
Who Even Are We?
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Aging gracefully.... kind of
Who will we be when the kids leave home?
We like dining alone!
Revisiting your 20 year old self
It cost HOW MUCH??
We worry about EVERYTHING
Getting rid of the Cortisol belly!
Parenting teenagers and the effect it has on our self esteem
Pushing my health ideas on to people that don't care!
Carrying the Mental Load
Is Chat GPT going to replace our doctors?

S1 Ep 23Inside the Manosphere Controversy
We've both watched the show and have our own takes on the controversial Louis Theroux: Inside the Manosphere show on Netflix! Why we think the men are nothing but salesmen and our concern for the girls.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

S1 Ep 22Turning Grief into Connection with Psychic Medium Barbra Banner
In this episode we are Joined from Los Angeles by Evidential / psychic / trance medium Barbra Banner to chat about connecting with spirits, the messages that come through and how to trust the signs. You can connect with Barbra at www.bannermedium.com See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

S1 Ep 22Supplements, what should we take?
Rach spends a lot of time researching what we do and don't need, and Katie wastes a lot of money on what she sees on Instagram that she thinks she needs. So what should we be taking that won't break the bank??See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

S1 Ep 21Losing your identity
In this episode we chat about jobs and Rach changing her career in her 40's. Also when you lose your job, who are you left with? We unpack identity loss, Katie’s “fallen star” moment after radio, and the harsh reality of fair-weather friends when the spotlight fades.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

S1 Ep 20Broke & ashamed
We’ve all had moments we don’t talk about, and in this episode Katie opens up about a time when she didn't even have the money to buy her kids school uniforms. The shame she carried and the showing up like everything was ok.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

S1 Ep 19Money blocks and the anxiety we have
In this episode we chat money, money, money! From comparison with others, our money blocks, anxiety, and the shame around it.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

S1 Ep 18Jackie O: Our thoughts
In this episode we address the story that's dominating Australian headlines - what's going on with Kyle & Jackie O??? After working in radio for 17 years Katie has some thoughts on what's actually going on....See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

S1 Ep 17Fitness in your 40's
We're a bit sick of the conflicting messages around what exactly we should be doing in terms of exercise. Cardio or no cardio? Do we have to run or can we just walk? As a personal trainer Rach has some suggestions.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

S1 Ep 16Make someone's day
Rach has come up with an idea that she thinks will make someone's day. Pick a different person every day and lets start filling buckets!See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

S1 Ep 15Adoption & the abandonment trauma that goes with it
In this episode Katie opens up about being adopted as a new born and all the heavy stuff that goes with it.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

S1 Ep 14The things we thought we'd never say
When do we get to the stage where we start saying stuff that sounds like it's coming out of our parents mouths??! From 'money doesn't grow on trees' to 'it's too loud' we're there and we're owning it!See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

S1 Ep 13It's time to fill your bucket up - lets get selfish!
Are we in a midlife crisis or a midlife awakening?? In this episode we are talking about how we do so much for other people, whether it be the kids, husbands, household or pets. Now we are giving you the permission and the tips on doing something for yourself.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

S1 Ep 12Rach's moment of shame
In this bonus episode Rach tells us about something she's done that she finds disgusting and shares her moment of shame!See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

S1 Ep 11What's with the Low Libido?
This week we’re chatting low libido and why it's a thing! We talk about what we tolerated “back in the day,” the pressure to perform, and why men can switch it on just like that, but if you dare to pack the dishwasher in the wrong way we're turned off for at least a week! See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

S1 Ep 10Burner phones ONLY in our house
Rach is holding off on letting her girls have a phone and is standing strong with it despite Katie thinking it's not long until she will have to give in. When do we give in to the social pressure?See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

S1 Ep 9Alcohol: The Unhealthy Relationship we don't Talk About
There's so much shame around alcohol particularly in women our age who are using it to relax, as a reward and habit after a busy day. In this episode we are VERY honest about our issues with it and the unhealthy relationship we have.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

S1 Ep 8Is this Aging or am I just Tired??
Yep we're all feeling it! The aches & pains, creeks and brain fog. Rach also had an interesting mammogram and has come up with a great idea for a men's version!!! See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

S1 Ep 7Grief: We have both experienced loss and are ready to talk about it
In this episode we talk about the different stages of grief and how it shows up not just in the loss of a person but also in the end of relationships and, in Katie's case, a serious health diagnosis. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

S1 Ep 6Online dating - we want more
We have so many single Mum friends who are doing it tough, online dating is flawed so lets discuss.......See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

S1 Ep 5One week on, one week off and I can't orgasm
This is a 2 parter, we hear from a single Mum friend who tells us all about doing one week on and one week off with her ex and then discuss orgasms after hearing that a lovely listener has NEVER had one.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

S1 Ep 4Lets be friends
Making friends as a kid is easy but as we get older it's tough. We assume women our age already have 'their people' and we often lack confidence to put ourselves out there. So lets chat about it!See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

S1 Ep 3READ THE ROOM BRO
As we get older we've come to the realisation that there is a real lack of common sense in the world. Katie's trip to the chemist with an embarrassing issue will blow your mind and when it comes to plane etiquette we are BAFFLED! It leads us to the line we use so much..... READ THE ROOM!See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

S1 Ep 2Lets just book in - Visiting the Brothel
We found out the 'massage' place next door to the podcast studio is actually a BROTHEL so of course we have heaps of questions! And what better way to answer them than to go in and make a booking!See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

S1 Ep 1Being 'Mrs Thaiday' - I have NEVER opened up about this before
I have been friends with Rachel for years and we have discussed many personal things on our previous podcast 'Am I a Bad Mum?' but something I have always been fascinated about is what it's really like to be married to one of Australia's most popular footballers. The attention, the girls, the money, the highs and lows, we chat about it all in Rach's first ever BRUTALLY HONEST chat about what it's really like Being Mrs Thaiday. Katie xSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Introducing.... Who Even Are We?
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S20 Ep 25An announcment for the future of Am I A Bad Mum?
It's the end of an era! Listen to this episode to find out Katie & Rach's big announcement.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

S20 Ep 24I'M ANGRY
Katie has been hit with a bill just before Christmas that she didn't see coming (or should have but didn't!) Rach tries to find a solution as always!See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

S20 Ep 23Sorry for embarrassing you
Rach took her kids to an event but didn't follow the dress code and had to come up with a far-fetched excuse as to why she'd embarrassed them!See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

S20 Ep 22I just had a real f*** it moment!
Rach has made a last minute decision which she decided to keep from her kids to prevent them from banging on about it for months! BUT... it will be worth it!See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

S20 Ep 21I feel like a battered old water bottle
This episode starts off with Katie clamping down on being 'Mum's bank' but in true Rach & Katie style, it goes sideways with a fascinating discussion about water bottles haha!See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

S20 Ep 20I'm having a night off!
Rach gave herself an impromptu night out after facing backlash from her youngest. So instead of arguing she simply just left!........See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

S20 Ep 19I'm taking annual leave from being your PA
Katie has a moment of realisation that her kids are a lot more self-sufficient than they allow her to think so she is taking a break from being everyone's PA!See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

S20 Ep 18I'm low key, quote unquote confused bruh!
Katie is confused at the kids lingo these days so wants to see if Rach understands!See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

S20 Ep 17Mum, do you have a vibrator?
The question NO MUM EVER WANTS TO GET! You can only imagine where this chat is going to go......See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

S20 Ep 16I cannot deal with the questions
Rach has found herself in a situation where every night now seems to be late-night questions with questionable topics she doesn't know how to answer!See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

S20 Ep 15I am STILL a helicopter parent
Katie has gone to extreme lengths in her 'helicopter parent' journey which Rach thinks is extremely unnecessary!See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

S20 Ep 14I was NEVER that rude
Rach is struggling with confidence / rudeness that no punishment seems to fix. We did not get away with it when we were kids!See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

S20 Ep 13We will keep Dan Murphy's in business
Katie had a Mum fail when she chose to go to a long lunch instead of an important day for her daughter. But in a world where Gen Z's are reducing their alcohol consumption, millennial Mum's are making up for it! See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

S20 Ep 12What I should do is not what I actually do
Katie's celebrating her kids birthdays and high fiving herself in the process. But Rach still thinks she's helicoptering a little too much!See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.