Better Together with Ntombi M

Growing up, did being a first born daughter frustrate you, why?

Anonymous, who doesn't have a good relationship with her mother, receives guidance from Mme. Claudine. 

Given the opportunity, would you disown your parents, have youconsidered it?

The Mpumalanga Tourism and Parks Agency invites tourists to explore the province, known as “the place of the rising sun”, highlighting its breathtaking natural scenery, rich wildlife, diverseculture, and adventure opportunities. Key attractions promoted by the agency include the Kruger National Park and the Panorama Route. We get more from Mr Simphiwe Shungube, Mpumalanga Tourism and Parks Agency - Senior Manager: Corporate Communications.

We unpack Compulsive Buying Disorder with Counseling Psychologist Calynn Walker.Compulsive Buying Disorder is a pattern of excessive, uncontrollable, and repetitive shopping for unneeded items. With the festive season upon us many will go on shopping spreesand Calynn helps us unpack the complexities of compulsive buying disorder and shares important tips so that you do not overspend.

The official launch of the Zenazi - Circle of Hope and handover of maternity bags to less privileged mothers and their newborns will take place on Thursday, the 18th of December at St BarnabasHospital in the Eastern Cape. The initiative will donate post-natal bags to rural and impoverishedwomen…consisting of baby clothing, nappies, medical and comfort supplies required to provide newborns and mothers with the essentials necessary to assist in the post-natal journey and to createa cushion of comfort and dignity. We get more from the driving force behind this initiative NathiNdamase, who is a member of the Ngqubusini Royal House of amaMpondo; in the Eastern Cape.

Sakhisizwe Digital Education is a non-profit organization founded in 2023 in Lady Frere (Emalahleni Municipality), Eastern Cape. Its mission is to bridge the digital and educational divide in ruralcommunities by integrating technology, innovation, and literacy development into schools and community learning spaces. We chat to Siyasanga Ntoto, Public Representative Officer atSakhisizwe Digital Education.

Koko Mamabolo gives a reading to Nonhlanhla.

Zunaid Olivier, a legal expert, joins us to offer anonymous divorce guidance on jointly owned property.

Mgabe Magabaza offers guidance to anonymous who is coping with overbearing parents in her adult life.

Legal expert Given Sithole joins us to give anonymous advice regarding employer refusing family responsibility leave.

Which version of yourself do you see when you look in the mirror?

 According to the United Nations Office on Drugs and Crime data, South African women are targeted and attacked in digital spaces, with 95% of online aggressive behaviour and abusive language directed at women and girls. As the country commemorates 16 Days of Activism Against Gender-Based Violence, UN Women sounds the alarm on the escalating digital violence that threatens to derail progress on gender equality across the world. From cyberstalking and harassment to non-consensual image sharing and AI-generated deepfakes, women face mounting threatsonline. We chat to Aletta Miller

Anonymous is having problems in his relationship since the kids are misbehaving and he is a stepfather.

How are you navigating raising teenage children, what tips can yougive parents who are struggling?

We’re joined by Zinzi Zungu, Co-Founder of Star Quality Arts College, a trailblazing institution shaping the future of South Africa’s creative industry.

We’re joined by Ms Jodi Scholtz, Commissioner for the National Lotteries Commission.

We are discussing severing ties with people in your life.

Joining us today is Ms. Tintswalo Nkuna, Executive Manager for Regulatory Compliance at the National Lotteries Commission. The NLC holds a vital responsibility in ensuring that lotteries are conducted fairly and that the public is shielded from harmful practices. In our discussion,we’ll delve into the Commission’s regulatory mandate, examine the steps being taken to curb the spread of illegal lotteries, and address its stance on the growing challenges of gambling addiction and the rapid rise of online betting."

We’re joined by the Acting Chief Operating Officer of the National Lotteries Commission, Mr. Mzwanele Ngubane. Our conversation will focus on how the NLC grant funding process works, the reasons behind introducing an online Grant Management System, and how the Commission has responded to feedback from applicants

We chat to Ntombi Nkonka the founder of the organization HER VOICE. 

We chat to journalists Nonhlanhla Ntshingila and Refilwe Mekoa about the purple march is nationwide shutdown organized by Women For Change, a non-profit activist group, the march is set to take place today. This event coincides with the G20 Summit in Johannesburg and aims to raise awareness about gender-based violence and femicide in the country.

Clinical Psychologist Dr Keitumetse Mashego joins us to share tipson how we can prioritize mental health during the holidays.

We converse with Paula and honor her daughter. She lost both of her ovaries as a result of her battle with cystic teratoma. The 27-year-old is both a therapist and a talented musician.

Mkhulu Manzolwandle joins us to give expert advice regarding consequences that come with marryingin the same surname line.

What's the most bizarre thing you've heard while eavesdropping?

FETSI Impact Hub NPC is a South African social enterprise that aims to bridge the digital divide by providing underserved youth with access to technology and digital skills. It focuses on areas like digital inclusion, AI awareness, data literacy, and tech career development, and hosts events like the FETSI Digital Futures Summit to connect young professionals and aspiring tech leaders with industry experts and opportunities. We chat to Founder, Boitumelo Makgoba

Anonymous, who is suffering with an insecure partner who is accusing him of cheating, receives help from Mme Claudine.

What is the one thing your partner has wrongfully accused you of,what sparked the suspicions and how did you prove yourinnocence?

Koko Mamabolo gives a reading to Rini.

After verbally and emotionally abusing her ex-boyfriend, Anonymous wants to apologize to him.

The younger generation is complaining that we don’t cook anymore. Why did you stop? When was the last time you prepared a 7 colours Sunday meal?

Dr. Shikar Mothilal, a renowned Specialist Physician takes us through some of the causes of diabetes. November marks Diabetes Awareness Month with World Diabetes Day being on the 14th of this month 

Award-winning journalist and film enthusiast Lelo Mzaca authored ACTION! A Celebration of South African Cinema, a vibrant and authoritative review of the nation’s most compelling films. Published independently, the book which examines 40 landmark films offers an insider’s journey through South Africa’s cinematic landscape, blending sharp critique, cultural context and personal passion.

How self-aware are you?

We discuss legal options regarding gaining access to your child with legal expert Kholofelo Mashitisho.

Mxolisi expresses his gratitude and devotion for his wife, Ntombifuthi.

How did your lobola negotiations go – were they smooth sailing ordid you encounter challenges, what happened?

Fepa Moagisane (Feed your neighbor) is an NPO in Randfontein aimed at serving empowering affected by poverty and inequality. We chat to Founder Boitumelo Billy.

Relationship therapist Mgabe Magabaza offers guidance to anonymous who wants to be involved in his child's life but is not ready to have children.

Were you financially prepared when you had your children? Howdid you cope?

Mkhulu Manzolwandle gives a Mediumship to Kamo.

Anonymous expresses regret to his spouse for his infidelity.

With Top Billing returning to our screens, what other TV showswould you like to see make a comeback and why?

Today we look at how AI chat tools affect mental health and unpack whether relying too much on AI for emotional support may be a sign of underlying mental health concerns.We get more from Counselling Psychologist Calynn Walker.

Calvin Kamogelo Mogajane suffered from glaucoma as a child that resulted into him becoming blind.He’s published four books with his latest offering The Untold Stories of the Beautiful Church, set to be released this month. His latest book is about the role of churches in society.

What are your thoughts on married people borrowing money fromsingle people?

Legal expert, Zunaid Olivier lets us in on whether a letter from atraditional doctor counts as a valid medical certificate according tothe South African law.

Bheki wishes a happy birthday to his wife, Lindiwe.

What are some destructive habits that are delaying your progress in life…or those that have at some stage delayed your progress?