Blazy B

You can love your friends, hype your friends… and still feel weird when they hang out without you. Let’s talk about it. This week on Blazy B, we’re unpacking FOMO, friend group dynamics, and why your friends having other friendships isn’t a threat—it’s actually a good thing. Relax. It’s not that deep. Let your friends have friends.

What if instead of feeling jealous or left out, you became your friends’ biggest fan? In this episode of Blazy B, we’re talking about the power of surrounding yourself with people who are thriving—and choosing to celebrate them instead of competing. From travel to everyday wins, this is your reminder that empowered people empower people… and that energy is contagious.

Peace Corps friends, a frozen lake in Connecticut, a weekend-long assassin game, and a polar plunge through ice. Just another reunion with the homies. In this episode of Blazy B, I talk about the magic of keeping traditions alive, playing like kids again, and why doing things with your friends matters.

Dearest Gentle Reader, What a season that was! Benedict is such a cutie and deserved love! I absolutely love Bridgerton, how it builds so many stories and moments, and gives you the ending you're hoping for. The actors do such an incredible job conveying their emotions, it's such a beautiful thing. Are you a Bridgerton fan?

For someone who loves to explore higher frequencies and feel everything the universe has to offer, this trip hit me hard. I always thought a bad trip was just negative thoughts that got the best of you, but this was different. My thoughts were going. My throat was closing. And I basically accepted my death. Has anyone ever had an interesting experience on psychedelics that they want to share?? #psychedelic #fungi #mushrooms

Have you ever picked up an art gig from an Instagram story?? And then find out you're building dupe Amazon missiles?! And then get to see a statue of Sexy Squidward?! Well it's pretty dope. Take a listen for the full experience!

I just moved back to the PNW and I was really excited to actually date, but turns out, it's not that fun. In this episode we have a roast of the first guy I went on a date with followed by a toast to a man I met naturally.

I've been in Illinois, from Macomb to Effingham, for four years, and now it's time for a new adventure! In this time of packing and reorganizing my life for the drive home, I get to reflect on my time and everything I've accomplished. Feels great to have met wonderful people and had so many cool experiences and interactions!

How often do you use ChatGPT? And for what? I love my girl Chatty! She's been helpful and useful in so many things. From cover letter writing to planning international trips to helping read my tarot cards, she's been a huge help! Can we please just make AI better on the environment? That would be very helpful.

Have you ever thought to romanticize your life? All you have to do is shift your perspective to find beauty and joy in everyday moments, making ordinary experiences feel special and meaningful.

Where my Electric Forest people at?! What an incredible festival with so much creativity, mystery, and magic! Where else do you find a Dream Emporium full of rooms that make you forget where you are? Soooooo will I see you next year?

Are you aware of your facial reactions, whether good or bad? Have you caught yourself being disgusted by something in public? Sometimes our reactions just come out, but I think we could all be a little more gracious when reacting. Take a moment, process, and react. Watch your face.

How did I become a baker/pasty chef at a cafe without any formal training? Great question! I guess it's in my blood- the skills AND the sugar. :) I have a big sweet tooth and baking is my way of satisfying those cravings and treating others along the way!

A true friend supports your growth, respects your boundaries, shows up (emotionally and physically), celebrates your wins without competition, and accepts you even when you're not the best. I struggle with friendships, whether it be communicating or trying to get out of something because I actually just don't want to go but don't want to upset anyone. You know... the usual stuff. But we all have these challenges in our relationships, whether meeting new people or keeping up contact with current relationships. Any advice??

During Peace Corps, there were a few strikes, huelgas in Spanish, that occurred. All types of people went on strike for all types of reasons, and when the people spoke, the lawmakers listened. Change would happen. But this is a story about how one strike caused a 9 hour bus stop.

I listened to the audiobook of The Subtle Art of Not Giving a F*ck by Mark Manson and it felt like a friend was giving me life advice that I actually wanted. Someone to tell me to live life for me and choose happiness but know it's not always easy. I highly recommend this book if you're looking for a raw self-help book that empowers you to truly live. 10/10

In this episode of the Blazy B Podcast, I sit down with Wells Jones, one of the brilliant minds behind A Line in the Sand. We dive deep into the inspiration behind his gripping novel, unpacking the powerful themes, complex characters, and the raw emotions that make this book a must-read. Talking with Wells gave me insight into the Middle East through his adventure, the history unfolding before them during their journey, and so much more. Check it out!

As a reader of smut and lover of romcoms, I have the most extravagant expectations for romance. But does it actually happen in real life? Maybe my smut fantasies are actually coming true?! Yew! That's what I said, I said, "Yew!"

Have you ever wanted to travel internationally? DO IT!!!! Save up your money, get a passport, and go explore! There is so much to experience in the world; different cultures, foods, and lifestyles. We're all just humans on a journey through life, no matter where we live. Take a trip and experience life through a different lens. You might learn a thing or two.

After graduating with my Master's, I hit the road for some adventure and quality time with myself. My audio books, thoughts, and myself spent many of hours on the road soaking in the surrounding scenery. From HipCamps to friends' houses to my tent, I was always surrounded by wonderful nature and people. I highly recommend hitting the road and taking a drive to wherever feels right. It's an experience you'll never forget.

Life is constantly happening around us and we're always trying to find our place in the world through opportunities and relationships. From Nebraska to Seattle to Costa Rica to Illinois, I love having to start fresh in each place. The challenge of meeting new people and integrating into communities gives me life! Now to figure out the next move...

Weddings are a time of joy and love and connecting with friends and family. They're also a great time to meet single friends of friends that are interested in a cozy yet eventful evening. This was one such time, and it was fun, until it wasn't. I arrived excited for fun and I left feeling tense af, bruised, and hollow. How could something like this happen to me? How did I let this happen? What the actual f**k just happened to me? These were all the questions rattling in my typically quiet mind.

Nashville is always a fun time, but add a bachelorette party to it and it gets exponentially more fun!! From the pedal pub to spinning the wheel to dancing in the streets, it was quite the 24 hour trip!

King Gizzard and the Lizard Wizard America Tour 2024 has been incredible!! The Sundkids hit Gizztember hard starting with Chicago then STL then the Gorge!! Pumped for the Arkansas show in November. With their musical talent, incredible repertoire, high energy vibes, and awesome weirdo swarm fans, I wish I could see them over and over and over again. Every show I left in awe and full of inspiration! Thank you KGLW!

Semuc Champey is a hidden gem within the jungle of Guatemala. Our excellent tour guide, jungle boy, took us on an adventure through the bat caves, tubing down the river, jumping off a 10 m high rock, hiking to see the overlook, and more. It's quite the long bus ride, but it was totally worth it!

Night bus to Flores was a dream, and Tikal was incredible. Pyramids already blow my mind, but to hear the sound of a Quetzal when you clap in front of the largest pyramid is insane!!

Hiking Volcan Acatenango near Antigua in Guatemala is quite the experience. Was it worth it? Absolutely. Was it rough? Definitely. Would I do it again? Nope. I highly recommend it to anyone seeking adventure and a challenge!

Coffee is such an interesting and beautiful plants that most people living in the USA have never had the pleasure of seeing or smelling. The flowers have the more delicious scent when they're in bloom! Take a listen to hear about how we end up with delicious roasted beans from this amazing plant! #coffee #coffeeplant #coffeeprocessing #costarica #costaricancoffee #puravida #zonasur

Ya, festivals are about music, but the outfits are what really matter! They set the tone for the entire day. Head to toe. Hair that's cute and done but up and out of your face. An outfit that says a bit about who you are, where you're at, and what type of waves you're riding. New festie, new fit.

The full moon is a great time to look up into the sky and set an intention. Full moon energy is powerful and healing. Sit down, meditate, and give thanks.

How accurate do you think astrology is? What's your sign? I love reading horoscopes and looking at my chart and I do think the overarching themes are accurate. But are they so vague so that your mind forms ways to connect with bits and pieces? Let's dive into a few of my signs!

Ever wanted to try cannabis or just learn the lingo? Here's a little intro video to cannabis aka the electric lettuce. Just remember... don't Bogart that joint.

Be honest, do you sweat in all the wrong places? Lower back, soaking your hair, through your shirt, down from you butt cheeks to the back of your knees, and of course lovely armpits. I've had to adapt to my surroundings based on sweat level.

Does anyone else match the general vibe of other people? Customer service people I'm looking at you. It's hard to be at the front of a coffee shop being a chameleon to everyone's vibes and energies. I start off strong and it's up to you, the customer, to respond. It's a ping pong match of conversational energy. Throw in a grump or an accent and I'm all over the place.

Have you ever had Chiropractic work done? Oof it's amazing! A little snap, crackle, and pop can make a huge difference. Highly recommend!

I love to sleep, alot. With four pillows, a nightguard, and an eye mask, I'm ready to drift into the abyss. But why don't I dream? Why do I twirl all night long? What the heck am I doing in my sleep?

Learning another language brings on a mix of emotions. From frustration and confusion to joy and the sense of accomplishment you feel when you get to talk to someone in their home language. So special!

Do you have a go to karaoke song? Have any recommendations for a lower female voice? I sure love to sing, but I'm not sure if I've found my most epic song choice. For now, it's all about the climb.

Studying abroad was incredible! Who else gets to go to the Running of the Bulls on their 21st birthday!? A little Spanish and a lot of kalimotxo (red wine and coca-cola) will get you just about anywhere. Just remember to bring a little extra toilet paper....

As a woman, I feel like I'm still learning more about my body. We don't talk about periods, bodily functions, birth, and so much more. We shouldn't have to go into these experiences blind. Our bodies do incredible things and are made up of pure magic. That's something to be proud of!

Calling all swimmers!! Please tell me you also pee in the pool... You may not want to, but your body knows the drill. And to master a flip turn pee....what an accomplishment! Swimmers are cool and weird, and I'm proud to have been one.

Lifeguard skills came in handy this week. Not only did I have to worry about slinging espresso shots, but also about saving customer lives. Stay safe people!

Dad was out of town so Aunt Brittany stepped in to help. I had a window into motherhood and I'm shook. All you parents deserve a nap!

Dating in your 30's is weird. You're sick of dating apps and all you want is for Prince Charming to show up on your doorstep. Is that too much to ask for?

Peace Corps Costa Rica was an incredible time in my life. I especially learned that there is no kleenex and blowing your nose isn't really a thing. Blowing up the bathroom is buttttt you don't comment on it. I feel like the whole community heard me blow my nose....

Headed down to Cabo for a Bachelorette trip last year. It was EPIC! We met some Canadians dude that weren't into my looks, but I won them over by quoting my faves, Letterkenny and Shoresy. We danced, we ate, I sweat, and we repeated.