getting a certain feeling, which leads to Violet receiving a full reading where she gets to communicate with her grandmother on the other side. Lastly, the two talk about Theresa’s experience doing live shows, her most memorable readings, and dealing with non-believers. Besties, listen with an open heart and mind, there may even be someone trying to communicate with you from the other side.THIS WEEK’S PODCAST IS BROUGHT TO YOU BY: EVERLYWELL: http://www.everlywell.com/ADULTING for 20% off your next at-home lab testATHLETIC GREENS: http://www.athleticsgreens.com/VIOLETBENSON Advertise with Almost Adulting at Gumball.fm What to Listen For:00:00 Introduction01:04 Sensing / seeing spirits since four years old04:08 Debilitating anxiety05:39 What about non-believers?08:34 Did you not get to say goodbye?25:57 Why do you think you were chosen to have this capability?27:30 What happens when you’re channeling spirits? 28:52 Did you have a bad experience with spirits?31:09 Are people always accepting of your readings?34:40 What’s your most memorable reading?40:25 Come as you are with no expectations41:45 Do not use a ouija board43:04 Some people don’t want to communicate with spirits44:44 The murder-suicide reading46:15 Profiting off of the gift47:18 What can people expect in your live shows? Connect with Theresa on:https://www.theresacaputo.com/https://www.instagram.com/theresacaputo/https://twitter.com/Theresacaputohttps://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/hey-spirit-with-theresa-caputo/id1534764208 Get more content on:@almostadulting on Instagram@violetbenson on Instagram@daddyissues_ on InstagramYouTubeSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Are blowjobs really more intimate than sex?This week Violet is joined by Jared Freid and Jordana Abraham, the hosts of U-Up; a modern dating podcast presented by Betches. During this episode, they discuss all things relationships, sex, and how to get over an ex.This hilarious trio will dive into how the pandemic has changed the dating scene, dating 101 from a male's perspective like why do men text daily but don't try to see you??? the answer will surpise you!! and lastly, they even cover how Jordana conjured the man of her dreams. YOU DON'T WANT TO MISS IT!!!WANNA GET FEATURED ON THE PODCAST??? CALL THIS FREE NUMBER TO SHARE YOUR WILDEST CONFESSION: 1-424-278-4268THIS WEEK’S PODCAST IS BROUGHT TO YOU BY: EVERLYWELL: http://www.everlywell.com/ADULTING for 20% off your next at-home lab testATHLETIC GREENS: http://www.athleticsgreens.com/VIOLETBENSON Advertise with Almost Adulting at Gumball.fm See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Hey Besties! To continue Scorpio month we’re getting into some paranormal activity! Today on Almost Adulting we are joined by paranormal pioneer and main cast member of the hit series Ghost Hunters, Steve Gonsalves. Steve has over 20 years experience and has been an integral part of numerous successful paranormal shows, thus bringing paranormal activity to the forefront of the world. Together he and Violet dive into what it takes to make a career of ghost hunting while also uncovering some jarring truths about ghost-tivities that would turn ANY skeptic into a believer. Violet also shares an intimate moment about when she was contacted from the other side where in that very moment it may have saved her life. Besties, whether you’re a believer or not, listen with open ears and make a decision for yourself - you might realize some things you’ve been ignoring.THIS WEEK’S PODCAST IS BROUGHT TO YOU BY: EVERLYWELL: http://www.everlywell.com/ADULTING for 20% off your next at-home lab testATHLETIC GREENS: http://www.athleticsgreens.com/VIOLETBENSON Advertise with Almost Adulting at Gumball.fm What to Listen For:00:00 Introduction01:13 Paranormal Investigation: How it all started 02:33 Are ghosts real?03:21 First paranormal activity experience10:44 You should fear the living more than the dead11:47 Working with psychics and mediums   13:22 Paranormal investigators versus ghost hunters15:43 Dealing negative and dark energy18:51 Catalysts for paranormal phenomenon20:09 Do you do an exorcism?22:47 There’s no definitive proof25:17 The basic devices paranormal investigators use32:23 After my grandmother passed away…35:10 What’s the most memorable Ghost Hunter experience44:22 Ghost hunting safety tips48:25 We always continue no matter what50:41 The scariest experience so far54:20 Is the Hollywood sign haunted?55:15 Are hauntings based on…?58:08 Everything in the universe is measured by 3 things59:02 Can ghosts travel?01:00:08 Can ghosts attach themselves to someone?01:04:28 Reaffirming religious beliefs01:09:45 Do you carry sacred items Connect with Steve on:InstagramTwitterGet more content on:@almostadulting on Instagram@violetbenson on Instagram@daddyissues_ on InstagramYouTubeSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

IT'S VIOLET'S BIRTHDAY!! and on today's episode she is joined by award-winning plastic surgeon, Dr. Sheila Nazarian! They discuss all the celebs who are getting work done and lying about it, unrealistic beauty standards, recent trends, and the one procedure you SHOULD ABSOLUTELY NOT get done.They then dive into the rise of anti semitism, reasons behind it, and share their family history and different backgrounds on how they both immigrated to the US.THIS WEEK’S PODCAST IS BROUGHT TO YOU BY: EVERLYWELL: http://www.everlywell.com/ADULTING for 20% off your next at-home lab testATHLETIC GREENS: http://www.athleticsgreens.com/VIOLETBENSON Advertise with Almost Adulting at Gumball.fm See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Hey Besties, it’s SCORPIO MONTH! This month we’re getting into everything supernatural, keeping things a little spooky, and of course - we’re starting it off with an episode all about ME! AKA, your favorite Scorpio.This week on Almost Adulting we’re getting vulnerable. Today Violet is sharing some of her heaviest guilt she’s been carrying since her teenage years. She starts off with an Adderall horror story of what went from a quick self care moment, to a 2-hour long masturbation sesh leaving her cramped and wobbly. Next, Violet opens up about the yearly existential crisis surrounding her upcoming birthday, and the insecurities about marriage and children that she’s been brushing off as she turns a year older. Finally, things take a more emotional turn as she recounts the story of finding out about her grandmother's cancer, and unpacks things she wishes she’d done differently - which is something we ALL can relate to. Life goes on, but life is short Besties. Reach out to your loved ones and cherish every moment with them, you never know when it’s your last. THIS WEEK’S PODCAST IS BROUGHT TO YOU BY:Athletic Greens: Athletic Greens is giving a free 1-year supply of immune supporting vitamin D and five free travel packs with your first purchase. Just visit  Advertise with Almost Adulting at Gumball.fm What to Listen For:00:00 Introduction02:44 It is Scorpio month03:42 What makes me jealous of other podcasters05:27 My mother came up to me the other day…06:30 I want to bring back Confession Corner08:04 When you take Adderall11:45 This tweet from KC12:58 My birthday is coming up17:46 When you stop having common things with your friends23:03 I’m turning 34 and I need to be honest about it24:14 The helpful negative emotions28:19 We all have a last time we’ll ever see someone34:04 When parents keep things from you to protect you39:20 Thinking back of old memoriesGet more content on:@almostadulting on Instagram@violetbenson on Instagram@daddyissues_ on InstagramYouTubeSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

HOW YOU GET HIM IS HOW YOU LOSE HIM SIS PERIODTHHHHToday Violet dives into SIGNS he's cheating on you girlie, reasons he's cheating, what it feels like to get cheated on, why it's so hard to move on, and the reason why we stay.Violet ends the episode with reasons why he's so cold after he cheats, why cheaters keep in touch, the damaging emotional effect it has on future relationships, and tips to fixing a broken heart and moving on.Rate and subscribe! GO GIVE ME THAT 5 STAR REVIEW BESTIE RN!!! New episode every Tuesday and Thursday!!!Get more content on:@almostadulting on Instagram@violetbenson on Instagram@daddyissues_ on InstagramYouTube    Advertise with Almost Adulting at Gumball.fm See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

As promised to finish up cult month/October, we are bringing back last week’s anonymous guest and Scientology survivor for a part 2 continuation of last week's episode! and this time, we are focusing on some of the negative aspects of it.Today, on Almost Adulting, we’re continuing where we left off, but diving into the most current conspiracies and rumors surrounding Scientology. Violet and the guest unpack the mystery of Shelly, the current leader of the Church of Scientology, David’s Miscavige’s previously active and visible wife who has suddenly disappeared from the limelight. Naturally this leads to the question: are Scientologists turning a blind eye on what’s really happening inside the organization? And what is their rule about same sex marriage, porn, and s*x outside of marriage that makes anyone almost abandon their freedom once they become part of the group? Our guest will break down all of this, and fill us in on where the people of Scientology truly believe Shelly is and what David’s latest whereabouts are. Tune in Besties!THIS WEEK’S PODCAST IS BROUGHT TO YOU BY:Dave: Download Dave from the App Store today and get up to $500 instantly!Everlywell: https://www.everlylwell.com/ADULTINGAdvertise with Almost Adulting at Gumball.fm What to Listen For:00:00 Introduction00:09 Shelly - the missing wife09:34 Why do people choose to stay in cults10:51 How Scientologist view the rest of the world14:54 Would you consider joining Scientology?15:29 If David isn’t the current leader20:01 Is it a real religion?21:22 Why does religion always get mixed up with money?22:17 Not pro-gay marriage?26:24 Celebrities have no idea what’s going on inside the org28:21 They monitor your internet activity30:01 You gotta be married to have s*x  Get more content on:@almostadulting on Instagram@violetbenson on Instagram@daddyissues_ on InstagramYouTubeSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

WELCOME TO VAULT ARCHIVES TUESDAY!! With our special guest, NICK VIALL!Today, we pulled one of the first episodes Violet ever recorded that she kept hidden all this time but TODAY we decided it was time to share with the world.On this episode with Nick Viall, they discuss, what Nick looks for in a partner, being a Libra, their definition of love, finding love, soulmates, the rules of s*x, and going through a heartbreak. Consider taking a shot every time Violet breaks into a nervous laugh or unsuccessfully tries to flirt and you'll be blacked out by the end of this episode :) ENJOY!THIS WEEK’S PODCAST IS BROUGHT TO YOU BY:Dave: Download Dave from the App Store today and get up to $500 instantly!Everlywell: https://www.everlylwell.com/ADULTING.Advertise with Almost Adulting at Gumball.fm Get more content on:@almostadulting on Instagram@violetbenson on Instagram@daddyissues_ on InstagramYouTubeSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

It’s finally the last week of October and to cap off the Cult month, we get an exclusive interview with a former member of Scientology who is related to Ron Hubbard, the CREATOR of Scientology.Today, on Almost Adulting, for security and personal reasons, we are keeping the guest’s identity anonymous. The guest talks about how she grew up in the church and lived her childhood in a compound that housed church members, the day to day experiences, and what it was truly like to be part of the group. The discussion continued on with explaining how the ranking system required members to ‘donate’ more to have access to high profile members, co-Scientologists use networking to elevate their position in society, and the scheme to ostracize members considered underperformers because they fail to help the church grow by recruiting more people. The shadiness behind the glamorous front just keeps getting uglier so tune in to watch Part 1 of this 2-part interview.     THIS WEEK’S PODCAST IS BROUGHT TO YOU BY:Gladskin: Get 15% off plus free shipping on your first order. Visit Gladskin.com/ADULTINGAthletic Greens: Athletic Greens is giving a free 1-year supply of immune supporting vitamin D and five free travel packs with your first purchase. Just visit AthleticGreens.com/VIOLETBENSONAsk Iliza Anything: Let Iliza give you the advice your friends won't. Listen to Ask Iliza everywhere you can get your podcast.Advertise with Almost Adulting at Gumball.fm What to Listen For:00:00 Introduction00:49 Why did you decide to share your story today?02:02 What is Scientology?03:25 Common misconceptions about Scientology05:21 The compound06:46 Why was the cult created?08:05 Humans are not meant to be worshiped13:52 First job within the cult at the age of 617:33 Day to day in the compound23:51 The emotional struggle when you leave27:11 Can anyone join Scientology?31:24 If you’re not contributing to it, you’re against it36:56 Have you met Tom Cruise?38:33 Why do you need more money?40:38 What about reincarnation?42:31 Levels, rankings, donations 48:41 Leaving the church57:36 What are your current views on religion?Get more content on:@almostadulting on Instagram@violetbenson on Instagram@daddyissues_ on InstagramYouTubeSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Hey, Besties! Today on Almost Adulting, we welcome back MJ Corey (@kardashian_kolloquium) to continue their conversation about the Kardashian family and how they continue to stay relevant to this day. Violet and MJ go straight into discussing how Kylie has emerged from her sisters' shadows and built an empire for herself. The pair also discuss the Kardashian's rebranding strategy centered around how they look and the power they have as a family rooting on their differing personalities and businesses they built from it, and the simplistic language the family uses that's easy to digest and reproduce. They also exchange ideas on the effect of the hate culture and why people ended up copying the people they tend to hate and how one can become either the victim, the hero, or the villain in someone else's narrative.  THIS WEEK’S PODCAST IS BROUGHT TO YOU BY:Gladskin: Get 15% off plus free shipping on your first order. Visit Gladskin.com/ADULTINGAthletic Greens: Athletic Greens is giving a free 1-year supply of immune supporting vitamin D and five free travel packs with your first purchase. Just visit AthleticGreens.com/VIOLETBENSONAsk Iliza Anything: Let Iliza give you the advice your friends won't. Listen to Ask Iliza everywhere you can get your podcast.Advertise with Almost Adulting at Gumball.fm What to Listen For:00:00 Introduction00:23 What did Kylie do differently?06:03 The marketing is on the body09:49 There are certain people you can’t cancel16:11 What’s interesting about the Kardashians18:37 Here’s how they attract and keep people interested21:33 It’s a life performance26:01 Why do people need to worship others?28:15 Define sadomasochism 32:17 How hate become essential34:02 Speaking simplicity 37:04 The thing they have for black men42:17 Drawing the lines when involving the kids47:13 Do you need to have beef with anyone?Connect with MJ on:InstagramTikTokTwitterGet more content on:@almostadulting on Instagram@violetbenson on Instagram@daddyissues_ on InstagramYouTubeSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

For the third week of the cult month, we’re going to do things differently. In a special 2 part episode, this week we will be looking deeper into the Kardashian conglomerate with a different lens and focusing on how their success is anchored on controlling their narrative, building an ever-evolving empire, and remaining uniquely influential.  Today on Almost Adulting we welcome MJ Corey! MJ, better known as kardashian_kolloquium on TikTok, is a writer and psychotherapist from Brooklyn. She gained starpower on social media by applying media theory and postmodern philosophy to the entire Kardashian family, their reality show, and their overall impact on society through critical thinking. Violet and MJ begin the conversation by defining what postmodernism is and how it equates to celebrities becoming commodities as opposed to civilians. They then move to discussing how the Kardashians are at the top of a modern cult wherein their influence gives them the control over the media and set trends that are both impactful and life changing - far beyond Instagram and fashion. The two also exchange thoughts on the current state and definition of “celebrity”, how our subconscious has been so deeply penetrated by the media, and this culture of hate that is both beneficial and disadvantageous to any celebrity and/or influencer. Part 2 coming soon…COME TO MY SHOW AT THE HOLLYWOOD IMPROV ON OCT. 24! BUY TICKETS HERE: https://improv.com/comic/violet+benson/ THIS WEEK’S PODCAST IS BROUGHT TO YOU BY:Shopify: Sign up for a free trial at shopify.com/adulting to start selling online today!CBDistillery: Visit CBDISTILLERY.com and click on SYNERGY PLUS. And at checkout enter ADULTING for fifteen percent off. Advertise with Almost Adulting at Gumball.fm What to Listen For:00:00 Introduction01:56 Applying different philosophies and theories to the Kardashian family02:56 What is postmodernism?06:32 What is media theory? 10:47 The reality they want people to see15:20 The Kardashians are a cult?23:27 It started with the infamous sex tape31:49 Humans are not used to being worshiped33:57 Using media to propagate and idealized idea37:28 Reality TV is the a commodification of everyday life39:19 How impactful real time tweets are43:10 Everyone has the right to control their narrative48:05 Repetition and imitation are the essence of social media50:08 Was it a lucky time to dominate social media?54:12 The more people hate you, the more you matter01:02:20 Content come in fast01:05:13 Curated on hateConnect with MJ on:InstagramTikTokTwitterGet more content on:@almostadulting on Instagram@violetbenson on Instagram@daddyissues_ on InstagramYouTubeSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

GHOSTED IN OCTOBER? HOW FESTIVE!!Today's Tuesday episode, Violet dives into winning a job interview, why people who hurt you pretend like you're the bad person, what to do when you've been ghosted, what it feels like, why you didn't see it coming and why it hurts so much, steps to move on, and the type of person that ghosting affects the MOST.Violet then ends the episode with some research behind this topic, a discussion about the effects of loneliness, getting rejected, ruminating, having low self esteem, and the importance of building emotional resilience for a better quality of life.COME TO MY SHOW AT THE HOLLYWOOD IMPROV ON OCT. 24! BUY TICKETS HERE: https://improv.com/comic/violet+benson/ THIS WEEK’S PODCAST IS BROUGHT TO YOU BY:Fashionova: shop your halloween looks here!! https://www.fashionnova.com/collections/halloweenShopify: create your store at https://www.shopify.com/adultingCBDistillery: Get 15% off with code https://www.ADULTING at CBDistillery.comAdvertise with Almost Adulting at Gumball.fmDon't forget to rate and subscribe!!! New episode every Tuesday and Thursday!!! See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Continuing with cult month, today we are diving into the world of NXIVM where we welcome two survivors turned whistleblowers of a very famous cult masked as an MLM company. NXIVM became widely known during their high profile RICO case involving celebrities, billionaire heiresses, and the FBI. This week on Almost Adulting, Violet speaks with Sarah Edmondson and Anthony “Nippy” Ames, hosts of A Little Bit Culty podcast and former members of NXIVM. Founded by Keith Raniere, NXIVM posed themselves as a self-improvement group, only to later be exposed as a “sex cult” by extorting, sex trafficking, and implementing force labor upon its members. Sarah and Nippy open up about the details of how they were lured into NXIVM, what it was like on the inside, and the horrifying secrets they discovered after Sarah was forcibly branded. Sarah and Nippy tell the story of how they were integral to the downfall of NXIVM and the arrest of its leaders. The couple is also recently featured in HBO’s The Vow, a documentary diving into the world of NXIVM, and Sarah is also the author of Scarred: The True Story of How I Escaped NXIVM, the Cult That Bound My Life.TW: sexual abuseCOME TO MY SHOW AT THE HOLLYWOOD IMPROV ON OCT. 24! BUY TICKETS HERE: https://improv.com/comic/violet+benson/ THIS WEEK’S PODCAST IS BROUGHT TO YOU BY:Dave: Download the Dave app to get the financial relief they need with ExtraCash.Athletic Greens: http://www.athleticgreens.com/VIOLETBENSONAdvertise with Almost Adulting at Gumball.fm What to Listen For:00:00 Introduction01:06 What is NXIVM?02:24 All cults have a mission of ‘saving the world’07:54 “That will not happen to me.”10:28 Why is it important for cults to isolate themselves?12:38 NXIVM is a personality cult17:22 How did it become an MLM cult?23:39 Ranking within the cult27:56 Feeling guilty for recruiting people33:04 The women sub-group: DOS42:12 When women take advantage of other women45:11 Triggering the downfall of the cult48:10 Removing the branding49:56 Are there any people right now that should be in jail? Connect with Sarah and Nippy on:A Little Bit CultyScarred: The True Story of How I Escaped NXIVM, the Cult That Bound My LifeSarah EdmondsonAnthony AmesGet more content on:@almostadulting on Instagram@violetbenson on Instagram@daddyissues_ on InstagramYouTubeSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

WELCOME TO CULT MONTH ON THE PODCAST!!On today's short episode, Violet walks you through the cults we will be covering this month along with trigger warnings before we fully dive in starting this Thursday.Violet Covers NXIVM, Children of God, The Kardashians, and Scientology.GET READY FOR ONE CULTY MONTH AND COME TO MY SHOW AT THE HOLLYWOOD IMPORV!! - OCT. 24 - https://improv.com/comic/violet+benson/THIS WEEK’S PODCAST IS BROUGHT TO YOU BY:Shopify: Sign up for a free trial at shopify.com/adulting to start selling online today!Gladskin: For 15% off plus free shipping go to Gladskin.com/adultingAdvertise with Almost Adulting at Gumball.fm Get more content on:@almostadulting on Instagram@violetbenson on Instagram@daddyissues_ on InstagramYouTubeSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Besties, throughout September we covered all things personal growth and really checked in with each other. So the best way to end this month is by talking to Neil Strauss, a ten-time New York Times best-selling author. His books, The Game and Rules Of The Game, for which he went undercover in a secret society of pickup artists for two years, made him an international celebrity and an accidental hero to men around the world. Though this sounds a little questionable, the topic here is GROWTH, which is exactly what’s displayed here today. This week on Almost Adulting, Violet and Neil begin the conversation by diving right into the controversy of his best selling book, The Game. Violet asks Neil to dive deep to help people understand who he was at that time and unpack the chokehold the book had on society. Of course, this isn't an Almost Adulting episode if the two didn’t talk about relationships. Neil explains why divorce was one of the best things him and his ex-wife could have ever done, leading them to having an amazing relationship today. They also discuss the common mistakes that often lead to breakups, how to move on from said breakups, and why a cheater will remain a cheater unless they mention these specific words…tune in Besties!GET TIX TO MY SHOW AT THE HOLLYWOOD IMPROV ON OCT. 24! - https://improv.com/comic/violet+benson/THIS WEEK’S PODCAST IS BROUGHT TO YOU BY:Shopify: Sign up for a free trial at shopify.com/adulting to start selling online today!Advertise with Almost Adulting at Gumball.fm What to Listen For:00:00 Introduction02:40 This is how lonely I’ve gotten04:41 See you guys again at Hollywood Improv!08:25 I get to experience being 15 years old again11:39 The Game17:32 What’s the dirtiest advice?19:20 Non-violent communication22:37 If you’re both not ready, it’s not going to happen24:22 Getting drawn to people familiar to you27:32 Work on yourself and improve your emotional intelligence28:42 Can a player change their ways?31:37 Both partner have to make the relationship work34:12 A relationships isn’t a failure if it ends36:18 How to create a happy relationship?37:32 How do you move on from a relationship that didn’t work?39:20 When you see your partner like a parent43:28 How do you overcome being the villain?45:35 The cheating ex46:54 Do you believe cheaters can change?Connect with Neil:WebsiteFacebookTwitterYouTubeInstagramBooksTo Live and Die in LA PodcastGet more content on:@almostadulting on Instagram@violetbenson on Instagram@daddyissues_ on InstagramYouTubeSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

BE DELUSIONAL.Today Violet teaches you to choose yourself first, whether it's being delusional that everything will work out or changing your perspective on what you reality is. Violet believes that every day you have a choice. So TODAY why not choose to be delusional??!! and choose to change your life.COME TO MY SHOW AT THE HOLLYWOOD IMPORV!! - OCT. 24https://improv.com/comic/violet+benson/Don't forget to subscribe to the podcast and our YouTube channel so you never miss an episode again!!! and also leave a 5 star review on the podcast app since it really helps :DGet more content on:@almostadulting on Instagram@violetbenson on Instagram@daddyissues_ on InstagramYouTubeAdvertise with Almost Adulting at Gumball.fmSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

When going through a tough time the most annoying thing in the world is everyone seems to have all the advice on what you “should” do, right? Well you’re not alone, but the reality is that sometimes these things recommended to us are actually things we should be doing - but before we can even fathom doing them, we have to drop our bad habits. Besties, welcome Amy Morin to Almost Adulting! Amy is a licensed clinical social worker, college psychology instructor and psychotherapist, and responsible for one of the most popular Ted Talks of all time. Today Violet and Amy start the conversation by unpacking the often stressful topic of habits - how we form them, stick to them, and what we can do when we accidentally break our positive habits. The duo dives into what our bad habits say about us, and the importance of breaking them in order to create good ones. Through this, Amy teaches that mental strength and mental health are actually two entirely different things, and how the lies that our brain tells us affect us on a much deeper level than we realize. Finally, the ladies discuss a topic that life never prepares us for: grief.  Though grief is something no one can avoid, it’s never something anyone is ready for. Through Amy telling her story she learned coping mechanisms that truly changed her life, and that EVERYTHING always relates back to one thing…habits. Whether it be maintaining good ones, or breaking bad ones, habits can be HARD, so give each other grace and tune in to discover the tools you didn’t know you needed. THIS WEEK’S PODCAST IS BROUGHT TO YOU BY:TalkspaceTo match with a licensed therapist today, go to Talkspace.com. Make sure to use the code ADULTING ​to ​get $100 off of your first month​ and show your support for the show.CBDistilleryVisit CBDISTILLERY.com and click on SYNERGY PLUS. And at checkout enter ADULTING for fifteen percent off. DaveDownload the Dave app to get the financial relief they need with ExtraCash.Advertise with Almost Adulting at Gumball.fm What to Listen For:00:00 Introduction01:38 How long does it take to break a good habit?05:45 The way we respond to breaking a habit matters07:39 It’s just a bad choice, you’re not a bad person  08:40 When you’re stuck in the pity trap12:50 Moving on with life without feeling guilty17:17 Too much social media can trigger envy20:34 Three kinds of destructive beliefs23:27 Start challenging your underlying beliefs27:00 It’s up to you how you respond to people30:54 It’s okay to be honest with your struggles33:32 Not everything is up to chance36:05 We only hear the end game of every success story38:41 Just set doable goals a day41:29 Do you believe in toxic positivity?45:14 Improving your mental strength Connect with Amy:TwitterInstagramFacebookWebsiteThe Verywell Mind PodcastBooksGet more content on:@almostadulting on Instagram@violetbenson on Instagram@daddyissues_ on InstagramYouTubeSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Welcome to Tuesday's Vault Archives and to the 3rd week of September on the podcast!!On this episode, Nazanin comes on and shares things most people didn't know about her, from her insecurities, to how bad days, to how she overcame her eating disorder, and how being a child of divorce affected her outlook on love.They then dive into her definition of cheating, the ups and downs of her and singer/songwriter Miguel's relationship from a much needed breakup to how they make long distance work, dealing with jealousy, handling "Instagram hoes", busy schedules, her love non negotiables, and how they keep the spark alive after 17 years.Follow Nazanin at @NazaninMandi on InstagramTHIS WEEK’S PODCAST IS BROUGHT TO YOU BY:TALKSPACE, CBD, AND DAVEAdvertise with Almost Adulting at Gumball.fm See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Though we all come from different backgrounds and realities, we are all dreamers. No matter the hardships faced or the obstacles thrown in our way, that doesn’t mean we should be cruel and harsh to ourselves. We can dream multiple dreams even when we can only realize them one at a time.Today we welcome Barrett Pall to Almost Adulting! Barrett is a humanitarian and professional life coach to CEOs of fortune 500 companies, celebrities, Middle Eastern Royalty, and everyday incredible humans - because that is what we all are. Today's episode is opened by a conversation about Barrett finding his voice through the trials and tribulations of his life, which led him to become a major advocate for the LGBTQ community and underprivileged communities. Based on his life experiences, Barrett explains how he was always a dreamer and teaches tools to help practice constant gratitude and mental awareness, regardless of how dark the world may seem at times. Finally, the duo discusses why setting boundaries for yourself especially when using social media is a must, the importance of taking care of yourself so you are able to take care of others, and how we always have a choice of how we approach life and our dreams. Besties, sometimes the going gets tough, but you are never alone - tune in to find out why!THIS WEEK’S PODCAST IS BROUGHT TO YOU BY:Gladskin: http://www.gladskin.com/ADULTING for 15% off plus free shipping!Advertise with Almost Adulting at Gumball.fm What to Listen For:00:00 Introduction01:05 Advocating for the LGBTQ community05:12 You have nothing to apologize for or explain yourself06:58 Were you always this positive?08:27 You get to choose if you need to change yourself11:18 Getting obsessed over others sexuality18:16 Stay open for change in all ways22:43 It’s about connection for a lot of people24:48 Queer men can do everything a straight men can do26:24 What money?29:00 No one needs to be babied anymore30:02 Safety practices when using social media34:28 How do you set boundaries?38:09 To dream is a privilege45:22 Take care of yourself first48:10 How do you give back to others?49:12 When you feel you don’t fit in55:35 Hike your own hikeConnect with Barret:TikTokLinkedInYouTubeInstagramFacebookWebsiteGet more content on:@almostadulting on Instagram@violetbenson on Instagram@daddyissues_ on InstagramYouTubeSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.