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Episode 61: A Story About London, Patience + The Magic of Blind Faith

On a cold November night in 2013, I boarded a plane at JFK airport by myself to go to London. I decided to take a solo trip to get inspired, and meet with the only 2 readers I knew I had there. I was in heavy fantasy mode, dreaming about what it would be like to quit my job at MTV and do what I love - and also bring my brand to the U.K. In this episode I share that story and also talk about the importance of patience and the magic of believing in something when nobody else can see it but you.

Nov 19, 201715 min

Episode 60: Free Yourself From Your Own BULLSHIT: Anxiety, Quarter-Life Crisis, Depression, and the Unsexy Side of Personal Development with Desiree Wiercyski

If you have ever struggled with that restless feeling of "what's next!?" then you don't want to miss this chat with life and business coach Desiree Wiercyski. We're talking all about the unsexy side of personal development: anxiety, depression, how to know if you're experiencing a quarter-life crisis (and what to do about it) and more. Get ready to get real with us, break your own rules, and most importantly - free yourself from your own bullshit. To connect with Desiree and learn more about working with her, check her out at www.desireew.com. Be sure to hop on her email list and take advantage of some very special offers just for our listeners at www.desireew.com/slay

Nov 18, 201731 min

Episode 59: Dealing With Imposter Syndrome, Creative BLOCK + Total Overwhelm

Let's talk about IMPOSTER SYNDROME! Have you ever felt like a total fraud? Put an insane amount of pressure on yourself and STILL felt out of place? As the saying goes, "With every level comes a new devil" and boy did I experience it recently. I just submitted the first full draft for my next book - my best book to date - and it put me through the ringer. In this episode I'm talking about what happens when you level up and EXPAND. Because new shit comes up. And we have to learn how to deal. I'm sharing the strategies I used to get through the writing process and stay sane. Grab a pen! This is a good one. Big thank you to our sponsors! This episode is brought to you in part by My Lead Angel. My Lead Angel is here to help Online Entrepreneurs and Small Business Owners to unleash the potential of their brand with the power of video. Captivate your customers with video marketing and content from My Lead Angel today and stand out from the crowd! Learn more at MyLeadAngel.com and get 10% off by using the code STYLEYOURMIND! This episode is also brought to you in part by Sheila Smires of The Productive Blogger. Starting a blog can be overwhelming. The Productive Blogger offers a variety of coaching services to help you grow your brand and monetize your blog. Learn more about her new program + take advantage of her special early bird offer just for our listeners at www.TheProductiveBlogger.com/slay

Nov 16, 201722 min

Episode 58: BOSS TIPS! My Thoughts on Social Media, Online Marketing + Public Speaking (REAL EFFFING TALK)

If you're an entrepreneur or aspiring one, I'm dropping tons of tips for you on how to get smarter about your online marketing, social media strategy, and why public speaking is not as scary as we make it out to be. Big thank you to our sponsors! This episode is brought to you in part by American Hero Clothing. Run by an active duty army veteran and mother of 5, American Hero creates FULLY customizable clothing to represent your business and ROCK your brand. Check them out at ShopAmericanHero.com This episode is also brought to you in part by My Lead Angel. My Lead Angel is here to help Online Entrepreneurs and Small Business Owners to unleash the potential of their brand with the power of video. Captivate your customers with video marketing and content from My Lead Angel today and stand out from the crowd! Learn more at MyLeadAngel.com and get 10% off by using the code STYLEYOURMIND!

Nov 13, 201721 min

Episode 57: How to Handle Rejection, Tips for Resetting + Recharging, Starting a Blog/Business/Brand + Where to Begin, and MORE!

I'm answering all your burning questions once again! We're talking about how to handle rejection, tips for resetting and recharging, why you must be your own permission slip, how to start when you have a million ideas, where I shop (this is a popular question believe it or not!) + style tips and so much more. I love you guys! HUGE thank you to our sponsors! Remember ladies, with ANY online decorating course or virtual design service purchase from Holistic Decor, you will get an exclusive 30-minute virtual Style Your Decor session. Come to this personalized video session with your biggest dream in THIS MOMENT (think business, love, you name it!) and Caitlin will show you specific, actionable ways to bring that dream into your home's decor...immediately (no shopping required!) To get this bonus session, include the words ¨Style Your Mind Special¨ along with a few words describing your biggest dream in the comment field of your cart at checkout. Learn more at www.HolisticDecor.com

Nov 10, 201730 min

Episode 56: How to Know Your Life's Purpose, How to Confidently Ask for Money in Your Business, How to Deal With an Unmotivated Boyfriend, Are You a Self-Help Junkie?

It's time for another Ask me Anything! Your questions, answered. We're covering everything from how to know what your life's purpose is (do we even have just one?), how to confidently ask for money in your business (b*tch better have my money!), to dealing with a boyfriend or spouse who just isn't keeping up with your ambition, to knowing whether or not you may be OD'ing on self-help (yes, it's totally possible!) HUGE thank you to this episode's sponsor, Life + Business Coach Desiree W! If you're a side-hustler, don't miss out on Dez's brand new 4-month mastermind. She's offering our listeners only 40% off on the program. Sign up and get the details and discount here: www.desireew.com/slay

Nov 9, 201719 min

Episode 55: STRIPPED: What Happens When We Let Go, Invite Vulnerability, and Remove the Layers of Control

A quick personal story about learning to let go and step out of my comfort zone. Have you attached yourself to control for too long? This episode will inspire you to shed those layers and give yourself the space to bloom. Because we all know that nothing fabulous happens inside of a comfort zone. Check out STRIPPED, my book of poetry and inspired writings for the evolving woman on Amazon.

Nov 2, 201711 min

Episode 54: How to Boost Your CONFIDENCE and Reclaim Your Power Through Positive Self-Talk + Confidence-Building Habits

A few months ago, my publisher reached out to me to let me know that they wanted ME on the cover of my new book (insert freak out moment here!) I had a TON of emotions flowing through me when I got the news – I was super flattered, nervous, excited, anxious - you name it. I happily agreed, but kind of put it out of my head until a few days ago when my editor emailed me to say they had scheduled the shoot – and it was happening in less than 2 weeks! For anyone listening who has ever had a big event – whether it was your wedding, your own book cover, your brand photo shoot, a big presentation – ANYTHING like that – you know the feeling of paranoia that sweeps over you when you're just a few days away from that big day. I felt those nervous feelings creeping in when I learned about the shoot, but this time, I was able to stop myself in my tracks and flip that anxiety into peacefulness by RECLAIMING my POWER. Rather than stressing out, I decided to get into action and start doing confidence-building activities that would make me feel good. And I want to share the EXACT steps I took with you guys so that you can use them as inspiration if you find yourself in a similar situation where your insecurity takes over. This episode's power mantra: Confidence is available to me at all times. Thank you to our sponsor, American Hero Clothing! Run by an active duty army veteran and mother of 5, American Hero creates FULLY customizable clothing to represent your business and ROCK your brand. Check them out at ShopAmericanHero.com

Oct 30, 201719 min

Episode 53: How to GET and STAY Motivated to Workout + Eat Well

I used to haaaate working out, and I found that any time I tried eating healthier it felt like a chore. But a few years ago, everything changed for me. I've been able to reprogram my mind and not only get motivated and excited to live a healthier lifestyle, but know exactly how to get back on the wagon when I fall off (because we all fall off). If you're looking for tips on getting and staying inspired to exercise and treat your body well, then this episode is for you. We'll explore the mind/body connection and how powerful it is to recognize the other benefits of living better beyond weight loss or looking more toned. I know this chat will push you to start demanding more for yourself, and do it all from a place of love and self-compassion! Thank you to our sponsor, Desiree Wiercyski! Visit https://desireew.com/slay for an exclusive offer just for us! When you sign up for Dez's list, you'll get instant access to her custom quiz, What Kind of Boss Babe Are You?, plus a video training on 3 simple ways to manage your anxiety when you're crazy stressed, and a workbook called Essential Morning Plans for Anyone Who Hates Mornings.

Oct 23, 201725 min

Episode 52: Know Your WORTH! How to Value Yourself and Ask For What You Deserve

How many times have you accepted a lower salary, taken less than you deserved, or been afraid to assert yourself to ask for what you want? Not after this episode, baby! I am going to show you how to start valuing yourself and get exactly what you want and need in your life and your career. This episode is packed with personal stories and actionable tips so you can start raising your standards, confidently ask for what you want, and begin honoring your desires. 10 THINGS WOMEN WHO VALUE THEMSELVES DO DIFFERENTLY: They confidently ask for what they want They listen to their gut + trust themselves They don't seek the approval of others They don't make decision in a low vibration They don't do things out of desperation They move forward even if nobody understands their vision They do not make excuses for themselves or anyone else They don't allow their past to define their future They don't put their happiness in the hands of someone else They don't determine their success based on external wins or accomplishments Thank you to our sponsor, Rich Bitch podcast! Rich Bitch is the hilarious, no fluff, non-boring business podcast you've always wanted. Angie Lee is guaranteed to make you laugh your ass off & inspire you to throw your fears to the curb! Angie's genius is helping women pay off debt & leave their soul sucking job. Angie believes that a truly rich life involves bringing love to every relationship of our life— including our relationship with money. If you are ready to take your relationship with money from sucky to a steamy sexy love affair, Rich Bitch is for you! Subscribe here.

Oct 18, 201722 min

Episode 51: BOSS TIPS! Staying in Creative Flow, Elevating Your Brand, Growing Your Instagram, Coming Up With New Ideas, Tips for Financing Your Business + MORE

I'm answering all your questions again in this jam-packed episode! Tons of tips here for female entrepreneurs on staying in a creative flow, elevating your brand, how to grow your Instagram naturally, how I finance my business, and how I come up with brand new ideas. Be sure to listen with a notebook because I'm BRINGING IT! Thank you to our sponsor, LOHO! Pre-order your very own pair of LOHO tights and get a special package including your very own Slay Baby and LOHO pins. These beautiful tights are designed by Darrah Christel and when you order them, you'll not only be supporting a woman-owned business, but you'll be supporting one of our very own Slay Babies! Get them here.

Oct 15, 201724 min

Episode 50: My Morning Routine, Staying Organized, Asserting Yourself, and How to Know If You're Making the "Right" Choice

I love knowing what's on your mind! In this episode I'm answering YOUR questions around my morning routine, how to stay organized, tips for balancing your side hustle, why its so important to confidently assert ourselves, and how to know if you're making the right choice. This show is PACKED full of tips so grab a notebook or be ready to take notes on your laptop! This episode's POWER MANTRA: I am no longer available for overthinking and obsessing. Join the Slay Baby Collective here. Thank you to our sponsors! LOHO Pre-order your very own pair of LOHO tights now throughout the month of October and snag your very special Slay Baby VIP pack including a Slay Baby button and Loho pin! These gorgeous tights are designed by one of our very own girl gang members, Darrah Cristel, made in the U.S.A.! Support a female-owned business and a champion of body positivity (tights run from size small - 6x, something nobody else is doing). They're not in stores yet, so get your hands on them first through this exclusive offer. Check them out and pre-order here. Melissa Leger, coach, relationship expert, and creator of Gumball Love Dating a guy who drains your energy, makes you feel insecure, or pops in and out of your life when he wants your attention? Sounds like you're with a gumball guy. Melissa will teach you her concept of Gumball Love so you can transform your life and business by finally building your confidence and getting the courage to break up, get over your ex, and be happily single (or in a new, healthy relationship) and live your BEST life. Learn more about Melissa, follow her on Instagram and Snapchat, and get on her VIP list at GumballLove.com.

Oct 11, 201725 min

Episode 49: Why You Should Live in a FANTASY WORLD

Has anyone ever told you to be more realistic? Well I've got news for you: reality is completely different for everyone. And nobody has the right to tell you what yours should look like! For years, people told me I was living in a dream world and guess what? I am! And it's fabulous. When I look around at my life, it looks totally different than most people's, but it's real for me. And your fantasy world can be real for you, too. In this episode, I am giving you my personal step-by-step guide to dreaming BIG and embodying the woman you want to be. This episode's POWER MANTRA: "My thoughts create my reality. And my reality can be as fabulous as I choose." Thank you to our sponsors! Melissa Leger, coach, relationship expert, and creator of Gumball Love Get on Melissa's VIP list at GumballLove.com and sign up for her next workshop beginning THIS WEEK! The last day to register is October 11. Melissa will teach you how to transform your life and business by finally getting the courage to break up, get over your ex, and be happily single (or in a healthy relationship!) living your BEST life so you can ultimately attract the right guys and the right people. LOHO Pre-order your very own pair of LOHO tights now throughout the month of October and snag your very special Slay Baby VIP pack including a Slay Baby button and Loho pin! These gorgeous tights are designed by one of our very own girl gang members, Darrah Cristel, made in the U.S.A.! Support a female-owned business and a champion of body positivity (tights run from size small - 6x, something nobody else is doing). They're not in stores yet, so get your hands on them first through this exclusive offer. Check them out and pre-order here.

Oct 8, 201724 min

Episode 48: How to Get into a HIGH VIBRATION and Attract Amazing Things Into Your Life

Have you ever had one of those days where you just feel awesome? Everything feels in flow, you feel clear, energized, ideas are flowing, you feel creative and just in the zone? That is what it means to be in a high vibe. It's basically that feeling where you believe EVERYTHING is possible and nothing can get in your way. (I love those days!) On the flip side, there's that state of being in a LOW vibration. That's where you feel stuck, frustrated, jealous, BROKE, drained. All those crappy feelings that NOBODY has time for. If you've struggled with getting into that HIGH VIBE state, there are some ways you can shift your energy instantly so that you can feel fabulous and start attracting amazing things into your life and I'm sharing them all in this episode. I'm also sharing a personal story about how I shifted my vibration before leaving my full-time job to pursue my dreams. Because I do not believe we can live our best lives while we're in a low vibration. All change starts with our ENERGY. POWER QUOTES from this episode: "You have every opportunity in every moment of every day to choose a high vibration." "What we attract is a direct reflection of our energetic state." This episode's MANTRA: "My natural vibration is of joy, clarity, energy and love. I redirect any thoughts that do not serve my highest self." THANK YOU to our sponsor! Melissa Leger, coach, relationship expert + creator of Gumball Love Get on Melissa's VIP list at GumballLove.com to learn more about her work and sign up for her next Academy (the next and final one of the year begins next week, October 11th!) Melissa will teach you to transform your life and business by finally getting the courage to break up, get over your ex, and be happily single living your BEST life so you can ultimately attract the right guy and the right people.

Oct 4, 201721 min

Episode 47: Do You Feel SUCCESSFUL?

Most of us learned from a young age to equate success with money and power. We hold high-powered CEOs, rich entrepreneurs and celebrities on pedestals, assuming that because they are "successful," they have it all. We click through their Instagram feeds in awe, we binge-watch their reality television shows, and we spend our hard-earned money to see them speak and perform. But do we ever wonder if they are actually HAPPY? I invite you to redefine success with me today. I invite you to acknowledge that SUCCESS IS A STATE OF MIND. Something we all have access to. Something we can choose to tap into. And in this episode, I'm showing you how. Power quotes from this episode: "When we operate from a place of power, we understand that if we believe we are successful, then we are." "I invite you to acknowledge that success is a state of mind and it is something we all have access to." Grab the Style Your Mind workbook here: www.styleyourmind.com

Sep 30, 201712 min

Episode 46: How to Stop COMPARING Yourself to Other Women

Have you ever found yourself clicking around on Instagram or Facebook innocently enough, looking for "inspiration" – only to find yourself feeling totally consumed by someone else's life or business? I know its happened to me, and its happened to pretty much EVERY single woman I know. In this episode, I'm giving you actionable tips for how to get out of "compare and despair" mode, elevate your thinking, and stop thinking about what SHE'S got and start focusing on what YOU have. Power quotes from this episode: "One of the most common qualities of the evolved woman, as I love to call her, is that she does not allow feelings of comparison to swallow her whole." "When you have mastered yourself, you naturally celebrate another woman: her beauty, her success, and her accomplishments." "When you stand in your own power, competition dissolves."

Sep 26, 201714 min

Episode 45: The Art of LETTING GO: How to Release Your Past and Make Room for the New

"We can't become what we need to be by remaining who we are" - Oprah. When we release something from our lives, we allow ourselves to detach from thoughts, feelings, people, and situations that are no longer meant to take up space. Whether it's a relationship that has run its course, or a job that is no longer a fit for you, or a home you once lived in, we must let go of these things to invite the new. We must let go of the past in order to evolve. And as I always say, an evolving mind is a healthy mind. In this episode, I'm giving you actionable tools on how to let go and start enjoying the next phase of your life.

Sep 26, 20178 min

Episode 44: Why I Don't Set Goals: How to Work From A Place of Joy and Creativity

Are you goal-obsessed? Do you spend more time writing things down and planning things out rather than actually doing them? In this episode, I'm talking about why I feel the personal development world has it backwards. Get ready for a brand new take on an intuitive, blissful way to work and feel aligned with what means the most to you.

Sep 23, 201712 min

Episode 43: My Personal Battle With Anxiety and Tips for Overcoming Panic, Overwhelm, and Stress

Women are twice as likely to suffer from anxiety than men. If you've been there, you're not alone sister. I struggled with anxiety for years, and in this episode I dive into my personal journey and how I used (and STILL use) behavioral therapy to manage it. If you've ever experienced an anxiety attack or overwhelming feelings of stress or panic, this episode will provide some tips and advice on how to work through them. And remember, there is no shame in seeking professional help for your mental health and wellness. If you need help, please get it.

Sep 13, 201721 min

Episode 42: How to Cure a Hangover (And/Or Get Out Of Any Kind Of Funk)

We've all been there...waking up with a hangover and feeling totally unmotivated and guilty. Here's how to cure it. Plus, advice on how to create your own "lightning bolt moment" and get out of any kind of funk you may find yourself in.

Sep 9, 20177 min

Episode 41: Auditing Your Inner Circle + Making New Friends!

Ya gotta have friends! But who are you spending most of your time with? And are these people energizing you, or draining you? In this episode, I dig into friendships, how they evolve, when to let them go, and how to make brand new friends as an adult. If you're looking for a positive community of supportive women, join my private group, the Slay Baby Collective here: https://www.facebook.com/groups/slaybabycollective/

Sep 7, 201711 min

Episode 40: Women Who Rock! Babe Chat with Celebrity Stylist and Author Payton Dale

Ever wonder what it's like to pick out outfits for rock stars? We're continuing with Women Who Rock week with celebrity stylist and author of "Hang Up Your Hang Ups" Payton Dale. We talked about fashion and music, and SO much more including body image, saying yes to everything (and figuring it out afterwards), the importance of a girl gang, and why its so rewarding to be a rebel in your industry. Connect with Payton: @ThePaytonProject Check out her book, "Hang Up Your Hang Ups" on Amazon

Aug 30, 201757 min

Episode 39: Women Who Rock! Babe Chat with JoJamie Hahr: VP of Marketing at BBR Music Group

Ever meet those girls who just GET IT? That's JoJamie Hahr. She is the Vice President of Marketing at BBR Music Group based in Nashville, TN. We chatted about the importance of relentlessly working toward your dreams, why taking a risk always pays off, and why women should be able to be, look, do, and SAY whatever they want in business. Ever feel like you need to shrink yourself as you get older? Not after this conversation. Buckle up babes, this is a GOOD one! Connect with JoJamie: Instagram: @JoJamie + @JoJamieInstaFashionGram BBR Music Group: www.BBRMusicGroup.com

Aug 30, 201737 min

Episode 38: Women Who Rock! Babe Chat with Lindsay Ell: Singer, Songwriter + Musician

In this episode, I sat down with Lindsay Ell to talk about her 8 year journey into the music industry, what it was like to move from Canada to Nashville, why "impossible" is not a word in her vocabulary, why she believes being vulnerable is the secret to success and SO MUCH MORE. We're bringing serious advice and girl power in this babe chat. Enjoy! Connect with Lindsay on Instagram and Twitter @LindsayEll Check out her new album #TheProject out now!

Aug 29, 201728 min

Episode 37: Women Who Rock! Babe Chat With Dana Distortion: Music Photographer & Film Maker

Welcome to WOMEN WHO ROCK week! I'm sitting down with some of my favorite ladies of the music industry this week for a peek into their glittering, glorious worlds. First up is my friend Dana Distortion, a music photographer and film maker based in NYC who has photographed high profile artists like Madonna, Prince, Paul McCartney, Aerosmith, Metallica, Coldplay, Bruce Springsteen, and so many more. Her incredible work captures the energy and essences of these artists (check it all out at www.distortionpix.com) and has been profiled in Rolling Stone, SPIN, Brooklyn Vegan, and many other worldwide publications. We talk about creating your dream job, keeping a positive attitude, and why her personal mantra is "Just f*cking do it." Connect with Dana Instagram: @DanaDistortion Her photography: www.distortionpix.com Her clothing line: www.distortionunplugged.com

Aug 27, 201735 min

Episode 36: How to Get Clients When You're First Starting Out

I always ask what you guys want to hear on the show, and this topic consistently comes up. In this episode, I address a health coach who personally reached out to me for help in building her clientele. No matter what business you're in, I'm sharing my advice on how to get clients when you're just starting out. I share my own personal story and how I began, and also give you actionable tips you can start working on RIGHT NOW to make it happen!

Aug 25, 201711 min

Episode 35: Do You Sabotage Yourself? Here's How to Stop Now

It's pretty safe to say we've all sabotaged ourselves at least once before. But why the hell do we do it? In this episode, I'm answering a listener question and diving into the psychology of self-sabotage. I'm also sharing some of my tried-and-true tips for getting out of that cycle and making things happen for yourself - fearlessly. To check out my book that I reference in this episode, click here.

Aug 25, 20176 min

Episode 34: What Are You Available For In Your Life? Mantras to Build Confidence + Clarity

I discovered the power of mantras and affirmations when I first read The Secret about eight years ago. As a word lover, I was so excited to learn how to choose words with intention to literally design my life. Ever since, I have created mantras for myself almost daily to remind me that I am in control of how I want to feel, and I am in control the way I want to live my life. It sounds simple, but we really do choose our thoughts, which ultimately shape the direction of our lives. In this episode, I'm sharing a few of my favorites and reminding you to think about what you're available for in your life. Enjoy!

Aug 24, 20179 min

Episode 33: "Got To Be Real": The Power of Vulnerability & Why It's Better To Be YOU!

In this episode, Cara talks about why it's so important to cut the filters and ditch the facades and just be REAL! She shares two inspiring, personal stories about vulnerability and why being ourselves is our best kept secret. To sign up for Cara's newsletter, add your name here: www.thechampagnediet.com Check out Cara's books here: https://www.amazon.com/Cara-Alwill-Leyba/e/B0097GJNV0

Aug 14, 201721 min

Episode 32: Bad Day? Listen To This Power Chat NOW (I Promise You'll Feel Better!)

In this episode, Cara talks about why we shouldn't shove our bad moods under the rug and why its so important to feel our feelings. A breakdown can lead to a breakthrough if you let it! If you're loving Style Your Mind, can you do us a huge favor and fill out this quick, 2-minute survey? It will help us make sure we can continue to deliver you the best content possible: https://survey.libsyn.com/STYLEYOURMIND Thanks for being a loyal listener!

Jul 31, 20179 min

Episode 31: Little Luxuries: Success Rituals and Lifestyle Tips to Elevate Your Environment and Help You Feel Incredible Now

In this episode, Cara shares some of her "success rituals" for living your best life and designing your environment to feel chic, inspiring, and gorgeous. From your home, to your office, she believes that a beautiful space and a few simple lifestyle tips can elevate your vibe and help you feel incredible.

Jul 25, 201721 min

Episode 30: Your Vibe Attracts Your Tribe! How to Form New Friendships + Build Your Community

Survey mentioned in the intro: https://survey.libsyn.com/STYLEYOURMIND In this episode, Cara talks about the power of connection and how important it is to build your community. No matter what your age, your background, or your location, it is possible to find new girlfriends and partnerships that help you thrive. You truly are a reflection of the people you spend your time with. Choose people who inspire you, build you up, and make you feel GOOD! Listen to this show, then log off the internet and go hang out with someone face to face! PS - Do you have the NEW version of Cara's bestselling book Girl Code yet? Brand new bonus content and a mega dose of inspiration. Grab it here: http://amzn.to/2uH8x1L

Jul 20, 201714 min

Episode 29: Money Money Money Money, MONEY!

In this episode, Cara shares her perspective on earning and spending, as well as her top tips around mending your relationship with money. Ever felt guilty about investing in yourself? Ever felt bad about treating yourself to something? It's time to turn those thoughts on their head, because you are worthy of more than you know!

Jul 6, 201721 min

Episode 28: BABE CHAT with Selena Watkins: Fitness Professional, Dancer + Model

In this episode, Cara talks to Selena Watkins: fitness professional, dancer and model and Miss Black USA 2012 about gaining confidence through movement, why its so important to put yourself first (especially in relationships!), and how to use your strengths to find your true purpose in life. Connect with Selena on Instagram: @SelenaWatkins Learn more about her and her dance programs: www.bodybyselena.com www.selenawatkins.com www.socanomics.com

Jun 26, 201731 min

Episode 25: Advice to Writers + Behind the Scenes of How I Got a Double Book Deal After Self-Publishing

In this episode, Cara shares her publishing journey: how she went from being rejected by 19 publishers, to self-publishing all her own books, to ultimately landing a double book deal from Portfolio Books (an imprint of Penguin Random House). She shares, in detail, what her experience was like and gives listeners a behind the scenes look at her path. She also offers strategies and advice to writers and anyone who wants to publish their own book. Pre-order the new version of Girl Code here: https://www.amazon.com/Girl-Code-Unlocking-Happiness-Entrepreneur/dp/0525533087 Read more on the blog: http://caraalwill.com/10-years-ago-%e2%99%a5/ Seth Godin's blog referenced by Cara: http://sethgodin.typepad.com/seths_blog/2011/03/reject-the-tyranny-of-being-picked-pick-yourself.html

Jun 18, 201729 min

Episode 27: BABE CHAT with Caroline Birgmann on Branding, Self-Belief, Burnout, and the REAL Life of a Lady Boss

Caroline and I connected about a year and a half ago after noticing that she Instagrammed a VERY beautiful picture of my book, Girl Code. Turns out she was hosting a book club at Kate Spade in her hometown of Richmond, Virginia and Girl Code was her first pick. We connected immediately and after a nearly 2 hour phone call I KNEW that this girl was one of us. She is brilliant, beautiful, and bubbly. In this episode we talk a lot about personal branding, self-belief, burnout and the life of a lady boss. We'll dive into some of the biggest mistakes Caroline made in the beginning of her career and how she bounced back. If you're a female entrepreneur I think you're really gonna love this one! Connect with Caroline on Instagram: @TheCarolineDoll Visit her website to learn about Posh PR: www.poshpr.com Visit her blog: http://www.thecarolinedollblog.com/ Grab her Unicorn Guide to branding: http://www.poshpr.com/services-1/

Jun 18, 201737 min

Episode 26: BABE CHAT with Lauryn Evarts from The Skinny Confidential on Building Community, Creating Your Own Lane, and Cultivating a Killer Brand While Having Focus and Patience!

In this episode, Cara sits down with Lauryn Evarts from The Skinny Confidential for a powerful, raw, and inspiring conversation around building a killer brand, believing in yourself, failure, creating community, what its like to work with your spouse, and how to overcome comparison and jealousy. This chat is filled with SO many gems, you'll want to listen with a pen and paper and take notes! Lauryn's blog: www.TheSkinnyConfidential.com Snapchat: LaurynEvarts Podcast: The Skinny Confidential Instagram: @TheSkinnyConfidential

Jun 18, 201727 min

Episode 24: BABE CHAT with Sarah Ordo, Author of Sober As F*ck + Beauty/Lifestyle Blogger

In this episode, Cara sits down with Sarah Ordo, who recently published the new book Sober As F*ck, which chronicles her two-year journey getting sober and turning her life around. Sarah is also a YouTube personality and beauty and lifestyle blogger, and the two discuss the importance of self-reflection, self-care, and the fact that we can change at any time. Whether you're struggling with addiction, or just want to make some positive changes in your life, this episode is sure to inspire you. Read Sarah's blog here: http://soberaf.com/ Subscribe to her YouTube channel: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCCAi2Az5UwllbL5qwfOI3Xg Buy Sober As F*ck here: https://www.amazon.com/Sober-Year-Journey-Rediscovery-Self-ebook/dp/B072FQHG2X/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8&qid=1496494889&sr=8-1&keywords=sober+as+fuck+sarah

Jun 2, 201730 min

Episode 23: My SoulCycle Story + A Chat About Flowing Rather than Fighting and Honoring the Space You're In

In this episode, Cara talks about her 2-year journey with SoulCycle and how taking a break from riding opened up a whole new perspective on embracing the process, the magic of being a beginner, and why sometimes its more important to flow rather than fight and honor the space you are in (even when it's not where you want to be). If you've been feeling some resistance in any area of your life, this episode will help you feel more at ease with whatever changes you're going through. Read Cara's SoulCycle transformation story here: https://www.soul-cycle.com/community/soulwellness/soul-transformation-cara-alwill-leyba/2084/ Listen to Noa Shaw's podcast here: https://itunes.apple.com/us/podcast/im-here-to-help-the-podcast-with-noa-shaw/id1210178157?mt=2 Learn more about SoulCycle (and book a bike!) here: https://www.soul-cycle.com/

May 30, 201721 min

Episode 22: Manifesting, Visualizing & All That Jazz: How to REALLY Do It and Make It Work

In this episode, Cara breaks down the reality of manifesting and visualization techniques and shares how to actually make these tools work (hint: it takes WORK!). If you've ever felt confused, frustrated, or stuck when it comes to putting the Law of Attraction into play, then don't miss this episode. Happiness Board Tools: Cork board (if you're on a budget): https://www.amazon.com/Board-Dudes-Black-Framed-Cork/dp/B001G60IVS/ref=sr_1_5?ie=UTF8&qid=1495579878&sr=8-5&keywords=corkboard Cork board (if you're a little bougie): https://www.etsy.com/shop/ShugabeeLane?ref=l2-shop-info-name

May 23, 201721 min

Episode 21: BABE CHAT with Fashion Stylist Christie Ressel

In this episode, Cara talks to fashion stylist Christie Ressel about the connection between style and self-worth, how to solve the "I have nothing to wear!" problem, and why we should take more risks with our personal look. She also shares how she became a personal stylist and how she created her dream job (this girl is a boss!). Grab a glass of bubbly for this one and get ready to bust open your closet doors, this one is for the fashionistas! Find Christie at www.FashionTranslated.com On YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/fashiontranslated On Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/christieressel/

May 16, 201731 min

Episode 20: POWER CHAT: Finding Peace Through Releasing Expectations of Others

If you've ever found yourself frustrated with others because they don't think, work, live, or love the same way you do, then this power chat is a must-listen! In this mini episode, Cara talks about finding inner peace through releasing your expectations of others, and why sometimes the best thing we can do is accept people for who they are.

Apr 26, 201710 min

Episode 19: Dating and Relationship Advice with Melissa Leger from Gumball Love

Have you ever found yourself dating the wrong guy over and over again? Join Cara for a very special double episode featuring an intense discussion with Melissa Leger, writer and relationship expert and creator of "Gumball Love." We'll teach you how to identify your patterns when it comes to relationships, know the difference between true chemistry and toxic red flags, and how to empower yourself so that you never land in an unhealthy romance again. Be sure to listen to Part 1 and Part 2 of this POWERFUL episode ladies, and prepare to take notes! (Note: Part 2 begins shortly after Part 1, so stay on to catch it!) Find Melissa at http://gumballlove.com/ Follow Melissa on Instagram at @GumballLove Follow Melissa on Snapchat at @MelissaLeger1

Apr 26, 20171h 35m

Episode 18: Celebrate Every Day! The Champagne Diet Mantra

In this episode, Cara talks about her upcoming birthday and why it used to be a day filled with anxiety and expectations. After shifting her mindset ten years ago, she has since found reason to celebrate every day (especially birthdays!) and shares some of her most powerful stories and secrets around why celebration is truly one of her biggest keys to life. Warning: you may find yourself craving a glass of champagne during this show! Cheers!

Apr 21, 201713 min

Episode 17: How To Be a HAPPY BITCH with Author and Entrepreneur Keryl Pesce

In this episode, Cara sits down with entrepreneur, happiness expert, and author of HAPPY BITCH Keryl Pesce for a soulful and honest conversation about what happiness truly means, and how we can work to make it a part of our daily lives. After learning her husband was having an affair, she knew she could either stay angry and bitter, or heal herself and create the life of her dreams. This conversation will change the way you look at your own life and realize your own power. Get ready girls, it's a goooood one. Connect with Keryl here: www.kerylpesce.com Twitter and Instagram: @kerylpesce Facebook: Keryl Pesce https://www.facebook.com/keryl.pesce/ Buy her book HAPPY BITCH: https://www.amazon.com/Happy-Bitch-girlfriends-straight-up-fabulous/dp/0692544615/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8&qid=1492027883&sr=8-1&keywords=happy+bitch

Apr 15, 201735 min

Episode 16: POWER CHAT: Why You DON'T Want to be An Overnight Success - A Real and Raw Look at My Career Path and How Long it Takes to Build a Sustainable and Successful Business

In this episode, Cara shares an honest and vulnerable look back at her career path. She talks about how long it took to actually build her blog, life coaching practice, and become successful with her books, and offers advice to women who are feeling impatient about their business. If you're stuck obsessing over social media followers or comparing your success to others, then you don't want to miss this power chat.

Apr 4, 201714 min

Episode 15: BABE CHAT with Tish & Snooky of Manic Panic on Building a Candy Colored Fempire

In this episode, Cara talks to Tish and Snooky Bellomo, founders of Manic Panic, about the life-changing magic of hair color, why your passion will never fail you, and what it was like to launch the first punk rock store in America nearly 40 years ago. Since then, their fempire has been going strong thanks to a whole lot of hustle and a serious love for what they do. Grab a notebook for this one, these babes are dropping serious inspiration in this killer conversation! Learn more about Manic Panic here: www.ManicPanic.com Follow them on Instagram at @ManicPanicNYC

Mar 29, 201729 min

Episode 14: ASK ME ANYTHING: Advice to Young Entrepreneurs, How to Change Your Money Mindset, Tips on Creating a Gorgeous and Inspiring Home Environment

In this episode, Cara answers listener questions surrounding getting started as a young entrepreneur and advice to the "Under 21 club," tips on how to be happy when they money isn't there and how to shift your attitude around finances, advice on how to create a beautiful and inspiring home that supports your success, and how to stay driven and focused when you're feeling overwhelmed.

Mar 24, 201717 min

Episode 13: ASK ME ANYTHING: Self-Publishing, Staying Motivated, Getting it All Done, and Getting Clients as a Life Coach

In this episode, Cara answers listener questions around how she self-published her first book and gives advice to aspiring authors, how to stay motivated when you're having one of those days, how to design a successful daily routine, and how to get clients when you first launch a business.

Mar 22, 201725 min

Episode 12: Mindfulness, Music, and Spirituality with Noa Shaw of SoulCycle

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"Sometimes the greatest adventure is simply a conversation." - Amadeus Wolfe. In this episode, Cara sits down with Noa Shaw of SoulCycle and discusses everything from their shared passion for music, helping others, the importance of gratitude, their lowest lows, how he builds a SoulCycle playlist, and more. Don't miss this very special raw and inspiring conversation and be sure to catch the first half of their chat on Noa's podcast, "I'm Here to Help" (also available on iTunes). Connect with Noa on Instagram at @NoaShaw Catch a SoulCycle class with Noa: https://www.soul-cycle.com/instructors/191/noa/ Follow his podcast: https://itunes.apple.com/us/podcast/im-here-to-help-the-podcast-with-noa-shaw/id1210178157?mt=2

Mar 21, 201755 min