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25 episodes

S1 Ep 28Ep. 28: Live from Wild Women at Lutheridge
For our first ever live recording we are coming at you from the Wild Women Retreat at Camp Lutheridge!

S1 Ep 27Ep. 27: What is a woman?
Sorry for the delay dear listeners! But it will be worth the wait. Today Pastors Mary and Elise welcome Ginger Cutrell to share her experience of being a woman with a transgender experience. Ginger opens up about her story and helps us navigate how pastors can better support their congregants and advocate for all of God's children!

S1 Ep 26Ep. 26: Rabbi Lizzi Heydemann Part 2! Yiddish word of the day
Rabbi Lizzie of Miskahn Chicago is back! We continue our conversation about Christian and Jewish relationships, the difference and commonalities of our faiths and dive into the Israel/Palestine conflict.

S1 Ep 25Ep. 25: Rabbi Lizzi Heydemann: Two pastors and a rabbi walk into a bar (Pt 1)
Pastors Elise and Mary welcome the wonderful Rabbi Lizzi Heydemann from Mishkan Chicago! It is such a full and compelling conversation about the work of spiritual leadership, building community, interfaith partnerships, and diving into historical and current conflicts in the middle east that affect so many. We barely scratch the surface of what Rabbi Lizzi has to offer and we can't wait to have her on again soon!

S1 Ep 24Ep. 24: Pr Rob Myallis, is it greek or geek?
Pr Elise and Pr Mary welcome long time family friend and great pastor, Rob Myalis to talk about the future of the church, the pastor shortage, and where we go from here.

S1 Ep 23Ep. 23: Holidays after the apocalypse
Pastors Mary and Elise talk Thanksgiving, talking politics over dinner, leading congregations in this crazy time and our reactions to the presidential election.

S1 Ep 22Ep. 22: Pastor AJ is in the House....man
Pastor AJ Houseman joins Pastors Elise and Mary to share her story as well as talk all things podcasting! How is podcasting shaping modern ministry? Take a listen and find out!

S1 Ep 21Ep. 21: The Iron Program
Pastors Elise and Mary are thrilled to have Anne Stewart and Thais Carter from Princeton Theological Seminary on to talk about the executive leadership program, Iron Sharpening Iron! We talk about the programs history, how it works, as well as women in leadership, seminary education and Elise gushes for about 20 minutes about how much the program means to her! If you want more info on this amazing visit the website: isi.ptsem.edu

S1 Ep 17Ep. 20: This is My Body
In our 20th (!) episode we talk about our experience helping to lead the Wild Women Retreat at Camp Lutheridge back in March. We cover what our Bible studies were about but also different body image issues we both have faced in our lives.

S1 Ep 19Ep. 19: Tire marks in the parking lot
In this episode Pastors Elise and Mary talk about pastoral transitions and new calls!

S1 Ep 18Ep. 18 - Karoline Lewis brings the Word!
Pastors Elise and Mary fangirl over pastor and long time professor Karoline Lewis as she talks about the challenges facing many preachers today and how to navigate those challenges and bring truthful and faithful preaching to our congregations!

S1 Ep 17Ep. 17 - Rev. Carla Christopher called us influencers!
The amazing and inspiring Rev. Carla Christopher joins us to tell her story and gives some great information about the Commision for a Renewed Lutheran Church which she co-chairs. And not to brag, but she told us we were influencers, we've never felt cooler.

S1 Ep 16Ep. 16 - Turn your weapons into ploughshares
Pastors Mary and Elise discuss the tough topic of gun violence and how the Church can be a part of the conversation and solution.

S1 Ep 15Ep. 15: How was your trip?
Pastors Elise and Mary are joined by long time family friends, Gail, Ari and Noa Stern-Frede! We talk about our seperate trips to Israel/ Palestine/ The Holy Land and what they meant to us from our Christian and Jewish perspectives.

S1 Ep 14Ep 14: What do you NOT do, Sarah??
The moment you've all been waiting for! Deacon Sarah Bowers joins Pastors Elise and Mary to talk about all of her amazing projects and passions. From being a deacon to a reluctant farmer's wife to a crucial part of her synod's staff we get to chat with one of our favorite people. Enjoy!

S1 Ep 13Ep 13: I know what you learned this summer
Pastors Elise and Mary catch up and talk about what continuing ed they have been diving into this summer! Everything from Christianity and evolution to hippies camping out together gets discussed! Shoot us an email to tell us what you've been learning this summer! [email protected]

S1 Ep 12Ep 12: SC Synod!
Pastors Elise and Mary hit the road to the South Carolina Synod Assembly to interview folks who have gathered there. They asked everyone TWO questions: What do you wish the church would stop doing? And what do you wish the church would start doing? They got some really interesting and diverse answers! Just a heads up due to the environment (and Elise's limited editing abilities) the audio can be a little rough at certain points especially from day one. You can skip to about 45 minutes in for day two's interviews which have much better sound quality!

S1 Ep 11Ep 11: Save the trauma for your Mama (or your church)
Pastors Elise and Mary discuss how the church faces or doesn't face trauma. Both internal trauma as well as the trauma we see happening in the world.

S1 Ep 10Ep. 10: The Book of Robin
The wonderful Robin Pingilley joins Pastors Elise and Mary on our 10th (!!!!!) episode to share her journey; both in her call and seminary journey. Robin and Pastor Elise bond over their shared love of the Book of Concord (nerd alerts!) and Jesus' humanity. After our talk with Robin you get to hear Pastors Elise and Mary fangirl over Robin as well as marvel at all the conversation held beyond our racial differences. (A side note about the audio: it's not great this episode. But Elise sent Mary new headphones so it should be better next time!)

S1 Ep 9Ep.9: Tell me what you want what you really really want
Pastors Elise and Mary talk through possible answers to the church's age old question, "where are all the young people!?" Well also just go off on tangents. Enjoy!

S1 Ep 8Ep 8: Karens, Oves, and Johns... oh my!
Pastors Mary and Elise talk about difficult people on this episode! They share stories and some advise on how to deal the most difficult folks. Enjoy! shoot us an email at [email protected] if you'd like to tell us your story or have an idea for a topic!

Ep 7Highs, lows, and Christmas woes
Pastors Mary and Elise chat about what is going on in their ministries and lives and do it through the camp classic activity: HIGH, LOW and GOD MOMENT

S1 Ep 6Episode 6: Dating and Expectations
This is a long one folks! But, well worth your time. Pastors Elise and Mary, along with their FIRST GUEST Pastor Kelsey Kress talk about dating, romance, sex, and relationships for (straight, cis) female pastors. Spoiler alert: It's complicated!

Communication: Push through the Panic
Pastors Mary and Elise talk about communication in this episode! Text vs phone call, church announcements and misread signals sure make things interesting! Lets dive in.

S1 Ep 4Ep 4 - Homeless ministries
Our longest episode yet covers one of the most important topics our entire world is facing. Pastors Elise and Mary talk about their individual experiences with the homeless and the homeless communities in their towns. Normally we edit out some parts of the conversation but these were too important to cut! Enjoy and find ways to get involved!