
WORD with Dr. Michael David Clay
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S1 Ep 103The Developmental Milestone of WISDOM!
WISDOM is the acquisition of true VIRTUE and CHARACTER. More than facts, WISDOM is the SOURCE of TRUTH. Learning how to operate within WISDOM is critical to ADAPTABILITY and what Psychological Counseling should as much anything be about. Contact Us: [email protected]; TheWORDHouse.com; or Call 304.523.WORD (9673)
S1 Ep 102To BOLDLY Go where no Man has gone BEFORE: The PSYCHOLOGICAL Frontier of the MIND!
The infinite may not be any further than what is involved in exiting yourself. As with most everything in life, PERSPECTIVE matters. Explore the realm of the OBJECTIVE and see what you've been MISSING. Contact US; [email protected]; TheWORDHouse.com; or call 304,523.WORD (9673).
S1 Ep 101Postpartum Depression and the Rhythm of Life!
Not the rhythm, but the syncopation that matters most when considering Postpartum Depression. Natural and normal, restoration follows a recovery of love for self and others. Contact Us: [email protected]; TheWORDHouse.com; or call 304.523.WORD (9673).
S1 Ep 100HEARTBREAK; The Shame of it ALL!
What's there to be SHAMED of? A lot if it's ALL about you and it's FAILED. And when is it not about YOU? When love fails, the only thing we can do is LEARN from the experience and grow to LOVE better and hopefully so MORE. Contact Us: TheWORDHouse.com; [email protected]; or call 304.523.WORD (9673).
S1 Ep 99When it Comes to Psychological Counseling, WARM and FRIENDLY is BEST!
Which is better, Capability or Compassion? Seems both afford humanity a tremendous EVOLUTIONARY advantage. But if you don't get along, whatever the SUM individual or aggregate capability, there will never be an EVOLUTIONARY advantage to destroying each another. Contact Us; [email protected]; TheWORDHouse.com; 304-523-WORD (9673).
S1 Ep 98OBJECTIVITY: The Often ELUSIVE Psychological NEED for the UNFAMILIAR.
Too MUCH familiarity may not breed contempt, but certainly challenges OBJECTIVTY. Psychological Counseling requires one to MEET and ENTERTAIN objectivity, no matter how much a STRANGER it seems. Contact Us: [email protected]; TheWORDHouse.com; 304.523,WORD (9673).
S1 Ep 97The HEARTBEAT of PSYCHOLOGICAL Security!
Whatever the MEASURE, psychological security BEST comes to the SECURE! Always a matter of what we can do, than acknowledgement of what we can't. Just be sure, YOU are not missing so much the OBVIOUS. Contact Us: TheWORDHouse.com; [email protected]; or call 304,523.WOD (9673).
S1 Ep 96Vive la (un)Resistance; LESS is MORE when Applied to Psychological Counseling!
Maybe for WAR, but otherwise, when applied to Psychological Counseling, LESS resistance and defense is certainly MORE. Compassion and rapport provides the SAFETY needed to turn off fear and defensiveness. Contact Us; [email protected]; TheWORDHouse.com; or call 304-523-WORD (9673)
S1 Ep 95Quelling the Psychological Storm.
Who's is it to bring order and reasoning to emotional chaos? Certainly, Psychological Counseling can HELP. Nonetheless, each of us would be responsible to LEARN the very HIGHEST ORDER o f individual CONTENMENT. Contact Us: 304-523-WORD (9673); TheWORDHouse.com; or TheWORDHouse@frontier,com.
S1 Ep 94WORDLE Cheats and TRUE Religion!
No one likes a CHEATER; especially in the GAME of life! The only way to TRUE winning is to be REAL with yourself and others. Psychological Counseling is as much about YOU learning to TRUY accept your SELF, as it is then others. Contact Us: TheWORDHouse.com; [email protected]; TheWORDHouse.com; 304-523-WORD (9673).
S1 Ep 93The INFIDELITY Contagion!
What happens when we demoralize EVERYTHING? We get ANYTHING and EVERYTHING. Not that ANYTHING of EVERYTHING will be maladaptively bad; but takes some time before we know. And what is wrong with taking what is good and adding to it? INFIDELITY is as much attitude as it is action, and eventually lead to lying, cheating, and stealing as a way of life, and in the end may destroy ANYTHING and EVERYTHING along the way! CONTACT US: [email protected]; WORDHouse.com; 304-523-WORD (9673).
S1 Ep 92FINE-TUNING your Marriage!
Whether is deciding where to eat, or whether to start a family, ALL begins with two INDIVIDUALS working together as a TEAM, regardless the CHALLENGE. Marriage is NEVER to the LOSS of the INDIVIDUAL, but the ADDITION of ANOTHER. Contact Us; TheWORDHouse.com; [email protected]; or call 304-523.WORD (9673).
S1 Ep 91The UN-Meaning!
Maybe it is, maybe it isn't that LIFE requires meaning and purpose. Too much us, and LIFE becomes a chore! Let go, and ENJOY the MOMENT you are in, as MUCH you CAN. Contact Us; 304-523-WORD (9673); [email protected]; TheWORDHouse.com.
S1 Ep 90Hunger Pains!
Hunger lets you know you need to eat. If it were only that SIMPLE! So much besides hunger drives EATING DISORDER. Figuring out what ONE needs is important to get the RIGHT need met, or risk further complication. Contact Us: [email protected]; TheWORDHouse.com; or call 304-523-WORD (9673).
S1 Ep 89JUST a Little RELIEF!
Loving one's self is most DIFFICULT without FIRST learning to love others. Good thing other's don't JUDGE our life as harshly as we do. The BLAME game begins immediate to when things don't turn out the way we think or believe they should. Nothing amplifies this EFFECT worse than the CONSTANT REMINDER of chronic illness and pain. DIFFERENCE between COMPASSION and PITY, comes down to escaping our own NEGATIVITY. Contact Us; [email protected]; TheWORDHouse.com; or call 304.523.WORD (9673).
S1 Ep 88Motivation in ACTION: Changing the "HAVE TO" into "WANT TO!"
Motivation is everything. But there are still times when it's DIFFICULT to find the WANT in the otherwise HAVE TO. When it becomes obvious there are only so many ways to FIND motive to do the TOUGH JOBS, stop already with ALL the emotion. Simply DO IT! Contact Us: 304-523-WORD (9673); [email protected]; or TheWORDHouse.com.
S1 Ep 87The PERILS of Neutrality.
What's wrong with staying NEUTRAL? Clearly, if not done with INTEGRITY, then a lot! Neutrality isn't the problem, as much FULL DISCLOSURE. Sound empiricism dictates complete and open dialogue, even is this means potential discourse. Likewise, empirically-based Psychological Counseling is not without potential for disagreement. Otherwise, it runs the risk of being only an exercise in persuasion. Contact Us: TheWORDHouse.com; [email protected]; or call 304-523-WORD (9673).
S1 Ep 86Return to the EGG: Psychoanalysis and Psychedelics!
What is it about PSYCHOANALYSIS, you can't SHAKE? Maybe Freud had it right, too much ID or Superego risk profound COMPROMISE of the EGO. Can PSYCHODELICS assist us in RECAPTURING the full experience in life? Contact Us: [email protected]; TheWORDHouse.com; or call 304-523-WORD (9673).
S1 Ep 85Psychological Flexibility
Warming up is as important to both physical and psychological fitness. Psychological Flexibility requires elements of skill, preparation, and maintenance when adaptively addressing ALL that life has to offer, Contact Us; [email protected]; TheWORDHouse.com; 304-523-WORD (9673).
S1 Ep 84Psychological Counseling and Driver Assist!
Psychological Counseling is much like DRIVER ASSIST, only there when YOU require IT! When AUTONOMY, AGENCY, and INDIVIDUALITY predominate, INNER-DIRECTION is a much more PALATABLE and EFFICACIOUS means to DIRECTION and COURSE throughout life.
S1 Ep 83Psychedelics and The IRON GWAZI.
What do PSYCHEDELICS and ROLLER COASTERS have in common? Much, to many a great SURPRISE! Nonetheless, it's the DIFFERENCES that MATTER even MORE. Psychedelics have a place in BEHAVIORAL HEALTH; we just need to FIND OUT what that may indeed turn out to be. Contact Us: [email protected]; TheWORDHouse.com: or 304-523-WORD (9673).
S1 Ep 82POWER of a PARTNER: I'm Here to HELP!
Never underestimate the POWER of a PARTNER to either make or break. Better even than psychotherapy, your PARTNER holds the essential KEY to being the very BEST you can become. You may just need a bit of HELP to rightly calibrate. CONTACT Us: [email protected]; TheWORDHouse.com; 304-523-WORD (9673).
S1 Ep 81Psychology of Aging: More than Simply a Number!
What does AGE have to do with anything? It's ALL up to you. Worse than someone else's PREJUDICE, don't PREJUDICE you! PERSPECTIVE is EVERYTHING to most THINGS in LIFE and AGE is no different. Contact Us; TheWORDHouse.com; [email protected]; 0r call at 304-523-WORD (9673).
S1 Ep 80Under PSYCHOLOGICAL Review: CHALLENGE on the FIELD!
Pull out the RED FLAG, there's a CHALLENGE on the field. Denial gets in the way of the essential coping skill set of ADAPTATION, and to get it RIGHT and MOVE ON, we need to get past it. Psychological Counseling helps. Yet you CAN also do this at HOME! Contact Us: [email protected]; TheWORDHouse.Com; or call, 304-523-WORD (9673).
S1 Ep 79DISFLUENCY is not necessarily BAD!
Disfluency can be a symptom of sickness, disorder, and even pathogenesis, but it doesn't have to be. Like much in life, the final edit reflects much in the way of curation. Extracting what doesn't fit, is entirely up to us, and reflects healthy self-image. Just as long as we also OWN what otherwise is essential to growth and development; recognize our mistakes and correct for them. Otherwise, in AVOIDING our failures, by simply rewriting history, we instead INVALIDATE essentially our very being. Contact Us: [email protected]; TheWORDHouse.Com; or 304-523-WORD (9673).
S1 Ep 78Microbial Psychology
It ALL is a matter of CONNECTION. Whether GUT or neighbor, DISCONNECT greatly risks DISORDER. Sociality is a reflection of our NEED to remain closely tied to both our intrapersonal and interpersonal worlds, or risk the potential results of too much isolation. Contact Us: 304.523.9673 (WORD); TheWORDHouse.com; or [email protected].
S1 Ep 77The HUMAN Archetype.
"Gen-exer;" "Millennials;" and "Boomers" are ALL labels, but is there anything ARCHETYPICAL to be said for such? Likely not! As much PERSONALITY is descriptive, it's not IMMUTABLE. What is IMMUTABLE comes down to what makes us ALL human; OUR HUMANITY!
S1 Ep 75Epiphany: Complementary Cognition!
Divergency of thought, as well processing is indeed the IDEAL. Complementary Cognition is elementally adaptive and captures the way the EXPLORATIVE and EXPLOITATIVE may live in true harmony. Reach out to Us; 304-523-WOD (9673); [email protected]; or TheWORDHouse.Com.
S1 Ep 74Will the REAL Narcissist Please Stand Up!
Reflection Pools are great, except when YOU don't like what you see. Narcissism is a human trait. Those who learn to adjust self-perception with REALITY succeed at the highest state of existence, SELF-LOVE. Don't RUN from yourself, LEARN to overcome it! Contact Us: TheWORDHouse.com; [email protected]; or call @ 304-523-WORD (9673).
S1 Ep 73It's you that you really want to KILL!
"I would do anything for LOVE, but I won't do that . . . ." So goes the lyrics to the song of the same name. But would we? When you fail to realize loving others requires you to love yourself, you also fail at LOVE. The greatest sacrifice is recognizing you that you REALLY want to KILL, and then stop killing others. CONTACT US: [email protected]; 304-523-WORD (9673); TheWORDHouse.com.
S1 Ep 72Big "I" and the Big "EYE!"
What's wrong with OWNING it? Nothing! Just make sure WHAT you possess is WHAT it truly is. Subjectivity, although factual, is IMCOMPLETE. Getting the BIG PICTURE, requires one move into the territory of the "Fourth Dimension," or risk not only lesser, but ultimately SICKER. Contact Us: TheWORDHouse.com; [email protected]; or call 304-523-WORD (9673).
S1 Ep 71What Parents of Transkids Want to Know: Questions #5 to 10.
Continuing with the podcast series, Psychology Today asks and answers (we offer commentary) such parental concerns as: "What does this mean for my child's mental health?; Does this mean my child will need surgery?; Do we have to start hormones right away?; What if my child changes their mind or has regrets?; Is it OK if I feel sad or confused?; When Should I tell my child's school or our family and friends?; and, What is the best way to help my child right now?" Most importantly, we ask the very serious question, "Where is SCIENCE in all of this?" Contact Us: TheWORDHouse.com; [email protected]; or call 304-523-WORD (9673).
S1 Ep 70What Parents of Transkids Want to Know: Questions #2 to 4.
What Causes This? Is It Just a Phase? Why Now? Questions "Parents of Transkids Want to Know," as culled by Psychology Today (October 2022). As much, the ANSWERS are indeed complex, if at all immediately available, there is also the question of what ALL of this would mean for the future. Contact Us: TheWORDHouse.com; [email protected]; 304-523-WORD (9673).
S1 Ep 69What Parents of Transkids Want to Know: Question #1.
"What did I do?" As much there's no single answer, there is always a part to play. Rather than uniformly blaming SELF or others, let's at least try to address the presenting concern soundly and scientifically, lest we end up hurting EVERYONE! Contact Us: [email protected]; 304-523-WORD (9673); andTheWORDHouse.com.
S1 Ep 68Being "TRANS" (How to Rightly Participate)!
Flexibility is to ADAPT. CREATIVITY demands change. Being TRANS is to accept that the only ABSOLUTE in LIFE is appreciating how to RIGHTLY participate. Contact Us: TheWORDHouse.com; [email protected]; 304-523-WORD (9673).
S1 Ep 67The IMPOSTER Syndrome EXPOSED!
Acting is one way to change that aspect of PERSONALITY everyone ELSE sees; but it doesn't NECESSARILY translate to an OPENNESS required for aligning such with who YOU perceive YOU truly are. Psychological Counseling, but for the sake of SUSTAINABILITY, addresses both. Contact Us: [email protected]; TheWORDHouse.com; or call 304-523-WORD (9673).
S1 Ep 66Dog's Life.
Better than your DOG at LOVE? Hope so! At least Rocky didn't let FEAR get so much in the WAY as to deny him his greatest day of GLORY. Which is better; to live life in FEAR, or LOVE? Contact Us; [email protected]; 304-523-WORD (9673); or TheWORDHouse.com.
S1 Ep 65Get OUT your Head; or NOT!
It's not a matter of simply GETTING OUT of your own head, but rather what's GOING ON inside it. If you like yourself, you'll do much better in life, regardless what it is. Contact Us: [email protected]; TheWORDHouse.com; 304-523-WORD (9673).
S1 Ep 64PHUBBING: Put Down that Phone!
"Phubbing" is a polite way of saying, STOP being so self-absorbed. Already too much at risk of becoming so much the INDIVIDUAL, have we forgotten our essential NATURE is "pro-social." So many health concerns are associated with ISOLATION, it might be worth turning OFF the technology and FOCUSSING upon one another. Contact Us: [email protected]; 304-523-WORD (9673); and TheWORDHouse.com.
S1 Ep 63The MACH Attack: Niccolo Machiavelli, Machiavellianism, and the Dark Triad.
If EVIL should have a FACE, it might be named MACHIAVELLIANISM. What could have only been an INNOCENT reflection on the phenomenon, now has become a NAMESAKE. What goes into MACHIAVELLIANISM? Although ATHEORETICAL, a look into the the American Psychiatric Association Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders may supply a glimpse, and it isn't PRETTY! Contact Us: TheWORDHouse.com; [email protected]; or 304-523-9673 (WORD).
S1 Ep 62PESSIMIST in Disguise!
What is an OPTIMIST? Possibly nothing greater than a PESSIMIST in disguise. Science and REALSIM go hand in hand. CONTENTMENT and SATISFACTION lies in learning to make the BEST out of life's GOOD and BAD. Don't get caught up in AVOIDING life or living, simply because you can't deal with the UPS and DOWNS!
S1 Ep 61Just BREATHE!
It's O.K. to catch your breath. It may even help you digest LIFE better. In and Out, and before you know it, things become CLEARER. Contact Us: [email protected]; TheWORDHouse on the WWW. or call @304-523-WORD (9673).
S1 Ep 60The Power of Social Modelling.
Nature or Nurture? Comparatively, which is greater; Genetics or Culture? As complicated and thus impossible to say entirely which holds GREATER SWAY, SOCIAL IMPERATIVE is undeniably STRONG. Contact Us: TheWORDHouse.com; [email protected]; or 304-523-WORD (9673).
S1 Ep 59Secret to SECRETS: Confidentiality and Confidants!
Who to talk to? Especially when you need it to be kept in CONFIDENCE. Not that FRIEND or FAMILY would not do. Rather, can they KEEP IT A SECRET! Contact Us: [email protected]; www.TheWORDHouse.com; 304-523-WORD (9673).
S1 Ep 58Worse to risk being RELATABLE and WRONG, than simply DISCONNECTED.
Exchanges of ideas begin with sound COMMUNICATION, and depending upon the QUALITY of the COMMUNICATION, a solid working relationship. EMPIRICISM ensures there's NEVER a problem without answer, as long one ACCEPTS the BEST ANSWER SCIENCE affords.
S1 Ep 57First Loves and Affairs.
All decisions are PERSONAL, yet never done in a VACUUM. Marriages are certainly no exception. This is what makes AFFAIRS so grievous. By implication, AFFAIRS exclude the essential IMPUT from others so needed for LEGITIMACY. Contact; TheWORDHouse.com; [email protected]; or 304-523- WORD (9673).
S1 Ep 56A New YOU!
You are only limited by your IMAGINATION. More TRUE today than ever before, the possibilities appear limitless on what YOU would want to be and become. Just make certain what you want is ACTUALLY what you want! Contact Us: [email protected]; www.TheWORDHouse.com; or 304-523-WORD (9673).
S1 Ep 55OK to be YOU!
It's really OK to be simply and uniquely YOU, just as long as you always are OPEN to the FEEDBACK that comes with it needed to continue to LEARN, GROW, and ADAPT. Choosing anything less, only makes matters of LIFE worse. Contact Us: [email protected]; www,TheWORDHouse.com; or 304-523-WORD (9673).
S1 Ep 54Coupling: Why So Many Couples Look Alike.
Ever think it STRANGE people COUPLE in their own image? Shouldn't be!. Outside of the most SUPERFICIAL and SHALLOW regards, EMOTIONS and PERSONALITY factor in. More so, there is also the NEED to LOVE ONESELF before LOVING OTHERS. CONTACT Us: 304-523-WORD (9673); [email protected]; www.TheWOouse.com.
S1 Ep 53Psychological Relativity
Reality is a measured in both ABSOULTE and RELATIVE terms. What is BEST for you may not be the same for anyone else. No less, SICK is not GOOD for anyone. Knowing that BETTER is ACCEPTABLE as a TREATMENT RESULT, does not mean being neglectful of also knowing WELLNESS is even BETTER! Contact Us: [email protected]; www.TheWORDHouse.com; 304-523-WORD (9673).