You've Got Mail
Bella
Show overview
You've Got Mail has been publishing since 2021, and across the 5 years since has built a catalogue of 239 episodes. That works out to roughly 140 hours of audio in total. Releases follow a weekly cadence, with the show now in its 5th season.
Episodes typically run twenty to thirty-five minutes — most land between 26 min and 46 min — though episode length varies meaningfully from one episode to the next. It is catalogued as a EN-language Education show.
The show is actively publishing — the most recent episode landed 1 months ago, with 28 episodes already out so far this year. Published by Bella.
From the publisher
Hi! You've Got Mail from me, Bella. Like a voice note from your big sister, this podcast bring you weekly honest chats about life, growth, and figuring it out in your 20s 💌 So go ahead, open your mail!
Latest Episodes
View all 239 episodesChoose the people you surround yourself with wisely
Why you can't rush your future
for when you feel like giving up
How should we use social media?
So you want to quit? Why you only fail if you get off the bus
Why I've never had a 5 year plan....
How to Set Monthly Goals That Actually Make Your Life Better
Feeling Behind in Life? Why the Long Road Is Often the Better One
Is the 9-5 that...bad?
the best piece of productivity advice I've ever been given
Why failing my chemistry A-level was a good thing
Can long distance relationships actually work?
Being lucky is a mindet
So you're stressed about exams...
Are You Living… or Just Sticking to the Plan?
Feeling Unproductive? Listen to This
Hi! You’ve got mail from me, Bella 💌 This week’s episode is all about productivity, burnout, and why we’re so hard on ourselves. If you’ve been feeling unmotivated, overwhelmed, or like you’re never doing enough, this is for you. We’re talking about realistic productivity, letting go of perfectionism, and how to build a routine that actually feels good to live. If you want to write into the advice column, send your entry to [email protected] Make sure you’re following me on Instagram and TikTok @mailfrombella so we can stay connected. I can’t wait to catch up again next week. Love,Bella 💌 Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
RE: Why It’s Hard to Make Friends in Your Twenties (And Why It's Normal)
Hi, you’ve got mail from me, Bella 💌 This week on You’ve Got Mail, we’re talking all about the challenges of making friends in your twenties, how moving in with a partner can shift your friendships, and why it’s completely normal to miss the people and environments you’re used to. If you’ve ever felt like friendship gets harder as you grow up, or you’re navigating change in your twenties, this episode is for you. Also, today I’m sharing the first edition of my advice column over on Substack - I’d love to hear what you think! Love,Bella Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
RE: Why your perspective and language matter
Hi! You've got mail from me, Bella, and this week we are discussing how important our perspective is, and how the language we choose can impact our viewpoint. Love, Bella Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
RE: You are not your achievments: redefining success, ambition and finding balance
In this episode we are talking about identifying ourselves outside of what we do, because your career is not your entire identity and mine (kind of) was becoming it. Send this to the person struggling with success, ambition, and working out there next move. Make sure you're following me on instagram and on tiktok @mailfrombella Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
RE: Unlearning Performative Love in Your 20s
For years, I used to dread Valentine’s Day. I told myself it was superficial, overhyped, and proof that love shouldn’t be reduced to one day. But looking back, I don’t think I hated the holiday — I think I hated how performative love felt in my early twenties. In this episode, I’m talking about performative romance, social media relationships, and the pressure to express love in ways that look impressive instead of feeling honest. When you’re in your early twenties and still learning how to trust yourself, it’s easy to confuse what love looks like with what love actually feels like. We’ll explore: Why love can feel performative in your 20s The pressure to “prove” your relationship publicly How social media shapes our expectations of romance Why Valentine’s Day isn’t the problem — our understanding of love might be Learning to trust your own definition of love This episode is about emotional maturity, self-trust, and redefining love beyond grand gestures, aesthetics, and expectations. If you’ve ever questioned whether you genuinely feel something — or just feel like you should — this conversation is for you. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices