Anything But Quiet Time with Rachelle & Carder

<p>Carder shares this week how he felt he needs to change after reading Ephesians 5, where it discusses "foolish talk" and "crude joking". But then we try to find the line on what an inapropriate joke actually is. Does intent matter? We discuss and would love your thoughts. </p>

<p>This week we have a candid conversation about mental health after the storm, not taking "people's word for it" if God says otherwise, social media influencers and what can be the negative side of it, and morals changing in society by the day.</p>

<p>Carder shares from a seminar with N.T. Wright and explains the importance of both holiness and unity, along with many takeaways from the book of Ephesians.</p>

<p>Rachelle unpacks the fight between Saul & David and how the story reminds us the importance of staying focused. Carder shares how Christians should brace for election season.</p>

<p>When shouldn't we be comfortable with death? Carder also talks about the commands presented in 1 Thessalonians 5 and how they might feel impossible. Rachelle shares about (potentially) the need for pain.</p>

<p> Rachelle and Carder talk about the lie of comparison and unhealthy competition. They also talk about the lie of shame and how a relationship with Jesus sets us free.</p>

<p>Has reading a new scripture ever made you wonder if you’ve got it all wrong?? That’s what Hebrews 10:26 did to Rachelle and Carder. Listen in as they show us how to wrestle through a scary scripture and talk about sharing your faith in a healthy way that embraces truth AND love.</p>

<p>Rachelle reflects on helping her children grow spiritually. Carder tells us about a time he triggered a friend at church. </p>

<p>We share a critical comment and dive into how you can know if what you're thinking is truly from God. We also talk about where we messed up and had to ask for forgiveness.</p>

<p>Rachelle shares about what she's learning watching a documentary, and why it's important to not give temptation a seat at the table. She also tells a bible story that will inspire you to get out of your comfort zone. Carder says it's actually biblical to be selfish in one area of your life, and it might surprise you!</p>

<p>Carder wonders if we push Jesus on our kids and Rachelle proves that God is good with Old Testament math.</p>

<p>Rachelle's oldest child is graduating and she's having trouble letting go, but has been encouraged through scripture on how to move forward. Carder revisits something he might have gotten wrong from a couple of episodes ago.</p>

<p>We go over one phrase that isn't actually in the Bible, but it's been treated like it is. We also talk boundaries as a church body for someone who is in unrepentant sin; and a quote that might give you that courage you need to share your faith. </p>

<p>Some things seem like strictly coincidence. Like getting the front row parking spot at the store 2 trips in a row. We discuss whether things like this are for a reason, as well as God's control on events like this. We also discuss sharing our faith in Christ, and the difference between preaching and planting a seed.</p>

<p>What should a quiet time look like? Does it have to look like what a friend or a pastor recommends? Singer Riley Clemmons joins us to talk about that, as well as her coming to the realization that you don't have to look perfect to be a Christian.</p>

<p>Often we love stories of forgiveness, but are unwilling to forgive those that have really hurt us. Do I have to forgive, according to God? How does that work if I still can't trust them? And Is "forgiving yourself" unbiblical? We cover all this and more!</p>

<p>It's important to be loving when sharing about Jesus. But we also discuss if something is bad to say just because it SOUNDS mean. And the question: "is there ever a wrong time to share the gospel?"</p>

<p>When you are confronted by the Holy Spirit and others with your anger issues, what should you do? Rachelle admits the problem and shares a step towards solving it. </p>

We discuss not just being "book smart" or knowing the Bible, but also how to actually apply it in our lives. One major story that shows us how to do that: Jesus with the woman at the well. We also showcase a Dr. Phil impression.

We discuss "rubber necking" in life. Instead of staying on track and looking ahead for what God has, often we look to the side at what someone else is doing. We also share encouragement for getting rest.

If there was a box to check for your relationship status with God, which would you check: in a relationship, not in a relationship, or it’s complicated? In the relationships of your life, there have been defining moments. Rachelle discusses some DTR’s that God has with the human race. The ones that applied to major biblical heroes (Abraham, Moses and David) might just apply to you too!

if there was a box to check for your relationship status with God, which would you check: in a relationship, not in a relationship, or it’s complicated? In the relationships of your life, there have been defining moments. Rachelle discusses some DTR’s that God has with the human race. The ones that applied to major biblical heroes (Adam and Noah) might just apply to you too!

Rachelle shares about a trip to an ancient civilization. Their history indicates they believed in God, yet chose to do what many in the Old Testament did and do things FOR Him that He never asked for. Carder also shares about some ways we can know the Bible is true.

A bumper sticker with 5 words changed the way Carder looks at life, and helps us both dig into where our thoughts/opinions aren't always correct. Plus we bring up a conversation with students in high school that we realized doesn't JUST apply to students, but to all of us.

In the Bible when people were healed from a demon, was it really demon possession, mental illness or something else? As a Christian, am I doing battle with a spiritual enemy?

As we discuss sharing our faith, Ben Fuller tells his story about coming to Christ. Growing up without caring about God, it was one family's kindness that was the catalyst for his life to completely change.

Do I have an idol that I'm "all about" and yet totally unaware that it's become an idol? Carder delves into the book of Jeremiah and how a people can convince themselves to believe a deception. Rachelle shares a connection from some of the first words of Genesis that pertain to us, not just every day but, forevermore!

How would or should you handle what Carder explains happened to him? Did he do the right thing? Rachelle shares about one of the most impactful human beings she ever knew…and he was a middle schooler.

Rachelle's son is confronted at school and her flippant reaction should have been a thoughtful response. Tasha Layton speaks into the impact of our words with Rachelle & Carder.

Rachelle and Carder share standout, spiritual moments in "Home Alone 2"

"Rachelle and Carder share standout, spiritual moments in "A Christmas Story".

Rachelle and Carder share standout, spiritual moments in the Jim Carrey animated version of Dicken’s classic, A Christmas Carol.

In the end we will all kneel. In this podcast we talk about who we should pledge our allegiance to.

None

When does the Bible give us permission to condemn (condemnation, not judgement)?

There is a story from our favorite sarcastic "Friend" and his memoir that is one everyone should hear and learn from--it could change your life and those around you.

As Christians, should we participate in this holiday? Rachelle also reads Psalm 118 and shares about its significance to the disciples 2000 years ago and today!

Rachelle and her son were in a car accident; yet the experience blessed them. Hear that story, along with Carder trying to be ok with the gray areas in life. Could something that is wrong for someone be right for someone else morally? And as always, we definitely love your input in the comments!

We received a comment that asked about sinning after accepting Jesus. If we are a new creation through Christ, then doesn’t the Holy Spirit keep us from sinning? Shouldn’t we be “perfect” before heaven? Not exactly.

Have you ever asked God to give you a sign? What if He already has?! Also, there are a lot of churches to choose from—how do you choose the right one?

Kim Wier, Hope Media Group Content Creator and author, sits down and checks in with us regarding her latest book, Everyday God: Finding Hope and Help in the Daily Presence of God. She also shares about how she makes time for a "quiet time" in the midst of family living and how she came to know Jesus as her Savior! To purchase her book: <a href="https://www.amazon.com/Everyday-God-Finding-Daily-Presence-dp-B0CH22NJ4X/dp/B0CH22NJ4X/ref=dp_ob_title_bk" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Everyday God: Finding Hope and Help in the Daily Presence of God: Wier, Kim: 9798987168912: Amazon.com: Books</a>

Just because you are a Christian does not mean that you have discovered ALL the “answers” to life’s questions. We were meant to grow in our faith and knowledge of who our God is!

What is written in the comment section doesn't stay in the "comment" section--what should we share and not share? Also, why should we take God at His Word when it feels we've been let down?

Should Christians “deconstruct” their beliefs? Does doubt have a role to play in faith? Also, we discuss how God deal’s with our toxicity.

What part should emotions play in faith or decision-making? We also discuss a little know. Bible story where “pagans” teach God’s “chosen” a life lesson!

Carder bursts our comfort <br />“bubble” when it comes to Jeremiah 29:11 and Rachelle brings a Psalm to attention that may lead us away from praying the way Jesus would have us pray.

When you catch yourself in moments of weakness, how should and do you handle it? Also, if you see somebody else having a moment of weakness, when is it OK (or not ok) to help somebody else from “stumbling?"

When does telling a story turn into gossiping? Have I helped facilitate others in gossiping without even knowing it? how should we define gossip?

Yearbooks can be brutal whether you were ranked as nerd or voted “most popular” in high school—Carder shares a spiritual wake-up call while thumbing through his old yearbook. Rachelle shares a flippant forgiveness story that challenged her.

Rachelle and Carder ask the CEO of Angel Studios, Neal Harmon, why it was important for his production company to make this record-breaking movie. He shares how he has seen this film and it's "storytelling" momentum change others and himself.