Clearer, not Louder with Beatrice Kamau
Beatrice Kamau · Beatrice
Show overview
Clearer, not Louder with Beatrice Kamau has been publishing since 2019, and across the 7 years since has built a catalogue of 267 episodes. That works out to roughly 110 hours of audio in total. Releases follow a fortnightly cadence.
Episodes typically run twenty to thirty-five minutes — most land between 17 min and 31 min — though episode length varies meaningfully from one episode to the next. Roughly 45% of episodes carry an explicit flag from the publisher. It is catalogued as a EN-language Education show.
The show is actively publishing — the most recent episode landed 6 days ago, with 17 episodes already out so far this year. The busiest year was 2021, with 48 episodes published. Published by Beatrice.
From the publisher
Clearer, not Louder Podcast (formerly known as the Self Love Fix Podcast) is a podcast about discernment, the power of the voice, and the intersection of how the two impact you and the world around you. In a world that encourages constant reacting, overexplaining, and performing, this space is about learning to pause, notice what's actually happening, and respond with clarity. Each episode explores the subtle dynamics that shape our relationships, decisions, and inner lives- the moments when something feels off, when we ignore our God-given wisdom, or when we realize we've been negotiating with things that don't align with our principles. Through thoughtful reflections and insightful conversations, Clearer, Not Louder helps you develop the kind of clarity and discernment that doesn't require force or volume but rather, honesty, awareness, and the powerful, undiluted version of your voice. Because the goal isn't to be louder. It's to be clearer.
Latest Episodes
View all 267 episodesEp 16 Routines and Consistency for the Spontaneous, Whimsical Girl
Ep 15. Protect Your Whimsy: Friendship Edition
Ep 14 The Return and Reclamation of Whimsy
Ep 13 Betrayal, Grief, & Why No One Is Above the Program
Ep 12. Arriving in Singlehood (and Letting Go of Idolatry of Marriage & Relationships)
Ep 11 Love is Not Enough Part 5-- Dating Lessons from My 30's.
Ep. 10 Love is Not Enough-- Part 4 Dating Lessons From my 30's
Ep 9 Love is Not Enough Part 3-- Dating Lessons from my 30's
Ep 8 Love is Not Enough Part 2-- Dating Lessons From my 30's
Love is Not Enough Part 1-- Lessons from my 20's.
Ep 6. What Are You Willing to Endure?
Ep 5 On Boundaries and Having a Strong "Internal No"
Ep 4 "When 'Let's See How It Goes' Costs You: A Red Flag You're Probably Overlooking in Work, Business, and Relationships"
In this episode we chat: Why we keep saying "let's see how it goes", what it costs is to ignore the GLARING red flag when something feels.... off, and how to start thinking and moving differently. You'll hear how to spot where you're taking on unnecessary misery and CONFUSION and how to make decisions that actually serve you—without going back and forth, without the noise, and with a whole lot of clarity. What You'll Learn in This Episode: "Let's see how it goes" can be costly—learn to notice the red flags before they cost you. Focus on what you can control: your actions, your standards, and your energy-- and invite God into the process Make a departure with self-negotiation and begin to lead with choices that protect your time, peace, and future. IG: @clearernotlouder
Ep. 3 How You Deliver Honesty Matters
In this episode we chat: An HONEST conversation about how delivery MATTERS when it comes to honesty inasmuchas the message itself and how it can either strengthen or erode trust when it comes to relationships both romantic and platonic What You'll Learn in This Episode: Navigating "I was just being honest" conversations Honesty that controls and manages vs. the honesty that edifies Stewarding and sharpening your own relationship with honesty- both in how you give it and how you receive it from the people you trust IG: @clearernotlouder
Ep 2. Restraint as a Form of Power
In this episode we chat: Stewarding your voice when it comes to handling conflict, frustration, and points of contention with people without stepping out of YOUR character and simultaneously, without being a doormat. What You'll Learn in This Episode: How to handle situations where you're frustrated with someone and even tempted to lash out at them without giving into your ego/into your flesh Where you might be getting into God's business when it comes to handling people in confrontation and points of contention Being "nice" vs. being kind and why being nice does NOT work in boundary setting How to set boundaries with people who are frequently defensive, offended, and inflamed in conversation. IG: @clearernotlouder
Ep 1. Presence over performance
Welcome to the FIRST epsiode of Clearer, not Louder with Beatrice Kamau (formerly known as the Self Love Fix Podcast)! In this episode we chat: The difference between presence and performance—and why leaning into presence can cause effortlessly shift your ability to connect to others in everyday conversation and in relationship EASILY and in a RELAXED manner. Think dropping the act of APPEARING a certain way and being HYPERVIGILANT to how others are perceiving you. What You'll Learn in This Episode: How God slowed me down and showed me the power of presence-- inadvertently-- through two hobbies I picked up during my year-long hiatus: baking and gardening. The difference between how people experience you and how you experience others depending on whether you are oriented in presence or performance How presence vs. performance shows up in everyday life (in ways you might not even notice or think about!) Practical- and easy- steps to start cultivating presence in your life IG: @clearernotlouder
A NEW podcast name is coming: What's happening to the Self Love Fix Podcast
Hi friend! It's been... a while. I know. Forgive me, girl. We're back but get this... we're coming back with a NEW name, NEW vision, same voice, same vibes 3.12.26. Tune in to this trailor to find out the new podcast name and find out: The new vision for the podcast, where we're headed What we've learned from the Self Love Fix Podcast and what we're taking as we're moving forwards A mini riff giving a peek into the new podcast! The new name! See you in the FIRST episode of the new podcast 3.12.26 xx Beatrice
266. An Announcement that Unexpectedly Turned into an Episode.
In this episode we chat: Leaning on God's wisdom and not your own understanding What's going to be happening hear on the pod for the next 2 months! WORK WITH BEATRICE: Join the FREE Valued Woman challenge 10 day challenge below to enjoy 10 EASY to apply tips to start VALUING yourself STRAIGHT to your inbox! CLICK HERE TO JOIN THE FREE VALUED WOMAN CHALLENGE CONNECT WITH BEATRICE: Be sure to connect with me more on Instagram @theselflovefix. I'd love to hear what you thought of this episode and what your major takeaways were. Make sure to tell a friend to tell a friend about this podcast!
265. Do you REALLY Value Yourself like You Say You Do?
In this episode we chat: The Proverbs 31 woman and how she demonstrated how she VALUES herself FINDING time to maintain and care for yourself even with a busy schedule-- it's there I promise!! How the way you carry yourself INFLUENCES how people treat you WORK WITH BEATRICE: I'm running a free 10 day email challenge called The Valued Woman challenge eek!! Over a 10 day period I will be sharing 10 EASY to apply tips to start VALUING yourself STRAIGHT to your inbox... for FREE! CLICK HERE TO JOIN THE FREE VALUED WOMAN CHALLENGE CONNECT WITH BEATRICE: Be sure to connect with me more on Instagram @theselflovefix. I'd love to hear what you thought of this episode and what your major takeaways were. Make sure to tell a friend to tell a friend about this podcast!
264. 30 things I learned in the last 30 years-- It's my birthday!.
In this episode we chat: The 30 things I've learned since turning 30! I promise these are non-generic and totally worth the listen! WORK WITH BEATRICE: Click here to catch the valued masterclass at $19.95 ONLY through midnight 1/23/25 in honor of my 30th birthday! Valued is:a powerful, 52 minute masterclass that takes you from EFFORTING your way into SCRAPS of attention from INCONSISTENT MEN to attracting the types of men who SHOW you how they VALUE YOU through their actions CONNECT WITH BEATRICE: Be sure to connect with me more on Instagram @theselflovefix. I'd love to hear what you thought of this episode and what your major takeaways were. Make sure to tell a friend to tell a friend about this podcast!