Sex for Women and Men - a YANB lecture

<p>Join me on a lecture I gave to some surgeons (some of my favorite people BTW).</p> <p>I discuss - sexual normative roles and how that affects our personal sex lives.</p> <p>We were taught “sex negative” education – don’t get pregnancy or infections, save it for marriage</p> <p>What happens when the novelty of sex wears off</p> <p>Is desire a circumstance, a feeling, a result? Where do we put it in a coaching model.</p> <p>Desire and sex for women.</p> <p>What do I mean by crappy sex?</p> <p>Sex, surgery and mindfulness</p> <p>Normalizing responsive desire</p> <p>Sleep and a happy sex life/drive</p> <p>What is responsive desire?</p> <p>How alcohol works with the brain to hurt/help our sex drive</p> <p>Why older people have great sex</p> <p>Why our thoughts about our spouse helps or hurts our sex life – and our thoughts are completely under our control.</p> <p>Do you desire what you already have?</p> <p>Why textbooks dedicate way more space to male sexual organs than female.</p> <p>Anatomy lesson</p> <p>Why PIV sex doesn’t work for female orgasms</p> <p>Are you “should-ing” all over your sex life?</p> <p>We finish this episode with some coaching on our sex life – we use the “model” from The Life Coach School.</p> <p>If you want a good sex life you can’t be passive about it.</p> <p>What does a sexually satisfied woman do well?</p> --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/kj-casperson/message

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