Becoming Something with Jonathan Pokluda

<p>Our world is quick to take sides and call names, all the while without actually taking time to listen. In this episode we talk about the term "gaslighting" and how we see it take place in our culture. We also discuss how Christians can respond differently to areas of disagreement.</p>

<p>Shane and Shane!!! We're joined by two legends who talk with us about how they got into leading worship, the meaning of their new album, and why Shane and Shane sing Scripture. Check out their new album, "Psalms, Hymns, and Spiritual Songs" wherever you listen to music!</p>

<p>The workplace is a very different place than it used to be just a decade ago. Working from home and casual workspaces are far more prevalent than ever. In this episode we talk about why professionalism still matters, even in different working environments. JP talks through why professionalism can honor God and love others well. If you have a job, or ever plan to have a job, check out this episode!</p>

<p>In this episode we promise to help make your wedding the most EPIC and INSTAGRAMABLE wedding of the year! <a href="http://Ok...maybe" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">Ok...maybe</a> not. But we do try to help you prepare a wedding that will honor God and encourage those around you. We talk everything from budget, to invite list, to what we'd do over for our own weddings. Before you say "I do", check out this episode!</p>

<p>Breakups are never fun, but we are here to try to make it easier on everyone. In this episode we talk about what you need to say during a breakup, and how to know when you should or shouldn't get back together with your ex. This episode will help you when you need it most!</p>

<p>Are we playing harps on a cloud? Will there be golf? Is Heaven in outer space? We talk about all these questions and more on this episode as we discuss what Heaven will be like!</p>

<p>Sometimes you just feel like you've hit a wall when it comes to school, your job, or even a relationship. In this episode, JP talks about how to prevent burnout, and what to do if you're experiencing it. Check out this episode for some fresh perspective on why you do what you do!</p>

<p>In this episode we are joined by special guest to discuss how to follow Jesus in the workplace. John Houston has used his work as a homebuilder as a ministry. We talk about what it looks like to be used by God no matter your choice of career. As Christians we're all in ministry, it just depends on where we do it!</p>

<p>In this episode we discuss the role that fun has in our relationship with Jesus. Many of us have grown up thinking that following Jesus will actually keep us from fun. All we know is a list of rules that tell us to not drink, smoke, or have sex. Is there more to Christianity than that? Check out this episode as we talk about whether living with Jesus makes our life more fun.</p>

<p>In this episode we talk about why we need to be talking about Jesus. For many of us, we feel uncomfortable about sharing our faith and don't even know where to begin. JP gives us step by step instructions on how to ask about faith, how to share your faith, and what to do when it doesn't go well.</p>

<p>Have you ever heard the phrase, "Pride comes before the fall"? Well, it's true! (And biblical: Proverbs 16:18). In this episode we talk about the dangers of pride and how to catch it before it overtakes you. We also discuss how to have humility and why it makes you (and everyone around you!) better.</p>

<p>In this episode we talk with Debra Fileta, who is a licensed professional counselor, about struggling with mental health as a follower of Jesus. We discuss things like how to know when you need help, and steps you can take to find healing. If you or someone you knows struggles with mental health, this episode will be a helpful resource for you!</p>

<p>We all know the commandment "Honor Your Father and Mother", but does that ever expire? What does it look like to honor your parents when you step into adulthood? What if you have really difficult parents? We cover all of that and more on this episode. (And with a surprise appearance from contest winner, Briggs Webster!)</p>

<p>If you're in community with other believers, you'll often be asked to give advice on what to do in a certain situation. In this episode we talk about what it takes to be able to give wise, biblical counsel to those in your life. If you want to grow as a friend, make sure to listen to this episode!</p>

<p>Who goes to Heaven? It's one of the most important questions you'll ever ask! In this episode we talk about how we are saved, and how we can have assurance in our salvation. This podcast is one you'll want to share!</p>

<p>Nate is about to be a Dad and asks JP for some help! So in this episode JP talks about how parenting has helped him understand the love of his Heavenly Father. JP also gives a realistic picture of parenting and why it helps make us more like Jesus. If you are a parent, want to be a parent, or even don't want to be a parent, check out this episode!</p>

<p>What is the line between justice and grace? Is cancel culture biblical? What does reconciliation look like with someone who has hurt you? We talk about those questions and more on this episode!</p>

<p>In this episode we talk about what grit means, and why so many young adults don't have it. Grit is the key to growth in any area of you life. Because of this, we want you to have a gritty faith! To figure out how to have grit, check out this episode!</p>

<p>Food can be such an enjoyable part of life, but that isn't everyone's experience. Some people struggle with eating too much, while others struggle with eating too little. In this episode we talk about things like eating disorders and what it means to glorify God when we eat.</p>

<p>In this episode we talk with author and podcast host, Kait Warman, on how to handle a breakup. When can breakups be good for you? How do you know you are over your ex? We talk about all of that and more on this episode!</p>

<p>Being a young adult can feel like a fragile season of life. When things don't go our way, we are prone to believe lies about our identity and our purpose. In this episode we are joined by Paul Angone who will speak some truth into the lives of young adults.<br><br>If you want to buy his book "25 Lies Twentysomethings Need to Stop Believing" click here: <a href="https://www.amazon.com/Lies-Twentysomethings-Need-Stop-Believing/dp/1540900703" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">https://www.amazon.com/Lies-Twentysomethings-Need-Stop-Believing/dp/1540900703</a></p>

<p>When JP announced the release of his book "Outdated" he also announced an "arranged marriage" contest. We talk about what that means and why community is so necessary in dating relationships. If you're looking to re-thinking dating, check out this episode!</p>

<p>Outdated releases on March 2nd, and in this episode JP gives us some of the best secrets that he's learned on dating. After being in ministry for over a decade and observing thousands of relationships, JP shares biblical advice on how to date better. If you want to hear a few sneak peaks from his book, check out this episode!<br><br>Order Outdated on Amazon here: <a href="https://www.amazon.com/Outdated-Find-Lasts-Dating-Changed/dp/080109495X" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">https://www.amazon.com/Outdated-Find-Lasts-Dating-Changed/dp/080109495X</a></p>

<p>Should Christians try online dating? What are the pros and cons to all of the new apps available for dating? We talk about that and more on this episode!<br><br>Buy JP's book "Outdated" here: <a href="https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/080109495X?pf_rd_r=TZAC33T3Z9REFM14GTF9&pf_rd_p=5ae2c7f8-e0c6-4f35-9071-dc3240e894a8&pd_rd_r=b558e5cf-f579-463e-82ec-157e08073057&pd_rd_w=dBPsa&pd_rd_wg=IoAOj&ref_=pd_gw_unk" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/080109495X?pf_rd_r=TZAC33T3Z9REFM14GTF9&pf_rd_p=5ae2c7f8-e0c6-4f35-9071-dc3240e894a8&pd_rd_r=b558e5cf-f579-463e-82ec-157e08073057&pd_rd_w=dBPsa&pd_rd_wg=IoAOj&ref_=pd_gw_unk</a></p>

<p>How can you know when you're ready to date? You may be coming off of a breakup or out of a season of singleness and wondering when you are ready. We're here to help! JP gives you 5 questions to ask yourself to know when you're ready to date again.<br><br>Buy JP's book "Outdated" here: <a href="https://www.amazon.com/Outdated-Find-Lasts-Dating-Changed/dp/080109495X/ref=sr_1_2?crid=HQFW5ZYY102V&dchild=1&keywords=outdated+jonathan+pokluda&qid=1613070052&sprefix=outdated%2Caps%2C190&sr=8-2" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">https://www.amazon.com/Outdated-Find-Lasts-Dating-Changed/dp/080109495X/ref=sr_1_2?crid=HQFW5ZYY102V&dchild=1&keywords=outdated+jonathan+pokluda&qid=1613070052&sprefix=outdated%2Caps%2C190&sr=8-2</a></p>

<p>Are you stuck in sin? If not you, surely someone you know who is. John Elmore leads one of the largest recovery ministries in the nation and he drops some WISDOM on this podcast! If you're looking for freedom, John will help lead you to the place where you can find it.<br><br>Buy his book "Freedom Starts Today" here: <a href="https://www.amazon.com/Freedom-Starts-Today-Overcoming-Addictions/dp/1540900622" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">https://www.amazon.com/Freedom-Starts-Today-Overcoming-Addictions/dp/1540900622</a></p>

<p>We frequently get e-mails from listeners about the topic of video games. Oftentimes, it's girlfriends asking if their boyfriend plays too much. In this episode we talk about if video games are ok to play, and some ideas with how to spend your time more wisely!</p>

<p>Modesty is a word that is often thrown around in church, but a lot of us don't know what it means or why it matters. In this episode we talk about the meaning of modesty and what it looks like for us today.</p>

<p>When it feels like everyone else is dating, it can be difficult to remain content when you are single. In this episode we talk about what to do when you don't enjoy being single, but are. If singleness (or the idea of it) is difficult for you, check out this episode!</p>

<p>How much stuff is too much? How do I know if I struggle with materialism? What are the dangers of materialism? We cover those questions and more on this week's episode!</p>

<p>We are SURE that none of you accomplished your resolutions for 2020. With that crazy year behind us, we're excited for what's in store for 2021. In this episode we talk about our resolutions for this year and what yours should be!</p>

<p>In dating, you're trying to find "the one". This magical person that you were destined to marry since they moment you were born. In this episode we talk about that idea, and if it lines up with Scripture. If you're looking for a husband/wife, we want to help you!</p>

<p>This week we talk about the topic of Spiritual Gifts. Does everyone have them? What are they? How do we use them? We tackle those questions and more on this episode!</p>

<p>On JP's Friday Q&A on Instagram, one of the most frequent questions he's been getting is how to break a soul tie. We use this episode to go more in depth on this topic and discuss if it's even a real thing. We'll also help you know the steps to take to recover from a past relationship.</p>

<p>In this episode we talk to a podcast superstar! Tara-Leigh Cobble has helped thousands of people fall in love with the Bible, and she has released a book called "The Bible Recap" to help you do the same. If you want to grow in your understanding and appreciation of Scripture, this podcast is for you!</p>

<p>Long distance isn't fun, but sometimes it's necessary in a relationship. In this episode we talk about how to grow your relationship even when you're not together. We also discuss potential dangers of long distance, and how to wrestle through not trusting your boyfriend/girlfriend. If you're in a long distance relationship (or might be!) this episode is for you!</p>

<p>What role does our faith play in our own mental health? Does struggling with mental health mean you're not a "good Christian"? We tackle these topics and more on this episode!</p>

<p>In a culture of comparison it's easy to struggle with insecurity. It can seem like everyone is more talented, has more friends, and has more fun. But in this podcast we give you tools to help you fight this battle and find freedom from insecurity!</p>

<p>Many of us struggle finding time to pray, staying attentive in prayer, and even knowing what to say when we pray. We talk about all of that and more in this episode. If you want to grow in your prayer life check this episode out!</p>

<p>Ken Costa, in the words of JP, might be the most successful person you'll ever listen to. He's done a tremendous amount in the business world, but has also chosen to invest much of his life into ministry. Check out this episode to hear how he and JP met (there were tears involved!), and what Ken is learning about the future of the Church.<br><br>Download Glorify app here: <a href="https://apps.apple.com/us/app/glorify-daily-worship/id1490587079" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">https://apps.apple.com/us/app/glorify-daily-worship/id1490587079</a></p>

<p>Some Christians are having a hard time this year figuring out which candidate should get their vote. In this episode JP and Nate discuss some of the hot button issues and attempt to give you a framework for how you should think about voting. Before you vote, check out this episode!</p>

<p>Is it ok to be just friends with the opposite sex? Should you hang out 1 on 1 with someone who isn't your girlfriend/boyfriend? Those questions and more on this episode of Becoming Something!</p>

<p>We all have goals and aspirations in life, but what should be our most important one? In this episode, JP breaks down why our highest aspiration in life should be to be holy. Find out why by taking a listen!</p>

<p>As Christians we know that the Holy Spirit is supposed to be important, but what does He really do? Does the Holy Spirit only help with things like miracles and speaking in tongues, or can we access Him on a daily basis as well? If you've ever wondered these questions, this episode is for you!</p>

<p>In this episode we talk with influencer Jeanine Amapola. She gives us the Christian perspective of how to follow Jesus, while also trying to influence people. Jeanine shares that she's found that joy comes from Jesus, not from everything this world has to offer. Check out this episode to hear her story!</p>

<p>Young adults were lonely. And that was before 2020 happened! What can young adults do when they feel stuck in a season of loneliness. Listen to this episode to find out!</p>

<p>To drink, or not to drink? In this episode we break down when Christians can and cannot drink. If you've got questions about alcohol, this podcast is for you!</p>

<p>Our country is as divided as we've ever seen it. In such a hostile culture, what can Christians do to pursue unity? In this episode we talk about our role as peace makers and how to confront conflict head on!</p>

<p>When you're trying to follow God before marriage it can feel like He is keeping you from something. In this episode we talk physical boundaries: what they are and why God made them. If you're single, dating, or engaged, this episode is for you!</p>

<p>Kathy is officially on maternity leave, so JP and Nate start their nationwide search to find her replacement. They interview people from Canada, to New York, to Michigan. See how the search played out!</p>