Awesome Marriage Podcast

This is an instant classic awesome marriage podcast that aired last year, we wanted to highlight it again because it's such an important topic. Deb is an author, a speaker, and relationship coach—helping others improve their interactions at work and at home. Deb runs her ministry at Deb DeArmond/Family Matters. Ron has co authored several books with Deb. The DeArmond's are marriage experts and high school sweethearts. Deb & Ron join Dr. Kim as they talk about how to not let anger fester. Anger when left to fester can destroy a marriage, Deb & Ron share advice on how to deal with anger in marriage in a healthy way. They share stories from their own marriages and practical advice on how to move past anger in marriage. Tune in below to learn more about how not let anger corrupt your marriage! RESOURCES You can purchase Deb's new book: Don't Go To Bed Angry here. Another great resource from Deb is her book I Choose You Today which you can purchase here. You can read more great insights from Deb on her website. You can also follow her on Twitter and Facebook. To learn more about the best ways to move past anger and resolve conflict in your marriage, check out Dr. Kim's Conflict Resolution Course.

A lot of times in marriage we place unrealistic expectations on our spouse. This week we are going to be talking about that issue. We will be discussing 3 things your spouse can't be for you. Dr. Kim and Christina discuss the 1st thing today: your savior. Tune in to learn more about why your spouse can't be this for you.

A lot of times in marriage we place unrealistic expectations on our spouse. This week we are going to be talking about that issue. We will be discussing 3 things your spouse can't be for you. Dr. Kim and Christina discuss the 1st thing today: a person you get to mold into what you want. Tune in to learn more about why your spouse can't be this for you. Be sure to tune in tomorrow as well to learn the 3rd thing your spouse can't be for you!

A lot of times in marriage we place unrealistic expectations on our spouse. This week we are going to be talking about that issue. We will be discussing 3 things your spouse can't be for you. Dr. Kim and Christina discuss the 1st thing today: your ultimate happiness. Tune in to learn more about why your spouse can't be this for you. Be sure to tune in tomorrow as well to learn the 2nd thing your spouse can't be for you!

Preparing for marriage is a big step that you don't want to miss. A lot of couples get caught up in preparing the wedding that they forget to prepare for an awesome marriage. Today on the podcast Dr. Kim, Nils, and Christina share the "don'ts" of preparing for marriage. They share real life stories about what they wish they hadn't done and practical advice on what to avoid as you prepare for marriage. Tune in to learn more about how to prepare well for marriage!

This is an Ask Dr. Kim segment on the Awesome Marriage Podcast. People submit their questions about love, relationships, and marriage to Dr. Kim and he answers them. In this episode Dr. Kim answers the question: Should I have lunch with someone of the opposite sex that isn't my spouse? Tune in to find out!

Preparing for marriage is one of the most important things you will ever do. Today on the podcast Dr. Kim, Nils, and Christina share the "do's" of preparing for marriage. They share practical advice on what to do as you prepare for the big day and the even bigger days after the big day. Tune in to learn more about how to prepare well for marriage!

Today on the podcast we welcome back special guests Craig & Rachel Denison. Craig and Rachel Denison are a husband and wife team. Together they created First15, a fifteen minute devotional that leads you into a fresh encounter with God's presence every day through worship, a devotional thought and guided prayer. Craig & Rachel join Dr. Kim today as they talk about their devotional and the importance of taking time to spend with God each day. They share practical advice on what it can look like to spend time with God and how to hear from God. Tune in below to learn more! RESOURCES You can read more great insights from the Denison's on their blog. You can also follow them on Twitter and Facebook. You can download the First15 app for free by searching First15 in the Apple App store or GooglePlay.

Today on the podcast we have special guests Craig & Rachel Denison. Craig and Rachel Denison are a husband and wife team. Together they created First15, a fifteen minute devotional that leads you into a fresh encounter with God's presence every day through worship, a devotional thought and guided prayer. Craig & Rachel join Dr. Kim today as they talk about one habit that often leads to divorce: withholding forgiveness. They break down the importance of forgiveness and how to make sure you have a grace-filled marriage full of healing and renewal. Tune in below to learn more! RESOURCES You can read more great insights from the Denison's on their blog. You can also follow them on Twitter and Facebook. You can download the First15 app for free by searching First15 in the Apple App store or GooglePlay.

This week we will be discussing 3 decisions you should always consult your spouse about. Dr. Kim and Christina discuss the 3rd decision today: trips and plans. Tune in to learn more about the importance of including your spouse in these decisions and how to make them together in unity!

This week we will be discussing 3 decisions you should always consult your spouse about. Dr. Kim and Christina discuss the 2nd decision today: major money decisions. Tune in to learn more about the importance of including your spouse in these decisions and how to make them together in unity. Be sure to tune in tomorrow as well to learn the 3rd decision to always consult your spouse about!

This week we will be discussing 3 decisions you should always consult your spouse about. Dr. Kim and Christina discuss the 1st decision today: job decisions. Tune in to learn more about the importance of including your spouse in these decisions and how to make them together in unity. Be sure to tune in tomorrow as well to learn the 2nd decision to always consult your spouse about!

This month at Awesome Marriage we are talking about habits that lead to divorce. Each week we will be covering one habit that can often lead to divorce and how to avoid it in your own marriage. Today on the podcast Dr. Kim, Nils, and Christina discuss the habit of: separate things. Whether it's separate bank accounts, beds, or lives there is no place for certain "separates" in a marriage. Tune in to learn more about this habit and how to avoid "separate things" in your marriage and embrace unity!

This is an Ask Dr. Kim segment on the Awesome Marriage Podcast. People submit their questions about love, relationships, and marriage to Dr. Kim and he answers them. In this episode Dr. Kim answers the question: Is it okay to remove a family member from your life if they are interfering in your marriage? Tune in to find out!

This month at Awesome Marriage we are talking about habits that lead to divorce. Each week we will be covering one habit that can often lead to divorce and how to avoid it in your own marriage. Today on the podcast Dr. Kim, Nils, and Christina discuss the habit: sexs and secrets. Sex issues and secrecy are often intertwined and these issues can destroy a marriage. Tune in to learn more about this habit and how to avoid it in your own marriage!

This is an Ask Dr. Kim segment on the Awesome Marriage Podcast. People submit their questions about love, relationships, and marriage to Dr. Kim and he answers them. In this episode Dr. Kim answers the question: Should married couples wait and be married for awhile before having kids? Tune in to find out!

This month at Awesome Marriage we are talking about habits that lead to divorce. Each week we will be covering one habit that can often lead to divorce and how to avoid it in your own marriage. Today on the podcast Dr. Kim and Christina discuss the habit: not keeping first things first. Tune in to learn more about this habit and how to avoid it in your own marriage!

This month at Awesome Marriage we are talking about myths people believe about marriage. Today on the podcast Dr. Kim and Christina discuss the myth: my loyalty should be with my family of origin because they raised me. Tune in to learn more about this myth and how to make sure you aren't believing it in your own marriage!

This is an Ask Dr. Kim segment on the Awesome Marriage Podcast. People submit their questions about love, relationships, and marriage to Dr. Kim and he answers them. In this episode Dr. Kim answers the question: Is it okay to take a break in a Christian marriage? Tune in to find out!

This month at Awesome Marriage we are talking about myths people believe about marriage. Today on the podcast Dr. Kim and Christina discuss the myth: I should not have to tell my spouse what's wrong, they should know me. Tune in to learn more about this myth and how to make sure you aren't believing it in your own marriage!

This week we will be discussing 4 places to never get marriage advice from. Dr. Kim and Christina discuss the 4th and final place today: people who don't share your values. Tune in to learn more about the dangers in getting advice here and what to watch out for.

This week we will be discussing 4 places to never get marriage advice from. Dr. Kim and Christina discuss the 3rd place today: people who aren't fond of marriage. Tune in to learn more about the dangers in getting advice here and what to watch out for. Be sure to tune in tomorrow as well to learn the 4th and final place never to get marriage advice from!

This week we will be discussing 4 places to never get marriage advice from. Dr. Kim and Christina discuss the 2nd place today: pop culture. Tune in to learn more about the dangers in getting advice here and what to watch out for. Be sure to tune in tomorrow as well to learn the 3rd place never to get marriage advice from!

This month at Awesome Marriage we are talking about myths people believe about marriage. Today on the podcast Nils, Christina, and Dr. Kim discuss the myth: I still have a right to privacy. They share where this myth comes from and why it's bad to believe it. They give practical advice and share real life examples. Tune in to learn more about this myth and how to make sure you aren't believing it in your own marriage!

This week we will be discussing 4 places to never get marriage advice from. Dr. Kim and Christina discuss the 1st place today: someone's whose marriage you don't respect. Tune in to learn more about the dangers in getting advice here and what to watch out for. Be sure to tune in tomorrow as well to learn the 2nd place never to get marriage advice from!

This is an Ask Dr. Kim segment on the Awesome Marriage Podcast. People submit their questions about love, relationships, and marriage to Dr. Kim and he answers them. In this episode Dr. Kim answers the question: Should you go to bed at the same time as your spouse? Tune in to find out!

Today on the podcast we welcome back special guest Rhonda Stoppe. Rhonda Stoppe is an author and speaker dedicated to helping women live life with no regrets. She has over 20 years experience as a mom, mentor, and pastor's wife. Rhonda joins Dr. Kim today as they talk about the marriage myth: if I marry the right person we will always be in love. They break down why this is a myth and shed light on the truth about love and the ways to work at love. Tune in below to learn more! RESOURCES You can purchase Rhonda's book: 'If My Spouse Would Change, I'd Be Happy & Other Myths Wives Believe' here. You can read more great insights from Rhonda on her website. You can also follow her on Twitter and Facebook.

This is an Ask Dr. Kim segment on the Awesome Marriage Podcast. People submit their questions about love, relationships, and marriage to Dr. Kim and he answers them. In this episode Dr. Kim answers the question: Do married couples have to sleep in the same bed? Tune in to find out!

Today on the podcast special guest Rhonda Stoppe joins Dr. Kim. Rhonda Stoppe is an author and speaker dedicated to helping women live life with no regrets. She has over 20 years experience as a mom, mentor, and pastor's wife. Rhonda joins Dr. Kim today as they talk about Rhonda's latest book: If My Spouse Would Change, I'd Be Happy. Tune in below to learn more about this myth and how to stop it from corrupting your marriage! RESOURCES You can purchase Rhonda's book: 'If My Spouse Would Change, I'd Be Happy & Other Myths Wives Believe' here. You can read more great insights from Rhonda on her website. You can also follow her on Twitter and Facebook. Here are the other authors Rhonda mentioned in the podcast: Greg and Julie Gorman Cindi McMenamin

This is an Ask Dr. Kim segment on the Awesome Marriage Podcast. People submit their questions about love, relationships, and marriage to Dr. Kim and he answers them. In this episode Dr. Kim answers the question: My spouse brought home a dog without asking me. What do I do? Tune in to find out!

This is an Ask Dr. Kim segment on the Awesome Marriage Podcast. People submit their questions about love, relationships, and marriage to Dr. Kim and he answers them. In this episode Dr. Kim answers the question: My spouse wants me home more but I have to work hard to pay the bills. What should I do? Tune in to find out!

Today on the podcast we have special guests Mike & Debbie Osment with Dr. Kim. Mike & Debbie are friends of Dr. Kim's. Mike & Debbie have a unique story to share when it comes to roles in marriage. Mike & Debbie join Dr. Kim today as they talk about how to navigate nontraditional roles God's Way. Tune in below to learn more about this couple's journey as they lived out their roles in marriage and family!

This is an Ask Dr. Kim segment on the Awesome Marriage Podcast. People submit their questions about love, relationships, and marriage to Dr. Kim and he answers them. In this episode Dr. Kim answers the question: I'm not okay with some of my spouse's health habits. What should I do? Tune in to find out!

Today on the podcast we welcome back special guest Deb DeArmond with Dr. Kim. Deb is an author, a speaker, and relationship coach—helping others improve their interactions at work and at home. Deb runs her ministry at Deb DeArmond/Family Matters. Deb joins Dr. Kim today as they talk about submission. They define it God's way and show us why it doesn't have to be such a dirty word. The give practical advice on what submission looks like in marriage and how to deal with it the right way. Tune in below to learn more about submission! RESOURCES You can purchase Deb's new book: 'Don't Go To Bed Angry' here. Another great resource from Deb is her book 'I Choose You Today' which you can purchase here. You can read more great insights from Deb on her website. You can also follow her on Twitter and Facebook.

This week we will be discussing 3 qualities of a Godly wife. Dr. Kim and Christina discuss the 3rd quality today: she is even tempered. Tune in to learn more about being even tempered, how to find peace when we are struggling, and why God calls us to be even tempered.

This week we will be discussing 3 qualities of a Godly wife. Dr. Kim and Christina discuss the 2nd quality today: she is respectful. Tune in to learn more about what respect looks like, why men crave respect so much, and why respect is a vital part of being a Godly wife. Be sure to tune in tomorrow as well to learn the 3rd quality of a Godly wife!

This week we will be discussing 3 qualities of a Godly wife. Dr. Kim and Christina discuss the 1st quality today: she is encouraging. Tune in to learn more about what it looks like to be encouraging and why it's a crucial part of being a Godly wife. Be sure to tune in tomorrow as well to learn the 2nd quality of a Godly wife!

In a culture that rejects roles it's important that we understand biblical roles and why God created us the way He did. Today on the podcast Nils, Christina, and Dr. Kim discuss the wife's role. They share what the wife's role is, why it's nothing to be ashamed of, and how to be obedient to God's purposes for wife's. Tune in to learn more about the wife's role!

This week we will be discussing 3 qualities of a Godly husband. Dr. Kim and Christina discuss the 3rd quality today: he loves. Tune in to learn more about what it means to love well and why it's a vital part of being a Godly husband.

This week we will be discussing 3 qualities of a Godly husband. Dr. Kim and Christina discuss the 2nd quality today: he rejects passivity. Tune in to learn more about what it means to reject passivity and why it's a crucial part of being a Godly husband. Be sure to tune in tomorrow as well to learn the 3rd quality of a Godly husband!

This week we will be discussing 3 qualities of a Godly husband. Dr. Kim and Christina discuss the 1st quality today: he leads. Tune in to learn more about what husband leadership is and practical tips on how to lead well in marriage and family. Be sure to tune in tomorrow as well to learn the 2nd quality of a Godly husband!

In a culture that rejects roles it's important that we understand biblical roles and why God created us the way He did. Today on the podcast Nils, Christina, and Dr. Kim discuss the husband's role. They share what the husband's role is, what it isn't, and how to be obedient to God's purposes for husbands. Tune in to learn more about the husband's role!

This is an Ask Dr. Kim segment on the Awesome Marriage Podcast. People submit their questions about love, relationships, and marriage to Dr. Kim and he answers them. In this episode Dr. Kim answers the question: If I am forgiven for my past sexual sin why do I need to tell my boyfriend about it? Tune in to find out!

Today on the podcast we welcome back special guest Pastor Chris Beall with Dr. Kim. Chris Beall is the Oklahoma City Campus Pastor at LifeChurch.tv. Chris also oversees half of the OKC metro LifeChurch.tv campuses. Chris is married to Cindy Beall. Chris joins Dr. Kim today as they talk about codependency and how it can affect a marriage. They define codependency, discuss different types of codependency, and give warnings of things to watch out for to protect your marriage from it. The give practical advice on what to do if codependency is affecting your marriage. Tune in below to learn more about codependency in marriage! RESOURCES You can connect with Pastor Chris on Facebook and on Twitter.

Today on the podcast we have special guest Gary Thomas on the Podcast. Gary Thomas is a bestselling author and international speaker whose ministry brings people closer to Christ and closer to others. Gary joins Dr. Kim today as they talk about Gary's new book Cherish and how this one word could change everything for your marriage. Tune in below to learn more about cherishing your spouse! RESOURCES Be sure to check out Gary's blog for more great insights from him. You can connect with Gary on Facebook and Twitter. You can purchase Cherish here.

Today on the podcast we welcome special guest Pastor Chris Beall with Dr. Kim. Chris Beall is the Oklahoma City Campus Pastor at LifeChurch.tv. Chris also oversees half of the OKC metro LifeChurch.tv campuses. Chris is married to Cindy Beall. Chris joins Dr. Kim today as they talk about the struggle of when couples feel like they have outgrown each other. They discuss barriers to closeness in marriage and how to stick together even when things are tough. Tune in below to learn more about what to do when you feel like you've outgrown each other! RESOURCES You can connect with Pastor Chris on Facebook and on Twitter.

Today on the podcast we welcome back special guest Tommy Brown with Dr. Kim. Tommy Brown is a pastor, writer, speaker and financial development strategist. Tommy joins Dr. Kim today as they talk about a topic is one that pains a lot of couples: miscarriage and other reproductive loss. Tune in below to learn more dealing with miscarriage and other loss in marriage. RESOURCES You can download Tommy's spiritual memoir, 'God Remains,' of his wrestling with their miscarriage here for free. For more great insights from Tommy you can check out his website. You can connect with Tommy on Facebook and on Twitter.

Today on the podcast we welcome special guest Tommy Brown with Dr. Kim. Tommy Brown is a pastor, writer, speaker and financial development strategist. Tommy joins Dr. Kim today as they talk about Tommy's new book "The 7 Money Types" and how by understanding how God wired you and your spouse to view money can help you resolve financial tension in your marriage. Tune in below to learn more about how understanding how God wired you can help you better deal with financial tension in marriage. RESOURCES For more great insights from Tommy you can check out his website. You can connect with Tommy on Facebook and on Twitter. Purchase 7 Money Types here.

This week we will be discussing 3 ways to save a struggling marriage. Dr. Kim and Christina discuss the 3rd way today: prioritize quality time together. Tune in to learn more about why this can save your struggling marriage and how to turn things around for the better even if you currently don't enjoy time together. There is still hope!

This week we will be discussing 3 ways to save a struggling marriage. Dr. Kim and Christina discuss the 2nd way today: commit to being totally honest with each other. Tune in to learn more about why this can save your struggling marriage and how to get back on track when it comes to honesty and transparency. Be sure to tune in tomorrow as well to learn the 3rd way to save a struggling marriage!