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98. Happy Even After: What Divorce Can Teach Us About Starting Over with Renee Bauer
Season 9 · Episode 98

98. Happy Even After: What Divorce Can Teach Us About Starting Over with Renee Bauer

AND/BOTH Podcast - Real Conversations, Shared Experiences, and the Community You've Been Missing · Dr. Ashley Blackington

October 10, 202550m 19s

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Show Notes

You know that moment when you realize the life you’ve built no longer fits, and it’s time to choose yourself, even if it’s messy?

Renée Bauer knows it well. As a seasoned divorce lawyer (23 years in the game) and someone who’s walked through two divorces herself, she brings a rare combination of personal insight and professional clarity to a topic we don’t talk about enough -> what happens when you choose to leave.

In this conversation, we talk about:

  • Why disconnection, not drama, is what really ends relationships
  • The surprising trends in modern divorces (yes, politics are now a factor)
  • What happens when one partner evolves — and the other doesn’t
  • Why every woman (married or not) should have financial independence
  • And how Renée still believes in love, even after all she’s seen

We also get into therapy shame, social media’s role in our relationship breakdowns, and why balance is a myth — but movement is medicine.


If you’ve ever questioned your relationship, your choices, or what comes next, take a listen.


Connect with Renée:

Instagram: @msreneebauer

Happy Even After Family Law Instagram: @happy.even.after

Download Renée’s free divorce workbook: familylawyerct.com

Renée’s book: She Who Wins — available wherever you buy books


Connect with Ashley:

Website: https://www.ashleyblackington.com

Podcast website: https://www.andbothpodcast.com/

Dovetail® App: https://apps.apple.com/us/app/dovetail-app/id6744341822

Instagram: @mydovetail.app

LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/ashleyblackington/

Nurtured Entrepreneur Course: https://andbothcompany.com/Nurturedentrepreneur