
Curiosity Chronicle
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Ep 380The Things You Prayed For
Tomorrow is Thanksgiving in the United States.Ever since I was a kid, it's been my favorite holiday. To me, it was always a celebration of here and now.My mom embraced the day as a chance to bring people together. Having been introduced to Thanksgiving by a loving host family who took her in when she came to America for college in 1978, it strikes me that she feels a sense of duty to pay that love forward.Every year, she hosts a big gathering of family, friends, and a smattering of my dad's students and mentees who don't have local family to visit for the occasion.And every year, after the big meal is finished, we choose a prompt and go around the table reflecting and responding to it.This year, I'm in charge of that prompt. Here's what I plan to ask:What did your younger self pray for that you take for granted today?To understand why I chose this, let me take you back to 2021...•••The 5 Types of Wealth has now sold over 400,000 copies since its release.If you’re ready to rethink success and redesign your life, the book is currently on a huge sale. Get 3 for the price of 2 just in time for the holidays!Order The 5 Types of Wealth Today!
Ep 379What Could You Do If You Forgot Your Limits?
I have a weird confession:I enjoy listening to audiobooks about running, while running.It all started a few years ago with Born to Run, the incredible story of a journalist who ventures deep into Mexico’s Sierra Madre mountains to train and learn from the Tarahumara, an indigenous group known for their prolific ultra-long-distance running capabilities.So last week, embracing my odd habit, I picked up a new audiobook called The Running Ground and headed out for a run on the cold roads of the Boston suburbs.Somewhere around mile three, a story in the book stopped me in my tracks (literally)...•••Mel Robbins called my first book "a powerful wake-up call that will push you to rethink everything about how you’re spending your time." Join 400,000+ other readers and get it today on a big sale!Order The 5 Types of Wealth Today!
Ep 378The Harada Method: How to Achieve Ambitious Goals
A few days ago, I came across a fascinating tweet about Dodgers baseball star Shohei Ohtani.Long before Ohtani was winning back-to-back World Series Championships and Most Valuable Player awards, he was just another kid with a dream.As a high school freshman, he dreamed of being the #1 draft pick for eight teams in the Nippon Professional Baseball league in Japan. It was an ambitious vision, to say the least.But where most people stop with the loose vision, Ohtani was just getting started...•••Andrew Huberman called my first book "An important clarifying force in anyone’s search to make the best possible choices for their life." Join 400,000+ other readers and get it now on a big sale!Order The 5 Types of Wealth Today!
Ep 377How to Make Better Career Decisions
You're faced with a career choice:Option A: Stay in your current roleOption B: Switch to a new company, team, role, etc.How do you evaluate and make the best decision possible?Here’s my framework for making career decisions...•••My debut book was just nominated for the Goodreads Choice Awards in the Nonfiction category!If you enjoyed it, please vote for The 5 Types of Wealth and help me move on to the next round!Vote For My Book!
Ep 376The Hidden Power of Staying in the Game
Andy Weir is one of the most successful science fiction authors of our time.His list of mega-bestsellers includes The Martian (later adapted into an award-winning drama starring Matt Damon), Artemis, and Project Hail Mary (soon to be released as a film starring Ryan Gosling).He has achieved a top-0.01% outcome. A true outlier.But Andy Weir’s success in the field was anything but expected.15 years ago, he wasn’t a household name. He wasn’t even a full-time writer...•••Apple CEO Tim Cook called my first book "a powerful call to action to think deeply about what lights you up."Join 400,000+ other readers and get it now on a big sale!Order The 5 Types of Wealth Today!
Ep 375The Water Glass Effect
I recently came across an old video of a professor sharing a powerful lesson with his classroom of students.He holds up a glass of water and asks the students how heavy it is.The students answer with a variety of figures:8 ounces. 12 ounces. 16 ounces.The professor shakes his head...•••Mel Robbins called my first book "a powerful wake-up call that will push you to rethink everything about how you’re spending your time." Join 400,000+ other readers and get it today on a big sale!Order The 5 Types of Wealth Today!
Ep 374The Public Speaking Guide: 7 Strategies for Success
A few weeks ago, I had the opportunity to speak at Google Zeitgeist, an extraordinary annual event hosted by Google for their top customers and partners.Just before I took the stage—in a beautiful room the team had custom built at the venue—I caught myself reflecting on how unlikely this moment would have seemed just a few years ago.You see, I spent most of my life as an extremely nervous public speaker...•••The 5 Types of Wealth Life Planner is out now! This interactive companion to my NYT bestselling book will guide you through exercises to define your priorities and build your dream life.Order today and email your receipt, and you’ll get access to two life planning virtual workshops I’m hosting December.Order The Life Planner Today!
Ep 373A Scene From Yellowstone That Changed How I Think About Success
Last week, I had the chance to sit down with University of Missouri head football coach Eliah Drinkwitz on a visit to their incredible facilities in Columbia, Missouri.Coach Drinkwitz has led the program since 2020, making him one of the longest tenured coaches in the top conference in college football. He inherited a team that went 6-6 the year before his arrival and has turned the program into a perennial competitor, winning 10 and 11 games the last two years, respectively.During our conversation, Coach Drinkwitz mentioned a personal turning point in his journey had been when he watched a single scene from the television series Yellowstone...•••The 5 Types of Wealth Life Planner is out tomorrow! This interactive companion to my NYT bestselling book will guide you through exercises to define your priorities and build your dream life.Order today and reply to this email with your receipt and you’ll get access to two life planning virtual workshops I’m hosting December.Order The Life Planner Today!
Ep 372Chesterton's Fence: The Importance of the Origin
There was once a village surrounded by a tall wooden fence that had been there as long as anyone could remember. One day, a traveler convinced the villagers to tear it down—only for wolves to enter that night and ravage their livestock.As it turned out, the fence was there for a reason...•••Andrew Huberman called my first book "An important clarifying force in anyone’s search to make the best possible choices for their life." Join 400,000+ other readers and get it now on a big sale!Order The 5 Types of Wealth Today!
Ep 371The Logical Fallacy Field Guide
In this piece, I walk through 20 common logical fallacies—errors in reasoning that destroy the quality of an argument.If you spot any of these in a debate, online or in person, that may be your cue to politely find the exit.Think of this as your field guide to avoiding arguments with fools...••• Apple CEO Tim Cook called my first book "a powerful call to action to think deeply about what lights you up."Join 400,000+ other readers and get it now on a big sale!Order The 5 Types of Wealth Today!
Ep 370The "Rules" That Hold You Back In Life
There is a concept in cognitive science called the Illusory Truth Effect:It's the tendency to believe false information after consistent, repeated exposures. In other words, if you're told something over and over again, it takes root in your mind as a truth.This is how suggestions slowly, silently start to feel like rules...•••Mel Robbins called my first book "a powerful wake-up call that will push you to rethink everything about how you’re spending your time." Join 400,000+ other readers and get it today on a big sale!Order The 5 Types of Wealth Today!
Ep 369A Reflection On The Little Things
You're going to see your parents 15 more times before they die.In 2021, that simple statement, which later became the opening line of my book, changed my life.My wife and I were living in California at the time, 3,000 miles away from our parents. I had been there for 12 years––a college baseball scholarship had brought me out West, and then a lucrative job opportunity had kept me there.In a lot of ways, that felt fine...•••Apple CEO Tim Cook called my first book "a powerful call to action to think deeply about what lights you up."Join 400,000+ other readers and get it now on a big sale!Order The 5 Types of Wealth Today!
Ep 368The Antelope Principle: How to Chase the Right Things
Imagine yourself as a lion. Every single day, you have a choice.You can:Chase field mice; orHunt antelopeThe choice is an important one because the way you choose to deploy your precious, finite time and attention will determine your outcomes...•••The 5 Types of Wealth Life Planner is out in two weeks. The interactive companion to my New York Times bestselling book guides the reader through the most important exercises, reflections, and prompts to design and build their wealthiest life. Reply to this email with your preorder receipt to be included in a series of virtual life planning workshops I’ll host in November and December.Order Your Life Planner Today!
Ep 367The Abilene Paradox: The Silent Danger of False Agreement
There’s an old Danish fairy tale about an emperor who loved fine clothes.Two swindlers promised him a suit so magnificent that it would be invisible to anyone unfit for their position or hopelessly foolish. They dress him in the invisible garments, and the emperor steps out into the city streets for a grand parade—completely naked. The townspeople, afraid to appear unfit or foolish, cheer for the outfit that isn't there. Only a small child told the truth: “But he’s completely naked!”It’s a children’s story, but it beautifully captures one of the most dangerous dynamics in human nature: The Abilene Paradox...•••Mel Robbins called my first book "a powerful wake-up call that will push you to rethink everything about how you’re spending your time." Join 400,000+ other readers and get it today on a big sale!Order The 5 Types of Wealth Today!
Ep 366Amor Fati: An Ancient Idea That Will Change Your Life
I spent most of my life trying to control the uncontrollable. Running from the uncertainty that life inevitably brings.But in running from the uncontrollable, the only thing we truly escape is our own peace.This is the quiet truth of Amor Fati:Embrace what lies beyond your control—and act on that which is within it...•••Andrew Huberman called my first book "An important clarifying force in anyone’s search to make the best possible choices for their life." Join 400,000+ other readers and get it now on a big sale!Order The 5 Types of Wealth Today!
Ep 365The Odysseus Trap: A Clear Path to Lesser Goals
In Homer’s epic poem The Odyssey, Odysseus and his men faced a long, arduous journey home to Ithaca after the Trojan War.Early in the voyage, a series of fierce storms blow them off course and land them on a mysterious, sunlit island. It seemed peaceful, with gentle winds, calm seas, and fertile land. The inhabitants were friendly and welcoming. They offered Odysseus and his men food, specifically the fruit of the lotus plant.But this was no ordinary fruit. The moment the men tasted it, something strange happened...•••Apple CEO Tim Cook called my first book "a powerful call to action to think deeply about what lights you up."Join 400,000+ other readers and get it now on a big sale!Order The 5 Types of Wealth Today!
Ep 364Are You Ready For Your Favorable Wind?
I stumbled across a great post recently:When fisherman cannot go to sea, they repair nets. When the sea is too rough to sail, the smart ones don’t wait—they get to work. They mend their nets, sharpen their tools, and prepare for the moment the storm breaks. Because even in stillness, there’s progress.It reminded me of a story from the American Revolution in Ron Chernow’s Pulitzer Prize-winning biography of George Washington...•••Apple CEO Tim Cook called my first book "a powerful call to action to think deeply about what lights you up."Join 400,000+ other readers and get it now on a big sale!Order The 5 Types of Wealth Today!
Ep 363The Most Important Choice of Life
Last week, I had a beautiful conversation with a young mother who reached out wanting to talk to me about her son.The young boy, just four years old, has shown signs of being neurodivergent. His mother courageously expressed to me her fear that he might not be able to thrive in the way that all parents hope for.As a father to a young boy of similar age, the conversation hit me hard.And while I could not speak to any of the ongoing research in the field, which is certainly advancing rapidly, I did share a story that I wanted her to hear...•••Mel Robbins called my first book "a powerful wake-up call that will push you to rethink everything about how you’re spending your time." Join 300,000+ other readers and get it today on a big sale!Order The 5 Types of Wealth Today!
Ep 362What Are You Tolerating That’s Holding You Back?
I've often mused that there are (broadly) two ways to improve your life:Add a Positive: A good habit, behavior, person, etc.Remove a Negative: A bad habit, behavior, person, etc.An important observation: Most of us automatically default to the former and ignore the latter.We're conditioned to believe that progress means doing more. New habits. New routines. New mindsets. New people. New goals.But here's the truth: The simplest, fastest path to progress isn’t addition. It’s subtraction...•••Andrew Huberman called my first book "An important clarifying force in anyone’s search to make the best possible choices for their life." Join 300,000+ other readers and get it now on a big sale!Order The 5 Types of Wealth Today!
Ep 361The Seasons of Your Life
Here’s something I find myself thinking about a lot lately:Your life is not a singular, static experience.Your life has seasons.These seasons create a natural flow to your journey. They aren’t always obvious in the moment, but often become clear with the benefit of hindsight. Each one is unique, characterized by its own desires, priorities, purpose, and identity...•••Mel Robbins called my first book "a powerful wake-up call that will push you to rethink everything about how you’re spending your time." Join 300,000+ other readers and get it today on a big sale!Order The 5 Types of Wealth Today!
Ep 360Want a Better Life? Be Boring.
Here’s an underrated life hack:Be boring in the right ways.Why is being boring so powerful? Well, simply because so few people are willing to do it...•••Andrew Huberman called my first book "An important clarifying force in anyone’s search to make the best possible choices for their life." Join 300,000+ other readers and get it now on a big sale!Order The 5 Types of Wealth Today!
Ep 359The Victim Mentality: A Silent Killer of Growth
The Dartmouth Scar Experiment is an interesting case study on the impact of the so-called Victim Mentality on our lives.In today’s piece, I’d like to talk about Victim Mentality—and share three simple strategies to eliminate it forever.•••Mel Robbins called my first book "a powerful wake-up call that will push you to rethink everything about how you’re spending your time." Join 300,000+ other readers and get it today on a big sale!Order The 5 Types of Wealth Today!
Ep 358What Will Your Next Note Be?
I recently read a quote from legendary musician Miles Davis that stopped me in my tracks…“It’s not the note you play that’s the wrong note—it’s the note you play afterwards that makes it right or wrong.”This isn’t just about music. This is about life...•••Andrew Huberman called my first book "An important clarifying force in anyone’s search to make the best possible choices for their life." Join 300,000+ other readers and get it now on a big sale!Order The 5 Types of Wealth Today!
Ep 35734 Short Lessons on Money
Money is a funny thing.It consumes an enormous amount of our energy and attention in adulthood, but very few of us learn anything about it in childhood or adolescence.If we're lucky, our parents teach us a few of the basics (and maybe we get a boring course or two on it in school).But we're pretty much left on our own when it comes to one of the most influential elements in our lives.I'm 34 years old and I've spent a lot of time thinking about money over the last few years. I've had conversations with thousands of people all across the financial spectrum, from those just scraping by to ultra-billionaires living with incomprehensible wealth.Today, I'd like to share what I've learned...•••Andrew Huberman called my first book "An important clarifying force in anyone’s search to make the best possible choices for their life." Join 300,000+ other readers and get it now on a big sale!Order The 5 Types of Wealth Today!
Ep 356How to Make the Ordinary Come Alive
I don't read poetry often, but there are a few poems I come back to regularly because of their impact on my life.This beautiful piece by William Martin is on that list...•••Mel Robbins called my first book "a powerful wake-up call that will push you to rethink everything about how you’re spending your time." Join 300,000+ other readers and get it today on a big sale!Order The 5 Types of Wealth Today!
Ep 355Live Like It's The Last Time
The Ancient Greeks had two different words for time:Chronos was the idea of chronological, linear, quantitative time. That all time is equal.Kairos was a bit different. That there are certain moments or windows that have more meaning. More texture. More importance. More weight.We’ve all experienced Kairos time. There are certain moments in life that feel etched into our memory. The pivotal turning points. The experiences or events that have a distinct before and after in how we approached the world.Cruelly, we often don’t realize we’re living one of those moments until after the fact. We look back on it and say, “ah, yes, that was important!”Well, last week, I had one of those moments—but I knew it right away…•••Andrew Huberman called my first book "An important clarifying force in anyone’s search to make the best possible choices for their life." Join 300,000+ other readers and get it now on a big sale!Order The 5 Types of Wealth Today!
Ep 354The Simple Question to Unlock Progress
This has become the most common question I receive:Big project, very intimidatingDon't know where to startFeeling stuck, paralyzed, anxiousMy response is always the same:What's the simplest action you can take today that would create forward progress?•••Mel Robbins called my first book "a powerful wake-up call that will push you to rethink everything about how you’re spending your time." Join 300,000+ other readers and get it today on a big sale!Order The 5 Types of Wealth Today!
Ep 353The Magic of Showing Up on Your Bad Days
On June 11, 1997, Michael Jordan stepped onto the court for Game 5 of the NBA Finals between his Chicago Bulls and the Utah Jazz.Jordan was reportedly very sick, but chose to play given the critical importance of the game to the series, which was tied 2-2 at the time.Throughout the game, he looked visibly unwell, with a fever over 100 degrees, he experienced extreme fatigue, dehydration, and body aches.But despite his condition, he played 44 of the 48 total minutes, scored 38 points, and had 7 rebounds, 5 assists, 3 steals, and 1 block. With under one minute left, he hit a 3-pointer to seal the win for the Bulls.The game—now commonly known as Michael Jordan’s “Flu Game”—has gone down in NBA lore as one of the most impressive, clutch performances in history.While I do vividly recall watching this game with my dad (I was 6-years-old at the time!), I’m not just sharing this as a fun trip down memory lane…•••Mel Robbins called my first book "a powerful wake-up call that will push you to rethink everything about how you’re spending your time." Join 300,000+ other readers and get it today on a big sale!Order The 5 Types of Wealth Today!
Ep 352I Co-Hosted a Retreat With Richard Branson—Here’s What I Learned
Last week, I had a pinch me experience:I spent five days co-hosting a retreat with Richard Branson, Adam Grant, and a group of incredible entrepreneurs and thinkers on Necker Island, Richard’s private island in the Caribbean.The opportunity came about in the most unlikely way...•••Mel Robbins called my first book "a powerful wake-up call that will push you to rethink everything about how you’re spending your time."Join 300,000+ other readers and get it today on a big sale!Order The 5 Types of Wealth Now!
Ep 351The Law of Reversed Effort: Slow Down to Speed Up
Last week, I posted a short thought:The worst mistakes in life are made when you try to do fast what’s meant to be done slow. Real, durable things take a long time to build. Careers. Businesses. Relationships. Health. There are no hacks or shortcuts. The long way is the right way.The idea clearly struck a chord, reaching millions of impressions in a few days.It reminded me of one of my favorite Zen parables...•••Apple CEO Tim Cook called my first book "a powerful call to action to think deeply about what lights you up."Join 300,000+ other readers and get it now on a big sale!Order my first book today!
Ep 350Sahil’s Monthly Idea Drop: July 2025
If you read (or listen) to this newsletter, you know that I’m obsessed with interesting ideas.Here are 5 ideas I can’t stop thinking about this month…(P.S. This may become a regular monthly segment if people are interested!)•••Mel Robbins called my first book "a powerful wake-up call that will push you to rethink everything about how you’re spending your time." Join 300,000+ other readers and get it today on a big sale!Order my first book today!
Ep 349The Cheshire Cat Principle: How to Create Clarity
In Alice’s Adventures in Wonderland, there’s a scene in which Alice reaches a fork in the road and has a simple exchange with the Cheshire Cat:“Would you tell me, please, which way I ought to go from here?”“That depends a good deal on where you want to get to,” said the Cat.“I don’t much care where—” said Alice.“Then it doesn’t matter which way you go,” said the Cat.It’s a clever exchange, but holds a deep truth...•••Apple CEO Tim Cook called my first book "a powerful call to action to think deeply about what lights you up."Join 300,000+ other readers and get it now on a big sale!Order my first book today!
Ep 348The Empty Boat Mindset
There’s a story I come back to when I’m feeling stressed or frustrated...A monk is meditating alone on a lake when another boat crashes into his. Anger rises—until he opens his eyes and realizes the boat is empty, drifting freely after coming untied.In that moment, the anger vanishes...•••Andrew Huberman called my first book "An important clarifying force in anyone’s search to make the best possible choices for their life." Join 300,000+ other readers and get it now on a big sale!Order The 5 Types of Wealth Now!
Ep 347The Arrival Fallacy: Why Success Is Never Enough
Last week, the world's top-ranked golfer, Scottie Scheffler, went viral for something completely unrelated to golf.During his pre-tournament interview at The Open Championship, one of four annual major golf championships, a reporter asked Scheffler a simple question about his incredible streak of success...•••Mel Robbins called my first book "a powerful wake-up call that will push you to rethink everything about how you’re spending your time." Join 300,000+ other readers and get it today on a big sale!Order My First Book Today
Ep 346The Poem I Wish I Read 10 Years Ago
Last week, a reader sent me a poem that stopped me in my tracks.To live content with small means.To seek elegance rather than luxury,and refinement rather than fashion.To be worthy not respectable,and wealthy not rich.To study hard, think quietly, talk gently,act frankly, to listen to stars, birds, babes,and sages with open heart, to bear all cheerfully,do all bravely, await occasions, hurry never.In a word, to let the spiritual,unbidden and unconscious,grow up through the common.This is to be my symphony.- William Ellery ChanningI don’t think I’ve ever seen a better distillation of a good life captured in so few words...•••Andrew Huberman called my first book "An important clarifying force in anyone’s search to make the best possible choices for their life." Join 300,000+ other readers and get it now on a big sale!Order The 5 Types of Wealth Now!
Ep 345The Poison Arrow Principle: How to Stop Overthinking
Here's an old Buddhist story I think about often:Imagine someone is struck by a poisoned arrow. A doctor is called to remove the arrow, but the man stops him. 'Not so fast! Before you remove it, I want to know who shot me. What town or village does he come from? What kind of wood was his bow made from? Was it a crossbow or a longbow?' While he asks the questions, the poison takes hold and he dies.Like the man in the story, we occasionally get shot with the poisoned arrows of life. But ruminating too much on the nature of those arrows is unlikely to help.This is a trap we all fall into...•••Apple CEO Tim Cook called my first book “a powerful call to action to think deeply about what lights you up.”Get it now on sale and join the movement to live a wealthy life!Order The 5 Types of Wealth Today!
Ep 34422 Pieces of Career Advice They Don't Teach You in School
I get a lot of messages asking for career advice.The following is my attempt to synthesize my responses from the last few years into a series of short, valuable lessons.Behind each of these is a much longer story—probably a painful one—but I'll spare you that detail (for now!).No matter where you are on your career journey, my hope is that this list has something of value for you.•••Mel Robbins called my first book "a compelling call to action that will stay with you long after you’ve turned the last page."You can join 300,000+ others and get it now on a big 50% sale.Order The 5 Types of Wealth Today!
Ep 343The Question That Haunts High Achievers
Last week, I was speaking to a group of entrepreneurs when one of them admitted he'd been struggling.He's dealing with a challenging family health situation and feeling like he isn't doing enough to grow his business.A few hours later, I got a text from a friend, who said she was trying to slow down, but struggling with negative self talk that she wasn't doing enough.The two nearly identical interactions just hours apart sparked a realization...•••I'm thrilled to finally share The 5 Types of Wealth Life Planner—an interactive companion to my bestselling book designed to help you start taking action to build the life you want.In the pages of this beautiful planner, you'll...Create your Life Razor—a simple, powerful commitment to guide every decisionDefine your Anti-Goals—what you refuse to sacrifice along the wayDesign your Energy Calendar—to double down on what fuels youVisualize your Enough Life—so you stop chasing more and start choosing meaning...and much, much more.With specific prompts and tactical exercises designed to turn dreams into reality, this is a planner you’ll come back to over and over again as your life evolves.Preorder Your Life Planner Today!
Ep 342The Artful Life: Ars Longa, Vita Brevis
In the 4th century B.C., the Ancient Greek physician Hippocrates, wrote in his Aphorisms (translated into Latin here):Vita brevis, ars longa, occasio praeceps, experimentum periculosum, iudicium difficile.Life is short, art long, opportunity fleeting, experiment dangerous, judgment difficult.The phrase has been further tightened and adapted, including by the Roman statesman and Stoic philosopher Seneca, into the following:Ars longa; vita brevis.Art is long, life is short.In a strict interpretation, this might simply be about your art: The creative craft or endeavor you choose to pursue.But allow me to offer a more liberal interpretation...•••SPECIAL OFFER: Grab your copy of my NYT bestselling book during the Amazon Prime Day sale—it’s the perfect time to get it at a huge discount!Order The 5 Types of Wealth Now!
Ep 341The Jonah Complex: How to Stop Running From Your Own Light
On a windy pier in the ancient city of Joppa, a young man buys a one-way ticket to sail in the opposite direction of his destiny...The young man, Jonah, had been called upon by God to travel to the city of Nineveh to preach his word.But, in the heat of the moment, he runs from this calling, boarding a ship and sailing off in the opposite direction.When a divine storm threatens the ship during its sail, Jonah asks the crew to throw him overboard as he continues his flight from his true destiny.He's swallowed whole by a whale, living in the belly of the creature for several days, during which he repents for running from his duties and is eventually spared.This Biblical story (Jonah 1-3) has deeply relevant lessons for all of our lives (that have nothing to do with religion)...•••Bestselling author Susan Cain had this to say about my book: "On almost every page, you’ll find yourself smiling, tearing up, or discovering ideas that you can’t wait to share with the people in your life."Join 300,000+ readers and order it today on a big sale!Order The 5 Types of Wealth Now!
Ep 340A Simple Reframe to Improve Your Life
We've all been there...That familiar sensation of feeling behind.And it's no wonder it's so familiar. From the time you wake up in the morning until the time you go to sleep at night, you're being hit by a constant drip highlight reel from everyone around you.Their promotions. Their bonuses. Their new homes. Their fancy cars. Their beautiful lives.Every single piece of information a snapshot of their position that you can't help but compare yourself to.Teddy Roosevelt once called comparison "the thief of joy."But in my view, it's not the act of comparison itself that's the problem...•••Andrew Huberman called my first book "An important clarifying force in anyone’s search to make the best possible choices for their life." Join 300,000+ other readers and get it now on a big sale!Order My First Book Today
Ep 339The Columbus Egg Principle
There’s an old fable about Christopher Columbus that I like…In 1493, upon return from his first voyage to the Americas (which he mistakenly identified as the East Indies), a group of Spanish nobles gathered for a celebratory dinner with Christopher Columbus.The nobles diminished his accomplishment, saying, “Anyone could have sailed west and found land. You just happened to get there first.”Columbus smiled, reached for a boiled egg, and issued a wager...•••Bestselling author Mel Robbins said my book "will push you to rethink everything about how you’re spending your time."Join 300,000+ readers and order it today on a big sale!Get The 5 Types of Wealth Now!
Ep 338A Simple Question for True Mastery
Robert Caro is widely considered to be one of the greatest biographers of our time. His list of accolades is long and includes two Pulitzer Prizes for Biography, two National Book Awards (one for Lifetime Achievement), and many more.But the critical acclaim is no accident.His work is revered for its meticulous research and intense dedication to its subjects.Robert Caro didn't set out to write "good enough" biographies. He set out to produce definitive, world-changing ones—the kind that shape our understanding of human nature, power, and the people who wield it.The origin of that ethos was a simple conversation with his boss, Alan Hathaway, when he began a role as an investigative reporter at Newsday...•••My first book was named an Editor's Pick for one of the Best Books of 2025 by Amazon.You can order it now on a huge sale!Order The 5 Types of Wealth Now!
Ep 337How to Stop Procrastinating
In 1789, philosopher Jeremy Bentham mused on the two forces that control our lives:"Nature has placed mankind under the governance of two sovereign masters, pain and pleasure."His argument, in simple terms, is that human behavior is driven by the pursuit of pleasure and the avoidance of pain.This general idea is the basis for the most useful productivity framework you've probably never heard of:It's called Skinner's Law..•••My first book has reached over 300,000 people around the world.Get it now on sale and join the movement to live a wealthy life!Order The 5 Types of Wealth Now!
Ep 336The Trap of Success (& How to Escape It)
I have a close friend—we'll call him Ben.Ben is very successful. He's in his 30s, sold a company for $100 million, and earns over $10 million per year in his current role.I was recently out on a walk with Ben when he admitted something interesting:He hates his current job. He finds no fulfillment in the work and dreams of leaving to start something new. Something that would bring him alive again.So, naturally, I told him to quit. I mean, he has enough money for many, many lifetimes, and that affords him the freedom to do so.My logic was basically this classic from Bobby Axelrod on Billions:"What's the point of having f*ck you money if you never say f*ck you?"Well, as it turns out, he can't quit. He's trapped. Perhaps not in a literal sense, but in an even more damning psychological one.Today, I want to talk about this fascinating trap, how success and freedom can find themselves at odds, and how to design your life to avoid that fate...•••Andrew Huberman called my book "An important clarifying force in anyone’s search to make the best possible choices for their life."You can get it now on a big 50% sale.Order The 5 Types of Wealth!
Ep 335The Obstacle or the Goal
I recently came across a quote that hit me hard:"Obstacles are those frightful things you see when you take your eyes off your goal." — Henry FordEvery meaningful path in life is lined with obstacles.If you've ever pursued something grand or ambitious...Building a businessRaising a familyChanging careersReaching an athletic milestoneor anything in between...you know the path is never smooth.Roadblocks, bumps, thorns. They are the norm.But here's a question worth asking yourself...•••Apple CEO Tim Cook called my book "a guide for how to build a life of meaning and purpose."You can get it now on a big 50% sale.Order The 5 Types of Wealth!
Ep 334The Hidden Mindset That Shapes Your Entire Life
Want the key to success? As crazy as it sounds, I might actually be able to give it to you in the next 3 minutes...You see, I spend a lot of time thinking about common threads across the lives of the people I admire. These are all people who are winning in their chosen worlds, whether that be a CEO in the boardroom, an artist in the symphony hall, an athlete on the field, a mom or dad in the home, or anything in between.It's difficult to identify a common set of specific tactics.As it turns out, there are a million different ways to achieve success. There's no magic routine. No perfect productivity system. No success equation.But if you zoom out, there is one mindset that I have observed across every single one of these people...•••Mel Robbins called my book "a compelling call to action that will stay with you long after you’ve turned the last page."You can get it now on a special 50% sale.Order the NYT bestselling book today!
Ep 333The Best Advice From Your Father
In honor of Father’s Day, I asked over 1 million readers a simple question:What was the single best piece of advice you ever received from your father?I got thousands of replies, which ranged from playful and witty to thought-provoking and emotional.Here were my favorites…•••Mel Robbins said my book will “push you to rethink everything about how you’re spending your time.”You can get it now on a big 50% sale!Order the Book Today!
Ep 332How to Survive Hard Times
When life gets hard, most people retreat to one of two worlds:Naive Optimism: This is the world of pure positivity. It is marked by an unwillingness to confront the harsh facts, but also by a steadfast belief in the ability to navigate through to the other side.Hopeless Realism: This is the world of pure negativity. It is marked by a desire to face the facts, but also by a loss of hope for the ability to navigate through to the other side.But the people who survive the hard—the ones who grow stronger through the involuntary struggle—don’t operate at either extreme.Instead, they live at the collision of those two worlds, blending Naive Optimism and Hopeless Realism into a perfect harmony.As it turns out, this mindset has a name...•••This is the biggest sale ever on my book: 50% off the hardcover!Now's a great time to grab a few copies for yourself, family, or friends before the sale expires.Order The 5 Types of Wealth Now!
Ep 3317 Lessons from Steve Jobs’ Legendary Speech
It’s commencement speech season.I recently shared a series of powerful lessons from David Foster Wallace’s This Is Water commencement speech on its 20th anniversary.Well, as it turns out, 2005 was a legendary year for wisdom from the commencement stage.Just a few weeks after Foster Wallace’s brilliance, on June 12, 2005, Steve Jobs stepped to the podium to deliver the annual commencement address at Stanford University.The speech has impacted my life in deep and lasting ways—shaping how I view purpose, ambition, creativity, and mortality.In honor of its 20th anniversary, I want to share seven timeless lessons from that day (which we can all apply to our lives).•••Andrew Huberman called my book "an important clarifying force in anyone’s search to make the best possible choices for their life."It’s on a big 50% sale right now.Order The 5 Types of Wealth Here!