When We Walk

<p>What if instead of maximizing summer, we used it to slow down—intentionally?</p><p><br></p><p>In this episode, Pastors Micah and Shireen unpack something we all feel but rarely admit: summer break doesn’t always mean rest. Between family vacations, full calendars, and pressure to “make the most of the season,” our time off often ends up just as hectic as our regular routines.</p><p><br></p><p>They explore why our culture is addicted to filling every moment and how this mindset keeps us from experiencing the deeper rest God designed for us. They also talk about the spiritual importance of rest. It’s not just about taking a break or turning off your phone. It’s about actually slowing down enough to enjoy time with God, find things that bring you joy, and let your soul breathe a little. Creating space to reconnect with what really matters and letting that slower pace help reset your heart and mind.</p><p><br></p><p>As you listen to this episode, reflect on the following questions:</p><p><br></p><p>How can you build a sustainable rhythm of sabbath, even at home? What expectations are keeping you from true refreshment? What small changes could you make to turn your home into a place of peace?</p>

<p>Is Gen Z really walking away from faith or could something deeper be happening under the surface?</p><p><br></p><p>In this episode, Pastors Micah and Shireen talk about the surprising signs of spiritual hunger they’re seeing in young adults today. For a while now, it’s felt like church was fading and culture was shifting fast, especially as we’ve watched places like the UK and Europe become more and more secular. But now, something’s changing.</p><p><br></p><p>They unpack how a generation that’s grown up with anxiety, pressure, and a constant push for achievement is starting to ask bigger questions about meaning, peace, and where God fits into it all. Many are realizing that success and self-help aren’t enough. And in that discontent, God might be waking people up. You’ll hear honest thoughts on how the Church can show up differently in this moment, what we can learn from Europe’s spiritual journey, and why revival might not look how we expected but could be just as powerful.</p><p><br></p><p>As you listen to this episode, reflect on the following questions:</p><p><br></p><p>Are we making space for Gen Z to explore faith honestly? What would it look like to meet them in their questions, not just their behavior? And how can we be part of what God’s already doing quietly but powerfully in this generation?</p>

<p>What does it look like to raise kids who love Jesus in a world obsessed with performance?</p><p><br></p><p>In this episode, Pastors Micah and Shireen unpack the pressure young athletes and their families face in today’s culture—where sports dreams start young, social media amplifies comparison, and scholarships can shape childhoods. They explore what Jesus has to say about competition, identity, and how families can navigate this space with wisdom and purpose.</p><p><br></p><p>You’ll hear honest reflections on compassion, boundaries, and the hidden cost of saying “yes” to everything. How do we pursue excellence without making it an idol? What does it mean to steward your child’s gifts without losing sight of the Gospel? And how do we model that our faith isn’t optional—even when church sometimes feels like it is?</p><p><br></p><p>This conversation encourages parents to consider their family values early, trust God's path for their kids over culture’s expectations, and remember that faithfulness, not fame, is the ultimate goal.</p><p><br></p><p>As you listen to this episode, reflect on the following questions:</p><p>Are we building a family culture around Jesus or achievement? Do our schedules reflect our spiritual priorities? How can we show our kids that their worth isn’t in being the best, but in being His?</p>

<p>What does it mean to live on mission at home, not just abroad?</p><p><br></p><p>In this episode, Pastors Micah and Shireen reflect on a recent trip to Serbia and what it revealed about the challenges and rewards of sharing the gospel in spiritually resistant places. From seeing old friends at Lifegate to serving in unreached areas, the trip stirred a fresh missional heart and reminded them that the gospel always bears fruit, even on hard ground.</p><p><br></p><p>They talk honestly about how easy it is for Christians in America to downplay their faith. We tend to flip the switch on for mission trips but turn it off when we get home. It’s a real look at what it means to live out your faith day to day, without feeling weird about being “too Christian,” and how standing out for the right reasons is actually part of the point.</p><p><br></p><p>As you listen to this episode, reflect on the following questions:</p><p><br></p><p>Am I sharing Jesus through both my words and relationships? What does it look like to live missionally in my neighborhood? Do I believe my life is not my own, and does my calendar reflect that?</p>

<p>What happens when our culture of casual dating meets the real call to intentional relationships?</p><p><br></p><p>In this episode, Pastors Micah and Shireen tackle critical questions at the intersection of dating, attraction, and parenting. They dive into the tricky tension between physical attraction and long-term connection. Why character outlasts chemistry, how attraction can grow with time, and why dating should be more about assessing spiritual and emotional maturity than perfect compatibility.</p><p><br></p><p>Micah and Shireen finish this episode by offering practical advice for parents navigating trust, boundaries, and the long game of helping their kids develop discernment in relationships.</p><p><br></p><p>As you listen to this episode, reflect on the following questions:</p><p><br></p><p>Am I pursuing clarity or comfort in my dating life? Is attraction leading my decisions, or am I looking at character first? How can I ask better questions of my kids without overstepping as a parent?</p>

<p>What happens when we commit to reading Scripture consistently?</p><p><br></p><p>In this episode, Pastors Micah and Shireen talk about what it looks like to build a life grounded in Scripture, not out of guilt, but out of love for the One who wrote it. Shireen shares her journey of reading the entire Bible in a year, the challenges that came with it, and the surprising ways it shaped her faith.</p><p><br></p><p>From wrestling with the long wait for Jesus in the Old Testament, to learning the difference between who God is and how He works, this conversation dives deep into why consistent time in God’s Word matters—and how it connects with walking in the Spirit. Just like diet and exercise work together for physical health, Scripture and prayer nourish your spiritual life. Without both, you’ll either be ungrounded or overfed but under-exercised.</p><p><br></p><p>As you listen to this episode, reflect on the following questions:</p><p><br></p><p>What’s my reason for opening the Bible? Am I communing with God, or just checking a box? What would change if I treated Scripture like a meal, not a snack?</p>

<p>We all get tired—but not just physically.</p><p><br></p><p>Many of us are running on emotional, mental, and even spiritual empty. In this episode, Pastors Micah and Shireen unpack what it looks like to follow Jesus when you're worn out, overwhelmed, and chasing rest that never seems to come. Between waves of exhaustion, an anxious mind that won’t shut off, and the pressure to keep up with everything (even your sleep routine), it’s easy to drift from the way of Jesus. But what if the way we’re living is the real problem?</p><p><br></p><p>This conversation explores the balance between rest and purpose, how to live at a sustainable pace, embrace Sabbath, and lean into community rather than run from it. Life with Jesus doesn’t promise ease, but it does offer renewal. The invitation isn’t just to believe in Him, but to *live* the way He did.</p><p><br></p><p>As you listen to this episode, reflect on the following questions:</p><p><br></p><p>What drives your exhaustion? Have you mistaken boredom for a problem instead of a place to meet God? How can you make space for rest, not just physically, but spiritually and emotionally?</p>

<p>What’s really happening to our kids when screens are always within reach?</p><p><br></p><p>In this episode, Pastors Micah and Shireen open up about the subtle but serious shifts they’ve seen since their kids started using phones—addiction to scrolling, loss of interest in real-world play, rising anxiety, and a growing sense of disconnection. They explore how even the most well-meaning families are being shaped by a tech-centered world—and why it matters more than ever to pay attention.</p><p><br></p><p>Micah and Shireen share practical boundaries they’ve put in place, like no phones in bedrooms, delayed social media, and screen-free zones—all grounded in community and discipleship. As the first generation of Christian parents navigating this digital childhood, we’re called to do more than react—we’re called to lead. If you’ve felt the tension but weren’t sure where to start, this episode will help you step forward with both clarity and grace.</p><p><br></p><p>As you listen to this episode, reflect on the following:</p><p><br></p><p>What patterns or behaviors have you noticed in your kids (or yourself) when it comes to screen time? Are your kids learning how to rest, reflect, and be present without a screen?What changes could you make this week to help your family engage more intentionally?</p>

<p>We talk about growth a lot—but are we actually growing? Real discipleship requires more than just showing up on Sundays. It means walking in intentional relationships, being known deeply, and creating space for God to work in and through us.</p><p><br></p><p>In this episode, Pastors Micah and Shireen unpack the challenges and beauty of authentic discipleship. From vulnerability and mentorship to spiritual accountability and soul care, they share how true growth happens in honest community. They also explore the hard truths: what makes discipleship toxic, why dysfunction lingers when unaddressed, and how comparison and control sneak into our spiritual lives.</p><p><br></p><p>Discipleship doesn’t have to be perfect—it just has to be real. Whether you’re new to the concept or struggling to implement it, this conversation invites you to rethink what it means to follow Jesus with your whole heart and walk alongside others in the process.</p><p><br></p><p>As you listen to this episode, reflect on the following:</p><p><br></p><p>Are you in intentional, vulnerable relationships that help you grow spiritually? Who is speaking into your life? Who are you investing in? What’s one step you can take to make room for deeper discipleship?</p>

<p>Fasting isn't just about giving something up- it's about making space for something deeper.</p><p><br></p><p>In this episode, Pastors Micah and Shireen talk about the 40-day season of Lent, rooted in Jesus’ time in the wilderness. It’s a time of fasting, yes—but also of reflection, repentance, and rediscovering grace. They unpack why Lent matters—not to make us feel bad about our sin, but to help us see the depth of grace we often forget we need. Our culture doesn't like guilt, and we're quick to move on from repentance. But Lent invites us to sit in the tension, to slow down, and to let God meet us in our discomfort</p><p><br></p><p>As you listen to this episode, reflect on the following questions:</p><p><br></p><p>Where might God be asking me to pause, reflect, or let go? What’s my relationship with repentance—do I avoid it or see it as an invitation? How can I make space to experience grace in a fresh way this season?</p>

<p>Forgiveness is central to our faith, yet it's often misunderstood or misused.</p><p><br></p><p>We tend to move on from the concept without fully internalizing it, making it harder to extend to others. True forgiveness requires naming the wrong, recognizing our own need for grace, releasing the debt, and aiming for reconciliation—even when it feels impossible.</p><p><br></p><p>In this episode, Pastors Micah and Shireen explore what it really means to forgive as God forgave us. How do we move beyond cultural narratives and embrace forgiveness as a way of life? What happens when we stop seeing sin in levels and start seeing people through the lens of grace? They unpack the depth of forgiveness and its power to transform our hearts.</p><p><br></p><p>As you listen to this episode, reflect on the following questions:</p><p><br></p><p>How can you practice seeing others—especially those who’ve hurt you—through the lens of grace? Is there someone in your life you need to forgive? What’s holding you back?</p>

<p>Marriage isn’t just about being together—it’s about becoming one.</p><p><br></p><p>But over time, independence can quietly turn into secrecy, creating distance that’s hard to see until it’s too late. The biggest challenge many couples face isn’t big, obvious conflict, but the slow drift toward living separate lives.</p><p><br></p><p>In this episode, Micah and Shireen talk about what it means to pursue oneness in every area—emotionally, spiritually, and physically. True intimacy requires both sacrifice and balance. Too much independence can create division, but constant surrender can lead to resentment. So how do we serve each other selflessly, not out of obligation, but out of love? Marriage has a way of confronting every part of who we are. Join them as they unpack how to cultivate a relationship built on trust, honesty, and the daily choice to give ourselves away for the good of the other.</p><p><br></p><p>As you listen to this episode, reflect on the following questions:</p><p><br></p><p>Are you serving your spouse out of love, or has it become something you do out of obligation? Are there any small secrets in your marriage that you’ve justified keeping? How might they be affecting your relationship?</p>

<p>Is Conflict Defining Your Identity?</p><p><br></p><p>In this episode, we dive into the narratives we naturally create around conflict, often casting ourselves as victims, villains, or heroes. But what if these roles are holding us back from true healing? We discuss how Jesus offers a new path—one that pulls us above the chaos and invites us into redemption, healing, and peacemaking. Instead of reacting based on our flesh or the world’s influence, we explore how to respond with love, mercy, and discernment. Join us as we discover how a new identity in Christ transforms the way we handle conflict and brings peace to our relationships.</p><p><br></p><p>As you listen to this episode, ask yourself the following:</p><p><br></p><p>How have past experiences shaped the way you react to conflict? What does your knee-jerk reaction to conflict reveal about your heart?</p>

<p>Do you have a propensity towards drama?</p><p><br></p><p>Micah and Shireen discuss the recent halftime show that resonated with so many people. While initial reactions may have been mixed, it’s clear that this performance showed us one thing; our love and draw to drama. After taking a deeper look at the halftime show, they acknowledge how it’s easy to get pulled into headlines and entertainment sources but to be discerning of what you’re taking in.</p><p><br></p><p>They also discuss the big question everyone has been asking: are flare jeans in again?</p><p><br></p><p>As you listen to this podcast, reflect on these questions:</p><p>Do I have a draw to drama in my life? Does drama follow me wherever I go? Do I need to extend God’s grace and forgiveness to those around me?</p>

<p>In this episode of the When We Walk Podcast, Pastors Micah and Shireen finish season 3 by answering questions about the holiday season, reflecting on the past year, and sharing their hopes and insights for the new year ahead.</p><p><br></p><p>Here’s what they were asked:</p><p><br></p><p>- Do you have any New Year's resolutions?</p><p>- What was your favorite topic/moment from this season?</p><p>- Are there books or devotionals that you're planning on reading in the new year?</p><p>- How do you find joy in a season when you don't feel joy?</p><p>- How do we slow down and incorporate Jesus in a busy season?</p><p>- How has Christmas changed in your house as kids grow up?</p><p>- How do you feel about consumerism during the holidays?</p>

<p>How do we hold on to hope for miracles without losing faith in God’s goodness?</p><p><br></p><p>In this episode, Pastors Micah and Shireen talk about the longing for Jesus and the challenge of believing in miracles while facing disappointment. Looking at the book of Acts, they explore how the early church grew through suffering, prayer, and the supernatural—and what that means for us today. They unpack why it’s so hard to keep asking for miracles when answers don’t come, the hope we find in hearing about God’s power, and how those moments of desperation can deepen our relationship with Him.</p><p><br></p><p>As you listen to this podcast, reflect on these questions:</p><p>How do you handle disappointment when God doesn’t respond the way you expect? What areas of your life are you holding onto instead of surrendering to Him? How can you cultivate a deeper trust in God while waiting for a miracle?</p>

<p>Are you pushing your child toward their dreams—or pushing them toward burnout?</p><p><br></p><p>In this episode, Pastors Micah and Shireen get real about the challenges parents face in balancing the creation of opportunities with letting kids grow at their own pace. Parenting with purpose is a journey of balance and intention. They discuss the importance of supporting kids' potential while helping them build resilience, set boundaries, and make meaningful choices. Through honest conversation, Pastors Micah and Shireen share insights on raising kids who thrive—not just in what they achieve, but in who they become.</p><p><br></p><p>As you listen to this podcast, reflect on these questions:</p><p><br></p><p>What does "purposeful parenting" look like in your life, and how do you make it a priority? How can you support your child’s potential without overwhelming them with expectations? What values do you want to instill in your kids beyond just achieving success?</p>

<p>When dreams are hard-fought or delayed, is that a sign of God’s plan, or a chance to trust Him differently?</p><p><br></p><p>In this episode, Pastors Micah and Shireen tackle tough late-night questions kids often ask. How do our desires and plans fit into God’s will? Is struggle a sign of His purpose, or are we called to simply trust? They talk about dealing with disappointment, comparison, and the feeling that life hasn’t gone as expected. Rather than comparing our journey to others, we’re invited to trust God’s timing, learn from disappointment, and rely on His character. In every season, He’s working for our good, even when we can’t see it.</p><p><br></p><p>As you listen to this podcast, reflect on these questions:</p><p>How do you usually handle disappointment when things don’t go as expected? What might God be teaching you in your current season of waiting or uncertainty? Where do your dreams, desires, hopes, and plans fit into God's will?</p>

<p>How do we ensure our passions enrich our lives without consuming us?</p><p><br></p><p>In this episode, Pastors Micah and Shireen discuss the emotional and mental weight that comes with election week. Regardless of how involved you’ve been, the buildup has left many of us seeking ways to cope or escape. Together, they examine the role of hobbies and routines—how these can be healthy outlets but may also distract us if they take the place of our relationship with God. In this emotionally intense season, the discussion focuses on embracing life-giving practices that promote peace and grounding, highlighting God as the ultimate source of stability and joy.</p><p><br></p><p>As you listen to this podcast, reflect on these questions:</p><p>How do you differentiate between healthy solitude and isolation? What impact does social media have on your emotional state during intense periods like election week? How do you anchor yourself in God during emotionally turbulent times?</p>

<p>Ministry looks different in each context, yet the message of God’s kingdom remains consistent.</p><p><br></p><p>In this episode, Pastors Micah and Shireen share their experiences from a recent trip to the UK and Scotland, where they explored different cultures and witnessed the unique ways God’s kingdom operates among people. They reflect on the contrast between American and UK churches: while the UK leans into its post-Christian culture, revitalizing dying churches and bringing new life to communities, the US often builds walls that separate the church from those it seeks to reach. This conversation delves into how we can partner with the Holy Spirit to transform our surroundings, build bridges with our neighbors, and reflect Jesus more fully in the world. Micah and Shireen challenge the American church mindset, urging us to lead with vulnerability and weakness, ultimately shifting the focus to God.</p><p><br></p><p>As you listen to this podcast, reflect on these questions:</p><p><br></p><p>How do you express your faith creatively in your daily life? What small actions can you take this week to reflect Jesus more fully in your community? What personal beliefs or fears might be preventing you from connecting with others who have different viewpoints?</p>

<p>What if your doubts and disappointments are the very tools God uses to build you?</p><p><br></p><p>In this episode, Pastors Micah and Shireen discuss “The Wall”- a season of life marked by faith crisis, disappointment, and uncertainty. The Wall isn’t meant to break you- instead, it’s an invitation from God to wrestle, surrender, and trust Him in the unknown. Though painful, this journey ultimately leads to a deeper connection with God, teaching us that while we may not get what we want, He always provides what we truly need.</p><p><br></p><p>As you listen to this podcast, reflect on these questions:</p><p><br></p><p>How have you responded at a time when your faith was tested? Who is someone in your life that will sit with you at your “wall”? How might God be using your current struggles to prepare you for something greater?</p>

<p>Is your political identity drowning out your faith?</p><p><br></p><p>In this episode, Pastors Micah and Shireen explore how we can engage thoughtfully, stay grounded in Christ, and focus on unity over division during an election season. For these times that feel massively divided, Jesus calls us to love in every direction. Micah and Shireen discuss how to stay grounded in Christ rather than placing our identity in political parties. As believers, we aim to align our hearts with God's will as we make decisions about our nation's future. Ultimately, our political engagement is just one part of a larger picture.</p><p><br></p><p>As you listen to this podcast, reflect on these questions:</p><p><br></p><p>What role does your faith play in political decisions? In what ways do you think voting can reflect your love for your neighbors? How can you encourage curiosity and understanding in political discussions rather than judgment?</p>

<p>Instead of relying on the world’s solutions, we’re called to bring our concerns to God, remembering that people are not our enemy—sin is.</p><p><br></p><p>In this episode, Pastors Micah and Shireen explore the Book of Habakkuk, drawing parallels between Babylon’s obsession with power and the world we live in today. Just as Habakkuk brought his complaints to the Lord amid destruction and evil, we too can feel overwhelmed by the darkness in our own "Babylon season." But rather than turning to worldly answers, we’re encouraged to focus on God—loving Him, loving others, and holding on to the truth that real hope lies in His Kingdom. Will you look to the Lord, set boundaries, and trust that righteousness is winning, even when it seems hidden?</p><p><br></p><p>As you listen to this podcast, reflect on these questions:</p><p><br></p><p>Where do you stand in this modern Babylon? In what ways are you tempted to put your trust in power, success, or control instead of God? What boundaries do you need to set with worldly distractions in order to grow spiritually?</p>

<p>It's easy to let screens and social media take control of our lives.</p><p><br></p><p>In this episode, Pastors Micah and Shireen invite listeners to consider how our phones and social media shape our hearts and minds, often pulling us away from God's purpose. They highlight the importance of finding balance in a tech-saturated world. It's not just about limiting screen time—it's about intentionally turning away from distractions to draw closer to God. By setting boundaries with our devices, we can experience spiritual growth, build stronger relationships, and refocus on what truly matters. Ready to reevaluate your relationship with technology?</p><p><br></p><p>As you listen to this podcast, reflect on these questions:</p><p><br></p><p>What boundaries can you set with your phone to create more space for God? When was the last time you took a break from social media? What is one step you can take today to disconnect from technology and reconnect with God?</p>

<p>We often seek comfort and predictability while God challenges us in ways we don't always understand.</p><p><br></p><p>In this episode, Pastors Micah and Shireen tackle the tough questions about the nature of God, safety, and faith. We often seek comfort and predictability while God challenges us in ways we don't always understand. What happens when God doesn’t answer prayers the way we expect? And how can we trust in His unchanging nature even when life feels unpredictable? True safety is found in the consistency of who God is, not in the guarantees of life.</p><p><br></p><p>As you listen to this podcast, reflect on these questions:</p><p>What fears or insecurities do you find difficult to bring to God? How might understanding His unchanging nature help you overcome them?</p>

<p>Jesus is our ultimate Sabbath rest, but how do we incorporate that into the six other days of the week?</p><p><br></p><p>In this episode, Pastors Micah and Shireen unpack the meaning of sabbatical, what happens when things don’t go as planned, and how rest isn’t just about personal relaxation. Join us as we explore the tension between work and rest, and how true rest can only be found in Christ, regardless of what’s happening around us. They discuss how our family backgrounds, personalities, and even society shape our views on work and rest. It’s about surrendering control and learning to rest in God, even when circumstances challenge our peace.</p><p><br></p><p>As you listen to this podcast, reflect on these questions:</p><p><br></p><p>Why does our culture push us to work non-stop, and where does this pressure come from? What is the source of what is coming at us?</p>

<p>In this episode of the When We Walk Podcast, Pastors Micah and Shireen go live to answer your REAL questions in REAL TIME.</p><p><br></p><p>Here’s what you asked:</p><p><br></p><p>If you weren’t pastors, what do you think you would be doing for a living?</p><p>It seems like you both have very different personalities. How are you most alike and most different? And how do you settle those personality differences that end in an argument?</p><p>It seems that everywhere we look there is division in our society. Jesus commands us to prioritize unity. How do you propose we do that as a church, through an election season, and when our values are divisive in our culture?</p><p>How does God speak to you, and how do you know He is speaking to you?</p><p>As Christians, how do you feel about cremation?</p><p>If there was one thing you could communicate to the younger (gen z) generation, what would it be?</p><p>How do you know if the person you’re dating is the person God has for you?</p><p>What, in this season of life, is the attribute of Jesus that you’re most drawn to?</p><p>As I am learning more about Biblical context and more accurately interpreting passages of the Bible, how do I reconcile my new understanding with what I was taught as a child in Sunday School or youth group?</p><p>How can I make peace with feeling let down by people who preached sermons which led me to inaccurately understand aspects of my faith?</p><p>What are some ways to help/support someone whose marriage is struggling?</p><p>My husband has stopped believing in God because of things that happened to me. He does believe in a higher power. I want a God centered marriage. How do I help him back to being a believer?</p><p>What book (outside of the Bible) most impacted your life?</p><p>If you could meet anyone in history (except Jesus) who would it be and why?</p><p>What do you think Jesus’ favorite sneaker would be?</p><p><br></p>

<p>Is there such a thing as too much “me” time?</p><p><br></p><p>In this episode, Pastor Micah and Shireen discuss the declining efforts of communal dining and its impact on loneliness in American culture today. They highlight how dining together fosters connection, intimacy, and community, referencing Jesus' practice of consistently gathering around a table. They emphasize the importance of reclaiming shared meal times as a tool to combat isolation and encourage believers to invite others into their homes. The conversation suggests that despite modern trends and individualistic tendencies, we are called to give up things in our lives and challenge individual thinking. The table remains an equalizer and a source of meaningful human connection. As Jesus sets a place at the table for us, we must begin by doing the same for others.</p><p><br></p><p>As you listen to this podcast, reflect on these questions:</p><p>Am I willing to pull up another chair? What is hindering me? Who can I invite to my table?</p>

<p>For us as believers, it takes a longer attention span to sit with the Lord and grow our relationship.</p><p><br></p><p>In this episode, Shireen talks about her most recent trip and recalls her daughter having difficulty remaining focused after a new church experience went long. She emphasized the impact of cultural and technological changes on our attention spans. As a society, we are forced to adjust, but God won’t. Micah and Shireen stress the importance of cultivating longer attention spans to develop deeper relationships with God and each other. They advocate for intentional quiet time with the Lord, suggesting practices like walking, journaling, and reading to foster this connection. Micah and Shireen conclude by encouraging individuals to reflect on their quiet time practices and how they can improve their focus and relationship with God. Any relationship requires attention, to cultivate that, we still need practice to grow our attention span.</p><p><br></p><p>As you listen to this podcast, reflect on these questions:</p><p>What does quiet time look like to you? What can you replace in your day now with quiet time? How can you grow your attention span? What is your starting point?</p>

<p>The #1 reason for doubt is unanswered prayer.</p><p><br></p><p>We often create formulas about how we think God should show up, causing us to walk away when we don’t get the result we expected or asked for. God is okay with us testing Him in these areas because He can handle it. What causes discord is when it isn’t answered the way we want it to be.</p><p><br></p><p>Micah and Shireen emphasize that God is completely predictable in who He is, not what He will do. Although we can’t predict how He will respond or show up, God has proven that His character is never changing. When we pray those bold prayers, no matter what happens, we can anchor in the truth of who God is. We have to know His nature so that if something doesn’t turn out how we want it to, we have an anchor in what we know He is.</p><p><br></p><p>As you listen to this podcast, reflect on these questions:</p><p>What is it you would love to see God do in your life? What bold prayers are you holding on to? Are you ready to take the risk?</p>

<p>Consumer culture has infected the air we breathe.</p><p><br></p><p>In this episode, Micah and Shireen talk about the constant want for the newest and next best thing. Many of us have begun shaping a new lifestyle based on desires over needs. All of this connects with greed in the human heart. As a result, materialism has become the new dominant system of identity. By asking: “why am I doing what I’m doing and is this the wise way to live?” it allows us to bring our desires to God and to ask Him instead of doing just what we want. Being open-handed about materialistic things and smart about what you are digitally feeding into creates room for simplicity and generosity in our lives.</p><p><br></p><p>As you listen to this podcast, reflect on these questions:</p><p>How do we avoid finding our identity, fulfillment, and status in what we own? Where are you most vulnerable to the world around you influencing you? What is it feeding in your life?</p>

<p>In this episode, Micah and Shireen talk about the complicated, confusing, and challenging topic: Parenting.</p><p><br></p><p>Things you do as a parent that have worked before, may need to change. Adaptability is one of the most important qualities for a parent to have as their children get older. God has created a world that naturally teaches us to be wise through the natural consequences to our actions. But how do you do that with a five year old? We want to save our children from pain, but that isn’t really how God parents us. Allowing mistakes, focusing on wisdom, and navigating failures demonstrates that we have agency and we can listen to His wisdom or stray from it.</p><p><br></p><p>As you listen to this podcast, reflect on these questions:</p><p>Where does wisdom fit in your strategic approach to parenting? What's the one thing you'd want to teach your kids? How can you adapt to the new season your kids are entering?</p>

<p>Micah shares a time he was caught off guard by a challenging question asked by one of his kids in public. Often times, we question if we know enough to answer the hard questions.</p><p><br></p><p>In this episode, Micah and Shireen discuss our original design and natural responsibility to value life. By understanding that it is ultimately a heart issue over a political stance, we can then focus on effective ways to help mothers and children within our communities. God has tasked us to embrace these families as a church by acting as the hands and feet of Jesus. The end goal isn’t a particular law or candidate because God is bigger than that. Yet we must still be wise with the influence we do hold.</p><p><br></p><p>As you listen to this podcast, reflect on these questions:</p><p>How can we care for mothers and children? How can I talk well about these topics? How do I embody conviction and compassion?</p>

<p>The desire for happiness is part of our makeup and design. Where we go wrong, are the things that make us happy.</p><p><br></p><p>Our culture has twisted the true meaning of a fulfilling and enjoyable life. Many followers of Jesus believe that they are deserving of certain things because God “wants us to be happy”. However, scripture defines true joy as suffrage on earth. Micah and Shireen explain that by choosing to follow Jesus in a culture that will condemn you and turn on you, you will need to understand what it means.</p><p><br></p><p>They discuss that when you choose to redefine joy, it won't always feel like a sacrifice. It's what we were originally designed for, and will instead become the desire of your heart. There is a deep-seeded joy and long-lasting happiness available to you.</p><p><br></p><p>As you listen to this podcast, reflect on these questions: How do you currently define happiness? Where are you finding your joy? Are you ready to suffer?</p>

<p>Everyone has an initial emotional response to their algorithm, the difficult part comes down to how you react.</p><p><br></p><p>In this episode, Micah and Shireen discuss a heated topic: Harrison Butler’s commencement speech. They remind us that responses can change with context and urge their listeners to listen to the entire speech before choosing to cancel or celebrate Butler. In today’s culture, people are forced to pick a side, and once you pick, you dare not criticize it; however, there is a credibility that comes when you can challenge your own party. Overall, his speech has sparked an important conversation about the next generation that Micah and Shireen dive into.</p><p><br></p><p>Before you pick your side, are you willing to say “my own team doesn’t always do everything right”?</p><p><br></p><p>As you listen to this podcast, reflect on these questions: What is the biggest calling in your life? What is becoming your idol? Are you feeding in to cancel culture?</p>

<p>Micah and Shireen discuss a sensitive topic for many: getting older.</p><p><br></p><p>But this sparks the question: is getting older “in” again?</p><p><br></p><p>In this Episode, Micah and Shireen challenge the idea that new is always better. In a culture where we want to stay young, hip, and relevant, we don’t value getting old. Instead of creating new language, what if we go back to the very beginning? They reflect on the early church and its purest form before cultural movements worked their way into the church. The best place to root our faith is in what was first planted.</p><p><br></p><p>As you listen to this podcast, reflect on these questions:</p><p><br></p><p>How do we navigate an increasingly spiritually confused world? How do we stay grounded as a church? How do we incorporate early spiritual practices in our lives?</p>

<p>We love the redemption stories but we don’t always understand the work it takes to get there.</p><p><br></p><p>Micah and Shireen reflect on the first big fights in their relationship. This sparks the conversation about how conflict resolution has quickly lost value as people tend to prioritize standing their ground over finding peace and reconciliation. Micah highlights that though Jesus was a man of conviction, He was also a man of compassion. We often forget how Jesus Himself walked in a politically hostile environment. But how did He go about things?</p><p><br></p><p>As you listen to this podcast, ask yourself these questions:</p><p><br></p><p>Are there any relationships in your life with active conflict? How can you resolve it? Can you have strong convictions and not let it lead you to strong devices?</p>

<p>Micah kicks off this episode by asking Shireen a big question: "what would her life look like today if they'd never met?" This then leads them to discuss singleness and how the church has made marriage the finish line and seen singleness as something to "fix". They offer a different perspective based on Paul's statements that elevate singleness to the same level as marriage. They share from their experiences, practical ways to bridge the relational gaps we find in our lives that will actually produce a more fulfilling life.</p><p><br></p><p>After this episode, consider the following:</p><p><br></p><p>How can your relational status can be a gift to the world? If you're married, how can your marriage be a gift to those around you? If you're a parent, how can your parenting be a gift to the world? If you're single, how can your singleness be a gift to the world?</p>

<p>At the recording of this podcast, Micah and Shireen have just returned from visiting Lifegate's three campuses in Serbia. They talk about the perspective shift that happens when you begin to see how God is moving in our world and the differences in cultures and worldviews. Experiencing life outside of our American context opens our eyes to how much bigger God is than we previously thought. We also discover that some of our long-held "Christian" ideas may actually have more to do with our culture than Jesus.</p><p><br></p><p>Compression socks, communism, honor-shame societies, gen Z and DVT are some of the topics covered in this fascinating episode.</p>

<p>This week Micah and Shireen approach a topic that causes tears, fights, distance, joy and pleasure: trips.</p><p><br></p><p>When it comes to trips, Micah and Shireen couldn't have grown up in more different of families. They both share their experiences with traveling while growing up - from miserable drudgery to creating core family memories of fun. Discover the secrets to successful trips through the stories they share and the hidden benefits they've found along the way. </p><p><br></p><p>Some questions as you finish this episode:</p><p><br></p><p>Where do trips fit in my life? Do I value them? What do those I'm in community with think about trips? What's my next trip and who am I going with? </p>

<p>Micah and Shireen talk about the challenge of hearing God's voice and figuring out your purpose in life. How do I hear God's voice? Do I have a calling? What's my mission? Shireen shares her own story of discerning God's leading in different seasons of her life - from missions, to nursing, to raising kids and being in ministry - and the themes that stayed consistent throughout. They discuss the idea of God's will and compare it to a current to flow in rather than a tightrope to walk. But first, Micah shares a question about Jesus that makes them laugh!</p><p><br></p><p>After you complete this episode, ask yourself this question:</p><p><br></p><p>In my current phase/season of life, what is my understanding of my role in God's mission? What would those I'm in community with say in answer to this also?</p>

<p>Shireen shares her journey of achieving her sourdough-making dreams and Micah ranks his favorite breads. This leads to a discussion on the topic of identity. Who am I? What is my identity? What do I offer to the world? Many of us experience identity as a constant wrestling match with the labels we allow to stick to us in life. Micah and Shireen share some simple ways to manage the tension of identities always being more temporary than we'd like to think. They share some stories from their own lives about perceived identities through different seasons.</p><p><br></p><p>Something new for Season 2! Ask yourself these questions after listening to this episode:</p><p><br></p><p>What’s in my bio? What is my identity rooted in right now? Ask those around you: "How would you describe me?" Which labels do I carry that I have pride in and which ones are weighing me down? Reorient this and ask God what He sees.</p>

<p>Hey y'all! We're Pastors Micah and Shireen Eldridge and we're so excited you are joining us as we kick off Season 2 of the "When We Walk" Podcast. This episode is all about you - your questions from the comments are what we're going to be discussing today! </p>

<p>Our first season of When We Walk is a wrap! Join us in a few weeks when we launch Season 2 and make sure to share your ideas and comments below.</p>

<p>(Listen to this episode when you're alone or just with your spouse - this is not an episode for kids!) Sometimes talking with our spouse about sex can feel harder and more vulnerable than just having sex. This episode provides a great framework for how to have these conversations. Micah and Shireen unpack the four components involved in great sex: our bodies, emotions, spirituality and thoughts and cover specifics like foreplay and orgasms. Yes, we just included those words in our summary! ;) Getting better at our communication about sex can create an incredible connection and blessing in marriage that goes way beyond personal gratification.</p>

<p>It's February and love is in the air, in the stores, on our minds. This is a great time to talk about relationships and the next few episodes will center on this. During this conversation, Micah and Shireen focus on the topic of intimacy. Often our highly individualistic culture is at-odds with creating and maintaining intimacy but getting this right is a key to building relationships that thrive. They give many examples of getting it right - and learning from mistakes. Wilson the volleyball is mentioned and in-laws are brought up. Also, their worst anniversary experience is remembered and their waitress saw it all! </p>

<p>Micah and Shireen continue their focus on the Bible by talking about common hurdles we experience when reading the Bible. What should we do with confusing stories and things that make us ask, "How could God do that?!" This fascinating discussion covers a lot of ground: translations, the creation story in Genesis, interpreting meaning, science, evolution, context, Jesus, Old Testament, New Testament and so much more! Hopefully you are encouraged and equipped by the end of this talk to engage with the pieces of scripture that are challenging instead of just skipping them or writing off the Bible entirely. They also share how their daily walks have become fireside chats as the weather has gotten dangerously cold.</p>

<p>Micah and Shireen roll up their sleeves and answer a ton of questions about the Bible: who wrote it, is it reliable, what motivated its creation, does it have a purpose - and more! They share some tips on where to start for beginners and also ways to keep it fresh for those who have been reading it for a long time. Micah shows off his new daily devotional and Shireen shares her plan for the next month. Plus - the question is asked: does walking 22,000 steps at Disney count as exercise?</p>

<p>It's a new year and Micah and Shireen are getting ready to fast for ten days. They talk about the challenge of choosing to suffer through fasting and how to dial-in your fast. They share some epic fasting fails plus sage advice from their decades of experience with this spiritual practice. You'll be encouraged to hear that there is so much freedom to be found in fasting if we set ourselves up to truly lean into God.</p>

<p>Micah and Shireen wrap up 2023 with a funny Christmas story and get reflective when thinking back over the year with their own personal highs and lows. New Year's resolutions come up and they discuss ways to mark important seasons of our lives while trusting God with our dreams. Plus, Shireen shares a scripture milestone she achieved this year!</p>